Aquarius Love/ I'm sorry letter.

AN ACTUAL "LOVE" LETTER TO ME FROM HIM. AQUARIUS SOUNDING OR CAPRICORN? YOU CAN TELL FROM HIS LETTER THAT IN THE LOVE DEPARTMENT I LOVE AFFECTION AND USUALLY ALMOST HAVE TO BEG FOR IT. ( MY VENUS IS IN TAURUS, AND I AM INSECURE LIKE A CANCER.) (GEMINI CANCER CUSP WITH VENUS IN TAURUS).

Stephanie,

I just got in the house from dropping you off at work
but I wanted to take a couple of minutes to apologize
for what I said last night. No, I really don't think
you're crazy. I was wrong for what I said and I'm sorry.

I think sometimes you have a tendency to crowd me and
I can't stand that. It's not just from you- it's from
anybody. I need space and when you corner me into
wanting to talk when I'm not ready or trying to pull
and tug on me when I want to be alone, I can't stand
that. There are times when I would like to touch you
and make out with you without sex, but when I feel
smothered, it pushes me away.

The reasons why I said what I did was because that was
the thing I could say where you would leave me alone.
That was wrong for me to do that because I definitely
didn't mean the things that I said. You see, I
already told you I needed to be alone and that didn't
work because you kept smothering me. I went through
that with **** (HIS EX-WIFE) and it was a mess and I don't want to
do that again.

I think we do a lot for each other and we do work well
together most of the time. We do need to work on it
but I think we can do that. Everyone needs to work on
their relationships. You're right, I need to show
more tact and respect and you need to work on your
insecurities.

But I just wanted to say I'm sorry and I was wrong for
what I did. You really are a good person and I do
love you. Hope you had a great night at work. Love
you.


Chris

Very true Branh0913! That letter was very well expressed. Chris sounds like a really nice guy. I'd advise you too heed what he is saying in the message, ie give him his space and try not to force him into things when he wants to be chill out and be in his own zone for a while. Also try to work on your insecurity issues without bringing him into it. As Astromarc put it in the aqua horoscope recently: Self confidence oozes sex appeal.

I could do with heeding my own advice quite often!

He just walked out tonight, and then I thought I was going to get good feedback from you people. Take his side. I know this sounds stupid, ok! I just want to be loved, by anyone!

He doesnt love me if he'd just walk out. I went to the door to ask to go with him, but he said "See you after" and kept driving off.

Yeah he may have sounded like a nice guy there, but ya know, he's not!!!~!

I'm writing him a letter... I'm trying to leave out dramatics. I keep backspacing hoping I'll type what he wants to hear, but I can't. I mean what I'm saying.

so far-Chris,
I would like to apologize for being dramatic. I will not apologize for the lump sum of what I said.
I want to hear that you think I'm beautiful, if you do. I want to hear that you love me, if you do. I want to feel a kiss given from you, if you want to give it.
I am trying to be laid back about loving you, but we just don't see love the same way. I still don't understand how you can love "like this".

----
What do I say to him?
I want him to show me his love for me, please help me. I need a friend.

a year and about 4 months

Again not taking sides or whatever but he did tell you.So look at it like how it is,when he does want to be cuddly and stuff its because he really does want to do it not because he thinks its what you would "like" him to do.Looks like you guys gotta either end it or meet in the middle somewhere as in you not looking down on him,not trusting him or being insecure because he doesn't want to be cuddly all the time.Its not a defency in "love",its just true that some people aren't going to be cuddly all the time but when they are its because they really,really mean it.He's telling you whats wrong with the situation and hes saying to gain confidence in yourself as well as him if he didn't care he would let you be insecure and would actually feed on it to your expense.You have to work on yourself a little too if you want him to do the same,its give and take or compromise on both sides.

Right now I don't feel like it's good enough. Y'all may think it's so easy to get over this, but it isn't for me. I want to be loved too much. I want some one to fall over just to tell me that they love me. I want a prince CHARMING. It may seem so out of reach, but it's what I want. I don't want to settle for less.
I want some one to love me, like I love them.

never mind

again, never mind. I must be crazy or something if everyone has a different opinion than me. so never mind

I've written him a note saying exactly what I feel, so I guess we'll see in a few hours. Good night.

Stpehcasey: the people are not making these coments here to be mean to you. It just seems quite clear that you are being too overpowering on the guy. Chill out and let him be and he's much more likely to enjoy being with you. Also he's been in a previous rocky relationship so the threat of another coercion to commit again is probably making him nervous.

Try to enjoy being yourself and not feeling you "need" him. Love should not complete you but compliment you.

Even without you having started this thread you come off as a 'ME ME ME!' type person... way way too needy and annoyingly smothering. And I'm not taking sides of course... Why would any of us? I'm friends with neither of you so I'm just typing my thoughts on your problemo here...

Now making an ass out of you and me... you probably want some advice or suggestions on how to make things better. First and foremost if you want to keep him around longer you need to give him some S*P*A*C*E... forget about your own needs for a bit and give him SPACE! He can't and won't pay attention to your needs when he himself feels so crowded and frustrated because he aPpArEnTlY get through to you!
No more drama, none, zilch, nada... no complaining whatsoever, no calling, texting, e-mailing, writing... cero complaints! Let him do his own thing and stop smothering him... try a little aloofness... put that Aqua rising to some good use! And no pouting either... he wants to see that you don't need him to be happy. Do your own thing also, find some hobbies, go out, party, flirt with other guys (with caution- he does not need to know ha ha)

The Result: He will feel more comfortable in the relationship, happier and receptive to your own needs. This is when you can talk to him about how yOu feel and express what it is that you want out of the relationship, out of him. I say THEN because it sounds like he has already expressed how HE feels about things and if you want to be understood then you have to do some understanding first- starts with YOU. Take a deep deep breath now... chill out... calm down... let things be

It's not all you though, I think there's a reason why you've become so extreme, so needy and smothering. First, you're that type of person who can't stand 'distant' you want to be taken care off, you crave and need attention (ummm I know a friend like that -me 🙂 you're extreme though! lol) He's probably not as expressive as you'd like and unlike you he does need his own space- aqua or cap- neither are needy or too expressive for that astrological matter! sucks! Blagh blagh blagh it all comes down to: He may not even be right for you long-term... longer-term... If after giving him space and talking to him... he still doesn't give you what you need then he's not the right person for you... you need someone more affectionate.

p.s. only you know if you might need professional help

Tell us what you think...? Keep us updated and GoodLuck!

Steph

Unfortunately people who post replies to you here are working on much lower frequency and obviously didn't get what you wanted out of this problem.

You know, this is acutlly general Aqua stuff that you are experiencing right now and this is also what I experienced too. They suck. They can't get it. I tell you move on. A person who doesn't even bother to show some honesty and tell the truth, doesn't even worth to be placed hopes on. Who can guarantee that this person is really don't play a delaying game with you. Screw that. This person doesn't deserve you. He needs space blah, he needs freedom blah, ... blah...blah...girl, this is not mouse and cat game. You are not going to keep trying to catch him. If he does not even respect you to turn into your face and say the truth, does not worth to be placed hopes on. His respectless actions are great sign of what he is. Move on.

STEPH: you are a water sign. you feel emotions very deeply. He is an air sign, who cannot possibly fathom the emotions of a water sign. especially a cancer. water signs need to stick to dating other water signs and earth signs. the fire and air signs stay as far away from emotions as they possibly can, and unless they have a moon sign or rising sign or venus sign in a water sign, it will never work. They do not understand us. I am a scorpio, so I know from experience. What really kills me, is these people on here who are on these astrology message boards, who say, you cannot judge relationships by horoscopes. then what are they doing on these boards—— And since most of them on here are air signs, you can see how they are not able to give you the understanding that you are looking for. Just like your boyfriend. Personally, I stay as far away from Aqua's and Gemini's as I can. It just doesnt work, unless it's just as friends. they make good friends. But that's about it. So find yourself another water sign or earth sign to date and your love will find appreciation.

Im a scorp with a taurus moon so that theory goes out the window DC,also tauruschic is a taurus with mostly taurus and scorp in her main planets.You want to know why I posted what I did,look at her past posts shes been trying to "end" this from the beginning.Im being honest and considering both sides of the coin and its coming back with her being the "runner" in this situation,theres lots of stuff from her side on these boards and its the one sided,self centered and selfesh version of "cancer" that im seeing.Even with astrology,it tells "water signs" they need to get thier heads out of the fantasies to find true love also earth signs are the other thinkers and fire are the "emotions" masculine sign which I have plenty of those too.If it was just "water" signs why was the leo having the same "problems" when she was a ho anyways.I know plenty of cancers who like to not trust people and cheat on them "because they suspect "the bf/gf" are cheating".Oh BTW,she a gem/can cusp,her chart says it all too if you want an astrology reason for it.

UPDATE BY STEPHCASEY:

We are back together. On the condition that my possessiveness stops here and now. He has promised to try to be more romantic.

Both of these things that we're promising will stop, are just part of our personalities, so.. we'll see.

As for those of you who posted on this message, thank you.

Although the people telling me not to go into the zodiac so deeply concerning him - I see somewhat of what you are saying, but you have to understand that HE DOES NOT COMMUNICATE= THIS IS THE ONLY WAY I CAN KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON IN HIS HEAD. Do you understand now? I'm sure all water signs do, but you air and earth signs.. y'all can be somewhat harsh and inconsiderate of what other people are going through. Just because it worked for you, doesn't mean it'll work for everyone. Try to understand that. TRY. I know it must be hard for you people, but .. again, TRY.

To all people who thought about my situation, and not their former experiences, thank you.

I will try not to be so ME ME ME, but you know, isn't that the basis of astrology is getting to know YOURSELF and others better and on a deeper level? If I can't do that HERE, where can I?

Have consideration.

"He doesnt love me if he'd just walk out. I went to the door to ask to go with him, but he said "See you after" and kept driving off."

Very true, and:

"On the condition that my possessiveness stops here and now. He has promised to try to be more romantic."

Wtf? That's 2 - 0!! Why you trust to a person who is such an asshole?

And at the end:

"Yeah he may have sounded like a nice guy there, but ya know, he's not!!!~!"

You just want him because he is hot? C'mon, he's just an airhead. Don't sell yourself for that.

Why do you trust him?

He does not sound to be trustworthy person!

I just thought of something REALLY gross,do you actually get off on this arguementive,aqua basher trolling DC?Thats sick,go get laid,its much more exciting!Why don't you have anything to talk about with pisces more often if your dating one beyond some compatibility thing starlight put up?Ya know,like how they're awesome in bed,kinky and adventerous in bed yet with a gentle finesse so its not straight up pain.Its good when your doing a "real life" pisces,not just troll land figments of imagination😉


"I will try not to be so ME ME ME, but you know, isn't that the basis of astrology is getting to know YOURSELF and others better and on a deeper level? If I can't do that HERE, where can I?"

Part of astrology(charts only) can be look at to know where your weaknesses are and how they can "be a problem" in relationships and basically what you'd want to work on.Even using basic,just starsigns astrology compatibility,theres no 100% perfect matches going by astrology(the bad points are pointed out and the "how to" to resolve the problem),otherwise you wouldn't be in love with a aqua/cap when your a gem/cancer.The only side that would get along is just the gem and aqua,cap and cancer are opposites which most astrologers put a "ban" on while others actually point out that the opposites together will balence each others weaknesses and strengths out.It tells you relationships are not perfect and great in astrology as well,all the starsigns has weaknesses so its not an excusing reason and it does have to be taken care of outside of astrology.Pretty much when it gets down to it it doesn't have to do with astrology at all is what I think they're getting at and rules are made to be broken.


"HE DOES NOT COMMUNICATE= THIS IS THE ONLY WAY I CAN KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON IN HIS HEAD."

^^If it happens again and you want it to work out,tell him that and maybe a "it'd be okay to just write letters or notes to get it done if your more comfortable that way"(maybe initiate it with a note yourself stating that rather than arriving at this situation again).Hes as scared,paranoid and insecure about the relationship as you are judging from that note,hes got "baggage" he needs to work out yet and whatever hes refering to is sending up "red flags" of the past stuff when you do those things,its fear of being hurt again causing the close off.Also private time is room to breathe for some people,it is kinda like a claustraphobic,suffocating type thing you can feel.

If you want a possibility to help you understand what hes feeling,basically whatever it is in your past that makes you want to clinge and be possesive,his past makes him want to close off because if "exposed" its going to be torn apart and taken advantage of because he got that from his ex apparently.Some people are fcuked up and actually DO like to hurt people intentionally so not being open is a good thing to people who've had it done to them.Basically being "open" is a big kick me sign(while your already down) attached to your back from certain experiances that make some people distant and closed off.It takes alot to trust peoples intentions after its happened,one way to do it is if it "arises" again is to point out that your not his ex and you didn't do that stuff to him.But yeah,still chill on the possesive stuff cause it could be an indicater to him that you don't even want to try to trust him and without a reason for it,it does push even non baggage people away.AND you may want to tell him what your afraid of too so he might understand why you feel the need to be with him all the time,there has to be a reason for that too!Beyond just liking affection and being an idealist,the deeper motive behind it.


And Good luck in the success department and true,its both signs!Independance,confidence and self reliance is a good thing for both sides of him.

TIAMET
seems like you are in a very bad mood today. you know, it's usually the one's that are telling other people to get laid that need it the most.

BRAHN, you are another one that needs to get laid.

BRAHN: no I am not volunteering because I dont have pity sex wit gay guys. I think it's about time that you and PRIMEGEN came out of the closet!!!!!

and by the way, where is our friend primegen— it's 11:00 am EST and he hasnt posted to this thread yet.

And that ladies and gentlemen concludes today's episode of Cranky gay Virgo guy, Versus sexy Scorpio!!!

Destinychild

"I think it's about time that you and PRIMEGEN came out of the closet!!!!!"

lol

Branh0913

That was quite gross.

In a slightly irratiable mood yes(I have issues to contend with in my personal life thats got me on edge and being blunt and rude,A=true *collect prizes at the door*),in need of being laid nah,if your so into astrology and "really" dating a pisces you would've paid more attention to pisceseans sex drive compared to a scorps(its higher😉)AND its for "once" true for my own pisces,im kinda sore in a good way most of the time🙂Gay?So that'd mean your gay too by "your" standards of looking at things right?Theres a contradiction there.Face it,we know you only peeped in here to add drama and would've actually "liked" it if she had came back crying and extremely upset from a break up,is that what you call understanding and sympathy?Are you going to admit to it?Shes mad,scared and weary right now-yes,but im SURE it would've been alot worse on her with a break up,anyone knows that.At least the rest of us attempted to point things out or explain things rather than just a *beats chest* "aquas bad" post,thats something a caveman would post...

Steph,you could probably start a new topic on how to induce romance with an aqua guy,ya know,get everyones opinions on how to hit his "good" spots that may be helpful without it putting on a show(acting like your something your not),just ideas to get dinners going or something,the people here of all the sign boards are generally always up to giving suggestions and pretty creative in the romance and seduction departments.DC just wants to fight with primegen again apparently,they have grudges and issues between each other,you might want to keep that in mind whenever you see that screenname on the aqua board,its generally to create negative drama!

Tiamet: first of all, I am not going to talk about my sex life with my pisces, because as you should know, Scorps are very private people and dont like to share our most private thoughts. And who the hell are you to insinuate that I am not "actually" dating a pisces? Why would I make that up? We dont need to be fake here. and where do you get off accusing me of wanting to create drama and that I would have been happy to see her hurt? It's just a fact that air signs dont understand the deep emotions of the water signs. Unless the air sun sign has any prominent planets in a water sign and vice versa. I never said anything negative about air signs other than that. So why dont you take a chill pill momma!!!!

Second of all, Stephcasey took the time to send me a private email thanking me for my posting and she said she thought I was very understanding and thoughtful. NOTE TO ALL: What is really sad on this message board how you all can never stay on the subject of the posting. this was supposed to be advice to Stephcasey, and then as soon as I post a message, then it all goes to hell and you all gang up on my advice which was not for any of you anyway. and the one person it was for, was grateful for it and understood what I was saying.

brahn: obviously you have no idea of what the word "pretentious" means. Now buzz off and go look it up.

Brahn my little boy:

"demanding a position of distinction or merit especially when unjustified"

Now, since you took my orders and did exactly what I told you to do, how can I possibly be demanding a positon that I dont merit—??

Yeah and if thats true its obviously a "blame" game which is BS for anyones failed relationships.Your three topics proving "it" is at the top of the board again to remind you,you can't answer questions and "communicate" when it comes to your side of it,I thought it was air signs that did that.

"brahn: obviously you have no idea of what the word "pretentious" means. Now buzz off and go look it up"

Nah,hes right😛retentious is Assuming an air of superiority.-Thats you.I didn't have to look it up either.And yeah,people are having fun counting and analysing the double standards with you in your post.


"Second of all, Stephcasey took the time to send me a private email thanking me for my posting and she said she thought I was very understanding and thoughtful. "

Hmm,you didn't stay on the topic either,your post was about how air and water is doomed and how its all the guys fault because "he doesn't understand you cause your a water sign".It has nothing to do with whether or not it was aqua or capricorn,by the time I even read this topic it was all done and posted so "comprimised".You have to love yourself before you can "claim" you love someone else,water signs with insecurities don't know "love".I don't remember any good love poems and novels that qualify for the princess idealist that include "insecurities",its generally fear "for" the person in danger they love rather than "of" the person they love hurting them.Hmm,selfless love is a cry of water signs all the time..."supposedly".

"It's just a fact that air signs dont understand the deep emotions of the water signs."

Where is that stated in a science,history or mathmatic book since meaning "fact" is something real and proven by one of the above,its not even spiritual,its theories that has legends attached to constellations and planets?


"I am not going to talk about my sex life with my pisces, because as you should know, Scorps are very private people and dont like to share our most private thoughts"

HAH,I was waiting for you to say that,so if you like to have your private thoughts why is it such a crime and mean an aqua doesn't "care" if they don't express every single little thing,theres not a difference here.Its one sided and controlling if you think about it,now isn't it?

"And who the hell are you to insinuate that I am not "actually" dating a pisces?"


If its true why are you more concerned with aquas then you are pisces?You don't ever "claim" to know anything about pisces but your some kind of "expert" on air and fire signs even though "you" stated you don't know hwere to begin to understand them.You don't even care to know because its easier to suspect the worse and blame someone else.Pisceseans don't like possesiveness either and drives them away too if they're the more common ones!

TIAMAT: GET A LIFE. QUICKLY.

Awwwwww steph i'm sending you a big Hug right now,.sweety you gotta Love You First. Some of my friends want the same as you do,..some may feel this is fantasy thinking but yes,.you can meet the One man that is right for you. Alot of time it doesnt happen when We want, but happens unexpectedly. Your b/f may be right for you and maybe he's not.You have to Complete You First,..he cant do this for you,..because what You want you're reaching for Him to give it to you and the more you reach the more he's pulling away,..Don't worry about him,.do what Steph likes to do,.Try pulling away from Him and see if he comes for you,..and guess what if he doesnt,.You didnt need him anyways because he wasnt for you. He's just moving out of the way for Mr.Right to come into your life. I dont think that any of us think that its easy,..Life simply is not Easy. Take it from someone who was married (to a Leo) since the age of 15 and Im 33 now,.this comming April i will have been divorced a year.
Im an Aquarius female with Scorpio Rising,.same as OFA i think,.....my b/f now is a Scorpio,..im new to learning about astrology but i can say because of what i have learned so far it has taught me alot and i know how to treat and meet my man halfway. Astrology comes second to getting to know just who he is First.If i need my space for a week i make sure i let him know that he's on my mind and make plans with him for the weekend and it works fine,..but had it not been for astrology i would be my typical aloof self,trying to meet the Entire world,.lol and thinking about what i can do to make the world a better place because like they say it only takes one to make a difference. If me and my man dont work out,.So Be It. He wasnt for me. And Life goes on. Steph you'll do fine. We live and we learn.

damn i think i posted in the line of fire,.lol

Let the world f*ck me if I ever understood the % 10 of what are ya'll talking about.

Let the world f*ck me if I ever understood the % 10 of what are ya'll talking about

If your refering to me,im testing how far this communication thing and "astrology" stuff is going,not too far apparently...guess you have to "pick a side" to and be on that side for those rules to apply,quite contradicting🙂I could go into how sagittaurius planets love life,want to experiance it all and are always searching for new things in "life" there is to learn right now but that would be NOT worth my time when this thing got lamer by one liners and doesn't offer anything "new" and something to think about or learn from being as I already KNOW how steph feels and found its a downside in love,admitted it enough to get out of it and find "love" in its truest form as someone who loved life as is and was doing it more clearly and found the dream guy when I lost the "crap"part of me-already learned and dealt with that so I don't "need" to understand that,its a weakness thats unbenificial to solving the problem externally if its not dealt with internally first.

I tend to avoid Scorpio's because of people like Desintyschild (apologies Tiamat). And here's a little conjecture to add fuel to this debate: I don't think that just because a water signs is emotionally driven makes them any more compassionate to others and I'd put Scorpios at the top of the list in this regard. Water signs tend to talk like wounded puppies but it's always about what's been done to THEM. They spend so much time "feeling" things that they don't look outside their own space and consider others.

My scorp never talks about himself (at least not yet) he's not selfish or self centered, he's a great listener but blunt at times. When we're out in public he cn be very protective. This is my first experiencing a water sign,..like if i dont call him for three days he'll say,."I thought i lost you". I"ll ask him how he's doing,..he say he's "down but better now that i called him" its like this all the time,..almost like i have to reassure him alot. The man is a avid fitness guru bodybuilder=F*I*N*E. Its either Up or Down with him no in between,.All or Nothing

school me brahn school me lol,...he asked me to promise him that if i needed Anything,.Anything to let him know. I ask him like what? He's says like Anything. We havent been physical and we've been talking since Nov. He called me up last week and we decided to meet at the mall,.so before i said bye he said maybe we can look for rings while we're at the mall,.i just laughed it off while scratching my head at the same time. ok brahn you got me thinkin lol

BlueAqua

Your problem with your guy is same as Steph has. Lack of trust. And don't listen to Brahn0913's advice, because it's just pure crap.

Tiamat

That's why I telling Steph to move on. This is a weakness of her when she trusted this guy again and again. Why? I already moved on in this "move on" part and now commenting about the guy part because he is more guilty than she is. You see, what she want is obvious. Either this guy takes it, or leaves it. But he can't do any. He actually does not know what to do at all. The problem of him with this girl is that he cannot build trust. That always come from one source Tiamat: He does not need her. Simple as that.

GL

Since you are an Aqua (or any Airhead can answer that):

"It may not be easy, but you, yourself, pointed out that what you both promised to do/not do, are part of your personalities."

What kind of personality is that with this guy? How can a person consciously avoid building trust? How can this be a part of personality? How can this be logical? What is mechanism of that? One possibility comes to my mind and this is being "free". But then, everyone is free after all, whereither you are in relationship or not. What makes the difference then? What is the difference between relationship freedom and non relationship freedom—

Im refering to being insecure haffo,its both of thier "faults" equally.We've already talked about relationships being a want and not a need and its true.You don't try to own someone or make them get affectionate with you,as you can tell it pushes people away when you expect it to happen instead of being happy that it happens on its own.Hes not ready and she knows it but was still pushing it so both are at odds in this.Someone who does either isn't worth anyones time unless they're willing to work on it after they are told what the problem is.

For the freedom compared to freedom in relationships,in relationships you can step back and have nothing to worry or be insecure about because you know this person wants to be with you without you having to say or do anything to get it,Its "trust" is the difference.Time apart(and yes,it will happen in every single relationship/water/earth/fire/air:family emergencies,work trips,delayed flights,etc.) just makes you miss and appreciate them more for just being them with the stuff you don't like.Some one who "loves" you are willing to listen to you and take it into consideration on BOTH sides,she wants him to be more romantic:answer to it that shes known=she needs to be less untrusting and insecure in "trusing" him,its a trade off or both of you "lose".

Blueaqua,"I thought I lost you" is to make you feel bad,mindgame and is manipulation because hes clingy,insecure and yes he doesn't trust you...What hes feeling when he says that is pain and paranoia,hes not feeling no deep feelings of "love" its self induced pain he chooses to do to himself.

Tiamat you're cool! Now that sounds like the classic scorpio psychic gift there! Very well put too. Sorry didn't mean to be insulting with my thing about scorpios earlier.

Tiamat you're cool! Now that sounds like the classic scorpio psychic gift there! Very well put too. Sorry didn't mean to be insulting with my thing about scorpios earlier.

Don't worry about it,im not male so its impossible you're talking about me lol.Basically I remember saying or doing similar things that my Mr.pisces put me in my place,get me thinking about it and realised it was true when I was young and we first got together,had to deal with ego more than anything else to admit it to myself.Im put up on a little pedistol,have a prince charming,etc.because NOW he knows I trust him 100% and he doesn't have to prove it to me 24/7.As the great DC says:

"I am a scorpio, so I know from experience."

Someone shouldn't have to pity you to "love" you,if you want to be "loved" in the shown,told,etc.Plus if you loved them back you wouldn't want them to feel like crap and that they "don't deserve you because your so great and they're inferior" 24/7.

I didn't get to read ALL the posts, since I really don't have much time today. (Cleaning day). It seems that this became a rage between the air and water. Continue your spat. . .

I'll just add in something here...

Have y'all heard of Lorrie Morgan?
I've been listening to her songs all day.
I found it funny that all her songs say what I had wanted to say, exactly.
Emotionally and all.

Then I looked up Lorrie's birthday.
TWO days after mine.
That was so exciting to know that the main reason that she seemed to say everything I wanted to, was that her and I are probably a little a-like, by our bdays being so close. Interesting, huh?

"Blueaqua,"I thought I lost you" is to make you feel bad,mindgame and is manipulation because hes clingy,insecure and yes he doesn't trust you...What hes feeling when he says that is pain and paranoia,hes not feeling no deep feelings of "love" its self induced pain he chooses to do to himself."

So Tiamat, what is he getting out of the mindgame and manipulation? Are you saying that he's thriving off of this? What is he gaining? Why is he choosing pain over the feelings of love? When i call him or he calls me he's either estatic or sulking in some kind of misery. Scorpio's a personal trainer and he always says that i dont eat right(3 meals a day). Well with my schedule sometimes a bag of chips and a soda and i will call it a day. I weight 117 lbs. He says i will get fat if i continue to eat like this because the body doesn't know where its next meal is comming from so it will Hold on to the fats. He tells me that is what he's going to do next time he sees me,..he said hes gonna treat me like he dont know when he'll see me again same analogy,.... wait untill i tell him Friday night is girlz night we;re celebrating a couple of B-days and afterwards we're going to see male strippers,.i need the break but i'll be available to him Saturday,.i get the feeling it wont go over to well

Hi BlueAqua 🙂 Just now reading your posts...is your Scorpio pal on Steroids by chance? That would explain the mood changes - I've been around a few of those guys and it is not a fun time! ( I work out in a gym and have for many years.) He is soooo correct in what he is saying to you regarding your health and eating habits. With little food the body thinks it is in starvation mode and will hold onto fat - you may not see it now but it will creep on. Food is fuel for our body - keeps the energy flowing and the mind in tip-top shape 😉 Go for 5 small meals a day - you'd be surprised at how different you will feel.

You also asked about the mindgame and manipulation thingie re: his statement to you....some do this to establish contol in a very subtle way and they will begin to slowly add more. Sad thing is, some woman have no clue what is happening till it is too late and by too late I mean they have fallen head over heels in love and he is now rejecting them - the woman doesn't understand what has happened. Just my thoughts...Tiamet does ROCK with her thoughts~ 😉

Best wishes and a very Happy Birthday to you! 🙂

Yeah,freebird posted what I meant by that.Thanks Freebird🙂

Tiamat

Lack of trust cases people being insecure, clingy and manipulative (depending on persons wishes) not the other way.