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Posted by xyzabc
Leo moon here and an empty 7th house. Never married and I’ll be 42 this year. 😬 I desire to find the one very much, but idk if they exist anymore. 🤷🏼♀️

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by SassyKiwi
I used to be interested in researching marriage indicators and stuff but it all ultimately ends up being some kind of confirmation bias at the end.
I have an empty 7th house (House of Partnerships, marriage house) which just means it’s pretty neutral in being focused in my life. My 7th house is in Gemini. The ruler of Gemini is mercury which is in my 3rd house (House of Communication, rules short distances/immediate environment). So the ruler of my 7th house is in my 3rd house. I ended up marrying someone who had always lived less than 25 mins away from me. I honestly thought I’d never end up with someone locally. Check out which house your 7th house ruler is in!
Sagittarius is in my 7th house. Ruler of Sagittarius is Jupiter.
Jupiter is in my 2nd house. What could all this possibly mean for me/my soulmate?
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The ruler of your 7th house (House of Partnerships, marriage house) in your 2nd house (House of Possessions, money)… a rich husband could be on the horizon! 😄click to expand

Posted by SagicornPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by SagicornPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by AquaClassySame here girl. Same here 😵💫
Im not married and never was because marriage scares me
Is it an air sign thing? Air sun and fire moon?
Its not. Almost all Aquas and all Geminis that I know are married. There are a few Libras tho who aren't and one Gemini with Leo Moon. Another one with same Moon is married.
To answer your question, Saturn in 7th house can mean delayed marriage or maybe even no marriage
Ah, that’s good to know. Like I said, it’s not all up to the astrology. Who knows what determines it at the end? Maybe something random or sheer luck?
I have Neptune in 7th and Saturn in 4th.
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Well maybe having Saturn there could lead potentially to the same outcome since 4th is house of home and family. Maybe because those values are important to you and you feel strongly about them (as placement suggest) you tend to be picky about people who you'll share them with. Neptune in 7th I guess just gives you false image of others often so again one of the things you might find hard to process. I know there are some specific transits you can check for and calculate when you can potentially expect marriage but I can't remember how that works. Also if you know about Arabic lots, there is arabic lot of marriage that you can calculate on some sites. When that point is activated by favorable transits on your chart you can expect marriage.click to expand


Posted by SagicornPosted by SassyKiwi
I used to be interested in researching marriage indicators and stuff but it all ultimately ends up being some kind of confirmation bias at the end.
I have an empty 7th house (House of Partnerships, marriage house) which just means it’s pretty neutral in being focused in my life. My 7th house is in Gemini. The ruler of Gemini is mercury which is in my 3rd house (House of Communication, rules short distances/immediate environment). So the ruler of my 7th house is in my 3rd house. I ended up marrying someone who had always lived less than 25 mins away from me. I honestly thought I’d never end up with someone locally. Check out which house your 7th house ruler is in!
Ruler of 7th house in 9th house would mean...someone from foreign lands?! It's strange that when younger I was strongly against that but my opinion changed over time. Still, never been with someone who lives far away 😅
But on the other hand, my 7th house is in Virgo, and I've always been a magnet for Virgos, be it as friends or love interests. So not sure how much its ruler even matters in this case...my bf is a Virgo but since he's born close to Leo and I'm born close to Cap our Suns form trine instead of squareclick to expand

Posted by AquaClassy
Im not married and never was because marriage scares me


Posted by aquarius09
Also, I don’t ever wanna get married. I want a relationship from far away where we get together, have dun and then off we go our separate ways until next time. I really enjoy my solitude and not having to deal with insecurities of a man (never met a secure man sadly
Posted by xyzabc
Leo moon here and an empty 7th house. Never married and I’ll be 42 this year. 😬 I desire to find the one very much, but idk if they exist anymore. 🤷🏼♀️

Posted by VenusStellium7Posted by xyzabc
Leo moon here and an empty 7th house. Never married and I’ll be 42 this year. 😬 I desire to find the one very much, but idk if they exist anymore. 🤷🏼♀️
What does your entire chart look like? I can look for a good chart pairing for you.click to expand
Posted by xyzabcPosted by VenusStellium7Posted by xyzabc
Leo moon here and an empty 7th house. Never married and I’ll be 42 this year. 😬 I desire to find the one very much, but idk if they exist anymore. 🤷🏼♀️
What does your entire chart look like? I can look for a good chart pairing for you.
Sun Scorpio 14°42'
Moon Leo 3°44'
Mercury Scorpio 7°14'
Venus Scorpio 15°33'
Mars Capricorn 4°52'
Jupiter Scorpio 19°31'
Saturn Libra 27°32'
Uranus Sagittarius 3°41'
Neptune Sagittarius 25°18'
Pluto Libra 27°35'
Lilith Capricorn 15°31'
N Node Cancer 5°16'
I ASC Libra 28°17'
II Scorpio 26°54'
III Sagittarius 28°08'
IV Aquarius 1°09'
V Pisces 3°40'
VI Aries 3°06'
VII Aries 28°17'
VIII Taurus 26°54'
IX Gemini 28°08'
X MC Leo 1°09'
XI Virgo 3°40'
XII Libra 3°06'
Sun in I ASC
Moon in X MC
Mercury in I ASC
Venus in I ASC
Mars in III
Jupiter in I ASC
Saturn in XII
Uranus in II
Neptune in II
Pluto in XII
Lilith in III
N Node in IXclick to expand

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by aquarius09
Also, I don’t ever wanna get married. I want a relationship from far away where we get together, have dun and then off we go our separate ways until next time. I really enjoy my solitude and not having to deal with insecurities of a man (never met a secure man sadly
I know a married couple who lives in different states. They are both attorneys, so sometimes they travel a lot anyway. They seem content.click to expand

Posted by VenusStellium7Posted by xyzabcPosted by VenusStellium7Posted by xyzabc
Leo moon here and an empty 7th house. Never married and I’ll be 42 this year. 😬 I desire to find the one very much, but idk if they exist anymore. 🤷🏼♀️
What does your entire chart look like? I can look for a good chart pairing for you.
Sun Scorpio 14°42'
Moon Leo 3°44'
Mercury Scorpio 7°14'
Venus Scorpio 15°33'
Mars Capricorn 4°52'
Jupiter Scorpio 19°31'
Saturn Libra 27°32'
Uranus Sagittarius 3°41'
Neptune Sagittarius 25°18'
Pluto Libra 27°35'
Lilith Capricorn 15°31'
N Node Cancer 5°16'
I ASC Libra 28°17'
II Scorpio 26°54'
III Sagittarius 28°08'
IV Aquarius 1°09'
V Pisces 3°40'
VI Aries 3°06'
VII Aries 28°17'
VIII Taurus 26°54'
IX Gemini 28°08'
X MC Leo 1°09'
XI Virgo 3°40'
XII Libra 3°06'
Sun in I ASC
Moon in X MC
Mercury in I ASC
Venus in I ASC
Mars in III
Jupiter in I ASC
Saturn in XII
Uranus in II
Neptune in II
Pluto in XII
Lilith in III
N Node in IX
Are you a female or male? I don't really know......... but you have a Scorpio stellium with Mars and Lilith in Capricorn, a lot of hoe-ing tendencies-like placements you have. Add to that the immaturity of the Moon in Leo, fire which burns but blows out just as quick as it came. Your type will be an individual with a Scorpio ascendant because it will conjunct your Venus in Scorpio. Wow, you were born in the Pluto in Libra generation which indicates you are definitely in your 40s. But don't worry I'm not far away from 40 either. I'll admit, I am not familiar with Sun in Ascendant or Mercury in Ascendant but I am familiar with Venus in Ascendant. Interesting placements. I will look into it.click to expand

Posted by VenusStellium7
I don't see Geminis getting married unless it's with another Gemini, a Libra, an Aquarius or a Sagittarius. That's the only pairings I've seen be successful. If she has too many masculine placements, she will get married but will divorce faster than Nascar race cars.

Posted by aquarius09Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by aquarius09
Also, I don’t ever wanna get married. I want a relationship from far away where we get together, have dun and then off we go our separate ways until next time. I really enjoy my solitude and not having to deal with insecurities of a man (never met a secure man sadly
I know a married couple who lives in different states. They are both attorneys, so sometimes they travel a lot anyway. They seem content.
Different states is a bit much for my likes. Can’t open myself up to swindling or deception.
Hard to know what someone’s up to when they are far.click to expand

Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by MyStarsShine
Uranus in 7th maybe?
I have this 😭 😆click to expand

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by aquarius09Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by aquarius09
Also, I don’t ever wanna get married. I want a relationship from far away where we get together, have dun and then off we go our separate ways until next time. I really enjoy my solitude and not having to deal with insecurities of a man (never met a secure man sadly
I know a married couple who lives in different states. They are both attorneys, so sometimes they travel a lot anyway. They seem content.
Different states is a bit much for my likes. Can’t open myself up to swindling or deception.
Hard to know what someone’s up to when they are far.
Maybe 2 houses but same city? lol 😝click to expand

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by AquaClassy
Im not married and never was because marriage scares me
Same here girl. Same here 😵💫
Is it an air sign thing? Air sun and fire moon?click to expand

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by aquarius09Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by aquarius09
Also, I don’t ever wanna get married. I want a relationship from far away where we get together, have dun and then off we go our separate ways until next time. I really enjoy my solitude and not having to deal with insecurities of a man (never met a secure man sadly
I know a married couple who lives in different states. They are both attorneys, so sometimes they travel a lot anyway. They seem content.
Different states is a bit much for my likes. Can’t open myself up to swindling or deception.
Hard to know what someone’s up to when they are far.
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Maybe 2 houses but same city? lol 😝click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7
I don't see Geminis getting married unless it's with another Gemini, a Libra, an Aquarius or a Sagittarius. That's the only pairings I've seen be successful. If she has too many masculine placements, she will get married but will divorce faster than Nascar race cars.
I know some Geminis who are happily married and in long marriages..
It’s entirely individual. Astrology shows tendencies but nothing is absolute except death and taxes.
At this point I’m open even to earth signs and maybe even a Scorpio. I think marriage is worth trying at least.click to expand

Posted by VenusStellium7Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7
I don't see Geminis getting married unless it's with another Gemini, a Libra, an Aquarius or a Sagittarius. That's the only pairings I've seen be successful. If she has too many masculine placements, she will get married but will divorce faster than Nascar race cars.
I know some Geminis who are happily married and in long marriages..
It’s entirely individual. Astrology shows tendencies but nothing is absolute except death and taxes.
At this point I’m open even to earth signs and maybe even a Scorpio. I think marriage is worth trying at least.
Like I said, it depends the chart of the female and the male. Also, how they were brought up is a factor. You are a Gemini with Moon in Leo, I wish I could take your word for it but I don't believe you at all when you say that. You see, your actions will speak, not your words. You will find a guy that you think you will get married to, but then you will fall into temptation to chase that attention. It is in your nature because of that Moon in Leo is strong in you. You can try to say otherwise, but I know the truth. I am not being an A-hole, I am simply pointing things out as they are. I know a Libra woman that had her Moon and Mars in Leo, I saw her eyes light up with excitement when she locked eyes with me. It's that young passionate firey dilated look that Moon in Leo women emit in their eyes.click to expand

Posted by SagicornPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7
I don't see Geminis getting married unless it's with another Gemini, a Libra, an Aquarius or a Sagittarius. That's the only pairings I've seen be successful. If she has too many masculine placements, she will get married but will divorce faster than Nascar race cars.
I know some Geminis who are happily married and in long marriages..
It’s entirely individual. Astrology shows tendencies but nothing is absolute except death and taxes.
At this point I’m open even to earth signs and maybe even a Scorpio. I think marriage is worth trying at least.
I have two Gemini friends with Leo Moon. One that isn't married has Cancer Venus and Cap Mars. The other has also Venus and Mars in Leo and is married to a Sag. Imo best match for Gemini is Aqua, Aries, Leo, another Gemini or Sag. Aqua and Sag will drive you crazy but keep you on your toes...which is kind of what every Gemini falls hard for. You all have soft spot for Scorpio but it's ALWAYS a horrible match. I also have a Gemini friend married to a Scorpio and that's one hell of a rocky marriage. They live apart more than they live together and when they do live together he drives her crazy. Earth signs are also not your match because - you drive THEM crazy and it almost never lasts long. I know you live the idea of stability that comes with Earth signs but keep in mind that's exactly what they are looking for the other person to offer. And Geminis rarely ever offer that. While Sag and Taurus are also a horrible match, I see these two paired quite often and it somehow works mainly because Sag bends in Tauruses ways, but Geminis are never willing to bend that much.click to expand

Posted by TimonePosted by borednbeautifulPosted by aquarius09Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by aquarius09
Also, I don’t ever wanna get married. I want a relationship from far away where we get together, have dun and then off we go our separate ways until next time. I really enjoy my solitude and not having to deal with insecurities of a man (never met a secure man sadly
I know a married couple who lives in different states. They are both attorneys, so sometimes they travel a lot anyway. They seem content.
Different states is a bit much for my likes. Can’t open myself up to swindling or deception.
Hard to know what someone’s up to when they are far.
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Maybe 2 houses but same city? lol 😝
I would like to be neighbours. When I've had enough and want my own space I would just go home and it will take me seconds. 😂click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7
I don't see Geminis getting married unless it's with another Gemini, a Libra, an Aquarius or a Sagittarius. That's the only pairings I've seen be successful. If she has too many masculine placements, she will get married but will divorce faster than Nascar race cars.
I know some Geminis who are happily married and in long marriages..
It’s entirely individual. Astrology shows tendencies but nothing is absolute except death and taxes.
At this point I’m open even to earth signs and maybe even a Scorpio. I think marriage is worth trying at least.
Like I said, it depends the chart of the female and the male. Also, how they were brought up is a factor. You are a Gemini with Moon in Leo, I wish I could take your word for it but I don't believe you at all when you say that. You see, your actions will speak, not your words. You will find a guy that you think you will get married to, but then you will fall into temptation to chase that attention. It is in your nature because of that Moon in Leo is strong in you. You can try to say otherwise, but I know the truth. I am not being an A-hole, I am simply pointing things out as they are. I know a Libra woman that had her Moon and Mars in Leo, I saw her eyes light up with excitement when she locked eyes with me. It's that young passionate firey dilated look that Moon in Leo women emit in their eyes.
Don’t tell me you had sex with that libra woman?
It sounds like you should stay away from Leo moon females my friend.click to expand
Posted by borednbeautiful
I’ve been thinking..
I know at least 3-4 women who are not married and they are well over a certain marriage age.
Aries
Virgo
2 Capricorns
I’m not sure about their aspects or other planets, but 2 of them have a Leo moon.
And then I know a Taurus, Scorpio and Cancer woman who got married to guys they’ve been dating relatively shortly.
Anyways, I’m sure it is not all astrology related. Some things are up to us. Marriage is hard work
which is why I avoid it sorta kinda 😂 🤭


Posted by VenusStellium7Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7
I don't see Geminis getting married unless it's with another Gemini, a Libra, an Aquarius or a Sagittarius. That's the only pairings I've seen be successful. If she has too many masculine placements, she will get married but will divorce faster than Nascar race cars.
I know some Geminis who are happily married and in long marriages..
It’s entirely individual. Astrology shows tendencies but nothing is absolute except death and taxes.
At this point I’m open even to earth signs and maybe even a Scorpio. I think marriage is worth trying at least.
Like I said, it depends the chart of the female and the male. Also, how they were brought up is a factor. You are a Gemini with Moon in Leo, I wish I could take your word for it but I don't believe you at all when you say that. You see, your actions will speak, not your words. You will find a guy that you think you will get married to, but then you will fall into temptation to chase that attention. It is in your nature because of that Moon in Leo is strong in you. You can try to say otherwise, but I know the truth. I am not being an A-hole, I am simply pointing things out as they are. I know a Libra woman that had her Moon and Mars in Leo, I saw her eyes light up with excitement when she locked eyes with me. It's that young passionate firey dilated look that Moon in Leo women emit in their eyes.
Don’t tell me you had sex with that libra woman?
It sounds like you should stay away from Leo moon females my friend.
Nope, she gave me 3 chances and I still purposely sabotaged it. I never had any interest. My picky Venus in Virgo just wouldn't allow it. So what's the update on your love life boredy? Last I checked, you were going on about your Leo ex. What happened to him?click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7
I don't see Geminis getting married unless it's with another Gemini, a Libra, an Aquarius or a Sagittarius. That's the only pairings I've seen be successful. If she has too many masculine placements, she will get married but will divorce faster than Nascar race cars.
I know some Geminis who are happily married and in long marriages..
It’s entirely individual. Astrology shows tendencies but nothing is absolute except death and taxes.
At this point I’m open even to earth signs and maybe even a Scorpio. I think marriage is worth trying at least.
Like I said, it depends the chart of the female and the male. Also, how they were brought up is a factor. You are a Gemini with Moon in Leo, I wish I could take your word for it but I don't believe you at all when you say that. You see, your actions will speak, not your words. You will find a guy that you think you will get married to, but then you will fall into temptation to chase that attention. It is in your nature because of that Moon in Leo is strong in you. You can try to say otherwise, but I know the truth. I am not being an A-hole, I am simply pointing things out as they are. I know a Libra woman that had her Moon and Mars in Leo, I saw her eyes light up with excitement when she locked eyes with me. It's that young passionate firey dilated look that Moon in Leo women emit in their eyes.
Don’t tell me you had sex with that libra woman?
It sounds like you should stay away from Leo moon females my friend.
Nope, she gave me 3 chances and I still purposely sabotaged it. I never had any interest. My picky Venus in Virgo just wouldn't allow it. So what's the update on your love life boredy? Last I checked, you were going on about your Leo ex. What happened to him?
Well what happened is that I fell out of love with Leo and fell for an Aries guy.
And before you criticize me, Leo had plentyyyy of chances with me. He had years to make it right!
Okay, even if some of it was my own fault or whatever, perhaps it just wasn’t meant to be.
Aries is a complicated lone-wolf who is a troublemaker with lots of issues. When did you know an Aries who is a totally good guy? They all bad boys a bit. Just how I like it.
And he has a Scorpio rising which makes him brooding.
But I don’t think it’s gonna last between us, tbh. He told me Scorpio women are his ideal (maybe due to his ascendant).click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by VenusStellium7
I don't see Geminis getting married unless it's with another Gemini, a Libra, an Aquarius or a Sagittarius. That's the only pairings I've seen be successful. If she has too many masculine placements, she will get married but will divorce faster than Nascar race cars.
I know some Geminis who are happily married and in long marriages..
It’s entirely individual. Astrology shows tendencies but nothing is absolute except death and taxes.
At this point I’m open even to earth signs and maybe even a Scorpio. I think marriage is worth trying at least.
Like I said, it depends the chart of the female and the male. Also, how they were brought up is a factor. You are a Gemini with Moon in Leo, I wish I could take your word for it but I don't believe you at all when you say that. You see, your actions will speak, not your words. You will find a guy that you think you will get married to, but then you will fall into temptation to chase that attention. It is in your nature because of that Moon in Leo is strong in you. You can try to say otherwise, but I know the truth. I am not being an A-hole, I am simply pointing things out as they are. I know a Libra woman that had her Moon and Mars in Leo, I saw her eyes light up with excitement when she locked eyes with me. It's that young passionate firey dilated look that Moon in Leo women emit in their eyes.
Don’t tell me you had sex with that libra woman?
It sounds like you should stay away from Leo moon females my friend.
Nope, she gave me 3 chances and I still purposely sabotaged it. I never had any interest. My picky Venus in Virgo just wouldn't allow it. So what's the update on your love life boredy? Last I checked, you were going on about your Leo ex. What happened to him?
Well what happened is that I fell out of love with Leo and fell for an Aries guy.
And before you criticize me, Leo had plentyyyy of chances with me. He had years to make it right!
Okay, even if some of it was my own fault or whatever, perhaps it just wasn’t meant to be.
Aries is a complicated lone-wolf who is a troublemaker with lots of issues. When did you know an Aries who is a totally good guy? They all bad boys a bit. Just how I like it.
And he has a Scorpio rising which makes him brooding.
But I don’t think it’s gonna last between us, tbh. He told me Scorpio women are his ideal (maybe due to his ascendant).click to expand



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The ruler of your 7th house (House of Partnerships, marriage house) in your 2nd house (House of Possessions, money)… a rich husband could be on the horizon! 😄