LuvNLite
@LuvNLite
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Am I Just his FWB? Aqua Guy/Libra Lady
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
Lol
Posted by AerialView😥😢
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
Posted by saggurl88Why the long face? Is that your aquas placements?Posted by AerialView😥😢
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWBclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88Would you be an FWB for your Aqua "friend"?Posted by AerialView😥😢
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWBclick to expand
Be honest 😆
Posted by AerialView
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
Thanks for the honesty 😕
Posted by LuvNLiteYou're welcome (:Posted by AerialView
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
Thanks for the honesty 😕click to expand
Posted by STILLSorry, I just saw this. I was showing my sadness for the OP because cut throat response from @AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Why the long face? Is that your aquas placements?Posted by AerialView😥😢
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
click to expand
😆 You can always count on an Aqua for some necessary honesty to put things in perspective lol
Posted by AerialViewI could do this if he was dating. I don't mind it. I just need it consistently, and then it would turn into a relationship anyways lol win-win! 😆Posted by saggurl88Would you be an FWB for your Aqua "friend"?Posted by AerialView😥😢
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
Be honest 😆click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Exactly! That's how we roll! lol 😄Posted by STILLSorry, I just saw this. I was showing my sadness for the OP because cut throat response from @AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Why the long face? Is that your aquas placements?Posted by AerialView😥😢
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
😆 You can always count on an Aqua for some necessary honesty to put things in perspective lolclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88You didn't answer the question though. lolPosted by STILLSorry, I just saw this. I was showing my sadness for the OP because cut throat response from @AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Why the long face? Is that your aquas placements?Posted by AerialView😥😢
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
😆 You can always count on an Aqua for some necessary honesty to put things in perspective lolclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88Lol I got nothing to say👍Posted by AerialViewI could do this if he was dating. I don't mind it. I just need it consistently, and then it would turn into a relationship anyways lol win-win! 😆Posted by saggurl88Would you be an FWB for your Aqua "friend"?Posted by AerialView😥😢
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
Be honest 😆
click to expand
Posted by saggurl88That's me being nice 😀Posted by STILLSorry, I just saw this. I was showing my sadness for the OP because cut throat response from @AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Why the long face? Is that your aquas placements?Posted by AerialView😥😢
I'm Aqua sun and moon
Mercury in 11th
Venus in 1st
Yes you are his FWB
😆 You can always count on an Aqua for some necessary honesty to put things in perspective lolclick to expand
Posted by LuvNLiteOn the slight possibility you might not be FWB, he is extremely noncommittal. When they commit, it's not like this and they almost turn clingy in my experience. Honestly you've been around him long enough for him to know if he wants to do this thing or not. I would walk away since its not committed but if you need to see if there is a shot, although I don't see what's redeeming about him that you'd want to, I would just be clear and direct (without ultimatums) expressing you'd like a relationship with him and you have enough information to pursue it. Does he feel the same or not? Period. He's either going to say yes, or drag his feet basically saying what he's similarly said before. Understand the latter answer is a NO and be prepared to walk away. I'd prefer for you to do it with you dignity intact and not get manipulated into listening to nonsense or getting it on because it only adds to their arrogance.
July 2017 I reached out to a guy (my Aqua) on FB and shortly afterwards we exchanged contact info and started messaging and texting/skype regularly. We went on a couple dates and saw each other a few times. He told me that he thought I was more than girlfriend material. We got along great and felt comfortable with each other. Then we hooked up after 2 weeks. Things were still good after that but a few days later I went out, got drunk and bombarded him with texts and calls. He responded the next day asking me if I was Okay because I literally blew his phone up ( I believe his exact message was WTF are you ok?). He then explained why he didn't get the missed calls/text until that morning. So after that I assumed it was over because I seemed like a psycho but he actually continued talking to me and we hooked up again that weekend. I felt like he was starting to distance himself... so after a few days I addressed my concerns (at this point I knew nothing about Aqua guys). I sent him a text telling him that I wanted to get to know him better and that if he was just looking for a FWB situation to be clear with me. Keep in mind this is all within one month (face palm). He replies saying that he isn't the type to rush into relationships and he doesn't know if that's what I'm looking for at the moment but it takes him time because he doesn't trust people and it takes a-lot to gain his trust but kickin it with a person and getting to know them helps.
Ok... so 8 months later and I'm here for advice. I feel like he maintains his distance and isn't interested in getting to know me. Initially I would go over to his place and head home right after sex. Then we had a situation where I felt like he was indicating he wanted me to leave after sex and I got a lil upset and rushed out. The next time I came over he told me not to overthink things and asked me to stay. Since then I sleep over and each time he seems to become a little more affectionate and we talk more but then once I leave the next day he's distant again. I'll text him if I have a reason and he always responds but he rarely initiates contact and he never wants to go out anywhere. He doesn't ignore me like I've read they do and if he takes long to reply he tells me why.
Sometimes when I text him after a few days of no contact he'll say he was just thinking about me (so why not reach out?) We see each other once, maybe twice a month. He works a-lot (5 sometimes 6 days a week) and has a son so I try to be understanding and give him that Aqua space/freedom. Usually when he wants to see me he'll start contacting me regularly until we see each other and then it's back to being distant.
2 months ago we discussed the fact that neither of us are seeing other people and then we started having unprotected sex. We had an issue shortly after that and I questioned his interest in me and he said of course I have his interest and I left it alone...the next day he reached out to ask if I was upset with him. That night I went to his place and at some point in the night he pulled me close and held me while I was sleep.
The last time we were together he actually told me he missed me, he said it twice... by now I've been researching Aquas so I didn't react. He also said he takes the blame for us not seeing each other sooner (again I just listened). that night he cuddled up on me and went to sleep while I watched a movie. I don't want to read too much into things but IDK if this is all actually progress for an Aqua male or is this really just a FWB situation... Since we don't really do much I don't feel like he's getting to know me. I told him I wanna hang out and he said we can but I don't see that happening. Any input is welcome. Any tips on how to get him to go out? Please keep feedback positive/friendly. And FYI I'm almost 32 and he's 31. He's Aqua Sun/Moon/Mercury with Venus in Aries.
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