
AerialView
@AerialView
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Posted by SagGirl1124Oh. Got it. What are you going to say?
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol

Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


Posted by JadeAlexanderThat's a Libra paranoia.Posted by AerialViewIf he’s busy he may not make contact with you a priority.Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Or he may not be that into the relationship.
It’s hard to know... but you have to either be totally okay with it or move on.
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Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.click to expand

Posted by JadeAlexanderNot a priority, not be that into relationship, move on.Posted by AerialViewHow am I being paranoid?Posted by JadeAlexanderThat's a Libra paranoia.Posted by AerialViewIf he’s busy he may not make contact with you a priority.Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Or he may not be that into the relationship.
It’s hard to know... but you have to either be totally okay with it or move on.
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Posted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?click to expand

Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
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Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊click to expand

Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
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Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
click to expand

Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
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Posted by Lioness18881We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....
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Posted by JadeAlexanderAww those are happy storiesPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I only two stories, but here they go.
Aqua 1 decided his childhood friend was it. He took her on dates, but never told her they were dating. There were always mutual friends invited. He waited until he was certain then told her he was committed and in love. That was it... they had been friends for years and did a LDR for a few years. Once they moved into the same area they got married.
Aqua 2, met this woman who he felt a connection for. He hadn’t dated before but just went for it. Made his intentions clear from the beginning married her three years later.
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Posted by JadeAlexanderMy aqua asked me to be his gf early into dating. He did apologize many times for being insanely busy and he even once said he still wanted me in his life when things slow down.Posted by pinkbird03It’s just an idea of how direct they can be. One went the friend route but gave her full attention. The other wanted to date and make his intentions clear. There was no guessing.Posted by JadeAlexanderAww those are happy storiesPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I only two stories, but here they go.
Aqua 1 decided his childhood friend was it. He took her on dates, but never told her they were dating. There were always mutual friends invited. He waited until he was certain then told her he was committed and in love. That was it... they had been friends for years and did a LDR for a few years. Once they moved into the same area they got married.
Aqua 2, met this woman who he felt a connection for. He hadn’t dated before but just went for it. Made his intentions clear from the beginning married her three years later.
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Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, I might. Maybe after 30 days. We will see. You’ve been more consistent than me at least.Posted by pinkbird03I can see both sides... i don’t know what to say... i was kinda told a similar thing but obviously my situation is messed up. He needed time and space to focus on some things but I wasn’t going anywhere.Posted by JadeAlexanderMy aqua asked me to be his gf early into dating. He did apologize many times for being insanely busy and he even once said he still wanted me in his life when things slow down.Posted by pinkbird03It’s just an idea of how direct they can be. One went the friend route but gave her full attention. The other wanted to date and make his intentions clear. There was no guessing.Posted by JadeAlexanderAww those are happy storiesPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I only two stories, but here they go.
Aqua 1 decided his childhood friend was it. He took her on dates, but never told her they were dating. There were always mutual friends invited. He waited until he was certain then told her he was committed and in love. That was it... they had been friends for years and did a LDR for a few years. Once they moved into the same area they got married.
Aqua 2, met this woman who he felt a connection for. He hadn’t dated before but just went for it. Made his intentions clear from the beginning married her three years later.
I told him I’d be patient with him, but he never made any time for me and part of me thinks the busyness is an excuse. So if he wants to be with me, he needs to find a way to compromise and at least try to work with me. That’s where I’m at right now.
This guy still digs you...i don’t know, just contact him
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Posted by JadeAlexanderStaying by him and not leaving.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, I might. Maybe after 30 days. We will see. You’ve been more consistent than me at least.Posted by pinkbird03I can see both sides... i don’t know what to say... i was kinda told a similar thing but obviously my situation is messed up. He needed time and space to focus on some things but I wasn’t going anywhere.Posted by JadeAlexanderMy aqua asked me to be his gf early into dating. He did apologize many times for being insanely busy and he even once said he still wanted me in his life when things slow down.Posted by pinkbird03It’s just an idea of how direct they can be. One went the friend route but gave her full attention. The other wanted to date and make his intentions clear. There was no guessing.Posted by JadeAlexanderAww those are happy storiesPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I only two stories, but here they go.
Aqua 1 decided his childhood friend was it. He took her on dates, but never told her they were dating. There were always mutual friends invited. He waited until he was certain then told her he was committed and in love. That was it... they had been friends for years and did a LDR for a few years. Once they moved into the same area they got married.
Aqua 2, met this woman who he felt a connection for. He hadn’t dated before but just went for it. Made his intentions clear from the beginning married her three years later.
I told him I’d be patient with him, but he never made any time for me and part of me thinks the busyness is an excuse. So if he wants to be with me, he needs to find a way to compromise and at least try to work with me. That’s where I’m at right now.
This guy still digs you...i don’t know, just contact him
What do you mean by more consistent?click to expand

Posted by JadeAlexanderI think I read once that aquas like to be friends first but not surePosted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderStaying by him and not leaving.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderYeah, I might. Maybe after 30 days. We will see. You’ve been more consistent than me at least.Posted by pinkbird03I can see both sides... i don’t know what to say... i was kinda told a similar thing but obviously my situation is messed up. He needed time and space to focus on some things but I wasn’t going anywhere.Posted by JadeAlexanderMy aqua asked me to be his gf early into dating. He did apologize many times for being insanely busy and he even once said he still wanted me in his life when things slow down.Posted by pinkbird03It’s just an idea of how direct they can be. One went the friend route but gave her full attention. The other wanted to date and make his intentions clear. There was no guessing.Posted by JadeAlexanderAww those are happy storiesPosted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I only two stories, but here they go.
Aqua 1 decided his childhood friend was it. He took her on dates, but never told her they were dating. There were always mutual friends invited. He waited until he was certain then told her he was committed and in love. That was it... they had been friends for years and did a LDR for a few years. Once they moved into the same area they got married.
Aqua 2, met this woman who he felt a connection for. He hadn’t dated before but just went for it. Made his intentions clear from the beginning married her three years later.
I told him I’d be patient with him, but he never made any time for me and part of me thinks the busyness is an excuse. So if he wants to be with me, he needs to find a way to compromise and at least try to work with me. That’s where I’m at right now.
This guy still digs you...i don’t know, just contact him
What do you mean by more consistent?
We had been friends for years and were months into whatever this is... taking steps back was okay. He needed to clear his head and sort things out with a few things that came up on his lifeclick to expand

Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....
Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?
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Posted by pinkbird03At what stage?Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?click to expand

Posted by AerialViewI am the same 😄Posted by pinkbird03At what stage?Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
Early dating stage?
I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.
But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)
If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.
Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.
I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.
On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.
It's just ain't gonna happen.click to expand

Posted by Lioness18881I think I found there are at least 2 extreme type of aquas, must be everyone different of course, but in general, there are 2 extreme type, cause me and my friend having Aquarians, mine is as always the “freedom” type, so confident of himself even always say himself is handsome 😑....the other type is like my friend's and yours, very insecure, always need to know if everything's alright, and even worried if any little thing would get her and you mad etc and need calling and texting all the time, my friend's one even needed to know where she's and sometimes suddenly show up at her place at night and insisted to see her no matter what, but she broke things with him 2 weeks ago already, cause she realized he's sleeping with someone else and just too much work to keep this aqua satisfy....Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....
Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?
Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us
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Posted by AerialViewYou're just like my boyfriend how he is!!!!!!Posted by pinkbird03At what stage?Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
Early dating stage?
I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.
But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)
If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.
Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.
I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.
On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.
It's just ain't gonna happen.click to expand

Posted by Lioness18881I'm sorry about that honey... I'm sure he's doing his best, and he will somehow figure out how to balance his work time and for you soon, will then back together.Posted by SagGirl1124Posted by Lioness18881I think I found there are at least 2 extreme type of aquas, must be everyone different of course, but in general, there are 2 extreme type, cause me and my friend having Aquarians, mine is as always the “freedom” type, so confident of himself even always say himself is handsome 😑....the other type is like my friend's and yours, very insecure, always need to know if everything's alright, and even worried if any little thing would get her and you mad etc and need calling and texting all the time, my friend's one even needed to know where she's and sometimes suddenly show up at her place at night and insisted to see her no matter what, but she broke things with him 2 weeks ago already, cause she realized he's sleeping with someone else and just too much work to keep this aqua satisfy....Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....
Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?
Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us
I think most people like freedom. Feeling smothered or trapped is too much but there's a balance in between. We broke up last week because he works too much to be able to make time for a relationship and i wanted more effort than he could give me. But while we were together we gave eachother freedom because we trusted each other and had our own lives, but we didn't need space because neither of us was smothering the other. You need to find that balance or you'll keep feeling like you're on a rollercoaster of highs and lows.
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Posted by Lioness18881Mine seems a bit insecure in my relationship too. Would explain a lot, like why he wanted to share locations even though my life is very boring. You were smart to keep the routine. I can see where he got uncomfortable when i broke the routine. I think he’s waiting for me to text him. Perhaps I should reach out soon and then make a new routine. Although I don’t know what would be appropriate right now.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....
Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?
Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us
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Posted by AerialViewWe need more aquas like you in our lives 😁Posted by pinkbird03At what stage?Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
Early dating stage?
I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.
But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)
If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.
Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.
I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.
On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.
It's just ain't gonna happen.click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Posted by AerialViewWe need more aquas like you in our lives 😁Posted by pinkbird03At what stage?Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
Early dating stage?
I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.
But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)
If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.
Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.
I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.
On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.
It's just ain't gonna happen.click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03LOL... mine is similar i guess.... I wanna know morePosted by AerialViewWe need more aquas like you in our lives 😁Posted by pinkbird03At what stage?Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
Early dating stage?
I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.
But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)
If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.
Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.
I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.
On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.
It's just ain't gonna happen.click to expand


Posted by Lioness18881Yes, I agree with all of that. We would need to have lots of conversations about our relationship if he ever is interested in something serious like he was before. Im hoping the 30 days has helped him figure out his feelings for me. We will see. I’m not texting him yet. I don’t know when exactly.Posted by pinkbird03You shouldn't have to do all the work though. There has to be some kind of balance with him making a contribution to it as well otherwise it's one-sided. Relationships are about give and take. Inconsistency tells you there's a problem it might be related to your relationship or because of a personal issue that has nothing to do with you but if it's not something you can talk about and resolve together you need to think about if your relationship can sustain bigger problems or if you're delaying the inevitablePosted by Lioness18881Mine seems a bit insecure in my relationship too. Would explain a lot, like why he wanted to share locations even though my life is very boring. You were smart to keep the routine. I can see where he got uncomfortable when i broke the routine. I think he’s waiting for me to text him. Perhaps I should reach out soon and then make a new routine. Although I don’t know what would be appropriate right now.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....
Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?
Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us
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Posted by Lioness18881Yea, I’m not looking for a part time boyfriend that only has one foot in the door. Im not expecting anything from him by messaging. I only want to see if anything has changed with him during this real time apart. I just hope it’s enough time because of all the pictures I’m posting and him looking so quickly- feels like we are both indirectly showing we are still here, thinking about each other, and we care about each other. That’s not really time apart. But it’s one something I’ve lost control of this week and also the consistent part that i want with him. Just being in each other’s lives every day. It’s a good feeling and hard to let go of.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881Yes, I agree with all of that. We would need to have lots of conversations about our relationship if he ever is interested in something serious like he was before. Im hoping the 30 days has helped him figure out his feelings for me. We will see. I’m not texting him yet. I don’t know when exactly.Posted by pinkbird03You shouldn't have to do all the work though. There has to be some kind of balance with him making a contribution to it as well otherwise it's one-sided. Relationships are about give and take. Inconsistency tells you there's a problem it might be related to your relationship or because of a personal issue that has nothing to do with you but if it's not something you can talk about and resolve together you need to think about if your relationship can sustain bigger problems or if you're delaying the inevitablePosted by Lioness18881Mine seems a bit insecure in my relationship too. Would explain a lot, like why he wanted to share locations even though my life is very boring. You were smart to keep the routine. I can see where he got uncomfortable when i broke the routine. I think he’s waiting for me to text him. Perhaps I should reach out soon and then make a new routine. Although I don’t know what would be appropriate right now.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....
Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?
Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us
What you would have, and what he would be willing to have in terms of conversations and resolving issues are two different things. Again it has to be mutual and what he wants needs to align with what you want too. How he feels about you wont be the same as you feel about him. It's like that song, when a heart breaks, it don't break even. So will it split close to the centre or will he have a minimum invested?
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Posted by Lioness18881Thanks. I’ll try! I just think it’s worth it to take the risk.Posted by pinkbird03Ok. Just don't get hurt xxPosted by Lioness18881Yea, I’m not looking for a part time boyfriend that only has one foot in the door. Im not expecting anything from him by messaging. I only want to see if anything has changed with him during this real time apart. I just hope it’s enough time because of all the pictures I’m posting and him looking so quickly- feels like we are both indirectly showing we are still here, thinking about each other, and we care about each other. That’s not really time apart. But it’s one someone I’ve lost control of this week and also the consistent part that i want with him. Just being in each other’s lives every day. It’s a good feeling and hard to let go of.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881Yes, I agree with all of that. We would need to have lots of conversations about our relationship if he ever is interested in something serious like he was before. Im hoping the 30 days has helped him figure out his feelings for me. We will see. I’m not texting him yet. I don’t know when exactly.Posted by pinkbird03You shouldn't have to do all the work though. There has to be some kind of balance with him making a contribution to it as well otherwise it's one-sided. Relationships are about give and take. Inconsistency tells you there's a problem it might be related to your relationship or because of a personal issue that has nothing to do with you but if it's not something you can talk about and resolve together you need to think about if your relationship can sustain bigger problems or if you're delaying the inevitablePosted by Lioness18881Mine seems a bit insecure in my relationship too. Would explain a lot, like why he wanted to share locations even though my life is very boring. You were smart to keep the routine. I can see where he got uncomfortable when i broke the routine. I think he’s waiting for me to text him. Perhaps I should reach out soon and then make a new routine. Although I don’t know what would be appropriate right now.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Lioness18881We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by JadeAlexanderI think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.Posted by pinkbird03I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.Posted by JadeAlexanderI wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquasPosted by AerialViewI don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...Posted by pinkbird03Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.Posted by AerialViewThree months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?Posted by pinkbird03Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)Posted by AerialViewPosted by pinkbird03Yes and yes 😁Posted by AerialViewI’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋Posted by SagGirl1124You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.
@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )
Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol
I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.
@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol
Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.
If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.
Just enjoy the ride.
Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?
I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
I wish you luck 😁
Thank you 😊
During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).
If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.
@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....
Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?
Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us
What you would have, and what he would be willing to have in terms of conversations and resolving issues are two different things. Again it has to be mutual and what he wants needs to align with what you want too. How he feels about you wont be the same as you feel about him. It's like that song, when a heart breaks, it don't break even. So will it split close to the centre or will he have a minimum invested?
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Yes that would be clingy if you ask that.