Question about sex & attachment

How cum people get attached to those they fuck.

Opposed to not becoming so attached to those you don’t fuck

What the Fuck does that have to with attachments effects!

Sex is putting your entire self out on the table, the nature of it is obviously vulnerable. That is often why women mostly have emotional baggage from relationships. It doesn’t seem to affect men as hard. That’s why I wanted to be with someone who also saved themselves for marriage. Did not want to deal with all that emotional & physical bullshit over and over again with every new person in my life.

I know this feeling.

I'm turning 37 and I have days where I just wanna be a MILF/Puma and have fun with a 25 y/o hottie but that won't work out if I get attached to the dude. If anyone has broken this attachment-after-sex shit, give me some pointers.

Depends on what happens before and after sex. If there is talking and intimacy then thats how it happens..



Or one person is either bad shit crazy or a narcissistic manipulator.

If sex is good and you’re attracted to that person on multiple levels, you gonna get attached. Be careful if you catch yourself fantasizing about “what if and it would be nice if…”; you gonna have expectations and gonna hurt when they’re broken.

Then there is also bonding hormones and the fact that women are more open and vulnerable.

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Posted by Mutya

I know this feeling.

I'm turning 37 and I have days where I just wanna be a MILF/Puma and have fun with a 25 y/o hottie but that won't work out if I get attached to the dude. If anyone has broken this attachment-after-sex shit, give me some pointers.

It's also a Taurus moon thing maybe?

You need time to get used to them emotionally

You need time to get rid of them emotionally

At least this is how it is to me.

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Yeah that's how it is for me. The most recent ex said I'm "skittish" and he said it "amuses him"

Posted by Midnite_Riser

Posted by Mutya

I know this feeling.

I'm turning 37 and I have days where I just wanna be a MILF/Puma and have fun with a 25 y/o hottie but that won't work out if I get attached to the dude. If anyone has broken this attachment-after-sex shit, give me some pointers.

I would easily get you attatched to me. I am also a Libra Sun with Moon in Taurus also with a Venus and Mars in Virgo but I have my Lilith in Taurus

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Dude, now you're just too full of yourself. Move along.

Hot steamy wanna-bite-you Scorp love messes with your mind and hormones, especially the anticipation of such a thing keeps you tingling in silly places for days to come

Could have to do with the ones who think love equals sex.

I don’t get attached with just sex.

Sex is sex and love is love.

On a mental level after sex a bit of them will be forever inside of you, or a bit of you forever inside of them. I don't really believe in religion, but feel like they were on to something with not having sex/ kids until marriage. Trapping bits of people forever inside of you, or you inside them is pretty dark and sinister by nature.

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On a mental level after sex a bit of them will be forever inside of you, or a bit of you forever inside of them. I don't really believe in religion, but feel like they were on to something with not having sex/ kids until marriage. Trapping bits of people forever inside of you, or you inside them is pretty dark and sinister by nature.

Does that apply to men and their sex count

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Posted by Soul

On a mental level after sex a bit of them will be forever inside of you, or a bit of you forever inside of them. I don't really believe in religion, but feel like they were on to something with not having sex/ kids until marriage. Trapping bits of people forever inside of you, or you inside them is pretty dark and sinister by nature.

Does that apply to men and their sex count

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I'm not really sure. I wrote this out from the perspective of men and women equally. I can see how that seems bias since I'm a man, but belive women have the same effect in men as men do in women. This also can happen in men with other men, or women with other women too.

@Soul - my my, did you mellow out a bit? Coz last time I've seen you I remember you were tearing into someone for not being upto your standards!

You do seem to have come out of your shell Mr. ScorpioMoon

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Posted by Mutya

I know this feeling.

I'm turning 37 and I have days where I just wanna be a MILF/Puma and have fun with a 25 y/o hottie but that won't work out if I get attached to the dude. If anyone has broken this attachment-after-sex shit, give me some pointers.

I would easily get you attatched to me. I am also a Libra Sun with Moon in Taurus also with a Venus and Mars in Virgo but I have my Lilith in Taurus

Dude, now you're just too full of yourself. Move along.

Don't be offended

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Don't worry, I'm not offended at all. It's very clear you're insecure. Your bragging on these boards about how attractive you are and how ALL women love you is you trying to convince yourself that you're good enough. Someone needed to call you out and bring you back down to earth.

Again, move along.

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Posted by Midnite_Riser

Posted by Mutya

I know this feeling.

I'm turning 37 and I have days where I just wanna be a MILF/Puma and have fun with a 25 y/o hottie but that won't work out if I get attached to the dude. If anyone has broken this attachment-after-sex shit, give me some pointers.

I would easily get you attatched to me. I am also a Libra Sun with Moon in Taurus also with a Venus and Mars in Virgo but I have my Lilith in Taurus

Dude, now you're just too full of yourself. Move along.

Don't be offended

Don't worry, I'm not offended at all. It's very clear you're insecure. Your bragging on these boards about how attractive you are and how ALL women love you is you trying to convince yourself that you're good enough. Someone needed to call you out and bring you back down to earth.

Again, move along.

Never claimed that that all women love me, that is a false assumption that's coming from you. I just said a lot of women (not all) like what they see physically and personality-wise too. I do not need to prove myself to anyone. I am just very confident in myself and there is nothing wrong with that.

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All your posts on here have done nothing but make you sound like a total unhinged, creep.