@hellosaggy
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aqua women.... wtf is up
Understanding Aquarius Women in Relationships
Aquarius women often value friendship and intellectual connection over intimacy. They may be detached or reserved when it comes to sex, preferring to enjoy companionship and conversations. Communication is key to understanding their needs and boundaries. Recognizing their unique approach can help improve your relationship dynamics and expectations.
wtf are aquas so damn detached... they say fire and air go well together.... I had this same issue with a gemini too now that I think about it.
then when you get tired of it, at least I remember with gemini- when I broke up with her because physical intimacy was like pulling teeth, they start apologizing for being so aloof.
You're not gonna get very far with the ladies talking so much shit about Aqua women! 😆
I'm cracking up over here! lmao! How are you gonna come on the Aqua board, guns loaded lol
Posted by saggurl88
You're not gonna get very far with the ladies talking so much shit about Aqua women! 😆
I'm cracking up over here! lmao! How are you gonna come on the Aqua board, guns loaded lol
that's my problem... the gun has been loaded for 3 days and aint been fired.... coming over my place... basically cock blocking...drinking up all the liquor...
@clownloyal I'm mentally stimulating as hell. she always ends up asking for a massage...I'm thinking its about to go down... she passes out sleep... its crazy. I'm great company and all but liquor ain't free and I don't need a hanging out buddy for the majority of her sleep overs.
Posted by saggurl88
You're not gonna get very far with the ladies talking so much shit about Aqua women! 😆
I'm cracking up over here! lmao! How are you gonna come on the Aqua board, guns loaded lol
that's my problem... the gun has been loaded for 3 days and aint been fired.... coming over my place... basically cock blocking...drinking up all the liquor...
@clownloyal I'm mentally stimulating as hell. she always ends up asking for a massage...I'm thinking its about to go down... she passes out sleep... its crazy. I'm great company and all but liquor ain't free and I don't need a hanging out buddy for the majority of her sleep overs.
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Be nice to her and love her!! lol At least you get to see her. She must like you a lot.
Posted by saggurl88
You're not gonna get very far with the ladies talking so much shit about Aqua women! 😆
I'm cracking up over here! lmao! How are you gonna come on the Aqua board, guns loaded lol
that's my problem... the gun has been loaded for 3 days and aint been fired.... coming over my place... basically cock blocking...drinking up all the liquor...
@clownloyal I'm mentally stimulating as hell. she always ends up asking for a massage...I'm thinking its about to go down... she passes out sleep... its crazy. I'm great company and all but liquor ain't free and I don't need a hanging out buddy for the majority of her sleep overs.
Be nice to her and love her!! lol At least you get to see her. She must like you a lot.
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I ain't loving nobody.... she knows this... plus she's in middle of divorcing her wife so.... da fuc...
If she wanna use me... she need to use all of me... physically lol... alcohol aint cheap.... she stay drinking my top shelf stuff too. thats 35 dollars and up... bout to go buy her some pinnacle or malibu or something... or start cutting some with water using the empty bottles in the recyclable bin... yeah she's a save the earth chick too.
Posted by saggurl88
You're not gonna get very far with the ladies talking so much shit about Aqua women! 😆
I'm cracking up over here! lmao! How are you gonna come on the Aqua board, guns loaded lol
that's my problem... the gun has been loaded for 3 days and aint been fired.... coming over my place... basically cock blocking...drinking up all the liquor...
@clownloyal I'm mentally stimulating as hell. she always ends up asking for a massage...I'm thinking its about to go down... she passes out sleep... its crazy. I'm great company and all but liquor ain't free and I don't need a hanging out buddy for the majority of her sleep overs.
I mean it's pretty obvious you're the office bitch
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first of all. I ain't nobody's bitch so chill your tits....and second of all... I don't know wtf that means.
Posted by hellosaggy
wow... I hope the aqua I am messing with is not typical for your sign (she's my first aqua)....she's a sweetheart... we have fun together, great conversations, blunt and open talks...
sex and intimacy are bleh.... wtf
she's been pretty cool. she asks to come over my place all the time... she's been here 17 out of the 19 days this month.
she cooks very well...like hanging with a dude really.... other than that snooze fest to get her to warm up to sex, other than basically having to spell it out.
kissing? is like a chore, she feels awkard with doing intimate stuff to others... and we were talking this morning after I attempted morning sex, and failed, that sex isn't that big a deal to her and she enjoys other things in a partnership than sex. she said oh I love teasing you... its not teasing if we haven't had sex in 3 days... grrrrrr
zzzzzz zzzzz zzzzzz
its like being friends unless actually in the act of sex.
I feel mislead... she said she was horny all the time... I don't see it.
Annd your point is what, good Sir?
I'm just as confused as you are lol
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sorry its been 3 days without sex... I'm frustrated.
maybe is truly not that much into men as far as sex goes and geez, she sure is making herself at home there - cause any red-blooded real woman would be draining your ass
did you go to the Caps party or is that this weekend ?
Posted by tctao
maybe is truly not that much into men as far as sex goes and geez, she sure is making herself at home there - cause any red-blooded real woman would be draining your ass
Yeah she was here last night... so 18 out of 20 days so far. Thankfully she’s going back up north for her birthday next week. ... and apparently I’m pet sitting. Grrrr
We haven’t had sex enough for me to pet sit! That takes commitment!
Posted by tctao
did you go to the Caps party or is that this weekend ?
It’s tonight. I told aqua I was going out to see a friend tonight, She is like... I don’t care so what you want... I think she still plans on coming over regardless.
I think cap would be upset if I don’t go, but she dragged her feet. I didn’t really start talking, talking to aqua until after Christmas. On my birthday cap planned a party but was taking her sweet time getting physical.
She’s been hinting at us spending alone time together but aqua has literally hijacked all my free time.
Posted by saggurl88
You're not gonna get very far with the ladies talking so much shit about Aqua women! 😆
I'm cracking up over here! lmao! How are you gonna come on the Aqua board, guns loaded lol
that's my problem... the gun has been loaded for 3 days and aint been fired.... coming over my place... basically cock blocking...drinking up all the liquor...
@clownloyal I'm mentally stimulating as hell. she always ends up asking for a massage...I'm thinking its about to go down... she passes out sleep... its crazy. I'm great company and all but liquor ain't free and I don't need a hanging out buddy for the majority of her sleep overs.
I mean it's pretty obvious you're the office bitch
first of all. I ain't nobody's bitch so chill your tits....and second of all... I don't know wtf that means.
it was joke, chill but I do think she may be using you as an ego stroke or perhaps she likes you but not sexually since you did say she was a lesbian
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Sorry. It’s hard to do tone through internet.
Sex was good last night she was really into it. Had to go buy plan b this morning... again after orgasm she got cold.
I was first to say yeah yeah put some pants on... and she laughed and said yep. Wasn’t as awkward as last time but still weird as hell.
I now definitely now know she isn’t a multiple orgasm woman, so gotta get as many as I can before she turns cold
Posted by OrGasMe
I’d also like to add that it sounds like you’re doing light hearted, flirty stuff.The Aquas I’ve known talk of being wild in bed when truly stimulated on a deep level. But if I’m not stimulated then it’s just like ‘meh.’
Also, the ‘takeaway’ works wonders on our entitled arses.
What’s the takeaway?
I can only speak for air dominated Aquas or placement when I say that we're not that invested in our romantic relationships. Our interests and goals are so diverse and ever-growing that it's a perrenial quest to attain them; this keeps us occupied. We are not one to put our partner on a pedestal and consequently center our life around them. We maintainour hobbies and interests while being in a relationship. This is perceived as aloofness, disinterest and even disengagement from our partner's perspective.
Ideal partners for us would be people who are busy with work or other things in their life or who travel quite a bit for work. We do well with people working as pilots, execs. who travel for work and overall anyone who enjoy their hobbies as much as we do independent of us.
Posted by Leo188881
Now that you mention it.. my guy is a little like that too. Sex isn't as important to them as other signs. I think they use it as their emotional expression of love and care rather than burning up an intense wild fire of passion. It's almost controlled and restrained. They only give you enough oxygen to stay alight but not enough to burn the house down.
Yes, very true. Some aquas are exactly like you are saying. But others are completely the opposite
Posted by saggurl88
You're not gonna get very far with the ladies talking so much shit about Aqua women! 😆
I'm cracking up over here! lmao! How are you gonna come on the Aqua board, guns loaded lol
that's my problem... the gun has been loaded for 3 days and aint been fired.... coming over my place... basically cock blocking...drinking up all the liquor...
@clownloyal I'm mentally stimulating as hell. she always ends up asking for a massage...I'm thinking its about to go down... she passes out sleep... its crazy. I'm great company and all but liquor ain't free and I don't need a hanging out buddy for the majority of her sleep overs.
Be nice to her and love her!! lol At least you get to see her. She must like you a lot.
I ain't loving nobody.... she knows this... plus she's in middle of divorcing her wife so.... da fuc...
If she wanna use me... she need to use all of me... physically lol... alcohol aint cheap.... she stay drinking my top shelf stuff too. thats 35 dollars and up... bout to go buy her some pinnacle or malibu or something... or start cutting some with water using the empty bottles in the recyclable bin... yeah she's a save the earth chick too.
Such a man whore thing to say....in this case. Sag thing...
No wonder she ain’t putting out. I wouldn’t either lol
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She’s a preferable lesbian that is using my penis to comfort and distract her... why am I the bad guy?
I go “there, there, it’s ok...” I ain’t getting paid to be her therapist... so my fee is sex and food lol
Posted by Leo188881
Now that you mention it.. my guy is a little like that too. Sex isn't as important to them as other signs. I think they use it as their emotional expression of love and care rather than burning up an intense wild fire of passion. It's almost controlled and restrained. They only give you enough oxygen to stay alight but not enough to burn the house down.Yes, very true. Some aquas are exactly like you are saying. But others are completely the opposite
I have a wild side so sex always felt different with other people. It was never emotional for me so it took me a while to adjust and let myself feel without being scared. It's very different but it's sweet and doesn't feel empty afterwards.
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I am the opposite. I express emotions through sex. I have never felt empty after. Maybe because I only have sex with people I care and I never regret it afterwards.
Posted by saggurl88
You're not gonna get very far with the ladies talking so much shit about Aqua women! 😆
I'm cracking up over here! lmao! How are you gonna come on the Aqua board, guns loaded lol
that's my problem... the gun has been loaded for 3 days and aint been fired.... coming over my place... basically cock blocking...drinking up all the liquor...
@clownloyal I'm mentally stimulating as hell. she always ends up asking for a massage...I'm thinking its about to go down... she passes out sleep... its crazy. I'm great company and all but liquor ain't free and I don't need a hanging out buddy for the majority of her sleep overs.
Be nice to her and love her!! lol At least you get to see her. She must like you a lot.
I ain't loving nobody.... she knows this... plus she's in middle of divorcing her wife so.... da fuc...
If she wanna use me... she need to use all of me... physically lol... alcohol aint cheap.... she stay drinking my top shelf stuff too. thats 35 dollars and up... bout to go buy her some pinnacle or malibu or something... or start cutting some with water using the empty bottles in the recyclable bin... yeah she's a save the earth chick too.
Such a man whore thing to say....in this case. Sag thing...
No wonder she ain’t putting out. I wouldn’t either lol
She’s a preferable lesbian that is using my penis to comfort and distract her... why am I the bad guy?
I go “there, there, it’s ok...” I ain’t getting paid to be her therapist... so my fee is sex and food lol
Oooh.. see that makes more sense. If she’s a lesbian then yeah... she ain’t fond of yo penisssss lol count your lucky self she’s even having sex with you at all
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Lol... she jumped me last night in my sleep and I finished pretty quickly. She was like wtf. I was like sorry, Give me a few minutes to regain my composure. She was like this is why I sleep with women 😂...
Posted by Fafa
I thought you were doing the dating thing? Why do you allow her to come over so much. Her saying to masturbate when she is not around is what I say to MY MAN. You are not her man. Its like she doesnt want you to get it else where. Yall sound like a couple. Is this the chick that doesn't orgasm?
Yeah. She’s weird. She’s orgasmed a few times. Just takes some dirty talk and a little bdsm.
I don’t know why I let her come over so much. I guess because the situation is easy and I know nothing will come from it?
Yeah she is acting like a couple even though she doesn’t want a commitment. Last night she said I think you are really cool.
Posted by Fafa
I thought you were doing the dating thing? Why do you allow her to come over so much. Her saying to masturbate when she is not around is what I say to MY MAN. You are not her man. Its like she doesnt want you to get it else where. Yall sound like a couple. Is this the chick that doesn't orgasm?Yeah. She’s weird. She’s orgasmed a few times. Just takes some dirty talk and a little bdsm.
I don’t know why I let her come over so much. I guess because the situation is easy and I know nothing will come from it?
Yeah she is acting like a couple even though she doesn’t want a commitment. Last night she said I think you are really cool.
Sounds like she thinks you guys are more then just friends tho. Like her telling you to masturbate when she is not around? So what are ya plans with this? How do you exit? Or do you like how things are going ? What are you guys considered FWB?
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We joke and call each other fake bf/gf...
It’s hard to say just fwb when we are in same bed every night.
Posted by Fafa
I thought you were doing the dating thing? Why do you allow her to come over so much. Her saying to masturbate when she is not around is what I say to MY MAN. You are not her man. Its like she doesnt want you to get it else where. Yall sound like a couple. Is this the chick that doesn't orgasm?Yeah. She’s weird. She’s orgasmed a few times. Just takes some dirty talk and a little bdsm.
I don’t know why I let her come over so much. I guess because the situation is easy and I know nothing will come from it?
Yeah she is acting like a couple even though she doesn’t want a commitment. Last night she said I think you are really cool.
Sounds like she thinks you guys are more then just friends tho. Like her telling you to masturbate when she is not around? So what are ya plans with this? How do you exit? Or do you like how things are going ? What are you guys considered FWB?
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Well I still plan on leaving end of year/early next year to California.
From her past, she’s never had someone around to be a real friend and help her shape her future. She’s always supported others. I’m going to help her get back into college, fill out grant and loan paperwork and since she’s doing business, I can help her with class stuff, just so she can finish atleast her associates. She is about 1.5 semesters from finishing.I can get her a decent job with my connections.
Posted by aquarius09
I can only speak for air dominated Aquas or placement when I say that we're not that invested in our romantic relationships. Our interests and goals are so diverse and ever-growing that it's a perrenial quest to attain them; this keeps us occupied. We are not one to put our partner on a pedestal and consequently center our life around them. We maintainour hobbies and interests while being in a relationship. This is perceived as aloofness, disinterest and even disengagement from our partner's perspective.Ideal partners for us would be people who are busy with work or other things in their life or who travel quite a bit for work. We do well with people working as pilots, execs. who travel for work and overall anyone who enjoy their hobbies as much as we do independent of us.
Truth!
All my Aqua friends are married to pilots or military guys! They handle it like no other. Never, ever seen them cry or get upset about how long they are gone. They just get it.
Posted by tctao
maybe is truly not that much into men as far as sex goes and geez, she sure is making herself at home there - cause any red-blooded real woman would be draining your assYeah she was here last night... so 18 out of 20 days so far. Thankfully she’s going back up north for her birthday next week. ... and apparently I’m pet sitting. Grrrr
We haven’t had sex enough for me to pet sit! That takes commitment!
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and you won't get it - she is in control
Posted by tctao
maybe is truly not that much into men as far as sex goes and geez, she sure is making herself at home there - cause any red-blooded real woman would be draining your assYeah she was here last night... so 18 out of 20 days so far. Thankfully she’s going back up north for her birthday next week. ... and apparently I’m pet sitting. Grrrr
We haven’t had sex enough for me to pet sit! That takes commitment!
and you won't get it - she is in control
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She’s used to controlling ppl. I don’t care how cute she is... I’m not whipped and won’t be . I was using this time to figure her out. I’ll be the nice guy and watch and analyze someone’s behavior.
We wouldn’t get along as more than fwb. She’s too stubborn and over values her position, which is clearly a sign of insecurity... I’m going to have fun showing her how I move. She likes me. But her being a fixed sign it’s going to be interesting.
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wow... I hope the aqua I am messing with is not typical for your sign (she's my first aqua)....
she's a sweetheart... we have fun together, great conversations, blunt and open talks...
sex and intimacy are bleh.... wtf
she's been pretty cool. she asks to come over my place all the time... she's been here 17 out of the 19 days this month.
she cooks very well...like hanging with a dude really.... other than that snooze fest to get her to warm up to sex, other than basically having to spell it out.
kissing? is like a chore, she feels awkard with doing intimate stuff to others... and we were talking this morning after I attempted morning sex, and failed, that sex isn't that big a deal to her and she enjoys other things in a partnership than sex. she said oh I love teasing you... its not teasing if we haven't had sex in 3 days... grrrrrr... she was like don't be mad... go masturbate when I'm not around.... why? when it seems like I need to masturbate when you are around too!
zzzzzz zzzzz zzzzzz
its like being friends unless actually in the act of sex.
I feel mislead... she said she was horny all the time... I don't see it. She's going to get her days cut short sleeping over and the sex to sleep ration is basically 1:4...
thanks to her detached nature... I really don't feel a kind of way to stop talking.