Pluto: Sexual Obsession

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i think i've finally found an answer to my sexual obsession with the Virgo moon-Gemini stellium and why i always get with Gem moons/placements all the time in general.

"The placement of Pluto in the natal chart acts like a 'black hole' that needs to be urgently filled. The third house Plutonian native is very skeptical and suspicious regarding information that he hears or reads. His experience has taught him to question everything, even his own thoughts. The natural ruler of this house is Gemini and the ruling planet of this sign is Mercury."

what house is your Pluto in? and did you notice a pattern in your relationships or your obsessions?
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Posted by LethalFantasia

1st

i also have moon there though so it gives things a pretty cool vibe imo

but ya, obsessions, not really sexual, although an extremely sexual placement, i think pluto in the 1st has a big chunk to do with other people's sexuality, obsessions, dark side, etc either being bought to this placement or like /energetically thrown onto you

it's so weird & hard to explain

lolz x


are you obsessed with 1H matters?
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3H Scorpio



"It relates to the sign of Gemini on a more personal, physical level, and speaks of the insides of our mind. The main thing its positioning describes is the way one thinks and the processes in our heads that lead us in a certain direction. As such, it is extremely important in personal chart analysis, for it gives us the information on a person’s state of mind, just like the first house speaks of the state of one’s body, or the fourth the state of emotions and heart."

"You’re most interested in the subtext of information, instead of what’s on the surface. So, your learning process is investigative, figuring out what’s being left unsaid or unrevealed. You teach people to not think superficially and to hone their detective skills. But, if you go too far, you express a flip side that’s highly paranoid, though you can often take this paranoia as fact. It’s a destructive and also hypocritical mentality, as you’re prone to not exposing much of your own subtext."

"You have a very intense relationship with at least one sibling. It can be love-hate, tumultuous, or obsessively close. You sense a power within them that you strive to investigate, especially since they find that power through some sort of trauma, like abuse, self-destruction, or death. As an only child, you’ll be that mystery child, forcing the other kids to figure you out. Now, you’re very private with your neighbors. And if they gossip about you behind your back, you’ll quickly cut them off."

haha my love for mysteries and my obsessive thoughts
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In the second. No attraction to Taurus sun or moon at all.

I was obsessed with getting into a position of financial stability for a big chunk of my life but with time I realized that this isn't want I reall want nor need. On top it tends to lead to it's own kind of abstract slavery.

so past obsession with 2H matters

Not sure. My self-imposed exile might just be way to run away from it and once I return from exile it might come back in full force or worse.
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embrace the greed

me having 3H Scorpio explains my obsessions with whodunits and falling asleep to scary stories on YT

very relaxing for me now
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Libra Pluto in the 11 house pretty close to the cusp of my Scorp 12 house

Maybe when younger I tried to obsessively control friends in a way? Idk. But the fear of losing friends was definitely real...when I felt that it was heading in that direction...I'd sabotage the friendship. Like try and piss them off so they hate me etc...made it easier to deal with the inevitable loss. I do take friendships very serious (my Pluto conjuncts my Scorp Saturn) and will hang on to the very significant ones by any means necessary but the older I get...I just try and let things play out the way they should which usually ends in a loss anyway. Honestly....all my former friendships are really no more 🤷.

I would say that some friendships have definitely ended up being sexual relationships which adds to things becoming messy and ending forever. Is it what it is tho 🤷
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In the second. No attraction to Taurus sun or moon at all.

I was obsessed with getting into a position of financial stability for a big chunk of my life but with time I realized that this isn't want I reall want nor need. On top it tends to lead to it's own kind of abstract slavery.

so past obsession with 2H matters

Not sure. My self-imposed exile might just be way to run away from it and once I return from exile it might come back in full force or worse.

embrace the greed

me having 3H Scorpio explains my obsessions with whodunits and falling asleep to scary stories on YT

very relaxing for me now

Are you saying I should go full Sag moon?
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yuck but if it's who you areeee
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Posted by bumboklatt

2nd house in scorpio

Yeah kinda obsessed although not as much as before


My second house is in Scorpio too and my Venus sits there. I love obsession and stating stuff is mine lol I like how powerful the obsession feels.

Pluto aspects work well with me.

So your Moon is in your second house then too?

Your a little Aqua that's crazy jealous and possessive huh? 😆

I don't think I realized what your second house was.
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Libra Pluto in the 11 house pretty close to the cusp of my Scorp 12 house

Maybe when younger I tried to obsessively control friends in a way? Idk. But the fear of losing friends was definitely real...when I felt that it was heading in that direction...I'd sabotage the friendship. Like try and piss them off so they hate me etc...made it easier to deal with the inevitable loss. I do take friendships very serious (my Pluto conjuncts my Scorp Saturn) and will hang on to the very significant ones by any means necessary but the older I get...I just try and let things play out the way they should which usually ends in a loss anyway. Honestly....all my former friendships are really no more 🤷.

I would say that some friendships have definitely ended up being sexual relationships which adds to things becoming messy and ending forever. Is it what it is tho 🤷


You don't think that has to do with your moon? Leo moons need stuff to go their way a lot of the time and will cut people right out who don't conform. There is so much pride with this placement. Most Leo moons I know are super charismatic and can get friends quickly but they also will lose them because of pride and being hurt by their friends.

I get a long with them great, but I think it's many easy going nature and how nurturing I am for them and I am a people pleaser and don't mind them being controlling. They don't seem to mind when I say no to things when they push too far either. I don't do stuff that hurts their feelings and if I see it does, I fix it right away.
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2nd house in scorpio

Yeah kinda obsessed although not as much as before

My second house is in Scorpio too and my Venus sits there. I love obsession and stating stuff is mine lol I like how powerful the obsession feels.

Pluto aspects work well with me.

So your Moon is in your second house then too?

Your a little Aqua that's crazy jealous and possessive huh? 😆

I don't think I realized what your second house was.

Yeah dont tell nobody tho
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Pluto in the 3rd. I do have obsessive thoughts, it can become unbearable

how do you feel about gems?

I don’t know many, but the ones I know I like. I had a huge crush on one and dreamt of him for years and I still do occasionally. I’m pretty sure it was his taurus moon though
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god what is with that sun-moon thing?

i'm a virgo sun obsessed with a virgo moon

it's all i think about
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Pluto in the 6th. Obsessed with supplements and dieting.

I wish I had this obsession 😭 as long as it's safe and doesn't lead to bulimia/anorexia

Lmao. We both have traits that we want from each other. Let's switch for a week or two 😂😂😂.
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Let's just merge and learn from each other, It's so much easier! 😆
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Pluto in the 6th. Obsessed with supplements and dieting.

I wish I had this obsession 😭 as long as it's safe and doesn't lead to bulimia/anorexia

Lmao. We both have traits that we want from each other. Let's switch for a week or two 😂😂😂.

Let's just merge and learn from each other, It's so much easier! 😆

Spoken like a true Scorpio Venus.
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Libra Pluto in the 11 house pretty close to the cusp of my Scorp 12 house

Maybe when younger I tried to obsessively control friends in a way? Idk. But the fear of losing friends was definitely real...when I felt that it was heading in that direction...I'd sabotage the friendship. Like try and piss them off so they hate me etc...made it easier to deal with the inevitable loss. I do take friendships very serious (my Pluto conjuncts my Scorp Saturn) and will hang on to the very significant ones by any means necessary but the older I get...I just try and let things play out the way they should which usually ends in a loss anyway. Honestly....all my former friendships are really no more 🤷.

I would say that some friendships have definitely ended up being sexual relationships which adds to things becoming messy and ending forever. Is it what it is tho 🤷

You don't think that has to do with your moon? Leo moons need stuff to go their way a lot of the time and will cut people right out who don't conform. There is so much pride with this placement. Most Leo moons I know are super charismatic and can get friends quickly but they also will lose them because of pride and being hurt by their friends.

I get a long with them great, but I think it's many easy going nature and how nurturing I am for them and I am a people pleaser and don't mind them being controlling. They don't seem to mind when I say no to things when they push too far either. I don't do stuff that hurts their feelings and if I see it does, I fix it right away.
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It probably does have a little to do with it too 😂

But just like the sun's...I think maturity helps. I know when younger it didn't take much to hurt my pride and now I tolerate a lot more than I probably should but I think that goes hand and hand with the Pluto in the 11 house. I can't do superficial relationships or acquaintances...my circle is small...so when I find someone on the same level or same sense of humor as me.. I'd like to hang onto it....it's a rarity for me.