Supporting a stressed out taurus

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Leave them alone you're not helping

I want to say this lol. But honestly even if i don’t accept it at the time, I can oftentimes find it helpful. I hope no one gives up on me and stops trying. I know I’m a tough nut, but it would be even harder if no one even tried.
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Any suggestions on how? I just said I am here if there is any way I can help.
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Leave them alone you're not helping

I want to say this lol. But honestly even if i don’t accept it at the time, I can oftentimes find it helpful. I hope no one gives up on me and stops trying. I know I’m a tough nut, but it would be even harder if no one even tried.

Any suggestions on how? I just said I am here if there is any way I can help.
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That goes further than most people realize.
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Taurus are the succulents of plants(low maintenance) don’t stress it too much, just let them know you care in simple ways from time to time and they will thank you kindly.

Interesting! It’s the only plant I have in my home… the only one that survives! Most die on me… I’ve even managed to kill cactus ☹️😩

What plant represents Scorpio ?!? 😲

Hehe! Good choice, gurl! 🤣

Succulents are so pretty, yet don’t need much work. It’s a beginners go to. On the real, you can do a lot with them.

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I will have to get back to you on the Scorpio plant…
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Beautiful! I barely keep plants alive! My mom is good at it without even trying!
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Leave them alone you're not helping

I want to say this lol. But honestly even if i don’t accept it at the time, I can oftentimes find it helpful. I hope no one gives up on me and stops trying. I know I’m a tough nut, but it would be even harder if no one even tried.

Any suggestions on how? I just said I am here if there is any way I can help.

That goes further than most people realize.
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I hope so.
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Sex. Fun. Food is a dumb answer IMO. Pretty much every single person on this planet eats every day, at least once. Everyone, depressed, happy, or just blah.. expect to eat at some point in the day. Unless I'm so sick I'm bedridden and you got soup, food is not a highlight for me. If and when I withdraw, I get in my head, I don't need a sammich and small talk, I need to get out of my own head and focus on something else.

Wait…you’re a Taurus?!?!

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I don’t think I’ve ever met a Taurus that was neutral about food. EVER. No matter their shape.

I love to cook. But I've never really cared about eating, if that makes sense. I can cook all day long and not eat a bite. I've always hated the feeling and energy drain it takes to digest food.

Aaahhhh… that makes sense. Yeah, I have noticed that it’s either obsession/deep pleasure with food or major issues with food/digestion.

You sound like me, in that very small amount of food takes you a long way - so it’s best to eat light, do exceptionally well with intermittent diet, best not to eat too late - to have best performance. You probably make muscle really fast too, no? Sounds like slow digestion… powerful body.

Maybe it makes sense. I like to cook just to be creative and the best part is when I am cooking for dinner parties… I love trying something new and focusing on presentation. Is that why you do it? Or something else?
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What are some of your favorite things to cook?
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Taurus are the succulents of plants(low maintenance) don’t stress it too much, just let them know you care in simple ways from time to time and they will thank you kindly.

Interesting! It’s the only plant I have in my home… the only one that survives! Most die on me… I’ve even managed to kill cactus ☹️😩

What plant represents Scorpio ?!? 😲

Hehe! Good choice, gurl! 🤣

Succulents are so pretty, yet don’t need much work. It’s a beginners go to. On the real, you can do a lot with them.

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I will have to get back to you on the Scorpio plant…

Thanks 😅… I’d have to give the credit to my Libra friend and her Taurus son…tbh! He loves planting and has quite a green thumb… she was showing me his work and I expressed my desperation to have some lovely plants in my home as well…lmao!! They both recommended Succulents🤗🥳👌🏼🍃They DO look very beautiful!!

I was actually in France for 3 months and my lovely succulents survived my absence!! 🤔They actually look even more beautiful now. Made me think I probably over-water 🥴.

I’m DEFINITELY and apprentice any guidance is welcomed 🤣😂👍🏼

Ok… no pressure on Scorpio plant. I was just curious 😬🤓👍🏼

LoL!! Your replies keep me laughing. Yes, if you killed a cactus it’s probably due to over watering, same goes for succulents. Ignore them, and they will grow in your absence lol!

Okay… okieee… for a Scorpio that is a beginner, I will assign the “snake plant” because it is practically indestructible, and they have strong upright leaves that finish with a point.
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Love snake plants! That is the one plant that isn’t wilting that I have!
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i think it really depends on where your relationship is at.

casual? yeah food helps but not really. it's a nice thought and they'll appreciate your kindness but just give them time to sort things out. they'll come back round when they are ready

more than casual? sex is good. it's definitely a way to distract them for a bit before the clouds descend again.

serious? lighten the load. make them smile. be a listening ear. make sure they feel cared for and be their reliable friend and soft spot to land. if you are close enough they will let you in to do all of these things, otherwise, it's a pretty closed shop until they sort out their own burden.
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Taurus are the succulents of plants(low maintenance) don’t stress it too much, just let them know you care in simple ways from time to time and they will thank you kindly.

Interesting! It’s the only plant I have in my home… the only one that survives! Most die on me… I’ve even managed to kill cactus ☹️😩

What plant represents Scorpio ?!? 😲

Hehe! Good choice, gurl! 🤣

Succulents are so pretty, yet don’t need much work. It’s a beginners go to. On the real, you can do a lot with them.

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I will have to get back to you on the Scorpio plant…

Thanks 😅… I’d have to give the credit to my Libra friend and her Taurus son…tbh! He loves planting and has quite a green thumb… she was showing me his work and I expressed my desperation to have some lovely plants in my home as well…lmao!! They both recommended Succulents🤗🥳👌🏼🍃They DO look very beautiful!!

I was actually in France for 3 months and my lovely succulents survived my absence!! 🤔They actually look even more beautiful now. Made me think I probably over-water 🥴.

I’m DEFINITELY and apprentice any guidance is welcomed 🤣😂👍🏼

Ok… no pressure on Scorpio plant. I was just curious 😬🤓👍🏼

LoL!! Your replies keep me laughing. Yes, if you killed a cactus it’s probably due to over watering, same goes for succulents. Ignore them, and they will grow in your absence lol!

Okay… okieee… for a Scorpio that is a beginner, I will assign the “snake plant” because it is practically indestructible, and they have strong upright leaves that finish with a point.
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Good choice 😆 sansevieria also commonly known as mother in law’s tongue. Sharp and tough.

I love the dwarf rosette varieties like this Silver Hahnii. Reminds me of the silver bromeliad but a lot harder to kill.

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Taurus are the succulents of plants(low maintenance) don’t stress it too much, just let them know you care in simple ways from time to time and they will thank you kindly.

Interesting! It’s the only plant I have in my home… the only one that survives! Most die on me… I’ve even managed to kill cactus ☹️😩

What plant represents Scorpio ?!? 😲

Hehe! Good choice, gurl! 🤣

Succulents are so pretty, yet don’t need much work. It’s a beginners go to. On the real, you can do a lot with them.

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I will have to get back to you on the Scorpio plant…

Thanks 😅… I’d have to give the credit to my Libra friend and her Taurus son…tbh! He loves planting and has quite a green thumb… she was showing me his work and I expressed my desperation to have some lovely plants in my home as well…lmao!! They both recommended Succulents🤗🥳👌🏼🍃They DO look very beautiful!!

I was actually in France for 3 months and my lovely succulents survived my absence!! 🤔They actually look even more beautiful now. Made me think I probably over-water 🥴.

I’m DEFINITELY and apprentice any guidance is welcomed 🤣😂👍🏼

Ok… no pressure on Scorpio plant. I was just curious 😬🤓👍🏼

LoL!! Your replies keep me laughing. Yes, if you killed a cactus it’s probably due to over watering, same goes for succulents. Ignore them, and they will grow in your absence lol!

Okay… okieee… for a Scorpio that is a beginner, I will assign the “snake plant” because it is practically indestructible, and they have strong upright leaves that finish with a point.

Good choice 😆 sansevieria also commonly known as mother in law’s tongue. Sharp and tough.

I love the dwarf rosette varieties like this Silver Hahnii. Reminds me of the silver bromeliad but a lot harder to kill.

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This one looks like it would be best planted in a garden, correct? Or could it also be inside a home?!?
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Better inside if your in a really hot or cold climate. Outside can work in the shade or partial shade (morning sun) as long as you move it inside for frost or extreme heat waves
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Everyone saying force feed them 🥴 I’m imagining trying this with my brother and it would not go down well. He eats super clean, intermittent fasting.

I never said force feed… who said that? I don’t remember reading that 👀.

But, I definitely shared anecdotes from all the Taurus I know, just as you are doing now. We all share what we know and have experienced.

Although I will admit, a good 20% are actually very picky about food… having to eat really clean, sensitive stomach. They still strongly react to their food though, in a way that stands out to me compared to others of other sun signs🤔🤔
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He was never the fat kid either, that was me 😊 came out the womb with a double chin.

Best I could do is offer to join him on his long walks but even that is a toss up depending on his mood. Dude loves his solitude!
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i think it really depends on where your relationship is at.

casual? yeah food helps but not really. it's a nice thought and they'll appreciate your kindness but just give them time to sort things out. they'll come back round when they are ready

more than casual? sex is good. it's definitely a way to distract them for a bit before the clouds descend again.

serious? lighten the load. make them smile. be a listening ear. make sure they feel cared for and be their reliable friend and soft spot to land. if you are close enough they will let you in to do all of these things, otherwise, it's a pretty closed shop until they sort out their own burden.


It’s a casual friendship. Nothing physical has ever happened nor will it. He is in a relationship.
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Sex. Fun. Food is a dumb answer IMO. Pretty much every single person on this planet eats every day, at least once. Everyone, depressed, happy, or just blah.. expect to eat at some point in the day. Unless I'm so sick I'm bedridden and you got soup, food is not a highlight for me. If and when I withdraw, I get in my head, I don't need a sammich and small talk, I need to get out of my own head and focus on something else.

Wait…you’re a Taurus?!?!

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I don’t think I’ve ever met a Taurus that was neutral about food. EVER. No matter their shape.

I love to cook. But I've never really cared about eating, if that makes sense. I can cook all day long and not eat a bite. I've always hated the feeling and energy drain it takes to digest food.

Aaahhhh… that makes sense. Yeah, I have noticed that it’s either obsession/deep pleasure with food or major issues with food/digestion.

You sound like me, in that very small amount of food takes you a long way - so it’s best to eat light, do exceptionally well with intermittent diet, best not to eat too late - to have best performance. You probably make muscle really fast too, no? Sounds like slow digestion… powerful body.

Maybe it makes sense. I like to cook just to be creative and the best part is when I am cooking for dinner parties… I love trying something new and focusing on presentation. Is that why you do it? Or something else?

What are some of your favorite things to cook?

My biggest drive is actually the event more than the act of cooking. I love creating a setting for the guests - give them an experience.

Setting the table(clothes, plates, glasses, nice bottle of champagne and wine, name cards, etc), thinking about foods they’ve told me they love so I could make it for them, make them feel special.

Apart from that I think I love cooking things that need construction of some kind…lol. So, not only focus on taste, textures but also on presentation.

Most of the foods I specialize in are French, Italian or Spanish:

Gazpacho

Fried Polenta with parmesan cheese

Tiramisu

Bell peppers with pesto & scallops

Mushroom risotto

Three cheese risotto

Hachis Parmentier

Crème brûlée

Filet mignon & mashed potatoes

Chicken stuffed with prosciutto & basil topped with Fontina cheese

Fried zucchini with Parmesan cheese

Arancini with saffron and fontina cheese

Pastas

Paella

Etc., etc, etc 😅

What about you? Do you like cooking?
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Haha I would love an invite next time you throw one! Yum 😋!

I love risottos and a lot of Mexican and southern foods!
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Taurus are the succulents of plants(low maintenance) don’t stress it too much, just let them know you care in simple ways from time to time and they will thank you kindly.

Interesting! It’s the only plant I have in my home… the only one that survives! Most die on me… I’ve even managed to kill cactus ☹️😩

What plant represents Scorpio ?!? 😲

Hehe! Good choice, gurl! 🤣

Succulents are so pretty, yet don’t need much work. It’s a beginners go to. On the real, you can do a lot with them.

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I will have to get back to you on the Scorpio plant…

Thanks 😅… I’d have to give the credit to my Libra friend and her Taurus son…tbh! He loves planting and has quite a green thumb… she was showing me his work and I expressed my desperation to have some lovely plants in my home as well…lmao!! They both recommended Succulents🤗🥳👌🏼🍃They DO look very beautiful!!

I was actually in France for 3 months and my lovely succulents survived my absence!! 🤔They actually look even more beautiful now. Made me think I probably over-water 🥴.

I’m DEFINITELY and apprentice any guidance is welcomed 🤣😂👍🏼

Ok… no pressure on Scorpio plant. I was just curious 😬🤓👍🏼

LoL!! Your replies keep me laughing. Yes, if you killed a cactus it’s probably due to over watering, same goes for succulents. Ignore them, and they will grow in your absence lol!

Okay… okieee… for a Scorpio that is a beginner, I will assign the “snake plant” because it is practically indestructible, and they have strong upright leaves that finish with a point.

Good choice 😆 sansevieria also commonly known as mother in law’s tongue. Sharp and tough.

I love the dwarf rosette varieties like this Silver Hahnii. Reminds me of the silver bromeliad but a lot harder to kill.

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Sounds like you’re in the early stages of dating and he’s pulling away. Are you questioning if it has anything to do with you?


We are just friends. Early stages of friendship. He is in a relationship. I am part of the stress because he said he was stressed about the friendship. When I say friendship, no, nothing sexual. I was debating if it was even worth having if he was going to be stressed.
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Sounds like you’re in the early stages of dating and he’s pulling away. Are you questioning if it has anything to do with you?

We are just friends. Early stages of friendship. He is in a relationship. I am part of the stress because he said he was stressed about the friendship. When I say friendship, no, nothing sexual. I was debating if it was even worth having if he was going to be stressed.
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Why is he stressed about your friendship? Is it affecting his relationship with his girlfriend?

You wrote a forum about him so that tells me you care about him deeply. I don’t know. Just be careful with your heart.
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Sounds like you’re in the early stages of dating and he’s pulling away. Are you questioning if it has anything to do with you?

We are just friends. Early stages of friendship. He is in a relationship. I am part of the stress because he said he was stressed about the friendship. When I say friendship, no, nothing sexual. I was debating if it was even worth having if he was going to be stressed.

Why is he stressed about your friendship? Is it affecting his relationship with his girlfriend?

You wrote a forum about him so that tells me you care about him deeply. I don’t know. Just be careful with your heart.
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We have talked we agree we get along well and there is attraction. I believe the guilt is coming from that. I do care about him and as far as I know it hasn’t, but I also don’t want it to.
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Sounds like you’re in the early stages of dating and he’s pulling away. Are you questioning if it has anything to do with you?

We are just friends. Early stages of friendship. He is in a relationship. I am part of the stress because he said he was stressed about the friendship. When I say friendship, no, nothing sexual. I was debating if it was even worth having if he was going to be stressed.

Why is he stressed about your friendship? Is it affecting his relationship with his girlfriend?

You wrote a forum about him so that tells me you care about him deeply. I don’t know. Just be careful with your heart.

We have talked we agree we get along well and there is attraction. I believe the guilt is coming from that. I do care about him and as far as I know it hasn’t, but I also don’t want it to.
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Well if he’s feeling guilty about it, then maybe him pulling away is his way to respect his relationship with his gf. Honestly that’s admirable. Even tho it’s not good for your friendship… but his gf is his priority. Good luck! Hope it all works out!
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Sounds like you’re in the early stages of dating and he’s pulling away. Are you questioning if it has anything to do with you?

We are just friends. Early stages of friendship. He is in a relationship. I am part of the stress because he said he was stressed about the friendship. When I say friendship, no, nothing sexual. I was debating if it was even worth having if he was going to be stressed.

Why is he stressed about your friendship? Is it affecting his relationship with his girlfriend?

You wrote a forum about him so that tells me you care about him deeply. I don’t know. Just be careful with your heart.

We have talked we agree we get along well and there is attraction. I believe the guilt is coming from that. I do care about him and as far as I know it hasn’t, but I also don’t want it to.

Well if he’s feeling guilty about it, then maybe him pulling away is his way to respect his relationship with his gf. Honestly that’s admirable. Even tho it’s not good for your friendship… but his gf is his priority. Good luck! Hope it all works out!
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Makes sense. I told him if we needed to end our friendship that I would understand and to let me know if that’s what he wanted. He just said we would talk later and said nothing about it again.
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Everyone saying force feed them 🥴 I’m imagining trying this with my brother and it would not go down well. He eats super clean, intermittent fasting.

I never said force feed… who said that? I don’t remember reading that 👀.

But, I definitely shared anecdotes from all the Taurus I know, just as you are doing now. We all share what we know and have experienced.

Although I will admit, a good 20% are actually very picky about food… having to eat really clean, sensitive stomach. They still strongly react to their food though, in a way that stands out to me compared to others of other sun signs🤔🤔

He was never the fat kid either, that was me 😊 came out the womb with a double chin.

Best I could do is offer to join him on his long walks but even that is a toss up depending on his mood. Dude loves his solitude!

Awwww, fat babies are the cutest though!!! They are the best to hold and have on you. I absolutely LOOOOVE fat babies!!! I’m sure you were adorable.

Yeah, the two that I dated (and other romantic connection) were also slender. Tall and slender.

I wasn’t insinuating that loud reaction and excitement to food equated they are fat. But I’m starting to wonder if that is how it is being taken 🤔🤔.
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💯Fat babies ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. The rolls on those babies are the best!
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Sounds like you’re in the early stages of dating and he’s pulling away. Are you questioning if it has anything to do with you?

We are just friends. Early stages of friendship. He is in a relationship. I am part of the stress because he said he was stressed about the friendship. When I say friendship, no, nothing sexual. I was debating if it was even worth having if he was going to be stressed.

Why is he stressed about your friendship? Is it affecting his relationship with his girlfriend?

You wrote a forum about him so that tells me you care about him deeply. I don’t know. Just be careful with your heart.

We have talked we agree we get along well and there is attraction. I believe the guilt is coming from that. I do care about him and as far as I know it hasn’t, but I also don’t want it to.

Well if he’s feeling guilty about it, then maybe him pulling away is his way to respect his relationship with his gf. Honestly that’s admirable. Even tho it’s not good for your friendship… but his gf is his priority. Good luck! Hope it all works out!

Makes sense. I told him if we needed to end our friendship that I would understand and to let me know if that’s what he wanted. He just said we would talk later and said nothing about it again.
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Oh gotcha. Well then let him bring it up if and when he’s ready to have that conversation with you. What’s meant to be will happen. Seems like you’ve done absolutely nothing wrong and have been respectful towards him.
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Everyone saying force feed them 🥴 I’m imagining trying this with my brother and it would not go down well. He eats super clean, intermittent fasting.

I never said force feed… who said that? I don’t remember reading that 👀.

But, I definitely shared anecdotes from all the Taurus I know, just as you are doing now. We all share what we know and have experienced.

Although I will admit, a good 20% are actually very picky about food… having to eat really clean, sensitive stomach. They still strongly react to their food though, in a way that stands out to me compared to others of other sun signs🤔🤔

He was never the fat kid either, that was me 😊 came out the womb with a double chin.

Best I could do is offer to join him on his long walks but even that is a toss up depending on his mood. Dude loves his solitude!

Awwww, fat babies are the cutest though!!! They are the best to hold and have on you. I absolutely LOOOOVE fat babies!!! I’m sure you were adorable.

Yeah, the two that I dated (and other romantic connection) were also slender. Tall and slender.

I wasn’t insinuating that loud reaction and excitement to food equated they are fat. But I’m starting to wonder if that is how it is being taken 🤔🤔.
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Naw your fine. I write in a sarcastic way.

I really think other Venus placements deserve the fat kid stereotype. I would be morbidly obese if I didn’t exercise so much. Love me some food, taur ven
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i think it really depends on where your relationship is at.

casual? yeah food helps but not really. it's a nice thought and they'll appreciate your kindness but just give them time to sort things out. they'll come back round when they are ready

more than casual? sex is good. it's definitely a way to distract them for a bit before the clouds descend again.

serious? lighten the load. make them smile. be a listening ear. make sure they feel cared for and be their reliable friend and soft spot to land. if you are close enough they will let you in to do all of these things, otherwise, it's a pretty closed shop until they sort out their own burden.

It’s a casual friendship. Nothing physical has ever happened nor will it. He is in a relationship.
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ah, ok. i think the best thing for you to support is not to add to the drama. be consistent. be reliable in your behaviour. that stuff goes a long way.