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Would she ever realise how much I'm still holding onto her?
Thank You for your replay. I think I should truly believe things would happen if they are meant to be.
And really would work on myself.
And really would work on myself.
Just dropping by to complete the three Earth Sign Men.
Ha-ha
Try to let her go Cap, can't make someone love you back when you want then to.
Cap female here.
Cap female here.
I'd let go but feel like I don't want to lose a friend either.
Posted by VirgowScorpiMoonYaa it was the same way she spelt
Phone glitch... Ok let me try this again.
As a Virgo woman myself, here's how I see the situation. Virgo will go the extra mile for someone she wants in her life. Virgo don't usually turn back unless it's their safe zone which is you. However, she will go off again when she finds someone ( in this case the Sagittarius). She was in fact testing the Sagittarius by sacrificing you. It's basically saying " hey here's my ex bf who LOVES me so how about you". I really do believe you should move on. It takes time and I really hope you can heal from this.
"Do you still LOVE ME??"
Either way she was really happy to talk to me at that time. That's what made my hopes up.
I too think I should move on cause all the things are just making everything just hard for both of us. May be by flowing time. It's jst been few weeks after all now
Posted by TaureyeYes I agree about the two way streets fact. Like we can't make someone love us, we can't truly be friends with someone who doesn't want to I guess.Posted by forevercappynvirgoRight now she's not much of a friend though. And like everything else in life, friendships too rekindle. It's always a 2 way street.
I'd let go but feel like I don't want to lose a friend either.click to expand
And as long as I really do believe we both would remember each other. We'd talk to each other as friends someday in the future too.
jfc
Posted by VirgowScorpiMoonI guess so... And ya it really is hurtful.Posted by forevercappynvirgoCould I offer you a little insight? I am also able to talk to my exes without ever wanting to date them again. However I cut all ties because I learned from my male friends that this is hurtful because it gives them false hope. So you are definitely correct in seeing the situation for what it was. After all it is always nice to know if someone loves us. Also I always tell myself " by setting someone free, I'm giving myself a great chance at true love." That's what gets me through tough breakups. As cliche as it sounds, time heals everything.Posted by VirgowScorpiMoonYaa it was the same way she spelt
Phone glitch... Ok let me try this again.
As a Virgo woman myself, here's how I see the situation. Virgo will go the extra mile for someone she wants in her life. Virgo don't usually turn back unless it's their safe zone which is you. However, she will go off again when she finds someone ( in this case the Sagittarius). She was in fact testing the Sagittarius by sacrificing you. It's basically saying " hey here's my ex bf who LOVES me so how about you". I really do believe you should move on. It takes time and I really hope you can heal from this.
"Do you still LOVE ME??"
Either way she was really happy to talk to me at that time. That's what made my hopes up.
I too think I should move on cause all the things are just making everything just hard for both of us. May be by flowing time. It's jst been few weeks after all nowclick to expand
Anyway it's really up to time I think. Obviously I can't do anything except to work on myself. What's meant to be would happen.
You say by setting someone free, you're giving urself a great chance at true love. But didn't you ever feel like you missed a true love or known someone's value when he was finally gone?
Posted by forevercappynvirgoSomething about testing people doesn't seem genuine to me. I'd leave right there. Don't play games with me. I'll throw them out like trash. Hate that sh!t. If I'm being genuine and you're the one playing. That's a slow death for YOU only.Posted by VirgowScorpiMoonYaa it was the same way she spelt
Phone glitch... Ok let me try this again.
As a Virgo woman myself, here's how I see the situation. Virgo will go the extra mile for someone she wants in her life. Virgo don't usually turn back unless it's their safe zone which is you. However, she will go off again when she finds someone ( in this case the Sagittarius). She was in fact testing the Sagittarius by sacrificing you. It's basically saying " hey here's my ex bf who LOVES me so how about you". I really do believe you should move on. It takes time and I really hope you can heal from this.
"Do you still LOVE ME??"
Either way she was really happy to talk to me at that time. That's what made my hopes up.
I too think I should move on cause all the things are just making everything just hard for both of us. May be by flowing time. It's jst been few weeks after all nowclick to expand
And when I say "you" I don't mean that literally.
OP - a lot of virgos have good game "talking" game, but you never really know what they're thinking or feeling. I've been around enough to know this. Sweet but intentions don't match up.
You're a Cap, you're better than this. When she decides to come back, have a hot girlfriend ready and ignore her. She has no shame, nor class.
Posted by starwarsActually that's exactly what I am doing. I told her life I was doing really well in my life after a long time when we talked. I told her everything, studies and social life was going great. And also told her that I had a girl who've caught my interest(indirectly telling her I am really trying to move on). But then suddenly she saw my comment on one of my friend's post which said "I still love my ex" I commented "same hea". Then she caught me off-guard and sent me the screenshot asking "was that for me?? Do you still love me??" n ol. And then asked me to talk to her over the phone. While the time I avoided answering her question. But after a day or two thinking I missed a chance, I started telling her yes I do. And now she wasn't replying to this and instead started to talk more about her new boyfriend. And it was then when that phone event took place and talking is becoming less between us again.Posted by forevercappynvirgoI don't think you'd lose her as friend if you kept your distance.
I'd let go but feel like I don't want to lose a friend either.
I don't think you'd be able to be her friend when you love her this much, not at this time at least.
you try to control and hold back to keep the friendship, while still aiming to get her back...which is a lot of work. it will make the situation worse.
just focus on yourself for now, then you can be truly able to be yourself and handle things.click to expand
I too think I shall keep a distance. Which I'm keeping. But its already hard to be in contact since we live in different countries now. And I don't know if she'll be the one to check up how I'm doing first.
Posted by GreenteaWell I don't actually liked you to say she has no shame nor class ^^; cuz this girl hav really helped me so much in my past. And thinking about all that time only makes me feel like she's irreplaceable.Posted by forevercappynvirgoSomething about testing people doesn't seem genuine to me. I'd leave right there. Don't play games with me. I'll throw them out like trash. Hate that sh!t. If I'm being genuine and you're the one playing. That's a slow death for YOU only.Posted by VirgowScorpiMoonYaa it was the same way she spelt
Phone glitch... Ok let me try this again.
As a Virgo woman myself, here's how I see the situation. Virgo will go the extra mile for someone she wants in her life. Virgo don't usually turn back unless it's their safe zone which is you. However, she will go off again when she finds someone ( in this case the Sagittarius). She was in fact testing the Sagittarius by sacrificing you. It's basically saying " hey here's my ex bf who LOVES me so how about you". I really do believe you should move on. It takes time and I really hope you can heal from this.
"Do you still LOVE ME??"
Either way she was really happy to talk to me at that time. That's what made my hopes up.
I too think I should move on cause all the things are just making everything just hard for both of us. May be by flowing time. It's jst been few weeks after all now
And when I say "you" I don't mean that literally.
OP - a lot of virgos have good game "talking" game, but you never really know what they're thinking or feeling. I've been around enough to know this. Sweet but intentions don't match up.
You're a Cap, you're better than this. When she decides to come back, have a hot girlfriend ready and ignore her. She has no shame, nor class.click to expand
I agree a lot of things go in her mind especially her worries about her careers n ol. And all those times we've been together it's been really difficult to get what exactly is going in her mind. Sometimes I have to read her texts again and again to understand what exactly she is saying and I gotta admit most of time I've got them wrong too.
Last time when something same happened(for the first time) I decided to move on and was really seeing someone else. But then she tells me she felt bad when I talked about this girl with her and that she still loved me. We should talk so everything should be clear between us. Nothing is changed. There was never ever anyone. At that time I refused so and we both agreed upon being good friends only. But sooner I was back into her again. And when I told her she had already moved on. I regretted
Posted by DonnaElvira77Yes I'm told this before too. That its me who can actually solve my problems.
What do you think is healthier for you right now? Where should your focus be?
But as there's a quote-
"Mind says move on, heart says hold on."
That's exactly what's happening and I can't sort it out on my own and want to it as a third person's point of view that what should be done. I
think I must give her her space. But i'm just afraid to give her that much space that everything would be lost.
Posted by forevercappynvirgoPosted by GreenteaWell I don't actually liked you to say she has no shame nor class ^^; cuz this girl hav really helped me so much in my past. And thinking about all that time only makes me feel like she's irreplaceable.Posted by forevercappynvirgoSomething about testing people doesn't seem genuine to me. I'd leave right there. Don't play games with me. I'll throw them out like trash. Hate that sh!t. If I'm being genuine and you're the one playing. That's a slow death for YOU only.Posted by VirgowScorpiMoonYaa it was the same way she spelt
Phone glitch... Ok let me try this again.
As a Virgo woman myself, here's how I see the situation. Virgo will go the extra mile for someone she wants in her life. Virgo don't usually turn back unless it's their safe zone which is you. However, she will go off again when she finds someone ( in this case the Sagittarius). She was in fact testing the Sagittarius by sacrificing you. It's basically saying " hey here's my ex bf who LOVES me so how about you". I really do believe you should move on. It takes time and I really hope you can heal from this.
"Do you still LOVE ME??"
Either way she was really happy to talk to me at that time. That's what made my hopes up.
I too think I should move on cause all the things are just making everything just hard for both of us. May be by flowing time. It's jst been few weeks after all now
And when I say "you" I don't mean that literally.
OP - a lot of virgos have good game "talking" game, but you never really know what they're thinking or feeling. I've been around enough to know this. Sweet but intentions don't match up.
You're a Cap, you're better than this. When she decides to come back, have a hot girlfriend ready and ignore her. She has no shame, nor class.click to expand
I agree a lot of things go in her mind especially her worries about her careers n ol. And all those times we've been together it's been really difficult to get what exactly is going in her mind. Sometimes I have to read her texts again and again to understand what exactly she is saying and I gotta admit most of time I've got them wrong too.
Last time when something same happened(for the first time) I decided to move on and was really seeing someone else. But then she tells me she felt bad when I talked about this girl with her and that she still loved me. We should talk so everything should be clear between us. Nothing is changed. There was never ever anyone. At that time I refused so and we b
Posted by starwarsBeing apart makes me miss her and that's what keeps me could say now 'bothering her'. Especially at times when she updates upset posts like, you know "I think too hard" "strangers stab in front, friends stab back, bf stabs in front" etc etc sad quotes like this. But when I ask her if something have happened? (And really I do this when any of my friends are being like this, though may be somewhere I accept there'd be a small motive to get her back, win her heart but I really ask her this as a friend) Then she says there's nothing, I don't need to worry, so chillax. And says even if there was anything she have her bf to share with. (And must say it is what something hurts a lot) Even if I say I'm okay and trying to move on, she's being defensive.
i really find her move selfish. it seem like she wanted attention. then once you reciprocate and show interest she backed off talking about her bf.
her being in different country should help you getting over her. its a plus in my opinion.
Back then when I was upset she always took care of me when we were friends. She've been my support when I had no one. And that was really when I started to fall for her and made her irrepleaceable in my heart. Back then I was happy with being friends and so was she. I never really wanted to take it to the next level. It was her who took it out of my mouth asking if I ever had any crush or have any. We were to share everything so I told her it was her. Things went well after that though many up downs happened which is primarily going downwards.
No matter how much I try to get things right and try to make them like before its not just happening. And I feel like losing everything I ever had wishing if they were like before. Or if I had never told her I loved hurt. It couldve hurt less.
Sorry, my post didn't show earlier..
I understand, but that's my view of her. I feel like a lot of virgos are extremely emotionally selfish when it comes to their own. Very wrong of her to tell you that's she feels bad about you having a girlfriend and that she loves you, but now that shes the one with the bf, she ignores you and tests you and her bf. Then asks if that commemt was for her to give her an ego boost, and emotionally open you up, and then shoves her bf in your face. Selfish and classless. You have to make the decision to put her aside and let her do her. You focus on yourself.
I honestly don't get what the big deal is with these tards, people come on here crying about.
I understand, but that's my view of her. I feel like a lot of virgos are extremely emotionally selfish when it comes to their own. Very wrong of her to tell you that's she feels bad about you having a girlfriend and that she loves you, but now that shes the one with the bf, she ignores you and tests you and her bf. Then asks if that commemt was for her to give her an ego boost, and emotionally open you up, and then shoves her bf in your face. Selfish and classless. You have to make the decision to put her aside and let her do her. You focus on yourself.
I honestly don't get what the big deal is with these tards, people come on here crying about.
Good luck fellow Cap, I hope it works out in whatever way is best for you.
Posted by GreenteaSelfish part I guess fits right here for her a bit. (Though I actually don't believe cuz she've always wanted good for me. And also when I asked her for the first time she said " you are really a very very very great guy, you deserve a girl like you who'd love you more. I don't" which I believe she was honest with)
Sorry, my post didn't show earlier..
I understand, but that's my view of her. I feel like a lot of virgos are extremely emotionally selfish when it comes to their own. Very wrong of her to tell you that's she feels bad about you having a girlfriend and that she loves you, but now that shes the one with the bf, she ignores you and tests you and her bf. Then asks if that commemt was for her to give her an ego boost, and emotionally open you up, and then shoves her bf in your face. Selfish and classless. You have to make the decision to put her aside and let her do her. You focus on yourself.
I honestly don't get what the big deal is with these tards, people come on here crying about.
Knowing her I really think a lot goes in her mind which I don't know, and guess don't understand at all. I guess even she don't know what she exactly wants. And may be I don't too. But She was my best friend and I want things like so before in the beginning.
Posted by NostalgicCappyThank you so much ! As a fellow Cap I hope for best things in your life too ๐
Good luck fellow Cap, I hope it works out in whatever way is best for you.
(Especially about your ambitions. Bet you hav one)
Posted by forevercappynvirgoWell she's right, listen to her. I'm a big believer that if someone says they're an asshole, believe them. She's telling you, you deserve better than her and you do.Posted by GreenteaSelfish part I guess fits right here for her a bit. (Though I actually don't believe cuz she've always wanted good for me. And also when I asked her for the first time she said " you are really a very very very great guy, you deserve a girl like you who'd love you more. I don't" which I believe she was honest with)
Sorry, my post didn't show earlier..
I understand, but that's my view of her. I feel like a lot of virgos are extremely emotionally selfish when it comes to their own. Very wrong of her to tell you that's she feels bad about you having a girlfriend and that she loves you, but now that shes the one with the bf, she ignores you and tests you and her bf. Then asks if that commemt was for her to give her an ego boost, and emotionally open you up, and then shoves her bf in your face. Selfish and classless. You have to make the decision to put her aside and let her do her. You focus on yourself.
I honestly don't get what the big deal is with these tards, people come on here crying about.
Knowing her I really think a lot goes in her mind which I don't know, and guess don't understand at all. I guess even she don't know what she exactly wants. And may be I don't too. But She was my best friend and I want things like so before in the beginning.click to expand
A lot of virgos don't know what they want. Like I've always said, they're like leaves that blow with the wind.
If you two were involved, it won't be like it was in the beginning with just friendship. It rarely ever turns out that way.
Stop focusing on this girl..people waste so much time on other people, that they miss out on an amazing person that could be right in front of them.
Posted by forevercappynvirgoThank you รฐลธโขโ You're a good person.Posted by NostalgicCappyThank you so much ! As a fellow Cap I hope for best things in your life too ๐
Good luck fellow Cap, I hope it works out in whatever way is best for you.
(Especially about your ambitions. Bet you hav one)click to expand
Keep your chin up, you're proving her right about deserving a girl that will love you more. One thing is for sure, your heart will heal and you'll realize that you deserve that too, or she will come to her senses and give you what you deserve.
Posted by starwarsWhy she told me? It's because I asked her why she didn't reply each time I mentioned this new girl.
wow!
I do understand that she was a great friend, but that is in the past, she might be still is but you gotta deal with what you're facing now. stop holding into how things used to be.
her move is really annoying, why would she tell you she felt bad and that you need to stop talking about some girl when you've moved on...then she come back around doing the same thing, she wasn't approved of.
just try to really let it all behind and just work on yourself.
you've moved on at some point so im sure you can do it.
Well I guess I really can't do anything about it other than working up on myself.
I really think these days she's just not that person anymore who cared for me. I don't know if she finds it hard to hurt me. And somewhere I really wish to find someone who cares. May be better than her. But just feels lonely these days.
Anyway I very thankful of you to give me your views ๐
Posted by GreenteaYes I guess so I'm just focusing on her too much. Which is being problem for her too (i noe for sure)Posted by forevercappynvirgoWell she's right, listen to her. I'm a big believer that if someone says they're an asshole, believe them. She's telling you, you deserve better than her and you do.Posted by GreenteaSelfish part I guess fits right here for her a bit. (Though I actually don't believe cuz she've always wanted good for me. And also when I asked her for the first time she said " you are really a very very very great guy, you deserve a girl like you who'd love you more. I don't" which I believe she was honest with)
Sorry, my post didn't show earlier..
I understand, but that's my view of her. I feel like a lot of virgos are extremely emotionally selfish when it comes to their own. Very wrong of her to tell you that's she feels bad about you having a girlfriend and that she loves you, but now that shes the one with the bf, she ignores you and tests you and her bf. Then asks if that commemt was for her to give her an ego boost, and emotionally open you up, and then shoves her bf in your face. Selfish and classless. You have to make the decision to put her aside and let her do her. You focus on yourself.
I honestly don't get what the big deal is with these tards, people come on here crying about.
Knowing her I really think a lot goes in her mind which I don't know, and guess don't understand at all. I guess even she don't know what she exactly wants. And may be I don't too. But She was my best friend and I want things like so before in the beginning.
A lot of virgos don't know what they want. Like I've always said, they're like leaves that blow with the wind.
If you two were involved, it won't be like it was in the beginning with just friendship. It rarely ever turns out that way.
Stop focusing on this girl..people waste so much time on other people, that they miss out on an amazing person that could be right in front of them.click to expand
When a fate involves two person, I think you can't be the only one to mess with it. What's gonna happen gonna happen.
And I don't think anyone's gonna come to hold me if I hold on to her like this. I know I need to let her go. Just finding the way difficult to do it.
Posted by forevercappynvirgoIts never easy. I just hate seeing fellow Cap like this. Best of luck to you, and hope you find someone worth your heart. She's out there, gotta let this one go first. She's not good for youPosted by GreenteaYes I guess so I'm just focusing on her too much. Which is being problem for her too (i noe for sure)Posted by forevercappynvirgoWell she's right, listen to her. I'm a big believer that if someone says they're an asshole, believe them. She's telling you, you deserve better than her and you do.Posted by GreenteaSelfish part I guess fits right here for her a bit. (Though I actually don't believe cuz she've always wanted good for me. And also when I asked her for the first time she said " you are really a very very very great guy, you deserve a girl like you who'd love you more. I don't" which I believe she was honest with)
Sorry, my post didn't show earlier..
I understand, but that's my view of her. I feel like a lot of virgos are extremely emotionally selfish when it comes to their own. Very wrong of her to tell you that's she feels bad about you having a girlfriend and that she loves you, but now that shes the one with the bf, she ignores you and tests you and her bf. Then asks if that commemt was for her to give her an ego boost, and emotionally open you up, and then shoves her bf in your face. Selfish and classless. You have to make the decision to put her aside and let her do her. You focus on yourself.
I honestly don't get what the big deal is with these tards, people come on here crying about.
Knowing her I really think a lot goes in her mind which I don't know, and guess don't understand at all. I guess even she don't know what she exactly wants. And may be I don't too. But She was my best friend and I want things like so before in the beginning.
A lot of virgos don't know what they want. Like I've always said, they're like leaves that blow with the wind.
If you two were involved, it won't be like it was in the beginning with just friendship. It rarely ever turns out that way.
Stop focusing on this girl..people waste so much time on other people, that they miss out on an amazing person that could be right in front of them.
When a fate involves two person, I think you can't be the only one to mess with it. What's gonna happen gonna happen.
And I don't think anyone's gonna come to hold me if I hold on to her like this. I know I need to let her go. Just finding the way difficult to do it.click to expand
Posted by NostalgicCappyI don't know what I deserve or whether I deserve her or not. But it's for sure that I really want us to be good friends again at least.Posted by forevercappynvirgoThank you รฐลธโขโ You're a good person.Posted by NostalgicCappyThank you so much ! As a fellow Cap I hope for best things in your life too ๐
Good luck fellow Cap, I hope it works out in whatever way is best for you.
(Especially about your ambitions. Bet you hav one)
Keep your chin up, you're proving her right about deserving a girl that will love you more. One thing is for sure, your heart will heal and you'll realize that you deserve that too, or she will come to her senses and give you what you deserve.click to expand
And Thank you so much once again. I really liked you to say that. You're really a good person too.
Posted by GreenteaPosted by forevercappynvirgoIts never easy. I just hate seeing fellow Cap like this. Best of luck to you,Posted by GreenteaYes I guess so I'm just focusing on her too much. Which is being problem for her too (i noe for sure)Posted by forevercappynvirgoWell she's right, listen to her. I'm a big believer that if someone says they're an asshole, believe them. She's telling you, you deserve better than her and you do.Posted by GreenteaSelfish part I guess fits right here for her a bit. (Though I actually don't believe cuz she've always wanted good for me. And also when I asked her for the first time she said " you are really a very very very great guy, you deserve a girl like you who'd love you more. I don't" which I believe she was honest with)
Sorry, my post didn't show earlier..
I understand, but that's my view of her. I feel like a lot of virgos are extremely emotionally selfish when it comes to their own. Very wrong of her to tell you that's she feels bad about you having a girlfriend and that she loves you, but now that shes the one with the bf, she ignores you and tests you and her bf. Then asks if that commemt was for her to give her an ego boost, and emotionally open you up, and then shoves her bf in your face. Selfish and classless. You have to make the decision to put her aside and let her do her. You focus on yourself.
I honestly don't get what the big deal is with these tards, people come on here crying about.
Knowing her I really think a lot goes in her mind which I don't know, and guess don't understand at all. I guess even she don't know what she exactly wants. And may be I don't too. But She was my best friend and I want things like so before in the beginning.
A lot of virgos don't know what they want. Like I've always said, they're like leaves that blow with the wind.
If you two were involved, it won't be like it was in the beginning with just friendship. It rarely ever turns out that way.
Stop focusing on this girl..people waste so much time on other people, that they miss out on an amazing person that could be right in front of them.
When a fate involves two person, I think you can't be the only one to mess with it. What's gonna happen gonna happen.
And I don't think anyone's gonna come to hold me if I hold on to her like this. I know I need to let her go. Just finding the way difficult to do it.click to expand
Posted by starwarsThank you so much! Good Luck to you too for your life.Posted by forevercappynvirgono worries, good luck mate!Posted by starwarsWhy she told me? It's because I asked her why she didn't reply each time I mentioned this new girl.
wow!
I do understand that she was a great friend, but that is in the past, she might be still is but you gotta deal with what you're facing now. stop holding into how things used to be.
her move is really annoying, why would she tell you she felt bad and that you need to stop talking about some girl when you've moved on...then she come back around doing the same thing, she wasn't approved of.
just try to really let it all behind and just work on yourself.
you've moved on at some point so im sure you can do it.
Well I guess I really can't do anything about it other than working up on myself.
I really think these days she's just not that person anymore who cared for me. I don't know if she finds it hard to hurt me. And somewhere I really wish to find someone who cares. May be better than her. But just feels lonely these days.
Anyway I very thankful of you to give me your views ๐click to expand
Posted by forevercappynvirgoPosted by NostalgicCappyI don't know what I deserve or whether I deserve her or not. But it's for sure that I really want us to be good friends again at least.Posted by forevercappynvirgoThank you รฐลธโขโ You're a good person.Posted by NostalgicCappyThank you so much ! As a fellow Cap I hope for best things in your life too ๐
Good luck fellow Cap, I hope it works out in whatever way is best for you.
(Especially about your ambitions. Bet you hav one)
Keep your chin up, you're proving her right about deserving a girl that will love you more. One thing is for sure, your heart will heal and you'll realize that you deserve that too, or she will come to her senses and give you what you deserve.
And Thank you so much once again. I really liked you to say that. You're really a good person too.click to expand
You're so welcome, and thank you too. รฐลธโขโรฐลธโขโ
Posted by SuperMercurialHe said in an earlier post that when he was talking about his girlfriend (when he had one i guess) to her, she told him that he made her feel bad for talking about his gurl to her and that she loved him.Posted by GreenteaWhere did you get that she told him that she doesn't want him to have a girlfriend? She said that she wanted him to move on, and he said that she stopped responding when he said he had someone new. This virgo is trying to get away from him.
Sorry, my post didn't show earlier..
I understand, but that's my view of her. I feel like a lot of virgos are extremely emotionally selfish when it comes to their own. Very wrong of her to tell you that's she feels bad about you having a girlfriend and that she loves you, but now that shes the one with the bf, she ignores you and tests you and her bf. Then asks if that commemt was for her to give her an ego boost, and emotionally open you up, and then shoves her bf in your face. Selfish and classless. You have to make the decision to put her aside and let her do her. You focus on yourself.
I honestly don't get what the big deal is with these tards, people come on here crying about.click to expand
You don't say that kind of shit if you just want to be friends with someone. Open then up to thinking there is more when there's not. Now she's with this Sag, testing the sag with the Capricorn. Fecking classless, insecure af drama queen.
Posted by SuperMercurialQuote it?.. you look for it, it's in here. I have more important things to do than look for a quote.Posted by GreenteaQuote it. He said she would stop responding. And thats probably because she doesn't feel comfortable with this guy trying to emotionally cheat with her on his fake girlfriend.Posted by SuperMercurialHe said in an earlier post that when he was talking about his girlfriend (when he had one i guess) to her, she told him that he made her feel bad for talking about his gurl to her and that she loved him.Posted by GreenteaWhere did you get that she told him that she doesn't want him to have a girlfriend? She said that she wanted him to move on, and he said that she stopped responding when he said he had someone new. This virgo is trying to get away from him.
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I understand, but that's my view of her. I feel like a lot of virgos are extremely emotionally selfish when it comes to their own. Very wrong of her to tell you that's she feels bad about you having a girlfriend and that she loves you, but now that shes the one with the bf, she ignores you and tests you and her bf. Then asks if that commemt was for her to give her an ego boost, and emotionally open you up, and then shoves her bf in your face. Selfish and classless. You have to make the decision to put her aside and let her do her. You focus on yourself.
I honestly don't get what the big deal is with these tards, people come on here crying about.click to expand
Posted by SuperMercurialWhy should he?... all she wants is to be validated, bcuz he's got a girlfriend, and she's jealous.Posted by GreenteaNo, just no. You don't get us. He could have had his foot in the door if he was more open with her in that moment.
You don't say that kind of shit if you just want to be friends with someone. Open then up to thinking there is more when there's not. Now she's with this Sag, testing the sag with the Capricorn. Fecking classless, insecure af drama queen.click to expand
Posted by SuperMercurialHe had a girlfriend, so maybe they were just friends at the time...maybe SHE friend zoned him...then got insecure and jealous that he was talking about his girl.. then saying what she did to him bc she's insecure af, and wanted him to emotionally open up and want her..maybe again. I domt think her intentions are good at all. When someone comes to you and wants you only bcuz someone else has you, it's not sincere. Now shes mind fecking this Sag guy. The girl is emotional drama.Posted by GreenteaWhy should he? Because I thought he wanted this girl. He made every wrong move possible.Posted by SuperMercurialWhy should he?... all she wants is to be validated, bcuz he's got a girlfriend, and she's jealous.Posted by GreenteaNo, just no. You don't get us. He could have had his foot in the door if he was more open with her in that moment.
You don't say that kind of shit if you just want to be friends with someone. Open then up to thinking there is more when there's not. Now she's with this Sag, testing the sag with the Capricorn. Fecking classless, insecure af drama queen.click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesI was talking about when he was talking to her about a girl he was talking to at the time.Posted by Greenteahe doesn't have a GF, but she did want to be validated.Posted by SuperMercurialWhy should he?... all she wants is to be validated, bcuz he's got a girlfriend, and she's jealous.Posted by GreenteaNo, just no. You don't get us. He could have had his foot in the door if he was more open with her in that moment.
You don't say that kind of shit if you just want to be friends with someone. Open then up to thinking there is more when there's not. Now she's with this Sag, testing the sag with the Capricorn. Fecking classless, insecure af drama queen.click to expand
Posted by SuperMercurialNo, you're just fecking lazy to look....look on page 2..towards the bottom.. in one of his paragraphs he mentions this.Posted by GreenteaOkay, lets just leave this conversation at the fact that you have zero reading comprehension capabilities and move on.Posted by SensitiveBluesI was talking about when he was talking to her about a girl he was talking to at the time.Posted by Greenteahe doesn't have a GF, but she did want to be validated.Posted by SuperMercurialWhy should he?... all she wants is to be validated, bcuz he's got a girlfriend, and she's jealous.Posted by GreenteaNo, just no. You don't get us. He could have had his foot in the door if he was more open with her in that moment.
You don't say that kind of shit if you just want to be friends with someone. Open then up to thinking there is more when there's not. Now she's with this Sag, testing the sag with the Capricorn. Fecking classless, insecure af drama queen.
To the capricorn guy, I don't think you have a shot at this point. She's committed to the sag guy. She wouldn't have let him text you if she wasn't.click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesI disagree.. soul mate love should not be hard at all. You're supposed to uplift eachither, not drag eachother through the mud to prove ones love. I don't know how people think relationships are supposed to be a struggle. Life gives you enough struggles.Posted by VirgowScorpiMoonyou are not ready for marriage or a serious relationship!
And to answe your question " do you ever feel you missed out on what was once true love?" NO, you will realize later that's your heart corrupting your mind. It has to do with the psychology of " gain " and " loss ", not love. Also true love is easy and effortless. It is also " reciprocated" feelings. Even if it once was, it is no longer and will not return with time.
do you understand that there is nothing that is remotely easy or effortless about a relationship.
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Posted by SensitiveBluesYep, that's why you're supposed to walk through life together. No running, no dragging. Communication.Posted by GreenteaI agree with that. The fact remains though that real love is just not about having an easy and breezy relationship, but having the strength and backbone to work through the issues that do arise.Posted by SensitiveBluesI disagree.. soul mate love should not be hard at all. You're supposed to uplift eachither, not drag eachother through the mud to prove ones love. I don't know how people think relationships are supposed to be a struggle. Life gives you enough struggles.Posted by VirgowScorpiMoonyou are not ready for marriage or a serious relationship!
And to answe your question " do you ever feel you missed out on what was once true love?" NO, you will realize later that's your heart corrupting your mind. It has to do with the psychology of " gain " and " loss ", not love. Also true love is easy and effortless. It is also " reciprocated" feelings. Even if it once was, it is no longer and will not return with time.
do you understand that there is nothing that is remotely easy or effortless about a relationship.
dragging one another through the mud isn't healthy,but neither is running away when there are problems, that are easily fixableclick to expand
LOL. Smh..
Just let her go
I didn't know there would be so much of talking when I was gone. In the end, like always the final answer I've got is that I can't really do anything about it at all. If I try to I might only make things worse. She is committed and happy about it so I guess I must accept it and move forward. And about still being friends, it's really up to her if she ever talks to me again. I think I shouldn't be the one bother her first. If she values it too she'd come by to check up someday.
I've tried my best to understand her and had so long holding on. May be sometime there's actual win in giving up (hate this word though). I'm fine on my own right now. Doing nothing feels better. I have my ambitions to work on. Now I have much more time than I had before so I there's something good at least.
And if she's truly meant for me. She'd come on her own. I've already followed her too much. Love is a two sided event. I alone can't do anything. I'd rather leave it to God.
Also please don't make any bad comments for any sign people. I have friends of all out there and all are really good people. I don't really think it's good judge people by their signs. I just used then here as a sort of alias. (cuz I know astrology truly CAN'T COMPLETELY describe an individual.)
I've tried my best to understand her and had so long holding on. May be sometime there's actual win in giving up (hate this word though). I'm fine on my own right now. Doing nothing feels better. I have my ambitions to work on. Now I have much more time than I had before so I there's something good at least.
And if she's truly meant for me. She'd come on her own. I've already followed her too much. Love is a two sided event. I alone can't do anything. I'd rather leave it to God.
Also please don't make any bad comments for any sign people. I have friends of all out there and all are really good people. I don't really think it's good judge people by their signs. I just used then here as a sort of alias. (cuz I know astrology truly CAN'T COMPLETELY describe an individual.)
OP is really good at manipulation.
Small, subtle changes of stories and people ate it up.
I hope she stays far away from you...considering she lives in another country, that's covered.
If someone picks up your manipulative nature and plays the game back better, you have only yourself to blame.
Maybe try to get some integrity or better game because you're transparent.
Small, subtle changes of stories and people ate it up.
I hope she stays far away from you...considering she lives in another country, that's covered.
If someone picks up your manipulative nature and plays the game back better, you have only yourself to blame.
Maybe try to get some integrity or better game because you're transparent.
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