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what do you think about this scorpio? help me guys what do you think about this ? should i give up? (Page 2)
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Posted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by DMV
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
I.... I was too stupid I have to admit that
I disagree. I think it shows strength of character to be open and vulnerable. Don’t ever regret that. To be so closed off only roots from ego and fear. Don’t ever regret having that ability to be so honest with expressing how you feel. It’s not stupid.click to expand
It’s called self respect
Treat yourself like Beyoncé tickets and not a plastic shopping bag
Know your worth
Let’s talk about homegirls ego. How she could feel that confident, that secure to dip in and out of his life. Let me go play around with this guy. Ooh look a better guy. Bye first guy. Hello new guy. Eh, new guy not that great. Grass not the much greener. I’m
Bored, need some attention. Oooh I bet first guy still likes me. Let me try to get back over there and just hang out till something I really want comes along. Yes, he answered and wow dummy still likes me after I did all that. Definitely not the one for me, but the one for me right now.
Some men have done this to woman time and time again.
When a woman does it, she gets a pass——
Posted by DMVPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by DMV
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
I.... I was too stupid I have to admit that
I disagree. I think it shows strength of character to be open and vulnerable. Don’t ever regret that. To be so closed off only roots from ego and fear. Don’t ever regret having that ability to be so honest with expressing how you feel. It’s not stupid.
It’s called self respect
Treat yourself like Beyoncé tickets and not a plastic shopping bag
Know your worth
Let’s talk about homegirls ego. How she could feel that confident, that secure to dip in and out of his life. Let me go play around with this guy. Ooh look a better guy. Bye first guy. Hello new guy. Eh, new guy not that great. Grass not the much greener. I’m
Bored, need some attention. Oooh I bet first guy still likes me. Let me try to get back over there and just hang out till something I really want comes along. Yes, he answered and wow dummy still likes me after I did all that. Definitely not the one for me, but the one for me right now.
Some men have done this to woman time and time again.
When a woman does it, she gets a pass——click to expand
I know it's about basic respect, it's a necessary requirement
Posted by _elle_Posted by noobsterPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It's not about ego, it's the leaaaast thing I'm concerned about, and I know she doesn't own me a dime, if it was about my ego I would have left the 1st one or would have just thrown a tantrum and called her bull, or anything.
How can you see this as a good thing? It astonishing to me! This honestly has a word for it, it's called être de mauvaise foi. Yes I do not approach relationships with rationality or realness, and I why should? It depends on what you are looking? If it's a person with a stable life good Blah blah then yeah. If that's what you're into yeah sure go ahead. I don't want to approach relationships with a cold and calculated approach,because we are humans!!!
Are you French? Is she? I think in the French culture this behavior is seen very different to let’s say Americans, Anglos
In French culture, I can see her behavior as mauvais foi.... but not in the Anglo cultures.
Oh I didn't know this sub is full of americans
I guess that's why were having this sort of discussion
It’s got a mix, but seems to predominate with Americans, some brits and Aussies... they are similar in behavior. Are you and the Scorp French? Or different cultures (asking bc you both met online). If different cultures, that can add to the confusion.
I know French are much more serious about formalizing relationships... where as the anglos are much more relaxed about that and so much more grazing and testing waters (lots of deep testing).
Yes definitely French, as for me let's say that I have a mix, since Im from a neighboring country and, yeah I lived in Paris, it's not far away from where she lived. I thought I gave context before, I specified it was Europe. I I hate testing and the idea of making calculations about humans. Its.... You're not a machine or an calculus program.
Then I have to apologise to you for making assumptions. @mareinframe is correct. The cultures are different. Maybe try being a little more outspoken with your interest next time around. Subtle can make people feel like you are not that interested.click to expand
Why apologize! I made this post not to blame anyone, but to understand,see what people think about it, and scorpios as well
Posted by DMVPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by DMV
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
I.... I was too stupid I have to admit that
I disagree. I think it shows strength of character to be open and vulnerable. Don’t ever regret that. To be so closed off only roots from ego and fear. Don’t ever regret having that ability to be so honest with expressing how you feel. It’s not stupid.
It’s called self respect
Treat yourself like Beyoncé tickets and not a plastic shopping bag
Know your worth
Let’s talk about homegirls ego. How she could feel that confident, that secure to dip in and out of his life. Let me go play around with this guy. Ooh look a better guy. Bye first guy. Hello new guy. Eh, new guy not that great. Grass not the much greener. I’m
Bored, need some attention. Oooh I bet first guy still likes me. Let me try to get back over there and just hang out till something I really want comes along. Yes, he answered and wow dummy still likes me after I did all that. Definitely not the one for me, but the one for me right now.
Some men have done this to woman time and time again.
When a woman does it, she gets a pass——click to expand
I sometimes let myself be disrespected out of curiosity. I usually test and try new approaches with people I'm not invested in at all. I act a little desperate, spill my guts out, withdraw, go from too predictable to impossible to read, start behaving completely out of character. I treat it like a fun experiment and when I get bored I just ghost. They deserve it anyway even if it didn't hurt me, they still took me for granted.
It's different when I really like someone. It's almost like I resent them for liking them a little too much and suddenly there's a wall protecting me from possibly being hurt. They now have to compete (read your post about competing) with my self-worth, my priorities, my time, my hobbies, my interests. And whenever I think about them, another thought creeps in... "why should I give you (person of interest) the time of the day?" "prove to me that you're worth the time, don't just meet me half way, go to hell and back for me, bend over backwards for me, make exceptions for me, make me feel truly special, don't lose interest by my apparent lack of reciprocity."
I know that I'm being unreasonable and unfair yet I always find myself inclined go that route whenever I come across a guy I really like. The struggle is real.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by _elle_Posted by noobsterPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It's not about ego, it's the leaaaast thing I'm concerned about, and I know she doesn't own me a dime, if it was about my ego I would have left the 1st one or would have just thrown a tantrum and called her bull, or anything.
How can you see this as a good thing? It astonishing to me! This honestly has a word for it, it's called être de mauvaise foi. Yes I do not approach relationships with rationality or realness, and I why should? It depends on what you are looking? If it's a person with a stable life good Blah blah then yeah. If that's what you're into yeah sure go ahead. I don't want to approach relationships with a cold and calculated approach,because we are humans!!!
Are you French? Is she? I think in the French culture this behavior is seen very different to let’s say Americans, Anglos
In French culture, I can see her behavior as mauvais foi.... but not in the Anglo cultures.
Oh I didn't know this sub is full of americans
I guess that's why were having this sort of discussion
It’s got a mix, but seems to predominate with Americans, some brits and Aussies... they are similar in behavior. Are you and the Scorp French? Or different cultures (asking bc you both met online). If different cultures, that can add to the confusion.
I know French are much more serious about formalizing relationships... where as the anglos are much more relaxed about that and so much more grazing and testing waters (lots of deep testing).
Yes definitely French, as for me let's say that I have a mix, since Im from a neighboring country and, yeah I lived in Paris, it's not far away from where she lived. I thought I gave context before, I specified it was Europe. I I hate testing and the idea of making calculations about humans. Its.... You're not a machine or an calculus program.
Then I have to apologise to you for making assumptions. @mareinframe is correct. The cultures are different. Maybe try being a little more outspoken with your interest next time around. Subtle can make people feel like you are not that interested.
Yeah, culture plays a huge part I believe... they don’t have the same dating habits we have in the US. Most don’t even date! They go straight to committed relationships - whole different ball game.click to expand
Man I can't deal with the 7 chapters of dating, 1st date 2nd..... And on and on
Posted by PurpleskyPosted by bmoon8Posted by MareInfamePosted by DMVPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by DMV
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
I.... I was too stupid I have to admit that
I disagree. I think it shows strength of character to be open and vulnerable. Don’t ever regret that. To be so closed off only roots from ego and fear. Don’t ever regret having that ability to be so honest with expressing how you feel. It’s not stupid.
It’s called self respect
Treat yourself like Beyoncé tickets and not a plastic shopping bag
Know your worth
Let’s talk about homegirls ego. How she could feel that confident, that secure to dip in and out of his life. Let me go play around with this guy. Ooh look a better guy. Bye first guy. Hello new guy. Eh, new guy not that great. Grass not the much greener. I’m
Bored, need some attention. Oooh I bet first guy still likes me. Let me try to get back over there and just hang out till something I really want comes along. Yes, he answered and wow dummy still likes me after I did all that. Definitely not the one for me, but the one for me right now.
Some men have done this to woman time and time again.
When a woman does it, she gets a pass——
Re: self worth - Exactly 👍🏼
If you know your self worth, you won’t lose your self respect out of simply being honest about how you feel and being openly vulnerable. It takes COURAGE to do that. You can do that with tact, confidence & honesty and still come off as admirable. That ability to be true and not worry about what others think. Why all the self judgment? Is it because of fear to be seen as weak? Why is it weak? You make that behavior what you will - how you handle it and how you see yourself is on you.
I don’t agree with him calling himself stupid and I don’t agree with all the self judgment, he can easily turn this around where he doesn’t focus so much on it being embarrassing, humiliating or stupid.
Perspective can change. He is self bulling which isn’t respectful nor is it giving to oneself and he is devaluing himself based on his own negative belief.
It IS possible to just be honest and true to himself, keep his integrity and just move on. It’s an online relationship, they’ve known each other for a month. He didn’t offer his body to her or beg her for anything - his self respect is just fine, lol.
Sorry but you lost me with the Beyoncé ticket analogy. Treat yourself like a Beyoncé ticket? A THING? Or is it monetary thing for you? Monetarily speaking, ticket ranges from $ 90- $ 200 bucks... that’s an extremely low value to put on how one should treat themselves.
Plus, if you dig any further around the value of that ticket, it stems from a woman that was cheated on FOR YEARS by her husband and her solution was to be sad, whine, write and stand by the philanderer despite the “disrespect”🥴. The only reason that man got mauled was because Solange had the courage to claw away.
According to your idea of self worth and self confidence, Beyoncé should have left his ass years ago! So why highlight a ticket to go see her and support that idea? Seems contradicting on your part🤔.
You also lost me at the your vision of the girl’s scenario - you describe her like a Fire Sun Sign (easily bored, main focus on fun, simple, masculine). Too many assumptions on your part😣. They might be realities you have experienced and I don’t want to minimize that, but definitely not what I have seen and experienced from women that I know have gone through a huge break up & seeing their handle on the emotional journey afterwards - it’s complex. And after knowing she is French, I disagree even more with your analogy. So, sorry I can’t relate to your vision.
I CAN relate to your ability to easily imagine the worst, though... but, even if you are completely right about her, he hasn’t lost any self respect or self confidence for expressing how he feels...lol.
If Beyoncé managed to have self confidence after all that public humiliation, so can he for something much less meaningful...lol
Your points are good but not at all relatable to this particular situation, I think🤔
I don’t believe it played out the way DMV paints that it played out either. I don’t think her ego was dipping on 2 different men. She did not lead this man on at all and was very forthright with him. I respect this girl a lot and don’t even know her.
yeah she's respectable but how bad would it have been if she would of told him I don't fancy you anymore because I'm with someone else—?click to expand
Would have been a lot easier to me. At least that's how I see it
Posted by bmoon8Posted by PurpleskyPosted by bmoon8
@purplesky
What makes you different?
I don't be LYIN
Can I see your chart? I’ll post mine if you post your’s.click to expand
Can you tell if a person is a liar based on their chart?
Posted by PurpleskyPosted by bmoon8
@purplesky
What makes you different?
I don't be LYINclick to expand
Is that a Leo moon thing or a Cap Venus thing?
Posted by bmoon8Posted by saggurl88Posted by bmoon8Posted by PurpleskyPosted by bmoon8
@purplesky
What makes you different?
I don't be LYIN
Can I see your chart? I’ll post mine if you post your’s.
Can you tell if a person is a liar based on their chart?
For the most part, yes.click to expand
Wow. What does it depend on? My chart is in my last page of my pics.
I’m curious what you have to say 🧐🙃
I can’t right click and post it here because I’m on my phone.
Can you give me your opinion though? I’ve never heard this and it’s fascinating.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by DMVPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by DMV
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
I.... I was too stupid I have to admit that
I disagree. I think it shows strength of character to be open and vulnerable. Don’t ever regret that. To be so closed off only roots from ego and fear. Don’t ever regret having that ability to be so honest with expressing how you feel. It’s not stupid.
It’s called self respect
Treat yourself like Beyoncé tickets and not a plastic shopping bag
Know your worth
Let’s talk about homegirls ego. How she could feel that confident, that secure to dip in and out of his life. Let me go play around with this guy. Ooh look a better guy. Bye first guy. Hello new guy. Eh, new guy not that great. Grass not the much greener. I’m
Bored, need some attention. Oooh I bet first guy still likes me. Let me try to get back over there and just hang out till something I really want comes along. Yes, he answered and wow dummy still likes me after I did all that. Definitely not the one for me, but the one for me right now.
Some men have done this to woman time and time again.
When a woman does it, she gets a pass——
Re: self worth - Exactly 👍🏼
If you know your self worth, you won’t lose your self respect out of simply being honest about how you feel and being openly vulnerable. It takes COURAGE to do that. You can do that with tact, confidence & honesty and still come off as admirable. That ability to be true and not worry about what others think. Why all the self judgment? Is it because of fear to be seen as weak? Why is it weak? You make that behavior what you will - how you handle it and how you see yourself is on you.
I don’t agree with him calling himself stupid and I don’t agree with all the self judgment, he can easily turn this around where he doesn’t focus so much on it being embarrassing, humiliating or stupid.
Perspective can change. He is self bulling which isn’t respectful nor is it giving to oneself and he is devaluing himself based on his own negative belief.
It IS possible to just be honest and true to himself, keep his integrity and just move on. It’s an online relationship, they’ve known each other for a month. He didn’t offer his body to her or beg her for anything - his self respect is just fine, lol.
Sorry but you lost me with the Beyoncé ticket analogy. Treat yourself like a Beyoncé ticket? A THING? Or is it monetary thing for you? Monetarily speaking, ticket ranges from $ 90- $ 200 bucks... that’s an extremely low value to put on how one should treat themselves.
Plus, if you dig any further around the value of that ticket, it stems from a woman that was cheated on FOR YEARS by her husband and her solution was to be sad, whine, write and stand by the philanderer despite the “disrespect”🥴. The only reason that man got mauled was because Solange had the courage to claw away.
According to your idea of self worth and self confidence, Beyoncé should have left his ass years ago! So why highlight a ticket to go see her and support that idea? Seems contradicting on your part🤔.
You also lost me at the your vision of the girl’s scenario - you describe her like a Fire Sun Sign (easily bored, main focus on fun, simple, masculine). Too many assumptions on your part😣. They might be realities you have experienced and I don’t want to minimize that, but definitely not what I have seen and experienced from women that I know have gone through a huge break up & seeing their handle on the emotional journey afterwards - it’s complex. And after knowing she is French, I disagree even more with your analogy. So, sorry I can’t relate to your vision.
I CAN relate to your ability to easily imagine the worst, though... but, even if you are completely right about her, he hasn’t lost any self respect or self confidence for expressing how he feels...lol.
If Beyoncé managed to have self confidence after all that public humiliation, so can he for something much less meaningful...lol
Your points are good but not at all relatable to this particular situation, I think🤔click to expand
It’s okay.
I’m on a whole other level.
Most can’t keep up.
Posted by PurpleskyPosted by saggurl88Posted by PurpleskyPosted by bmoon8
@purplesky
What makes you different?
I don't be LYIN
Is that a Leo moon thing or a Cap Venus thing?
leo moon...lion of Judah shitclick to expand
Oh. Ok. I see why you act out and give em a good show then lol
lil Bumble bee 🐝
Posted by _elle_Posted by saggurl88Posted by bmoon8Posted by PurpleskyPosted by bmoon8
@purplesky
What makes you different?
I don't be LYIN
Can I see your chart? I’ll post mine if you post your’s.
Can you tell if a person is a liar based on their chart?
I have Mercury conjunct Neptune. Apparantly everything I say sounds like a lie 😅😂😭click to expand
I think I have that in my chart. They are both in Sag and right next to each other.
I almost said I will tell you the truth once you give your answer but I didn’t 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am seriously curious.
Posted by Purplesky
@bmoon8
You’re such a little cutie pie.
I didn’t realize you had so much Sag in your chart.
But I love a good Cap stellium! It’s the heartbreak for me 💔🥴😋
Posted by PurpleskyPosted by saggurl88Posted by Purplesky
@bmoon8
You’re such a little cutie pie.
I didn’t realize you had so much Sag in your chart.
But I love a good Cap stellium! It’s the heartbreak for me 💔🥴😋
DMV might remember because I once revealed I was insecure/shy about talking about my sagg bitsclick to expand
I think it’s your cap stellium that always draws me to you whenever you have new user names. I start talking to you, and playing too much, then you shoo me away nicely and I know who you are. 🤣🤣🤣
But I like Leo moons too. So it’s probably the combination. You seem like a cool girl.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by DMVPosted by MareInfamePosted by DMVPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by DMV
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
I.... I was too stupid I have to admit that
I disagree. I think it shows strength of character to be open and vulnerable. Don’t ever regret that. To be so closed off only roots from ego and fear. Don’t ever regret having that ability to be so honest with expressing how you feel. It’s not stupid.
It’s called self respect
Treat yourself like Beyoncé tickets and not a plastic shopping bag
Know your worth
Let’s talk about homegirls ego. How she could feel that confident, that secure to dip in and out of his life. Let me go play around with this guy. Ooh look a better guy. Bye first guy. Hello new guy. Eh, new guy not that great. Grass not the much greener. I’m
Bored, need some attention. Oooh I bet first guy still likes me. Let me try to get back over there and just hang out till something I really want comes along. Yes, he answered and wow dummy still likes me after I did all that. Definitely not the one for me, but the one for me right now.
Some men have done this to woman time and time again.
When a woman does it, she gets a pass——
Re: self worth - Exactly 👍🏼
If you know your self worth, you won’t lose your self respect out of simply being honest about how you feel and being openly vulnerable. It takes COURAGE to do that. You can do that with tact, confidence & honesty and still come off as admirable. That ability to be true and not worry about what others think. Why all the self judgment? Is it because of fear to be seen as weak? Why is it weak? You make that behavior what you will - how you handle it and how you see yourself is on you.
I don’t agree with him calling himself stupid and I don’t agree with all the self judgment, he can easily turn this around where he doesn’t focus so much on it being embarrassing, humiliating or stupid.
Perspective can change. He is self bulling which isn’t respectful nor is it giving to oneself and he is devaluing himself based on his own negative belief.
It IS possible to just be honest and true to himself, keep his integrity and just move on. It’s an online relationship, they’ve known each other for a month. He didn’t offer his body to her or beg her for anything - his self respect is just fine, lol.
Sorry but you lost me with the Beyoncé ticket analogy. Treat yourself like a Beyoncé ticket? A THING? Or is it monetary thing for you? Monetarily speaking, ticket ranges from $ 90- $ 200 bucks... that’s an extremely low value to put on how one should treat themselves.
Plus, if you dig any further around the value of that ticket, it stems from a woman that was cheated on FOR YEARS by her husband and her solution was to be sad, whine, write and stand by the philanderer despite the “disrespect”🥴. The only reason that man got mauled was because Solange had the courage to claw away.
According to your idea of self worth and self confidence, Beyoncé should have left his ass years ago! So why highlight a ticket to go see her and support that idea? Seems contradicting on your part🤔.
You also lost me at the your vision of the girl’s scenario - you describe her like a Fire Sun Sign (easily bored, main focus on fun, simple, masculine). Too many assumptions on your part😣. They might be realities you have experienced and I don’t want to minimize that, but definitely not what I have seen and experienced from women that I know have gone through a huge break up & seeing their handle on the emotional journey afterwards - it’s complex. And after knowing she is French, I disagree even more with your analogy. So, sorry I can’t relate to your vision.
I CAN relate to your ability to easily imagine the worst, though... but, even if you are completely right about her, he hasn’t lost any self respect or self confidence for expressing how he feels...lol.
If Beyoncé managed to have self confidence after all that public humiliation, so can he for something much less meaningful...lol
Your points are good but not at all relatable to this particular situation, I think🤔
It’s okay.
I’m on a whole other level.
Most can’t keep up.
Aaaahahaha... you’re funny😆👍🏼click to expand
That’s what they tell me
Posted by PurpleskyPosted by saggurl88Posted by Purplesky
@bmoon8
You’re such a little cutie pie.
I didn’t realize you had so much Sag in your chart.
But I love a good Cap stellium! It’s the heartbreak for me 💔🥴😋
DMV might remember because I once revealed I was insecure/shy about talking about my sagg bitsclick to expand
Your chart shows that you stand up for your convictions.
I like that
Posted by PurpleskyPosted by saggurl88Posted by PurpleskyPosted by saggurl88Posted by Purplesky
@bmoon8
You’re such a little cutie pie.
I didn’t realize you had so much Sag in your chart.
But I love a good Cap stellium! It’s the heartbreak for me 💔🥴😋
DMV might remember because I once revealed I was insecure/shy about talking about my sagg bits
I think it’s your cap stellium that always draws me to you whenever you have new user names. I start talking to you, and playing too much, then you shoo me away nicely and I know who you are. 🤣🤣🤣
But I like Leo moons too. So it’s probably the combination. You seem like a cool girl.
I won't shoo you away this time you've mellowed out 🙂 it seemsclick to expand
I haven't, its just not fun to bug a person who doesn't want to be bothered lol
Either way I don't mind. I'm a professional at leaving someone alone 😆
Posted by noobster
Met this woman online about more than a month I guess, online because of covid and lock down(Europe 🇪🇺) we started talking, everyday, and I have to she charmed me. After that I had to travel to another country, it's vital for me, anyways. But then after I don't know what happened, after a week she told me that she met someone else recently and she decided to meet him, I found that really awkward and cruel, since she new I liked her. I didn't know what to do or what to say other than a good luck. A week or two after this (I'm not sure I guess it was 10 days) she contacted me telling me that she's sad and that she was stupid and I told her that she hurt me. She apologized saying that karma got her or I don't know
Days after this we started talking again (I know I see you coming, I have a low self esteem right now, and I guess it's hope ) two days after this I told her that I liked her(I don't know how to do this) this is when she told me that she told me that her heart is closed and she doesn't want to get hurt again.
And I don't know, Is this a way to say I'm not interested in you, it's dead? Or you have to wait for me? Or what exactly?
If you have questions please ask, I hope you can help me
Sorry for the long post
As a Scorpio woman, we have tunnel vision and will become a magnet to the person we like. If she chose another over you even minimally, she's not that into you. She knows she had a connection with you though and thats why she feels like she got karma... the thing here is she said her heart is closed, sooo she is hurting. From the other guy. I say just be friends for now and she was transparent with you so although I know it hurt your feelings, you guys weren't committed. I always fall for guys who are my friends more than a guy I am just attracted to, if you really like her than continue being her friend. Don't friendzone yourself though lol
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