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Aquadeer
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Today I was surrounded by Taurus (2 Taurus suns (grandparents) and 2 Taurus moons (parents). It was a rather interesting lunch and I realized where my mother gets her passive aggressive behavior from -.-.

Side note, I started a new job and as soon as my co - workers found out that I'm single, they all want to set me up on blind dates with brothers, and friends. I really hope I don't have some sort of sign on my forward head that say's lonely or desperate. I kindly declined and told them I've had bad experiences being set up on blind dates, which usually ends up with me not liking the guy.



It's flattering when others want to set you up, they obviously think highly of you.

That said, I hate set ups 😄

But love to set others up.

I get along with Taurus, especially the men.
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That's a great way to look at it. Thank You!
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aquapiscescusp
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Posted by justagirl
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Sometimes I want to disappear...



Me too *hug*



Thank you beautiful 🙂 hug right back to you...


Thank you 🙂

hope all is ok!
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It's a better day for sure. I try not to procrastinate during a low time. I keep it moving and things tend to pass. What's your trick?
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SelenaKyle
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Sometimes I want to disappear...



Me too *hug*



Thank you beautiful 🙂 hug right back to you...


Thank you 🙂

hope all is ok!



It's a better day for sure. I try not to procrastinate during a low time. I keep it moving and things tend to pass. What's your trick?
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I keep myself busy! If i don't have a project to throw myself into i will find something around the house to organize or clean 😄

I will isolate myself sometimes.. which I think drive some of my friends crazy but the longer they have been in my life they realize it's not them or about them, which helps. I think I am pretty lucky with all my sag placements I never stay down or in those spaces for long.
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aquapiscescusp
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Posted by sassafras
I'm constantly getting turned off by gems lately. I get along with them amazingly well but I just have had a huge loss of attraction. And by lately, I mean in the last two years. Its almost like an aversion. I just constantly feel like they're selfish, indecisive, whiny, and don't listen very well if at all. Each one its a different story but the same issues.




I don't know any geminis... I guess we don't gravitate to eachother.

Only Gemini I knew was a coworker and he was Jekyll and Hyde, too weird for me.
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metalaquamonkey
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I'm still pretty new to dxp so ... Hi everybody! (in Dr. Nick Riviera's voice)

Are there any fellow Aquas with a Leo moon? I'm still learning about my placements and found out I have a Leo moon about a couple of months ago and per another thread my moon is in the 6th house.

I've noticed Leo mooners have somewhat of a bad reputation on some threads. Makes me curious as to why that is.

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sassafras
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Posted by metalaquamonkey
I'm still pretty new to dxp so ... Hi everybody! (in Dr. Nick Riviera's voice)

Are there any fellow Aquas with a Leo moon? I'm still learning about my placements and found out I have a Leo moon about a couple of months ago and per another thread my moon is in the 6th house.

I've noticed Leo mooners have somewhat of a bad reputation on some threads. Makes me curious as to why that is.



I have a Leo moon. Mine is in the 7th house.
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metalaquamonkey
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Posted by justagirl
welcome to the new people!!



Thank you! 😄

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Welcome metalaquamonkey... Brace yourself 😄



Thanks! Oh I'm ready, I think the good thing about me is that I'm not easily offended but at the same time I can dish back what others throw. I'm really just here to learn and share opinions and I'll try to do so with as much respect as possible. 🙂

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I have a Leo moon. Mine is in the 7th house.
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That's cool. I'm trying to learn more about the houses etc. For years all I knew was I'm an Aquarius sun born on the cusp of Capricorn and Aquarius. So I guess one can say I'm a Capqua or Capriquarian.
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metalaquamonkey
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My birthday is January 21st and according to this book I bought when I turned 18 (many moons ago) I was born 'The Day of The Frontrunner' and it also talks about cusps and I'm the cusp of 'Mystery and Imagination' according to this book and the sister to it which I also own about relationships.

It's really an interesting book but I don't recall reading anything in it about moon and venus placements etc. That's why all this info I'm finding out is fascinating to me as I try to understand how these placements effect my personality as well as others. 😄

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aquasnoz
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How are my beautiful aquas doing? Let me extend my frail arms and give you all a hug.

I shall share what I wrote on my facebook for some absurd reason, I find it hilarious because I'm so full of shit.

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The irony is I do trust people, too willingly. I'm sure there's a term for that in the field of psychological. Probably a sadist. I tend to place trust in people to test if they honour their words. As I make jokes about my terrible memory, which by the way is true, I forget written words all the time and things like names. But I'll never forget their personal words to me. To be fair I'm probably far more cunning and strategic and playing the people in my life like a real life game of chess. What I choose to divulge of me are usually that of an intention.

Though if we are to really think about that then isn't that true for all of us? Am I showing my scorpio tendencies here? Another fellow astrologer commented on this once. To connect is to make oneself vulnerable is it not? My stance is not whether it's bad or good, it's a neutral thought here. Is it odd to think that friendships are almost like holding someone's emotions and feelings for ransom? It's a thought some people will probably find odd but if it matters I tend to believe that we reveal our vulnerabilities because we like a person. That would probably explain why I don't make a habit of talking about my past or myself in general.
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Eleventh
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WB aquanoz I miffed yew

Have you been feeling vulnerable lately? I think I'm the same way, I put a lot of trust in people and I think I should be ashamed in the fact that I'm not surprised when they let me down but I'm not. Its cynical smugness rearing its ugly head and i find it very unattractive, instead I could be innocent and vulnerable which is so much more appealing than the predictable former.
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sassafras
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How long does it usually take you other aquas to officially move on from someone? It took me a little over a year to get over my gem ex bf and I thought I was doing pretty darn good lately over my last scorp but I think my constant distractions (which helped last time) are just having me avoid/push off dealing with them. I'm supposed to go on a date with another scorpio this friday- he plans to make me a surprise dinner of things I like but his constant pestering of photos and pursuit of me is really overwhelming atm.

I had a day off yesterday and I was so happy to just chill (i've been HORRIBLY busy but I like it) and my brain just started to bounce back. I thought I was OK with everything only to realize I'm really not and my ability to bury my issues is apparently so good I'm fooling myself.

My gem BFF just broke up with his Taurus GF and he's in the dumps again. He said we both need each other so we don't drown ourselves and go through crap alone. I would rather spend time with him (he's also SO much closer) than the new scorp. I feel making my BFF feel better is more important. I'm really at a loss at how to tell this scorp that I'm not ready to see new people yet but I would like the option to be available in the future when I'm better and if he is still single.

I know as soon as I get into work today I'm going to snap back to being alright. I just don't want to come home and feel that sickness in my stomach like I did yesterday/right now. Really, its this puking feeling 😢
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Aquadeer
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How long does it usually take you other aquas to officially move on from someone?

I know as soon as I get into work today I'm going to snap back to being alright. I just don't want to come home and feel that sickness in my stomach like I did yesterday/right now. Really, its this puking feeling 😢



Time. Also, it depends on the guy I'm with and how much he meant to me. If it was crush, or someone I casually dated, I'm over it. If it's someone I cared about and meant something to me, it takes time. However, currently I'm learning (this is the first time this has happened to me) to live with the pain of being in love with someone and having to go our separate ways. This has not been easy for me and honestly, I feel this is the reason, I'm not connecting with anyone else, because I'm still very much in love with this man. I keep telling myself the feelings will pass, but so far no luck. :/
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lisabeth
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Posted by sassafras
How long does it usually take you other aquas to officially move on from someone? It took me a little over a year to get over my gem ex bf and I thought I was doing pretty darn good lately over my last scorp but I think my constant distractions (which helped last time) are just having me avoid/push off dealing with them. I'm supposed to go on a date with another scorpio this friday- he plans to make me a surprise dinner of things I like but his constant pestering of photos and pursuit of me is really overwhelming atm.

I had a day off yesterday and I was so happy to just chill (i've been HORRIBLY busy but I like it) and my brain just started to bounce back. I thought I was OK with everything only to realize I'm really not and my ability to bury my issues is apparently so good I'm fooling myself.

My gem BFF just broke up with his Taurus GF and he's in the dumps again. He said we both need each other so we don't drown ourselves and go through crap alone. I would rather spend time with him (he's also SO much closer) than the new scorp. I feel making my BFF feel better is more important. I'm really at a loss at how to tell this scorp that I'm not ready to see new people yet but I would like the option to be available in the future when I'm better and if he is still single.

I know as soon as I get into work today I'm going to snap back to being alright. I just don't want to come home and feel that sickness in my stomach like I did yesterday/right now. Really, its this puking feeling 😢



for me. if he's an asshole. CUT OFF!! FREEZE HIM OUT. no more going back. Point of NO RETURN.

it's easy to get over!!! the trauma and the pain is always gonna be there. Because it's part of memory, but HELL the FUCK NO.

You all had no trauma in your relationships it seems. It's like watching episodes of "Sex and the city" with you ladies at times.
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sassafras
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How long does it usually take you other aquas to officially move on from someone? It took me a little over a year to get over my gem ex bf and I thought I was doing pretty darn good lately over my last scorp but I think my constant distractions (which helped last time) are just having me avoid/push off dealing with them. I'm supposed to go on a date with another scorpio this friday- he plans to make me a surprise dinner of things I like but his constant pestering of photos and pursuit of me is really overwhelming atm.

I had a day off yesterday and I was so happy to just chill (i've been HORRIBLY busy but I like it) and my brain just started to bounce back. I thought I was OK with everything only to realize I'm really not and my ability to bury my issues is apparently so good I'm fooling myself.

My gem BFF just broke up with his Taurus GF and he's in the dumps again. He said we both need each other so we don't drown ourselves and go through crap alone. I would rather spend time with him (he's also SO much closer) than the new scorp. I feel making my BFF feel better is more important. I'm really at a loss at how to tell this scorp that I'm not ready to see new people yet but I would like the option to be available in the future when I'm better and if he is still single.

I know as soon as I get into work today I'm going to snap back to being alright. I just don't want to come home and feel that sickness in my stomach like I did yesterday/right now. Really, its this puking feeling 😢



for me. if he's an asshole. CUT OFF!! FREEZE HIM OUT. no more going back. Point of NO RETURN.

it's easy to get over!!! the trauma and the pain is always gonna be there. Because it's part of memory, but HELL the FUCK NO.

You all had no trauma in your relationships it seems. It's like watching episodes of "Sex and the city" with you ladies at times.
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He wasn't an asshole-- he was waaaaaay too emotionally messed up and I can't be the person to help him- he needs serious help. It became EXACTLY like my ex-aries who had PTSD and I'm doing what I did in that situation-- moving on from it entirely because its just too much to deal with.
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sassafras
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Posted by Aquadeer
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How long does it usually take you other aquas to officially move on from someone?

I know as soon as I get into work today I'm going to snap back to being alright. I just don't want to come home and feel that sickness in my stomach like I did yesterday/right now. Really, its this puking feeling 😢



Time. Also, it depends on the guy I'm with and how much he meant to me. If it was crush, or someone I casually dated, I'm over it. If it's someone I cared about and meant something to me, it takes time. However, currently I'm learning (this is the first time this has happened to me) to live with the pain of being in love with someone and having to go our separate ways. This has not been easy for me and honestly, I feel this is the reason, I'm not connecting with anyone else, because I'm still very much in love with this man. I keep telling myself the feelings will pass, but so far no luck. :/
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That's a similar feeling I had after my ex-gem. It took so long, but I was dating so many awesome people. I just didn't feel a single thing for them, like I was going through the motions but not really giving anyone a real chance.

What baffles me is there is this cancer girl I know. She was in a long-term relationship that lasted like 4-5 years. The guy ended up getting a new job out in hawaii and she didn't want to move away from family and friends. Its only been 3-4 weeks since he moved away and she already has a new boyfriend. I just can't seem to wrap my head around how fast some people move on!