Aqua DEEP stares !!?!?!β€”? meaning?

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ok so, last night he put me on top sitting on his laps.. ( no sex)

and he started to STARE deep into my eyes.. it was scary for me, it was like he was trying to READ me DEEPLY or something.. it went on for ages.. i couldn't hold on to the glance at all.. it went on forever..and i'm like are you trying to like penetrate my soul or something..

it was so intense,,, and while i was holding the glance, i could feel the love and the butterfly...

that i started to feel some tears coming down. and his eyes were turning watery and red....

.and i stopped looking.. i couldn't take it...

what was that all about?

is it his pisces doing this or aqua?

i'm super confused... i told him i love him on the phone...lol...then we met up a few nights later ...

and it was a bit funny between us it was like, he was trying so hard and not being himself or something...

just a strange night...or... he was overly stressed n couldnt b himself.......

normally i love having long ass conversaton and smart ass with him..thats how we connect...

but last night i had my TV on so we decided to turn on the movie..n he was just so focus on the movie... lol, that i had to stop coz i wanted to CHAT with him lol....

what the hell is going on !!?

thoughts?

(ps: i been with venus in scorpio before, similar...but last night was right infront of my face...so strange and deep)
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Thats interesting.

I think its sweet when ur partner looks at you right in the eyes in an investigeting way.Maybe he was trying to find smt but its not that easy to do.

I played a game once with my taurus ex that we would look each other in the eyes for 3 minutes.And i could see him freak out.?

I think when you dont have secrets from the other person its a nice thing.
hahaha

i don't like this game..it was scary....

and i certainly have nothing to hide...

the thing is, it was like he was trying to communicate his feelings for me through his eyes or something coz it was getting red...or and i can't remember what we talked about, but i think he got a bit upset...and thats when the stares thing started happening. he said he wasn't upset...( i think it was when we started to talk about my ex , he thinks i still have feelings for my ex) maybe...

I don't know why i didn't find it so nice,, it was so deep !!! into my soul kind of feeling and this man isn't a soulful kind of person.....more of a rough sex kind of person hehe ...which surprised me.....
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sometimes it's hard to understand your your stories saweetz lol
as in my english sucks? πŸ˜›

come on u can help me out here

is this his venus in pisces β€” do you do that?
absolutely had no idea on what he was doing. πŸ˜›
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you know, i think i figured it out.

Him being all pisces was trying to get me to show the emotion and FEEL the intensity...

me being mostly aqua...couldn't take it and wanted to escape

there you go lol
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He was looking for insincerity. I actually thought of it immediately but then you threw me off with how nice it was and butterflies and shit.

But now that you've mentioned ex bf talk it makes more sense.

If you couldnt have held that gaze for at least some time he would probably have suspected youre lying, because liars tend to not be able to hold eye contact. Unless trained and even then its difficult to not give it away through microexpressions.
I did hold it for a while

maybe for a bout 1 min... n i started to have feelings coming through

seeing his eyes started to have water..

mine started to connect to his...and was getting emotion

so i stopped

not because i have ANYTHING to hide i certainly do not

i think i was trying to run away from my own emotion

he knows this too well and prob was testing me out
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sometimes it's hard to understand your your stories saweetz lol
as in my english sucks? πŸ˜›

come on u can help me out here

is this his venus in pisces β€” do you do that?
absolutely had no idea on what he was doing. πŸ˜›
you know, i think i figured it out.

Him being all pisces was trying to get me to show the emotion and FEEL the intensity...

me being mostly aqua...couldn't take it and wanted to escape

there you go lol
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very textbook.

but it's possible lol
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He was looking for insincerity. I actually thought of it immediately but then you threw me off with how nice it was and butterflies and shit.

But now that you've mentioned ex bf talk it makes more sense.

If you couldnt have held that gaze for at least some time he would probably have suspected youre lying, because liars tend to not be able to hold eye contact. Unless trained and even then its difficult to not give it away through microexpressions.
ok thank you, so for him to do that to me, can i say that he's not lying about stuff then ? lol
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sometimes it's hard to understand your your stories saweetz lol
as in my english sucks? πŸ˜›

come on u can help me out here

is this his venus in pisces β€” do you do that?
absolutely had no idea on what he was doing. πŸ˜›
you know, i think i figured it out.

Him being all pisces was trying to get me to show the emotion and FEEL the intensity...

me being mostly aqua...couldn't take it and wanted to escape

there you go lol
very textbook.

but it's possible lol
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Textbookβ€”? Lol
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ok thank you, so for him to do that to me, can i say that he's not lying about stuff then ? lol
For that answer were available on billable hours.

Jk jk πŸ˜„ idk, honestly i cant tell you. But looks more good than not. I guess. From a distance. I cant really relate to everything youve written but ive been known to watch ppl very closely when searching for lies.

If the guy wakes up tomorrow, throws a hissy fit and dumps you, we give no refunds.

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IMAo ! Ok only time will tell, though seriously ! If that's really the case that's smooth !!! I failed at it big time lol. That sucks. So, have u done that? To ur Taurus ex?
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ok so, last night he put me on top sitting on his laps.. ( no sex)

and he started to STARE deep into my eyes.. it was scary for me, it was like he was trying to READ me DEEPLY or something.. it went on for ages.. i couldn't hold on to the glance at all.. it went on forever..and i'm like are you trying to like penetrate my soul or something..

it was so intense,,, and while i was holding the glance, i could feel the love and the butterfly...

that i started to feel some tears coming down. and his eyes were turning watery and red....

.and i stopped looking.. i couldn't take it...

what was that all about?

is it his pisces doing this or aqua?

i'm super confused... i told him i love him on the phone...lol...then we met up a few nights later ...

and it was a bit funny between us it was like, he was trying so hard and not being himself or something...

just a strange night...or... he was overly stressed n couldnt b himself.......

normally i love having long ass conversaton and smart ass with him..thats how we connect...

but last night i had my TV on so we decided to turn on the movie..n he was just so focus on the movie... lol, that i had to stop coz i wanted to CHAT with him lol....

what the hell is going on !!?

thoughts?

(ps: i been with venus in scorpio before, similar...but last night was right infront of my face...so strange and deep)
Water placements, he needs sexual healing
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Yeah I realised that. Omg it was before we had sex ! He totally needed sexual healing. He was soooo all over the place before that... oh dear haha
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ok so, last night he put me on top sitting on his laps.. ( no sex)

and he started to STARE deep into my eyes.. it was scary for me, it was like he was trying to READ me DEEPLY or something.. it went on for ages.. i couldn't hold on to the glance at all.. it went on forever..and i'm like are you trying to like penetrate my soul or something..

it was so intense,,, and while i was holding the glance, i could feel the love and the butterfly...

that i started to feel some tears coming down. and his eyes were turning watery and red....

.and i stopped looking.. i couldn't take it...

what was that all about?

is it his pisces doing this or aqua?

i'm super confused... i told him i love him on the phone...lol...then we met up a few nights later ...

and it was a bit funny between us it was like, he was trying so hard and not being himself or something...

just a strange night...or... he was overly stressed n couldnt b himself.......

normally i love having long ass conversaton and smart ass with him..thats how we connect...

but last night i had my TV on so we decided to turn on the movie..n he was just so focus on the movie... lol, that i had to stop coz i wanted to CHAT with him lol....

what the hell is going on !!?

thoughts?

(ps: i been with venus in scorpio before, similar...but last night was right infront of my face...so strange and deep)
Water placements, he needs sexual healing
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Was he trying to eyes sex me? Hahaah
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ok so, last night he put me on top sitting on his laps.. ( no sex)

and he started to STARE deep into my eyes.. it was scary for me, it was like he was trying to READ me DEEPLY or something.. it went on for ages.. i couldn't hold on to the glance at all.. it went on forever..and i'm like are you trying to like penetrate my soul or something..

it was so intense,,, and while i was holding the glance, i could feel the love and the butterfly...

that i started to feel some tears coming down. and his eyes were turning watery and red....

.and i stopped looking.. i couldn't take it...

what was that all about?

is it his pisces doing this or aqua?

i'm super confused... i told him i love him on the phone...lol...then we met up a few nights later ...

and it was a bit funny between us it was like, he was trying so hard and not being himself or something...

just a strange night...or... he was overly stressed n couldnt b himself.......

normally i love having long ass conversaton and smart ass with him..thats how we connect...

but last night i had my TV on so we decided to turn on the movie..n he was just so focus on the movie... lol, that i had to stop coz i wanted to CHAT with him lol....

what the hell is going on !!?

thoughts?

(ps: i been with venus in scorpio before, similar...but last night was right infront of my face...so strange and deep)
Water placements, he needs sexual healing
Yeah I realised that. Omg it was before we had sex ! He totally needed sexual healing. He was soooo all over the place before that... oh dear haha
Pisces moon my gf is the same erratic

Me (scorpio moon) I heal in the way that I let go of my plummeting doom haha
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yeh he is very stressed out with work n uni. I think u r right he needs loads of my sexual healing n it took me forever to give it last night which led to the stares then he was back to normal again. Too funny
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ok so, last night he put me on top sitting on his laps.. ( no sex)

and he started to STARE deep into my eyes.. it was scary for me, it was like he was trying to READ me DEEPLY or something.. it went on for ages.. i couldn't hold on to the glance at all.. it went on forever..and i'm like are you trying to like penetrate my soul or something..

it was so intense,,, and while i was holding the glance, i could feel the love and the butterfly...

that i started to feel some tears coming down. and his eyes were turning watery and red....

.and i stopped looking.. i couldn't take it...

what was that all about?

is it his pisces doing this or aqua?

i'm super confused... i told him i love him on the phone...lol...then we met up a few nights later ...

and it was a bit funny between us it was like, he was trying so hard and not being himself or something...

just a strange night...or... he was overly stressed n couldnt b himself.......

normally i love having long ass conversaton and smart ass with him..thats how we connect...

but last night i had my TV on so we decided to turn on the movie..n he was just so focus on the movie... lol, that i had to stop coz i wanted to CHAT with him lol....

what the hell is going on !!?

thoughts?

(ps: i been with venus in scorpio before, similar...but last night was right infront of my face...so strange and deep)
Water placements, he needs sexual healing

Was he trying to eyes sex me? Hahaah


Yeah he was getting ready lol

For aqua it's tough to enter this world sometimes
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So you don't agree with him trying to find out if I was lying but instead he just needed sexual healing and love? .
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ok so, last night he put me on top sitting on his laps.. ( no sex)

and he started to STARE deep into my eyes.. it was scary for me, it was like he was trying to READ me DEEPLY or something.. it went on for ages.. i couldn't hold on to the glance at all.. it went on forever..and i'm like are you trying to like penetrate my soul or something..

it was so intense,,, and while i was holding the glance, i could feel the love and the butterfly...

that i started to feel some tears coming down. and his eyes were turning watery and red....

.and i stopped looking.. i couldn't take it...

what was that all about?

is it his pisces doing this or aqua?

i'm super confused... i told him i love him on the phone...lol...then we met up a few nights later ...

and it was a bit funny between us it was like, he was trying so hard and not being himself or something...

just a strange night...or... he was overly stressed n couldnt b himself.......

normally i love having long ass conversaton and smart ass with him..thats how we connect...

but last night i had my TV on so we decided to turn on the movie..n he was just so focus on the movie... lol, that i had to stop coz i wanted to CHAT with him lol....

what the hell is going on !!?

thoughts?

(ps: i been with venus in scorpio before, similar...but last night was right infront of my face...so strange and deep)
Water placements, he needs sexual healing

Was he trying to eyes sex me? Hahaah


Yeah he was getting ready lol

For aqua it's tough to enter this world sometimes

So you don't agree with him trying to find out if I was lying but instead he just needed sexual healing and love? .


Well as a Pisces you will know that he was lost in his emotions, he might have thought you were lying gut underneath all that panic and wonder he just needed you to respond with love
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Yeah... I think you are right.. thank you for clarifying for me... I think he struggled to express it with words sometimes because of the Aqua sun in him. Do you have that problem with ur Scorpio moon? I told him I was over my ex and he didn't seem like he believed me....
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
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Thats interesting.

I think its sweet when ur partner looks at you right in the eyes in an investigeting way.Maybe he was trying to find smt but its not that easy to do.

I played a game once with my taurus ex that we would look each other in the eyes for 3 minutes.And i could see him freak out.?

I think when you dont have secrets from the other person its a nice thing.
hahaha

i don't like this game..it was scary....

and i certainly have nothing to hide...

the thing is, it was like he was trying to communicate his feelings for me through his eyes or something coz it was getting red...or and i can't remember what we talked about, but i think he got a bit upset...and thats when the stares thing started happening. he said he wasn't upset...( i think it was when we started to talk about my ex , he thinks i still have feelings for my ex) maybe...

I don't know why i didn't find it so nice,, it was so deep !!! into my soul kind of feeling and this man isn't a soulful kind of person.....more of a rough sex kind of person hehe ...which surprised me.....
Its ok! Let him surprise you

Also if you feel uncomfortable just tell him and discuss it πŸ™‚
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Yes, can't wait to see him next to begin another stares game . Hahaha
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
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For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
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thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
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You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰
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Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰

Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰

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They don't like gifts because it triggers a sense of "remaining in debt". But they give gifts, not when you want them (as for your birthday), but out of the blue. I received lots of gifts from my Aqua. More practical than romantic, though. I don't give him gifts, except when I buy something special for him from a trip, by example, but I make small surprises from time to time - something sweet, something tasty, his favorite expensive drink or home-made dish (by me), etc. For me, his presence and a lovely toast in my honor and him singing "Happy birthday" with his wonderful voice is the biggest gift πŸ™‚
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰

Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰


They don't like gifts because it triggers a sense of "remaining in debt". But they give gifts, not when you want them (as for your birthday), but out of the blue. I received lots of gifts from my Aqua. More practical than romantic, though. I don't give him gifts, except when I buy something special for him from a trip, by example, but I make small surprises from time to time - something sweet, something tasty, his favorite expensive drink or home-made dish (by me), etc. For me, his presence and a lovely toast in my honor and him singing "Happy birthday" with his wonderful voice is the biggest gift πŸ™‚
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Yeah I get you, quality time is prob their biggest gift they can give to someone coz time is everything to them lol... they hardly have time so if they r spending it with you, that's def the best gift hehe. Ok I'm not expecting anything then... maybe a bottle of wine for us lol
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰

Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰


They don't like gifts because it triggers a sense of "remaining in debt". But they give gifts, not when you want them (as for your birthday), but out of the blue. I received lots of gifts from my Aqua. More practical than romantic, though. I don't give him gifts, except when I buy something special for him from a trip, by example, but I make small surprises from time to time - something sweet, something tasty, his favorite expensive drink or home-made dish (by me), etc. For me, his presence and a lovely toast in my honor and him singing "Happy birthday" with his wonderful voice is the biggest gift πŸ™‚

Yeah I get you, quality time is prob their biggest gift they can give to someone coz time is everything to them lol... they hardly have time so if they r spending it with you, that's def the best gift hehe. Ok I'm not expecting anything then... maybe a bottle of wine for us lol

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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰

Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰


They don't like gifts because it triggers a sense of "remaining in debt". But they give gifts, not when you want them (as for your birthday), but out of the blue. I received lots of gifts from my Aqua. More practical than romantic, though. I don't give him gifts, except when I buy something special for him from a trip, by example, but I make small surprises from time to time - something sweet, something tasty, his favorite expensive drink or home-made dish (by me), etc. For me, his presence and a lovely toast in my honor and him singing... "Happy birthday" with his wonderful voice is the biggest gift πŸ™‚

Yeah I get you, quality time is prob their biggest gift they can give to someone coz time is everything to them lol... they hardly have time so if they r spending it with you, that's def the best gift hehe. Ok I'm not expecting anything then... maybe a bottle of wine for us lol


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This coming Tuesday ... I don't even know if I will c him, he's got a pretty busy schedule at the moment so I'm just trying to plan some evening dinner with my girlfriends πŸ™‚
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰

Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰


They don't like gifts because it triggers a sense of "remaining in debt". But they give gifts, not when you want them (as for your birthday), but out of the blue. I received lots of gifts from my Aqua. More practical than romantic, though. I don't give him gifts, except when I buy something special for him from a trip, by example, but I make small surprises from time to time - something sweet, something tasty, his favorite expensive drink or home-made dish (by me), etc. For me, his presence and a lovely toast in my honor and him singing... "Happy birthday" with his wonderful voice is the biggest gift πŸ™‚

Yeah I get you, quality time is prob their biggest gift they can give to someone coz time is everything to them lol... they hardly have time so if they r spending it with you, that's def the best gift hehe. Ok I'm not expecting anything then... maybe a bottle of wine for us lol


When is your birthday?

This coming Tuesday ... I don't even know if I will c him, he's got a pretty busy schedule at the moment so I'm just trying to plan some evening dinner with my girlfriends πŸ™‚

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Well, at least you will have my well wishes on time πŸ™‚ He will celebrate you, I am sure. How often do you keep contact (in any way, not only meetings)?
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰

Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰


They don't like gifts because it triggers a sense of "remaining in debt". But they give gifts, not when you want them (as for your birthday), but out of the blue. I received lots of gifts from my Aqua. More practical than romantic, though. I don't give him gifts, except when I buy something special for him from a trip, by example, but I make small surprises from time to time - something sweet, something tasty, his favorite expensive drink or home-made dish (by me), etc. For me, his presence and a lovely toast in my honor and him singing... "Happy birthday" with his wonderful voice is the biggest gift πŸ™‚

Yeah I get you, quality time is prob their biggest gift they can give to someone coz time is everything to them lol... they hardly have time so if they r spending it with you, that's def the best gift hehe. Ok I'm not expecting anything then... maybe a bottle of wine for us lol


When is your birthday?

This coming Tuesday ... I don't even know if I will c him, he's got a pretty busy schedule at the moment so I'm just trying to plan some evening dinner with my girlfriends πŸ™‚


Well, at least you will have my well wishes on time πŸ™‚ He will celebrate you, I am sure. How often do you keep contact (in any way, not only meetings)?
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Thank you ! everyday . Regularly texting n calling sometimes. lately I been the one reaching out but he's always replying n keeping me posted of stuff... he's crazily busy n the last time I saw him I feel so bad for him. He's so dead !! So I won't b expecting anything this year πŸ™‚ it's ok....
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰

Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰


They don't like gifts because it triggers a sense of "remaining in debt". But they give gifts, not when you want them (as for your birthday), but out of the blue. I received lots of gifts from my Aqua. More practical than romantic, though. I don't give him gifts, except when I buy something special for him from a trip, by example, but I make small surprises from time to time - something sweet, something tasty, his favorite expensive drink or home-made dish (by me), etc. For me, his presence and a lovely toast in my honor and him singing... "Happy birthday" with his wonderful voice is the biggest gift πŸ™‚

Yeah I get you, quality time is prob their biggest gift they can give to someone coz time is everything to them lol... they hardly have time so if they r spending it with you, that's def the best gift hehe. Ok I'm not expecting anything then... maybe a bottle of wine for us lol


When is your birthday?

This coming Tuesday ... I don't even know if I will c him, he's got a pretty busy schedule at the moment so I'm just trying to plan some evening dinner with my girlfriends πŸ™‚


Well, at least you will have my well wishes on time πŸ™‚ He will celebrate you, I am sure. How often do you keep contact (in any way, not only meetings)?

Thank you ! everyday . Regularly texting n calling sometimes. lately I been the one reaching out but he's always replying n keeping me posted of stuff... he's crazily busy n the last time I saw him I feel so bad for him. He's so dead !! So I won't b expecting anything this year πŸ™‚ it's ok....

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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰

Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰


They don't like gifts because it triggers a sense of "remaining in debt". But they give gifts, not when you want them (as for your birthday), but out of the blue. I received lots of gifts from my Aqua. More practical than romantic, though. I don't give him gifts, except when I buy something special for him from a trip, by example, but I make small surprises from time to time - something sweet, something tasty, his favorite expensive drink or home-made dish (by me), etc. For me, his presence and a lovely toast in my honor and him singing... "Happy birthday" with his wonderful voice is the biggest gift πŸ™‚

Yeah I get you, quality time is prob their biggest gift they can give to someone coz time is everything to them lol... they hardly have time so if they r spending it with you, that's def the best gift hehe. Ok I'm not expecting anything then... maybe a bottle of wine for us lol


When is your birthday?

This coming Tuesday ... I don't even know if I will c him, he's got a pretty busy schedule at the moment so I'm just trying to plan some evening dinner with my girlfriends πŸ™‚


Well, at least you will have my well wishes on time πŸ™‚ He will celebrate you, I am sure. How often do you keep contact (in any way, not only meetings)?

Thank you ! everyday . Regularly texting n calling sometimes. lately I been the one reaching out but he's always replying n keeping me posted of stuff... he's crazily busy n the last time I saw him I feel so bad for him. He's so dead !! So I won't b expecting anything this year πŸ™‚ it's ok....


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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰

Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰


They don't like gifts because it triggers a sense of "remaining in debt". But they give gifts, not when you want them (as for your birthday), but out of the blue. I received lots of gifts from my Aqua. More practical than romantic, though. I don't give him gifts, except when I buy something special for him from a trip, by example, but I make small surprises from time to time - something sweet, something tasty, his favorite expensive drink or home-made dish (by me), etc. For me, his presence and a lovely toast in my honor and him singing... "Happy birthday" with his wonderful voice is the biggest gift πŸ™‚

Yeah I get you, quality time is prob their biggest gift they can give to someone coz time is everything to them lol... they hardly have time so if they r spending it with you, that's def the best gift hehe. Ok I'm not expecting anything then... maybe a bottle of wine for us lol


When is your birthday?

This coming Tuesday ... I don't even know if I will c him, he's got a pretty busy schedule at the moment so I'm just trying to plan some evening dinner with my girlfriends πŸ™‚


Well, at least you will have my well wishes on time πŸ™‚ He will celebrate you, I am sure. How often do you keep contact (in any way, not only meetings)?

Thank you ! everyday . Regularly texting n calling sometimes. lately I been the one reaching out but he's always replying n keeping me posted of stuff... he's crazily busy n the last time I saw him I feel so bad for him. He's so dead !! So I won't b expecting anything this year πŸ™‚ it's ok....


I do not understand. Expecting what?
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Trying to build a world of security around your man, huh? The Taurus sun of yours, searching for settlement... Hehe... Do not put him on a pedestal.

I am still waiting for him to go really deep with you. He is only dating you, for now. Yes, I saw deep sights from my man, too. Yes, I feel him rumbling inside. But on another level. Yes, I heard big words, and I don't mean "I love you", but I mean "forever". And this is the word Aquarians fear the most.
I don't even know what exactly I am doing, am I searching for security? Always lol.. I think it requires alot of time and trust for him to go really deep with me... I am pretty content with it being shallow at the moment. He doesn't have time for anything honestly he looked like a train wrack when he came by.. the poor man.. lol .. yes... I also fear forever ... yike... ? ..
For now, you are only building a relationship where there may not be one. Hiding behind your Aqua moon, so that you seem detached, but clingy as hell and trying to figure out and validate your man. Chill out and let things flow naturally. Feel him more than letting you driven by what you read here. Life beside him, do not fantasize. Facts are stronger. They come and reach for you more and more, in a gradual manner, when they feel it. Enjoy life, do not question it, be yourself. He can sense anything. He can know how to string you, he may dig deep into your soul, seduce you, and then go away in a fling.
thank you for you advice :/ comment, to be honest I'm at that point where I'm starting to feel like I want it to be just casual... honestly, I feel like I have invested myself emotionally and it's kind of already reached the breaking point many times.. my tank is kind of empty n if he wanna fly and fling, it won't hurt me as much anymore ... I'm ok with whatever comes. I think my Aqua placements love analysing that's all that's why I'm on here like crazy though that doesn't mean I'm no where near clingy to him, if I was im sure he wudnt still b seeing me. I'm the complete opposite to clingy to him. he even says so.. I will just go with the flow.. if he's not planning any future with me, sooner or later, this obsession will stop n I will move on to the next best thing. I feel my heart is almost ready to do just that. I don't have patient to wait around lol if he can't man up and make things serious n claim me...then I will just Fly n fling myself .. oh n my birthday is coming up, if he doesn't nothing for me or got me nothing, then I know where I truly stand , n that's ok.
You see? This is Earth behaviour. Craving for material attention. Not air. I don't give a damn about presents and I don;'t judge by them. He ignores celebrations. We keep them into consideration because I like them. But he gives me presents randomly. Meaningful presents. Out of the blue. Not because it's my birthday or anything. His way of showing attention and affection is purely constant, but not material. No guessing around. You will evolve, if so be it πŸ˜‰

Hahaha . Well I gave him small gift on his birthday n he did says for him birthday presents r useless. If people wanna give him things they don't need to wait till his birthday to give it... yeah maybe it's my Taurus wanting a gift.. lol...for sure though , I prob won't get anything . A nice bottle of wine won't hurt πŸ˜‰


They don't like gifts because it triggers a sense of "remaining in debt". But they give gifts, not when you want them (as for your birthday), but out of the blue. I received lots of gifts from my Aqua. More practical than romantic, though. I don't give him gifts, except when I buy something special for him from a trip, by example, but I make small surprises from time to time - something sweet, something tasty, his favorite expensive drink or home-made dish (by me), etc. For me, his presence and a lovely toast in my honor and him singing... "Happy birthday" with his wonderful voice is the biggest gift πŸ™‚

Yeah I get you, quality time is prob their biggest gift they can give to someone coz time is everything to them lol... they hardly have time so if they r spending it with you, that's def the best gift hehe. Ok I'm not expecting anything then... maybe a bottle of wine for us lol


When is your birthday?

This coming Tuesday ... I don't even know if I will c him, he's got a pretty busy schedule at the moment so I'm just trying to plan some evening dinner with my girlfriends πŸ™‚


Well, at least you will have my well wishes on time πŸ™‚ He will celebrate you, I am sure. How often do you keep contact (in any way, not only meetings)?

Thank you ! everyday . Regularly texting n calling sometimes. lately I been the one reaching out but he's always replying n keeping me posted of stuff... he's crazily busy n the last time I saw him I feel so bad for him. He's so dead !! So I won't b expecting anything this year πŸ™‚ it's ok....


I do not understand. Expecting what?
Expecting a present πŸ˜‰
Come on.. if you want anything, suggest it! He will be more than happy to fulfill it! You just need to understand his language πŸ˜‰
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So our last convo I mentioned jokingly ( well maybe not! That I wouldn't mind getting handcuffed on my birthday lol. N he's like... mmmm that would be amazing... n never asked me when it was !!😒 it's on fb but come on lol... I want a sexy lengerie lol... but seriously def no expectation he's not big on birthdays in saying that I didn't invite him to my sons first birthday coz u noe I didn't wanna freak him out n I think he was a bit upset about that... anyway, not long to go now...πŸ™‚ a big cuddle will do lol