Aquarius with pisces moon/venus/mars

Hey everyone!

Just need some insight about this guy.
Short story: when we met, it was something regarding work. Few days later he offered to give me documents if i want (to meet for a coffee since it's silly to send by post). I declined.
He works in my town, but is a foreigner.
I found him on FB and appologized for being rude on the day we met, but he was happy and chatted, said he doesn't mind. Asked if i wanted to have coffee with him, I said yes, and he's response was: i'll talk about that coffee later.
The whole conversation was witty, fun,smart etc..... etc... I'm a sag - ha! it has to be funny!

That's it.
Then, weeks later, i receive a happy B-day, happy NY, merry christmas etc. ! I like when someone cares for those little things, even a stranger.

And all of a sudden he pops up at chat, asking me (after 30 mins🙂 ) to follow him to a party. I said no, coffee's ok. So he was like-i won't bother you again, i have your phone no. i'll text to check if you're free for the weekend. NOTHING!

I saw him online week later, made a remark he should move his but away from the computer. Got a response, but i went offline. Next day, he starts the conversaton etc... and again: COFFEE. ?_
So we agreed we should meet for that. And that's it!
WTF?
HE told my colleague, after we met, that he finds me extremly beautiful and smart, and finds me so .... interesting is an understatement. That was 3 months ago! IMO if you like someone you ask her out!

Few days ago it was his birthday, I send a message (FB not phone) funny, witty, no flirting... he loved it! Somehow the frog was involved, and he mentioned he'd love to be one, so i can turn him into human 🙂


All i could think to reply was he didn't have to be a frog for that! 🙂

I find this whole thing funny..... Is he just being super friendly or what?

I like his humor, and there's somethnig about him, he just calms me, i find he's very smart. But I hate flirting with a guy if nothing ever comes of it.

I have all those placements

What is your moon venus and mars signs?
Or if you don't mind what are ya'lls birthdays?

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I have all those placements

yeah but earlier you found out you were aqua rising and moon, but then realized you did your chart wrong. it happens.

but your mutables are in the 11th house. You still have a very very STRONG 11th house flavour.

Well this is true but I'm merely responding to having the same placements
AND
you never know he may very well be born the same year as me and have those placements in the same house as me after all couldn't he?

Ehh if his birthday was a couple days ago then no he was not born in my year I take it back haha..

But he could still be a taurus rising or be born a year where the ecliptic axis is titled resulting in intercepted houses... Many possibilities here 🙂

And even without the same houses I feel I have enough astro savyness to at least give her an answer no?

And even if I didn't Astrology can't explain everything.

Also shysaggirl,

Your in luck... I'm not the only Aqua on this site with these placements. There is one called AquaSnoz who has the same placements and is born VERY close to your guys birthday if his was just a few days ago.

Aquasnoz had his birthday on the 21st if I'm not mistaken
AND
he's dated a Sagittarius girl as well of I'm not mistaken.

I would just like to understand his behavior and intentions if he has any.

We are not dating. If you read the post, he suggest a coffee outdoors, but never actually sets the date and the place. Am I to do that? And everything is super slow 😢 I have cap venus, but i'm aries rising, so even I'm not that slow. My mars is in aqua.

As for flirting, there is a little bit of it, subtle, here and there. Mostly, not.

So, if someone could explain this aqua with too much pisces in his chart, i would be much appreciative. 🙂

Hmm that cap venus probably works well with his pisces venus but I dunno not enough info here to work with.

Best I can say is those pisces placements will generally make him a less aggressive male then what your used to I guess. I wouldn't say he's not aggressive about life per say... just I think pisces influenced men usually are a lot gentler in demeanor ...towards women anyways. He probably would want you to affirm you want to go by setting up the date actually... BUT thats just a guess.

To him maybe from his perspective he feels he's let you know he's interested now wants to know if you are too.

Over all though thats a best case scenario... Men when they are interested show you that they are... But like I said pisces influenced men don't like to creep women out or make them feel uncomfortable sooo... Meh thats bout all I can say for sure. Aquarius and Pisces men are wonderful I'm sure but they are also a pain in the ass ^.^

Yeah we're definitely a pain in the ass sometimes 😛

Well lets see... *winds up brain* sorry I have the case of the derps.

Just know I'm going off by what I would do but luckily I do share those placements so maybe there'd be some truth in what I say that can apply to him. What's his rising? That might give us more hints.

The coffee dates are pretty much our way of saying hey you know what you're a super awesome person but it's all in my head so I want to ask you out and see what you're made of! If it's cool then wow I'm going to let it sink into my head for a bit and possibly ask you out later on another coffee date and another and another and another... etc etc

Don't know what you guys talk about per se on these coffee dates. Only count 2 so yeah I'd take it slow as well seeing I have no idea if the feeling's mutual. I'm not going to push for something that doesn't exist yet but there's no harm in trying and working on that friendship. They say aquas work on their own time scale, well yeah pisces bits do that too so it doesn't really surprise me he's taking forever.

Anyhow, he sees something in you I'm sure for whatever it is. Little messages like happy bdays and that is just what we do because we care, feel free to think of it as a flirt or not it's just a simple and effective way of saying we care about you.

Thank you all for answers.
Just 1 clarification.

We actually never went out on a coffee date. It something he asks about (if i want to go), i say YES, and he never continues to actually set the time etc. All just talk.

Well, I decided, i do not want to ask him out first. If i do, i will only see him as a friend, too "weak" to be a boyfriend material.

Waiting for him, ha! I don't wait for anyone.....

He's sweet though, super sweet. But that's it I guess. If he wanted to he would have actually make it we meet for a cup of coffee. Because i always said i would go.

The one thing confuses me. The chatting. He stared flirty.... I mentioned something like: these last few weeks men seem to flirt in order to get in bed with me. I don't do that just so you know.

He backed off, saying if he was looking for that he would have told me straight, or "pushed for that coffee sooner".

So we chatted 🙂 for 2 hours after that...

And that frog thing. Why even mention he would like to be one so i can turn him to human (and we all know how that happens).For fun? 😛
Well, that actually confused me! As i said, i told him he doesn't need to be a frog for that. That's me, SHOWING INTEREST.
If he wants it, he'll have to come and get it (the kiss)

I'm purely guessing here but are you guys in your late teens? My head was in the clouds when I was younger for sure and pisces (in general) placements tend to fear rejection to the point they'd hold off asking a person out and live it all out in their heads lol.

Can't really relate to any of that now. If I ever ask a girl out it usually happens within that week and I'd have the details ironed out but then I've always been kinda assertive with that stuff. Tbh I don't think it should be about that. I'm keen on the idea of meeting half way. He sounds to me like he does want something to happen but playing the whole I am aloof card (probably just he way he is) and if you think he's an interesting guy why not say "hey I know a great place for a coffee?" and set it up?

Chances are this will be what it is who knows. The thought of you might make him smile and he'll continue to live in his head until he actually asks you out proper and sets a time and place. OR he'll just fall in love with the thought of someone else and this is the end of the story.

And I'm not saying he's all that for you to make the move or anything I'm more leaning towards making things happen and not letting what can be a wonderful thing slip by and who knows maybe you WILL get to turn him into a real human after you peel off all the layers.

GOD DAMN that was a long sentence at the end! ENGLISH? PFFT grammar can kiss my ass.

Oh and yeah if I got that text back saying I didn't need to be human I'd jump right on that as a sign you're keen bahaha! This Aqua pisces seems like a young padawan. *shakes head*

hahahhahaaaa. omg, we're 30! ahahahhaa 🙂 so, i'm off to the next adventure then! 🙂

thanx aqzuasnoz 🙂

Yeah that's pretty bad!

I learn new things about our aqua pisces brethren everyday! Sorta jives well with my understanding that pisces placements ALSO depend a lot on personal experience and what's in their own little pond.

Perhaps he has been hurt a few times OR maybe... maybe he's a player... god so many possibilities.

BUT ENJOY YOUR ADVENTURE. try not to kiss too many frogs.

Dear all, i need to update you, maybe someone can find this helpful in the future.

I decided to think of this guy as FRIEND only.
I re-seted my mind.
Few days later, while on a bussiness trip, i was in a group of some engineers, my friend's competition (another company).

They were working, although the weather conditions were horrible. I messaged the friend via FB to ask if he's working because our group just passed his offices. He was not because of snow. So I joked that he and his coworkers are girls
All of a sudden he asks for a coffee again! I tell him: invite me! He set the day, but not the time, telling me he'll inform me. I replied, do it tomorrow or I'll make other plans.
He never replied back, so i made plans for friday evening. Since I consider him to be a distant friend, I was not upset.
So, on last night, while I was getting ready, he messaged me (again via FB, although he has my phone no.) to apologize. Me: ok, Him: i am still working, bla bla... tired bla bla... feel like crap....ME: OK.
He: i will be boring bad company bla bla...
ME: OK. Like I said you and your colleagues are girls

and then he's like: why r u upset, i am really sorry etc..
me: it's ok, go to sleep whatever....
him: *I like you a lot,and I have to say I maybe like you not only as a friend* !!!!

WTF??

What's this all about?

I dated an aqua for 2 years and he was so consistent and pushy from day 1. This one.... what's up with him.

As i said before: if he want's me, he'll have to come to me. But, I fear the poor guy doesn't know what he wants.

one thing i know aquas like is to analyse. they don't make up their minds until they've analysed thoroughly and decided what to do. he is analyzing what he is feeling and whether it is worth taking this further. once he makes up his mind and knows he wants to push this further he will be pushy coz you'll be like a goal for him to achieve. another problem with aquas is agreeing to something. if they do - they feel the need to follow it which applies to agreeing meet up as well and that's why he is not agreeing to time yet it is like something ties them up and that's against their love for freedom. at the moment - he is taking you as his friend so keep no expectations.

My aqua has mars in pisces and I found that he likes me to take the lead every now and then as long as he doesn't feel pushed or pressured.

I feel like I'm too forward sometimes, but he doesn't seem to mind. I used to worry about this because it's a well known cappy trait to be pushy or controlling. He tells me I can suggest whatever I want and he'll let me know if he doesn't want to do something.

He says he never went and did much until he got with me and I'm always thinking of unique things we can go do together - hot rod races, haunted houses, laser tag, cook outs with friends, seeing live music, etc. If I left it all up to him the only things we would do would be dinner, movies and sitting on the couch.

Don't be afraid to say "hey, a group of us are going to __________, why don't you join us?"
When we first got together, we had talked about going to dinner and a movie that weekend for our first date. Well, on Thursdays, I usually went with my friends to hear some live music and thought I'd invite him to join along - and he did. So basically, our first date was on my invite. We've been together ever since. Been two years now.

Just wanted to offer up some encouragement because it seems like he likes you. Honestly, mars pisces is really great. They're sweet and easy going, but they need a push every now and then.