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Hi Guys... Just curious....

We everything's going great

Finally saw him Monday

But...He's now no more initiating text everyday

Tho he's still responding every message instantly

If I want him send me message in the mornings

Do you guys think I can ask for it

Or will that be like too much and he would think I'm clingy ?
You're back lol

Yes that would be clingy if you ask that.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


Oh. Got it. What are you going to say?
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
If he’s busy he may not make contact with you a priority.

Or he may not be that into the relationship.

It’s hard to know... but you have to either be totally okay with it or move on.

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That's a Libra paranoia.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
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I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
If he’s busy he may not make contact with you a priority.

Or he may not be that into the relationship.

It’s hard to know... but you have to either be totally okay with it or move on.


That's a Libra paranoia.
How am I being paranoid?
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Not a priority, not be that into relationship, move on.

Relax a bit would you.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
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Yes and yes 😁
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁
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Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.

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Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
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Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
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Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.

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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.

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That’s you looking for “the one”
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...

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I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.

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I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.

How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....

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We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.


I only two stories, but here they go.

Aqua 1 decided his childhood friend was it. He took her on dates, but never told her they were dating. There were always mutual friends invited. He waited until he was certain then told her he was committed and in love. That was it... they had been friends for years and did a LDR for a few years. Once they moved into the same area they got married.

Aqua 2, met this woman who he felt a connection for. He hadn’t dated before but just went for it. Made his intentions clear from the beginning married her three years later.

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Aww those are happy stories
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.


I only two stories, but here they go.

Aqua 1 decided his childhood friend was it. He took her on dates, but never told her they were dating. There were always mutual friends invited. He waited until he was certain then told her he was committed and in love. That was it... they had been friends for years and did a LDR for a few years. Once they moved into the same area they got married.

Aqua 2, met this woman who he felt a connection for. He hadn’t dated before but just went for it. Made his intentions clear from the beginning married her three years later.


Aww those are happy stories
It’s just an idea of how direct they can be. One went the friend route but gave her full attention. The other wanted to date and make his intentions clear. There was no guessing.
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My aqua asked me to be his gf early into dating. He did apologize many times for being insanely busy and he even once said he still wanted me in his life when things slow down.

I told him I’d be patient with him, but he never made any time for me and part of me thinks the busyness is an excuse. So if he wants to be with me, he needs to find a way to compromise and at least try to work with me. That’s where I’m at right now.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.


I only two stories, but here they go.

Aqua 1 decided his childhood friend was it. He took her on dates, but never told her they were dating. There were always mutual friends invited. He waited until he was certain then told her he was committed and in love. That was it... they had been friends for years and did a LDR for a few years. Once they moved into the same area they got married.

Aqua 2, met this woman who he felt a connection for. He hadn’t dated before but just went for it. Made his intentions clear from the beginning married her three years later.


Aww those are happy stories
It’s just an idea of how direct they can be. One went the friend route but gave her full attention. The other wanted to date and make his intentions clear. There was no guessing.
My aqua asked me to be his gf early into dating. He did apologize many times for being insanely busy and he even once said he still wanted me in his life when things slow down.

I told him I’d be patient with him, but he never made any time for me and part of me thinks the busyness is an excuse. So if he wants to be with me, he needs to find a way to compromise and at least try to work with me. That’s where I’m at right now.
I can see both sides... i don’t know what to say... i was kinda told a similar thing but obviously my situation is messed up. He needed time and space to focus on some things but I wasn’t going anywhere.

This guy still digs you...i don’t know, just contact him

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Yeah, I might. Maybe after 30 days. We will see. You’ve been more consistent than me at least.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.


I only two stories, but here they go.

Aqua 1 decided his childhood friend was it. He took her on dates, but never told her they were dating. There were always mutual friends invited. He waited until he was certain then told her he was committed and in love. That was it... they had been friends for years and did a LDR for a few years. Once they moved into the same area they got married.

Aqua 2, met this woman who he felt a connection for. He hadn’t dated before but just went for it. Made his intentions clear from the beginning married her three years later.


Aww those are happy stories
It’s just an idea of how direct they can be. One went the friend route but gave her full attention. The other wanted to date and make his intentions clear. There was no guessing.
My aqua asked me to be his gf early into dating. He did apologize many times for being insanely busy and he even once said he still wanted me in his life when things slow down.

I told him I’d be patient with him, but he never made any time for me and part of me thinks the busyness is an excuse. So if he wants to be with me, he needs to find a way to compromise and at least try to work with me. That’s where I’m at right now.
I can see both sides... i don’t know what to say... i was kinda told a similar thing but obviously my situation is messed up. He needed time and space to focus on some things but I wasn’t going anywhere.

This guy still digs you...i don’t know, just contact him


Yeah, I might. Maybe after 30 days. We will see. You’ve been more consistent than me at least.


What do you mean by more consistent?
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Staying by him and not leaving.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.


I only two stories, but here they go.

Aqua 1 decided his childhood friend was it. He took her on dates, but never told her they were dating. There were always mutual friends invited. He waited until he was certain then told her he was committed and in love. That was it... they had been friends for years and did a LDR for a few years. Once they moved into the same area they got married.

Aqua 2, met this woman who he felt a connection for. He hadn’t dated before but just went for it. Made his intentions clear from the beginning married her three years later.


Aww those are happy stories
It’s just an idea of how direct they can be. One went the friend route but gave her full attention. The other wanted to date and make his intentions clear. There was no guessing.
My aqua asked me to be his gf early into dating. He did apologize many times for being insanely busy and he even once said he still wanted me in his life when things slow down.

I told him I’d be patient with him, but he never made any time for me and part of me thinks the busyness is an excuse. So if he wants to be with me, he needs to find a way to compromise and at least try to work with me. That’s where I’m at right now.
I can see both sides... i don’t know what to say... i was kinda told a similar thing but obviously my situation is messed up. He needed time and space to focus on some things but I wasn’t going anywhere.

This guy still digs you...i don’t know, just contact him


Yeah, I might. Maybe after 30 days. We will see. You’ve been more consistent than me at least.


What do you mean by more consistent?
Staying by him and not leaving.


We had been friends for years and were months into whatever this is... taking steps back was okay. He needed to clear his head and sort things out with a few things that came up on his life
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I think I read once that aquas like to be friends first but not sure
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.

How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....


We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.

Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?

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I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.
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Wow...so happy seeing so many updates here just after some hours, always good asking questions here or talk here, feel like you guys been all here supporting each other x

Just a bit not able to follow everything tho...hehee

@Lioness18881 - no worries, we're super great, just i want him initiating the message every morning as he used to... lol, these days mostly I started the message of the day

@AerialView - and yes, i don't really think it's a priority thing for Aqua... it's about if he's feeling to do it “at the one moment”...now, he's probably pretty much enjoying the most of his self time while having to see me once or twice in a week plus 2,3 days for the son....

@pinkbird03 - my Aqua is the kind that he will tell you straight in your face that he doesn't like you in some hilarious way

@JadeAlexander - yes, my aqua actually also been making his intentions clear and no guessing, just myself, as @AerialView said, I'm paying too much attention to every details that driving myself nuts : D

@Capmercury87 - lucky that I have yet done anything clingy, just was wondering and ask here, talk to you guys and so I could stop having stupid thoughts lol
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
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At what stage?

Early dating stage?

I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.

But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)

If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.

Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.

I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.

On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.

It's just ain't gonna happen.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
At what stage?

Early dating stage?

I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.

But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)

If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.

Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.

I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.

On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.

It's just ain't gonna happen.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.

How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....


We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.

Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?


I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.

Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us

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I think I found there are at least 2 extreme type of aquas, must be everyone different of course, but in general, there are 2 extreme type, cause me and my friend having Aquarians, mine is as always the “freedom” type, so confident of himself even always say himself is handsome 😑....the other type is like my friend's and yours, very insecure, always need to know if everything's alright, and even worried if any little thing would get her and you mad etc and need calling and texting all the time, my friend's one even needed to know where she's and sometimes suddenly show up at her place at night and insisted to see her no matter what, but she broke things with him 2 weeks ago already, cause she realized he's sleeping with someone else and just too much work to keep this aqua satisfy....
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
At what stage?

Early dating stage?

I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.

But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)

If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.

Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.

I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.

On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.

It's just ain't gonna happen.
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You're just like my boyfriend how he is!!!!!!

So maybe he's now at the stage that getting to know each other phase, and to find if some personalities he doesn't like.....shit!!! It's like a high school exam LOL... any tips?? Like maybe how do I sense if which thing he doesn't like so I can remind myself? But of course I won't change for anyone except that's really something not good that I shouldn't do anymore, like now my mind and being “Clingy”, LOL

He's exactly this type, and some girls think he's such and ass - - - you said “““On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria..It's just ain't gonna happen.”””
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.

How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....


We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.

Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?


I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.

Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us


I think I found there are at least 2 extreme type of aquas, must be everyone different of course, but in general, there are 2 extreme type, cause me and my friend having Aquarians, mine is as always the “freedom” type, so confident of himself even always say himself is handsome 😑....the other type is like my friend's and yours, very insecure, always need to know if everything's alright, and even worried if any little thing would get her and you mad etc and need calling and texting all the time, my friend's one even needed to know where she's and sometimes suddenly show up at her place at night and insisted to see her no matter what, but she broke things with him 2 weeks ago already, cause she realized he's sleeping with someone else and just too much work to keep this aqua satisfy....

I think most people like freedom. Feeling smothered or trapped is too much but there's a balance in between. We broke up last week because he works too much to be able to make time for a relationship and i wanted more effort than he could give me. But while we were together we gave eachother freedom because we trusted each other and had our own lives, but we didn't need space because neither of us was smothering the other. You need to find that balance or you'll keep feeling like you're on a rollercoaster of highs and lows.

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I'm sorry about that honey... I'm sure he's doing his best, and he will somehow figure out how to balance his work time and for you soon, will then back together.

I mean yes, things still going great with him, and having some new progress and I'm so excited about, i don't want to tell what's it now until it's done... cause i feel like every time when things happening but then I told people cause I'm too excited and happy, then usually something happened and blew off...fingers crossed hehee

So now, i think he's really the stage like @AerialView says, he's now at the getting to know each other phase... i just needa be as cool as I wss at the beginning, and don't let my bad clingy thing ruin things..... 😛

Just you know, girls...sometimes really enjoy having that morning text to brighten up the day 😛
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.

How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....


We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.

Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?


I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.

Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us

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Mine seems a bit insecure in my relationship too. Would explain a lot, like why he wanted to share locations even though my life is very boring. You were smart to keep the routine. I can see where he got uncomfortable when i broke the routine. I think he’s waiting for me to text him. Perhaps I should reach out soon and then make a new routine. Although I don’t know what would be appropriate right now.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
At what stage?

Early dating stage?

I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.

But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)

If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.

Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.

I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.

On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.

It's just ain't gonna happen.
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We need more aquas like you in our lives 😁
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
At what stage?

Early dating stage?

I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.

But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)

If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.

Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.

I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.

On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.

It's just ain't gonna happen.
We need more aquas like you in our lives 😁
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@AerialView it’s not the typical aqua 😄
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
At what stage?

Early dating stage?

I'm a very physical. First I always look at the physical part. A bit shallow I know.

But I believe in love at first sight (not lust)

If I like the look and "feel" something, I'll definitely go for it.

Then getting to know each other phase, find some personalities I don't like, I would still give them a chance hoping they'll change for better. If they don't change to the way I wanted it, eventually I'll give up and tell em that it ain't gonna work.

I'm not string them along though cause I always communicate no matter what.

On the other hand if they're not my type physically, I'll straight tell em I'm not interested even though their personality matched my criteria.

It's just ain't gonna happen.
We need more aquas like you in our lives 😁
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LOL... mine is similar i guess.... I wanna know more
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.

How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....


We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.

Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?


I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.

Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us


Mine seems a bit insecure in my relationship too. Would explain a lot, like why he wanted to share locations even though my life is very boring. You were smart to keep the routine. I can see where he got uncomfortable when i broke the routine. I think he’s waiting for me to text him. Perhaps I should reach out soon and then make a new routine. Although I don’t know what would be appropriate right now.
You shouldn't have to do all the work though. There has to be some kind of balance with him making a contribution to it as well otherwise it's one-sided. Relationships are about give and take. Inconsistency tells you there's a problem it might be related to your relationship or because of a personal issue that has nothing to do with you but if it's not something you can talk about and resolve together you need to think about if your relationship can sustain bigger problems or if you're delaying the inevitable
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Yes, I agree with all of that. We would need to have lots of conversations about our relationship if he ever is interested in something serious like he was before. Im hoping the 30 days has helped him figure out his feelings for me. We will see. I’m not texting him yet. I don’t know when exactly.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.

How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....


We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.

Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?


I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.

Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us


Mine seems a bit insecure in my relationship too. Would explain a lot, like why he wanted to share locations even though my life is very boring. You were smart to keep the routine. I can see where he got uncomfortable when i broke the routine. I think he’s waiting for me to text him. Perhaps I should reach out soon and then make a new routine. Although I don’t know what would be appropriate right now.
You shouldn't have to do all the work though. There has to be some kind of balance with him making a contribution to it as well otherwise it's one-sided. Relationships are about give and take. Inconsistency tells you there's a problem it might be related to your relationship or because of a personal issue that has nothing to do with you but if it's not something you can talk about and resolve together you need to think about if your relationship can sustain bigger problems or if you're delaying the inevitable
Yes, I agree with all of that. We would need to have lots of conversations about our relationship if he ever is interested in something serious like he was before. Im hoping the 30 days has helped him figure out his feelings for me. We will see. I’m not texting him yet. I don’t know when exactly.

What you would have, and what he would be willing to have in terms of conversations and resolving issues are two different things. Again it has to be mutual and what he wants needs to align with what you want too. How he feels about you wont be the same as you feel about him. It's like that song, when a heart breaks, it don't break even. So will it split close to the centre or will he have a minimum invested?

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Yea, I’m not looking for a part time boyfriend that only has one foot in the door. Im not expecting anything from him by messaging. I only want to see if anything has changed with him during this real time apart. I just hope it’s enough time because of all the pictures I’m posting and him looking so quickly- feels like we are both indirectly showing we are still here, thinking about each other, and we care about each other. That’s not really time apart. But it’s one something I’ve lost control of this week and also the consistent part that i want with him. Just being in each other’s lives every day. It’s a good feeling and hard to let go of.
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@AerialView - I never left... checking here everyday ; )

Yes, you're right... that's why needing your triple confirm lol

I wonder how can I make him crazy for me like the beginning.

@STILL - Yes. I for sure want him to text me on his own thought... so yea, that's why i miss it, he used to do that every morning and saying miss me lol


You always said that, always want him just like him in the beginning.

Being with Aquarius is unpredictable, a rollercoaster.

If you're patient enough, he'll be back just like he used to be, or even better than you can ever imagine! You'll never know.

Just enjoy the ride.
I’ve been enjoying the ride. Believe it or not 😋

Do you think aquas go through an internal process when it comes to loving someone and deciding if that person is who they really want? And then that’s when they they become better than we imagine?
Yes and yes 😁

Do you need a good amount of space to really understand where your feelings are at?

I’ve noticed he’s been opening all my stories within 5 minutes or less now... which is crazy because there’s no notifications for it. He’s on top of it 😁😉 i have a feeling he’s going to reach out soon.


Sometimes I'm sure with my feelings right away, sometimes I don't and need some time (usually it took no longer than three months)

I wish you luck 😁
Three months?? Explain please. Were you dating consistently when it took you three months? Were you distant at all?

Thank you 😊
Yes I can still date with having "unsure" feelings but I didn't distance myself tho.

During those time sometimes I see changes in my partner's behaviours or acts towards me (could be better or worse).

If the changes are better and just the way I wanted it, then I become sure of her and take our date to the next level.


I don’t know if this aqua specif or a mature man speaking, but an accurate description of how you should be dated...


I wouldn’t think aqua specific as most of the ones on here do not do this. Or are we all just being naive because they aren’t taking it to the next level?? Probably number 2 😂 whatever aquas

@aerialview do you usually straight out tell them you’re not interested and have you ever strung a girl on for an unnecessarily long time?
I’d say an emotionally stable aqua who is looking for a committed relationship will behave in this manner.


I think it’s a commitment issue for mey case. My aqua is in love with money. I’m emotional today 🙄 and I keep posting lots of stories. He keeps looking right away at all of them. I wish he’d just text me. I’m struggling today with my love for his attention. Actually id say this whole week has been a challenge. I usually only post on the weekends but now we’re both over doing it and like c’mon, we both know what we’re doing. I don’t know why there is such an attraction like this. I’ve never felt this way before.

How did the no contact start this time? Did he ignore a message or just not initiate anything so you backed off? Or did you never initiate anything? I don't understand how you got to this....


We were texting and talking occasionally, but he never initiated texts and it felt like our relationship was standing still. So I figured I’d walk away and if he wants me, he’d reach out. If not, I at least move on. So that’s why i deleted his contact info and removed him from Snapchat. He didn’t delete me though. I keep my stories public for a few reasons- 1.. I like his attention 2. I wanted to show him he lost a beautiful girl 3. I wanted to show him I’m fine without him. I wasn’t posting a lot until this week. Maybe because im on Day 26 of no contact. So it’s harder, but Because he’s opening all my stories within 30 minutes. Some less than 5 minutes- I got attached. Plus hard week due to “my monthly” that i get every 4 months soooo I think that’s affecting my emotional side of missing him. I know I could reach out and he’d answer, but I want him to do that.

Did he initiate contact last time you tried this or did you?


I’ve never really gone more than a week. I’ve mostly initiated. Even in the beginning, he’d literally tell me to text him in the morning almost every day until it was “routine” looking back on all of it is rather eye opening.

Mine was very routine too. I think they stick to patterns or some weird shit. I would text good morning everyday and he would reply then call at night. If i didn't do the good morning he would eventually message me in the afternoon but didn't ring that night and think i was mad at him about something. So i just kept the routine. I think they're a bit insecure and over think things like the rest of us


Mine seems a bit insecure in my relationship too. Would explain a lot, like why he wanted to share locations even though my life is very boring. You were smart to keep the routine. I can see where he got uncomfortable when i broke the routine. I think he’s waiting for me to text him. Perhaps I should reach out soon and then make a new routine. Although I don’t know what would be appropriate right now.
You shouldn't have to do all the work though. There has to be some kind of balance with him making a contribution to it as well otherwise it's one-sided. Relationships are about give and take. Inconsistency tells you there's a problem it might be related to your relationship or because of a personal issue that has nothing to do with you but if it's not something you can talk about and resolve together you need to think about if your relationship can sustain bigger problems or if you're delaying the inevitable
Yes, I agree with all of that. We would need to have lots of conversations about our relationship if he ever is interested in something serious like he was before. Im hoping the 30 days has helped him figure out his feelings for me. We will see. I’m not texting him yet. I don’t know when exactly.

What you would have, and what he would be willing to have in terms of conversations and resolving issues are two different things. Again it has to be mutual and what he wants needs to align with what you want too. How he feels about you wont be the same as you feel about him. It's like that song, when a heart breaks, it don't break even. So will it split close to the centre or will he have a minimum invested?


Yea, I’m not looking for a part time boyfriend that only has one foot in the door. Im not expecting anything from him by messaging. I only want to see if anything has changed with him during this real time apart. I just hope it’s enough time because of all the pictures I’m posting and him looking so quickly- feels like we are both indirectly showing we are still here, thinking about each other, and we care about each other. That’s not really time apart. But it’s one someone I’ve lost control of this week and also the consistent part that i want with him. Just being in each other’s lives every day. It’s a good feeling and hard to let go of.
Ok. Just don't get hurt xx
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Thanks. I’ll try! I just think it’s worth it to take the risk.