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I never cared about this shit but with Virgo I felt time will be tough and all we have is perfect is sex…

So I AM celebrating what you said would be a milestone of relationship - 3 months TODAY since we first fucked in Airport Hotel after he returned from business trip and I met him on the bed in heels with Mormon Book in my hands…as soon as he walked in I said Babe, this book said we can’t fuck unless we are married…He said - it’s 10pm - I am not waiting until tomorrow - get TA fuck rid of the book!

So it’s been 3 months of us living together and I am seriously concern because all the things we did until now when it’s cold and dark - it was too much fun! We still going out a lot and he is doing things for me and I reciprocate and all seems perfect. But here comes…HOWEVER…

He is not my average man I used to…even with Aries I could have it my way in everything except sex!

Virgo - I can have my way in sex BUT everything else…

Somebody just said in topic that everything with Virgo was hard and she wishes it wasn’t.

I am starting to feel it.

I can’t put my finger on what’s so hard…

I was thinking last night…he is set in his ways of being THE Boss! Even his daughter told me he is impossible…

I thought I WANTED MAN who will be My Boss and I see that I am NOT as submissive as I thought I wanted to be. And I tell him that.

He is very good to me. He takes care of me. I am feeling he knows what when and where and he will wake me up on time and made my lunch and dress me up and take me to work and feed me after work BUT he treats me as a child. Except we fuck! Everything else - I am a minor. And I always wanted to be. I was wrong.

And to TOP my dismay and confusion here is horoscope for TODAY:

The three zodiac signs need change in their love life during Venus in Capricorn on December 9, 2022:

1. Gemini

(May 21 - June 20)

You need a change in your love life because if you don't change something soon, you will both explode from frustration. You are good at expressing yourself, Gemini, and you've told your person that certain things in the relationship must be focused on.

You've dealt with their avoidance methods as you've seen that your mate is less inclined to change than you are. The helpful bit is that during Venus in Capricorn, you'll get on board with the idea of change; your partner included. Little did you know how good this could be.

Seeing your partner get involved is already new stuff for you, and you can now look forward to the two of you sharing more and more as time goes on. You've hit the 'fearless' section of the love affair. More power to you!

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I don’t want to go on searching for anybody anymore. I want to make it work. Can I? He doesn’t seem concern about anything and I am seething…his ‘problem’ is ‘where do you want to have dinner tonight’?

I WANT TO SCREAM!!! Then we have sex…🤦‍♀️
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Sounds about right. I would have told you three months ago to be careful, and that the trade off is that virgos that lavish you are super controlling.


Ok. I am fighting!

Last night I told him a lot of shit and he slept on the couch and I was sure we are done!

However he came up and hugged me and asked me where do I want to go for dinner like if I SAID NOTHING!!!

What TF ARE THEY—

And he is ‘good one’ with Sag moon that is ‘the least Virgish of them all’…

Are they fucking REAL—
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This all sound to me like this is only for sex. From you of course. Like why not just turn this thing between yall into a few night stands instead.

And about that meme. Let me clarify that I told you virgos are bossy. Meaning they are controlling. I see you're the type that's in it for sex and nothing much more seem to matter to you in relationships. Nothings wrong with wanting to be with virgos but just be prepared for what's to come with them. They are specifically for the earthy types or those who can handle them and put up with them.
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Sounds about right. I would have told you three months ago to be careful, and that the trade off is that virgos that lavish you are super controlling.



Ok. I am fighting!
Last night I told him a lot of shit and he slept on the couch and I was sure we are done!
However he came up and hugged me and asked me where do I want to go for dinner like if I SAID NOTHING!!!

What TF ARE THEY—
And he is ‘good one’ with Sag moon that is ‘the least Virgish of them all’…
Are they fucking REAL—
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Just explain to him calmly and as logically as you can what it is that you want. He's going to fucking hate it lol. Or if you just let him be the boss, he'll never leave. But I like when people bring it up to me that I'm controlling too much because a lot of the time, I don't even notice.
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I do explain it to him. All the time. He is waiting and asking me AGAIN about things that I already said NO to and this is driving me NUTS! I am flying off handles!!! I do not scream but I speak in tone of voice that I am myself finding unpleasant and I tell him SLOWLY and LOUDLY that HE WONT GET HIS WAY! And he becomes ‘what did I do?’ and hugging me and telling me to calm down and and saying that he had been alone so long that he forgot how to be in relashionship…and I BELIEVE HIM! He is a great man! And I might need one of those…I just never HAD. 🤷‍♀️
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They are controlling and you're starting to see and dislike it. For a mutable sign, they are too much into control. They do stuff to mitigate it, but somehow it always gets to be their way. Once I noticed how his mother said something and his sister confirming...like thank you for handling him all this time, he's so heavy. And i really felt that lol
Also let me tell you about my best friend Virgo who is married to a Virgo as well. She MADE him stay where they are now, despite the fact he had great job offer and his whole family is in another country...she refused to go and told him if he goes they're done for good. Now you may say...but he is also a Virgo and went with it...that would be cause she's very earthy Virgo and idk his placements but probably much more watery or fiery. Great sex and great relationship are two veru different things with them. They are heavy and great as f*ck buddies, I realized that long time ago that it was way much better when it was casual then when it became official.


Right on money! Casual was a bliss!

It was short though. His friend lived in the house and we dated and as soon as friend moved out because his wife relocated - and I came IN to the house - his question was ‘are you comfortable in my house?’ I said yes and he basically moved me in right away and because we living 15 min drive from each other I thought nothing about it but it happened that I NEVER LEAVE!

Well…I go home but never spend a night…

His wife was also Virgo and his daughter told me she was very chill with him. Always agreed but did it her way. He said the same.

And it worked for 27 years. She died but I think it would continue so there is a way. Just NEVERMIND Virgo right?

But you are a Sag and I am…you know…is this a problem right there?

Why The Virgo CAN be chill when her Virgo is being too much and NON-Virgo CANT chill and do whatever we want? Are we (air and fire) too emotionally disabled?
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He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.


I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…

I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!

And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!

Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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What does his chart look like? Does he have leo venus? He will control you for as long as you let him. Challenge him because virgos need to learn that they're aren't supposed to control other peoples decisions and lives. That its not love or respect haha. He will alligator death roll you to lock you in if you let him tati.


why do some people settle so comfortably in relationships where they give 90% control to their partner? like you try to urge them our of their isolation and be like: "hey persephone, you wanna go see your mom?"

and they're always like: "nah, i like it here."

but it's not like they even have a strained relationship with their family 🤔🤔
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What does his chart look like? Does he have leo venus? He will control you for as long as you let him. Challenge him because virgos need to learn that they're aren't supposed to control other peoples decisions and lives. That its not love or respect haha. He will alligator death roll you to lock you in if you let him tati.


Moon 2 A

Sagittarius 19° 3' in house 2

Mercury § -4 Libra 11°7' in house 11

Venus 7 M Scorpio 0°37' in house 12

Mars O' Ed Cancer 10° Il' in house 8

Jupiter 4 If Pisces 6° 47' in house 4

Saturn I hu Aquarius 5°34' in house 3

Uranus I MT Virgo 1°46 in house 10

Neptune $ M/ Scorpio 11° 16' in house 12

Pluto E TX Virgo 10° I' in house 10

Ascendant As 'M Scorpio 18°30' in house 1

Midheaven Mc dL Leo 29° 12' in house 10

Node True do 8l Leo go 19' in house 9

2 > Sagittarius 180 23' in house 2

3 18 Capricorn 23° 2' in house 3

4 FU Aquarius 29° 12' in house 4

5 M Aries 1°17' in house 5

6 ™ Aries 27° 17' in house 6
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Sounds about right. I would have told you three months ago to be careful, and that the trade off is that virgos that lavish you are super controlling.







Ok. I am fighting!
Last night I told him a lot of shit and he slept on the couch and I was sure we are done!
However he came up and hugged me and asked me where do I want to go for dinner like if I SAID NOTHING!!!

What TF ARE THEY—
And he is ‘good one’ with Sag moon that is ‘the least Virgish of them all’…
Are they fucking REAL—
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Just explain to him calmly and as logically as you can what it is that you want. He's going to fucking hate it lol. Or if you just let him be the boss, he'll never leave. But I like when people bring it up to me that I'm controlling too much because a lot of the time, I don't even notice.
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I do explain it to him. All the time. He is waiting and asking me AGAIN about things that I already said NO to and this is driving me NUTS! I am flying off handles!!! I do not scream but I speak in tone of voice that I am myself finding unpleasant and I tell him SLOWLY and LOUDLY that HE WONT GET HIS WAY! And he becomes ‘what did I do?’ and hugging me and telling me to calm down and and saying that he had been alone so long that he forgot how to be in relashionship…and I BELIEVE HIM! He is a great man! And I might need one of those…I just never HAD. 🤷‍♀️

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What is he asking for? Anal?
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No! That’s what I am asking for…😂😂😂

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What does his chart look like? Does he have leo venus? He will control you for as long as you let him. Challenge him because virgos need to learn that they're aren't supposed to control other peoples decisions and lives. That its not love or respect haha. He will alligator death roll you to lock you in if you let him tati.



why do some people settle so comfortably in relationships where they give 90% control to their partner? like you try to urge them our of their isolation and be like: "hey persephone, you wanna go see your mom?"

and they're always like: "nah, i like it here."

but it's not like they even have a strained relationship with their family 🤔🤔
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I really dont know but after reading this and @LadyNeptune 's response, I'm thinking it would have been easier to just date a pisces this whole time.
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man's moon opposite a woman's sun happens a lot

but it's usually just sexual but not much more from what i've seen
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What does his chart look like? Does he have leo venus? He will control you for as long as you let him. Challenge him because virgos need to learn that they're aren't supposed to control other peoples decisions and lives. That its not love or respect haha. He will alligator death roll you to lock you in if you let him tati.



why do some people settle so comfortably in relationships where they give 90% control to their partner? like you try to urge them our of their isolation and be like: "hey persephone, you wanna go see your mom?"

and they're always like: "nah, i like it here."

but it's not like they even have a strained relationship with their family 🤔🤔
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I really dont know but after reading this and @LadyNeptune 's response, I'm thinking it would have been easier to just date a pisces this whole time.
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You? Pisces?

Yesterday somebody posted that there aren’t decent Pisces born yet…🤷‍♀️
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What does his chart look like? Does he have leo venus? He will control you for as long as you let him. Challenge him because virgos need to learn that they're aren't supposed to control other peoples decisions and lives. That its not love or respect haha. He will alligator death roll you to lock you in if you let him tati.


why do some people settle so comfortably in relationships where they give 90% control to their partner? like you try to urge them our of their isolation and be like: "hey persephone, you wanna go see your mom?"

and they're always like: "nah, i like it here."

but it's not like they even have a strained relationship with their family 🤔🤔
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Wait. You are Virgo. And you are not controlling?

Are you referring to my post that I CAN go home but I hardly AM?

If that’s that - I might dramatized the situation…I might be overreacting.

NO he doesn’t have control! I am not giving it to him! I fight. I can see he doesn’t know what hat he is doing. So I tell. I always tell. I just wish he knew BEFORE he says shit like ‘I will make you eat salad because it’s good for you’ after I said I never liked salad!!!

I am NOT need alteration if me. I don’t! And he must take me as is…
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What does his chart look like? Does he have leo venus? He will control you for as long as you let him. Challenge him because virgos need to learn that they're aren't supposed to control other peoples decisions and lives. That its not love or respect haha. He will alligator death roll you to lock you in if you let him tati.



why do some people settle so comfortably in relationships where they give 90% control to their partner? like you try to urge them our of their isolation and be like: "hey persephone, you wanna go see your mom?"

and they're always like: "nah, i like it here."

but it's not like they even have a strained relationship with their family 🤔🤔
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Wait. You are Virgo. And you are not controlling?
Are you referring to my post that I CAN go home but I hardly AM?
If that’s that - I might dramatized the situation…I might be overreacting.
NO he doesn’t have control! I am not giving it to him! I fight. I can see he doesn’t know what hat he is doing. So I tell. I always tell. I just wish he knew BEFORE he says shit like ‘I will make you eat salad because it’s good for you’ after I said I never liked salad!!!
I am NOT need alteration if me. I don’t! And he must take me as is…
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maybe it's your moon doing that. i know a leo guy who was in the midst of a bankruptcy and it's not like i was trying to take over his life, i was just about to give him some advice that i'm not even OBLIGATED to do and most people are usually THANKFUL for. but nah, all i got is this dude telling me that i had no right to tell him what to do. it's such an overreaction.

but i guess his world must be crashing around him so he was distraught.

as for controling, i don't know. the guy i'm with loves pork and for a couple months that's what he likes to eat every day but tho i don't stop him, i do say it's unhealthy, so he transitioned to wanting chicken all the time now. so then, i got him into seafood coz he likes squid and fish. and now he only eats chicken occasionally (he loves KFC) but mostly into fish.

hey, if it made your life better 🤷🤷
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What does his chart look like? Does he have leo venus? He will control you for as long as you let him. Challenge him because virgos need to learn that they're aren't supposed to control other peoples decisions and lives. That its not love or respect haha. He will alligator death roll you to lock you in if you let him tati.





why do some people settle so comfortably in relationships where they give 90% control to their partner? like you try to urge them our of their isolation and be like: "hey persephone, you wanna go see your mom?"

and they're always like: "nah, i like it here."

but it's not like they even have a strained relationship with their family 🤔🤔
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Wait. You are Virgo. And you are not controlling?
Are you referring to my post that I CAN go home but I hardly AM?
If that’s that - I might dramatized the situation…I might be overreacting.
NO he doesn’t have control! I am not giving it to him! I fight. I can see he doesn’t know what hat he is doing. So I tell. I always tell. I just wish he knew BEFORE he says shit like ‘I will make you eat salad because it’s good for you’ after I said I never liked salad!!!
I am NOT need alteration if me. I don’t! And he must take me as is…
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maybe it's your moon doing that. i know a leo guy who was in the midst of a bankruptcy and it's not like i was trying to take over his life, i was just about to give him some advice that i'm not even OBLIGATED to do and most people are usually THANKFUL for. but nah, all i got is this dude telling me that i had no right to tell him what to do. it's such an overreaction.

but i guess his world must be crashing around him so he was distraught.

as for controling, i don't know. the guy i'm with loves pork and for a couple months that's what he likes to eat every day but tho i don't stop him, i do say it's unhealthy, so he transitioned to wanting chicken all the time now. so then, i got him into seafood coz he likes squid and fish. and now he only eats chicken occasionally (he loves KFC) but mostly into fish.

hey, if it made your life better 🤷🤷
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You might be right in point because I AM not excepting unsolicited advisory.

We HAD a conversation when I told him firmly that I can only except advise IF I ask for one.

Otherwise he has no rights to advise me as if I was 12 years old. I am an adult and I’ve made it until now so…basically - fuck off!

He calmly listened to me and said BUT if you did what I said…and I bursted into tears and screaming yelling I CAN NOT DO THIS! IT DOESNT WORK! I WANT TO GO HOME and at that point I was ready to break up with him BUT he worked around me being hysterical and what do you think? Next fucking day he asked me if I will at least consider his advice?

Wouldn’t you UNDERTAND and STOP when I told you - I do NOT accept unsolicited advisory!!! None!

He said I am just trying to help and I said NO NEED! I do not feel comfortable! Don’t!!!

Latest was ‘does your mother keeps door locked at all times?’

I said NO

Him But she should

Me No she shouldn’t

Him …

It was about to end in another hysteria from me but it didn’t because something distracted us…

I am LOSING MY MIND!

And my only shield is I MADE IT TO THIS AGE IN ONE PIECE WITHOUT YOU!!!

Lately I say ‘you DO think I am stupid don’t you?’ It sets him into guilty ‘no baby, no please I think you are smart’ etc…

But I am enjoying his pain…😂😂😂

Today we going to dinner.

Usually I asked him as a chef - what does he think I would like. He loves that!!!

But sometimes I say I want hot dog and he says you don’t need that…and here I go!!!

Imagine the conversation ‘are you going to control what I eat and when I should exhale the air?’

Darn! How did I get here—
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He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.


I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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so basically you are 60 years old and still living with your mom until you find a boyfriend, then you crash at their house. You must be very successful 😂
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He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.


I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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My man does all that and much more. As he should. The difference is I show my appreciation for all he does for me. While you act like a bitch. Making him sleep on the couch, really?

You don’t want peace you want problems 😂
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What does his chart look like? Does he have leo venus? He will control you for as long as you let him. Challenge him because virgos need to learn that they're aren't supposed to control other peoples decisions and lives. That its not love or respect haha. He will alligator death roll you to lock you in if you let him tati.



why do some people settle so comfortably in relationships where they give 90% control to their partner? like you try to urge them our of their isolation and be like: "hey persephone, you wanna go see your mom?"

and they're always like: "nah, i like it here."

but it's not like they even have a strained relationship with their family 🤔🤔
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I really dont know but after reading this and @LadyNeptune 's response, I'm thinking it would have been easier to just date a pisces this whole time.
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oh now i know what you meant.

yeah, pisces ❤️❤️

only time he ever complained was when i didn't text him for the whole day and yesterday when i said we don't need a new induction cooktop. but now, i feel like he really wanted that so i'm gonna surprise him with it next week.
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He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.



I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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so basically you are 60 years old and still living with your mom until you find a boyfriend, then you crash at their house. You must be very successful 😂
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You just HAVE TO try and be as stupid as you can. Yes. My mother is living in MY house and all you doing is thinking of stories about gay men hiting on you because you are horny jealous horror
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He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.



I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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My man does all that and much more. As he should. The difference is I show my appreciation for all he does for me. While you act like a bitch. Making him sleep on the couch, really?
You don’t want peace you want problems 😂
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Are you and Balance are sisters?

Why are you assuming shit? He overslept on the couch which he loves and I can never make him do that. I wanted him in bed…

I don’t know what your man does. When he does it if he is all fogged up and 2 of you dying from boredom? I know you took him in as a slave and now you trying to tell me he does shit willingly…cut the crap.
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He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.



I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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My man does all that and much more. As he should. The difference is I show my appreciation for all he does for me. While you act like a bitch. Making him sleep on the couch, really?
You don’t want peace you want problems 😂

Are you and DegenerateUsernane are sisters?
Why are you assuming shit? He overslept on the couch which he loves and I can never make him do that. I wanted him in bed…
I don’t know what your man does. When he does it if he is all fogged up and 2 of you dying from boredom? I know you took him in as a slave and now you trying to tell me he does shit willingly…cut the crap.
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He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.





I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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My man does all that and much more. As he should. The difference is I show my appreciation for all he does for me. While you act like a bitch. Making him sleep on the couch, really?
You don’t want peace you want problems 😂

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Are you and DegenerateUsernane are sisters?
Why are you assuming shit? He overslept on the couch which he loves and I can never make him do that. I wanted him in bed…
I don’t know what your man does. When he does it if he is all fogged up and 2 of you dying from boredom? I know you took him in as a slave and now you trying to tell me he does shit willingly…cut the crap.
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What does his chart look like? Does he have leo venus? He will control you for as long as you let him. Challenge him because virgos need to learn that they're aren't supposed to control other peoples decisions and lives. That its not love or respect haha. He will alligator death roll you to lock you in if you let him tati.





why do some people settle so comfortably in relationships where they give 90% control to their partner? like you try to urge them our of their isolation and be like: "hey persephone, you wanna go see your mom?"

and they're always like: "nah, i like it here."

but it's not like they even have a strained relationship with their family 🤔🤔
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I really dont know but after reading this and @LadyNeptune 's response, I'm thinking it would have been easier to just date a pisces this whole time.
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oh now i know what you meant.

yeah, pisces ❤️❤️

only time he ever complained was when i didn't text him for the whole day and yesterday when i said we don't need a new induction cooktop. but now, i feel like he really wanted that so i'm gonna surprise him with it next week.
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So you are goi g to be nice? Good. Now I’ll go google what TF is that induction cooktop…
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He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.



I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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so basically you are 60 years old and still living with your mom until you find a boyfriend, then you crash at their house. You must be very successful 😂


This is just sad and pathetic.

I can't imagine them growing out of it now, because they're reaching the end of their lifespan. I'd be embarrassed if I were their mother.

He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.



I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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My man does all that and much more. As he should. The difference is I show my appreciation for all he does for me. While you act like a bitch. Making him sleep on the couch, really?
You don’t want peace you want problems 😂
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They also get-off on criticizing other people's relationships, on top of the fact that they are an immature, mentally and emotionally unstable individual who relies on temper tantrums to resolve conflict with the poor guy. Then gaslight anyone here who points out their flaws.

This is all just entertainment for me now. 🤣
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The Cancer makes me submissive as hell in many areas. He’s so daddy what can I say. I’m not even into that but I’ve never felt what it’s like to be treated with respect and cared for and given emotional room and we are both self sufficient, he actually understands my contradictions and doesn’t emotionally and mentally manipulate me so it’s such a 180. It’s like I’m so free I don’t want to run anywhere but to him. It’s very different.

Like I’m so used to being the caretaker I do things for him around the house and he’s like “I have to retrain you” tells me very firmly to sit down and eat my food before it gets cold (this shouldn’t turn me on but?!) then he goes and does the dishes and makes the tea for me. Like I can’t even survive him. I just want this forever. He just makes me melt.


OMG! I forgot about eat your food before it’s cold…I warmed the plates and I am like FUG! It’ll get cold in a MINUTE anyway!

Yeah…yiur Cancer MUST have some of the Virgo somewhere. What you saying is sooo the same and…annoying!!!

I DO with all my stupidity REALIZE how lucky I am…HOWEVER apparently as Aries used o say being cold hearted bitch - I CAN NOT accept it yet! Glad you could.
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He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.





I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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so basically you are 60 years old and still living with your mom until you find a boyfriend, then you crash at their house. You must be very successful 😂


This is just sad and pathetic.

I can't imagine them growing out of it now, because they're reaching the end of their lifespan. I'd be embarrassed if I were their mother.

He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.





I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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My man does all that and much more. As he should. The difference is I show my appreciation for all he does for me. While you act like a bitch. Making him sleep on the couch, really?
You don’t want peace you want problems 😂

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They also get-off on criticizing other people's relationships, on top of the fact that they are an immature, mentally and emotionally unstable individual who relies on temper tantrums to resolve conflict with the poor guy. Then gaslight anyone here who points out their flaws.

This is all just entertainment for me now. 🤣
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What happened? You ran out of zodiac signs men who are your ‘friends’ in your pants?
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My Virgo is sick today…I feel so bad…he is so quiet. I gave him pills and vitamins and he took it silently. Then I made him breakfast and he hadn’t refused…and had not insisted to go wash dishes 🤷‍♀️

I did ask if he needs anything…

I feel so bad. I didn’t think he can get sick. Awwwwww

We going to meet my daughter tomorrow and I made reservation in best oldest Italian restaurant and I really hope he will be ok.

I will make lunch as well. He is too quiet it’s scary…
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He cooks for you, drives you to work, and let’s you sleep under his roof. You are a black hole that takes and takes. And yet he is the controlling one. Sure Jan 😂

How dare he ask you what you want to eat for dinner. The nerve! Unless you are paying rent, his house = his rules.







I am sorry…if this is such a shocker or prize for you that someone does things for you - it is NORM for me and they are not LETTING ME sleep under his roof - he begged me and agreed! Where have you been all this time telling me this crap? Men NORMALLY want me THERE…close by…same bed…I am sorry you can’t relate. Maybe that’s why you bitching so much…
I HAVE a roof 15min away from him and mom who cooks and cleans MY house!!! I don’t NEED his roof! He is happen to ENJOY me immensely (his words) in his house!
And NO - it is NOT HIS RULES!!!
Rules will be negotiable OR he will be fucking himself…
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so basically you are 60 years old and still living with your mom until you find a boyfriend, then you crash at their house. You must be very successful 😂
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You just HAVE TO try and be as stupid as you can. Yes. My mother is living in MY house and all you doing is thinking of stories about gay men hiting on you because you are horny jealous horror
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Nothing wrong with having a mother in your home. I respect that.
Unless most modern selfish children who put their mom in care for minor reasons


But that virgo guy... If you're not happy having him do everything just say no,step back,he will adjust to some extent if he truly wants this relationship to work out. What about you? Are you going to ditch him because he does all that or is this just a rant post because this is new to you being over pampered?

I don't like being over pampered,if explaining myself doesn't work i just go on with my business until he adapts... isn't easy but was necessary in my case
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My mother is my pain in the ass but I love her and still afraid of her lol

She does takes care of my house and why won’t I have her with me? Some people just don’t understand…fuk them. Right?

Naah…nobody even want to fuck them if we talking about this one…

And NO I won’t ditch him. It would be stupid because he is an amazing lover, great man and seems is my swan song.

I AM telling him every thought I have and eventually he will get used to my voice and it will be printed in his brain that ‘she said NO’ and he will remember.

OR second variant - I will adjust to his ways and become happy with being told to eat while it’s warm…😂😂😂