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I don't think Aquas like to be spoiled. They expect you to pay attention to what they like, which is constantly changing, btw. It's the little things that get them.
Well it happened, my mums finally gotten breast cancer and she is milking it because she's getting a mastectomy next week. Thats a rather bad joke I know but I feel indifferent to her situation its like I can't freak out or feel sad for her otherwise she might think theres a problem even though there is a huge problem cos she's losing her left tit.
I've never really wondered what my family would think or feel if I had an appendage severed from my body is it something to cry about like your mourning the loss of a leg—_.Id feel remorse for the loss of her left boob as it did help me grow into the strapping lad I am today, and in some ways I blame my little baby brother for biting her nipples when he was young, he may have been a baby but he knew what he was doing as he was smiling when he had her nipple in his mouth.
I always said i would be there for mum to care for her when she's sick and she's called her useless sister that we see once in a blue moon to look after her while she recovers and its a bit of a slap in the face for me although I shouldn't make it about myself, its just that her baby sister is a useless drunk and when my grandparents were dying of cancer my auntie was MIA and left them for my mother to look after. I don't want someone like that looking after my mother.
So yeh I should be really sad that she's getting a mastectomy but I think the feeling has been eclipsed by the fact that I won't have to see her endure chemotherapy, she's 63 years old and smokes like a chimney and chemo is for healthy people so I'm just brimming with positivity that everything will turn out ok.
Sorry to hear about your mum, 11th! Just be there for her. I'm glad she has someone like you to take care of her. And your brother had nothing to do with it, you know that.
Out shopping with Aqua last weekend.
The 70+ yo man assisting us just up and asks me "So, how long have you owned him?"
I'm like, whah? (deer in the head light look)
I just go, "well, he's his own person, I don't own him" (emphasizing the word own). The man says "my wife has owned me for 50+ years and I love every bit of it."
Aqua says "oh, we're not married, we've been together 2 1/2 - 3 years, though".
The man goes "oh yeah, she owns you".
Aqua laughed said "I guess so"
I was like "we got to go!!".
Why did he say that you think?^
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Why did he say that you think?^
No idea. He shared a sweet lil note that his wife left in his lunch box and started trying to talk about the secrets to a happy marriage.
Everytime we go places, people assume we're married. It's cute, but we're always having to correct people. Maybe our age has something to do with it.
Posted by truecap
Out shopping with Aqua last weekend.
The 70+ yo man assisting us just up and asks me "So, how long have you owned him?"
I'm like, whah? (deer in the head light look)
I just go, "well, he's his own person, I don't own him" (emphasizing the word own). The man says "my wife has owned me for 50+ years and I love every bit of it."
Aqua says "oh, we're not married, we've been together 2 1/2 - 3 years, though".
The man goes "oh yeah, she owns you".
Aqua laughed said "I guess so"
I was like "we got to go!!".
that's really sweet.
I like to hear stories like this.
Making memories with your significant other....those little things count alot.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Well it happened, my mums finally gotten breast cancer and she is milking it because she's getting a mastectomy next week. Thats a rather bad joke I know but I feel indifferent to her situation its like I can't freak out or feel sad for her otherwise she might think theres a problem even though there is a huge problem cos she's losing her left tit.
I've never really wondered what my family would think or feel if I had an appendage severed from my body is it something to cry about like your mourning the loss of a leg—_.Id feel remorse for the loss of her left boob as it did help me grow into the strapping lad I am today, and in some ways I blame my little baby brother for biting her nipples when he was young, he may have been a baby but he knew what he was doing as he was smiling when he had her nipple in his mouth.
I always said i would be there for mum to care for her when she's sick and she's called her useless sister that we see once in a blue moon to look after her while she recovers and its a bit of a slap in the face for me although I shouldn't make it about myself, its just that her baby sister is a useless drunk and when my grandparents were dying of cancer my auntie was MIA and left them for my mother to look after. I don't want someone like that looking after my mother.
So yeh I should be really sad that she's getting a mastectomy but I think the feeling has been eclipsed by the fact that I won't have to see her endure chemotherapy, she's 63 years old and smokes like a chimney and chemo is for healthy people so I'm just brimming with positivity that everything will turn out ok.
yeah i 2nd truecap. sorry to hear about your mum. Just be with her, by her side, she needs your support more than ever now.
Sorry about your mom 11th!
So this week I am on vacation and so far I have made a potato salad for a BBQ and baked a yellow cake for a friends birthday. Did all my laundry (so far) and will be steam cleaning the carpets! Want to reorganize my garage too!
You would think I was a housewife or something..😆
Yes, sorry to hear 11th...
That's a lot to take in. Just be there for her...
today, cappy mother in law got some good meds for her aches at the doctors. 🙂
well it's temporary but she's getting physical therapy too a couple times a week, and tomorrow we're going with her to the physical therapist and do some excercises and we're gonna exercise with her too, and help her out with other things. It looks like it's gonna be okay. thank goodness.
ALways be positive! and pray!!
Just remember, Lisa, she probably won't be too willing to ask for help. (caps take pride in being independent). You're just going to have to recognize when she needs help and jump in. I'm sure she really, really appreciates yall.
Posted by truecap
Just remember, Lisa, she probably won't be too willing to ask for help. (caps take pride in being independent). You're just going to have to recognize when she needs help and jump in. I'm sure she really, really appreciates yall.
thank you, truecap. 🙂
don't worry! she's being taken good care of and there's alot of us in the family that make sure she's never alone and checking in on her (her brothers and sisters too)
She's always the type that likes to go out and be there for everyone, so this time, she just needs to relax and take it easy.
I'm so sorry to hear about your mum, The eleventh sign. I'm sending positive thoughts your way 😄
So, i'm spending my tues night before bed checking dating app messages. I get a message from this very handsome fellow "I know this isn't a great intro but.. would you be interested in walking in on me stroking myself and then staying and watching me?" I tell him "thats a double-0 negative Charlie Brown, I'm not interested in the casualness that you're implying. Good luck!' Ugh, i'm used to awful requests and messages but I check his profile anyways. So perfect! Sounds utterly amazing, 75% match. Did I say handsome? Under normal message standards I would totally go out with this guy. Whhhhhhhy? 😢 then he repsonds "understandable, its the stranger part that makes the fantasy. I would only ask that of someone I could see myself dating."
Posted by sassafras
So, i'm spending my tues night before bed checking dating app messages. I get a message from this very handsome fellow "I know this isn't a great intro but.. would you be interested in walking in on me stroking myself and then staying and watching me?" I tell him "thats a double-0 negative Charlie Brown, I'm not interested in the casualness that you're implying. Good luck!' Ugh, i'm used to awful requests and messages but I check his profile anyways. So perfect! Sounds utterly amazing, 75% match. Did I say handsome? Under normal message standards I would totally go out with this guy. Whhhhhhhy? 😢 then he repsonds "understandable, its the stranger part that makes the fantasy. I would only ask that of someone I could see myself dating."Haha!
Gem or Aries.
Posted by sassafras
So, i'm spending my tues night before bed checking dating app messages. I get a message from this very handsome fellow "I know this isn't a great intro but.. would you be interested in walking in on me stroking myself and then staying and watching me?" I tell him "thats a double-0 negative Charlie Brown, I'm not interested in the casualness that you're implying. Good luck!' Ugh, i'm used to awful requests and messages but I check his profile anyways. So perfect! Sounds utterly amazing, 75% match. Did I say handsome? Under normal message standards I would totally go out with this guy. Whhhhhhhy? 😢 then he repsonds "understandable, its the stranger part that makes the fantasy. I would only ask that of someone I could see myself dating."sounds like a player.
O_O
sounds like he has some gem placements, particularly in merc and mars. maybe a fire moon for boldness.
or a fire rising.
some guys fall in love with someone just by talking to them on the forum or even internet. O_O
i read that elsewhere in other forums, that they fall for people without knowing them.
they've got some PROJECTIONS going on for sure. Not based on reality. I'm geeling it is based on Neptune delusions too, also on Venus as well...combination of venus/neptune problems.
Make sure you spend day to day with him if you're thinking of serious commitment. And you get a feel of what he's like. You'd know instantly if you have good intuition.
Haha!
Gem or Aries.
sounds like a player.
O_O
sounds like he has some gem placements, particularly in merc and mars. maybe a fire moon for boldness.
or a fire rising.
I don't know his chart only sun sign is Scorpio.
some guys fall in love with someone just by talking to them on the forum or even internet. O_O
i read that elsewhere in other forums, that they fall for people without knowing them.they've got some PROJECTIONS going on for sure. Not based on reality. I'm geeling it is based on Neptune delusions too, also on Venus as well...combination of venus/neptune problems.
Make sure you spend day to day with him if you're thinking of serious commitment. And you get a feel of what he's like. You'd know instantly if you have good intuition.click to expand
Oh no no, not gonna go out with someone who messages me that. He could easily ask that if we had already met up and gone out once or twice and things got heavy because fulfilling fantasies is fun but not when that's their main intent. I mean come on! He's just saying "I'd only ask that of someone I can see myself dating" to get me to go out with him so he can get his voyager fantasy taken care of. Man! Every time there is a gorgeous one they're always like that :/
(btw, I talked to a gem last night too-- our convo was about beer farts!)
voyeur*
well earlier today we did go exercising with mother in law 🙂 she was very happy and looked content. It rained hard all day too.
@truecap, i forget to mention....my grandmother was a cappy sun, so i get what you mean. Although, my bff growing up is a cappy too, and they're so different,but both very responsible. Grandma was more of a worrier.
@sassafras, he still sounds like a player. O_O
but you have alot of fire...you can handle them players. 😆
(I was reminded of the astrology of bad boys. you need all that to put those bad boys in place) lol
Anyone wanna guess this dude's sign?
I'm going with dirty Virgo 😉
and I see he was my second guess which was the obvious choice! LOL 😄
I'm talking to another scorpio again...
I must be crazy 😄
What happened to your cap lady?^
NYAA
Question for you being an aqua male, how do you feel when you think you've found the one but the obstacles seem many, do you persevere?
Any aqua can answer that question btw!
Posted by aquapiscescusp
What happened to your cap lady?^
Well... she broke it off with me ;(
Said I was negative and unromantic
To be honest it really hurt a lot.
It was quite a shock for me.
And, I can't say I handled it in the most mature way at all. I was really into her and she rattled my inner emo BIG time.
That pisces moon of mine has been in full activation but I've been trying to make myself go out and meet other people despite the way I feel when I'm alone.
Question for you being an aqua male, how do you feel when you think you've found the one but the obstacles seem many, do you persevere?
Yeah I'm not the right person for that type of question at the moment sorry.
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@sassafras, he still sounds like a player. O_O
but you have alot of fire...you can handle them players. 😆
(I was reminded of the astrology of bad boys. you need all that to put those bad boys in place) lol
The last guy I went out with that was a player, it was sometime last year and I had known him for a few years (a friend of an ex) and I figured hey, he was good looking and all, why not? Well, he was a LEO who had the AUDACITY to put his hand on my thigh right off the bat. then I had received a text from this Leo while sitting next to him saying that he was out at a bar watching the game (yup) with a BUDDY AND HIS WIFE. UM, NO. I told him he must be seriously retarded but I was FLOORED because that text meant he was "checking in" meaning GIRLFRIEND. He denied it!! Just WOW.
He didn't have a good night hahaha and a week later he was "in a relationship" with a very nice blonde. Pretty sure that didn't last.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Posted by aquapiscescusp
What happened to your cap lady?^Well... she broke it off with me ;(
Said I was negative and unromantic
To be honest it really hurt a lot.
It was quite a shock for me.
And, I can't say I handled it in the most mature way at all. I was really into her and she rattled my inner emo BIG time.That pisces moon of mine has been in full activation but I've been trying to make myself go out and meet other people despite the way I feel when I'm alone.
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Oh that's not a good feeling. Do you agree with her reason? It sounds like it came out of nowhere. Sometimes it's just timing and whatnot, don't be too hard on yourself as aquas usually can be. Chin up 🙂
Thanks for all your warm positive thoughts, mums gonna be fine 🙂
I feel those emo moments nacho I really do. Those rare moments not many people get to witness haha!
For that question APC, I would go to hell and back if I found the one or at least if I think I found the one. I've done so before with disastrous results but hey, give it your all and regret nothing ay?
Anyway so the short lived fling is over with the Leo. Was fun while it lasted, sorta like the cutesy thing we all need once in a while. NOW however... well that's a whole different story. Would it be arrogant of me to say sometimes I can just pick the ones that would 'fall' for me upon observing them for a day?
Yeah I think so... definitely arrogant.
about your mum is doing good, 11th.
@sassafras, he still sounds like a player. O_O
but you have alot of fire...you can handle them players. 😆
(I was reminded of the astrology of bad boys. you need all that to put those bad boys in place) lolThe last guy I went out with that was a player, it was sometime last year and I had known him for a few years (a friend of an ex) and I figured hey, he was good looking and all, why not? Well, he was a LEO who had the AUDACITY to put his hand on my thigh right off the bat. then I had received a text from this Leo while sitting next to him saying that he was out at a bar watching the game (yup) with a BUDDY AND HIS WIFE. UM, NO. I told him he must be seriously retarded but I was FLOORED because that text meant he was "checking in" meaning GIRLFRIEND. He denied it!! Just WOW.
He didn't have a good night hahaha and a week later he was "in a relationship" with a very nice blonde. Pretty sure that didn't last.
click to expandi have no constitution for players. I honestly don't know how i even bothered way back then. *smh* soooo stressful.
i dont know why this song popped in my head. James Dean, the link to immortality and iconic legend.
too young to die. too fast.
Astrology of Sun Aqua, Mars Leo, Scorpio Moon, Cap Venus, Aries Rising. Wow, his Uranus Aries sits in the 1st house. Too fast to live.
Posted by aquasnoz
Anyway so the short lived fling is over with the Leo. Was fun while it lasted, sorta like the cutesy thing we all need once in a while. NOW however... well that's a whole different story. Would it be arrogant of me to say sometimes I can just pick the ones that would 'fall' for me upon observing them for a day?Yeah I think so... definitely arrogant.
Was this the Leo girl who was throwing herself at you? Hope it ended positively because didn't you guys work together?
Sometimes I want to disappear...
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Sometimes I want to disappear...
Me too *hug*
Posted by aquasnoz
Anyway so the short lived fling is over with the Leo. Was fun while it lasted, sorta like the cutesy thing we all need once in a while. NOW however... well that's a whole different story. Would it be arrogant of me to say sometimes I can just pick the ones that would 'fall' for me upon observing them for a day?Yeah I think so... definitely arrogant.
Was this the Leo girl who was throwing herself at you? Hope it ended positively because didn't you guys work together?
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Yeah positive 😛 She's got plans to move away. I don't think either of us are that attached yet. Saying that I'll be missing someone to spoil haha.
I like spoiling people too 🙂 When I don't have someone I usually end up spoiling my lil Minion
Today I was surrounded by Taurus (2 Taurus suns (grandparents) and 2 Taurus moons (parents). It was a rather interesting lunch and I realized where my mother gets her passive aggressive behavior from -.-.
Side note, I started a new job and as soon as my co - workers found out that I'm single, they all want to set me up on blind dates with brothers, and friends. I really hope I don't have some sort of sign on my forward head that say's lonely or desperate. I kindly declined and told them I've had bad experiences being set up on blind dates, which usually ends up with me not liking the guy.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Sometimes I want to disappear...Me too *hug*
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Thank you beautiful 🙂 hug right back to you...
Posted by Aquadeer
Today I was surrounded by Taurus (2 Taurus suns (grandparents) and 2 Taurus moons (parents). It was a rather interesting lunch and I realized where my mother gets her passive aggressive behavior from -.-.Side note, I started a new job and as soon as my co - workers found out that I'm single, they all want to set me up on blind dates with brothers, and friends. I really hope I don't have some sort of sign on my forward head that say's lonely or desperate. I kindly declined and told them I've had bad experiences being set up on blind dates, which usually ends up with me not liking the guy.
It's flattering when others want to set you up, they obviously think highly of you.
That said, I hate set ups 😄
But love to set others up.
I get along with Taurus, especially the men.
Posted by aquasnoz
I feel those emo moments nacho I really do. Those rare moments not many people get to witness haha!For that question APC, I would go to hell and back if I found the one or at least if I think I found the one. I've done so before with disastrous results but hey, give it your all and regret nothing ay?
Anyway so the short lived fling is over with the Leo. Was fun while it lasted, sorta like the cutesy thing we all need once in a while. NOW however... well that's a whole different story. Would it be arrogant of me to say sometimes I can just pick the ones that would 'fall' for me upon observing them for a day?
Yeah I think so... definitely arrogant.
Why were the results disastrous? You were all in and she wasn't?
Ive been obsessed with Heathers the musical its so awesome, has anyone seen Heathers?
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Ive been obsessed with Heathers the musical its so awesome, has anyone seen Heathers?
I've seen the movie and I had no idea there was a musical. I must watch this!!!!!
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Sometimes I want to disappear...Me too *hug*
Thank you beautiful 🙂 hug right back to you...
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Thank you 🙂
hope all is ok!
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Sometimes I want to disappear...Me too *hug*
Thank you beautiful 🙂 hug right back to you...
Hugs to you two!! I hope you're both doing well and are in good spirits. ((Love))
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