
SagGirl1124
@SagGirl1124
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Posted by AquarelleCause i know it's my insecure issue, i shouldn't let this take over everything, and should trust him, just somehow those small talk in my head, i need to let them out, and now dxp seems a good please to help me out.Posted by SagGirl1124Why not be yourself?
@Aquarelle - hehee. I know, luckily he's totally in the dark, doesn't know all my stupid feelings anyways, i totally let him do whatever he wants and let him has his own schedule and text whenever he wants and most of the time I have him initiate contact whenever he feel to and no push, just i secretly having all these stupid thin king and need somewhere to vent and talk to people to think less : P and thank you so much you guys been real helpful x
Around him too?
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@Aquarelle - hehee. I know, luckily he's totally in the dark, doesn't know all my stupid feelings anyways, i totally let him do whatever he wants and let him has his own schedule and text whenever he wants and most of the time I have him initiate contact whenever he feel to and no push, just i secretly having all these stupid thin king and need somewhere to vent and talk to people to think less : P and thank you so much you guys been real helpful x
Btw, @ArielView responses are always short but direct and clean π lol
@pinkbird03 - all these trip he planned way before we officially together : )


Posted by HoneyXxYes, you're right! Fxck me!!! I'm learning... thanks dear x
you're waaay to fucking clingy. it's been only 3 weeks and you're already doing too much.
calm your shits and let him lead.
tuck that crazy in baby girl.
that's all i got.

Posted by Mr_PinchyYes, absolutely he doesn't aware, cause i still as cool as we first met and he's no.idea how much I'm freaking myself out here lol.. somehow because i understand that's my own issue, nothing really about him.
I could see myself not contacting a gf ez. I mean if the holiday is nuts good.....but that said, if i knew the gf was freaking out over it, i'd make the effort to calm her down and keep in touch.
Honestly i don't think he is even aware how much of an itch this is causing you, considering you've been together for a very short time.

Posted by pinkbird03True...That's why i needa stay cool, and dxp is the place for me to throw my shxtty thoughts out...hahaa
They are independent. Heβs going to do what he wants when he wants to do it. They seem to like to be in control. Let him lead.

Posted by pisceswoman123Exactly, his reply just usually says everything lolPosted by SagGirl1124ππ
@Aquarelle - hehee. I know, luckily he's totally in the dark, doesn't know all my stupid feelings anyways, i totally let him do whatever he wants and let him has his own schedule and text whenever he wants and most of the time I have him initiate contact whenever he feel to and no push, just i secretly having all these stupid thin king and need somewhere to vent and talk to people to think less : P and thank you so much you guys been real helpful x
Btw, @ArielView responses are always short but direct and clean π lol
@pinkbird03 - all these trip he planned way before we officially together : )
@AerialView itβs a man of few words π
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Posted by SagGirl1124Look at this from this perspective, time flies when you're having fun and you usually burn out from having so much fun so that in the evening all you can do is drop on the bed and sleep. Additionally, having loads of fun with a little child can be mentally taxing as well, as in worrying constantly over the kid's safety (you never really have carefree fun this way, unless you're a psycho negligent parent).
Yes, absolutely he doesn't aware, cause i still as cool as we first met and he's no.idea how much I'm freaking myself out here lol.. somehow because i understand that's my own issue, nothing really about him.

Posted by SagGirl1124lol something so simple makes our day. If only men understood thatPosted by pinkbird03True...That's why i needa stay cool, and dxp is the place for me to throw my shxtty thoughts out...hahaa
They are independent. Heβs going to do what he wants when he wants to do it. They seem to like to be in control. Let him lead.
He's needing his time off i know, and he did message me today with all pics, so... I'm cool as fxk now Hahaaclick to expand

Posted by Mr_PinchyThat's not the case, his father and son trip, I'm totally fine that he's not contacting, just I'm wondering when the time he's on holiday on his own, what will be the casein general πPosted by SagGirl1124Look at this from this perspective, time flies when you're having fun and you usually burn out from having so much fun so that in the evening all you can do is drop on the bed and sleep. Additionally, having loads of fun with a little child can be mentally taxing as well, as in worrying constantly over the kid's safety (you never really have carefree fun this way, unless you're a psycho negligent parent).
Yes, absolutely he doesn't aware, cause i still as cool as we first met and he's no.idea how much I'm freaking myself out here lol.. somehow because i understand that's my own issue, nothing really about him.
At the end of the day, it's just difficult to call a gf, listen to her for one hour with a "yes darling" demeanour and voice. If she's a bitchy kind that whines "why didn't you call me?", that more so...
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Posted by pinkbird03Exactly, tbh my aqua man he does know it, when he's not having the blocking toilet issue getting him crazyPosted by SagGirl1124lol something so simple makes our day. If only men understood thatPosted by pinkbird03True...That's why i needa stay cool, and dxp is the place for me to throw my shxtty thoughts out...hahaa
They are independent. Heβs going to do what he wants when he wants to do it. They seem to like to be in control. Let him lead.
He's needing his time off i know, and he did message me today with all pics, so... I'm cool as fxk now Hahaa
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Posted by SagGirl1124Posted by pinkbird03Exactly, tbh my aqua man he does know it, when he's not having the blocking toilet issue getting him crazyPosted by SagGirl1124lol something so simple makes our day. If only men understood thatPosted by pinkbird03True...That's why i needa stay cool, and dxp is the place for me to throw my shxtty thoughts out...hahaa
They are independent. Heβs going to do what he wants when he wants to do it. They seem to like to be in control. Let him lead.
He's needing his time off i know, and he did message me today with all pics, so... I'm cool as fxk now Hahaa
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Posted by SagGirl1124If that's the case one possible explanation would be he just wants to unwind, like really relax, because he couldn't do that on father son trip because of worrying over the kid's safety.
That's not the case, his father and son trip, I'm totally fine that he's not contacting, just I'm wondering when the time he's on holiday on his own, what will be the casein general π
And usually he's the one talking, not me btw hahaa... and i am honestly never would ask him βhey why didn't you call or textβ except something really urgent and promised π
And I'm the kind just venting and letting shxt out else where instead of freaking out right in front of him without a good reason
All this post is i just want to see how Aquarians be like when they're on holiday on his own and would they be bothered to text or call while normal days he's the one texts me π

Posted by DiannaYes, that's i definitely not going to do, and yes, just needing dxp with you guys xx
It's not an Aquarius thing, it's a guy thing. It's only been a few weeks. You are not a permanent fixture in his life yet. just wait until he is done with his trips and then start developing your relationship. Don't put a wet blanket on his holiday. Nobody likes a clingy partner, especially in the beginning stages.


Posted by compyTrue, i think maybe you're right about the toilet thing... i am trying my best now to just let him be and relax at his holiday... try my best learn to be as detached as i was π’
With the toilet incident you were quite insistent, so maybe he sensed that, reason for which he is contacting you now. You are way too different in communicating. Aquas are simply social, you are the attention seeker type. You should detach a little, because if he senses you are so anxious towards him, he won't like it.

Posted by Mr_PinchyGimme sometime to process what you have just said, sorry cause I'm not a native English speaker hahaaPosted by SagGirl1124If that's the case one possible explanation would be he just wants to unwind, like really relax, because he couldn't do that on father son trip because of worrying over the kid's safety.
That's not the case, his father and son trip, I'm totally fine that he's not contacting, just I'm wondering when the time he's on holiday on his own, what will be the casein general π
And usually he's the one talking, not me btw hahaa... and i am honestly never would ask him βhey why didn't you call or textβ except something really urgent and promised π
And I'm the kind just venting and letting shxt out else where instead of freaking out right in front of him without a good reason
All this post is i just want to see how Aquarians be like when they're on holiday on his own and would they be bothered to text or call while normal days he's the one texts me π
I can also tell you i'm an aqua and sometimes i go downhill mountain-biking for the weekend with bros and i have no contact with the outside world except the shitty internet at the cabin.
Idk, i won't claim to have all the answers but i'm almost certain if you freak out* on the phone with "why didn't you call? I thought we'd agreed you to call me? Why didn't you call?" his face on the other end of the line will be like![]()
*you are slightly freaking out, this is like what #2 or #3 thread on this guy's holiday?
Personally i think if two scorned dxp women post in this thread with "he has a side hoe" or "you're not getting respect you deserve" you're gonna be blowing up that phone like it's a WW III prevention hotline.
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Posted by pinkbird03He wasn't busy, he was just going nuts and grumpy as hell, but nonstop texting me anyway, i was ok tho hahaa... just didnt like it made us not able to see each other before he flew this morning : (Posted by SagGirl1124Posted by pinkbird03Exactly, tbh my aqua man he does know it, when he's not having the blocking toilet issue getting him crazyPosted by SagGirl1124lol something so simple makes our day. If only men understood thatPosted by pinkbird03True...That's why i needa stay cool, and dxp is the place for me to throw my shxtty thoughts out...hahaa
They are independent. Heβs going to do what he wants when he wants to do it. They seem to like to be in control. Let him lead.
He's needing his time off i know, and he did message me today with all pics, so... I'm cool as fxk now Hahaa
Eh thatβs just an excuse. The busy excuse my aqua has told me a million times. Donβt buy into it.
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Posted by Mr_PinchyYour pic is funny haahaa, yea no worries i wont be doing that, being here just need to get my shxtty thoughts outta my head and so won't ruin my communication with my aqua man positivelyPosted by SagGirl1124If that's the case one possible explanation would be he just wants to unwind, like really relax, because he couldn't do that on father son trip because of worrying over the kid's safety.
That's not the case, his father and son trip, I'm totally fine that he's not contacting, just I'm wondering when the time he's on holiday on his own, what will be the casein general π
And usually he's the one talking, not me btw hahaa... and i am honestly never would ask him βhey why didn't you call or textβ except something really urgent and promised π
And I'm the kind just venting and letting shxt out else where instead of freaking out right in front of him without a good reason
All this post is i just want to see how Aquarians be like when they're on holiday on his own and would they be bothered to text or call while normal days he's the one texts me π
I can also tell you i'm an aqua and sometimes i go downhill mountain-biking for the weekend with bros and i have no contact with the outside world except the shitty internet at the cabin.
Idk, i won't claim to have all the answers but i'm almost certain if you freak out* on the phone with "why didn't you call? I thought we'd agreed you to call me? Why didn't you call?" his face on the other end of the line will be like![]()
*you are slightly freaking out, this is like what #2 or #3 thread on this guy's holiday?
Personally i think if two scorned dxp women post in this thread with "he has a side hoe" or "you're not getting respect you deserve" you're gonna be blowing up that phone like it's a WW III prevention hotline.
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Posted by SagGirl1124How long is he gone for?Posted by pinkbird03He wasn't busy, he was just going nuts and grumpy as hell, but nonstop texting me anyway, i was ok tho hahaa... just didnt like it made us not able to see each other before he flew this morning : (Posted by SagGirl1124Posted by pinkbird03Exactly, tbh my aqua man he does know it, when he's not having the blocking toilet issue getting him crazyPosted by SagGirl1124lol something so simple makes our day. If only men understood thatPosted by pinkbird03True...That's why i needa stay cool, and dxp is the place for me to throw my shxtty thoughts out...hahaa
They are independent. Heβs going to do what he wants when he wants to do it. They seem to like to be in control. Let him lead.
He's needing his time off i know, and he did message me today with all pics, so... I'm cool as fxk now Hahaa
Eh thatβs just an excuse. The busy excuse my aqua has told me a million times. Donβt buy into it.
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Posted by HoneyXxIf explosive diarrhea is gonna happen...its gonna happen. LOL
you're waaay to fucking clingy. it's been only 3 weeks and you're already doing too much.
calm your shits and let him lead.
tuck that crazy in baby girl.
that's all i got.








Posted by SagGirl1124As you should be! π
Thanks @pinkbird03, tbh just a little reply I'm already super happy.. like a little kid hahaa



Posted by SagGirl1124If it bothered you so much then you should talk about it.
I mean should i let him know the zero contact made me uncomfortable ?



Posted by AerialViewI don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
@saggurl88
Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please π

Posted by saggurl88Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ππππPosted by AerialViewI don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
@saggurl88
Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please π
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lolclick to expand

Posted by AerialViewHey. I only did that once. Lol.Posted by saggurl88Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ππππPosted by AerialViewI don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
@saggurl88
Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please π
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lolclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88My bad πPosted by AerialViewHey. I only did that once. Lol.Posted by saggurl88Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ππππPosted by AerialViewI don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
@saggurl88
Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please π
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ππ
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Posted by AerialViewObviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.Posted by saggurl88My bad πPosted by AerialViewHey. I only did that once. Lol.Posted by saggurl88Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ππππPosted by AerialViewI don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
@saggurl88
Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please π
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ππ
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Posted by saggurl88Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.Posted by AerialViewObviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.Posted by saggurl88My bad πPosted by AerialViewHey. I only did that once. Lol.Posted by saggurl88Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ππππPosted by AerialViewI don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
@saggurl88
Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please π
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ππ
A one way ticket to hit the road π
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Posted by AerialViewThe shade!! ππππππPosted by saggurl88Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.Posted by AerialViewObviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.Posted by saggurl88My bad πPosted by AerialViewHey. I only did that once. Lol.Posted by saggurl88Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ππππPosted by AerialViewI don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
@saggurl88
Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please π
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ππ
A one way ticket to hit the road π
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmaoclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Now I'm curious about your 3am text story : DPosted by AerialViewThe shade!! ππππππPosted by saggurl88Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.Posted by AerialViewObviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.Posted by saggurl88My bad πPosted by AerialViewHey. I only did that once. Lol.Posted by saggurl88Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ππππPosted by AerialViewI don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
@saggurl88
Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please π
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ππ
A one way ticket to hit the road π
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmao
You Aquas are difficult in general. I just want love without the struggle lol
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Posted by SagGirl1124I donβt think itβs over but your relationship itβs very new.Posted by saggurl88Now I'm curious about your 3am text story : DPosted by AerialViewThe shade!! ππππππPosted by saggurl88Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.Posted by AerialViewObviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.Posted by saggurl88My bad πPosted by AerialViewHey. I only did that once. Lol.Posted by saggurl88Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ππππPosted by AerialViewI don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
@saggurl88
Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please π
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ππ
A one way ticket to hit the road π
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmao
You Aquas are difficult in general. I just want love without the struggle lol
Yes, the aquas are real difficult when it comes to the freedom thing.. i still don't get how can be on a 7days trip without a single contact with girlfriend except the 1st day with few pictures sent and that's it.
It even makes me wonder if this is mean we're over... sighhhclick to expand

Posted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by SagGirl1124Dude he sent you pics on day 1 that you ignored till youβre insecurities flared up again.Posted by saggurl88Now I'm curious about your 3am text story : DPosted by AerialViewThe shade!! ππππππPosted by saggurl88Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.Posted by AerialViewObviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.Posted by saggurl88My bad πPosted by AerialViewHey. I only did that once. Lol.Posted by saggurl88Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ππππPosted by AerialViewI don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
@saggurl88
Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please π
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ππ
A one way ticket to hit the road π
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmao
You Aquas are difficult in general. I just want love without the struggle lol
Yes, the aquas are real difficult when it comes to the freedom thing.. i still don't get how can be on a 7days trip without a single contact with girlfriend except the 1st day with few pictures sent and that's it.
It even makes me wonder if this is mean we're over... sighhh
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It seems mine is this, last weeks he was with his 4yr old son on trip, i understand that was father and son time, so i was pretty okay he didn't contact at all, tho I was still a bit paranoid.. since we only together like 3 weeks now.
He came back from last trip on Friday midnight, but we didn't meet cause he's been frustrated by the fking blocking toilet with leaking for 2 days and ended up paid 300us and finally fixed while the plumber been fking with the time made it only arrived on Sunday. However, these 2 days we've been non stop texting and we helped each other to get to know more.
So now, today he flew again this freaking morning 8am on his own, and seems like again no fking contact again...so... this is really something i don't like and really bothering me!!!