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Aquarius Mars/or Air mars
this for mars in Gemini,
https://goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-gemini.html
MARS IN GEMINI
marsingemini
âThe Sexual Technicianâ
It is curiosity, not desire that is the source of this Loverâs sex drive. Mars in Gemini Lovers regard the urgent demands of the body with intellectual distance and rational coolness. Here sex is less like biology, less like a physical appetite, and more like an excellent excuse for having fun without an emotional connection. These are typically very knowledgeable Lovers who eagerly soak up information about sex. Their mental point of view makes them very adept in the techniques of lovemakingâthe skills of giving and getting pleasure. True, they may lack the fiery passion or the breath-taking sensuality of other Mars types, but a few hours alone with any Mars in Gemini Lover leaves us all a little better educated.
The key to understanding the Mars in Gemini Lover is to recognize that sex is not essential to this individual. When sex is available they can revel in it without reservation or conscience, but when it isnât or when sex becomes problematic for some reason, then this Lover can quite comfortably do without. The Mars in Gemini person sublimates his of her sexuality much more effectively than most of us. Because sex is essentially an idea for them, their sexual energies are easily redirected or rethought. And because sex carries no deep, personal or emotional baggage for these folks, they can look at it without prejudice or shame. Typically, though by no means always, these Lovers have very liberal, experimental ideas about sex.
The reason sex in not essential to Mars in Gemini Lovers is because they base their relationships on intellectual compatibility. Shared thinking and shared ideas are much more important to this person than shared bodily fluids. Sex may serve as a means of attracting a particular person and it may function as a way of increasing and testing intellectual affinity, but it is always seen as a devise. It is quite possible for the Mars in Gemini person to love someone with whom they have never shared sex. It is also quite possible for this Lover to have wonderful sex with people they care nothing about.
It is the latter quality that most often gets the Mars in Gemini Lover into trouble. Promiscuity comes as easily to them as sublimation, and their sexual playfulness and lack of inhibition makes them very desirable and active Lovers. Because sex is not an essential element in their most important relationships, sexual loyalty also tends to mean very little to them. It is often hard for these Lovers not to follow the lead of their incessant curiosity and make love with anyone who happens to interest them at the moment. They may recognize the strain that this kind of behavior places on a relationship but they typically underestimate the importance of these irrational factors. As knowledgeable as these Lovers are about sexual technique, they are often remarkably ignorant about the mechanisms of jealousy and possessiveness.
The Mars in Gemini Lover is often at his or her best when sex in not an issue in the relationship. They are essentially idealists and their most perfect sexual contacts take place in the mind. Physical sex alone can become boring to these Lovers and their technical skill, their sexual inventiveness and curiosity is often merely a means of fending off that boredom. It is only a relationship based on intellectual affinity that will consistently excite and interest them. And, since these purely mental relationships typically lack the complexities and emotional vagaries of physical relationships, the Mars in Gemini Lover can have as many partners as they wish and never have to apologize.
https://goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-gemini.html
MARS IN GEMINI
marsingemini
âThe Sexual Technicianâ
It is curiosity, not desire that is the source of this Loverâs sex drive. Mars in Gemini Lovers regard the urgent demands of the body with intellectual distance and rational coolness. Here sex is less like biology, less like a physical appetite, and more like an excellent excuse for having fun without an emotional connection. These are typically very knowledgeable Lovers who eagerly soak up information about sex. Their mental point of view makes them very adept in the techniques of lovemakingâthe skills of giving and getting pleasure. True, they may lack the fiery passion or the breath-taking sensuality of other Mars types, but a few hours alone with any Mars in Gemini Lover leaves us all a little better educated.
The key to understanding the Mars in Gemini Lover is to recognize that sex is not essential to this individual. When sex is available they can revel in it without reservation or conscience, but when it isnât or when sex becomes problematic for some reason, then this Lover can quite comfortably do without. The Mars in Gemini person sublimates his of her sexuality much more effectively than most of us. Because sex is essentially an idea for them, their sexual energies are easily redirected or rethought. And because sex carries no deep, personal or emotional baggage for these folks, they can look at it without prejudice or shame. Typically, though by no means always, these Lovers have very liberal, experimental ideas about sex.
The reason sex in not essential to Mars in Gemini Lovers is because they base their relationships on intellectual compatibility. Shared thinking and shared ideas are much more important to this person than shared bodily fluids. Sex may serve as a means of attracting a particular person and it may function as a way of increasing and testing intellectual affinity, but it is always seen as a devise. It is quite possible for the Mars in Gemini person to love someone with whom they have never shared sex. It is also quite possible for this Lover to have wonderful sex with people they care nothing about.
It is the latter quality that most often gets the Mars in Gemini Lover into trouble. Promiscuity comes as easily to them as sublimation, and their sexual playfulness and lack of inhibition makes them very desirable and active Lovers. Because sex is not an essential element in their most important relationships, sexual loyalty also tends to mean very little to them. It is often hard for these Lovers not to follow the lead of their incessant curiosity and make love with anyone who happens to interest them at the moment. They may recognize the strain that this kind of behavior places on a relationship but they typically underestimate the importance of these irrational factors. As knowledgeable as these Lovers are about sexual technique, they are often remarkably ignorant about the mechanisms of jealousy and possessiveness.
The Mars in Gemini Lover is often at his or her best when sex in not an issue in the relationship. They are essentially idealists and their most perfect sexual contacts take place in the mind. Physical sex alone can become boring to these Lovers and their technical skill, their sexual inventiveness and curiosity is often merely a means of fending off that boredom. It is only a relationship based on intellectual affinity that will consistently excite and interest them. And, since these purely mental relationships typically lack the complexities and emotional vagaries of physical relationships, the Mars in Gemini Lover can have as many partners as they wish and never have to apologize.
MARS IN LIBRA
marsinlibra
âThe Perfect Loverâ
The sexuality of people with Mars in Libra hinges on the eternal but always elusive concept of the âother.â For most of us the âotherâ is just the person we happen to love: that individual who is willing to put up with our imperfections and stand by us through the good and bad times. But people with Mars in Libra see the âotherâ as something much more abstract and larger than life. For them the âotherâ is an ideal. More importantly, it is a necessary ideal without which life has no meaning. For the Mars in Libra Lover the search for this ideal companion, this the truly significant other, is the primary fire within his or her sexuality. Physical desire comes in a weak second.
This being said, it should not be assumed that Mars in Libra Lovers are sexually deprived. Just because physical sex is not that important to these individuals doesnât mean they canât have a lot of fun with it. Typically, Mars in Libra Lovers follow the sexual attitudes and mores of their own social group. They can quietly and happily sublimate their physical desires in the company of celibates but they will definitely be the life of the party if they are in a community of swingers.¡ What is different about sexually active Mars in Libra Lovers is the fact that they always maintain a strict divide between what they perceive as frivolous sex (sex with anyone who is not their significant other) and sex with that special partner. The former simply is not important, no matter how much energy they put into it. The latter matters tremendously, not because of the quality of the sex, but because it takes place in a zone of perfect love.
Mars in Libra Lovers approach sex with their special partners as if it were a fantasy and they seek to create a zone of perfect beauty, balance and grace around the objects of their affection. Often they will inundate that person with physical manifestations of their ideal conception of love: gifts, flowers, and gestures of respect and idealized affection. Anything that seems tawdry or harsh to them is banished from the scene. It may seem that they are putting the person they love on a pedestal, that they are making sex into a highly mannered ritual in which consummation matters very little; but always remember that it is the ideal of the relationship and the âotherâ that this Lover is really worshipping, not the person who happens to be standing on the pedestal.
There is probably no more privileged position imaginable than to be the object of a Mars in Libra Loverâs sexual adoration. These Lovers make the person they love feel as if the universe is centered on their relationship but, despite all this devotion, the Mars in Libra zone of perfect love can be a rather cold and unforgiving place. The perfectionism that makes these Lovers so anxious to please their partners also makes them extremely judgmental of people who fall short or who are unable to maintain the high standards of their ideal. In such instances adoration can quickly turn into contempt.
The intellectual distance and lack of physical urgency with which these Lovers view sex often means they can take particular pleasure in the rituals of courtship and the day-to-day process of maintaining a sexual relationship. In many cases they seem to enjoy the actual sex act less than they do talking about it the next day. People who rush passionately into sex or those who appreciate sex primarily as a source of physical joy seem to the Mars in Libra Lover to be missing half the fun. They see sex and the intricacies of relationships as a universal phenomenon, linking us not just with our partner but with every other human being. They are by no means inclined to brag about their sexual adventures, nor are they apt to dwell of the crude and smelly details, but, for these Lovers, sex is a social function and it can never be fully enjoyed until its triumphs and tribulations are shared.
from
https://goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-libra.html
marsinlibra
âThe Perfect Loverâ
The sexuality of people with Mars in Libra hinges on the eternal but always elusive concept of the âother.â For most of us the âotherâ is just the person we happen to love: that individual who is willing to put up with our imperfections and stand by us through the good and bad times. But people with Mars in Libra see the âotherâ as something much more abstract and larger than life. For them the âotherâ is an ideal. More importantly, it is a necessary ideal without which life has no meaning. For the Mars in Libra Lover the search for this ideal companion, this the truly significant other, is the primary fire within his or her sexuality. Physical desire comes in a weak second.
This being said, it should not be assumed that Mars in Libra Lovers are sexually deprived. Just because physical sex is not that important to these individuals doesnât mean they canât have a lot of fun with it. Typically, Mars in Libra Lovers follow the sexual attitudes and mores of their own social group. They can quietly and happily sublimate their physical desires in the company of celibates but they will definitely be the life of the party if they are in a community of swingers.¡ What is different about sexually active Mars in Libra Lovers is the fact that they always maintain a strict divide between what they perceive as frivolous sex (sex with anyone who is not their significant other) and sex with that special partner. The former simply is not important, no matter how much energy they put into it. The latter matters tremendously, not because of the quality of the sex, but because it takes place in a zone of perfect love.
Mars in Libra Lovers approach sex with their special partners as if it were a fantasy and they seek to create a zone of perfect beauty, balance and grace around the objects of their affection. Often they will inundate that person with physical manifestations of their ideal conception of love: gifts, flowers, and gestures of respect and idealized affection. Anything that seems tawdry or harsh to them is banished from the scene. It may seem that they are putting the person they love on a pedestal, that they are making sex into a highly mannered ritual in which consummation matters very little; but always remember that it is the ideal of the relationship and the âotherâ that this Lover is really worshipping, not the person who happens to be standing on the pedestal.
There is probably no more privileged position imaginable than to be the object of a Mars in Libra Loverâs sexual adoration. These Lovers make the person they love feel as if the universe is centered on their relationship but, despite all this devotion, the Mars in Libra zone of perfect love can be a rather cold and unforgiving place. The perfectionism that makes these Lovers so anxious to please their partners also makes them extremely judgmental of people who fall short or who are unable to maintain the high standards of their ideal. In such instances adoration can quickly turn into contempt.
The intellectual distance and lack of physical urgency with which these Lovers view sex often means they can take particular pleasure in the rituals of courtship and the day-to-day process of maintaining a sexual relationship. In many cases they seem to enjoy the actual sex act less than they do talking about it the next day. People who rush passionately into sex or those who appreciate sex primarily as a source of physical joy seem to the Mars in Libra Lover to be missing half the fun. They see sex and the intricacies of relationships as a universal phenomenon, linking us not just with our partner but with every other human being. They are by no means inclined to brag about their sexual adventures, nor are they apt to dwell of the crude and smelly details, but, for these Lovers, sex is a social function and it can never be fully enjoyed until its triumphs and tribulations are shared.
from
https://goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-libra.html
Tiger woods has mars in Gemini,
but he was considered a sex addict,
do you think his ex's were all talking nasty naughty stuff in bed with him? to get his motor running?
what happened with Elin Nordgren and why is it he can't get his motor running with her? đ
yes they're divorced...
let's look at Elin's chart.
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Elin_Nordegren
ok, so she's an Aquarius Venus, Virgo mars, Gemini moon, cap sun.
was she just TOO airy for him? despite him having Gemini mars?
you'd think her virgo mars would get down and dirty. maybe her sex talk wasn't good enough or something.
but he was considered a sex addict,
do you think his ex's were all talking nasty naughty stuff in bed with him? to get his motor running?
what happened with Elin Nordgren and why is it he can't get his motor running with her? đ
yes they're divorced...
let's look at Elin's chart.
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Elin_Nordegren
ok, so she's an Aquarius Venus, Virgo mars, Gemini moon, cap sun.
was she just TOO airy for him? despite him having Gemini mars?
you'd think her virgo mars would get down and dirty. maybe her sex talk wasn't good enough or something.
David Duchovny is another well known sex addict and lo and behold...
he has Gemini mars.
aquarius moon.
what is he addicting on?
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/David_Duchovny
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he has Gemini mars.
aquarius moon.
what is he addicting on?
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/David_Duchovny
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bump.
so no AIR mars wants to talk about their sex life?
you don't have to go into detail....
are you all detached?
so no AIR mars wants to talk about their sex life?
you don't have to go into detail....
are you all detached?
Posted by rektyes its fine.
can people with air mars exes talk too or just air mars?
I am curious cause I keep reading about air mars sexuality being soooo detached they drive the other person away because they are no longer feeling sex.
Posted by Sanchezyes lol
I think you over analyze too much. Do you have sex?
but I am curious because WHY do astrolgers say this??
I've read it everywhere, in little snippets everywhere.
also that the detachement is why earth/ water is gonna not be good with air, in a general sense
because earth is physical, and water goes into emotional.blah blah.
you know...
Posted by MagicMonasometimes I read that even air moon with lots of air, the key factor is too much air
my mars is aquarius and i can tell you that all of this is total bullshit. sex is a must.
and then the other person who gets with them doesn't want to have sex anymore with them.
I think sanchez is on to something.
analyzing too much can cause annoyance and then the sex drive will go down. causing frustrations.
I have an aqua mars. I've read that aqua mars are kinky and would try anything. I do have a sexual side, just not comfortable with sharing that with everybody. I think I need to be really comfortable with someone before that reallyy wild side comes out. For now, I'm okay with being celibate if there's no one I like enough. I thought about trying hook-ups but I don't think I can do it.
And airs sign mars, well at least aqua and gemini, I know for a fact talk about their sex life in detail. My gemini mars friend and I told each other every little detail (But note: we're both scorpio moons)
And airs sign mars, well at least aqua and gemini, I know for a fact talk about their sex life in detail. My gemini mars friend and I told each other every little detail (But note: we're both scorpio moons)
Not true about me (Libra Mars). I've known a few Aqua Mars people and it isn't true about them either.
I have a gemini mars in the 8th house. I'm horny all the time and even when i'm not it doesn't take much for me to get there.
Posted by lisabethur8I have Aqua Mars and if you change always to usually I can pretty much relate to this.
These people will always choose the ease and camaraderie of friendship over the intensity and passion of love. This in no way limits their sex lives. As far as these folks are concerned, friendship is a wonderful basis for a sexual relationship. There is warmth and camaraderie but none of that nasty emotional stuff like jealousy or pettiness that often makes love and sex so irrational and dangerous. The Mars in Aquarius Friend is capable of compassion, gentleness and loyalty.
Posted by rekt
i have a couple of gemini mars exes and they were just as sexual as i am. and among the best sexual experiences i've had.
one was an aries venus with gemini mars and she was kind of promiscuous in general and very sexual.
the other was a leo venus with gemini mars and she was more traditional but had no problems keeping up with my scorpio mars.
i have no complaints with either of them.
though i will say the emotional connection on it was not the same as with my cap mars ex. but that was just a different situation altogether in terms of our connection.
that fire venus will definitely help.
Posted by themilkyway36yah I also heard of the "kinky" side.
I have an aqua mars. I've read that aqua mars are kinky and would try anything. I do have a sexual side, just not comfortable with sharing that with everybody. I think I need to be really comfortable with someone before that reallyy wild side comes out. For now, I'm okay with being celibate if there's no one I like enough. I thought about trying hook-ups but I don't think I can do it.
And airs sign mars, well at least aqua and gemini, I know for a fact talk about their sex life in detail. My gemini mars friend and I told each other every little detail (But note: we're both scorpio moons)
not into that stuff though, but it might be taste.
Posted by MagicMonaPosted by lisabethur8look at the big wall of lies
I keep reading around that AIR mars, in general, are sexless, or lack the sex drive.
how true is this?
anyone with AIR mars?
I am putting it in the aquarius forum but this can go for Libra mars, Gemini mars too.
I also read that mars in Gemini need "Talking" for in bed stuff, to get their motor running.
how true is that?
this woman is a Libra with strong Scorpio placements, if I recall...she said she attracts scorpio men or something.
https://goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-aquarius.html
MARS IN AQUARIUS
marsinaquarius
âThe Sexual Liberatorâ
Mars in Aquarius Lovers are the least physical of all the Mars types. Of course, these Lovers have all the same sexual juices, physical needs and desires as all of us but with Mars in Aquarius these needs are processed in such an intellectual and objective fashion that sex seldom has the same pressing corporal reality that makes it so problematic for the rest of us. For these Lovers everything important about sex happens inside their heads. In one sense this gives them extraordinary freedom. They can use sex the way a mathematician uses calculus or an artist uses perspective; to achieve a specific goal. These goals can vary a great deal. Some may choose to use it as a source of inspiration and spiritual revitalization; others, as a means of persuasion. Still others will use sex for its shock value and as a way of getting the attention of all those silly people who think sex is so darned important.
This abstracted approach to sex means that Mars in Aquarius Lovers naturally feel free to experiment with their sexuality. The emotional conditions and social restrictions most people place on the sex act mean little to these thoroughly rational and unconventional Lovers. The only restrictions they recognize are those of time and space. At their best, the absolute freedom with which these Lovers approach both sex and love is inspirational. Time spent with them can be a true liberation for us âless adventurousâ souls.
It shouldnât be assumed that Mars in Aquarius Lovers break the rules just for the fun of it.¡ This daring, experimental approach to sex is always secondary to the notion these Lovers have that sex has to be tied to some larger purpose. This is one of the most idealistic placements of Marsâmeaning that for these Lovers, love is understood in terms of ideasâusually big ideas. It is not so much that these people think they can change the world by making love. No, itâs more that the sex act must fit into an overall idealismâinto a system of ideas, hopes, and dreams that often has little to do with its simple biological function.
Because of their extreme idealism with regard to sex, Mars in Aquarius Lovers often have an easier time loving âcausesâ or humanity as a whole than they do loving one individual. Kindness, self-sacrifice, and service come easily to these people but intimacy is always a problem. It is not unusual for those who love Mars in Aquarius individuals to feel distanced and out of touch. No matter how much a Mars in Aquarius Lover may profess to love someone, there is always a sense that he or she could get along just as well alone.
The bottom line here is that the Mars in Aquarius Lover is always inferior to the Mars in Aquarius Friend. These people will always choose the ease and camaraderie of friendship over the intensity and passion of love. This in no way limits their sex lives. As far as these folks are concerned, friendship is a wonderful basis for a sexual relationship. There is warmth and camaraderie but none of that nasty emotional stuff like jealousy or pettiness that often makes love and sex so irrational and dangerous. The Mars in Aquarius Friend is capable of compassion, gentleness and loyalty. They seek to teach, reform, and help the people they care about and they stand by these folks through every kind of trial. In fact, the Mars in Aquarius Friend is so terrific that after a while any partner of a Mars in Aquarius individual may start wondering why they ever wanted a Lover!
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it really confuses people when they research on air mars sexuality and find a lot of them are similar to that.
Posted by SanchezPosted by lisabethur8I have a fire Venus too. LeoPosted by rekt
i have a couple of gemini mars exes and they were just as sexual as i am. and among the best sexual experiences i've had.
one was an aries venus with gemini mars and she was kind of promiscuous in general and very sexual.
the other was a leo venus with gemini mars and she was more traditional but had no problems keeping up with my scorpio mars.
i have no complaints with either of them.
though i will say the emotional connection on it was not the same as with my cap mars ex. but that was just a different situation altogether in terms of our connection.
that fire venus will definitely help.
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well sanchez you wont have any problems when you find a good woman. đ
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxXI find when I first started getting into astrology that many did not find it very easy to read or see through.
I think air placements are some of the most poorly described placements.
People never get it right. Air placements are too complex to place in a box.
Edit: And I do mean air placements only, not air suns. Air suns are actually very easy to see through and read.
they all assume kinky, detached, not commitment this and that. hippy eccentric
Posted by MagicMonaPosted by lisabethur8how does this correlate to anything i just said? air moon? i thought we were talking about air mars. my moon is earth. what are you talking about?Posted by MagicMonasometimes I read that even air moon with lots of air, the key factor is too much air
my mars is aquarius and i can tell you that all of this is total bullshit. sex is a must.
and then the other person who gets with them doesn't want to have sex anymore with them.
I think sanchez is on to something.
analyzing too much can cause annoyance and then the sex drive will go down. causing frustrations.
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it's really hard to explain, because I have read that air is not physical, it's more idealisitic.
so I have to understand this on a deeper level.
but it's hard when there's no research on aquarius /Gemini /libra mars unless I actually go out there and make a survey on couple's sex life.
the way Gunter Sach's did when he researched on marriages and divorces.
Posted by metalaquamonkeythat description is very nice but I like passion and love, but I don't like pettiness. But I do get jealous and possessive.Posted by lisabethur8I have Aqua Mars and if you change always to usually I can pretty much relate to this.
These people will always choose the ease and camaraderie of friendship over the intensity and passion of love. This in no way limits their sex lives. As far as these folks are concerned, friendship is a wonderful basis for a sexual relationship. There is warmth and camaraderie but none of that nasty emotional stuff like jealousy or pettiness that often makes love and sex so irrational and dangerous. The Mars in Aquarius Friend is capable of compassion, gentleness and loyalty.
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Posted by DonJohnlol I knew I could count on you, DJ. đ đ
lol
bill clinton's mars in libra. sexless
Posted by lisabethur8By nature I'm very passionate as ppl who know me irl will attest but I agree with the part they mentioned regarding not wanting pettiness and jealousy and wanting friendship as I think it helps to build a solid foundation.Posted by metalaquamonkeythat description is very nice but I like passion and love, but I don't like pettiness. But I do get jealous and possessive.Posted by lisabethur8I have Aqua Mars and if you change always to usually I can pretty much relate to this.
These people will always choose the ease and camaraderie of friendship over the intensity and passion of love. This in no way limits their sex lives. As far as these folks are concerned, friendship is a wonderful basis for a sexual relationship. There is warmth and camaraderie but none of that nasty emotional stuff like jealousy or pettiness that often makes love and sex so irrational and dangerous. The Mars in Aquarius Friend is capable of compassion, gentleness and loyalty.
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Posted by Ellygantwas this your ex scorpio with libra moon?
I have a Gemini Mars and it's totally not true. My sex drive is a bit too high honestly. I do enjoy a strong verbal connection, but it's more than that.
I notice I am sexually attracted to people if
A) There's a curiosity or mystery to them or
B) They provide an intellectual experience during sex I was previously unfamiliar with.
My long term ex has Aqua mars too. He has been the only person I've been able to connect with on multiple levels sexually. Physical, intellectual and emotional. Otherwise, it's been very difficult for me to connect emotionally with people during sex.
He also had the only sex drive so far that could match mine. So we certainly were not a sexless air mars couple lol. He wasn't ever quite into kink like the Aqua mars descriptions say. I was definitely moreso into it than him. He did enjoy talking about things a lot though. The act of audibly fantasizing was enough I think.
and yes, that's what I mean, I think the conversation/intellectual rapport or verbal connection is what makes the air mars going.
I mean.....what turns you on? that's what I want to understand.
your ex sounds like he likes to fantasize and talk about it before having sex. was that what happened in your case?
Posted by Nevermoreit reminds me of Bill gates and David Duchovny and Tiger woods, all air mars....
I disagree with sexless for air mars.
I know two guys (mars in gemini & aqua) that their sex drive are way up high (& quite a horny bastards).
Posted by lady_chatterleyI don't watch porn either.
I am Aquarius mars and Venus. High sex drive. Don't have any kinks. I like the experience to be real and natural. I like to keep my sex life private. I don't watch porn.
My sister is Gemini mars and Cancer Venus. She has a high sex drive. She doesn't have any kinks either. She likes the experience to be gentle and nurturing and she's attracted to intelligence. She's very giving, but expects the same in return. She used to watch porn, but is taking a break for the time being.
I wonder if it's a water thing to watch porn. maybe it's the VISUALS.
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yeah Gemini placements need mental stimulation.
cancer venus men and women are different though.
Posted by EllygantPosted by lisabethur8Yep the Scorp/libra, he was an Aqua Rising too. To be honest he was quite relationshipy in his sexual approach, more than you'd think for an air mars. Much of what turned him on always tied back into us being in a relationship. Sex and love we're very closely connected for him. For the more kink stuff, that's what he would talk out loud about. He wouldn't ever show any real interest in actually doing it though. So he contradicted a lot of the stereotypical Aqua mars descriptions. Then again he was/is the most Scorpio person I've met placements wise. It's like 24 or 25% of his chart iirc. So that might color it a little lol.Posted by Ellygantwas this your ex scorpio with libra moon?
I have a Gemini Mars and it's totally not true. My sex drive is a bit too high honestly. I do enjoy a strong verbal connection, but it's more than that.
I notice I am sexually attracted to people if
A) There's a curiosity or mystery to them or
B) They provide an intellectual experience during sex I was previously unfamiliar with.
My long term ex has Aqua mars too. He has been the only person I've been able to connect with on multiple levels sexually. Physical, intellectual and emotional. Otherwise, it's been very difficult for me to connect emotionally with people during sex.
He also had the only sex drive so far that could match mine. So we certainly were not a sexless air mars couple lol. He wasn't ever quite into kink like the Aqua mars descriptions say. I was definitely moreso into it than him. He did enjoy talking about things a lot though. The act of audibly fantasizing was enough I think.
and yes, that's what I mean, I think the conversation/intellectual rapport or verbal connection is what makes the air mars going.
I mean.....what turns you on? that's what I want to understand.
your ex sounds like he likes to fantasize and talk about it before having sex. was that what happened in your case?
I'm a little different. I haven't really had a style or type. I just seem to crave a lot of variety or I bore easily, but not in a physical sense. In a deeper sense, I need to feel mentally challenged. I need someone to talk to me, say things that make me think in order to stay interested. I have literally lost interest over night because the person just never really made me thin k. I could possibly imagine having sex with someone boring lol. At a more surface level though I am turned on by talking involved sex.click to expand
Yes! this is what I mean from my understanding...thanks for this cause I am guessing they need to be turned on mentally.
so if their partner doesn't have any "talk" or communicate in some way,
which is why maybe in some cases which I've read, the detachment occurs.
the AIR is detaching, because the mental communication needs to be sparked.
when that happens the air is going after.
like a fan that is turned on with some electrical current. without the current, it is dead.
the sex drive doesn't go anywhere. hard to explain.
i'm not air mars, and I don't need to be mentally stimulated though. it will turn me off if my man starts talking. he is the same way.
Posted by Monimai
Mars in Gemini here and I think this placement is the reason the right words can turn me on. Once I asked a guy to read out of an old book while we had sex...
And behind the sex. Ppl telling me I am cold sometimes and say mean stuff...hehe.
ok well that is good you mentioned it.
I was wondering why all the astrologers say air mars is needing MENTAL stimulation to be turned on.
Posted by Monimai
Do you have an airy mars? Does this turn you on when you read this all? Lol lol
you are not being serious at all.
I think you are a troll.
well whatever.
I was trying to UNDERSTAND this, on a deeper level.
but you're just having fun.
Posted by Monimai*rolls eyes*Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Monimai
Do you have an airy mars? Does this turn you on when you read this all? Lol lol
you are not being serious at all.
I think you are a troll.
well whatever.
Wow you are very agressive.
I was trying to UNDERSTAND this, on a deeper level.
but you're just having fun.
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allright do whatever you want.
if you want to troll go ahead. dxp is for everyone.
Posted by Ellygantyeah but it's different...we are all having conversations here, online, and we go to school for example, or work and have constant flow with others in the work place or school or interact with friends on a social circle but you don't feel anything for them romantically.Posted by lisabethur8No it makes sense actually. To me lol. My guess would be that air energy can only access that primal will to act when there's a deeper intellectual draw to a person. Then the attraction follows. I've turned down gorgeous and wealthy people, just because there was no connection and I literally could not get physically turned on lol.Posted by EllygantPosted by lisabethur8Yep the Scorp/libra, he was an Aqua Rising too. To be honest he was quite relationshipy in his sexual approach, more than you'd think for an air mars. Much of what turned him on always tied back into us being in a relationship. Sex and love we're very closely connected for him. For the more kink stuff, that's what he would talk out loud about. He wouldn't ever show any real interest in actually doing it though. So he contradicted a lot of the stereotypical Aqua mars descriptions. Then again he was/is the most Scorpio person I've met placements wise. It's like 24 or 25% of his chart iirc. So that might color it a little lol.Posted by Ellygantwas this your ex scorpio with libra moon?
I have a Gemini Mars and it's totally not true. My sex drive is a bit too high honestly. I do enjoy a strong verbal connection, but it's more than that.
I notice I am sexually attracted to people if
A) There's a curiosity or mystery to them or
B) They provide an intellectual experience during sex I was previously unfamiliar with.
My long term ex has Aqua mars too. He has been the only person I've been able to connect with on multiple levels sexually. Physical, intellectual and emotional. Otherwise, it's been very difficult for me to connect emotionally with people during sex.
He also had the only sex drive so far that could match mine. So we certainly were not a sexless air mars couple lol. He wasn't ever quite into kink like the Aqua mars descriptions say. I was definitely moreso into it than him. He did enjoy talking about things a lot though. The act of audibly fantasizing was enough I think.
and yes, that's what I mean, I think the conversation/intellectual rapport or verbal connection is what makes the air mars going.
I mean.....what turns you on? that's what I want to understand.
your ex sounds like he likes to fantasize and talk about it before having sex. was that what happened in your case?
I'm a little different. I haven't really had a style or type. I just seem to crave a lot of variety or I bore easily, but not in a physical sense. In a deeper sense, I need to feel mentally challenged. I need someone to talk to me, say things that make me think in order to stay interested. I have literally lost interest over night because the person just never really made me thin k. I could possibly imagine having sex with someone boring lol. At a more surface level though I am turned on by talking involved sex.
Yes! this is what I mean from my understanding...thanks for this cause I am guessing they need to be turned on mentally.
so if their partner doesn't have any "talk" or communicate in some way,
which is why maybe in some cases which I've read, the detachment occurs.
the AIR is detaching, because the mental communication needs to be sparked.
when that happens the air is going after.
like a fan that is turned on with some electrical current. without the current, it is dead.
the sex drive doesn't go anywhere. hard to explain.
It works that way in relationships too. My awesome sex life with the ex took a turn when we stopped talking, really talking in the way you bond. We still did the day to day stuff. But once we didn't talk about off the wall subjects or something new he or I just learned from watching some show or documentary a lot of the affection dried up between us. It was like there had to be a constant flow of mental energy.click to expand
I think what you are describing is just having a flow of communication with the person you love.
that is normal though right? with or without air.
i'm more talking about the sexual aspects in the bedroom.
do you need talk before getting it on kind of thing.
Posted by Ellygantahh I see what you mean. đPosted by lisabethur8Lol no I don't need to. But the other person's experience will be greatly enhanced if they do. đPosted by Ellygantyeah but it's different...we are all having conversations here, online, and we go to school for example, or work and have constant flow with others in the work place or school or interact with friends on a social circle but you don't feel anything for them romantically.Posted by lisabethur8No it makes sense actually. To me lol. My guess would be that air energy can only access that primal will to act when there's a deeper intellectual draw to a person. Then the attraction follows. I've turned down gorgeous and wealthy people, just because there was no connection and I literally could not get physically turned on lol.Posted by EllygantPosted by lisabethur8Yep the Scorp/libra, he was an Aqua Rising too. To be honest he was quite relationshipy in his sexual approach, more than you'd think for an air mars. Much of what turned him on always tied back into us being in a relationship. Sex and love we're very closely connected for him. For the more kink stuff, that's what he would talk out loud about. He wouldn't ever show any real interest in actually doing it though. So he contradicted a lot of the stereotypical Aqua mars descriptions. Then again he was/is the most Scorpio person I've met placements wise. It's like 24 or 25% of his chart iirc. So that might color it a little lol.Posted by Ellygantwas this your ex scorpio with libra moon?
I have a Gemini Mars and it's totally not true. My sex drive is a bit too high honestly. I do enjoy a strong verbal connection, but it's more than that.
I notice I am sexually attracted to people if
A) There's a curiosity or mystery to them or
B) They provide an intellectual experience during sex I was previously unfamiliar with.
My long term ex has Aqua mars too. He has been the only person I've been able to connect with on multiple levels sexually. Physical, intellectual and emotional. Otherwise, it's been very difficult for me to connect emotionally with people during sex.
He also had the only sex drive so far that could match mine. So we certainly were not a sexless air mars couple lol. He wasn't ever quite into kink like the Aqua mars descriptions say. I was definitely moreso into it than him. He did enjoy talking about things a lot though. The act of audibly fantasizing was enough I think.
and yes, that's what I mean, I think the conversation/intellectual rapport or verbal connection is what makes the air mars going.
I mean.....what turns you on? that's what I want to understand.
your ex sounds like he likes to fantasize and talk about it before having sex. was that what happened in your case?
I'm a little different. I haven't really had a style or type. I just seem to crave a lot of variety or I bore easily, but not in a physical sense. In a deeper sense, I need to feel mentally challenged. I need someone to talk to me, say things that make me think in order to stay interested. I have literally lost interest over night because the person just never really made me thin k. I could possibly imagine having sex with someone boring lol. At a more surface level though I am turned on by talking involved sex.
Yes! this is what I mean from my understanding...thanks for this cause I am guessing they need to be turned on mentally.
so if their partner doesn't have any "talk" or communicate in some way,
which is why maybe in some cases which I've read, the detachment occurs.
the AIR is detaching, because the mental communication needs to be sparked.
when that happens the air is going after.
like a fan that is turned on with some electrical current. without the current, it is dead.
the sex drive doesn't go anywhere. hard to explain.
It works that way in relationships too. My awesome sex life with the ex took a turn when we stopped talking, really talking in the way you bond. We still did the day to day stuff. But once we didn't talk about off the wall subjects or something new he or I just learned from watching some show or documentary a lot of the affection dried up between us. It was like there had to be a constant flow of mental energy.
I think what you are describing is just having a flow of communication with the person you love.
that is normal though right? with or without air.
i'm more talking about the sexual aspects in the bedroom.
do you need talk before getting it on kind of thing.click to expand
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I didn't read other posts on this but it's basically we are turned on mentally...mental attraction, witty banter... that gets us all randy baby, yeah?
Posted by Jayceonthat's what I keep reading, the talking/ during sex or something. or if not talking,
Aqua venus or aqua mars aren't sexless. They have high libidos. The whole porn and aqua mars connection sounds like bs. I do know that air mars love to talk about the sexual escades they had.
the talking before leading up to sex.
like,
mmmm yeah hey baby, you so good looking, yeah um um yeah.
porn talk you know?
I've seen it on those porn stuff before. I don't watch porn but I've seen it in the past. i'm not gonna go eeww i'm not gonna watch it, but I've seen a few of them.
my husband and I hate talking during sex or before. hes gonna get fucking pissed.
talk makes the libido go down.
no offense please to the other peeps who like the talking.
but just because everyone is different doesn't mean everybody has the same style .
that's why there are peeps who are INCOMPATIBLE sex style .
edit
another reason WHY me and my last ex who was a good man, was very incompatible was the SEX i did NOT like it. he liked kinky and i fuckig hate kinky shit. i told him i dreaded it and am not happy.
he still would have stayed with me and stayed monogamous and faithful,
even though i told him i hated it.
cause he really loved me.
but there were other things i didn't like, his lack of commitment to marriage and family and on top of that, incompatible sex. he would have stayed with me together faithful and monogamous till old age and death, not married and living together with no family. no thanks. I've seen a lot of women go for this so it's not a deal breaker.
there was something in me that was unhappy about the lack of commitment to marriage and family though. totally incompatible.
Posted by Moonbutterthis is what I keep reading!!
I didn't read other posts on this but it's basically we are turned on mentally...mental attraction, witty banter... that gets us all randy baby, yeah?
if you want to share,
who are your compatible sex partners? just the mars/sun/moon/venus
my husband is very compatible with me because we have the SAME ideals of marriage and family and values. that is what makes it very compatible, we have the same life priorities.
this is what makes and breaks compatibility...
here's something interesting if some of this goes for you...
https://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2014/10/08/6-absolute-must-haves-for-relationship-compatibility/
1. Timeliness & Punctuality
How many relationship arguments have started over, âWhy are you always 30 minutes late to everything?â People who arenât compatible in how punctual they are for appointments, engagements, dates and such will find one person always unhappy with the other personâs timeliness. If you both canât make anything on time, youâll be happy together. But if one of you is punctual and the other isnât, itâs a recipe for constant arguing.
2. Cleanliness & Orderliness
People who are neat and orderly often find it difficult, if not downright challenging, to live with someone whoâs a slob. And people who donât put much time or effort into cleanliness donât often care that it means something to others. You know how cute you found his cluttered and messy apartment those first few weeks? That wears off fast if youâre someone who likes things to be clean and orderly.
3. Money & Spending
More couples argue about money and finances than anything else (well, except maybe for the next one). This is a much larger issue than most relationships ever consider at the onset. And because it can be awkward to talk about money and finances, most couples also put off such discussions until things start going wrong. If heâs a spender and sheâs a saver, that could mean trouble down the road when youâre planning for lifeâs bigger purchases, such as a house, cars or your childrenâs future education.
Couples who are on the same page with their money and finances will usually find it easier going than those with wildly divergent spending behaviors.
4. Sex & Intimacy
How many articles have been written about the importance of sex and intimacy in a relationship? It may be hard to gauge how sexually compatible you are at the beginning of a relationship, since sex is usually more of a shared enjoyment then. But as the newness wears off, itâs a good time to gauge whether your sexual needs and desires are truly similar.
Like money, talking about your own personal sexual desires and needs may be challenging. But the sooner you do it and figure out if the two of you are sexually compatible long-term, the quicker you can know whether you share this compatibility. Incompatibility in the bedroom is the second most-common reason for long-term relationship discord.
5. Life Priorities & Tempo
Different people work and live at different tempos in life. Discovering and acknowledging your own personal tempo is an important step to finding someone with a similar and compatible tempo.
Some people are laid-back and let little get to them, while others take every one of lifeâs challenges to heart. Some people value work, seeing no problem in working 12-hour days, while others value spending time with family and oneâs children. Are you the kind of person whoâs okay with âbeingâ with your partner while the two of you have your heads down in technology?
If youâre on the same page about what your lifeâs priorities are, youâll find youâll have a lot less arguments about these kinds of issues. Sharing life will be easier as you progress through life at the same tempo.
6. Spirituality & Religion
Many people who come from two different religious backgrounds make their relationship work. However, talk to such couples and youâll find most of the agree it can sometimes be a challenge â especially if children are involved. If one partner in the couple isnât going to convert to the other personâs religion and both partners are religious people, youâll often find trouble brewing.
* * *
The more you and your partner share in these six characteristics, the smoother going your romantic life is going to be (although you donât need to be 100 percent compatible in all six areas â nobody and no relationship is perfect). Because when your relationship is firing on all cylinders, it helps keep you more resilient and better able to handle whatever else life throws at you.
this is what makes and breaks compatibility...
here's something interesting if some of this goes for you...
https://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2014/10/08/6-absolute-must-haves-for-relationship-compatibility/
1. Timeliness & Punctuality
How many relationship arguments have started over, âWhy are you always 30 minutes late to everything?â People who arenât compatible in how punctual they are for appointments, engagements, dates and such will find one person always unhappy with the other personâs timeliness. If you both canât make anything on time, youâll be happy together. But if one of you is punctual and the other isnât, itâs a recipe for constant arguing.
2. Cleanliness & Orderliness
People who are neat and orderly often find it difficult, if not downright challenging, to live with someone whoâs a slob. And people who donât put much time or effort into cleanliness donât often care that it means something to others. You know how cute you found his cluttered and messy apartment those first few weeks? That wears off fast if youâre someone who likes things to be clean and orderly.
3. Money & Spending
More couples argue about money and finances than anything else (well, except maybe for the next one). This is a much larger issue than most relationships ever consider at the onset. And because it can be awkward to talk about money and finances, most couples also put off such discussions until things start going wrong. If heâs a spender and sheâs a saver, that could mean trouble down the road when youâre planning for lifeâs bigger purchases, such as a house, cars or your childrenâs future education.
Couples who are on the same page with their money and finances will usually find it easier going than those with wildly divergent spending behaviors.
4. Sex & Intimacy
How many articles have been written about the importance of sex and intimacy in a relationship? It may be hard to gauge how sexually compatible you are at the beginning of a relationship, since sex is usually more of a shared enjoyment then. But as the newness wears off, itâs a good time to gauge whether your sexual needs and desires are truly similar.
Like money, talking about your own personal sexual desires and needs may be challenging. But the sooner you do it and figure out if the two of you are sexually compatible long-term, the quicker you can know whether you share this compatibility. Incompatibility in the bedroom is the second most-common reason for long-term relationship discord.
5. Life Priorities & Tempo
Different people work and live at different tempos in life. Discovering and acknowledging your own personal tempo is an important step to finding someone with a similar and compatible tempo.
Some people are laid-back and let little get to them, while others take every one of lifeâs challenges to heart. Some people value work, seeing no problem in working 12-hour days, while others value spending time with family and oneâs children. Are you the kind of person whoâs okay with âbeingâ with your partner while the two of you have your heads down in technology?
If youâre on the same page about what your lifeâs priorities are, youâll find youâll have a lot less arguments about these kinds of issues. Sharing life will be easier as you progress through life at the same tempo.
6. Spirituality & Religion
Many people who come from two different religious backgrounds make their relationship work. However, talk to such couples and youâll find most of the agree it can sometimes be a challenge â especially if children are involved. If one partner in the couple isnât going to convert to the other personâs religion and both partners are religious people, youâll often find trouble brewing.
* * *
The more you and your partner share in these six characteristics, the smoother going your romantic life is going to be (although you donât need to be 100 percent compatible in all six areas â nobody and no relationship is perfect). Because when your relationship is firing on all cylinders, it helps keep you more resilient and better able to handle whatever else life throws at you.
A lot of what is written about libra mars is true , at least it is for me.. I can be a bit of a perfectionist in between the sheets but I'm like that in general .. when it comes to sex, it's quality over quantity.. I can go long periods of time no sex but I'm not a sexless person
Posted by SofiaV87the perfectionist might be your virgo parts.
A lot of what is written about libra mars is true , at least it is for me.. I can be a bit of a perfectionist in between the sheets but I'm like that in general .. when it comes to sex, it's quality over quantity.. I can go long periods of time no sex but I'm not a sexless person
you need cleanliness correct?
Posted by lisabethur8Yes cleanliness is a must , like I won't have sex after working out .. I have in the past but I didn't particularly enjoy it lol yea might be Virgo rising , I'm incredibly detailedPosted by SofiaV87the perfectionist might be your virgo parts.
A lot of what is written about libra mars is true , at least it is for me.. I can be a bit of a perfectionist in between the sheets but I'm like that in general .. when it comes to sex, it's quality over quantity.. I can go long periods of time no sex but I'm not a sexless person
you need cleanliness correct?
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Posted by SofiaV87Posted by lisabethur8Yes cleanliness is a must , like I won't have sex after working out .. I have in the past but I didn't particularly enjoy it lol yea might be Virgo rising , I'm incredibly detailedPosted by SofiaV87the perfectionist might be your virgo parts.
A lot of what is written about libra mars is true , at least it is for me.. I can be a bit of a perfectionist in between the sheets but I'm like that in general .. when it comes to sex, it's quality over quantity.. I can go long periods of time no sex but I'm not a sexless person
you need cleanliness correct?
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hmmm
it might be a FEMALE thing...
cause my husband is virgo rising and doesn't mind dirt.
edit
but for me, my NOSE is sensitive...
so i don't want stinky smelly shit.
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how true is this?
anyone with AIR mars?
I am putting it in the aquarius forum but this can go for Libra mars, Gemini mars too.
I also read that mars in Gemini need "Talking" for in bed stuff, to get their motor running.
how true is that?
this woman is a Libra with strong Scorpio placements, if I recall...she said she attracts scorpio men or something.
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