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lisabeth
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and his ACTIONS here....

you know why...

he mocks.

if he does that to his wife....

gaslighting and all that....

omg.
You're the instigator here, not him. He stupidly followed suit and fell into your trap to make him look guilty. I blame myself actually. He was doing a good job of keeping his composure until I called you out
My recent backpeddling and realization that there are different types of trolling has inspired me to create some new words to describe different functions related to trolling. I'm calling what you did, *Trollstigating.* You trollstigated all of this. 🙂 lol
I did. I take responsibility for that. And I've said it before. I fight fire with more fire. It's probably not the most effective strategy because I make myself appear guilty in the process but if someone can recognize their own shitty behavior in the process (some people do) then I don't care.
like i said, what shitty behaviour—? calling him out on his bullshit??

we go in circles. you are the one who came in here and attacked ME first.
I know this response is futile because you just don't get it but I'll proceed anyway.

Im attempting to be cordial with you but to be frank, your perspectives are skewed from your past. That's as nice as I can be. You're unable to remain objective and you're taking everything he's saying personally like he is one of your abusive exes but HES NOT! Just because you get bad "vibes" from him doesn't mean you can persecute him.
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boring.
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Posted by iVirgo
@feby

Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.

It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
it's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.

that's NOT love.
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Quote somewhere that he put his wife down.

This is a challenge. Bring some facts to the table.

Bet you won't. "Cause you can't.
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lisabeth
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@feby

Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.

It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
it's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.

that's NOT love.
Quote somewhere that he put his wife down.

This is a challenge. Bring some facts to the table.

Bet you won't. "Cause you can't.
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zzzz.

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@feby

Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.

It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
it's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.

that's NOT love.
He wasn't putting her down. Period. Whatever version of reality you're seeing is wrong.
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zzzzz

zzzzzz


ok ladies..... good luck with your men.
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@feby

Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.

It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
it's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.

that's NOT love.
He wasn't putting her down. Period. Whatever version of reality you're seeing is wrong.
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regardless, he's a troll and Lisa isn't...

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Posted by iVirgo
@feby

Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.

It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
it's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.

that's NOT love.
He wasn't putting her down. Period. Whatever version of reality you're seeing is wrong.
regardless, he's a troll and Lisa isn't...

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Crazy talk. Lisa trolls the fuck out of DXPeeps on the regular. Especially newbies in a distraught state. She's a projection troll.. I haven't come up with a fun word for that yet... Projectroll, maybe.
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My virgo ex also forgave me everything I did, when really I needed someone to call me out on my shit. I was always 100% honest with him, even when I felt like I had feelings for someone else (I did not cheat). On one hand, I admired his "maturity" and unconditional love for me, but in reality, I really would have needed him to set boundaries for me. I always perceived him as very whiny and weak. I'm sorry OP, but I think acceptance and maturity may not be the right way to deal with her behavior, no matter what she does.
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Posted by iVirgo
@feby

Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.

It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
it's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.

that's NOT love.
He wasn't putting her down. Period. Whatever version of reality you're seeing is wrong.
regardless, he's a troll and Lisa isn't...
Crazy talk. Lisa trolls the fuck out of DXPeeps on the regular. Especially newbies in a distraught state. She's a projection troll.. I haven't come up with a fun word for that yet... Projectroll, maybe.
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OMG who hasn't lashed out at a newbie?? LOL
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Posted by iVirgo
@feby

Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.

It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
it's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.

that's NOT love.
He wasn't putting her down. Period. Whatever version of reality you're seeing is wrong.
regardless, he's a troll and Lisa isn't...
If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck...
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if people dont like my style, or way of not liking types of men. i can't help it.

OP is not a guy i would ever trust. I can't imagine any woman wanting to be in a relationship with him.

gross.
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OP, please don't ever delete your account. I need to remember my new fun words I'm coming up with and I will forget. Because of my natal chart. 😆
make a new thread yourself and insert the words 😉
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It's complicated.

If I or we can think of a good enough official definition for Trollstigating I'll add it to Urban Dictionary.
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This is why I make a point not to argue with aquas. The best you can get out of them is a "were both wrong" nah fool...you are wrong as fuck! Couldn't be anymore wrong. Wrongity wrong wrong RONG.

Knock knock
Whose there?
YOURE WRONG!
i just dont like certain types of men. and he just gives me bad vibes.

there's nothing wrong with that.

you're controlling how i feel about it.
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My virgo ex also forgave me everything I did, when really I needed someone to call me out on my shit. I was always 100% honest with him, even when I felt like I had feelings for someone else (I did not cheat). On one hand, I admired his "maturity" and unconditional love for me, but in reality, I really would have needed him to set boundaries for me. I always perceived him as very whiny and weak. I'm sorry OP, but I think acceptance and maturity may not be the right way to deal with her behavior, no matter what she does.
good points...
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we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,

I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you do.

you air dirty laundry with your current wife.

the wife you're supposed to love.

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And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?

You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.
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we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,

I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you do.

you air dirty laundry with your current wife.

the wife you're supposed to love.
And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?

You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.
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it's just WRONG.

like some kind of code he broke and that code is the marriage code that binds you.
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we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,

I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you do.

you air dirty laundry with your current wife.

the wife you're supposed to love.
And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?

You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.
it's just WRONG.

like some kind of code he broke and that code is the marriage code that binds you.
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Nah, no way. What would be WRONG as hell, would be if he posted about it on Facebook. Or talked to their kids about the situation.
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i mean i can understand if someone talks shit about their ex's ...well cause they hate their ex's and LEFT them for a reason or that they were HURT badly....hopefully the moaning about the ex winds down and stops after a few years (yes it takes a long time)

but he's still with her.

I'm sorry, Libraduchess, i dont understand it. it's not somethng i would ever trust in a person.
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we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,

I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you do.

you air dirty laundry with your current wife.

the wife you're supposed to love.
And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?

You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.
it's just WRONG.

like some kind of code he broke and that code is the marriage code that binds you.
Nah, no way. What would be WRONG as hell, would be if he posted about it on Facebook. Or talked to their kids about the situation.
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no...

internet no matter how anonymous is internet...

it's a complete breaking of TRUST.
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Posted by iVirgo
we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,

I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you do.

you air dirty laundry with your current wife.

the wife you're supposed to love.
And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?

You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.
it's just WRONG.

like some kind of code he broke and that code is the marriage code that binds you.
He broke an arbitrary marriage code that lisabeth made up for his marriage and didn't tell him

😆
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lol all you want. we just have different ways of looking at relationships.
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by duchesslibro
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by duchesslibro
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by iVirgo
we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,

I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you do.

you air dirty laundry with your current wife.

the wife you're supposed to love.
And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?

You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.
it's just WRONG.

like some kind of code he broke and that code is the marriage code that binds you.
Nah, no way. What would be WRONG as hell, would be if he posted about it on Facebook. Or talked to their kids about the situation.
no...

internet no matter how anonymous is internet...

it's a complete breaking of TRUST.
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Completely irrational. Unreasonable. Lacking reason.
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I've been with my girl for few years and I recently discovered in the beginning she was secretly contacting her ex lover, she did this for the first 4 years of our relationship and never told me, she would always speak bad about him, she also visited him on 3 occasions, but said he never was home, so why 3xs then, she hid his number and contacted him also via Myspace at the time, so why not just send him message to make sure he was there before going over. Also she decided to come clean about her past, I was always under the impression I was the 5th guy she's been with, I just found out I my be the 50th guy, and while we were just talking and fooling around she also had a guy friend she visited, but when we got serious cut him off. Yet she lied for years about her ex, calling him and visiting him and says nothing ever happened but stuff keeps coming out. At that time we fought a lot nothing physical just verbal. I can forgive her because I love her and she is 110% about me now, but I feel she is lying about cheating and I just want her to be honest with me. What do u aqua women think did she cheat, would u?
I could swear you were my boyfriend if you were a scorpio lol

I kept talking to one of my past fwbs after I started dating my bf. We just texted each other sometimes, I never cheated on my boyfriend...he thinks I did though. He also got bothered with things he found out about my past. In spite of doing questionable things, I love my bf to death and I'd never cheat on him (unless he did first).

But that's me. To me it sounds like your Aqua, at that time, hadn't moved on from her ex. I find it really hard to move on when I love someone, so maybe she wasn't sure about her feelings back then.
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Agreed. Sometimes people don't KNOW exactly how they feel and what they want for awhile.. it can take some time. That has been really hard for me to admit and accept because of Venus Scorpio.
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i mean i can understand if someone talks shit about their ex's ...well cause they hate their ex's and LEFT them for a reason or that they were HURT badly....hopefully the moaning about the ex winds down and stops after a few years (yes it takes a long time)

but he's still with her.

I'm sorry, Libraduchess, i dont understand it. it's not somethng i would ever trust in a person.
You know what? I can kind of start to see where you're coming from a little bit. It would hurt to know what my spouse vents about me but I know he does. Not to many people but to his sister and best friend. Everyone has one person they vent their frustrations to. Sometimes it's strangers. It doesn't mean your spouse doesn't love you. Sometimes they're just trying to get a better understanding of you. It could possibly be a breach of trust depending on the topic but in this case I don't think he had bad intentions and i do t think anyone who vents doesn't love the person they're with. They're just desperate and overwhelmed
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nawwww...

not even family or friends...
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I called her for lunch later , I will talk to her then, I hope we dnt argue, so I may just pass on the topic and have a conversation about her new project, I dnt want upset her, but I must come clean about this that I posted.
Just a heads up. Pisces Venus is the type to view things idylically.. I'm just wondering if she will think it's betrayal to share info with internet strangers. I think it's the Venus Lisa has but I'm not sure. I could be way off about both things.
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We talked last night after watching a movie, she could tell something was on my mind. She asked me did I want talk about anything, and we agreed honesty moving forward, no secrets so I asked a few questions, mainly about why didn't she tell me she visited him if it was met to be innocent, her reason was she knew I hated the guy, and he was some one she had loved at one point, he was there when she went through problems at home, and when she had no where to stay he offered her somewhere to stay until she was able to get her own place again. Even tho they argued a lot, he was kind to her, but it could never work because all he wanted to do was focused on his art and music , he did not work, he would have multiple girls calling. I ask questions about sex, was he better then me, did he do better then me, was he bigger...I'm just bring honest....not saying I'm not good...but she told me it wasn't the sex it was the connection they had, because they were not in a relationship with titles she had other guy friends who she said we're better then he was, but with him it was a friendship aswell and that's why she fell in love with him, after she noticed it wasn't going anywhere with she made clear to break it off and she told him she said he called after that but when she makes up her mind it's final she wasn't going continue meaningless sex thing , and few months later we met, she said she is glade she made that decision.....her last conversation over the phone with him, he tried advances at her, he told her he missed her, but she told him point blank he was to not call her any more, she loved me and only me, I asked about him she said at time he was still painting picture s and recording music.
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She had opportunity to leave and go be with him , we had no kids together at the time, she no obligation to me, we were not married, but she still chose me over him, so that in it self makes me happy, and importantly gives me peace of mind .
i realize your gal has pisces mars.That mars is considered "weak"; so is mars in 12th -- neptune is uncomfortable in mars placement.

my sister has pisces mars, although aqua venus. I dont know, maybe that is why she can't extracate from you.

there is an aquarius sun with capricorn moon AND pisces mars on this forum and she was posting on the capricorn and Scorpio forums recently.

she might give you more perspective.

all i know is while pisces venus might find love and connection, that mars of hers doesn't "FIGHT" enough.