Acqua guy flirting and ignoring me

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Hello!

I have been seeing an acquarius guy during a music class.. we kept looking at each other from distance and one day I started saying hi and noticed that he is very shy but I could see he was into me. He kept ignoring me and looking at me from distance for few weeks, than one day he came to talk for the first time during class. He was nice and asked me a lot of questions, we started talking also about Our jobs, so at the end of the class I handed him my card with my website so he could have a look.

He didn't contact me so I waited the next class to see if he was going to talk to me again but at the beginning he acted like I was not there and he said hi when he saw me leaving without coming to talk to me. Is he just shy or he doesn't care ? When I saw him acting like this I didn't look at him and talked to other people.. how should I act?I am a sagittarius. Thank you!
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@saggurl88 Please guide the strayed centaur past the Aquarius maze safely lol.
I crashed and burned with my Aqua so I'm not in a place to give advice on how to win one. Lol. My status never starts out as friends first. More of a crash and burn situation.

I wish it did. Aqua is one of those signs that I immediately want to hump their leg, so it doesn't go very far for me. I'm currently friendzoned and not talking to him so I'm of no help lol.
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Thanks for all of your suggestions! I am also interested in a friendship first, so I don't mind let him lead and don't rush anything.. I was just wondering if he lost interest after we talked
No, He's just waiting on you to say hi. Go ahead and initiate conversations. He's wanting to talk to you, since he's staring from afar, he may just be unsure of you. Whether he likes you or not, doesn't matter right now, he still will be curious and want to get to know you.



He's already showing curiosity towards you.

It's just what comes next that's frustrating lol
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I agree with @saggurl88, I’m in her current situation. Don’t be too full on with them but initiate a friendship. My aqua told me the other day that there’s a girl who thinks they’re in a relationship and she’s crazy lol, they hate that.
Yeah, I would be weary if an Aqua said that to me. He hasn't told her they aren't together? That statement seems like bullshit. Aquas make it very clear that you are not their girl.
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I agree with @saggurl88, I’m in her current situation. Don’t be too full on with them but initiate a friendship. My aqua told me the other day that there’s a girl who thinks they’re in a relationship and she’s crazy lol, they hate that.
Yeah, I would be weary if an Aqua said that to me. He hasn't told her they aren't together? That statement seems like bullshit. Aquas make it very clear that you are not their girl.
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I previously dated a Taurus with an acqua ascendente and was the same not wanting a serious thing but was clear about it.. it's a rollercoaster .. they are so charming in the end !!!

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I agree with @saggurl88, I’m in her current situation. Don’t be too full on with them but initiate a friendship. My aqua told me the other day that there’s a girl who thinks they’re in a relationship and she’s crazy lol, they hate that.
Yeah, I would be weary if an Aqua said that to me. He hasn't told her they aren't together? That statement seems like bullshit. Aquas make it very clear that you are not their girl.
I previously dated a Taurus with an acqua ascendente and was the same not wanting a serious thing but was clear about it.. it's a rollercoaster .. they are so charming in the end !!!

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Aquas are charming, that's why I don't understand why so many hate them. They tell you how it is and are always very nice about the information. I've always dealt with Aquas that are straight up. It's not their fault that I want to wrap my hands around their throats and force them to love me. I feel like dragging the men, cave man style sometimes! 😆 They are too sweet for their own good, so the delivery of bad news almost seems like a lie lol
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I agree with @saggurl88, I’m in her current situation. Don’t be too full on with them but initiate a friendship. My aqua told me the other day that there’s a girl who thinks they’re in a relationship and she’s crazy lol, they hate that.
Yeah, I would be weary if an Aqua said that to me. He hasn't told her they aren't together? That statement seems like bullshit. Aquas make it very clear that you are not their girl.
I previously dated a Taurus with an acqua ascendente and was the same not wanting a serious thing but was clear about it.. it's a rollercoaster .. they are so charming in the end !!!


Aquas are charming, that's why I don't understand why so many hate them. They tell you how it is and are always very nice about the information. I've always dealt with Aquas that are straight up. It's not their fault that I want to wrap my hands around their throats and force them to love me. I feel like dragging the men, cave man style sometimes! 😆 They are too sweet for their own good, so the delivery of bad news almost seems like a lie lol
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Maybe my story can help you somehow: I am very attracted to acqua guys in general ( my Venus is in acquarius ) but what I love about them is their freedom, they know what they are passionate about and they live life at the fullest. As in the past I was the opposite, I felt the need of them to feel free and complete. I spent years discovering who I really am and i could finally see these relationships, even if bad, as a blessing because they showed me my lacks and fears. So I could work on them. I am still a work in progress but at the moment I have self esteem, so I can manage to deal with them better.. I just need to understand more the sign dinamics 🙂
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I agree with @saggurl88, I’m in her current situation. Don’t be too full on with them but initiate a friendship. My aqua told me the other day that there’s a girl who thinks they’re in a relationship and she’s crazy lol, they hate that.
Yeah, I would be weary if an Aqua said that to me. He hasn't told her they aren't together? That statement seems like bullshit. Aquas make it very clear that you are not their girl.
I previously dated a Taurus with an acqua ascendente and was the same not wanting a serious thing but was clear about it.. it's a rollercoaster .. they are so charming in the end !!!


Aquas are charming, that's why I don't understand why so many hate them. They tell you how it is and are always very nice about the information. I've always dealt with Aquas that are straight up. It's not their fault that I want to wrap my hands around their throats and force them to love me. I feel like dragging the men, cave man style sometimes! 😆 They are too sweet for their own good, so the delivery of bad news almost seems like a lie lol
Maybe my story can help you somehow: I am very attracted to acqua guys in general ( my Venus is in acquarius ) but what I love about them is their freedom, they know what they are passionate about and they live life at the fullest. As in the past I was the opposite, I felt the need of them to feel free and complete. I spent years discovering who I really am and i could finally see these relationships, even if bad, as a blessing because they showed me my lacks and fears. So I could work on them. I am still a work in progress but at the moment I have self esteem, so I can manage to deal with them better.. I just need to understand more the sign dinamics 🙂
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Best with Aquarius is not to understand or read them. Just ride the rollercoaster with them.
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I agree with @saggurl88, I’m in her current situation. Don’t be too full on with them but initiate a friendship. My aqua told me the other day that there’s a girl who thinks they’re in a relationship and she’s crazy lol, they hate that.
Yeah, I would be weary if an Aqua said that to me. He hasn't told her they aren't together? That statement seems like bullshit. Aquas make it very clear that you are not their girl.
I previously dated a Taurus with an acqua ascendente and was the same not wanting a serious thing but was clear about it.. it's a rollercoaster .. they are so charming in the end !!!


Aquas are charming, that's why I don't understand why so many hate them. They tell you how it is and are always very nice about the information. I've always dealt with Aquas that are straight up. It's not their fault that I want to wrap my hands around their throats and force them to love me. I feel like dragging the men, cave man style sometimes! 😆 They are too sweet for their own good, so the delivery of bad news almost seems like a lie lol
Maybe my story can help you somehow: I am very attracted to acqua guys in general ( my Venus is in acquarius ) but what I love about them is their freedom, they know what they are passionate about and they live life at the fullest. As in the past I was the opposite, I felt the need of them to feel free and complete. I spent years discovering who I really am and i could finally see these relationships, even if bad, as a blessing because they showed me my lacks and fears. So I could work on them. I am still a work in progress but at the moment I have self esteem, so I can manage to deal with them better.. I just need to understand more the sign dinamics 🙂
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Girl! I'm all about freedom and fun! I am fearless in love and don't give a crap about someone else's freedom. They can have it. I just want to own their souls, a small price to pay for freedom, right?? 😛

They are always free to do what they want cause I will do the same. I don't chase at all. They can have all the freedom they want lol This is why they have such a hard time with sag and thinking they give up quick. You either keep up or get left behind! You wanted to be free, right! You will always get your way from me. lol Be careful what you ask for! 😉

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I agree with @saggurl88, I’m in her current situation. Don’t be too full on with them but initiate a friendship. My aqua told me the other day that there’s a girl who thinks they’re in a relationship and she’s crazy lol, they hate that.
Yeah, I would be weary if an Aqua said that to me. He hasn't told her they aren't together? That statement seems like bullshit. Aquas make it very clear that you are not their girl.
I previously dated a Taurus with an acqua ascendente and was the same not wanting a serious thing but was clear about it.. it's a rollercoaster .. they are so charming in the end !!!


Aquas are charming, that's why I don't understand why so many hate them. They tell you how it is and are always very nice about the information. I've always dealt with Aquas that are straight up. It's not their fault that I want to wrap my hands around their throats and force them to love me. I feel like dragging the men, cave man style sometimes! 😆 They are too sweet for their own good, so the delivery of bad news almost seems like a lie lol
Maybe my story can help you somehow: I am very attracted to acqua guys in general ( my Venus is in acquarius ) but what I love about them is their freedom, they know what they are passionate about and they live life at the fullest. As in the past I was the opposite, I felt the need of them to feel free and complete. I spent years discovering who I really am and i could finally see these relationships, even if bad, as a blessing because they showed me my lacks and fears. So I could work on them. I am still a work in progress but at the moment I have self esteem, so I can manage to deal with them better.. I just need to understand more the sign dinamics 🙂
Girl! I'm all about freedom and fun! I am fearless in love and don't give a crap about someone else's freedom. They can have it. I just want to own their souls, a small price to pay for freedom, right?? 😛

They are always free to do what they want cause I will do the same. I don't chase at all. They can have all the freedom they want lol This is why they have such a hard time with sag and thinking they give up quick. You either keep up or get left behind! You wanted to be free, right! You will always get your way from me. lol Be careful what you ask for! 😉

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Good god, this conversation was fun! 😄

@Saggurl88
Lol. I'm gonna half to go back and catch up. I was only responding and haven't read everything yet lol.

@sultrykitty

I just reread it and realized you were talking about my comments lmao.

Maybe I'm a little too crazy for Aquas because I will actually say this type of stuff too. 😆 They probably think I'm bat shit crazy!! 😄
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I agree with @saggurl88, I’m in her current situation. Don’t be too full on with them but initiate a friendship. My aqua told me the other day that there’s a girl who thinks they’re in a relationship and she’s crazy lol, they hate that.
Yeah, I would be weary if an Aqua said that to me. He hasn't told her they aren't together? That statement seems like bullshit. Aquas make it very clear that you are not their girl.
I previously dated a Taurus with an acqua ascendente and was the same not wanting a serious thing but was clear about it.. it's a rollercoaster .. they are so charming in the end !!!


Aquas are charming, that's why I don't understand why so many hate them. They tell you how it is and are always very nice about the information. I've always dealt with Aquas that are straight up. It's not their fault that I want to wrap my hands around their throats and force them to love me. I feel like dragging the men, cave man style sometimes! 😆 They are too sweet for their own good, so the delivery of bad news almost seems like a lie lol
Maybe my story can help you somehow: I am very attracted to acqua guys in general ( my Venus is in acquarius ) but what I love about them is their freedom, they know what they are passionate about and they live life at the fullest. As in the past I was the opposite, I felt the need of them to feel free and complete. I spent years discovering who I really am and i could finally see these relationships, even if bad, as a blessing because they showed me my lacks and fears. So I could work on them. I am still a work in progress but at the moment I have self esteem, so I can manage to deal with them better.. I just need to understand more the sign dinamics 🙂
Girl! I'm all about freedom and fun! I am fearless in love and don't give a crap about someone else's freedom. They can have it. I just want to own their souls, a small price to pay for freedom, right?? 😛

They are always free to do what they want cause I will do the same. I don't chase at all. They can have all the freedom they want lol This is why they have such a hard time with sag and thinking they give up quick. You either keep up or get left behind! You wanted to be free, right! You will always get your way from me. lol Be careful what you ask for! 😉


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Good god, this conversation was fun! 😄

@Saggurl88
Lol. I'm gonna half to go back and catch up. I was only responding and haven't read everything yet lol.

@sultrykitty

I just reread it and realized you were talking about my comments lmao.

Maybe I'm a little too crazy for Aquas because I will actually say this type of stuff too. 😆 They probably think I'm bat shit crazy!! 😄
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Yeah if you *do* it on the d/l they love it. When it's in your face, I think they don't know how to take it.

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Good god, this conversation was fun! 😄

@Saggurl88
Lol. I'm gonna half to go back and catch up. I was only responding and haven't read everything yet lol.

@sultrykitty

I just reread it and realized you were talking about my comments lmao.

Maybe I'm a little too crazy for Aquas because I will actually say this type of stuff too. 😆 They probably think I'm bat shit crazy!! 😄
Yeah if you *do* it on the d/l they love it. When it's in your face, I think they don't know how to take it.

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I don't know how to do it in the d/l. I am too blunt and just come out with it lol.
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I agree with @saggurl88, I’m in her current situation. Don’t be too full on with them but initiate a friendship. My aqua told me the other day that there’s a girl who thinks they’re in a relationship and she’s crazy lol, they hate that.
Yeah, I would be weary if an Aqua said that to me. He hasn't told her they aren't together? That statement seems like bullshit. Aquas make it very clear that you are not their girl.
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I’m pretty sure even if he didn’t tell her he just distanced himself from her like how he did with me when I wanted to be with him.. I started acting like we was going to date and he didn’t come out with it but his actions told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship.. then a few weeks later he told me Lol. I honestly don’t think he lies but he’s very charming and handsome so he does probably have a lot of girls interested. I did say he needs to stop leading her on and entertaining so many girls and he said he isn’t he doesn’t have the energy or time but who knows I’m starting to like this friendship now so I don’t care lol😂
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Acquarians are so slooooooooooow in approaching ?



Send a pm...say "waddup", force his hand ie accelerate things.

You can do this at this stage because he has obviously showed the desire to have "something" with you.

Adding you on FB is proof. He prolly stalked the shit out of your FB page too (your pages and your friends' pages to make a mental picture of you which is the basis of the decision whether he wants anything at all) before sending a friend request.

This decision process doesn't happen overnight + life = long time for you.

Things can go faster now if you want tho.....unless he is an "ood" one returning to the world of relationships from his 10-20 year selfimposed exile in hermitdom cave atop Solitary mountain.



Send a pm...say "waddup", force his hand ie accelerate things.

You can do this at this stage because he has obviously showed the desire to have "something" with you.

Adding you on FB is proof. He prolly stalked the shit out of your FB page too (your pages and your friends' pages to make a mental picture of you which is the basis of the decision whether he wants anything at all) before sending a friend request.

This decision process doesn't happen overnight + life = long time for you.

Things can go faster now if you want tho.....unless he is an "ood" one returning to the world of relationships from his 10-20 year selfimposed exile in hermitdom cave atop Solitary mountain.
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Posted by Dddgery
Hello!

I have been seeing an acquarius guy during a music class.. we kept looking at each other from distance and one day I started saying hi and noticed that he is very shy but I could see he was into me. He kept ignoring me and looking at me from distance for few weeks, than one day he came to talk for the first time during class. He was nice and asked me a lot of questions, we started talking also about Our jobs, so at the end of the class I handed him my card with my website so he could have a look.

He didn't contact me so I waited the next class to see if he was going to talk to me again but at the beginning he acted like I was not there and he said hi when he saw me leaving without coming to talk to me. Is he just shy or he doesn't care ? When I saw him acting like this I didn't look at him and talked to other people.. how should I act?I am a sagittarius. Thank you!
If you like him act normal. Smile & say hi to him in class. Don't chase him allow him to come to you. If he's interested you will know he will let you know. If not keep being cool with him & saying hi. Everything works out for a reason.
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Posted by Krz
You are too young to make decisions based on zodiac signs. Just go with the flow. Do what your heart tells you to do. If it works out, it works out. If it doesn't, it doesn't. You have a long life ahead of you to meet many people. People should start paying attention to zodiac stuff at least after 30. Before that most people are immature and don't show the true characteristics of their signs. Trust me it is a big mistake to base your decisions on zodiac signs in your age.
I agree
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Posted by Krz
You are too young to make decisions based on zodiac signs. Just go with the flow. Do what your heart tells you to do. If it works out, it works out. If it doesn't, it doesn't. You have a long life ahead of you to meet many people. People should start paying attention to zodiac stuff at least after 30. Before that most people are immature and don't show the true characteristics of their signs. Trust me it is a big mistake to base your decisions on zodiac signs in your age.
I agree

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Then wth are you doing here 😂😂