Aquarius and affair

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I have noticed something interesting about aqua males.

They have mo qualms about pursuing an alreay taken woman. There are 2 cases I can speak of where they end up together with one pursued. They say these types of beginnings don't usually last but this has not been true with these couples.

Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?

Posted by krysrenee7
Ummmm I'd def. confess.

I'm not sure though if admission (or not) to cheating is dictated by astrology though

Posted by krysrenee7
As I said, Aquas are suckas for stimulation. Given that, they may almost overstep boundaries, but a full blown affair?

Just can't see it lol sorry

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Posted by backtokemet

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?

We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.

Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂

oh nooo !!! LMFAO
yeah, like my HS aqua friend who was dating 2 chicks at the same time with zero guilt about it .. yet he'd have been PISSED/OFFENDED if one of them 'cheated' on him
he was loyal without a doubt .. loyal to himself !
maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same time
FOH

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Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?

Posted by truecap

Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?

Maintain, hell no! End the affair.

Confession brings the person who's being cheated on a great deal of pain and rips families apart. Yet, the person who's being cheated on has a right to know their partner is a selfish, lying piece of shit who has broken that sacred trust and betrayed them in the worst way.

Confess. Let the partner do what they need to do what's best for them. Who wants to be with someone that is not 100% into a marriage/relationship.

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Posted by aquarius09

Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?

We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.

I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.

Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂

oh nooo !!! LMFAO

yeah, like my HS aqua friend who was dating 2 chicks at the same time with zero guilt about it .. yet he'd have been PISSED/OFFENDED if one of them 'cheated' on him

he was loyal without a doubt .. loyal to himself !
maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same time

FOH

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Posted by Bsmurray
I had an affair once. It was the same girl and we hooked up twice.

I felt guilty and confessed to my girlfriend about it.

She cried and I felt bad for doing it. Even though we stayed together after it happened I'm not going to do it again. Why bother? I see it's better to either a) leave the person you're with to be with the other or b) don't do it.

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Posted by krysrenee7
Ummmm I'd def. confess.
I'm not sure though if admission (or not) to cheating is dictated by astrology though

Posted by krysrenee7
As I said, Aquas are suckas for stimulation. Given that, they may almost overstep boundaries, but a full blown affair?
Just can't see it lol sorry

Though in all seriousness, I would like to think that I'm one the good guys. Honest, upright and all that jazz. But honestly, I think it just takes the right/wrong person to bring out the devil inside. Also there's this saying I heard once...
"Words are cheap. The biggest thing you can say is 'elephant'." ?? Charles Chaplin

Glad to see my head isn't the only head being blown right now. Almost every aqua I know, man and woman has had affairs. I had no idea Aquas had a rep for being loyal. Since when? How'd I miss that? I've had married Aquas or aquas in relationships approach me several times. Smh. I think krysrenee is right on point when she says the temptation is from mental stimulation. That's a huge motivator for cheating Aquas I know.
To the OP, just end it with the person you're with. Tell them you met someone else. The truth shall set you free.And, before anybody gets all upset, I'm not bashing Aquas here. I just never realized they had a reputation for being any more loyal than any other sign. It's also not my experience with them.

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Posted by truecap
Lisa, I see what you're saying, however, I think often times the problem lies with the fact that the men DO tell women from the get go, such as "I'm not looking for anything serious", and a lot of women either don't hear them or choose to ignore it.

I'm not saying that is the case with this OP, but I do see a lot of women think they'll be the ones to change their mind, that they're different, they're special. Some of the women are in denial. Some of the women are agreeable with nothing serious, then they end up falling for the guy.

In a lot of cases, the men have been honest - and aqua men are known in general for being honest. Besides that, aqua men are sweet and kind hearted. They actually don't like to hurt people. But, since they have been honest, is it their fault the woman develops feelings when she's been warned from day one?

Posted by backtokemet
@aquarius09: you seem to always find excuses for your astro siblings

if the OP was a LIBRA, I believe she'd have gotten that brutal honesty of yours not the soft-spoken, motherly version .. but I'm merely assuming 🙂

out of curiosity: what is Ashton K. excuse for cheating on Demi ? he has an AQUARIUS stellium (sun, moon, mercury & venus) + mars in CANCER

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I have noticed something interesting about aqua males.

They have mo qualms about pursuing an alreay taken woman. There are 2 cases I can speak of where they end up together with one pursued. They say these types of beginnings don't usually last but this has not been true with these couples.

It's a disgusting habit of men, who are UNHAPPY in their current relationship or if they are single and find another man's woman so tiltillating and exciting.

I definitely see it in real life -- just going to the supermarket or anywhere you'd think you'd be safe and men even see the wedding ring and they still go, "ohh wow HOT! mm babydoll." or something disgusting like that.

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Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?

We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.

I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.

Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂

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Posted by Xel1337

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I have noticed something interesting about aqua males.
They have mo qualms about pursuing an alreay taken woman. There are 2 cases I can speak of where they end up together with one pursued. They say these types of beginnings don't usually last but this has not been true with these couples.

It's a disgusting habit of men, who are UNHAPPY in their current relationship or if they are single and find another man's woman so tiltillating and exciting.
I definitely see it in real life -- just going to the supermarket or anywhere you'd think you'd be safe and men even see the wedding ring and they still go, "ohh wow HOT! mm babydoll." or something disgusting like that.

You seem to suspiciously be taking a HUGE interest in Aquarius i notice.


LOL But you fail to mention how the woman is also being bad by not saying "Well I'm in a committed relationship and I'm loyal "

also a good amount of girls default to " I have a boy friend " even if they don't for whatever reasons or pre judgements

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Posted by Sugarfoot
I'm not lying. I was with a cancer last year. I was with him for 1.5 years. We broke up. Four mos later I began dating my cap. We've been together for 9 mos yesterday. Does it seem unreasonable to you that someone could be dating one person and later date someone else? Anything other questions—

Posted by Sugarfoot
You don't have a clue what happened in my past relationship Lisa. You don't have an inkling of an idea how hard I tried to make that relationship work or how much I cared. I would love if this relationship worked out for the long haul. He's a great guy.

I do my best to treat everyone good. And, I truly do hope that you feel better. I noticed on another thread that we are both ISTJ's. You seem to have a similar coping mechanism as me. I don't know what's going on in your life, but everything does pass with time.

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Posted by aquarius09

Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?

We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.

I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.

Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂

Spoken like a TRUE Aquarius

and yeah the only unfaithful Aquarius's are those that have moon in capricorn, mercury in capricorn moon in scorpio.. moon in cancer.. moon in libra

IE The Pseudo Aquarius's.. often they are also January Aquariuses [which is Capricorns month ]

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Posted by backtokemet

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?

We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.

I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.

Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂

oh nooo !!! LMFAO

yeah, like my HS aqua friend who was dating 2 chicks at the same time with zero guilt about it .. yet he'd have been PISSED/OFFENDED if one of them 'cheated' on him

he was loyal without a doubt .. loyal to himself !
maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same time

FOH

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by backtokemet

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?

We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.

Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂

oh nooo !!! LMFAO
yeah, like my HS aqua friend who was dating 2 chicks at the same time with zero guilt about it .. yet he'd have been PISSED/OFFENDED if one of them 'cheated' on him
he was loyal without a doubt .. loyal to himself !
maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same time
FOH

sounds like double standards....and having your cake and eating it too. Well he'll get his alright...KARMA!!! you don't hurt other people like that.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by backtokemet

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by funkygal
One day, you just happened to meet someone who is not your lover or spouse, that you feel right to be with, that light up your life, that you're so scare of your feeling making you pull away, and that you're screwed if you can't see/talk to that person.. And make you cross the line, break your vow to involve in a secret affair.
It seems aquarius is famous of be faithful. But it happens sometimes.
If so, what would you do? confess? or, just keep everything as it's? or, end the affair?

We are known for being loyal and we are definitely not cowardly or as selfish like some other signs to be the cake eaty type.
I have never known an aqua to be unfaithful. Every time my aqua sibling, cousins, or friends developed feelings for another person, they left the current relationship to be with the next person. They didn't act on their feelings until they freed themselves from their previous relationship. The reason I think for aquas to be that way is that our conscience is very influential over our psyche and it won't let us live with it, just like yours isn't letting you live with your misdeed.

Confess and deal with the ramifications of your actions or end the affair. When in doubt, do unto others as you would want done unto you. Do exactly what you would expect your partner to do if you were in his position 🙂

oh nooo !!! LMFAO
yeah, like my HS aqua friend who was dating 2 chicks at the same time with zero guilt about it .. yet he'd have been PISSED/OFFENDED if one of them 'cheated' on him
he was loyal without a doubt .. loyal to himself !
maybe the cheating was rooted in altruism .. his intent must have been to make more than one woman happy at the same time
FOH

sounds like double standards....and having your cake and eating it too. Well he'll get his alright...KARMA!!! you don't hurt other people like that.

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Posted by aqulibini
confession can actually save a relationship. on the other hand, just continuing to deceive until the partner discovers on their own is worse..ask me!

when this guy cheated on me, i found out after months of suspicion..and till date he makes excuses and fails to own his deed. this disgusts me more and makes me feel if he is not being honest now, he will never be.

He seems to be afraid that if he does admit, there won't be any chance of the relationship to continue..but no! thats the biggest mistake one can make. he could actually be given a second chance if he had come up straight, apologized and swear not to do it again. but till date he hasn't, which disgusts me even more. and now he has closed all the doors on himself. too late even if he confesses now.

my advice, confess before its too late, u will at least get the points for being honest. but if he/she finds out later somehow, and he will...u have nothing in ur favour, neither loyalty nor honesty. also, confession can actually strengthen the bond, and make it easier to resist the other person.

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Posted by krysrenee7
Ummmm I'd def. confess.

I'm not sure though if admission (or not) to cheating is dictated by astrology though

Posted by krysrenee7
As I said, Aquas are suckas for stimulation. Given that, they may almost overstep boundaries, but a full blown affair?

Just can't see it lol sorry

Though in all seriousness, I would like to think that I'm one the good guys. Honest, upright and all that jazz. But honestly, I think it just takes the right/wrong person to bring out the devil inside.

Also there's this saying I heard once...

"Words are cheap. The biggest thing you can say is 'elephant'." ?? Charles Chaplin

Glad to see my head isn't the only head being blown right now. Almost every aqua I know, man and woman has had affairs. I had no idea Aquas had a rep for being loyal. Since when? How'd I miss that? I've had married Aquas or aquas in relationships approach me several times. Smh. I think krysrenee is right on point when she says the temptation is from mental stimulation. That's a huge motivator for cheating Aquas I know.

To the OP, just end it with the person you're with. Tell them you met someone else. The truth shall set you free.

And, before anybody gets all upset, I'm not bashing Aquas here. I just never realized they had a reputation for being any more loyal than any other sign. It's also not my experience with them.

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Posted by Bsmurray
I had an affair once. It was the same girl and we hooked up twice.

I felt guilty and confessed to my girlfriend about it.

She cried and I felt bad for doing it. Even though we stayed together after it happened I'm not going to do it again. Why bother? I see it's better to either a) leave the person you're with to be with the other or b) don't do it.

Posted by lisabethur8
so fucking transparant. You put them down all the time, and there's plenty of real life aquarius men that are loyal and don't cheat. But you put them down because YOU have a problem with them and they have NEVER wanted you back, because obviously you'd be with one now. But NOOOO...the truth hurts doesn't it?

Posted by lisabethur8
what pisses me the fuck off is that these so-called aquarius men these women complain about, (which is in almost every forum and sign) is that they aren't HONEST with the women.
they don't tell them straight OFF and hurt them right away. Tell them "I DO NOT WANT YOU!!!GET OVER IT"

but no....because by them doing so, the woman will cry and fret and be hurt. They don't want to hurt the women's feelings (this is going on all the signs i notice) but if you do that....GUESS WHAT??

you are only siphoning off the energies and feelings of people you do NOT want.
If you're MAN enough to tell them straight : NO i do not want you, then tell them, and don't lead them on.

Posted by truecap
Lisa, I see what you're saying, however, I think often times the problem lies with the fact that the men DO tell women from the get go, such as "I'm not looking for anything serious", and a lot of women either don't hear them or choose to ignore it.

I'm not saying that is the case with this OP, but I do see a lot of women think they'll be the ones to change their mind, that they're different, they're special. Some of the women are in denial. Some of the women are agreeable with nothing serious, then they end up falling for the guy.

In a lot of cases, the men have been honest - and aqua men are known in general for being honest. Besides that, aqua men are sweet and kind hearted. They actually don't like to hurt people. But, since they have been honest, is it their fault the woman develops feelings when she's been warned from day one?

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by truecap
Lisa, I see what you're saying, however, I think often times the problem lies with the fact that the men DO tell women from the get go, such as "I'm not looking for anything serious", and a lot of women either don't hear them or choose to ignore it.

I'm not saying that is the case with this OP, but I do see a lot of women think they'll be the ones to change their mind, that they're different, they're special. Some of the women are in denial. Some of the women are agreeable with nothing serious, then they end up falling for the guy.

In a lot of cases, the men have been honest - and aqua men are known in general for being honest. Besides that, aqua men are sweet and kind hearted. They actually don't like to hurt people. But, since they have been honest, is it their fault the woman develops feelings when she's been warned from day one?

I dont know why alot of these women have NO SELF RESPECT for themselves. If the men were HONEST with them and kind from the beginning...they take that "TINY" bit of KINDNESS even when they're HONEST saying, "NO, it's not happening, i'm sorry." But these women feel like they are going to be "THE ONE" ....

Stop fooling yourself!!! If the man wanted you, he'd be with you, asking you to marry him, planning a future with you ect.

I don't just see this with aqua men, I see it with ALL the men in every forum.

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Posted by backtokemet
@aquarius09: you seem to always find excuses for your astro siblings

if the OP was a LIBRA, I believe she'd have gotten that brutal honesty of yours not the soft-spoken, motherly version .. but I'm merely assuming 🙂

out of curiosity: what is Ashton K. excuse for cheating on Demi ? he has an AQUARIUS stellium (sun, moon, mercury & venus) + mars in CANCER

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by backtokemet
@aquarius09: you seem to always find excuses for your astro siblings

if the OP was a LIBRA, I believe she'd have gotten that brutal honesty of yours not the soft-spoken, motherly version .. but I'm merely assuming 🙂

out of curiosity: what is Ashton K. excuse for cheating on Demi ? he has an AQUARIUS stellium (sun, moon, mercury & venus) + mars in CANCER

of all the people to bring up. You want to focus on the dumb ass ones. what about Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel?? Or the Aquarius men I posted who are with Taurus women.

Or even the Aquarius men with scorpio women like Rebecca Romijn and Jerry O'Donnell, ect.

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