Are you secretive

to people who mean alot to you? If so, why 🤔

What's your mode of thinking towards this?

Posted by Chimichanga

We aren't going to reveal that information.

Could you post your Sun sign?

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

I value my privacy.

But what if your privacy is needed in order to understand you?

Posted by 40Caliber

Initially yes, but eventually I do open up. I have 5 levels of trust and only a few have broken down the first 4 levels. None have broken the 5th level.

So you do eventually open up to people whom you consider a very close friend or lover over time?

Posted by 40Caliber

Initially yes, but eventually I do open up. I have 5 levels of trust and only a few have broken down the first 4 levels. None have broken the 5th level.

What is the 5th level?

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

I value my privacy.

But what if your privacy is needed in order to understand you?

My actions will help you understand me.

I'll readily tell you what I do and don't like, my hobbies, my goals, what motivates me.

I don't need to lay out my secrets or my life story for you to know what kind of person I am.

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But... sometimes...you may have to...no? Your actions without words can only describe something changed you. However, without knowledge of what, it's like where's the context of this change?

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Didn't realize this was Scorpio moon forum, whoops.

I'm a Scorpio rising so close enough.

You're okay. Scorpio energy is what the moon is made of and you ooz it.

Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Now that is fucking crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️

I only let a few select people in because I want my real friends to feel special, a cut above the rest.

I expect the same out of them. If they treat me special, its reciprocated.

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Now that is fucking crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️

I think she is just opening up slowly. She was honest with me saing she was many times dissapointed on people that is hard for her to let people in to her life.

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Your last name though? How is that your life?

Posted by DMV

I only let a few select people in because I want my real friends to feel special, a cut above the rest.

I expect the same out of them. If they treat me special, its reciprocated.

Now this I understand. Close friends and lovers who reciprocate their life story to you should be blessed with the same treatment.

Maybe it takes a little more time for some folk to open that side of them regardless of what, but that time frame has to be reasonable to put context to whom you are as a person.

Posted by Unwording

Everything is on a need-to-know basis.

Like what?

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Now that is fucking crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️

I think she is just opening up slowly. She was honest with me saing she was many times dissapointed on people that is hard for her to let people in to her life.

Your last name though? How is that your life?

I know it's strange. But I never saw red flag and she's genuine in many ways. She also did things for me that people I knew for years didn't.

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But see that's my whole point. How would you know there isn't a red flag? There probably is. It just sounds like some superhero movie where when shit hits the fan okay now you may know why 🤷🏾‍♂️

Is there something tied to her last name that may later get you fucked up? In my experience, hidden secrets that seem small, aren't that small in actuality which is why it is a secret.

Posted by Unwording

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by Unwording

Everything is on a need-to-know basis.

Like what?

If you need to know, then you’ll know when it’s time to know.

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Like when something happens?

Yup. Sag Sun/Scorpio Venus

I just can’t stand nosy people. I’m naturally secretive and private. But I will treat you the same way. I don’t dig in and need to know anything.

I will ask stuff that I’m curious about but it’s normally not super private things.

I’ve always been like this. I don’t know why. I just don’t see a reason why someone else needs to know every detail of another person’s life. We are individuals for a reason.

Posted by Unwording

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by Unwording

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by Unwording

Everything is on a need-to-know basis.

Like what?

If you need to know, then you’ll know when it’s time to know.

Like when something happens?

When it’s necessary.

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LOL, I can almost feel the irritation levels spiking here. hahaha

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Didn't realize this was Scorpio moon forum, whoops.

I'm a Scorpio rising so close enough.

Which moon do you have ?

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Now that is fucking crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️

I think she is just opening up slowly. She was honest with me saing she was many times dissapointed on people that is hard for her to let people in to her life.

Your last name though? How is that your life?

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Why do you need to know their last name though?

I only got Scorpio Lilith. I'm just dark and shadowy.

But y'all go head. I'm just kicking back enjoying reading this interesting thread. I can probably learn something from this.

Posted by peachy06

To everybody, dude.

Because that's who I am. Because I don't think others need to know my whole life, I need to keep a part of myself private.

You have Scorp moon?

Not especially.

But my level of openness tends to match theirs.

LOL, good luck getting any of the Scorpio moons to give you a direct answer to any of these questions unless you are part of the inner level 1903123128938129038120938129038129 circle.

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

I value my privacy.

But what if your privacy is needed in order to understand you?

My actions will help you understand me.

I'll readily tell you what I do and don't like, my hobbies, my goals, what motivates me.

I don't need to lay out my secrets or my life story for you to know what kind of person I am.

But... sometimes...you may have to...no? Your actions without words can only describe something changed you. However, without knowledge of what, it's like where's the context of this change?

I understand your thought process, but for the most part I don't believe it's necessary.

The only positive aspect that comes with unveiling your secrets is the vulnerability that you're displaying to the other person. That's part of what builds intimacy.

But at the same time, in doing so, you're giving that person the power to hit you where it hurts.

I don't believe that it's essential to unveil your secrets as long as you're an open book in every other aspect.

I might graze over certain experiences in my life if I'm close to someone, but I don't feel it necessary to go into great depth.

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Okay I'm going to level with you there. Depth isn't always needed. I agree.

If somebody hits you where it hurts after you've been vulnerable to them about whatever, that's not someone you wanna call friend or lover. Not saying you don't understand that, but it's just fucked up and I had to denounce it.

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Now that is fucking crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️

I think she is just opening up slowly. She was honest with me saing she was many times dissapointed on people that is hard for her to let people in to her life.

Your last name though? How is that your life?

I know it's strange. But I never saw red flag and she's genuine in many ways. She also did things for me that people I knew for years didn't.

But see that's my whole point. How would you know there isn't a red flag? There probably is. It just sounds like some superhero movie where when shit hits the fan okay now you may know why 🤷🏾‍♂️

Is there something tied to her last name that may later get you fucked up? In my experience, hidden secrets that seem small, aren't that small in actuality which is why it is a secret.

And now it dependes on you 🙂 do you want to give chance to that person. Actually if I think about it I never asked her. Maybe if I do she will tell me 🤷🏻‍♀️😁

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Probably.

Posted by Unwording

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by Unwording

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by Unwording

Everything is on a need-to-know basis.

Like what?

If you need to know, then you’ll know when it’s time to know.

Like when something happens?

When it’s necessary.

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Well that would be the only time when it would be necessary except for when it is necessary for the future or future events in the present. Or Maybe you just trust that person enough to share because it's a burden when people condemn you or treat you a certain way based off what they think they know about you.

Posted by peachy06

To everybody, dude.

Because that's who I am. Because I don't think others need to know my whole life, I need to keep a part of myself private.

Do you like being misunderstood? Is that a secret too?

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Now that is fucking crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️

I think she is just opening up slowly. She was honest with me saing she was many times dissapointed on people that is hard for her to let people in to her life.

Your last name though? How is that your life?

Why do you need to know their last name though?

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Maybe not, but it seems soo stupid to keep a secret to someone you deem to trust with other things that require more transparency🤦🏾‍♂️

Unless it isn't and it means alot to keep that info hidden but damn I'm just curious as to wth that is and does it put my life in danger. Not necessarily only your last name either.

Posted by saggurl88

Yup. Sag Sun/Scorpio Venus

I just can’t stand nosy people. I’m naturally secretive and private. But I will treat you the same way. I don’t dig in and need to know anything.

I will ask stuff that I’m curious about but it’s normally not super private things.

I’ve always been like this. I don’t know why. I just don’t see a reason why someone else needs to know every detail of another person’s life. We are individuals for a reason.

True, but it screams vague. In order for me to know whom you are, I must know who you were. Maybe not every detail, but give me a rough draft at least.

Besides sex, that's all we have in which brings us closer. Memories too.

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Posted by Anomalous

Posted by peachy06

To everybody, dude.

Because that's who I am. Because I don't think others need to know my whole life, I need to keep a part of myself private.

Do you like being misunderstood? Is that a secret too?

Forget what I said, I'm not a Scorpio moon, I thought it was about Scorpio sun people 😁

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Its okay. Psychic energy is psychic energy regardless of what breed it comes from.

Posted by nikkistar

LOL, good luck getting any of the Scorpio moons to give you a direct answer to any of these questions unless you are part of the inner level 1903123128938129038120938129038129 circle.

😂 I have to try though 😂

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

I value my privacy.

But what if your privacy is needed in order to understand you?

My actions will help you understand me.

I'll readily tell you what I do and don't like, my hobbies, my goals, what motivates me.

I don't need to lay out my secrets or my life story for you to know what kind of person I am.

But... sometimes...you may have to...no? Your actions without words can only describe something changed you. However, without knowledge of what, it's like where's the context of this change?

I understand your thought process, but for the most part I don't believe it's necessary.

The only positive aspect that comes with unveiling your secrets is the vulnerability that you're displaying to the other person. That's part of what builds intimacy.

But at the same time, in doing so, you're giving that person the power to hit you where it hurts.

I don't believe that it's essential to unveil your secrets as long as you're an open book in every other aspect.

I might graze over certain experiences in my life if I'm close to someone, but I don't feel it necessary to go into great depth.

Okay I'm going to level with you there. Depth isn't always needed. I agree.

If somebody hits you where it hurts after you've been vulnerable to them about whatever, that's not someone you wanna call friend or lover. Not saying you don't understand that, but it's just fucked up and I had to denounce it.

Right, but I don't even give people the opportunity.

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Not randoms of course, but just someone you deem special to you. In my experience it builds your vulnerability defense. Makes you a stronger person.

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Now that is fucking crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️

I think she is just opening up slowly. She was honest with me saing she was many times dissapointed on people that is hard for her to let people in to her life.

Your last name though? How is that your life?

Why do you need to know their last name though?

Maybe not, but it seems soo stupid to keep a secret to someone you deem to trust with other things that require more transparency🤦🏾‍♂️

Unless it isn't and it means alot to keep that info hidden but damn I'm just curious as to wth that is and does it put my life in danger. Not necessarily only your last name either.

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I don't have a scorpio moon. Only a sun.

But I am going to put it this way... Only like 4-6 people know my ACTUAL legal first name, outside of my family. lol

And only 2 of them know, because I married them. lolololol

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Posted by saggurl88

Yup. Sag Sun/Scorpio Venus

I just can’t stand nosy people. I’m naturally secretive and private. But I will treat you the same way. I don’t dig in and need to know anything.

I will ask stuff that I’m curious about but it’s normally not super private things.

I’ve always been like this. I don’t know why. I just don’t see a reason why someone else needs to know every detail of another person’s life. We are individuals for a reason.

True, but it screams vague. In order for me to know whom you are, I must know who you were. Maybe not every detail, but give me a rough draft at least.

Besides sex, that's all we have in which brings us closer. Memories too.

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I think it just depends on what you're asking. There are some things that are unnecessary for you to know, if it doesn't pertain to the relationship.

Just because the other person is nosy and thinks I'm vague, that's not really my problem. I don't skirt issues though. If someone asks me something, I usually will answer and will then ask the same type of question. Just because now Pandora's box has been open.

It just depends on if the questions are of a controlling nature. Like if you keep asking me the same type of questions over and over again or if you are using the information to try and control me.

My mom is scorp moon, leo sun but scorp dominant. She is an open book, total oversharer, actually was super cringe to me growing up. Love you mom.

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Now that is fucking crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️

I think she is just opening up slowly. She was honest with me saing she was many times dissapointed on people that is hard for her to let people in to her life.

Your last name though? How is that your life?

Why do you need to know their last name though?

Maybe not, but it seems soo stupid to keep a secret to someone you deem to trust with other things that require more transparency🤦🏾‍♂️

Unless it isn't and it means alot to keep that info hidden but damn I'm just curious as to wth that is and does it put my life in danger. Not necessarily only your last name either.

I don't have a scorpio moon. Only a sun.

But I am going to put it this way... Only like 4-6 people know my ACTUAL legal first name, outside of my family. lol

And only 2 of them know, because I married them. lolololol

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So it was the marriage that made you crack?

Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Yup. Sag Sun/Scorpio Venus

I just can’t stand nosy people. I’m naturally secretive and private. But I will treat you the same way. I don’t dig in and need to know anything.

I will ask stuff that I’m curious about but it’s normally not super private things.

I’ve always been like this. I don’t know why. I just don’t see a reason why someone else needs to know every detail of another person’s life. We are individuals for a reason.

True, but it screams vague. In order for me to know whom you are, I must know who you were. Maybe not every detail, but give me a rough draft at least.

Besides sex, that's all we have in which brings us closer. Memories too.

I think it just depends on what you're asking. There are some things that are unnecessary for you to know, if it doesn't pertain to the relationship.

Just because the other person is nosy and thinks I'm vague, that's not really my problem. I don't skirt issues though. If someone asks me something, I usually will answer and will then ask the same type of question. Just because now Pandora's box has been open.

It just depends on if the questions are of a controlling nature. Like if you keep asking me the same type of questions over and over again or if you are using the information to try and control me.

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Understood.

I like opening Pandora's box. I was born in Pandora's box. Thus the reason I take issue with Scorpio moons and its energy. They scare away from it. I don't. Maybe they have their reasons, but usually those reasons are needed knowledge of the person whom I think I know.

And nosy is a strong word especially if you're trying to build something.

Posted by LadyNeptune

My mom is scorp moon, leo sun but scorp dominant. She is an open book, total oversharer, actually was super cringe to me growing up. Love you mom.

So is mine hahah 😄 go figure.

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Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

I value my privacy.

But what if your privacy is needed in order to understand you?

My actions will help you understand me.

I'll readily tell you what I do and don't like, my hobbies, my goals, what motivates me.

I don't need to lay out my secrets or my life story for you to know what kind of person I am.

But... sometimes...you may have to...no? Your actions without words can only describe something changed you. However, without knowledge of what, it's like where's the context of this change?

I understand your thought process, but for the most part I don't believe it's necessary.

The only positive aspect that comes with unveiling your secrets is the vulnerability that you're displaying to the other person. That's part of what builds intimacy.

But at the same time, in doing so, you're giving that person the power to hit you where it hurts.

I don't believe that it's essential to unveil your secrets as long as you're an open book in every other aspect.

I might graze over certain experiences in my life if I'm close to someone, but I don't feel it necessary to go into great depth.

Okay I'm going to level with you there. Depth isn't always needed. I agree.

If somebody hits you where it hurts after you've been vulnerable to them about whatever, that's not someone you wanna call friend or lover. Not saying you don't understand that, but it's just fucked up and I had to denounce it.

Right, but I don't even give people the opportunity.

Not randoms of course, but just someone you deem special to you. In my experience it builds your vulnerability defense. Makes you a stronger person.

I don't entirely trust anyone. No matter how long I've known them or how much time I've spent with them.

People are flawed and they can change like the wind.

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True. So you don't actually get extremely close to anyone, except yourself? Do you think that plays out in your relationships in a negative way? Or am I taking what you said too seriously?

Posted by Unwording

The opposite of secretive is open, guys.

Not honest.

Just a PSA.

That's true, you don't have to be honest to be open. Nonetheless, we're basing this off sincerity, not Webster's dictionary.

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Now that is fucking crazy 🤦🏾‍♂️

I think she is just opening up slowly. She was honest with me saing she was many times dissapointed on people that is hard for her to let people in to her life.

Your last name though? How is that your life?

Why do you need to know their last name though?

Maybe not, but it seems soo stupid to keep a secret to someone you deem to trust with other things that require more transparency🤦🏾‍♂️

Unless it isn't and it means alot to keep that info hidden but damn I'm just curious as to wth that is and does it put my life in danger. Not necessarily only your last name either.

I don't have a scorpio moon. Only a sun.

But I am going to put it this way... Only like 4-6 people know my ACTUAL legal first name, outside of my family. lol

And only 2 of them know, because I married them. lolololol

So it was the marriage that made you crack?

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More like the marriage license that did. LOL

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Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

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Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

Posted by Anomalous

Posted by xXxAliiciaXxX

I value my privacy.

But what if your privacy is needed in order to understand you?

My actions will help you understand me.

I'll readily tell you what I do and don't like, my hobbies, my goals, what motivates me.

I don't need to lay out my secrets or my life story for you to know what kind of person I am.

But... sometimes...you may have to...no? Your actions without words can only describe something changed you. However, without knowledge of what, it's like where's the context of this change?

I understand your thought process, but for the most part I don't believe it's necessary.

The only positive aspect that comes with unveiling your secrets is the vulnerability that you're displaying to the other person. That's part of what builds intimacy.

But at the same time, in doing so, you're giving that person the power to hit you where it hurts.

I don't believe that it's essential to unveil your secrets as long as you're an open book in every other aspect.

I might graze over certain experiences in my life if I'm close to someone, but I don't feel it necessary to go into great depth.

Okay I'm going to level with you there. Depth isn't always needed. I agree.

If somebody hits you where it hurts after you've been vulnerable to them about whatever, that's not someone you wanna call friend or lover. Not saying you don't understand that, but it's just fucked up and I had to denounce it.

Right, but I don't even give people the opportunity.

Not randoms of course, but just someone you deem special to you. In my experience it builds your vulnerability defense. Makes you a stronger person.

I don't entirely trust anyone. No matter how long I've known them or how much time I've spent with them.

People are flawed and they can change like the wind.

True. So you don't actually get extremely close to anyone, except yourself? Do you think that plays out in your relationships? Or am I taking what you said too seriously?

I do get very close with people. I know basically everything about my closest friends.

They understand me and they don't feel threatened by my need for privacy because they understand that it's just the way I am.

They also know that I'm not the kind of person to turn on a friend should the friendship end for whatever reasons.

If they told me anything in confidence during the friendship it's always going to be safe with me.

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Hmmph, I'm similar.

However, I've come to realize that keeping a secret for someone close could sometimes harm/kill another physically and mentally. I struggle with those. I don't tell out of respect, but I want to and someone else would probably condemn me if they found out I didn't. I hate situations like that. Makes me judge people close to me in a negative view.

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Posted by Anomalous

Posted by Unwording

The opposite of secretive is open, guys.

Not honest.

Just a PSA.

That's true, you don't have to be honest to be open. Nonetheless, we're basing this off sincerity, not Webster's dictionary.

Nope, it’s a very important distinction to bear in mind and not confuse.

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I understand but people are going to say whatever the hell they wanna say in regards. Doesn't mean I shouldn't request answers or be curious.

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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Yup. Sag Sun/Scorpio Venus

I just can’t stand nosy people. I’m naturally secretive and private. But I will treat you the same way. I don’t dig in and need to know anything.

I will ask stuff that I’m curious about but it’s normally not super private things.

I’ve always been like this. I don’t know why. I just don’t see a reason why someone else needs to know every detail of another person’s life. We are individuals for a reason.

True, but it screams vague. In order for me to know whom you are, I must know who you were. Maybe not every detail, but give me a rough draft at least.

Besides sex, that's all we have in which brings us closer. Memories too.

I think it just depends on what you're asking. There are some things that are unnecessary for you to know, if it doesn't pertain to the relationship.

Just because the other person is nosy and thinks I'm vague, that's not really my problem. I don't skirt issues though. If someone asks me something, I usually will answer and will then ask the same type of question. Just because now Pandora's box has been open.

It just depends on if the questions are of a controlling nature. Like if you keep asking me the same type of questions over and over again or if you are using the information to try and control me.

Understood.

I like opening Pandora's box. I was born in Pandora's box. Thus the reason I take issue with Scorpio moons and its energy. They scare away from it. I don't. Maybe they have their reasons, but usually those reasons are needed knowledge of the person whom I think I know.

And nosy is a strong word especially if you're trying to build something.

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"And nosy is a strong word especially if you're trying to build something."

This is just the type of sentence that I will say, can be manipulating. Like I said it's all in context of what the question is.

Most questions shouldn't be an issue, if you are trying to get to know someone.

But certain questions, even small ones are annoying to me. Sometimes I'm secretive for no reason.

It mostly has to do with going into extreme detail about a situation.

Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Wow lol.

You didn't dig on your own? I know pretty much everything on the outside about the Scorp moon I deal with...I even googled mapped his house and have a pic of it (need to know how to escape if I have too 😂). I knew what school he went to, his job location..where his parents live etc...this was all way before he told me anything 😬🤪😆. Gotta know who I'm dealing with.

He knows none of this and I probably will never tell him either lol.

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The opposite of secretive is open, guys.

Not honest.

Just a PSA.

That's true, you don't have to be honest to be open. Nonetheless, we're basing this off sincerity, not Webster's dictionary.

Nope, it’s a very important distinction to bear in mind and not confuse.

I understand but people are going to say whatever the hell they wanna say in regards. Doesn't mean I shouldn't request answers or be curious.

Wasn’t my point, if you constantly question someone’s sincerity just because they’re more reserved, private, or “secretive”, you’re feeding the problem you are complaining about.

And that’s why it’s an important distinction.

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I just don't understand the context of why you're telling me this 🤷🏾‍♂️

Is it because you think I don't agree with you?

Did I do this recently?

Or are you informing anyone who's reading?

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Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Wow lol.

You didn't dig on your own? I know pretty much everything on the outside about the Scorp moon I deal with...I even googled mapped his house and have a pic of it (need to know how to escape if I have too 😂). I knew what school he went to, his job location..where his parents live etc...this was all way before he told me anything 😬🤪😆. Gotta know who I'm dealing with.

He knows none of this and I probably will never tell him either lol.

Lol. I'm good. I can take care of myself and I often know more than people think I know 😂

I trust her. She did a lot of good things for me. She even let me stay at her place when she went out for an hour. 🙂 we also have common friends, she knows people I was at university with. They know her longer and they all say she's great person 🙂

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Aquas...always take people and trusting people at face value lol. My mom is the same way...it's endearing.

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Yup. Sag Sun/Scorpio Venus

I just can’t stand nosy people. I’m naturally secretive and private. But I will treat you the same way. I don’t dig in and need to know anything.

I will ask stuff that I’m curious about but it’s normally not super private things.

I’ve always been like this. I don’t know why. I just don’t see a reason why someone else needs to know every detail of another person’s life. We are individuals for a reason.

True, but it screams vague. In order for me to know whom you are, I must know who you were. Maybe not every detail, but give me a rough draft at least.

Besides sex, that's all we have in which brings us closer. Memories too.

I think it just depends on what you're asking. There are some things that are unnecessary for you to know, if it doesn't pertain to the relationship.

Just because the other person is nosy and thinks I'm vague, that's not really my problem. I don't skirt issues though. If someone asks me something, I usually will answer and will then ask the same type of question. Just because now Pandora's box has been open.

It just depends on if the questions are of a controlling nature. Like if you keep asking me the same type of questions over and over again or if you are using the information to try and control me.

Understood.

I like opening Pandora's box. I was born in Pandora's box. Thus the reason I take issue with Scorpio moons and its energy. They scare away from it. I don't. Maybe they have their reasons, but usually those reasons are needed knowledge of the person whom I think I know.

And nosy is a strong word especially if you're trying to build something.

"And nosy is a strong word especially if you're trying to build something."

This is just the type of sentence that I will say, can be manipulating. Like I said it's all in context of what the question is.

Most questions shouldn't be an issue, if you are trying to get to know someone.

But certain questions, even small ones are annoying to me. Sometimes I'm secretive for no reason.

It mostly has to do with going into extreme detail about a situation.

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It could be. I'm not denying that. Nonetheless, you would have to understand a person's motives in life in general to even question whether it's manipulation or not.

Well, I like to ask personal questions, in reason. Not out of control or harm but sometimes..just because I'm trying to start up a meaningful conversation. But I won't just ask you a question with no context. And I can usually tell if said person doesn't wanna go that deep. And I may or may not go deep about myself which may make some people feel uncomfortable when I do 😂 And that makes me laugh. Nonetheless, I don't always base my boundaries off of what other people set for themselves unless I have a reason.

I guess it makes people feel the need to share something deep themselves and they may not want to but that's not why I said it in the first place🤷🏾‍♂️

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I will say this as my one and only contribution since threads like these turn into either a shit show or a circle jerk.

The more you try to force, the more pushback you will get. Whether you like it or not, or accept it or don't, certain types of intimacy will be on our pace and on our terms.

Funny you say that because it's never the other way around...is it?

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Posted by ClassyAquarius

This is thread about scorpio moon not Scorpios peeps 😁

My Aquarius friend has scorpio moon. She's very secretive about some things and less about other. I know her for 2 years and I still don't know her last name. 💁🏻‍♀️

Wow lol.

You didn't dig on your own? I know pretty much everything on the outside about the Scorp moon I deal with...I even googled mapped his house and have a pic of it (need to know how to escape if I have too 😂). I knew what school he went to, his job location..where his parents live etc...this was all way before he told me anything 😬🤪😆. Gotta know who I'm dealing with.

He knows none of this and I probably will never tell him either lol.

Lol. I'm good. I can take care of myself and I often know more than people think I know 😂

I trust her. She did a lot of good things for me. She even let me stay at her place when she went out for an hour. 🙂 we also have common friends, she knows people I was at university with. They know her longer and they all say she's great person 🙂

Aquas...always take people and trusting people at face value lol. My mom is the same way...it's endearing.

BTW I just ask our common friend. He knows her last name 😁

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Hahaha You're too cute!

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The opposite of secretive is open, guys.

Not honest.

Just a PSA.

That's true, you don't have to be honest to be open. Nonetheless, we're basing this off sincerity, not Webster's dictionary.

Nope, it’s a very important distinction to bear in mind and not confuse.

I understand but people are going to say whatever the hell they wanna say in regards. Doesn't mean I shouldn't request answers or be curious.

Wasn’t my point, if you constantly question someone’s sincerity just because they’re more reserved, private, or “secretive”, you’re feeding the problem you are complaining about.

And that’s why it’s an important distinction.

I just don't understand the context of why you're telling me this 🤷🏾‍♂️

Is it because you think I don't agree with you?

Did I do this recently?

Or are you informing anyone who's reading?

I thought I was simply responding. lol

I suppose it can be taken as a PSA.

No worries. 😄

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Oh okay gotcha 👍🏾