
hellosaggy
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Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by hellosaggy
Nope. Because I’m all about consistency and the only thing consistent is she’s inconsistent. I’m the last person that should be nagging anyone to do something. But I really realize that’s what I’m doing. I might take her aloofness the wrong way; but she seems very selfish.
The inconsistency and aloof behavior is ROUGH..
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Posted by IxionPosted by AntiochusPosted by Ixion
She is selfish...Aqua is a very selfish sign in intimate relationships...they will often do the my way or the highway bit...and trust me when I say only cold hard reality + your genuine vulnerability in expressing your hurt.... is the only thing that will move her to take steps out of fuck up land.
I'd say most people just have a different understanding of relationships than most Aquas.
That being said Aqua women, while being in their younger years can be nothing short of a nightmare to deal with.
I find that Aquas know what a healthy relationship requires they just won't do anything that puts limits on them even if that means doing things that hurt you. Aquas are masters of the "sorry, you feel that way" cop out...yea they said sorry but notice they will not change or do things differently- if they don't feel like it. They will push the boundaries "rebel" as the internet rags like to call it...not own up to their shit......unless you are fully willing to walk away.
Aqua gets it...they do...when its their feelings and comfort on the line lol. If you let em all that intelligence will be used to play coy, play games, and to run roughshod over your feelings if you let em.
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
she likes you and from my experience and things i read on here i think they expect you to be their bestfriend first so thats a good sign.
Are you ready for the next step?

Posted by IxionPosted by justagirlPosted by IxionPosted by AntiochusPosted by Ixion
She is selfish...Aqua is a very selfish sign in intimate relationships...they will often do the my way or the highway bit...and trust me when I say only cold hard reality + your genuine vulnerability in expressing your hurt.... is the only thing that will move her to take steps out of fuck up land.
I'd say most people just have a different understanding of relationships than most Aquas.
That being said Aqua women, while being in their younger years can be nothing short of a nightmare to deal with.
I find that Aquas know what a healthy relationship requires they just won't do anything that puts limits on them even if that means doing things that hurt you. Aquas are masters of the "sorry, you feel that way" cop out...yea they said sorry but notice they will not change or do things differently- if they don't feel like it. They will push the boundaries "rebel" as the internet rags like to call it...not own up to their shit......unless you are fully willing to walk away.
Aqua gets it...they do...when its their feelings and comfort on the line lol. If you let em all that intelligence will be used to play coy, play games, and to run roughshod over your feelings if you let em.
sorry you feel that way.
*runs and hides in the rushes* sorry it was asking to be said 😛
It's all good, your taxes just went up though. 😛click to expand

Posted by IxionPosted by justagirlPosted by IxionPosted by justagirlPosted by IxionPosted by AntiochusPosted by Ixion
She is selfish...Aqua is a very selfish sign in intimate relationships...they will often do the my way or the highway bit...and trust me when I say only cold hard reality + your genuine vulnerability in expressing your hurt.... is the only thing that will move her to take steps out of fuck up land.
I'd say most people just have a different understanding of relationships than most Aquas.
That being said Aqua women, while being in their younger years can be nothing short of a nightmare to deal with.
I find that Aquas know what a healthy relationship requires they just won't do anything that puts limits on them even if that means doing things that hurt you. Aquas are masters of the "sorry, you feel that way" cop out...yea they said sorry but notice they will not change or do things differently- if they don't feel like it. They will push the boundaries "rebel" as the internet rags like to call it...not own up to their shit......unless you are fully willing to walk away.
Aqua gets it...they do...when its their feelings and comfort on the line lol. If you let em all that intelligence will be used to play coy, play games, and to run roughshod over your feelings if you let em.
sorry you feel that way.
*runs and hides in the rushes* sorry it was asking to be said 😛
It's all good, your taxes just went up though. 😛
*shrug* I'm exempt so no difference to me.
Riiiight, you are clergy I forget... I really need to work on changing that law but the chamber of swamp monsters can be so unruly.click to expand

Posted by Ixion
I will also say that the Aquas I know once they had someone come at them with the real...no histrionics, no nonsense just the truth laid out bare...and then as others have said...give them the space to decide whether to commit or walk...they usually decide to commit if you have been a real and positive effect in their life.
Aquas are meant to be wild...you just have to teach them that while you love them for that zany independent streak and totally want them to have it...their freedom cannot and will not come at your expense.


Posted by AntiochusPosted by hellosaggy
She had the nerve to tell me that this is the most adult relationship she’s been in... I cook, clean, pay bills, don’t cheat(well not yet 🤷🏾♂️), sex is good (from her perspective 🤷🏾♂️), we get along great... but yet, she’s lazy as hell and not giving me the attention I need physically and I have to ask her to do things around the house. Like she’s my child. She said she’s so used to doing everything it’s nice to be basically taken care of.
Side note ladies. Just because you give it to us, doesn’t mean that’s what we want. I asked her for some mouth hugs the other night and she goes, can we just have sex? I just gave you one last week. The actual hell is that?!?
I might be wrong but isn't that the Aqua lady that most likely had some rape or sexual abuse experience?click to expand


Posted by AntiochusPosted by hellosaggy
No we don’t sit on top of each other. We don’t really cross path much during week. I’m working two jobs. She’s working a job and going to school full time. She’s home and I’m not home during week. I’m off on weekends she’s working. Since August we don’t really spend as much time together. We make time to hit gym together when possible.
Okay, but if you both are available you spend the time together and it is only disrupted by other activities?
The point is: does she space and time to relax on her own in order to figure out what the fuck she is doing?click to expand

Posted by hellosaggy
Nope. Because I’m all about consistency and the only thing consistent is she’s inconsistent. I’m the last person that should be nagging anyone to do something. But I really realize that’s what I’m doing. I might take her aloofness the wrong way; but she seems very selfish.

Posted by hellosaggy
She had the nerve to tell me that this is the most adult relationship she’s been in... I cook, clean, pay bills, don’t cheat(well not yet 🤷🏾♂️), sex is good (from her perspective 🤷🏾♂️), we get along great... but yet, she’s lazy as hell and not giving me the attention I need physically and I have to ask her to do things around the house. Like she’s my child. She said she’s so used to doing everything it’s nice to be basically taken care of.
Side note ladies. Just because you give it to us, doesn’t mean that’s what we want. I asked her for some mouth hugs the other night and she goes, can we just have sex? I just gave you one last week. The actual hell is that?!?


Posted by hellosaggy
She had the nerve to tell me that this is the most adult relationship she’s been in... I cook, clean, pay bills, don’t cheat(well not yet 🤷🏾♂️), sex is good (from her perspective 🤷🏾♂️), we get along great... but yet, she’s lazy as hell and not giving me the attention I need physically and I have to ask her to do things around the house. Like she’s my child. She said she’s so used to doing everything it’s nice to be basically taken care of.
Side note ladies. Just because you give it to us, doesn’t mean that’s what we want. I asked her for some mouth hugs the other night and she goes, can we just have sex? I just gave you one last week. The actual hell is that?!?
Posted by justagirlPosted by hellosaggy
She had the nerve to tell me that this is the most adult relationship she’s been in... I cook, clean, pay bills, don’t cheat(well not yet 🤷🏾♂️), sex is good (from her perspective 🤷🏾♂️), we get along great... but yet, she’s lazy as hell and not giving me the attention I need physically and I have to ask her to do things around the house. Like she’s my child. She said she’s so used to doing everything it’s nice to be basically taken care of.
Side note ladies. Just because you give it to us, doesn’t mean that’s what we want. I asked her for some mouth hugs the other night and she goes, can we just have sex? I just gave you one last week. The actual hell is that?!?
That has nothing to do with her being an Aqua and 100% about her not enjoying giving oral.click to expand


Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by hellosaggy
Nope. Because I’m all about consistency and the only thing consistent is she’s inconsistent. I’m the last person that should be nagging anyone to do something. But I really realize that’s what I’m doing. I might take her aloofness the wrong way; but she seems very selfish.
Let’s be real tho, her inconsistency is part of the reason you’ve stuck around. If you could predict her every move you’d have gotten bored and moved on long before this.click to expand

Posted by hellosaggyPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by hellosaggy
Nope. Because I’m all about consistency and the only thing consistent is she’s inconsistent. I’m the last person that should be nagging anyone to do something. But I really realize that’s what I’m doing. I might take her aloofness the wrong way; but she seems very selfish.
Let’s be real tho, her inconsistency is part of the reason you’ve stuck around. If you could predict her every move you’d have gotten bored and moved on long before this.
I agree. But it’s also the reason I’m hesitant on being anything more... that and the rare occasion mouth hugs.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by hellosaggyPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by hellosaggy
Nope. Because I’m all about consistency and the only thing consistent is she’s inconsistent. I’m the last person that should be nagging anyone to do something. But I really realize that’s what I’m doing. I might take her aloofness the wrong way; but she seems very selfish.
Let’s be real tho, her inconsistency is part of the reason you’ve stuck around. If you could predict her every move you’d have gotten bored and moved on long before this.
I agree. But it’s also the reason I’m hesitant on being anything more... that and the rare occasion mouth hugs.
Yeah but on the flip side you can’t expect someone to give you their all if your not fully committed yourself.
What ever happened with your studio city move? Prices scared you offclick to expand

Posted by hellosaggy
Nope. Because I’m all about consistency and the only thing consistent is she’s inconsistent. I’m the last person that should be nagging anyone to do something. But I really realize that’s what I’m doing. I might take her aloofness the wrong way; but she seems very selfish.

Posted by hellosaggyPosted by AntiochusPosted by hellosaggy
She had the nerve to tell me that this is the most adult relationship she’s been in... I cook, clean, pay bills, don’t cheat(well not yet 🤷🏾♂️), sex is good (from her perspective 🤷🏾♂️), we get along great... but yet, she’s lazy as hell and not giving me the attention I need physically and I have to ask her to do things around the house. Like she’s my child. She said she’s so used to doing everything it’s nice to be basically taken care of.
Side note ladies. Just because you give it to us, doesn’t mean that’s what we want. I asked her for some mouth hugs the other night and she goes, can we just have sex? I just gave you one last week. The actual hell is that?!?
I might be wrong but isn't that the Aqua lady that most likely had some rape or sexual abuse experience?
Yea. She said it doesn’t effect her with me because she loves me and wants to please me, especially now.
I think it does affect her because she’s gotten less active over the time and sex is too personal.
She told me last night she’s probably be more involved if we didn’t live together. Right now due to living together we are kind of stuck together and she’s probably too comfortable.click to expand

Posted by hellosaggyPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by hellosaggyPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by hellosaggy
Nope. Because I’m all about consistency and the only thing consistent is she’s inconsistent. I’m the last person that should be nagging anyone to do something. But I really realize that’s what I’m doing. I might take her aloofness the wrong way; but she seems very selfish.
Let’s be real tho, her inconsistency is part of the reason you’ve stuck around. If you could predict her every move you’d have gotten bored and moved on long before this.
I agree. But it’s also the reason I’m hesitant on being anything more... that and the rare occasion mouth hugs.
Yeah but on the flip side you can’t expect someone to give you their all if your not fully committed yourself.
What ever happened with your studio city move? Prices scared you off
No I had some big financial things pop up... I’m slowly getting them resolved. I’m going to start looking for jobs in a few months over there.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by hellosaggyPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by hellosaggyPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by hellosaggy
Nope. Because I’m all about consistency and the only thing consistent is she’s inconsistent. I’m the last person that should be nagging anyone to do something. But I really realize that’s what I’m doing. I might take her aloofness the wrong way; but she seems very selfish.
Let’s be real tho, her inconsistency is part of the reason you’ve stuck around. If you could predict her every move you’d have gotten bored and moved on long before this.
I agree. But it’s also the reason I’m hesitant on being anything more... that and the rare occasion mouth hugs.
Yeah but on the flip side you can’t expect someone to give you their all if your not fully committed yourself.
What ever happened with your studio city move? Prices scared you off
No I had some big financial things pop up... I’m slowly getting them resolved. I’m going to start looking for jobs in a few months over there.
So that’s another reason not to commit if your planning to move away. Does the aqua know your planning on moving?
If you know CAD I’m looking to hire 😂click to expand
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Basically I’m her best friend and we have sex. That’s how I looked at it. She told me she loved me a few weeks ago. I didn’t know how to take it. As it being “in love” or just that she loves me because I’ve helped her ground herself after four years of just existing.
How are people supposed to figure out how you feel? When we ask you direct questions on feelings you get anxiety. But if we don’t you feel we don’t care.
Case in point. She was like I don’t hug/kiss her enough when we are in public. I’m like you told me you hate that. She was like yeah but you can still do it.
Grrrrrr