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Are Aqua males lone rangers? lol
Posted by flowingwaterI totally get it; I'm an Aries sun with Libra moon and ascendant, so I desire space a lot as well. I do have other placements that make me want someone a little more stable than an Aqua, though. But what I love about this guy is the fact that we have had an intimate past, but there's never any weird feelings. We stay friends, communicate here and there. And it flows so perfectly; we love each other's energy.
Yes.
The women are like that as well, very independent.
The worse for an aqua guy is a partner who is very needy and clingy. That will make him run for sure. The signs I've seen who will try to tie an aqua down is Capricorn, Scorpio, Taurus, Virgo, and cancer. Not saying that it can't work but if you're unlikely to give your water bearer some space; trust me we will find it whether it means leaving you or disappearing for a while.
I'm starting to sound a little frisky, admitting to a few of my intimate partners from the past on this forum lol but oh well.
There's nothing negative for me to say about this Aqua. Except I don't think we could be in a relationship. Even though he tells me he thinks we vibe so well and when we reconnected after four years he kept being super affectionate, and telling me "I wanna love you,,," and "let me be nice to you." I was being very guarded that night and feeling strange when this guy was treating me well and being cute, unfamiliar territory lol that's why he said "let me be nice to you." lol He was extremely vulnerable that night. He's very open and honest, there's definitely a mutual respect. He'll always be my friend, that's for sure.
Posted by flowingwaterCaps are fine with space and independence (we need it too) as long as we have stability, consistency and security.
Yes.
The women are like that as well, very independent.
The worse for an aqua guy is a partner who is very needy and clingy. That will make him run for sure. The signs I've seen who will try to tie an aqua down is Capricorn, Scorpio, Taurus, Virgo, and cancer. Not saying that it can't work but if you're unlikely to give your water bearer some space; trust me we will find it whether it means leaving you or disappearing for a while.
Posted by AquaMermaid+1. I co-sign on this. Her guy sounds like me. I love everyone yet I don't. I make it seem like I need people or make people feel loved and wanted yet I don't really need them and can throw them away whenever I want. I don't form attachments. It sounds horrible and selfish, but I just can't truly get attached with people 😢
Yes we are a loner, both genders.We are very picky relationship wise because 99% of the times we get misunderstood. It takes a very patient person to break through the protective walls. When we find that one person,we give up on the nomadic lifestyle for good and settle down.If not, we are not afraid to walk alone.
Posted by AquaMermaidHaha I feel you on that one 😉
I don't mind the Scorpio tying me up..eeer I mean tying me down 😛
I'm not surprised you're married to a Scorp; if any air sign can understand the many facets to Scorps, it's Aquas. Least I think so 😛
Posted by aquarius09Don't feel badly about this; Aquas are still some of the more compassionate, optimistic people I know. I love they way they appreciate humanity and how high their hopes are for its success. Remember the good things about AquasPosted by AquaMermaid+1. I co-sign on this. Her guy sounds like me. I love everyone yet I don't. I make it seem like I need people or make people feel loved and wanted yet I don't really need them and can throw them away whenever I want. I don't form attachments. It sounds horrible and selfish, but I just can't truly get attached with people 😢
Yes we are a loner, both genders.We are very picky relationship wise because 99% of the times we get misunderstood. It takes a very patient person to break through the protective walls. When we find that one person,we give up on the nomadic lifestyle for good and settle down.If not, we are not afraid to walk alone.click to expand
Posted by AquaMermaidPosted by xomelindabellePosted by AquaMermaidHaha I feel you on that one 😉
I don't mind the Scorpio tying me up..eeer I mean tying me down 😛
I'm not surprised you're married to a Scorp; if any air sign can understand the many facets to Scorps, it's Aquas. Least I think so 😛click to expand
Some Aquarians understand it too well and that's why they prefer to stay away,LOL! Well,To be honest his Libra Mars and Aquarius Rising helps a lot! We're both fire/water dominant. His solid commitment and stability comes from his Cap moon. It tones down the bitchiness,lol. And it complements my Sun and it's need for space. I think having a feminine Cancer Moon also helps a lot.Love him to bits!
Oh wow, what a great match-up in charts! I could definitely see that lasting for awhile 😛 you get each other!
Posted by AquaMermaidPosted by xomelindabelleHaha, pardon me! That's what I meant. With these Scorp and Cap placements, I'm sure it will be for life!Posted by AquaMermaidPosted by xomelindabellePosted by AquaMermaidHaha I feel you on that one 😉
I don't mind the Scorpio tying me up..eeer I mean tying me down 😛
I'm not surprised you're married to a Scorp; if any air sign can understand the many facets to Scorps, it's Aquas. Least I think so 😛
Some Aquarians understand it too well and that's why they prefer to stay away,LOL! Well,To be honest his Libra Mars and Aquarius Rising helps a lot! We're both fire/water dominant. His solid commitment and stability comes from his Cap moon. It tones down the bitchiness,lol. And it complements my Sun and it's need for space. I think having a feminine Cancer Moon also helps a lot.Love him to bits!
Oh wow, what a great match-up in charts! I could definitely see that lasting for awhile 😛 you get each other!
Awhile?? We're in it for life! 😄click to expand
Posted by AquaMermaidAww! I love you! That's very sweet of you to say. Truer words were never spoken for aqua moon or air dominant chart! This is precisely my struggle. Did your aqua moon guy eventually find the one because mine has been a lifelong struggle and ongoing. I try to form the attachment but I can't. I can't wait to find this guy who will evoke emotions out of me but till then I'm flowing smoothly as air people do. LolPosted by aquarius09Posted by AquaMermaid+1. I co-sign on this. Her guy sounds like me. I love everyone yet I don't. I make it seem like I need people or make people feel loved and wanted yet I don't really need them and can throw them away whenever I want. I don't form attachments. It sounds horrible and selfish, but I just can't truly get attached with people 😢
Yes we are a loner, both genders.We are very picky relationship wise because 99% of the times we get misunderstood. It takes a very patient person to break through the protective walls. When we find that one person,we give up on the nomadic lifestyle for good and settle down.If not, we are not afraid to walk alone.
Awwww girl, Don't be so hard on yourself 😢 I knew an Aqua Moon guy who seemed very frustrated because he couldn't find " the one" . It must be hard with an air dominant chart. You will find your special one.I'm sure there is a man for you who will accept you for who you are and evoke emotions in you that you've never felt before. Be who you are and love yourself.It's ok to feel vulnerable sometimes.click to expand
*shrugs*
Not really a lone ranger and not quite nomadic. It's just one of those if I so happen to move then it'll just happen! I get other people tend to make a big deal of big life changing events and that's super awesome but for me (speaking as an aqua) it's just another leg of the journey.
I'm quite attached to the people around me but that would never hold me back from where my life leads me.
Not really a lone ranger and not quite nomadic. It's just one of those if I so happen to move then it'll just happen! I get other people tend to make a big deal of big life changing events and that's super awesome but for me (speaking as an aqua) it's just another leg of the journey.
I'm quite attached to the people around me but that would never hold me back from where my life leads me.
I'm glad that u used sensitive to describe us even though u meant it as a contrast to being detached, most think we're robots.
I always thought it ironic that I'm an air sign and I tend to go wherever the wind takes me at the drop of a hat. I personally love moving I live like I have one foot out the door, I never keep stuff and I keep my place clean like I could leave the next day.....I just love new perspectives on life and meeting new people, seriously I love living in places where I have no idea where I am and can get lost its exciting.
I always thought it ironic that I'm an air sign and I tend to go wherever the wind takes me at the drop of a hat. I personally love moving I live like I have one foot out the door, I never keep stuff and I keep my place clean like I could leave the next day.....I just love new perspectives on life and meeting new people, seriously I love living in places where I have no idea where I am and can get lost its exciting.
Whoa ok so this Aqua called me tonight, we spoke for three hours. And it was so simple, so relaxed and flowed easily as always. We couldn't even hang up the phone by the end, we both lingered. I think my libra placements strongly connect with him. He kept telling me how much I get him and that he misses me all the time. And also that he wanted to take me from the state I'm in right now and keep me with him where he relocated, said he needs my presence. It was very cute. He said "I love you" a few times, first it was "I got love for you", but when I said I have it for him too he said the former. And before we ended the conversation, he told me I'm all he's going to be thinking about and he hopes to see me in his dreams.
It's just so great with this guy, it's so nice to finally be understood by a friend who really could be my something more. I mean, we were intimate and dating before. Aquas seem to really love the idea of a best friend being their lover as well. I've been so confused with other men and signs but there's nothing like this connection. It's just that clear.
What do you think of this?
And I know I've had other stuff on the Scorp forum, but I'm not asking for judgment. I'm asking for an Aquas perspective on his behavior; considering my inquiries in the original post.
It's just so great with this guy, it's so nice to finally be understood by a friend who really could be my something more. I mean, we were intimate and dating before. Aquas seem to really love the idea of a best friend being their lover as well. I've been so confused with other men and signs but there's nothing like this connection. It's just that clear.
What do you think of this?
And I know I've had other stuff on the Scorp forum, but I'm not asking for judgment. I'm asking for an Aquas perspective on his behavior; considering my inquiries in the original post.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11I don't think Aquas are robots at all; I think you guys have a tremendous ability to love and be supremely compassionate, but you also can separate yourself from things that don't suit your nature; if you don't feel understood, you move on. I admire that.
I'm glad that u used sensitive to describe us even though u meant it as a contrast to being detached, most think we're robots.
I always thought it ironic that I'm an air sign and I tend to go wherever the wind takes me at the drop of a hat. I personally love moving I live like I have one foot out the door, I never keep stuff and I keep my place clean like I could leave the next day.....I just love new perspectives on life and meeting new people, seriously I love living in places where I have no idea where I am and can get lost its exciting.
I'm Libra moon and rising with two Gem placements as well. I totally understand the air wanderlust and need to be moving constantly. Also our minds are always ON. That's what my Aqua appreciates about me as well. My ability to understand those things about him. And I don't crowd his space. It seems to be very in sync with us.
He also worked it into the conversation that he didn't want any other man "connecting with me" like him. Is that an Aqua way of being slightly possessive or territorial? Do they even possess those traits when they feel bonded romantically?
Posted by AquaMermaidAwesome! 🙂 He seems to think I understand him quite well. You think the four air placements I have help our connection?Posted by xomelindabellePosted by The_eleventh_sign_11if you don't feel understood, you move on. I admire that.
I'm glad that u used sensitive to describe us even though u meant it as a contrast to being detached, most think we're robots.
I always thought it ironic that I'm an air sign and I tend to go wherever the wind takes me at the drop of a hat. I personally love moving I live like I have one foot out the door, I never keep stuff and I keep my place clean like I could leave the next day.....I just love new perspectives on life and meeting new people, seriously I love living in places where I have no idea where I am and can get lost its exciting.
+ 1000 ! You nailed it.click to expand
Libra Moon, Libra Ascendant, Gemini Mars and Gemini Jupiter.
Posted by AquaMermaidI could see that, considering Aquas don't attach easily; once they do, who they're connected to is something to protect in a way. That's my interpretation, at least. He's talked about protecting me a few times as well. I'm not sure if that's just a man thing or if that's another Aqua trait when they're bonded.Posted by xomelindabelle
He also worked it into the conversation that he didn't want any other man "connecting with me" like him. Is that an Aqua way of being slightly possessive or territorial? Do they even possess those traits when they feel bonded romantically?
Yes, Aquarius are possessive and jealous and very territorial.We might not show it as boldly as a Scorpio, we like giving subtle hints.If they still don't get the clue then we simply withdraw.click to expand
AquaMermaid:
They're not hard to understand if you feel very airy 😛 lol I swear, him calling me last night brought me back into focus. I don't have to try with him at all, our connection just happens. I'm an Aries sun and apparently Aquas like them, but as many have told me its my Libra moon that I identify with the most, it's a very strong placement.
I'm not even worried about the Scorpios anymore; this Aqua has my full attention; I can't believe I forgot what he does to me. But he wanted to relocate and I just let him go, so he could do what felt natural to him. Don't laugh at me but there's a line in a Taylor Swift song lol totally reminds me of him. "In losing grips, on sinking ships, you should up just in time." Like his timing was perfect! Then she says "This love is alive back from the dead; these hands had to let it go free and, this love came back to me." No force; no questioning. Simple.
My Venus is Taurus; I don't know his other placements yet because I don't know what time he was born, just the date.
And yes, Libra moons can certainly procrastinate lol
They're not hard to understand if you feel very airy 😛 lol I swear, him calling me last night brought me back into focus. I don't have to try with him at all, our connection just happens. I'm an Aries sun and apparently Aquas like them, but as many have told me its my Libra moon that I identify with the most, it's a very strong placement.
I'm not even worried about the Scorpios anymore; this Aqua has my full attention; I can't believe I forgot what he does to me. But he wanted to relocate and I just let him go, so he could do what felt natural to him. Don't laugh at me but there's a line in a Taylor Swift song lol totally reminds me of him. "In losing grips, on sinking ships, you should up just in time." Like his timing was perfect! Then she says "This love is alive back from the dead; these hands had to let it go free and, this love came back to me." No force; no questioning. Simple.
My Venus is Taurus; I don't know his other placements yet because I don't know what time he was born, just the date.
And yes, Libra moons can certainly procrastinate lol
Posted by AquaMermaidTotally, he almost acts as if I'm this precious, fragile thing he found. I can't explain it lol the connection makes us both very happy, he seems thrilled that someone can understand his active mind. I feel like I'm on the verge of gushing here lolPosted by xomelindabellePosted by AquaMermaidI could see that, considering Aquas don't attach easily; once they do, who they're connected to is something to protect in a way. That's my interpretation, at least. He's talked about protecting me a few times as well. I'm not sure if that's just a man thing or if that's another Aqua trait when they're bonded.Posted by xomelindabelle
He also worked it into the conversation that he didn't want any other man "connecting with me" like him. Is that an Aqua way of being slightly possessive or territorial? Do they even possess those traits when they feel bonded romantically?
Yes, Aquarius are possessive and jealous and very territorial.We might not show it as boldly as a Scorpio, we like giving subtle hints.If they still don't get the clue then we simply withdraw.
We are protective about our friends or potential partner. It could be his way of showing his care for you.click to expand
This is why 🙂
Ok, I just used 12 pm as the time he was born considering I don't know; here are our placements:
Mine:
Sun: Aries
Rising: Libra
Moon: Libra
Mercury: Taurus
Venus: Taurus
Mars: Gemini
Jupiter: Gemini
Saturn: Capricorn
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio
North Node: Pisces
His
Sun: Aquarius
Rising: Taurus
Moon: Aries
Mercury: Aquarius
Venus: Pisces
Mars: Sagittarius
Jupiter: Aries
Saturn: Sagittarius
Uranus: Sagittarius
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio
North Node: Pisces
Mine:
Sun: Aries
Rising: Libra
Moon: Libra
Mercury: Taurus
Venus: Taurus
Mars: Gemini
Jupiter: Gemini
Saturn: Capricorn
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio
North Node: Pisces
His
Sun: Aquarius
Rising: Taurus
Moon: Aries
Mercury: Aquarius
Venus: Pisces
Mars: Sagittarius
Jupiter: Aries
Saturn: Sagittarius
Uranus: Sagittarius
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio
North Node: Pisces
Posted by AquaMermaidRight?! He calms me babe often as well. I actually jokingly said "do you want me to find someone else?" Very lightly, it was no big deal. When he mentioned that I need my physical and emotional needs taken care of. I thought he meant he was telling me to ask someone else. He quickly shot back "FUCK NO!! I'm coming there to visit in a couple weeks." Lol I think he def wants to be my man.Posted by xomelindabellePosted by AquaMermaidTotally, he almost acts as if I'm this precious, fragile thing he found. I can't explain it lol the connection makes us both very happy, he seems thrilled that someone can understand his active mind. I feel like I'm on the verge of gushing here lolPosted by xomelindabellePosted by AquaMermaidI could see that, considering Aquas don't attach easily; once they do, who they're connected to is something to protect in a way. That's my interpretation, at least. He's talked about protecting me a few times as well. I'm not sure if that's just a man thing or if that's another Aqua trait when they're bonded.Posted by xomelindabelle
He also worked it into the conversation that he didn't want any other man "connecting with me" like him. Is that an Aqua way of being slightly possessive or territorial? Do they even possess those traits when they feel bonded romantically?
Yes, Aquarius are possessive and jealous and very territorial.We might not show it as boldly as a Scorpio, we like giving subtle hints.If they still don't get the clue then we simply withdraw.
We are protective about our friends or potential partner. It could be his way of showing his care for you.
I can tell he wants to be your man.click to expand
Posted by AquaMermaidAh the moons didn't work :/ our suns and moons are in sync. At least, I hope! Aries/Aqua sun and Libra/Aries moon. Fingers crossed!! Are Venuses seem like they'll work as well; Taurus and Pisces.Posted by xomelindabelle
This is why 🙂
Ahhhh Aqua/Libra love. I was in relationship with one for 5 years. He was Aqua moon and I am Cancer moon.Two very different way of expressing emotions. We couldn't stand the test of time. Sigh!click to expand
Posted by AquaMermaidIt sounds like overall, we understand each other quite well with a few minor hiccups. I'm sure it'll be fine, thank you for that! I was so excited to see so many good placements for us lol there had to be a reason we get along majority of the time!
His Sun trines your moon and your sun conjuncts his moon. This is usually a good indication. There is harmony and understanding. You'll resolve issues quickly. Moon opposite moon can create little tension but also there is lot of attraction and understanding of the differences. Mercury is square so there may be stubbornness on both sides. There will be difference of opinion. Gemini Mars and Sagittarius Mars are both fun loving and get bored easily. Focusing on one thing could become difficult for you both. Taurus Venus is romantic and sensual. Loyal and steady and it will go well with the loyal Pisces Venus. But it can bruise easily by the fixed nature as Pisces Venus is tender and very sensitive. He's fire dominate from the looks of his chart. He could be little impulsive for all that earth in your chart.
I would say, I do require a bit more of stability and security than him, but nothing we can't work together on!
And you saying that we both get bored easily considering our mars placements makes sense haha I'm always thinking of a million things a minute and I have to real him back in sometimes to stay focused on our conversation. We'll share many 'squirrel!' moments lol
Posted by AquaMermaidYAY! I thought so. Excuse my enthusiasm, but I've never had so many placements work with a person -- I always felt so misunderstood with my mix of elements.Posted by xomelindabellePosted by AquaMermaidAh the moons didn't work :/ our suns and moons are in sync. At least, I hope! Aries/Aqua sun and Libra/Aries moon. Fingers crossed!! Are Venuses seem like they'll work as well; Taurus and Pisces.Posted by xomelindabelle
This is why 🙂
Ahhhh Aqua/Libra love. I was in relationship with one for 5 years. He was Aqua moon and I am Cancer moon.Two very different way of expressing emotions. We couldn't stand the test of time. Sigh!
Your Venus is sextile to his Venus. It's a good aspect. You'll agree on most matters, good companionship and harmony.click to expand
Posted by AquaMermaidVery true, he's far more outgoing than me. I mean, I can certainly be an extrovert, but not with everyone. And he literally will make friends with EVERYONE he meets lol
I think air and fire is a good combination. Your sun is conjunct to his Jupiter and trines his Saturn and Uranus. It's positive. But he'll be more outgoing and adventurous. Your earth will need more stability. You'll both have to focus on each other.
Looks like this guy is someone I can very well relate to. 🙂
When we find someone whom we love, we give them everything, I mean literally everything. We remove our mask of being emotionless and show our true SELF the way we are. Looks like he has removed his emotionless mask and loves you really. 🙂
When we find someone whom we love, we give them everything, I mean literally everything. We remove our mask of being emotionless and show our true SELF the way we are. Looks like he has removed his emotionless mask and loves you really. 🙂
What is his DOB?
Posted by febaquaAw good! I'm very glad to hear that 🙂 I had a feeling, he seems to feel extremely comfortable with me.
Looks like this guy is someone I can very well relate to. 🙂
When we find someone whom we love, we give them everything, I mean literally everything. We remove our mask of being emotionless and show our true SELF the way we are. Looks like he has removed his emotionless mask and loves you really. 🙂
Posted by febaquaJanuary 24, 1988
What is his DOB?
I know that's like right in the beginning, but he is SO Aqua, it's crazy lol
Posted by xomelindabelleI thought he may be a third decan as well.Posted by febaquaJanuary 24, 1988
What is his DOB?
I know that's like right in the beginning, but he is SO Aqua, it's crazy lolclick to expand
Arians by nature have always come across as good friends to me. And Librans are always admired as well. No wonder he likes you. 🙂
Either way, all Aquas I've met have been lovely!! Whichever Decan they are
ugh again with the friendship. i dont even have many friends, only one in real life. the aqua gf isn't really a friend cause i never see her, years go by and i dont see her.
i believe what the astro freaks are referring to is the "Humanity aspect" which is brotherhood of mankind. Aquarius is the sign that supports all walks of life, the people. that's what the brotherhood of friendshp is about. ugh. so simple.
i believe what the astro freaks are referring to is the "Humanity aspect" which is brotherhood of mankind. Aquarius is the sign that supports all walks of life, the people. that's what the brotherhood of friendshp is about. ugh. so simple.
because THINK about it, genuises...
what is 5th house? everything personal to your relatioinship and children, and playfulness, and the 11th is about "the people"
Royalty is 5th house, but without the people, to support royality, there would be NO royality. it's the people that are the ROCK to help support it.
look at the royals in real life; they wouldn't be up there if it weren't for the general public/the people who give them power. because they trust their royals.
what is 5th house? everything personal to your relatioinship and children, and playfulness, and the 11th is about "the people"
Royalty is 5th house, but without the people, to support royality, there would be NO royality. it's the people that are the ROCK to help support it.
look at the royals in real life; they wouldn't be up there if it weren't for the general public/the people who give them power. because they trust their royals.
remember the French Revolution—
wasn't that during Pluto in Aquarius??
the royals were taking advantage and not loving the people, so the people stood up.
Posted by lisabethur8Yes, I agree. But I have noticed that my Aqua that I'm both romantically involved with and friendship-wise, he has a TON of friends. Everyone is his friend. That could have to do with his fire placements as well but I can vouch for that quality in him.
ugh again with the friendship. i dont even have many friends, only one in real life. the aqua gf isn't really a friend cause i never see her, years go by and i dont see her.
i believe what the astro freaks are referring to is the "Humanity aspect" which is brotherhood of mankind. Aquarius is the sign that supports all walks of life, the people. that's what the brotherhood of friendshp is about. ugh. so simple.
I have another Aqua close friend who is extremely selective when it comes to his friends ,so he doesn't have a lot. I suppose it just depends.
hm i wonder if people subconscously know.....like the writers/producers ect who choose actors/actresses....
Jennifer Lawrence has an Aquarius Rising, and the Hunger Games series, is about all that...revolution, aganst the capital.
Jennifer Lawrence has an Aquarius Rising, and the Hunger Games series, is about all that...revolution, aganst the capital.
Posted by BlackMambaPosted by flowingwaterAqua men love Crab women and are ready to be tied down by us
Yes.
The women are like that as well, very independent.
The worse for an aqua guy is a partner who is very needy and clingy. That will make him run for sure. The signs I've seen who will try to tie an aqua down is Capricorn, Scorpio, Taurus, Virgo, and cancer. Not saying that it can't work but if you're unlikely to give your water bearer some space; trust me we will find it whether it means leaving you or disappearing for a while.click to expand
Hmmmm, not too sure about that... I'm a Libra chick and a crab lady is trying to muscle in on an aqua guy we both clearly like, but he always draws to me because I give him space and value our friendship. My crab 'rival' spends too much time running around him and trying to mark 'her territory'. I think balance is a key factor in maintaining good relations with an aquarius. Perhaps your's wants to be with you as opposed to tied down? You can't tie them down trust me. They choose to stay! Big difference.
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Posted by Aqu@Librawell it sounds like you're "strategizing" how to get him!! by thinking well he is an aquarius so he needs space so if i give him space he'll want me!!! and not that other woman.Posted by BlackMambaPosted by flowingwaterAqua men love Crab women and are ready to be tied down by us
Yes.
The women are like that as well, very independent.
The worse for an aqua guy is a partner who is very needy and clingy. That will make him run for sure. The signs I've seen who will try to tie an aqua down is Capricorn, Scorpio, Taurus, Virgo, and cancer. Not saying that it can't work but if you're unlikely to give your water bearer some space; trust me we will find it whether it means leaving you or disappearing for a while.
Hmmmm, not too sure about that... I'm a Libra chick and a crab lady is trying to muscle in on an aqua guy we both clearly like, but he always draws to me because I give him space and value our friendship. My crab 'rival' spends too much time running around him and trying to mark 'her territory'. I think balance is a key factor in maintaining good relations with an aquarius. Perhaps your's wants to be with you as opposed to tied down? You can't tie them down trust me. They choose to stay! Big difference.
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girl, if that's how you think.. i mean lots of people give me space and i like that they do cause i dont want them near me.
truth.
you can't make someone love you. simple.
no amount of strategizing is going to do that.
but you can make them love you platonically, as friends, because they can appreciate you.
however, romantic love is a different kettle of fish.
you'd have to APPEASE his moon and venus.
no amount of strategizing is going to do that.
but you can make them love you platonically, as friends, because they can appreciate you.
however, romantic love is a different kettle of fish.
you'd have to APPEASE his moon and venus.
Posted by lisabethur8Nope, I think you misunderstood me, or I wasn't as clear as I wanted to be. I really like this guy, but I'm more than happy to be just friends with him. I actually give him space because I don't want a messy situation where me and this crab are competing for his attention, so I guess I'm giving her space too, not to mention myself!... Besides, if it's true he likes me giving him space because he doesn't want me near him, why does he persist to come around me? I would say the main point I wanted to make is that Aquarians decide to be with someone, they can't be tied down or 'made to love' a person. in not that type, no games or strategy, just beinPosted by Aqu@Librawell it sounds like you're "strategizing" how to get him!! by thinking well he is an aquarius so he needs space so if i give him space he'll want me!!! and not that other woman.Posted by BlackMambaPosted by flowingwaterAqua men love Crab women and are ready to be tied down by us
Yes.
The women are like that as well, very independent.
The worse for an aqua guy is a partner who is very needy and clingy. That will make him run for sure. The signs I've seen who will try to tie an aqua down is Capricorn, Scorpio, Taurus, Virgo, and cancer. Not saying that it can't work but if you're unlikely to give your water bearer some space; trust me we will find it whether it means leaving you or disappearing for a while.
Hmmmm, not too sure about that... I'm a Libra chick and a crab lady is trying to muscle in on an aqua guy we both clearly like, but he always draws to me because I give him space and value our friendship. My crab 'rival' spends too much time running around him and trying to mark 'her territory'. I think balance is a key factor in maintaining good relations with an aquarius. Perhaps your's wants to be with you as opposed to tied down? You can't tie them down trust me. They choose to stay! Big difference.
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girl, if that's how you think.. i mean lots of people give me space and i like that they do cause i dont want them near me.
truth.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Do people really strategize about getting someone? I'm a romantic, I like things to flow naturally. True we can make decisions to make relations run smoothly, but ultimately, what will be will be!!!
you can't make someone love you. simple.
no amount of strategizing is going to do that.
but you can make them love you platonically, as friends, because they can appreciate you.
however, romantic love is a different kettle of fish.
you'd have to APPEASE his moon and venus.
Posted by Aqu@LibraPosted by lisabethur8Nope, I think you misunderstood me, or I wasn't as clear as I wanted to be. I really like this guy, but I'm more than happy to be just friends with him. I actually give him space because I don't want a messy situation where me and this crab are competing for his attention, so I guess I'm giving her space too, not to mention myself!... Besides, if it's true he likes me giving him space because he doesn't want me near him, why does he persist to come around me? I would say the main point I wanted to make is that Aquarians decide to be with someonePosted by Aqu@Librawell it sounds like you're "strategizing" how to get him!! by thinking well he is an aquarius so he needs space so if i give him space he'll want me!!! and not that other woman.Posted by BlackMambaPosted by flowingwaterAqua men love Crab women and are ready to be tied down by us
Yes.
The women are like that as well, very independent.
The worse for an aqua guy is a partner who is very needy and clingy. That will make him run for sure. The signs I've seen who will try to tie an aqua down is Capricorn, Scorpio, Taurus, Virgo, and cancer. Not saying that it can't work but if you're unlikely to give your water bearer some space; trust me we will find it whether it means leaving you or disappearing for a while.
Hmmmm, not too sure about that... I'm a Libra chick and a crab lady is trying to muscle in on an aqua guy we both clearly like, but he always draws to me because I give him space and value our friendship. My crab 'rival' spends too much time running around him and trying to mark 'her territory'. I think balance is a key factor in maintaining good relations with an aquarius. Perhaps your's wants to be with you as opposed to tied down? You can't tie them down trust me. They choose to stay! Big difference.
.
girl, if that's how you think.. i mean lots of people give me space and i like that they do cause i dont want them near me.
truth.click to expand
Posted by Aqu@Librasounds like it.Posted by lisabethur8Do people really strategize about getting someone? I'm a romantic, I like things to flow naturally. True we can make decisions to make relations run smoothly, but ultimately, what will be will be!!!
you can't make someone love you. simple.
no amount of strategizing is going to do that.
but you can make them love you platonically, as friends, because they can appreciate you.
however, romantic love is a different kettle of fish.
you'd have to APPEASE his moon and venus.click to expand
but if the guy is the passive type he might enjoy the attention.
Posted by lisabethur8What things sound like and how they are can be different right? Anyway, for this one, I doubt he is passive, though I can't deny he enjoys the attention. He keeps many female friends. I doubt it's just for attention, but hey, I can't tell what goes on in someone's mind... Live and let live!Posted by Aqu@Librasounds like it.Posted by lisabethur8Do people really strategize about getting someone? I'm a romantic, I like things to flow naturally. True we can make decisions to make relations run smoothly, but ultimately, what will be will be!!!
you can't make someone love you. simple.
no amount of strategizing is going to do that.
but you can make them love you platonically, as friends, because they can appreciate you.
however, romantic love is a different kettle of fish.
you'd have to APPEASE his moon and venus.
but if the guy is the passive type he might enjoy the attention.click to expand
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