When a Virgo is done with you

What do they do? Block? Ignore? Delete your number?

Also do they slow fade or cut and give no reason?

Your dead.. r.i.p.

You must have done some fucked up shit if that's the case they will never speak to you again they will make you doubt your own existence and just move on with their life and memories will fade and turn into dust. For a Virgo to be done alot needs to happen but when a Virgo is done they will never look back

And you are?

Posted by halalbae

Going by your other threads Ive read, I have a feeling you wore out this guys love and devotion. I have Virgo Moon and I know I take a lot, probably TOO much before finally giving up

Trust can be rebuilt but truthfully I have the attention span of a fly and minimized capacity to truly forget so Im like lets just part ways forever. I tried being close to people who violated my trust after the incident but I will just nag myself about what they did for the rest of their life and thats not good for either of us

Because when someone really hurt me, I get sad every time I remember and my attitude reflects that. I start out being so nice and vulnerable and then slowly just go cold the more someone continues to take my love for a weakness. By the time I am finally fed up, I basically dont want to deal with them anymore

I have parted ways with people not because of one major thing they did but because they wore out my love and they made me feel like I can no longer be a good person to them. I like being a good person so I rather just stay away and I tell people its not you, its me... because I really dont forget, so it truthfully IS me. When they dont accept that, I just cut and give no reason. Unless they truly change and go above AND BEYOND (adults rarely do this), I will resent them more and more each day and they will never hear from me again. No amount of messages and phone calls can change that

Really don't understand how I wore out his love and devotion when I sat there for hours on repeated evenings listening to him vent all his worries, troubles and problems and me comfort him and then him turn around and say he feels like I understand him completely... then 2 weeks later he backed off totally.

I'm not a slave to a person, I gave him my everything. And by everything I mean virginity, heart, brain, the lot.

I had never violated his trust and I gave him so many chances when things were bad to tell me if I've hurt him. In the end I couldn't read him. He didn't wanna tell me what was wrong. I defended him always even to his family. I have lost who I am in respecting his devotion. But if ignoring and cutting me out of his life is devotion then it's not the devotion I need.

Posted by FknMeow

We dont think about you. I'm sorry. Imo from your other thread, he just didnt feel that compatible with you.

And it took him sleeping with me, opening up completely to me and wasting 4 months of his life to figure that out? Plus the trips away and plans for the future. It shouldn't take months to figure out if you're compatible, But that's just my view.

Posted by dewiklaessen26

You must have done some fucked up shit if that's the case they will never speak to you again they will make you doubt your own existence and just move on with their life and memories will fade and turn into dust. For a Virgo to be done alot needs to happen but when a Virgo is done they will never look back

I've no idea what happened, I asked and even apologised in case I did something but like I told him i don't like apologies or to apologise when there isn't a reason. I don't just like "I'm sorry" in order to say sorry you must have a reason. I told him if I have hurt you then please tell me how and I would apologise.

The last date we had together was one with my friends, He said he enjoyed himself and literally the last conversation at the end of that night was him asking me to go on proper holiday with him.

The only way I can think I hurt him was because he wanted to go on a small trip with me, I had just started a new job. He liked to wake up and book somewhere then travel to the destination, we had done that previously. But at that current time in my life I couldn't due to work. I asked him to give me a couple of days notice to get time off. Since that conversation he got so cold with me.

I broke up with him at first because I couldn't handle mentally how he was being, he did a total u turn. Went from wanting to spend all the time with me saying he felt comfortable and free with me to responding sarcastically when I asked how his day had been.

I never intended to hurt him. I just wanted to please him and us continue laughing together. We got back together and then a few weeks later the coldness started. He ignored me for 5 days at one point and I would never do that to him. I asked him how he would feel if I did that and he said he would be confused and upset yet he couldn't understand why I was feeling like that.

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Do you know his moon sign and venus?

Moon Aries Venus scorpio... would that mean anything?

In my head I've told.myself now I don't want him back or to be friends because I'm hurt inside when I think of him and he clearly is. But I'm one of those silly people who need a reason, I don't do grey, it's black or white. In order for.me to move on I have to talk about it always when I think about it and get as much info as possible otherwise I find myself in bad mind sets.

Posted by Sagicorn

Block and pretend you never existed. So I heard at least and saw them do that. But in order for that to happen they must be fed up with all sorts of bs they forgave before

He hasn't blocked me though. He deleted me off social media instantly which I thought was slightly pathetic. Then took a month for him to delete my number. He's never blocked me.

See when we originally broke up I said to him I'm sorry if I have done anything. I couldn't figure if I had because he was being so closed off with me. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for. He told me he didn't want me involved in shit that's happening with him... surely as his girlfriend I should have a small amount of involvement especially if it effects the relationship and his mental health which at the time I was concerned about. He told me everything previously but for some reason he said if I was involved I would be hurt... But he was hurting me by pushing me away.

We like to deal with stuff we are going thru on our own...we don't like to burden other people. Give him space and he might come back around. In the mean time...go have fun and live your life

when a Virgo is done with you..

From my personal experience they don’t fade away, they don’t give warnings and most of all they don’t give second chances. They will leave you bleeding and never look back. Even if some feelings still exists, they will never give in to them.

If the sex is great i definitly wont be deleting ur number from my contacts. Expecting anything else outside of sex or business ventures, its just not happening.

Posted by LentoBull91

when a Virgo is done with you..

From my personal experience they don’t fade away, they don’t give warnings and most of all they don’t give second chances. They will leave you bleeding and never look back. Even if some feelings still exists, they will never give in to them.

It's cruel tbh. How am I supposed to learn my mistakes or even know if I've done anything if I don't have a reason or they just stop communication? For so long I've tried saying "he's just got a lot in his life he has to deal with" but now I honestly believe it's like a child a throwing their toys out of their pram. We didn't argue once until pretty much the day we broke up. He makes no sense either in what he said to me on the break up which was he was upset because I said I was busy. Yes I was too busy to go on a last min (as in book on the day) holiday however I still tried to arrange to meet up with him even if it was to watch a film or go for a fun date. He just led me on by saying he was busy with work initially. I was never clingy with Him, when he worked away or wasn't sure of his work schedule I basically said "look let's not make plans to disappoint ourselves and then ifnyoure free and want do something then we can do" he was cool with that all the way through.

And now his new relationship doesn't make any sense, the person lives in another country so how can he just see her always like he saw me? That was one of his problems he didn't like it when I told him o couldn't drop everything. Before that I would do things last minute with him.

The whole situation is so confusing to me. I've told neutral people and they don't have a clue. I've asked for male advice and they think he lost his bottle or which I very much doubt is involved in some sort of organised crime 😂.

Literally our last ever date was lovely, he was very shy as my friends were there but they loved him. He told me he enjoyed it and wanted to do it again. A few days later he just started slowly fading from me. When he met me to ask me to stay as his girlfriend I said I can't figure out who he is. He had put up so many barriers and normally he would be his funny, sarcastic, goofy yet sensitive self. He would tell me all his problems, sometimes I couldn't come up with a solution but he knew that. The amount of times we'd greet each other and I could see the tension in him. He would hug me or go to sleep on me for a few minutes i could feel him relaxing into me.

I don't understand how a person can confide in someone and trust them so much tell them certain feelings then completely u turn and act like I'm a stranger. He said he wore masks throughout his life so a work one, friends one, family one but with me he couldn't find a mask for himself.

I really don't know why I'm still trying to figure him out after all this time, he clearly thinks I'm dead to him and his world. Maybe I should do the Same?

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We dont think about you. I'm sorry. Imo from your other thread, he just didnt feel that compatible with you.

And it took him sleeping with me, opening up completely to me and wasting 4 months of his life to figure that out? Plus the trips away and plans for the future. It shouldn't take months to figure out if you're compatible, But that's just my view.

I'm 4 months in with this taurus venus and I'm just now realizing we're pretty super wrong for each other lol. It takes us weeks to come to a conclusion on just one feeling.

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It takes me around 4 or 5 dates. In my opinion you shouldn't have sex with a person and take them on holiday and plan for the future if you have doubts. It's mis leading and deceitful

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Posted by LentoBull91

when a Virgo is done with you..

From my personal experience they don’t fade away, they don’t give warnings and most of all they don’t give second chances. They will leave you bleeding and never look back. Even if some feelings still exists, they will never give in to them.

this is true

plus if i ever fvck someone over,

trust that they've hurt me first

and so they deserve this treatment

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How do I know if I hurt him if he won't communicate that?

I'm not one to loose my cool either if I'm in the wrong. I'm very accepting if I've hurt someone because I don't ever want to do that.

2 weeks before things went shit he literally listed things he "loved" about me. Characteristics only my mum or best friend would know. Such as my eyes changing colour depending on my mood, when I was uncomfortable but not wanting to show it. Why would he go to the effort of saying this when he had no intentions of going further with me or planning to shut me out?

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Do you know his moon sign and venus?

Moon Aries Venus scorpio... would that mean anything?

In my head I've told.myself now I don't want him back or to be friends because I'm hurt inside when I think of him and he clearly is. But I'm one of those silly people who need a reason, I don't do grey, it's black or white. In order for.me to move on I have to talk about it always when I think about it and get as much info as possible otherwise I find myself in bad mind sets.

The reason is because he fell for someone else who probably showed him more vulnerability. I'm seeing a taurus venus right now and I feel rejected a lot lol. Your venus is cold.

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How do you mean vulnerability?

Posted by Ariqua

The Virgos I know (I dated 2) don’t break up with people. They just stop putting energy into the relationship until you get fed up and leave. Seriously. A Virgo ghosted me after he proposed. There was never a breakup. He was just gone.

Yep, he ghosted m in the end. Why would you stop putting in energy though if you know the outcome of that? Just break up, tell the person how you feel. Yes it will hurt initially but as I told him i can't force you to be with me. It's just so cruel.

The girl he is with now has print screened his messages to her and put them on social media and they must be been talking about exes and he's making out how he will never leave her blah blah blah. I'm not upset he's with someone, It's gonna happen I can't stop that. I think I'm angry because I know he's playing with her. But by the looks of it she is obsessed with the idea of being in love. You can't force love. It just happens.

Posted by RooSagicorn

My first love - 3 year relationship & plans of marriage and a life together was a Virgo. He broke up with me because he was having an issue and just decided it wasn’t going to work after all. That was it. His decision final. However, he would show up at my door every few months cuz he missed me and still loved me until I didn’t allow it anymore. Turns out it took him 5 years to get over me. WTH seriously. But sometimes it just is what it is. Not much you can do except take care of yourself.

That's so sad. I'm sorry.

Yeah with mine it was clear he had something going on in the back ground. His friend spoke to me and said he's reverting back to his old ways of closing everyone out. I tried to help him and be there and that's all I could do. I asked when he said he was stressed if that was due to me, He told me no twice then the third time he said he thinks things are ok but he needs a break. I asked from me and he said no just from everything. He said he needed to go away to clear his head. I mean how would I ever respond to that? I just said ok well don't be a stranger and don't get too deep into your thoughts. You know I'm here and I always am. Bearing in mind it took him 2 days to respond to each one of these messages asking if everything was ok in our relationship. Looking back I honestly feel it should not take a person 2 days to realise things are good if they are good. It would take me two seconds.

He's never contacted me after the breakup, for the first few months I didn't even know if he lived in the country anymore. He deleted my number after a month. I have messages him 4 times in a year to apologise and figure out what has happened. He read and didn't reply. I'd rather him block me or tell me to F off. I've just got to the point now where even if he ever came back to me I couldn't maintain even a friendship with him because of how much he's hurt me post break up. A month ago I would have still done anything for him. But now I just feel because of how bad my mental health had been since him I don't think it's healthy for me to maintain anything with him even if he comes back and tells me what's happened. I've been so broken!!

Yeah I'm trying to take care of myself. I've planned alot of good things from now until Christmas and I'm also speaking to my doctor about how I'm feeling. I just wanna get back to how i was when he originally met me

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Do you know his moon sign and venus?

Moon Aries Venus scorpio... would that mean anything?

In my head I've told.myself now I don't want him back or to be friends because I'm hurt inside when I think of him and he clearly is. But I'm one of those silly people who need a reason, I don't do grey, it's black or white. In order for.me to move on I have to talk about it always when I think about it and get as much info as possible otherwise I find myself in bad mind sets.

The reason is because he fell for someone else who probably showed him more vulnerability. I'm seeing a taurus venus right now and I feel rejected a lot lol. Your venus is cold.

How do you mean vulnerability?

Idk, with all your interactions with him you mentioned on here, you acted too cool with everything like you didnt care, and now youre obsessed.... I'm just trying to help.

Yeah I was cool. Like i was just letting things move along at his pace. I did make it clear though what I wanted from the start. And he did too. He was a very reserved person and even though inside I was bursting with love I didn't want to mess up by expressing that too much. So yeah I totally get that.

Maybe he wanted that? I just felt like at the time that would scare him off. He was upfront with his feelings and things. I did tell him how I cared for him like I was completely cool haha.

He wanted that for sure. I'm sure he hoped for it every single day he was with you. Expressing that kind of stuff gets virgo to stop being so reserved. We just dont want you to go overboard like cry and puke on us over nothing then laugh maniacally and then start a dumb argument over car prices like the super water influenced people do within a span of an hour... Goddamnit I just got the hiccups from remembering that. But yeah we're selfish when it comes to expression. You first. And god help you if you get us to do it first and then reject him which is what you did unintentionally if I remember right. We erect an impenetrable wall in your memory.

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Block and pretend you never existed. So I heard at least and saw them do that. But in order for that to happen they must be fed up with all sorts of bs they forgave before

He hasn't blocked me though. He deleted me off social media instantly which I thought was slightly pathetic. Then took a month for him to delete my number. He's never blocked me.

See when we originally broke up I said to him I'm sorry if I have done anything. I couldn't figure if I had because he was being so closed off with me. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for. He told me he didn't want me involved in shit that's happening with him... surely as his girlfriend I should have a small amount of involvement especially if it effects the relationship and his mental health which at the time I was concerned about. He told me everything previously but for some reason he said if I was involved I would be hurt... But he was hurting me by pushing me away.

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I am a gay male myself, but I would give anything to have a person as devoted to the person you loved as you were. I tried to do the same to an almost boyfriend Libra guy, and then the bullshit started. Here are things I HATE HATE HATE as a Virgo:

1 - Lying or Trying to Get Around Sore Subjects Using Flowery Language and Innuendos: This Libra guy would do this a lot. He would never ever go straight to the point, but rather say stuff like "I think we're not on the same vibe", meaning "I am not in love with you". However, Libras and their wish to look pretty ALL the time and avoiding to tackle subjects that are difficult by not communicating properly drives me MAD. I have found out a couple of lies he told me by comparing utterances and finding contradictions. The worst one was: I gave him only two pecks on the lips, but he would be awkward afterwards and blame this on being afraid of homophobia. However he said to me that when he was younger he would hook up with guys and such. How in the world is he ashamed of pecking on the lips due to "homophobia" but was perfectly fine making out with guys he barely knew in the past? This is our way of finding out BULLSHIT that is thrown at us. This shakes our trust in others and we will second guess your actions and find out a lot more stuff you did.

2 - Ignore Us, Throw our Devotion in the Trash Can: You did not do this, OP, but this was fone to me. My almost boyfriend would always be busy with work, and never wanted to meet me no matter how much effort I made. This was aggravated as he did not tell upfront he thought we were not a good match, so I grew more attached and only after I was literally declaring my love for him out pois was that he decided to stop the bullshit and bem HONEST for once. In your case, you did not do anything wrong. There are dickheads everywhere, in every sign. It seems to me this guy you dated is nothing but a dickhead who took you for granted.

The worst thing you can do to us is betray us, lie to us, to be sneaky and beat around the bush instead of speaking your mind, to take our love and Trust for granted and to ignore us. You will get a nice dose of a non-existing pill forever. That is what I am doing.

You did nothing wrong. I wish that I either was straight or that you were a gay guy for us to know one another. Be happy, for you are a jewel amongst humankind.

Posted by halalbae

Going by your other threads Ive read, I have a feeling you wore out this guys love and devotion. I have Virgo Moon and I know I take a lot, probably TOO much before finally giving up

Trust can be rebuilt but truthfully I have the attention span of a fly and minimized capacity to truly forget so Im like lets just part ways forever. I tried being close to people who violated my trust after the incident but I will just nag myself about what they did for the rest of their life and thats not good for either of us

Because when someone really hurt me, I get sad every time I remember and my attitude reflects that. I start out being so nice and vulnerable and then slowly just go cold the more someone continues to take my love for a weakness. By the time I am finally fed up, I basically dont want to deal with them anymore

I have parted ways with people not because of one major thing they did but because they wore out my love and they made me feel like I can no longer be a good person to them. I like being a good person so I rather just stay away and I tell people its not you, its me... because I really dont forget, so it truthfully IS me. When they dont accept that, I just cut and give no reason. Unless they truly change and go above AND BEYOND (adults rarely do this), I will resent them more and more each day and they will never hear from me again. No amount of messages and phone calls can change that

Pisces moon and Virgo Venus, Mars, Mercury ......but damn this man is on point really.

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Block and pretend you never existed. So I heard at least and saw them do that. But in order for that to happen they must be fed up with all sorts of bs they forgave before

He hasn't blocked me though. He deleted me off social media instantly which I thought was slightly pathetic. Then took a month for him to delete my number. He's never blocked me.

See when we originally broke up I said to him I'm sorry if I have done anything. I couldn't figure if I had because he was being so closed off with me. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for. He told me he didn't want me involved in shit that's happening with him... surely as his girlfriend I should have a small amount of involvement especially if it effects the relationship and his mental health which at the time I was concerned about. He told me everything previously but for some reason he said if I was involved I would be hurt... But he was hurting me by pushing me away.

I am a gay male myself, but I would give anything to have a person as devoted to the person you loved as you were. I tried to do the same to an almost boyfriend Libra guy, and then the bullshit started. Here are things I HATE HATE HATE as a Virgo:

1 - Lying or Trying to Get Around Sore Subjects Using Flowery Language and Innuendos: This Libra guy would do this a lot. He would never ever go straight to the point, but rather say stuff like "I think we're not on the same vibe", meaning "I am not in love with you". However, Libras and their wish to look pretty ALL the time and avoiding to tackle subjects that are difficult by not communicating properly drives me MAD. I have found out a couple of lies he told me by comparing utterances and finding contradictions. The worst one was: I gave him only two pecks on the lips, but he would be awkward afterwards and blame this on being afraid of homophobia. However he said to me that when he was younger he would hook up with guys and such. How in the world is he ashamed of pecking on the lips due to "homophobia" but was perfectly fine making out with guys he barely knew in the past? This is our way of finding out BULLSHIT that is thrown at us. This shakes our trust in others and we will second guess your actions and find out a lot more stuff you did.

2 - Ignore Us, Throw our Devotion in the Trash Can: You did not do this, OP, but this was fone to me. My almost boyfriend would always be busy with work, and never wanted to meet me no matter how much effort I made. This was aggravated as he did not tell upfront he thought we were not a good match, so I grew more attached and only after I was literally declaring my love for him out pois was that he decided to stop the bullshit and bem HONEST for once. In your case, you did not do anything wrong. There are dickheads everywhere, in every sign. It seems to me this guy you dated is nothing but a dickhead who took you for granted.

The worst thing you can do to us is betray us, lie to us, to be sneaky and beat around the bush instead of speaking your mind, to take our love and Trust for granted and to ignore us. You will get a nice dose of a non-existing pill forever. That is what I am doing.

You did nothing wrong. I wish that I either was straight or that you were a gay guy for us to know one another. Be happy, for you are a jewel amongst humankind.

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libra here is trying to "leave" a virgo man, feel prompted to respond to your points.

1 - yes, i'm hardly direct, especially when it comes to something serious, don't want to fight or the like, instead, i've been holding the things that bother me for a long time and suffering.

2 - i've started to ignore him, and it's not fun for me. his words and actions triggered my such reaction, and he's the one who doesn't seem to be interested in talking it out.

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Block and pretend you never existed. So I heard at least and saw them do that. But in order for that to happen they must be fed up with all sorts of bs they forgave before

He hasn't blocked me though. He deleted me off social media instantly which I thought was slightly pathetic. Then took a month for him to delete my number. He's never blocked me.

See when we originally broke up I said to him I'm sorry if I have done anything. I couldn't figure if I had because he was being so closed off with me. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for. He told me he didn't want me involved in shit that's happening with him... surely as his girlfriend I should have a small amount of involvement especially if it effects the relationship and his mental health which at the time I was concerned about. He told me everything previously but for some reason he said if I was involved I would be hurt... But he was hurting me by pushing me away.

I am a gay male myself, but I would give anything to have a person as devoted to the person you loved as you were. I tried to do the same to an almost boyfriend Libra guy, and then the bullshit started. Here are things I HATE HATE HATE as a Virgo:

1 - Lying or Trying to Get Around Sore Subjects Using Flowery Language and Innuendos: This Libra guy would do this a lot. He would never ever go straight to the point, but rather say stuff like "I think we're not on the same vibe", meaning "I am not in love with you". However, Libras and their wish to look pretty ALL the time and avoiding to tackle subjects that are difficult by not communicating properly drives me MAD. I have found out a couple of lies he told me by comparing utterances and finding contradictions. The worst one was: I gave him only two pecks on the lips, but he would be awkward afterwards and blame this on being afraid of homophobia. However he said to me that when he was younger he would hook up with guys and such. How in the world is he ashamed of pecking on the lips due to "homophobia" but was perfectly fine making out with guys he barely knew in the past? This is our way of finding out BULLSHIT that is thrown at us. This shakes our trust in others and we will second guess your actions and find out a lot more stuff you did.

2 - Ignore Us, Throw our Devotion in the Trash Can: You did not do this, OP, but this was fone to me. My almost boyfriend would always be busy with work, and never wanted to meet me no matter how much effort I made. This was aggravated as he did not tell upfront he thought we were not a good match, so I grew more attached and only after I was literally declaring my love for him out pois was that he decided to stop the bullshit and bem HONEST for once. In your case, you did not do anything wrong. There are dickheads everywhere, in every sign. It seems to me this guy you dated is nothing but a dickhead who took you for granted.

The worst thing you can do to us is betray us, lie to us, to be sneaky and beat around the bush instead of speaking your mind, to take our love and Trust for granted and to ignore us. You will get a nice dose of a non-existing pill forever. That is what I am doing.

You did nothing wrong. I wish that I either was straight or that you were a gay guy for us to know one another. Be happy, for you are a jewel amongst humankind.

libra here is trying to "leave" a virgo man, feel prompted to respond to your points.

1 - yes, i'm hardly direct, especially when it comes to something serious, don't want to fight or the like, instead, i've been holding the things that bother me for a long time and suffering.

2 - i've started to ignore him, and it's not fun for me. his words and actions triggered my such reaction, and he's the one who doesn't seem to be interested in talking it out.

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" trying to leave" a virgo??

Try this with ur virgo.." I dont want to be with u anymore becuz ur USELESS in my life"

Tell the virgo how much shit he did wrong in Detail. I promise you will have ur freedom.

Then leave block his number and if he contacts u another way say " what exactly is it you didnt understand"

The virgi will defly leave u alone after this...I mean if ur "TRYING" to leave 🤷‍♀️

it's final when they're officially with someone else

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it's final when they're officially with someone else

So true when they take over a year to realize you are not changing your mind about divorcing them. Then they find someone else in 2 months and then marry them withing 4 months. 😆

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Posted by virgoOPPP

it's final when they're officially with someone else

So true when they take over a year to realize you are not changing your mind about divorcing them. Then they find someone else in 2 months and then marry them withing 4 months. 😆

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i don't really see anything wrong with that

i'm guessing you had a long relationship, maybe the virgo tried to resuscitate it

some people fall in love pretty quickly

we all have our reason for moving on fast

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Block and pretend you never existed. So I heard at least and saw them do that. But in order for that to happen they must be fed up with all sorts of bs they forgave before

He hasn't blocked me though. He deleted me off social media instantly which I thought was slightly pathetic. Then took a month for him to delete my number. He's never blocked me.

See when we originally broke up I said to him I'm sorry if I have done anything. I couldn't figure if I had because he was being so closed off with me. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for. He told me he didn't want me involved in shit that's happening with him... surely as his girlfriend I should have a small amount of involvement especially if it effects the relationship and his mental health which at the time I was concerned about. He told me everything previously but for some reason he said if I was involved I would be hurt... But he was hurting me by pushing me away.

I am a gay male myself, but I would give anything to have a person as devoted to the person you loved as you were. I tried to do the same to an almost boyfriend Libra guy, and then the bullshit started. Here are things I HATE HATE HATE as a Virgo:

1 - Lying or Trying to Get Around Sore Subjects Using Flowery Language and Innuendos: This Libra guy would do this a lot. He would never ever go straight to the point, but rather say stuff like "I think we're not on the same vibe", meaning "I am not in love with you". However, Libras and their wish to look pretty ALL the time and avoiding to tackle subjects that are difficult by not communicating properly drives me MAD. I have found out a couple of lies he told me by comparing utterances and finding contradictions. The worst one was: I gave him only two pecks on the lips, but he would be awkward afterwards and blame this on being afraid of homophobia. However he said to me that when he was younger he would hook up with guys and such. How in the world is he ashamed of pecking on the lips due to "homophobia" but was perfectly fine making out with guys he barely knew in the past? This is our way of finding out BULLSHIT that is thrown at us. This shakes our trust in others and we will second guess your actions and find out a lot more stuff you did.

2 - Ignore Us, Throw our Devotion in the Trash Can: You did not do this, OP, but this was fone to me. My almost boyfriend would always be busy with work, and never wanted to meet me no matter how much effort I made. This was aggravated as he did not tell upfront he thought we were not a good match, so I grew more attached and only after I was literally declaring my love for him out pois was that he decided to stop the bullshit and bem HONEST for once. In your case, you did not do anything wrong. There are dickheads everywhere, in every sign. It seems to me this guy you dated is nothing but a dickhead who took you for granted.

The worst thing you can do to us is betray us, lie to us, to be sneaky and beat around the bush instead of speaking your mind, to take our love and Trust for granted and to ignore us. You will get a nice dose of a non-existing pill forever. That is what I am doing.

You did nothing wrong. I wish that I either was straight or that you were a gay guy for us to know one another. Be happy, for you are a jewel amongst humankind.

libra here is trying to "leave" a virgo man, feel prompted to respond to your points.

1 - yes, i'm hardly direct, especially when it comes to something serious, don't want to fight or the like, instead, i've been holding the things that bother me for a long time and suffering.

2 - i've started to ignore him, and it's not fun for me. his words and actions triggered my such reaction, and he's the one who doesn't seem to be interested in talking it out.

" trying to leave" a virgo??

Try this with ur virgo.." I dont want to be with u anymore becuz ur USELESS in my life"

Tell the virgo how much shit he did wrong in Detail. I promise you will have ur freedom.

Then leave block his number and if he contacts u another way say " what exactly is it you didnt understand"

The virgi will defly leave u alone after this...I mean if ur "TRYING" to leave 🤷‍♀️

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I've been trying to not get affected by him anymore without revealing too much.

Won't say that to him, no need to hurt him, especially he's done good things for me, though it's also why I can't make up my mind to leave for good.

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Block and pretend you never existed. So I heard at least and saw them do that. But in order for that to happen they must be fed up with all sorts of bs they forgave before

He hasn't blocked me though. He deleted me off social media instantly which I thought was slightly pathetic. Then took a month for him to delete my number. He's never blocked me.

See when we originally broke up I said to him I'm sorry if I have done anything. I couldn't figure if I had because he was being so closed off with me. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for. He told me he didn't want me involved in shit that's happening with him... surely as his girlfriend I should have a small amount of involvement especially if it effects the relationship and his mental health which at the time I was concerned about. He told me everything previously but for some reason he said if I was involved I would be hurt... But he was hurting me by pushing me away.

I am a gay male myself, but I would give anything to have a person as devoted to the person you loved as you were. I tried to do the same to an almost boyfriend Libra guy, and then the bullshit started. Here are things I HATE HATE HATE as a Virgo:

1 - Lying or Trying to Get Around Sore Subjects Using Flowery Language and Innuendos: This Libra guy would do this a lot. He would never ever go straight to the point, but rather say stuff like "I think we're not on the same vibe", meaning "I am not in love with you". However, Libras and their wish to look pretty ALL the time and avoiding to tackle subjects that are difficult by not communicating properly drives me MAD. I have found out a couple of lies he told me by comparing utterances and finding contradictions. The worst one was: I gave him only two pecks on the lips, but he would be awkward afterwards and blame this on being afraid of homophobia. However he said to me that when he was younger he would hook up with guys and such. How in the world is he ashamed of pecking on the lips due to "homophobia" but was perfectly fine making out with guys he barely knew in the past? This is our way of finding out BULLSHIT that is thrown at us. This shakes our trust in others and we will second guess your actions and find out a lot more stuff you did.

2 - Ignore Us, Throw our Devotion in the Trash Can: You did not do this, OP, but this was fone to me. My almost boyfriend would always be busy with work, and never wanted to meet me no matter how much effort I made. This was aggravated as he did not tell upfront he thought we were not a good match, so I grew more attached and only after I was literally declaring my love for him out pois was that he decided to stop the bullshit and bem HONEST for once. In your case, you did not do anything wrong. There are dickheads everywhere, in every sign. It seems to me this guy you dated is nothing but a dickhead who took you for granted.

The worst thing you can do to us is betray us, lie to us, to be sneaky and beat around the bush instead of speaking your mind, to take our love and Trust for granted and to ignore us. You will get a nice dose of a non-existing pill forever. That is what I am doing.

You did nothing wrong. I wish that I either was straight or that you were a gay guy for us to know one another. Be happy, for you are a jewel amongst humankind.

libra here is trying to "leave" a virgo man, feel prompted to respond to your points.

1 - yes, i'm hardly direct, especially when it comes to something serious, don't want to fight or the like, instead, i've been holding the things that bother me for a long time and suffering.

2 - i've started to ignore him, and it's not fun for me. his words and actions triggered my such reaction, and he's the one who doesn't seem to be interested in talking it out.

" trying to leave" a virgo??

Try this with ur virgo.." I dont want to be with u anymore becuz ur USELESS in my life"

Tell the virgo how much shit he did wrong in Detail. I promise you will have ur freedom.

Then leave block his number and if he contacts u another way say " what exactly is it you didnt understand"

The virgi will defly leave u alone after this...I mean if ur "TRYING" to leave 🤷‍♀️

I've been trying to not get affected by him anymore without revealing too much.

Won't say that to him, no need to hurt him, especially he's done good things for me, though it's also why I can't make up my mind to leave for good.

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Oh ok i get it now..

Well dont do any of what I suggested. Saying those things will defly have mr.virgo gone forever. My first love was a libra he couldn't make up his as to if I was what he wanted or not...15yrs and a kid of that bullshit🤦‍♀️...

Eventually the Aries came and shut that shit down becuz he stole my heart.

Goodluck with ur situation.

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Block and pretend you never existed. So I heard at least and saw them do that. But in order for that to happen they must be fed up with all sorts of bs they forgave before

He hasn't blocked me though. He deleted me off social media instantly which I thought was slightly pathetic. Then took a month for him to delete my number. He's never blocked me.

See when we originally broke up I said to him I'm sorry if I have done anything. I couldn't figure if I had because he was being so closed off with me. He told me I had nothing to be sorry for. He told me he didn't want me involved in shit that's happening with him... surely as his girlfriend I should have a small amount of involvement especially if it effects the relationship and his mental health which at the time I was concerned about. He told me everything previously but for some reason he said if I was involved I would be hurt... But he was hurting me by pushing me away.

I am a gay male myself, but I would give anything to have a person as devoted to the person you loved as you were. I tried to do the same to an almost boyfriend Libra guy, and then the bullshit started. Here are things I HATE HATE HATE as a Virgo:

1 - Lying or Trying to Get Around Sore Subjects Using Flowery Language and Innuendos: This Libra guy would do this a lot. He would never ever go straight to the point, but rather say stuff like "I think we're not on the same vibe", meaning "I am not in love with you". However, Libras and their wish to look pretty ALL the time and avoiding to tackle subjects that are difficult by not communicating properly drives me MAD. I have found out a couple of lies he told me by comparing utterances and finding contradictions. The worst one was: I gave him only two pecks on the lips, but he would be awkward afterwards and blame this on being afraid of homophobia. However he said to me that when he was younger he would hook up with guys and such. How in the world is he ashamed of pecking on the lips due to "homophobia" but was perfectly fine making out with guys he barely knew in the past? This is our way of finding out BULLSHIT that is thrown at us. This shakes our trust in others and we will second guess your actions and find out a lot more stuff you did.

2 - Ignore Us, Throw our Devotion in the Trash Can: You did not do this, OP, but this was fone to me. My almost boyfriend would always be busy with work, and never wanted to meet me no matter how much effort I made. This was aggravated as he did not tell upfront he thought we were not a good match, so I grew more attached and only after I was literally declaring my love for him out pois was that he decided to stop the bullshit and bem HONEST for once. In your case, you did not do anything wrong. There are dickheads everywhere, in every sign. It seems to me this guy you dated is nothing but a dickhead who took you for granted.

The worst thing you can do to us is betray us, lie to us, to be sneaky and beat around the bush instead of speaking your mind, to take our love and Trust for granted and to ignore us. You will get a nice dose of a non-existing pill forever. That is what I am doing.

You did nothing wrong. I wish that I either was straight or that you were a gay guy for us to know one another. Be happy, for you are a jewel amongst humankind.

libra here is trying to "leave" a virgo man, feel prompted to respond to your points.

1 - yes, i'm hardly direct, especially when it comes to something serious, don't want to fight or the like, instead, i've been holding the things that bother me for a long time and suffering.

2 - i've started to ignore him, and it's not fun for me. his words and actions triggered my such reaction, and he's the one who doesn't seem to be interested in talking it out.

" trying to leave" a virgo??

Try this with ur virgo.." I dont want to be with u anymore becuz ur USELESS in my life"

Tell the virgo how much shit he did wrong in Detail. I promise you will have ur freedom.

Then leave block his number and if he contacts u another way say " what exactly is it you didnt understand"

The virgi will defly leave u alone after this...I mean if ur "TRYING" to leave 🤷‍♀️

I've been trying to not get affected by him anymore without revealing too much.

Won't say that to him, no need to hurt him, especially he's done good things for me, though it's also why I can't make up my mind to leave for good.

Oh ok i get it now..

Well dont do any of what I suggested. Saying those things will defly have mr.virgo gone forever. My first love was a libra he couldn't make up his as to if I was what he wanted or not...15yrs and a kid of that bullshit🤦‍♀️...

Eventually the Aries came and shut that shit down becuz he stole my heart.

Goodluck with ur situation.

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Thanks, I hope to have the one who I don't need to worry like this soon.

Virgo will detach, you will feel their cold. They just wont put any effort into you. They'll be polite if you initiate something but keep it brief and then essentially ghost. You gotta take the hint with these ones cause they wont tell you they'll just remove themselves. .A virgo I know when the breakup is bad he removes pics, and if super bad he unfollows. He doesnt go back to exes if they're hurt him.