@SagGirl1124
8 Years
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Posted by AerialView
@saggurl88Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please ๐
I don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ๐๐๐๐
Hey. I only did that once. Lol.
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ๐๐
My bad ๐
Obviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.
A one way ticket to hit the road ๐
Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmao
The shade!! ๐๐๐๐๐๐
You Aquas are difficult in general. I just want love without the struggle lol
Now I'm curious about your 3am text story : D
Yes, the aquas are real difficult when it comes to the freedom thing.. i still don't get how can be on a 7days trip without a single contact with girlfriend except the 1st day with few pictures sent and that's it.
It even makes me wonder if this is mean we're over... sighhh
Dude he sent you pics on day 1 that you ignored till youโre insecurities flared up again.
We donโt like space from those we love but we do need freedom.
We donโt like space from those we love but we do need freedom.
Listen to this โ๏ธ
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I'm just still so confused about space and freedom...
Posted by AerialView
@saggurl88Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please ๐
I don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ๐๐๐๐
Hey. I only did that once. Lol.
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ๐๐
My bad ๐
Obviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.
A one way ticket to hit the road ๐
Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmao
The shade!! ๐๐๐๐๐๐
You Aquas are difficult in general. I just want love without the struggle lol
Now I'm curious about your 3am text story : D
Yes, the aquas are real difficult when it comes to the freedom thing.. i still don't get how can be on a 7days trip without a single contact with girlfriend except the 1st day with few pictures sent and that's it.
It even makes me wonder if this is mean we're over... sighhh
Dude he sent you pics on day 1 that you ignored till youโre insecurities flared up again.
We donโt like space from those we love but we do need freedom.
We donโt like space from those we love but we do need freedom.
Listen to this โ๏ธ
I'm just still so confused about space and freedom...
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Space: not contacting with him or replying straight away
Freedom: letting him to do what he wants with out telling him off
He will like to talk and connect with you when he is not busy and expect the same from you. When you are together have fun.
But you cannot tell them off for not being there all the time or tell them to change. He will have to want to do it himself to make you happy. So tell him what you like but donโt get angry if he doesnโt do it.
They are very easy. Be loving, have your own life and enjoy your time together.
Posted by AerialView
@saggurl88Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please ๐
I don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ๐๐๐๐
Hey. I only did that once. Lol.
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ๐๐
My bad ๐
Obviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.
A one way ticket to hit the road ๐
Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmao
The shade!! ๐๐๐๐๐๐
You Aquas are difficult in general. I just want love without the struggle lol
We donโt argue and carry on so if thatโs struggle for you than good luck.
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I don't argue either. But I'm too easy going for you Aquas. I guess I'm better as friends. I don't create enough ruckus to keep your mind occupied lol.
Posted by AerialView
@saggurl88Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please ๐
I don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ๐๐๐๐
Hey. I only did that once. Lol.
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ๐๐
My bad ๐
Obviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.
A one way ticket to hit the road ๐
Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmao
The shade!! ๐๐๐๐๐๐
You Aquas are difficult in general. I just want love without the struggle lol
Now I'm curious about your 3am text story : D
Yes, the aquas are real difficult when it comes to the freedom thing.. i still don't get how can be on a 7days trip without a single contact with girlfriend except the 1st day with few pictures sent and that's it.
It even makes me wonder if this is mean we're over... sighhh
Dude he sent you pics on day 1 that you ignored till youโre insecurities flared up again.
We donโt like space from those we love but we do need freedom.
We donโt like space from those we love but we do need freedom.
Listen to this โ๏ธ
I'm just still so confused about space and freedom...
Space: not contacting with him or replying straight away
Freedom: letting him to do what he wants with out telling him off
He will like to talk and connect with you when he is not busy and expect the same from you. When you are together have fun.
But you cannot tell them off for not being there all the time or tell them to change. He will have to want to do it himself to make you happy. So tell him what you like but donโt get angry if he doesnโt do it.
They are very easy. Be loving, have your own life and enjoy your time together.
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Then he's definitely seems like the freedom type
I mean I'm okay with it if we've been together for sometime and understand enough and prepared, just we're such a new couple and sometimes i think a little notice beforehand could help me not being like this now.. that's what really makes the difference, instead of just off the radar all in a sudden. If we're just dating, yes he doesn't have the responsibility but we're in a committed relationship....
Posted by AerialView
@saggurl88Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please ๐
I don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ๐๐๐๐
Hey. I only did that once. Lol.
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ๐๐
My bad ๐
Obviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.
A one way ticket to hit the road ๐
Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmao
The shade!! ๐๐๐๐๐๐
You Aquas are difficult in general. I just want love without the struggle lol
We donโt argue and carry on so if thatโs struggle for you than good luck.
I don't argue either. But I'm too easy going for you Aquas. I guess I'm better as friends. I don't create enough ruckus to keep your mind occupied lol.
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Feel like I'm too easy going for the Aquarian too lol
Posted by AerialView
@saggurl88Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please ๐
I don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ๐๐๐๐
Hey. I only did that once. Lol.
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ๐๐
My bad ๐
Obviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.
A one way ticket to hit the road ๐
Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmao
The shade!! ๐๐๐๐๐๐
You Aquas are difficult in general. I just want love without the struggle lol
Now I'm curious about your 3am text story : D
Yes, the aquas are real difficult when it comes to the freedom thing.. i still don't get how can be on a 7days trip without a single contact with girlfriend except the 1st day with few pictures sent and that's it.
It even makes me wonder if this is mean we're over... sighhh
Dude he sent you pics on day 1 that you ignored till youโre insecurities flared up again.
We donโt like space from those we love but we do need freedom.
We donโt like space from those we love but we do need freedom.
Listen to this โ๏ธ
I'm just still so confused about space and freedom...
Space: not contacting with him or replying straight away
Freedom: letting him to do what he wants with out telling him off
He will like to talk and connect with you when he is not busy and expect the same from you. When you are together have fun.
But you cannot tell them off for not being there all the time or tell them to change. He will have to want to do it himself to make you happy. So tell him what you like but donโt get angry if he doesnโt do it.
They are very easy. Be loving, have your own life and enjoy your time together.
Then he's definitely seems like the freedom type
I mean I'm okay with it if we've been together for sometime and understand enough and prepared, just we're such a new couple and sometimes i think a little notice beforehand could help me not being like this now.. that's what really makes the difference, instead of just off the radar all in a sudden. If we're just dating, yes he doesn't have the responsibility but we're in a committed relationship....
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But that itโs the thing. Itโs in the beginning of the relationship that you cannot force that. Later on if you are the one he will know that he can retain his freedom and he wonโt fight it so much.
In a way he itโs testing you to see if he will be able to be with you. That itโs how it works. The beginning itโs too learn how you both are in a relationship.
He has already committed. That itโs very good.
Posted by AerialView
@saggurl88Are all Sag women crazy like this? Enlighten me please ๐
I don't know. I end up ignoring someone until they talk to me so I'm no good at this with aqua men lol.
I do have crazy thoughts but I just keep to myself and get over it. Lol
Ignoring by sending texts at 3am lol ๐๐๐๐
Hey. I only did that once. Lol.
I couldn't sleep. Lol.
Stop bringing up my bad habits! ๐๐
My bad ๐
Obviously you see where that 3am text got me. Lol.
A one way ticket to hit the road ๐
Should have known better with logical Aqua Cap influences.
Aqua Pisces influences would have more appreciated that stunt of yours lmao
The shade!! ๐๐๐๐๐๐
You Aquas are difficult in general. I just want love without the struggle lol
Now I'm curious about your 3am text story : D
Yes, the aquas are real difficult when it comes to the freedom thing.. i still don't get how can be on a 7days trip without a single contact with girlfriend except the 1st day with few pictures sent and that's it.
It even makes me wonder if this is mean we're over... sighhh
Dude he sent you pics on day 1 that you ignored till youโre insecurities flared up again.
We donโt like space from those we love but we do need freedom.
We donโt like space from those we love but we do need freedom.
Listen to this โ๏ธ
I'm just still so confused about space and freedom...
Space: not contacting with him or replying straight away
Freedom: letting him to do what he wants with out telling him off
He will like to talk and connect with you when he is not busy and expect the same from you. When you are together have fun.
But you cannot tell them off for not being there all the time or tell them to change. He will have to want to do it himself to make you happy. So tell him what you like but donโt get angry if he doesnโt do it.
They are very easy. Be loving, have your own life and enjoy your time together.
Then he's definitely seems like the freedom type
I mean I'm okay with it if we've been together for sometime and understand enough and prepared, just we're such a new couple and sometimes i think a little notice beforehand could help me not being like this now.. that's what really makes the difference, instead of just off the radar all in a sudden. If we're just dating, yes he doesn't have the responsibility but we're in a committed relationship....
But that itโs the thing. Itโs in the beginning of the relationship that you cannot force that. Later on if you are the one he will know that he can retain his freedom and he wonโt fight it so much.
In a way he itโs testing you to see if he will be able to be with you. That itโs how it works. The beginning itโs too learn how you both are in a relationship.
He has already committed. That itโs very good.
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ใLater on if you are the one he will know that he can retain his freedom and he wonโt fight it so much.In a way he itโs testing you to see if he will be able to be with you. That itโs how it works.ใ - Baby.. yes you're right about this... a test.. not sure if I passed or failed tho, we will see after he's flying back tomorrow. Tho all these overthinking part I didn't show him, but still, maybe as some said here, he might already sensed that, don't know...
Thanks honey, your reply always helped T.T
It's really hard for me to be with someone like this.... i understand he needs freedom, i need it too.. but the way he makes it - not easy for me, at least it's a bit extreme for such an early stage of a whole new relationship
Today waking up again I feel like shxt about his zero contact thing, somehow it makes me feel like I'm stupid to not giving him the freedom while actually I except complaining here, i never ever tried to even initiate any contact if he didn't feel like to, however thats really frustrating me deep inside... i feel alone just myself going through all these emotions while on the other hand he might be thinking that I'm absolutely doing great or even the worse is he's already thinking we're over lol
Anyway, dxp is the only place i could vent to and get things off my chest, so I won't do anything stupid. Thanks guys been real patient and listening
When things bothering me so much, typing it somewhere could somehow really help me feeling like a bit of a relief...
Posted by SagGirl1124
It's really hard for me to be with someone like this.... i understand he needs freedom, i need it too.. but the way he makes it - not easy for me, at least it's a bit extreme for such an early stage of a whole new relationshipToday waking up again I feel like shxt about his zero contact thing, somehow it makes me feel like I'm stupid to not giving him the freedom while actually I except complaining here, i never ever tried to even initiate any contact if he didn't feel like to, however thats really frustrating me deep inside... i feel alone just myself going through all these emotions while on the other hand he might be thinking that I'm absolutely doing great or even the worse is he's already thinking we're over lol
Anyway, dxp is the only place i could vent to and get things off my chest, so I won't do anything stupid. Thanks guys been real patient and listening
When things bothering me so much, typing it somewhere could somehow really help me feeling like a bit of a relief...
This is exactly how I used to feel. Then I would get a text and everything would be back to normal. ๐๐
Good luck with your Aqua.
Posted by SagGirl1124
It's really hard for me to be with someone like this.... i understand he needs freedom, i need it too.. but the way he makes it - not easy for me, at least it's a bit extreme for such an early stage of a whole new relationshipToday waking up again I feel like shxt about his zero contact thing, somehow it makes me feel like I'm stupid to not giving him the freedom while actually I except complaining here, i never ever tried to even initiate any contact if he didn't feel like to, however thats really frustrating me deep inside... i feel alone just myself going through all these emotions while on the other hand he might be thinking that I'm absolutely doing great or even the worse is he's already thinking we're over lol
Anyway, dxp is the only place i could vent to and get things off my chest, so I won't do anything stupid. Thanks guys been real patient and listening
When things bothering me so much, typing it somewhere could somehow really help me feeling like a bit of a relief...
This is exactly how I used to feel. Then I would get a text and everything would be back to normal. ๐๐
Good luck with your Aqua.
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This is exactly what happened just few hours ago.. doesn't feel too normal tho cause the messages still super short and not feeling the same as used to, but will see....
I'm still being the usual cool me in the messages, not sure when he's planning to see me even 2 weeks ago he promised will come to my seminar on the coming Wednesday night to support me, but I don't think he remembers that or maybe gonna cancel on me with some excuses. If that's what gonna happen, it will be pretty upsetting me, cause as said before, he ignored the pic i sent him on the Wednesday night just past that i was being awarded and was giving a speech on stage, if this one too....i don't really know how should I react and should I be telling him I'm disappointed with his behavior.
Posted by SagGirl1124
It's really hard for me to be with someone like this.... i understand he needs freedom, i need it too.. but the way he makes it - not easy for me, at least it's a bit extreme for such an early stage of a whole new relationshipToday waking up again I feel like shxt about his zero contact thing, somehow it makes me feel like I'm stupid to not giving him the freedom while actually I except complaining here, i never ever tried to even initiate any contact if he didn't feel like to, however thats really frustrating me deep inside... i feel alone just myself going through all these emotions while on the other hand he might be thinking that I'm absolutely doing great or even the worse is he's already thinking we're over lol
Anyway, dxp is the only place i could vent to and get things off my chest, so I won't do anything stupid. Thanks guys been real patient and listening
When things bothering me so much, typing it somewhere could somehow really help me feeling like a bit of a relief...
This is exactly how I used to feel. Then I would get a text and everything would be back to normal. ๐๐
Good luck with your Aqua.
This is exactly what happened just few hours ago.. doesn't feel too normal tho cause the messages still super short and not feeling the same as used to, but will see....
I'm still being the usual cool me in the messages, not sure when he's planning to see me even 2 weeks ago he promised will come to my seminar on the coming Wednesday night to support me, but I don't think he remembers that or maybe gonna cancel on me with some excuses. If that's what gonna happen, it will be pretty upsetting me, cause as said before, he ignored the pic i sent him on the Wednesday night just past that i was being awarded and was giving a speech on stage, if this one too....i don't really know how should I react and should I be telling him I'm disappointed with his behavior.
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Remind him about the night you want him to come to. And be upset if he doesn't show.
I hid all my anger and always played it cool. If it's something important to you and he doesn't show, definitely let him know how shitty it was that he wasn't there because you would've like his support.
And he will cancel all kinds of stuff. I don't know why they do that. But if it's somethung important, he shouldn't.
I know what I was supposed to do with my Aqua but my pride kicks in and fucks everything up. ๐๐
@saggurl88 - this seminar is a really important one to me, it's the first one i do in front of a crowd. The language i speak there he won't understand, that's why i suggested him to arrive later after it starts and so to hope not bore him too much.
Don't know.. if he really fogets or even trying to cancel on me, i will be really upset.... especially after all the silent treatment the last 2 weeks during his holidays and the ignorance to my awarding picture....
If that's really gonna happen, I don't know if I should be having faith on my boyfriend as a boyfriend anymore.
Finally i asked, again just ignored my message...
I'm thinking to just end the relationship with him. Why do I need to put up with all these ignorance ? 4 weeks of relationship, with 2 weeks holidays zero contact, ignored 2 times my most important moments.... this is really something I can't accept no matter how good he was treating me before the 2 trips
Posted by SagGirl1124
Finally i asked, again just ignored my message...I'm thinking to just end the relationship with him. Why do I need to put up with all these ignorance ? 4 weeks of relationship, with 2 weeks holidays zero contact, ignored 2 times my most important moments.... this is really something I can't accept no matter how good he was treating me before the 2 trips
What did u ask him exactly?
My aqua will ignore questions he doesnโt want to answer. So i usually change the subject right away and he keeps talking. Frustrating at first, but youโll get used to it. Donโt force it and make him uncomfortable. Honestly, no one wants to be in that situation. Perhaps let him initiate the next text even if it takes a little while.
The thing is, hes doesn't give me the same feeling as he used to, also no message at all since last night, while usually he would message me every morning.
I asked him, "If you still remember offering to come to support my first talk ever(smiley face)" - which will be this wed. We usually plan for our dates few days ahead. But the thing is, he knows how important to me this talk. He never ignore any of my messages except last week my on stage being awarded pic and this time, while both everyone could know that's important....
You are so needy and insecure.
You wrote the same thing over and over again.
Posted by SagGirl1124
The thing is, hes doesn't give me the same feeling as he used to, also no message at all since last night, while usually he would message me every morning.I asked him, "If you still remember offering to come to support my first talk ever(smiley face)" - which will be this wed. We usually plan for our dates few days ahead. But the thing is, he knows how important to me this talk. He never ignore any of my messages except last week my on stage being awarded pic and this time, while both everyone could know that's important....
From my experience- they donโt like for a girl to expect them to do things, but expect them world from the girl.
Hopefully your experience will be different.
Posted by AerialView
You are so needy and insecure.You wrote the same thing over and over again.
She needs to post some hot pictures on social media to show herself off and show confidence ๐ ๐
Posted by SagGirl1124
The thing is, hes doesn't give me the same feeling as he used to, also no message at all since last night, while usually he would message me every morning.I asked him, "If you still remember offering to come to support my first talk ever(smiley face)" - which will be this wed. We usually plan for our dates few days ahead. But the thing is, he knows how important to me this talk. He never ignore any of my messages except last week my on stage being awarded pic and this time, while both everyone could know that's important....
From my experience- they donโt like for a girl to expect them to do things, but expect them world from the girl.
Hopefully your experience will be different.
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But that's what he promised would come, still can't expect โ?? Than what can I expect from him
Posted by SagGirl1124
The thing is, hes doesn't give me the same feeling as he used to, also no message at all since last night, while usually he would message me every morning.I asked him, "If you still remember offering to come to support my first talk ever(smiley face)" - which will be this wed. We usually plan for our dates few days ahead. But the thing is, he knows how important to me this talk. He never ignore any of my messages except last week my on stage being awarded pic and this time, while both everyone could know that's important....
From my experience- they donโt like for a girl to expect them to do things, but expect them world from the girl.
Hopefully your experience will be different.
But that's what he promised would come, still can't expect โ?? Than what can I expect from him
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You could probably expect him to be loyal. Definitely expect him to be busy. Thatโs all I got.
You need a dad not a boyfriend.
Posted by AerialView
You are so needy and insecure.You wrote the same thing over and over again.
If I'm being needy, I would have already sent him lots of messages in all these 2 week, but instead of, i just chose to write on dxp hopefully to cool myself off and don't let myself bother him at all while he's enjoying his โfreedomโ.
When a person ignored the 2 most important moment of his girlfriend, can't I be feeling upset about it?!
Jesue you aqua guys thinking all these are normal but jeez it's really frustrating people next to you and it hurts !
Posted by SagGirl1124
The thing is, hes doesn't give me the same feeling as he used to, also no message at all since last night, while usually he would message me every morning.I asked him, "If you still remember offering to come to support my first talk ever(smiley face)" - which will be this wed. We usually plan for our dates few days ahead. But the thing is, he knows how important to me this talk. He never ignore any of my messages except last week my on stage being awarded pic and this time, while both everyone could know that's important....
From my experience- they donโt like for a girl to expect them to do things, but expect them world from the girl.
Hopefully your experience will be different.
But that's what he promised would come, still can't expect โ?? Than what can I expect from him
You could probably expect him to be loyal. Definitely expect him to be busy. Thatโs all I got.
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I don't know, what I am expecting now is to just break it. I mean if all these happened after we've been together for sometime, i am okay with it as I already understand this person enough, but jeez, all happened only after 2 week we're together and i feel like I'm with a stranger now, that's really not an easy thing for me.
Posted by AerialView
You are so needy and insecure.You wrote the same thing over and over again.
If I'm being needy, I would have already sent him lots of messages in all these 2 week, but instead of, i just chose to write on dxp hopefully to cool myself off and don't let myself bother him at all while he's enjoying his โfreedomโ.
When a person ignored the 2 most important moment of his girlfriend, can't I be feeling upset about it?!
Jesue you aqua guys thinking all these are normal but jeez it's really frustrating people next to you and it hurts !
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Your relationship is still new. Stop being so selfish! Important to you maybe but not him.
I give you few tips on dealing with Aqua men.
Judge him when he's around not when he isn't.
If he's away, busy yourself doing your own things and not think much about him.
Learn something. Improve yourself.
Example if you can't cook and he knows it, it's time to learn some cooking and surprise him when he gets back.
Posted by SagGirl1124
The thing is, hes doesn't give me the same feeling as he used to, also no message at all since last night, while usually he would message me every morning.I asked him, "If you still remember offering to come to support my first talk ever(smiley face)" - which will be this wed. We usually plan for our dates few days ahead. But the thing is, he knows how important to me this talk. He never ignore any of my messages except last week my on stage being awarded pic and this time, while both everyone could know that's important....
From my experience- they donโt like for a girl to expect them to do things, but expect them world from the girl.
Hopefully your experience will be different.
But that's what he promised would come, still can't expect โ?? Than what can I expect from him
You could probably expect him to be loyal. Definitely expect him to be busy. Thatโs all I got.
I don't know, what I am expecting now is to just break it. I mean if all these happened after we've been together for sometime, i am okay with it as I already understand this person enough, but jeez, all happened only after 2 week we're together and i feel like I'm with a stranger now, that's really not an easy thing for me.
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I understand. It hits you like a tornado ๐ช
The thing is, heโs probably deciding how he feels about you right now and how you fit into his life. He needs time to process that. If you want it to work, just give him a lot of space right now. Perhaps weeks. Thatโs what Iโm doing right now.
I'm being selfish? So does he!
I have been doing all my own things and work and meeting friends enjoying time of my life, also dealing with some disaster happened lately which left me no space to think of him much....but once I'm home alone, I really can't stop myself thinking of this one person who'd been such a sweetheart and wanted to see me all the time 2 weeks before, and now just like totally another person, who I feel like I totally don't know this person and just keep me hanging there...
That's too much for me, while yes, this relationship still that new and already have to go through all this.
It really yes as you said hits me like a tornado...
If not dxp...having a place I could speak everything out, i would have already drove myself nuts.
@pinkbird03 - what happened to yours? How many weeks now you already been waiting ? I'm sorry you have to go through this.
To be honest, even he's back, i don't know how to face this person normally after I've been going through all these emotions and the silence treatment and ignorance.... and promise is a promise, that's what I hate the most when people can't keep their promises.
Now he finally replied said he's been vomiting since last night flew back and had to take sick leave for work today.
Will see, usually i believe whatever he said, but this time... i don't know if that's true or he just want me to shut up. Still replied him asking if visited doctor and maybe food poisoning ? (Sad face), that's all.
I don't know, really, i don't know....
Mine started acting funny after 2 months of exclusivity. That was 4 months ago. Weโve continued to remain in contact throughout this time, but no effort on his end. So i cut the cord. Even deleted him off Snapchat this month, but he didnโt delete me and still looks at my stories. Itโs been 16 days of no contact. I will not initiate first. I canโt because I deleted him phone number ๐ up to him to decide to pony up. In the meantime, Iโve been chatting with lots of guys looking for someone Iโm interested in.
How he acted funny? If you don't mind to tell ? Wonder if same as my boyfriend now.... ๐ข
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Now he finally replied said he's been vomiting since last night flew back and had to take sick leave for work today.Will see, usually i believe whatever he said, but this time... i don't know if that's true or he just want me to shut up. Still replied him asking if visited doctor and maybe food poisoning ? (Sad face), that's all.
I don't know, really, i don't know....
Leaking toilet and now vomiting. This guy really has some shitty problems lol. ๐
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That's why, i don't feel like i can trust him now....
Posted by SagGirl1124
How he acted funny? If you don't mind to tell ? Wonder if same as my boyfriend now.... ๐ข
Slow fade out- less initiating from him, calls were shorter, no more hanging out. His excuse was he is busy with two new businesses. I believe that, but he can make time for me too. Then we continue to talk here and there. But most of our interactions were online. It turned into serious stalking on both end. Sharing locations with each other too was a big one. Lots of games. Soo thatโs why I am doing no contact. Either he will eventually reach out and try again because for the first time he will learn what itโs like to not have me in his life or I will move on because space helps u do that.
Posted by SagGirl1124
Now he finally replied said he's been vomiting since last night flew back and had to take sick leave for work today.Will see, usually i believe whatever he said, but this time... i don't know if that's true or he just want me to shut up. Still replied him asking if visited doctor and maybe food poisoning ? (Sad face), that's all.
I don't know, really, i don't know....
Leaking toilet and now vomiting. This guy really has some shitty problems lol. ๐
That's why, i don't feel like i can trust him now....
I didn't read all your posts so maybe I'm missing something but if it's true that his toilet broke and he got food poisoned I would feel bad for him and maybe laugh a little too at his misfortune. ๐
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True... so anyhow yea he's back in town last night after 2 weeks of holidays with zero contact plus ignoring my 2 of important moment messages in 2 weeks and now only saying he's vomiting since last night but not replying if he's still showing up on Weds my first talk ever as promised ... that's mostly what you didn't read after last time you were here ๐
I don't know how to be with him without trust/security issue
Posted by SagGirl1124
How he acted funny? If you don't mind to tell ? Wonder if same as my boyfriend now.... ๐ขSlow fade out- less initiating from him, calls were shorter, no more hanging out. His excuse was he is busy with two new businesses. I believe that, but he can make time for me too. Then we continue to talk here and there. But most of our interactions were online. It turned into serious stalking on both end. Sharing locations with each other too was a big one. Lots of games. Soo thatโs why I am doing no contact. Either he will eventually reach out and try again because for the first time he will learn what itโs like to not have me in his life or I will move on because space helps u do that.
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Were you guys in a relationship as boyfriend girlfriend?
Posted by SagGirl1124
How he acted funny? If you don't mind to tell ? Wonder if same as my boyfriend now.... ๐ขSlow fade out- less initiating from him, calls were shorter, no more hanging out. His excuse was he is busy with two new businesses. I believe that, but he can make time for me too. Then we continue to talk here and there. But most of our interactions were online. It turned into serious stalking on both end. Sharing locations with each other too was a big one. Lots of games. Soo thatโs why I am doing no contact. Either he will eventually reach out and try again because for the first time he will learn what itโs like to not have me in his life or I will move on because space helps u do that.
Were you guys in a relationship as boyfriend girlfriend?
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Yep
So maybe that's the same road I'm walking on now.... much sooner
Posted by SagGirl1124
So maybe that's the same road I'm walking on now.... much sooner
Yeah. Thatโs why I think heโs deciding on what he wants with you right now. If you leave things the way they are, he will be happy with that. But you wonโt be. Step back. Donโt text him again for at least a week unless he initiates. You donโt want to be 6 months in like me and doing this. Also be confident. Youโre a great woman. Heโs stupid to let u go if he doesnโt come back on his own.
You didn't step back when he started acting funny?
Tbh, I'm tired of it... i mean he's yes still calling me boyfriend in messages (That's a funny story, cause he was too excited when he was asking me to be his girlfriend but all in a sudden he said the opposite way, so... since then he calls me bf i call him gf), but all his behavior since the holidays started 2weeks ago... really, really frustrating me, i knew god wouldn't be that easy to me sending me such a perfect boyfriend, at least i thought he was.... just i didn't expect he's just the same as those other guys.
Can't you people just be honest and say it if you want things end!! It really really hurting people who's been giving all their love and care
Posted by SagGirl1124
You didn't step back when he started acting funny?Tbh, I'm tired of it... i mean he's yes still calling me boyfriend in messages (That's a funny story, cause he was too excited when he was asking me to be his girlfriend but all in a sudden he said the opposite way, so... since then he calls me bf i call him gf), but all his behavior since the holidays started 2weeks ago... really, really frustrating me, i knew god wouldn't be that easy to me sending me such a perfect boyfriend, at least i thought he was.... just i didn't expect he's just the same as those other guys.
Can't you people just be honest and say it if you want things end!! It really really hurting people who's been giving all their love and care
No, at first I was cool about it, but it finally got to me and I became insecure and clingy. That definitely pushed him away more. He knows how I feel about him. He should say heโs not interested just to spare me any hope. Nope. I donโt think he wants me to let go even though he gives me no reason to stay. Too confusing. Over it. I still think he expects me to text him because I always do
Posted by SagGirl1124
Now he finally replied said he's been vomiting since last night flew back and had to take sick leave for work today.Will see, usually i believe whatever he said, but this time... i don't know if that's true or he just want me to shut up. Still replied him asking if visited doctor and maybe food poisoning ? (Sad face), that's all.
I don't know, really, i don't know....
Leaking toilet and now vomiting. This guy really has some shitty problems lol. ๐
That's why, i don't feel like i can trust him now....
I didn't read all your posts so maybe I'm missing something but if it's true that his toilet broke and he got food poisoned I would feel bad for him and maybe laugh a little too at his misfortune. ๐
True... so anyhow yea he's back in town last night after 2 weeks of holidays with zero contact plus ignoring my 2 of important moment messages in 2 weeks and now only saying he's vomiting since last night but not replying if he's still showing up on Weds my first talk ever as promised ... that's mostly what you didn't read after last time you were here ๐
I don't know how to be with him without trust/security issue
2 weeks with no contact is a lot if you're in a relationship. But did he have internet where he was? Is he online often? Trying to see the bigger picture here. When I'm abroad I shut off data roaming if I'm outside Europe.
Also if I've been vomiting I wouldn't promise to go to an event in two days either. But I think you should be able to communicate with him in a calm way how his lack of communication makes you feel without accusing him of anything ofc. People are not mind readers. We all have different needs and you should be able to talk to him about it if you're in a relationship.
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Yes, he's had connection all these time and did update his Facebook with pictures mainly show his mother living overseas.
And I did see him online on whatsapp, not always but not just little time either.
But i didn't contact him at all in these 2 weeks during his trips, except saying happy birthday, and he sent beach pictures the 2nd trip i replied, and i sent only a pic on stage getting award pic that he ignored. Other than the trip was the toilet incident we were texting and he was asking for my help to find plumber, that's all. So I honestly have been giving him all the time all the freedom he needs.
I do really want to communicate with him about how i feel in these 2 weeks, of course calmly without accusing him, but everyone here the Aquarians seems really don't like this idea and think my boyfriend would think I'm crazy and not giving him space or freedom and that will just push him away...
I'm just so lost and really really upset, and feel like I'm useless and helpless...
@pinkbird03 - if you don't mind i ask, what did you do to show you're becoming insecure and clingy? I want to learn from mistakes.... sorry if that makes you upset, you can just ignore it : )
I'm glad there is someone i can talk to... or i will just go insane
Posted by AerialView
You are so needy and insecure.You wrote the same thing over and over again.
If I'm being needy, I would have already sent him lots of messages in all these 2 week, but instead of, i just chose to write on dxp hopefully to cool myself off and don't let myself bother him at all while he's enjoying his โfreedomโ.
When a person ignored the 2 most important moment of his girlfriend, can't I be feeling upset about it?!
Jesue you aqua guys thinking all these are normal but jeez it's really frustrating people next to you and it hurts !
Your relationship is still new. Stop being so selfish! Important to you maybe but not him.
I give you few tips on dealing with Aqua men.
Judge him when he's around not when he isn't.
If he's away, busy yourself doing your own things and not think much about him.
Learn something. Improve yourself.
Example if you can't cook and he knows it, it's time to learn some cooking and surprise him when he gets back.
Why do u think she should improve herself for him while he didn't ever bother to congratulate her for the award she got? ( congrats for that BTW )
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Thanks hon, that's really something upset me....
Posted by SagGirl1124
Now he finally replied said he's been vomiting since last night flew back and had to take sick leave for work today.Will see, usually i believe whatever he said, but this time... i don't know if that's true or he just want me to shut up. Still replied him asking if visited doctor and maybe food poisoning ? (Sad face), that's all.
I don't know, really, i don't know....
Leaking toilet and now vomiting. This guy really has some shitty problems lol. ๐
That's why, i don't feel like i can trust him now....
I didn't read all your posts so maybe I'm missing something but if it's true that his toilet broke and he got food poisoned I would feel bad for him and maybe laugh a little too at his misfortune. ๐
True... so anyhow yea he's back in town last night after 2 weeks of holidays with zero contact plus ignoring my 2 of important moment messages in 2 weeks and now only saying he's vomiting since last night but not replying if he's still showing up on Weds my first talk ever as promised ... that's mostly what you didn't read after last time you were here ๐
I don't know how to be with him without trust/security issue
2 weeks with no contact is a lot if you're in a relationship. But did he have internet where he was? Is he online often? Trying to see the bigger picture here. When I'm abroad I shut off data roaming if I'm outside Europe.
Also if I've been vomiting I wouldn't promise to go to an event in two days either. But I think you should be able to communicate with him in a calm way how his lack of communication makes you feel without accusing him of anything ofc. People are not mind readers. We all have different needs and you should be able to talk to him about it if you're in a relationship.
Yes, he's had connection all these time and did update his Facebook with pictures mainly show his mother living overseas.
And I did see him online on whatsapp, not always but not just little time either.
But i didn't contact him at all in these 2 weeks during his trips, except his beach pictures i replied, and my on stage getting award pic that he ignored. Other than the trip was the toilet incident we were texting and he was asking for my help to find plumber, that's all. So I honestly have been giving him all the time all the freedom he needs.
I do really want to communicate with him about how i feel in these 2 weeks, of course calmly without accusing him, but everyone here the Aquarians seems really don't like this idea and think my boyfriend would think I'm crazy and not giving him space or freedom and that will just push him away...
I'm so just lost and really really upset, and feel like I'm useless and helpless...
You are who you are. If you're a person that needs a lot of communication you should be able to tell him that so he knows how you feel. There is no point pretending to be someone else because ultimately you want the person you're with to love you for you. Trying to be someone you're not and not being able to talk to the person that really should be the person that sees all of you will only lead to you feeling frustrated and angry at him. How can you be upset with him when you never communicated what you wanted and needed from him.
First decide what you need from him and then communicate it to him. If he tells you that he can't meet those needs then you can either accept it or find someone that is better compatible with you.
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Ture.. I'm hoping i will see him and talk to him in person, but now for some reasons i feel like there's no chance...
I'm trying to prepare the message and will send him..What do you guys think of I message him this:
Hey baby, sorry you have been having all the issues and now even the food poisoning. I am sure my girlfriend will be recovered real fast.
I understand the last 2 weeks of holiday was really something you needed - I know it's never enough but hope it helped a bit for you to relax. I'm happy seeing you did enjoy it.
However, there is something i want you to help me understand, in the 2 weeks of holidays, maybe too soon to have such a big contrast on our communication before i even get to know my girlfriend enough, which took me some time to get used to, so, somehow I do feel like I'm being pushed away and not being wanted, especially when a congratulations from my boyfriend last weds would be the greatest gift after all, but didn't happen. And now you're sick, i understand maybe that's the reason you can't for sure if you're able to be there to support me on Wednesday to my first talk.
I am a Sagittarius, not sure if you lovely mom is the same, when I like one person I would have so much to give, and I like you, i said yes to be your boyfriend even i was having hesitation, cause I scared to be heartbroken, but I saw that you were being forward and so honest with me about everything, and always open and telling me how you feel and what you think and what you need, that's really something made me thought you're different and I can trust you.
Now, can you help me with this?
Posted by Cvurkoo
Dude, dont listen to these guys. His behavior doesnt indicate he is all that into you. You arent needy for wanting to talk to you bf after two weeks of little or no contact.If he doesnt reply to your message its a sign of disrespect. His need for freedom is important but ultimately if he is in a relationship he needs to balance it out with the commitment. Most people here are speculating with the freedom thing anyways. Thats one possible scenario, the other is he just doesnt care so much.
If the situation in which you are doesnt feel right, make the appropriate decision.
Edit: im not aqua sun but i have strong aqua placements.
I really want to talk to him about how these 2 weeks his behavior made me feel...just, i want to make it in person instead of by text, but don't even know if we meet again
Posted by SagGirl1124
Now he finally replied said he's been vomiting since last night flew back and had to take sick leave for work today.Will see, usually i believe whatever he said, but this time... i don't know if that's true or he just want me to shut up. Still replied him asking if visited doctor and maybe food poisoning ? (Sad face), that's all.
I don't know, really, i don't know....
Leaking toilet and now vomiting. This guy really has some shitty problems lol. ๐
That's why, i don't feel like i can trust him now....
I didn't read all your posts so maybe I'm missing something but if it's true that his toilet broke and he got food poisoned I would feel bad for him and maybe laugh a little too at his misfortune. ๐
True... so anyhow yea he's back in town last night after 2 weeks of holidays with zero contact plus ignoring my 2 of important moment messages in 2 weeks and now only saying he's vomiting since last night but not replying if he's still showing up on Weds my first talk ever as promised ... that's mostly what you didn't read after last time you were here ๐
I don't know how to be with him without trust/security issue
2 weeks with no contact is a lot if you're in a relationship. But did he have internet where he was? Is he online often? Trying to see the bigger picture here. When I'm abroad I shut off data roaming if I'm outside Europe.
Also if I've been vomiting I wouldn't promise to go to an event in two days either. But I think you should be able to communicate with him in a calm way how his lack of communication makes you feel without accusing him of anything ofc. People are not mind readers. We all have different needs and you should be able to talk to him about it if you're in a relationship.
Yes, he's had connection all these time and did update his Facebook with pictures mainly show his mother living overseas.
And I did see him online on whatsapp, not always but not just little time either.
But i didn't contact him at all in these 2 weeks during his trips, except his beach pictures i replied, and my on stage getting award pic that he ignored. Other than the trip was the toilet incident we were texting and he was asking for my help to find plumber, that's all. So I honestly have been giving him all the time all the freedom he needs.
I do really want to communicate with him about how i feel in these 2 weeks, of course calmly without accusing him, but everyone here the Aquarians seems really don't like this idea and think my boyfriend would think I'm crazy and not giving him space or freedom and that will just push him away...
I'm so just lost and really really upset, and feel like I'm useless and helpless...
You are who you are. If you're a person that needs a lot of communication you should be able to tell him that so he knows how you feel. There is no point pretending to be someone else because ultimately you want the person you're with to love you for you. Trying to be someone you're not and not being able to talk to the person that really should be the person that sees all of you will only lead to you feeling frustrated and angry at him. How can you be upset with him when you never communicated what you wanted and needed from him.
First decide what you need from him and then communicate it to him. If he tells you that he can't meet those needs then you can either accept it or find someone that is better compatible with you.
Ture.. I'm hoping i will see him and talk to him in person, but now for some reasons i feel like there's no chance...
I'm trying to prepare the message and will send him..What do you guys think of I message him this:
Hey baby, sorry you have been having all the issues and now even the food poisoning. I am sure my girlfriend will be recovered real fast.
I understand the last 2 weeks of holiday was really something you needed - I know it's never enough but hope it helped a bit for you to relax. I'm happy seeing you did enjoy it.
However, there is something i want you to help me understand, in the 2 weeks of holidays, maybe too soon to have such a big contrast on our communication before i even get to know my girlfriend enough, which took me some time to get used to, so, somehow I do feel like I'm being pushed away and not being wanted, especially when a congratulations from my boyfriend last weds would be the greatest gift after all, but didn't happen. And now you're sick, i understand maybe that's the reason you can't for sure if you're able to be there to support me on Wednesday to my first talk.
I am a Sagittarius, not sure if you lovely mom is the same, when I like one person I would have so much to give, and I like you, i said yes to be your boyfriend even i was having hesitation, cause I scared to be heartbroken, but I saw that you were being forward and so honest with me about everything, and always open and telling me how you feel and what you think and what you need, that's really something made me thought you're different and I can trust you.
Now, can you help me with this?
Never do it on message. Talk to him in person.
And don't do it while he is sick. ๐
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Don't know if I'm still in his plan....
Should I be just not mention again to ask if he will be keeping his promise for Wednesday talk? And shall I be just leave him alone until he talks normal and asks to see me, then bring up the conversation ? Or should I just ask him out and say I wanna talk?
Posted by SagGirl1124
@pinkbird03 - if you don't mind i ask, what did you do to show you're becoming insecure and clingy? I want to learn from mistakes.... sorry if that makes you upset, you can just ignore it : )I'm glad there is someone i can talk to... or i will just go insane
I kept asking him to hang out on the weekends and he didnโt so eventually I was annoyed with him about this and questioned his want to be in the relationship. He would apologize for being so busy, say he wants me in his life when things calm down, and I believed him. But he hasnโt made any time for me at all and now Iโm done trying. So itโs on him if he wants more. Not too worried about it. No contact helps detach some of my feelings for him.
Posted by SagGirl1124
@pinkbird03 - if you don't mind i ask, what did you do to show you're becoming insecure and clingy? I want to learn from mistakes.... sorry if that makes you upset, you can just ignore it : )I'm glad there is someone i can talk to... or i will just go insane
I kept asking him to hang out on the weekends and he didnโt so eventually I was annoyed with him about this and questioned his want to be in the relationship. He would apologize for being so busy, say he wants me in his life when things calm down, and I believed him. But he hasnโt made any time for me at all and now Iโm done trying. So itโs on him if he wants more. Not too worried about it. No contact helps detach some of my feelings for him.
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That's something i tried in my past and yes, that's really something i would definitely avoid myself doing it in this relationship.... hope I can
He already ignored my first ask.. would I be pushing him and have myself to the dead end if I ask again now already....
And we never do calls, only messages.. that could be weird if calling him
How if I sent this? cause he just replied a few - baby, let me know if you think you'll be well enough on wed be there for my first talk ever, that's something very important to me and i will be very happy to have my girlfriend there sees it and know more of what I'm doing in my life ๐
I'm really suffering here badly @Timon.....
I really don't know what to do
Actually I'm the one never liked to be on phone, due to my old jobs been on phone 8 hours a day for years.
Me and my boyfriend met on Internet and he already asked me to be his girlfriend on the 2nd date which was just one week after our 1st date, so till now we have been officially together for 4 weeks only ... so yes very new and we have been getting to know each other openly before his trips....
Also, he's separated with his wife living separately and a 4yrs old son is living with her, i have confirmed as already been staying over at him few times already and usually he kissed me goodbye in the next morning to work and left me in bed go on sleeping.
And right before his trip with the boy, he already introduced me to his 4yrs old son for the first time (wasn't introduced as gf yet of course, too soon too quick, but to see if we get along and yes his son liked me alot, thank god)
I'm 34 ans he's 2 months younger than me.
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@Waterbearerwearer - again, i did reply him on his pictures nicely .... ๐๐๐
@pisceswoman123 - i don't know... I'm already expecting the worst. Will really see how he acts after coming back in town...