Gemalit
@Gemalit
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Posted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Bout as intense as my ass hair.
Posted by Undine
That's not intensity.
No, Gems are not intense.
Posted by Marai
The Gems I dated/friends are quite clingy... They have a hard time giving me my space and are up my ass all the time if I don't talk to them for a few days.. it's talk talk talk aaaaaaaahhh 😬
Damn I love you guys, but can you pause and breath for a second haha

Posted by GemalitPosted by Undine
That's not intensity.
No, Gems are not intense.
I love pisces 😭.I feel like you guys get us the most, it’s just sad that we’re not compatible 😫. I don’t think it’s intense either, but when people tell me to give it a week I have an inner melt down 🤭. And I talk about the person of my affections a lot. So I worry I’m going to get rejected again because I’m “clingy “click to expand

Posted by UndinePosted by GemalitPosted by Undine
That's not intensity.
No, Gems are not intense.
I love pisces 😭.I feel like you guys get us the most, it’s just sad that we’re not compatible 😫. I don’t think it’s intense either, but when people tell me to give it a week I have an inner melt down 🤭. And I talk about the person of my affections a lot. So I worry I’m going to get rejected again because I’m “clingy “
Being intense it's about being passionate, obsessed, intrusive, combative and defensive about a subject at a time. A Gem friend was all that to me, but only because I was arguing with him till the cows came home. The subject was religion. On the other hand, my Gem ex was well informed, about any subject one could think about, but never intense.
I think what you describe is an extrovert falling in love. The obsession of the early stages, when you are unsure about how things will develop. Combined with the need to talk incessantly. It will calm down once you get to know each other and feel more secure with each other.click to expand
Posted by MaraiPosted by GemalitPosted by Marai
The Gems I dated/friends are quite clingy... They have a hard time giving me my space and are up my ass all the time if I don't talk to them for a few days.. it's talk talk talk aaaaaaaahhh 😬
Damn I love you guys, but can you pause and breath for a second haha
Can I ask what your sign is aha? And that’s very true, although I’m not clingy with friends, in fact I sometimes forget to message them. But I do talk to much, and not always with people...more at them.
Ah yes not with but at people. True, that part can be a bit intense for some people.
I'm a Cancer with Aqua Moon.click to expand
Posted by LittleStar_II
I get pretty strong reactions out of people. That’s for sure.
Emotionally I feel things quite deeply and sharply but I don’t know how to understand them or what to do with them so I typically intellectualize them away for the sake of not torturing myself further.

Posted by MyStarsShine
Depends on aspects
Strong Pluto or Scorpio dominant would indicate an intense nature.
Posted by LittleStar_IIPosted by GemalitPosted by Undine
That's not intensity.
No, Gems are not intense.
I love pisces 😭.I feel like you guys get us the most, it’s just sad that we’re not compatible 😫. I don’t think it’s intense either, but when people tell me to give it a week I have an inner melt down 🤭. And I talk about the person of my affections a lot. So I worry I’m going to get rejected again because I’m “clingy “
Pisces and Gemini are compatible. Really all mutable signs are compatible with each other.click to expand

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShine
Depends on aspects
Strong Pluto or Scorpio dominant would indicate an intense nature.
I don't want to make it feel like I'm trolling you but damn. You on a roll today. I agree with this.
Moon square Pluto, Pluto conjunct ascendant, lots of Pluto squares and their all pretty tight too. Damn I'm one intense Gemini dude.click to expand


Posted by alexscariesPosted by hydorah
geminis are intense chasers because they know they're so fickle they'll get distracted later so they give everything fast.
It's a bit the same with pisces sometimes, they get called clingy and they can become outrageous with emotions because pisces know emotions are in reality foreign to them and they can rationalize so coldly it scares themselves. So they're trying to prove sthg to themselves.
Geminis are literally the oppposite of intense, but opposites can rejoin at the extremes, gems canbe intense, but only in-between. Like "reading between the lines" intense, on the long term
This is an interesting post. What would you say Pisces are trying to prove? That they are in control or that they are right when it comes to feelings?click to expand


Posted by hydorah
geminis are intense chasers because they know they're so fickle they'll get distracted later so they give everything fast.
It's a bit the same with pisces sometimes, they get called clingy and they can become outrageous with emotions because pisces know emotions are in reality foreign to them and they can rationalize so coldly it scares themselves. So they're trying to prove sthg to themselves.
Geminis are literally the oppposite of intense, but opposites can rejoin at the extremes, gems canbe intense, but only in-between. Like "reading between the lines" intense, on the long term

Posted by LadyNeptune
Everyone is a bit clingy when its their first love.
Don't overthink this gem, its not a big deal or a horrible character flaw or anything like that.
Even the clingiest of the clingy aren't off putting if its the right person who wants to be koala bear-d

Posted by GemalitPosted by LadyNeptune
Everyone is a bit clingy when its their first love.
Don't overthink this gem, its not a big deal or a horrible character flaw or anything like that.
Even the clingiest of the clingy aren't off putting if its the right person who wants to be koala bear-d
This isn’t my first love, I’m just noticing some similar traits I had when I first started to like my first “love” on my new crush, so I was getting a little worried. As four years later being called “clingy” and “intense” still haunts me. I want to learn from these mistakes and be better. But if I’m being honest I never understood it. I gave what I received, he was a Capricorn to be honest so I don’t know if that had anything to do with it.
But thank you 🙂click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemalitPosted by LadyNeptune
Everyone is a bit clingy when its their first love.
Don't overthink this gem, its not a big deal or a horrible character flaw or anything like that.
Even the clingiest of the clingy aren't off putting if its the right person who wants to be koala bear-d
This isn’t my first love, I’m just noticing some similar traits I had when I first started to like my first “love” on my new crush, so I was getting a little worried. As four years later being called “clingy” and “intense” still haunts me. I want to learn from these mistakes and be better. But if I’m being honest I never understood it. I gave what I received, he was a Capricorn to be honest so I don’t know if that had anything to do with it.
But thank you 🙂
What’s your Venus/mars?click to expand
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And well, when Gemini men have been into me, they’ve chased ALOT even if I wasn’t interested. And I was like “damn son” and is that every Gemini? Are we chasers? Should I just mellow out and let the guy message me first rather than being the one like “it’s been two days I’m going to send a text”. I’m to honest with these things. If I like someone I like to make it known through actions. But then when it’s talked about I get a little skittish. And nervous about it. I think for me it’s rare I connect with someone so when I do I don’t want to let the opportunity pass me by.