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I’d be willing to bet money if this was a Scorpio, her revenge would have made her cool and attractive and totally femme fatal. “Well lol, that’s right he deserved it, never mess with a Scorpio!”

But because she’s a Gemini, nah, she’s just a whore.

So pathetic
lol

The key word to hoe = "Gemini".

It's really pathetic. What's funny, when Geminis expressed their feelings, oh you are so clingy, needy, no wonder he left, but the moment something like this happened, people will say, "smh Geminis".

Funny!!!!!

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I believe this was intended for me hmmm
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I’d be willing to bet money if this was a Scorpio, her revenge would have made her cool and attractive and totally femme fatal. “Well lol, that’s right he deserved it, never mess with a Scorpio!”

But because she’s a Gemini, nah, she’s just a whore.

So pathetic
lol

The key word to hoe = "Gemini".

It's really pathetic. What's funny, when Geminis expressed their feelings, oh you are so clingy, needy, no wonder he left, but the moment something like this happened, people will say, "smh Geminis".

Funny!!!!!


I believe this was intended for me hmmm
Oy vey, no! OMG!

I was speaking in general. I love you dude, why would I try to poke you with something like that.

Stop it. Is your mercury in 8th house or something? 😆
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Geminis might be good at spotting lies but aquas are good at spotting truth lol

Only me who wrote Geminis smh hmmm
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I’d be willing to bet money if this was a Scorpio, her revenge would have made her cool and attractive and totally femme fatal. “Well lol, that’s right he deserved it, never mess with a Scorpio!”

But because she’s a Gemini, nah, she’s just a whore.

So pathetic
lol

The key word to hoe = "Gemini".

It's really pathetic. What's funny, when Geminis expressed their feelings, oh you are so clingy, needy, no wonder he left, but the moment something like this happened, people will say, "smh Geminis".

Funny!!!!!


I believe this was intended for me hmmm
I bet you it was for the other lady who said something "nasty" about gems. And said "they dont see the problem here... sad" you know that. Lol

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I know, I know lol
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I’d be willing to bet money if this was a Scorpio, her revenge would have made her cool and attractive and totally femme fatal. “Well lol, that’s right he deserved it, never mess with a Scorpio!”

But because she’s a Gemini, nah, she’s just a whore.

So pathetic
lol

The key word to hoe = "Gemini".

It's really pathetic. What's funny, when Geminis expressed their feelings, oh you are so clingy, needy, no wonder he left, but the moment something like this happened, people will say, "smh Geminis".

Funny!!!!!


I believe this was intended for me hmmm
Oy vey, no! OMG!

I was speaking in general. I love you dude, why would I try to poke you with something like that.

Stop it. Is your mercury in 8th house or something? 😆
Geminis might be good at spotting lies but aquas are good at spotting truth lol

Only me who wrote Geminis smh hmmm
Nah, I've heard lots of this Geminis smh before. It wasn't just by you.

Lots of times, especially on dxp. It's like when something like this happened, that's the first 2 words I will get to see.

Stop thinking like that man. 😠😠

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OK 😉
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I’d be willing to bet money if this was a Scorpio, her revenge would have made her cool and attractive and totally femme fatal. “Well lol, that’s right he deserved it, never mess with a Scorpio!”

But because she’s a Gemini, nah, she’s just a whore.

So pathetic
lol

The key word to hoe = "Gemini".

It's really pathetic. What's funny, when Geminis expressed their feelings, oh you are so clingy, needy, no wonder he left, but the moment something like this happened, people will say, "smh Geminis".

Funny!!!!!


I believe this was intended for me hmmm
I bet you it was for the other lady who said something "nasty" about gems. And said "they dont see the problem here... sad" you know that. Lol


I know, I know lol
We love you @Aerialview hahaha

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Yeaaaa lets all give a free pass to the guy who was sleeping with and posting photos of a new girl on social media the following 24 hours after the breakup, because well, he’s not a Gemini of course. That was quite alright of him to do.

He made his move by being petty and purposefully hurtful, and she made her move accordingly.

It’s called revenge. Or is that only allowed to be a Scorpio thing?

Doubt it.

And now the aqua needs to be coddled because she beat him at his own game. How horrendous!

Fuckin idiots 🙄 Get real and please have he introspection and self awareness to recognize the hypocrisy going on here on this site.
Agree. If a gem is talking to 20 men, shes a whore. If its another sign, its alright. Lol one sided. They broke up. They both gotta do what they gotta do. And him coming back is his decision tho. But doesnt mean shes wrong coz she slept with someone else. Technically she was single. No cheating involved.
As a fellow crazy gemini myself, I can personally attest that a scorned gemini can seriously fuck your entire world up. Fire and brimstone and ash, bish.

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Wow i can imagine Donald Trump saying that.
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Yeaaaa lets all give a free pass to the guy who was sleeping with and posting photos of a new girl on social media the following 24 hours after the breakup, because well, he’s not a Gemini of course. That was quite alright of him to do.

He made his move by being petty and purposefully hurtful, and she made her move accordingly.

It’s called revenge. Or is that only allowed to be a Scorpio thing?

Doubt it.

And now the aqua needs to be coddled because she beat him at his own game. How horrendous!

Fuckin idiots 🙄 Get real and please have he introspection and self awareness to recognize the hypocrisy going on here on this site.
Agree. If a gem is talking to 20 men, shes a whore. If its another sign, its alright. Lol one sided. They broke up. They both gotta do what they gotta do. And him coming back is his decision tho. But doesnt mean shes wrong coz she slept with someone else. Technically she was single. No cheating involved.
As a fellow crazy gemini myself, I can personally attest that a scorned gemini can seriously fuck your entire world up. Fire and brimstone and ash, bish.


Wow i can imagine Donald Trump saying that.
Yep that’s me, in the flesh, made from his rib.

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Lol you have cooled down.
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@OP I was in an almost similar situation few months back. Me and my aqua ex had broken up for about 4 months and I met this aqua guy (my ex was a Feb 3rd and other guy was a Feb 1st aqua). Anyway, I slept with the new aqua thinking me and my ex are done. He was my shoulder to cry on. Literally my friends with benefits to help me move on from my ex. He knew what I was going through and he always comforted me as a friend. Then after I came back from oz, my ex wanted to get back with me but i was already comfortable with my new set up with the new aqua guy. My ex found out, he was heartbroken and I thought it was really over. Btw he also dated other women at the time we were broken up. Anyway, he still wanted me. Hes not a doormat but he kept saying he loves me that much and it wasnt weong because technically we broke up. It wasnt cheating. Fast forward to now, he and I are just friends but I am helping him cope through his life situation. He still says he loves me. From my part though, I made a decision to drop him and the new aqua man. Here's why:

- out of respect for my ex, i dont want to play with his feelings because i love him but i dont love him enough to stay with him.

- to make matters less confusing and painful for my ex, i dont want to be with the guy that caused his pain. My fwb still contacts me to this date after i ended our arrangement. Hes in a different country and actually i blocked him and he found a way to contact me via text and email. He still says we had a huge potential together. But i kept rejecting his advances.

I found myself a new aqua man who isnt tied to both and my past situation. Just to start fresh. Its way better. Less messy. Less pain caused. If you are anything like me who attracts aqua men like butterflies (or flies-- whatever you prefer) then you surely will meet a new man with both of their qualities combined but not tied to either. Your situation must be even more difficult as they are friends living in the same country as you. Mine was easier coz they arent friends and not living in the same country. But nevertheless, it is best for you to consider detaching yourself from both. Dont hurt them and dont ruin their friendship coz you might regret it. Also jumping from one relationship to another is never a good thing. Yes, its ok to talk to men. Make it 20 if you want. But being in a relationship too soon after the last one doesnt heal the pain you are going through inside. Take some time off, focus on yourself. Focus on what you want in life.
Best advice everrrrr!! I love how you make it sound so easy too! lol I intend to take your advice tho I don't know if I can immediately cut either one if them off. I feel like I'm being pulled in both directions tho smh
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OP, your boyfriend deserved it. What he did to purposefully hurt you was petty and vindictive. You were better at playing his foul games than he was. He took it there, he started it, and you finished it, period. He doesn’t get to act like he victim now, because he ain’t innocent.

It’s okay. I’m the same way sometimes. It’s not “tit for tat”. It’s “tit for.... tit for tit for tat for tot for tut.” Then we’re even 😂😂😂
That's exactly how I felt at the time I first started seeing his friend. I was definitely looking for revenge and to heal my shattered ego. The way he broke up with me and flaunted that girl in front of the world for me to see was foul and hurt me tremendously. He kinda turned me into a savage after that. Well actually, the nine tailed beast lies dormant till provoked and awakened 😉
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@OP I was in an almost similar situation few months back. Me and my aqua ex had broken up for about 4 months and I met this aqua guy (my ex was a Feb 3rd and other guy was a Feb 1st aqua). Anyway, I slept with the new aqua thinking me and my ex are done. He was my shoulder to cry on. Literally my friends with benefits to help me move on from my ex. He knew what I was going through and he always comforted me as a friend. Then after I came back from oz, my ex wanted to get back with me but i was already comfortable with my new set up with the new aqua guy. My ex found out, he was heartbroken and I thought it was really over. Btw he also dated other women at the time we were broken up. Anyway, he still wanted me. Hes not a doormat but he kept saying he loves me that much and it wasnt weong because technically we broke up. It wasnt cheating. Fast forward to now, he and I are just friends but I am helping him cope through his life situation. He still says he loves me. From my part though, I made a decision to drop him and the new aqua man. Here's why:

- out of respect for my ex, i dont want to play with his feelings because i love him but i dont love him enough to stay with him.

- to make matters less confusing and painful for my ex, i dont want to be with the guy that caused his pain. My fwb still contacts me to this date after i ended our arrangement. Hes in a different country and actually i blocked him and he found a way to contact me via text and email. He still says we had a huge potential together. But i kept rejecting his advances.

I found myself a new aqua man who isnt tied to both and my past situation. Just to start fresh. Its way better. Less messy. Less pain caused. If you are anything like me who attracts aqua men like butterflies (or flies-- whatever you prefer) then you surely will meet a new man with both of their qualities combined but not tied to either. Your situation must be even more difficult as they are friends living in the same country as you. Mine was easier coz they arent friends and not living in the same country. But nevertheless, it is best for you to consider detaching yourself from both. Dont hurt them and dont ruin their friendship coz you might regret it. Also jumping from one relationship to another is never a good thing. Yes, its ok to talk to men. Make it 20 if you want. But being in a relationship too soon after the last one doesnt heal the pain you are going through inside. Take some time off, focus on yourself. Focus on what you want in life.
Best advice everrrrr!! I love how you make it sound so easy too! lol I intend to take your advice tho I don't know if I can immediately cut either one if them off. I feel like I'm being pulled in both directions tho smh
Hahaha! Trust me it wasnt easy. Both men are hotAF. But I found someone even hotter with 6pack abs. So... life is good. Hahaha 🤣

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God I love your comments!! Your personality is so similar to mine mine lol I have no doubts that I will find another that I will absolutely adore when I set my mind to moving on 😊
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My moon is Libra
Hahaha interesting!!! I'm a leo moon lol both our sun and moon attract aquas hahaha
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That must be what it is!! I'm surrounded by Aquarius people. My best friend since 2nd grade is Aquarius. I have another Aqua gf, these 2 guys and plus another Aquarius man that has been my friend for awhile. We just get each other. I feel like they're so weird and interesting!
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I find it ironic. A Gemini has two Aquas, one for each twin... while half the population on DXP sits and wonders why they can’t get one.
Lol 😂

Gemini + Aqua are one of the best pairings, let’s be honest 😄

Doesn’t even have to be romantic.... can be coworkers, friends, family, etc, the relationships just work.

I can’t remember if I told you specifically this before, but I work with 4 Aquas lol. It’s 4 Aquas and the lonely gem. Total harmony. Jokes galore. No ones lazy. Works always done and everyone does their part. Great communication. But now they hired a Lib and the Aquas don’t like him 😆 He is annoying. He is lazy af and doesn’t listen to shit.

How can astrology not be real tho.... 4 Aquarians, a gem, and a Lib?!

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lol yeah gemini energy platonic wise is very nice.

i love the mutability, maybe because i'm highly mutable myself. you dont cramp my style or try to order me around.
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Would be a Gemini 😂 Dump him please, tell him no. You have feelings for the other guy so he can move on


This thing gives Geminis a bad name. I've been faithful to my husband since I first met him 17 years ago.
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My sisters a Gemini, and my closest other family members. I hear shit on Aquarians all the time and I'm not like what they say so I don't care. Good for you. No ones gonna see my post and think all Gems are bad unless they are a dumbass.
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don't be selfish..let him go
Why can't HE just go? On his own? What's the fk?

Don't be selfish? My ass...

How about him 'don't be a sucker?' and just go! She must have this Gem effect on people!
Idc about her astrological sign. She is in the wrong
Why is she in the wrong?
well she cheated. while in the relationship when she and her aqua got back together, she still slept with his friend? seems pretty obvious

Idk how you people glamorize this stuff, it just seems wrong
Not glamorizing or anything. Just saying its not just her fault. They all are at fault. If aqua ex didnt flaunt another woman on social media, gemini girl wouldnt feel bad and look for a shoulder to cry on. If aqua friend didnt accomodate gemini girl, they wouldnt end up in the situation they are in. If aqua ex did not change his mind and wanted to get back, then gemini and aqua friend wont be considered cheating coz they already developed somewhat a relationship. If gemini girl did not take back aqua man, then again, she wont be considered cheating. If aqua friend decided to end it the moment she got back with her aqua ex, then again, there wouldnt be any cheating going on.

So point is, its not just her fault. Shes the female in the situation but is entitled to fair judgment and the aqua men cannot go scathe free as victims of the gemini girl. They wanted to be in the situation they are in otherwise, it wont happen.
I understand that, they are all in the wrong. it's a messed up situation, but I just going by what op told us. the friend is not a bad friend, bf is a loser and an idiot. there's many instances where we could say why the cheating happened in the first place but she is also wrong and she did cheat. Its a good thing that atleast she feels badly about it 🙂 I'm not targeting her even if it sounds like I am. sometimes we need to hear it

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I never cheated on him! I just treated him like he decided to treat me but I just so happen to put my own twist on it. He hurt me badly and everything I did after was a result of that.
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don't be selfish..let him go
Why can't HE just go? On his own? What's the fk?

Don't be selfish? My ass...

How about him 'don't be a sucker?' and just go! She must have this Gem effect on people!
Idc about her astrological sign. She is in the wrong
Why is she in the wrong?
well she cheated. while in the relationship when she and her aqua got back together, she still slept with his friend? seems pretty obvious

Idk how you people glamorize this stuff, it just seems wrong
Not glamorizing or anything. Just saying its not just her fault. They all are at fault. If aqua ex didnt flaunt another woman on social media, gemini girl wouldnt feel bad and look for a shoulder to cry on. If aqua friend didnt accomodate gemini girl, they wouldnt end up in the situation they are in. If aqua ex did not change his mind and wanted to get back, then gemini and aqua friend wont be considered cheating coz they already developed somewhat a relationship. If gemini girl did not take back aqua man, then again, she wont be considered cheating. If aqua friend decided to end it the moment she got back with her aqua ex, then again, there wouldnt be any cheating going on.

So point is, its not just her fault. Shes the female in the situation but is entitled to fair judgment and the aqua men cannot go scathe free as victims of the gemini girl. They wanted to be in the situation they are in otherwise, it wont happen.
I understand that, they are all in the wrong. it's a messed up situation, but I just going by what op told us. the friend is not a bad friend, bf is a loser and an idiot. there's many instances where we could say why the cheating happened in the first place but she is also wrong and she did cheat. Its a good thing that atleast she feels badly about it 🙂 I'm not targeting her even if it sounds like I am. sometimes we need to hear it


I never cheated on him! I just treated him like he decided to treat me but I just so happen to put my own twist on it. He hurt me badly and everything I did after was a result of that.
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Didn't you said you had movies and shared messages with the guy after you were back? That counts as cheating at least in my book.

Look I'm not judging you. Usually there are no innocents when this things happen. And they can happen to almost everyone. But to cheat with the best friend of your boyfriend is a pretty big thing. The biggest cheating anyone can do tbh. Not trying to defend him, but have you put yourself in his position? He was in the wrong but you seem to went ahead of him. You both hurt each a lot. Don't play the the innocent "I was just want to fun" role. That's all very good when there are no strings attached. But you said that you cared for him. It doesn't look like it also because you did it continuously and not just out of a momentary impulse.
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don't be selfish..let him go
Why can't HE just go? On his own? What's the fk?

Don't be selfish? My ass...

How about him 'don't be a sucker?' and just go! She must have this Gem effect on people!
Idc about her astrological sign. She is in the wrong
Why is she in the wrong?
well she cheated. while in the relationship when she and her aqua got back together, she still slept with his friend? seems pretty obvious

Idk how you people glamorize this stuff, it just seems wrong
Not glamorizing or anything. Just saying its not just her fault. They all are at fault. If aqua ex didnt flaunt another woman on social media, gemini girl wouldnt feel bad and look for a shoulder to cry on. If aqua friend didnt accomodate gemini girl, they wouldnt end up in the situation they are in. If aqua ex did not change his mind and wanted to get back, then gemini and aqua friend wont be considered cheating coz they already developed somewhat a relationship. If gemini girl did not take back aqua man, then again, she wont be considered cheating. If aqua friend decided to end it the moment she got back with her aqua ex, then again, there wouldnt be any cheating going on.

So point is, its not just her fault. Shes the female in the situation but is entitled to fair judgment and the aqua men cannot go scathe free as victims of the gemini girl. They wanted to be in the situation they are in otherwise, it wont happen.
I understand that, they are all in the wrong. it's a messed up situation, but I just going by what op told us. the friend is not a bad friend, bf is a loser and an idiot. there's many instances where we could say why the cheating happened in the first place but she is also wrong and she did cheat. Its a good thing that atleast she feels badly about it 🙂 I'm not targeting her even if it sounds like I am. sometimes we need to hear it


I never cheated on him! I just treated him like he decided to treat me but I just so happen to put my own twist on it. He hurt me badly and everything I did after was a result of that.
Didn't you said you had movies and shared messages with the guy after you were back? That counts as cheating at least in my book.

Look I'm not judging you. Usually there are no innocents when this things happen. And at same point they can happen to almost everyone. But to cheat with the best friend of your boyfriend is a pretty big thing. The biggest cheating anyone can do tbh. Not to trying to defend him, but have you put yourself in his position? He was in the wrong but you seem to went ahead of him. You both hurt each a lot. Don't play the the innocent "I was just want to fun" role. That's all very good when there are no strings attached. But you yourself said that you cared for him. It doesn't look like it, also because you did continuously.
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if they got back together and they were still sharing stuff, it is emotional cheating.

unless you cut them off, then i see it as all in or all out.
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I find it ironic. A Gemini has two Aquas, one for each twin... while half the population on DXP sits and wonders why they can’t get one.
Lol 😂

Gemini + Aqua are one of the best pairings, let’s be honest 😄

Doesn’t even have to be romantic.... can be coworkers, friends, family, etc, the relationships just work.

I can’t remember if I told you specifically this before, but I work with 4 Aquas lol. It’s 4 Aquas and the lonely gem. Total harmony. Jokes galore. No ones lazy. Works always done and everyone does their part. Great communication. But now they hired a Lib and the Aquas don’t like him 😆 He is annoying. He is lazy af and doesn’t listen to shit.

How can astrology not be real tho.... 4 Aquarians, a gem, and a Lib?!

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The Libra is for the Camera lol
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***Update*** So, I continued to be in a relationship with my bf and also talking to the friend. I got caught....again smdh (I can't make this stuff up) We had a whole big blow up and in the end my bf said that he would move out and just move on. Then, he went to work and called me from work saying that he thought about it but he loves me and doesn't wanna give up on us so if I was willing he was willing to give it another shot. I love my bf, and I weighed the pros and cons. I have feelings for his friend but I genuinely love my bf thru wins and losses. So, I agreed and we have grown even closer since, and I haven't talked to the friend. Haven't even been tempted. I blocked him cold turkey. This happened on Tuesday night btw. So, is this an Aquarius trait? You're willing to forgive big things but if I wake you out of your sleep you will plot my murder?
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cheating on someone is one thing. Cheating with their friend is another. He might say this now of the fear or not wanting to lose you but eventually it will hit him I think. Just be prepared... he might grow cold and be more resentful later down the track...but hey good on you and him for working it out. But u don't truly love someone if u have feelings for someone else. Just not right
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***Update*** So, I continued to be in a relationship with my bf and also talking to the friend. I got caught....again smdh (I can't make this stuff up) We had a whole big blow up and in the end my bf said that he would move out and just move on. Then, he went to work and called me from work saying that he thought about it but he loves me and doesn't wanna give up on us so if I was willing he was willing to give it another shot. I love my bf, and I weighed the pros and cons. I have feelings for his friend but I genuinely love my bf thru wins and losses. So, I agreed and we have grown even closer since, and I haven't talked to the friend. Haven't even been tempted. I blocked him cold turkey. This happened on Tuesday night btw. So, is this an Aquarius trait? You're willing to forgive big things but if I wake you out of your sleep you will plot my murder?
Yeah we can be suckers for partners that don't treat us well. Possibly that Saturnian energy at play. I will say this though... he will most likely cheat on you too, to even the score. You won't know about it though and if you ever find out, he might gaslight you. I know a couple of Aquas who've done that payback thing.

He might stay out of love and because his wretched heart can't let go, but he will resent you and that will manifest in other unpleasant ways.
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This is right along the lines of what I was thinking. But, I'm ready to take that risk. He is more than worth it to me. Thank you for your input. It's been very helpful!
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aqualady0118
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Would be a Gemini 😂 Dump him please, tell him no. You have feelings for the other guy so he can move on
Yeah I'm pretty sure that he hates all Gemini women now. He called me evil. And he never would've expected me to do something like this and keep it from him for a year. I think that he is really hurt by how he found out as well.
You see where he's coming from though, right? There's 10 million other dudes you could fuck and you choose his friend.

When does your jerry springer episode air? I want to tune in 😂😂😂
He is definitely not a doormat. Never has he been a pushover. I'm really confused on how he can just forgive me like this. I think he is plotting revenge secretly or something lol
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Maybe he slept with someone else on the side too and thinks you’re now even so it’s easier to look past it. He just hasn’t told you. You’d be surprised at how we Aquas can reason things in our minds. 😭😭
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Posted by aqualady0118
Posted by GeminPhilly
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by GeminPhilly
Posted by Brittnie
Would be a Gemini 😂 Dump him please, tell him no. You have feelings for the other guy so he can move on
Yeah I'm pretty sure that he hates all Gemini women now. He called me evil. And he never would've expected me to do something like this and keep it from him for a year. I think that he is really hurt by how he found out as well.
You see where he's coming from though, right? There's 10 million other dudes you could fuck and you choose his friend.

When does your jerry springer episode air? I want to tune in 😂😂😂
He is definitely not a doormat. Never has he been a pushover. I'm really confused on how he can just forgive me like this. I think he is plotting revenge secretly or something lol
Maybe he slept with someone else on the side too and thinks you’re now even so it’s easier to look past it. He just hasn’t told you. You’d be surprised at how we Aquas can reason things in our minds. 😭😭
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I was thinking the same thing! Either he’s already cheated or he’s planning to cheat. This is one big mess. It’s no way I’d deal with this bs. To find you cheating not once but twice in less than a month?! I know you said he’s worth it, but if he’s worth it why cheat in the first place? Not saying he’s not wrong too because he is... but I would’ve just left him a moved on. This will be one continuous cheating cycle.