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Posted by Vlora93
Pisces who were unemployed, drank too much and blamed everyone else for their problems. ( all 3 said they were not where they wanted to be in life at the time, lived at home and were dating instead of looking for jobs ) asked me out and wanted me to pay for dates and one of them wanted to marry me and move in too.
just curious... did all 3 pisces asked you to solely pay for the dates?
and the other one who wants to move in just don't wanna pay rent?
i've known 2 pisces guys like this... very cheap, used me for money like i'm kinda surprised actually that they have that nature but i guess it makes sense when they're unemployed but idk like the guys i'm talking about aren't even really unemployed but they keep a really tight fist on their money.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Vlora93
Pisces who were unemployed, drank too much and blamed everyone else for their problems. ( all 3 said they were not where they wanted to be in life at the time, lived at home and were dating instead of looking for jobs ) asked me out and wanted me to pay for dates and one of them wanted to marry me and move in too.
just curious... did all 3 pisces asked you to solely pay for the dates?
and the other one who wants to move in just don't wanna pay rent?
i've known 2 pisces guys like this... very cheap, used me for money like i'm kinda surprised actually that they have that nature but i guess it makes sense when they're unemployed but idk like the guys i'm talking about aren't even really unemployed but they keep a really tight fist on their money.click to expand
Are they really?? Hate tight arse guys!
You seem intelligent and witty. The reason you are hung on your last love, is because you didn’t find a new one. Your instinct to find one is spot on.
Carry on dating and have fun with it. Have you tried a dating site where you can do the picking? Go for whom you like and get to know how they tick even before you meet them irl. The pre-selection process is quite important.
Carry on dating and have fun with it. Have you tried a dating site where you can do the picking? Go for whom you like and get to know how they tick even before you meet them irl. The pre-selection process is quite important.
Posted by Vlora93Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Vlora93Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by aquarius09
I think you need to learn to be single and enjoy you.
She's been single for 5 years. You don't think she's done that at this point?
Yeah exactly!!!
I don’t know how everyone thinks I’m dying for A relationship and desperate for men when they’re the one asking and they’re making things official not me!!! Even when I tell them I’m not ready!
I’ve been on blind dates for real! Like a friend’s bf or husband brings his buddy to hang out with me without me knowing anything!! I had no idea I was on one.
I mean even the guys knew I was single and fine how did that appear thirsty!
I said I’ve been single for almost 6 years, I am single!!
It seemed like a long list but was in 6 years a couple months each and they called it official relationship and they Ended when it didn’t lead to sex!
Please. Again, you're not taking accountability here. It's everyone else's fault.
You're a real selfish piece of work, here.
You up and move from the guy who wants to marry you. Here he is, ready to start a life with you and you flip the script and want to move internationally. Most people are not down for that. You go on about how he broke your heart, but you equally broke his.
You're willfully dating guys who want more than you're willing to give. Yet when they push, you go along with it and then cry foul when things tank or they end up being crazy. "Well, I just went along with it, but it's not my fault!" The most powerful word in your vocab is "no" and you aren't using it. Do NOT complain when you don't do anything in your best interest.
This is the biggest issue with people pleasers- they are the most untrustworthy and selfish people you can come across. You go along with whatever people tell you do to because YOU want to look good in their eyes and be agreeable. You can't look bad to other people, oh no! So you just do what they say. But when things go wrong, it's never your fault and you quickly finger point because you just did what THEY said. You have zero free will!!! It's all their fault!!
"Why am I still single?"
Because you date bottom of the barrel assholes that people shove on you and you go with it so you don't look bad in their eyes. How can any sane person expect results from that approach in life?
You left a guy to go travel, which, there's nothing wrong with per se. But don't act like a beaten, betrayed puppy when you gave him a pretty shitty list of options in order to keep you. "Wah, he left me. I thought he loved me!!!" Yeah, and I'm sure he thought you loved him but then decided you wanted to go focus on you and travel- which again, isn't bad per se. Everyone should do this at some point in their life. BUT you can't expect to do that when you have LTR and not have negative consequences as the end result.
You're single because you're immature and still have some growing up to do.
Stop dating.
Figure your shit out.
Go back to therapy because this people pleasing shit isn't healthy.
Relax...
Are you a certified therapist to tell me I need therapy and ignore my therapist advice! or you’re talking from YOUR own personal experience?!!
Because you sound like you have so much issues and anger you wanna take out on me.
You started off fine but to call me selfish and not taking responsibility for my actions!! When did I blame anyone else for me being a people pleaser?!!!
Yes they pressured me but I should’ve said no!! I own it, and just because I wanted to pursue my career somewhere else which we’ve talked about earlier doesn’t make me selfish, and I didn’t say anything about giving him a list to keep me!!
Also when did I say my life is shitty or miserable ? Romance and dating is one part of people’s lives not their whole life!! Which I assume you know!! Because you’re single and don’t mind enjoying your OWN company!!
Just because I seek insight in one part doesn’t mean I’m living a terrible life.
If you have problems with people who were born under my sign it’s okay, but to start creating scenarios about people’s lives, fill in the blanks and act like a therapist that’s crazy.
Seems like I’m not the one who need to focus on herself and her personal growth and seek therapy!click to expand
The only crazy one here is you, sweetie.
Posted by Vlora93
Apparently I was venting and accidentally posted the first time so..
I went on the worst date this past weekend and I’m feeling so down right now, I really want to know if it’s like this for everyone or just me!
I’m 27 and been single since I was 22, the only long term relationship I had was with a Scorpio, we were together for 8 years in total.. friends in school then lovers.
He was so sweet, warm, loving, attentive and affectionate, he never pressured me to do anything I felt uncomfortable doing, he never disappeared or made me question his feelings or actions, I even told him that I was ready to lose my virginity to him but he wanted me to be sure and do it according to our culture, we were about to get engaged but he broke it off when I told him I wanted to pursue my career abroad, he didn’t want to move with me so he decided to let me go ( which he never really did to this day ).
My heart was shattered and I’ve never felt loved again, no other guy in 6 years and 3 countries made me feel like him again.
I had many short term relationships in those years ( 5 months longest ), nothing serious and I’m getting so frustrated and depressed.
I have attracted so many Scorpios but were all the same intense, controlling, players and too rigid, not willing to compromise.
I dated emotionally unavailable, know it all bulls, a Capricorn who turned out to be married with 3 kids, another cap who took me out and stayed silent the whole night!
A 40 something Gemini who lied about his age ( said he was 29 and looked young) he slept with escorts when I told him I’m not ready for sex, then sent me videos of him doing the act.
Pisces who were unemployed, drank too much and blamed everyone else for their problems. ( all 3 said they were not where they wanted to be in life at the time, lived at home and were dating instead of looking for jobs ) asked me out and wanted me to pay for dates and one of them wanted to marry me and move in too.
I talked briefly to a cancer who was too sensitive and wanted me to initiate everything, and pick out dates ( on budget) then he cancelled our date when I said something random about a celebrity that he took personal, I blocked him because he made me feel like a lesbian.
Another cancer who created an excel sheet of everything he spent on our dates from gas to flowers and asked me to pay him back after refusing to have sex with him.
Aries and Sagittarius were too immature in their late 20s - 30s and the type that ends every sentence with a giggle, lol or lmao at the most inappropriate time even when we’re talking about death and loss... they all had disappearing tendencies for weeks!
Aquarius was cold distant and all about himself, I wasn’t important at all, my dreams, goals and emotions were all classic, boring and invalid !
It was always about him, his schedule and goals.
I went on a date with a Leo this past weekend and he talked about his ex non stop and how he did everything for her and she cheated and left him... when I got home I texted him that I don’t feel us together... he got pissed and called me manipulative like his ex !!!
I had to block him.
Never met a Libra or Virgo Male so I don’t know about them.
My Taurus sister is married to a Libra and they’re okay, I wouldn’t call them happy, just fine.
I’m a Taurus sun cancer moon and Mars with Pisces rising and Lilith, I’m a softie super emotional, sentimental and affectionate, I consider myself a water sign more than a Taurus.
Can you list your experience with the signs ?
Who is the best match for a Taurus woman and why?
Or I’m I the bad person ?
Why you're single?
1) You're a Taurus
2) you chose a career over love *insert eye roll here*
3) see number 2
4) see number 1
5) see number 1
and just as an extra: 6) see number 2
I'm sorry but as I read your post, when I got half way through the Leo story, I started laughing my ass off. The whole thing is so damn pathetic I couldn't do anything but laugh!
I'm glad I learned at an early age, never, EVER lose love over a "career." But you earth signs are all about money and status and (especially for taurus) possessions. As Trump would say, "SAD!"
Virgo's and Tauruses "get" each other, and they're both motivated by money and, money and.... stability. And money. So you'll find some common ground there. Personally, I'd look for a libra. I have a Virgo moon and have known too many Virgo men. I know what bitches they are so for your sake, look elsewhere. You don't deserve a virgo man (nobody does.)
Gemini men are the WORST! Stay away from them forEVER! And no I don't like Aquarius either. Nice and polite at first from a distance, but so self centered. And they can be the worst whores you'll ever find, even the men.
Just stay away from earth signs all together. Best narcissists you'll ever find.
Cancer is moody. Too moody. But they're usually not keeping tabs on money they spent on you. That one you dated was a weirdo. Cancer is also compatible with Taurus, so they say. And since you have a cancer moon (best placement for the moon ever!) there will be a simpatico there.
If the scorpio you were with is still available, I'd say give it another try. If not, well, lesson learned... Can an earth sign learn a lesson? Or is their head full of cement?
I read somewhere there are two things no one can ever take away from a Taurus; anxiety and depression. You'll probably suffer from either or both all your life no matter how happy and loved you are. It's a bull (cow?) thing.
You write well. I hope you find a good man to take care of you and that you'll be happy, sooner rather than later!
Posted by Pulsy
You are single because your meant to drop the pride n try with Scorpio again. You know you want too lol
You know Taureans are too bull-headed to admit that they're wrong, and too stubborn to get rid of their pride.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Vlora93
Pisces who were unemployed, drank too much and blamed everyone else for their problems. ( all 3 said they were not where they wanted to be in life at the time, lived at home and were dating instead of looking for jobs ) asked me out and wanted me to pay for dates and one of them wanted to marry me and move in too.
just curious... did all 3 pisces asked you to solely pay for the dates?
and the other one who wants to move in just don't wanna pay rent?
i've known 2 pisces guys like this... very cheap, used me for money like i'm kinda surprised actually that they have that nature but i guess it makes sense when they're unemployed but idk like the guys i'm talking about aren't even really unemployed but they keep a really tight fist on their money.click to expand
No rent or anything because I’m gonna be the wife and save him from his dad 🤷🏻♀️
All of them actually were taking unemployment so they were not totally broke !! They had the money to go and get drunk EVERY night!!
They were sneaky about it like we’d go to the movie or bowling, then they’d disappear when it’s time to pay 😅 then reappear after, one got a small popcorn and shared it with me!! no drink or candy or anything!! I had to go get my own snacks!!
I find it really wired because Pisces females are the exact opposite!!
Why you're single?
1) You're a Taurus
2) you chose a career over love *insert eye roll here*
3) see number 2
4) see number 1
5) see number 1
and just as an extra: 6) see number 2
I'm sorry but as I read your post, when I got half way through the Leo story, I started laughing my ass off. The whole thing is so damn pathetic I couldn't do anything but laugh!
I'm glad I learned at an early age, never, EVER lose love over a "career." But you earth signs are all about money and status and (especially for taurus) possessions. As Trump would say, "SAD!"
Virgo's and Tauruses "get" each other, and they're both motivated by money and, money and.... stability. And money. So you'll find some common ground there. Personally, I'd look for a libra. I have a Virgo moon and have known too many Virgo men. I know what bitches they are so for your sake, look elsewhere. You don't deserve a virgo man (nobody does.)
Gemini men are the WORST! Stay away from them forEVER! And no I don't like Aquarius either. Nice and polite at first from a distance, but so self centered. And they can be the worst whores you'll ever find, even the men.
Just stay away from earth signs all together. Best narcissists you'll ever find.
Cancer is moody. Too moody. But they're usually not keeping tabs on money they spent on you. That one you dated was a weirdo. Cancer is also compatible with Taurus, so they say. And since you have a cancer moon (best placement for the moon ever!) there will be a simpatico there.
If the scorpio you were with is still available, I'd say give it another try. If not, well, lesson learned... Can an earth sign learn a lesson? Or is their head full of cement?
I read somewhere there are two things no one can ever take away from a Taurus; anxiety and depression. You'll probably suffer from either or both all your life no matter how happy and loved you are. It's a bull (cow?) thing.
You write well. I hope you find a good man to take care of you and that you'll be happy, sooner rather than later!
I don’t wanna be a stubborn self righteous feminist cow but, I really didn’t choose career over him, I just wanted his support, I’ve always wanted to be a doctor since I was a little baby and he knew that from the very beginning even before us becoming lovers, if there was a specialty program in our country I would’ve stayed there!!
I used to always compromise for him, the first one to say sorry and let things go, I’d let him have his way with everything and this is the only thing I asked him to do for me!!!
And I even had alternatives for him ! why is it always me who has to compromise ?!
And about the signs you’re right... Earth signs men are boring, stubborn, know it all, selfish and have double standards, I’ve also noticed a lot of Virgo Male leading double life ... very shady !!
Water signs... are complicated, cancers are too sensitive, get hurt easily and hold grudges and suddenly snap you never see it coming!!
Scorpios are not romantic and too fixed, I’ve attracted a lot of them and they’re all the same, possessive, suspicious and controlling, one gave me rules on first date, and told me I should stop working night shifts if we’d ever be together !!
Pisces are too fickle, unreliable and wishy washy I cant stand them and they basically need a mama not a partner!
Fire signs guys are shallow, too aggressive and bubbly for me they have a very short span of attention and I’m very deep and slow.
Air signs are cool at the beginning but then turned to be so judgmental and know it all, they think they’re unique, cool, out of this world and they’re too fickle for my taste, oh my god!!! You’re so right about Aquarius all the one I met are into crap like poly/ open swinging relationships and if you don’t agree then you’re a narrow minded and selfish person.
I’m always anxious about anything school, love, family 😥 even when I don’t have a reason to be, I turn on the tv and find myself something to overthink!!
Thanks for the wish 💕
Posted by Pulsy
The question you want to be happy or always right?
I really want to be happy.
I love him like crazy and still get butterflies when he calls or text and I still can’t get over him after 6 years of moving and studying and keeping myself busy, but what can I do about it ??
I can’t risk talking to him about us, he might reject me or maybe he has already moved on and doesn’t think about me like that anymore, I don’t wanna lose what I have with him.
First, take a break from dating. Take a couple of months to refresh and to refocus on yourself. Be ok with being by yourself.
Second, figure out what you are going to do with your first love, the Scorpio. Sounds like you need some kind of closure there because you could subconsciously be waiting for him to come back in your life. Thus, you might subconsciously be pursuing dead-end romances.
Third, stop mentally comparing everyone to your Scorpio ex and give people time fo show their good sides.
Second, figure out what you are going to do with your first love, the Scorpio. Sounds like you need some kind of closure there because you could subconsciously be waiting for him to come back in your life. Thus, you might subconsciously be pursuing dead-end romances.
Third, stop mentally comparing everyone to your Scorpio ex and give people time fo show their good sides.
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