lisabeth
@lisabethur8
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Posted by iVirgoLOL troll
2 for 1 since she is use to combos
Posted by rampartsboring.Posted by lisabethur8I know this response is futile because you just don't get it but I'll proceed anyway.Posted by rampartslike i said, what shitty behaviour—? calling him out on his bullshit??Posted by duchesslibroI did. I take responsibility for that. And I've said it before. I fight fire with more fire. It's probably not the most effective strategy because I make myself appear guilty in the process but if someone can recognize their own shitty behavior in the process (some people do) then I don't care.Posted by rampartsMy recent backpeddling and realization that there are different types of trolling has inspired me to create some new words to describe different functions related to trolling. I'm calling what you did, *Trollstigating.* You trollstigated all of this. 🙂 lolPosted by lisabethur8You're the instigator here, not him. He stupidly followed suit and fell into your trap to make him look guilty. I blame myself actually. He was doing a good job of keeping his composure until I called you out
and his ACTIONS here....
you know why...
he mocks.
if he does that to his wife....
gaslighting and all that....
omg.
we go in circles. you are the one who came in here and attacked ME first.
Im attempting to be cordial with you but to be frank, your perspectives are skewed from your past. That's as nice as I can be. You're unable to remain objective and you're taking everything he's saying personally like he is one of your abusive exes but HES NOT! Just because you get bad "vibes" from him doesn't mean you can persecute him.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Quote somewhere that he put his wife down.Posted by duchesslibroit's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.Posted by iVirgoThere's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.
@feby
Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
that's NOT love.click to expand

Posted by febyI entered late 😉Posted by aquapiscescuspAll the aquas called it out in our own way lol.Posted by iVirgoLOL troll
2 for 1 since she is use to combosclick to expand
Posted by duchesslibrozzzz.Posted by lisabethur8Quote somewhere that he put his wife down.Posted by duchesslibroit's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.Posted by iVirgoThere's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.
@feby
Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
that's NOT love.
This is a challenge. Bring some facts to the table.
Bet you won't. "Cause you can't.click to expand
Posted by rampartszzzzzPosted by lisabethur8He wasn't putting her down. Period. Whatever version of reality you're seeing is wrong.Posted by duchesslibroit's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.Posted by iVirgoThere's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.
@feby
Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
that's NOT love.click to expand

Posted by rampartsregardless, he's a troll and Lisa isn't...Posted by lisabethur8He wasn't putting her down. Period. Whatever version of reality you're seeing is wrong.Posted by duchesslibroit's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.Posted by iVirgoThere's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.
@feby
Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
that's NOT love.click to expand

Posted by aquapiscescuspCrazy talk. Lisa trolls the fuck out of DXPeeps on the regular. Especially newbies in a distraught state. She's a projection troll.. I haven't come up with a fun word for that yet... Projectroll, maybe.Posted by rampartsregardless, he's a troll and Lisa isn't...Posted by lisabethur8He wasn't putting her down. Period. Whatever version of reality you're seeing is wrong.Posted by duchesslibroit's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.Posted by iVirgoThere's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.
@feby
Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
that's NOT love.
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Posted by duchesslibroOMG who hasn't lashed out at a newbie?? LOLPosted by aquapiscescuspCrazy talk. Lisa trolls the fuck out of DXPeeps on the regular. Especially newbies in a distraught state. She's a projection troll.. I haven't come up with a fun word for that yet... Projectroll, maybe.Posted by rampartsregardless, he's a troll and Lisa isn't...Posted by lisabethur8He wasn't putting her down. Period. Whatever version of reality you're seeing is wrong.Posted by duchesslibroit's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.Posted by iVirgoThere's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.
@feby
Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
that's NOT love.
click to expand
Posted by rampartsif people dont like my style, or way of not liking types of men. i can't help it.Posted by aquapiscescuspIf it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck...Posted by rampartsregardless, he's a troll and Lisa isn't...Posted by lisabethur8He wasn't putting her down. Period. Whatever version of reality you're seeing is wrong.Posted by duchesslibroit's not about that. It's he puts his own wife down.Posted by iVirgoThere's absolutely nothing wrong with airing dirty laundry to faceless strangers.
@feby
Sad to say no she doesn't know I have spot lighted our problems, i feel as I'm harboring secrets, at least to strangers behind Avatar's.
It's not like he's telling all their friends and family and their children.
that's NOT love.
click to expand


Posted by duchesslibromake a new thread yourself and insert the words 😉
OP, please don't ever delete your account. I need to remember my new fun words I'm coming up with and I will forget. Because of my natal chart. 😆
Posted by iVirgoyou do.
we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,
I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.

Posted by aquapiscescuspIt's complicated.Posted by duchesslibromake a new thread yourself and insert the words 😉
OP, please don't ever delete your account. I need to remember my new fun words I'm coming up with and I will forget. Because of my natal chart. 😆click to expand
Posted by rampartsi just dont like certain types of men. and he just gives me bad vibes.
This is why I make a point not to argue with aquas. The best you can get out of them is a "were both wrong" nah fool...you are wrong as fuck! Couldn't be anymore wrong. Wrongity wrong wrong RONG.
Knock knock
Whose there?
YOURE WRONG!

Posted by aquamilagood points...
My virgo ex also forgave me everything I did, when really I needed someone to call me out on my shit. I was always 100% honest with him, even when I felt like I had feelings for someone else (I did not cheat). On one hand, I admired his "maturity" and unconditional love for me, but in reality, I really would have needed him to set boundaries for me. I always perceived him as very whiny and weak. I'm sorry OP, but I think acceptance and maturity may not be the right way to deal with her behavior, no matter what she does.

Posted by lisabethur8And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?Posted by iVirgoyou do.
we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,
I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you air dirty laundry with your current wife.
the wife you're supposed to love.
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Posted by lisabethur8well shit. that makes sense.
you all have to remember i'm also dominant taurus (my top three dominant)
taurus is the most stubborn sign in the zodiac. it's a singularity like my aqua so that must mean something.
Posted by duchesslibroit's just WRONG.Posted by lisabethur8And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?Posted by iVirgoyou do.
we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,
I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you air dirty laundry with your current wife.
the wife you're supposed to love.
You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Nah, no way. What would be WRONG as hell, would be if he posted about it on Facebook. Or talked to their kids about the situation.Posted by duchesslibroit's just WRONG.Posted by lisabethur8And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?Posted by iVirgoyou do.
we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,
I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you air dirty laundry with your current wife.
the wife you're supposed to love.
You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.
like some kind of code he broke and that code is the marriage code that binds you.click to expand
Posted by duchesslibrono...Posted by lisabethur8Nah, no way. What would be WRONG as hell, would be if he posted about it on Facebook. Or talked to their kids about the situation.Posted by duchesslibroit's just WRONG.Posted by lisabethur8And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?Posted by iVirgoyou do.
we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,
I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you air dirty laundry with your current wife.
the wife you're supposed to love.
You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.
like some kind of code he broke and that code is the marriage code that binds you.click to expand
Posted by rampartslol all you want. we just have different ways of looking at relationships.Posted by lisabethur8He broke an arbitrary marriage code that lisabeth made up for his marriage and didn't tell himPosted by duchesslibroit's just WRONG.Posted by lisabethur8And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?Posted by iVirgoyou do.
we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,
I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you air dirty laundry with your current wife.
the wife you're supposed to love.
You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.
like some kind of code he broke and that code is the marriage code that binds you.
😆click to expand

Posted by lisabethur8Completely irrational. Unreasonable. Lacking reason.Posted by duchesslibrono...Posted by lisabethur8Nah, no way. What would be WRONG as hell, would be if he posted about it on Facebook. Or talked to their kids about the situation.Posted by duchesslibroit's just WRONG.Posted by lisabethur8And what exactly the fuck is wrong with airing dirty laundry to strangers on the internet behind an avatar?Posted by iVirgoyou do.
we have argument s like normal people, and make up like normal people,
I never put my wife down Lisa you must be mistaken my relationship with yours.
you air dirty laundry with your current wife.
the wife you're supposed to love.
You have no good answer because deep you have to know that is illogical as fuck.
like some kind of code he broke and that code is the marriage code that binds you.
internet no matter how anonymous is internet...
it's a complete breaking of TRUST.click to expand

Posted by moondustAgreed. Sometimes people don't KNOW exactly how they feel and what they want for awhile.. it can take some time. That has been really hard for me to admit and accept because of Venus Scorpio.Posted by iVirgoI could swear you were my boyfriend if you were a scorpio lol
I've been with my girl for few years and I recently discovered in the beginning she was secretly contacting her ex lover, she did this for the first 4 years of our relationship and never told me, she would always speak bad about him, she also visited him on 3 occasions, but said he never was home, so why 3xs then, she hid his number and contacted him also via Myspace at the time, so why not just send him message to make sure he was there before going over. Also she decided to come clean about her past, I was always under the impression I was the 5th guy she's been with, I just found out I my be the 50th guy, and while we were just talking and fooling around she also had a guy friend she visited, but when we got serious cut him off. Yet she lied for years about her ex, calling him and visiting him and says nothing ever happened but stuff keeps coming out. At that time we fought a lot nothing physical just verbal. I can forgive her because I love her and she is 110% about me now, but I feel she is lying about cheating and I just want her to be honest with me. What do u aqua women think did she cheat, would u?
I kept talking to one of my past fwbs after I started dating my bf. We just texted each other sometimes, I never cheated on my boyfriend...he thinks I did though. He also got bothered with things he found out about my past. In spite of doing questionable things, I love my bf to death and I'd never cheat on him (unless he did first).
But that's me. To me it sounds like your Aqua, at that time, hadn't moved on from her ex. I find it really hard to move on when I love someone, so maybe she wasn't sure about her feelings back then.click to expand

Posted by rampartsnawwww...Posted by lisabethur8You know what? I can kind of start to see where you're coming from a little bit. It would hurt to know what my spouse vents about me but I know he does. Not to many people but to his sister and best friend. Everyone has one person they vent their frustrations to. Sometimes it's strangers. It doesn't mean your spouse doesn't love you. Sometimes they're just trying to get a better understanding of you. It could possibly be a breach of trust depending on the topic but in this case I don't think he had bad intentions and i do t think anyone who vents doesn't love the person they're with. They're just desperate and overwhelmed
i mean i can understand if someone talks shit about their ex's ...well cause they hate their ex's and LEFT them for a reason or that they were HURT badly....hopefully the moaning about the ex winds down and stops after a few years (yes it takes a long time)
but he's still with her.
I'm sorry, Libraduchess, i dont understand it. it's not somethng i would ever trust in a person.click to expand

Posted by iVirgoI think you should try to warm her up to coming completely clean. You'll never stop wondering and it will ruin your relationship if you aren't convinced.
Thank all of you guys but my problem still exist, I feel the highs and lows as the day passes, it's like I'm hot and cold at times I dnt mean to be.


Posted by iVirgoJust a heads up. Pisces Venus is the type to view things idylically.. I'm just wondering if she will think it's betrayal to share info with internet strangers. I think it's the Venus Lisa has but I'm not sure. I could be way off about both things.
I called her for lunch later , I will talk to her then, I hope we dnt argue, so I may just pass on the topic and have a conversation about her new project, I dnt want upset her, but I must come clean about this that I posted.
Posted by iVirgoi realize your gal has pisces mars.That mars is considered "weak"; so is mars in 12th -- neptune is uncomfortable in mars placement.
She had opportunity to leave and go be with him , we had no kids together at the time, she no obligation to me, we were not married, but she still chose me over him, so that in it self makes me happy, and importantly gives me peace of mind .
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