@Onimusha01
7 Years500+ Posts
Does any one else feels like you are tired of Dating?
I feel like Im done taking shit from this men. if its not one thing is another.... Honestly the next time I meet a man and he tells me " I look like a normal person " im walking out, cuz that means they are not.. LMAO!
Too much energy invested and time + money
Yessss. It's exhausting and I just don't care anymore lol
I feel like Im done taking shit from this men. if its not one thing is another.... Honestly the next time I meet a man and he tells me " I look like a normal person " im walking out, cuz that means they are not.. LMAO!
Wut crazy things he did.. And what you mean by if not one thing is another? PPL dont think the same ways
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The last 2 guys I have met, both Have told me " oh, finally, you look like a normal person" bc there are so many crazy women out there... And in the End... They were the ones with the drama.! So, now I know.... lol
And in the End... They were the ones with the drama.!
I don't know all the details but I just thought I'd play devil's advocate.
Maybe these men you met have been emotional scarred by the crazies they met before?
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The first one was, The second one cut me off with no apparent reason.
And in the End... They were the ones with the drama.!
I don't know all the details but I just thought I'd play devil's advocate.
Maybe these men you met have been emotional scarred by the crazies they met before?
The first one was, The second one cut me off with no apparent reason.
Well, in that case, either they weren't the right ones or it was just bad timing...
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Nah, I think they are both the Craziest... not the women they had before... i think they just need someone to blame shit on. Next time I date someone, Im definitely interviewing the Ex. Like " Hey, why u left ? lmao!
That's kind of odd. "you look like a normal person" they didnt see you before dating? Thats a what are people even doing thing. People do things in a way that will bring certain consequences then act surprised.I personally dont even think about dating anyone I havent met. because...how is that not...but I think its just a life thing if your not trying to force anything. I think it can take practice when you get older you can slow down and kind of like "eh it is what it is" kind of thing.
They say that on the first date when we get to see each other in person and have a conversation.
Does "not feeling the need to date" count as well ? Because I really want to. I enjoy my single life.
I guess it counts, but as you can see you are not missing out on anything... lol
People are attracted to toxicity for some reason either because most either have deep self-esteem issues and doubt that they could deserve someone healthy or they suffer from saviour syndrome. Back when I was dating I would get silly and ridiculous comments/compliments that made me wonder what kind of women they were dating before. I was actually mainly thinking what made you attracted to someone like that to begin with. People with issues date others (they did a social study recently which supported that like attracts like) like themselves so when they meet someone who displays a modicum of sanity, immediately they are deemed the best thing.
And in the End... They were the ones with the drama.!
I don't know all the details but I just thought I'd play devil's advocate.
Maybe these men you met have been emotional scarred by the crazies they met before?
The first one was, The second one cut me off with no apparent reason.
Well, in that case, either they weren't the right ones or it was just bad timing...
Nah, I think they are both the Craziest... not the women they had before... i think they just need someone to blame shit on. Next time I date someone, Im definitely interviewing the Ex. Like " Hey, why u left ? lmao!
evaluating someone, based on their emotional baggage, will always be a minefield - more so because, initially, you'll never know how much of the blame is attributed to them (as opposed to their exes). The only way is to trust your gut and hope for the best.
But I have to say that your tone of dismissal seems to be indicative of a lack of empathy...
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Oh well, how do you think I feel after people come to my life just to waste my time? like if you dont know what you are looking for... dont say you are looking for a relationship if you are not ready for one.. ..
People are attracted to toxicity for some reason either because most either have deep self-esteem issues and doubt that they could deserve someone healthy or they suffer from saviour syndrome. Back when I was dating I would get silly and ridiculous comments/compliments that made me wonder what kind of women they were dating before. I was actually mainly thinking what made you attracted to someone like that to begin with. People with issues date others (they did a social study recently which supported that like attracts like) like themselves so when they meet someone who displays a modicum of sanity, immediately they are deemed the best thing.
Well, Im talking about online dating, I cant tell their level of crazy by looking at a picture. I wish I could...
That's kind of odd. "you look like a normal person" they didnt see you before dating? Thats a what are people even doing thing. People do things in a way that will bring certain consequences then act surprised.I personally dont even think about dating anyone I havent met. because...how is that not...but I think its just a life thing if your not trying to force anything. I think it can take practice when you get older you can slow down and kind of like "eh it is what it is" kind of thing.
They say that on the first date when we get to see each other in person and have a conversation.
Your an Aquarius? Im a Taurus I have Aquarius moon its my only Aqua placement. A lot of things can take practice and are just living and learning but why make dating even harder? If you do a bunch of blind risky dating then it will be what it is. If you are patient and cautious then that can be a whole different thing. I agree from the standpoint I just let it go to I'll meet who I meet while doing what I do. I will already have met someone before thinking dating. Thats a mistake to force something...at least thats my thing. Everybody's life style isnt the same and I am not saying I dont understand that. But yeah Im not trying to get dates so its a real relaxed thing. People may not realize but connections can still be made organicaly when just being. In fact I still think thats the way if any. I see you mentioned internet dating I dont touch that with a 10 ft pole for obvious reasons but to each their own but then if you engage in certain circles then it is what it is.
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Well, I really dont like going out much, specially alone, most of my friends are males, going out w a male friend is going to keep other males from coming close to me, the rest of my friends are too young and the other half are either engaged or married and go out in couples. which becomes really uncomfortable for me. and that's why online dating seemed to be like a good idea.
That's kind of odd. "you look like a normal person" they didnt see you before dating? Thats a what are people even doing thing. People do things in a way that will bring certain consequences then act surprised.I personally dont even think about dating anyone I havent met. because...how is that not...but I think its just a life thing if your not trying to force anything. I think it can take practice when you get older you can slow down and kind of like "eh it is what it is" kind of thing.
They say that on the first date when we get to see each other in person and have a conversation.
Your an Aquarius? Im a Taurus I have Aquarius moon its my only Aqua placement. A lot of things can take practice and are just living and learning but why make dating even harder? If you do a bunch of blind risky dating then it will be what it is. If you are patient and cautious then that can be a whole different thing. I agree from the standpoint I just let it go to I'll meet who I meet while doing what I do. I will already have met someone before thinking dating. Thats a mistake to force something...at least thats my thing. Everybody's life style isnt the same and I am not saying I dont understand that. But yeah Im not trying to get dates so its a real relaxed thing. People may not realize but connections can still be made organicaly when just being. In fact I still think thats the way if any. I see you mentioned internet dating I dont touch that with a 10 ft pole for obvious reasons but to each their own but then if you engage in certain circles then it is what it is.
Well, I really dont like going out much, specially alone, most of my friends are males, going out w a male friend is going to keep other males from coming close to me, the rest of my friends are too young and the other half are either engaged or married and go out in couples. which becomes really uncomfortable for me. and that's why online dating seemed to be like a good idea.
Mm scorpio?
Anyway maybe your friends could introduce to you another person that they trust and they could consider as a good match for you donno could be fun 😜
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Im aquarius... My friends dont have anyone that I could be interested in.
That's kind of odd. "you look like a normal person" they didnt see you before dating? Thats a what are people even doing thing. People do things in a way that will bring certain consequences then act surprised.I personally dont even think about dating anyone I havent met. because...how is that not...but I think its just a life thing if your not trying to force anything. I think it can take practice when you get older you can slow down and kind of like "eh it is what it is" kind of thing.
They say that on the first date when we get to see each other in person and have a conversation.
Your an Aquarius? Im a Taurus I have Aquarius moon its my only Aqua placement. A lot of things can take practice and are just living and learning but why make dating even harder? If you do a bunch of blind risky dating then it will be what it is. If you are patient and cautious then that can be a whole different thing. I agree from the standpoint I just let it go to I'll meet who I meet while doing what I do. I will already have met someone before thinking dating. Thats a mistake to force something...at least thats my thing. Everybody's life style isnt the same and I am not saying I dont understand that. But yeah Im not trying to get dates so its a real relaxed thing. People may not realize but connections can still be made organicaly when just being. In fact I still think thats the way if any. I see you mentioned internet dating I dont touch that with a 10 ft pole for obvious reasons but to each their own but then if you engage in certain circles then it is what it is.
Well, I really dont like going out much, specially alone, most of my friends are males, going out w a male friend is going to keep other males from coming close to me, the rest of my friends are too young and the other half are either engaged or married and go out in couples. which becomes really uncomfortable for me. and that's why online dating seemed to be like a good idea.
Mm scorpio?
Anyway maybe your friends could introduce to you another person that they trust and they could consider as a good match for you donno could be fun 😜
Im aquarius... My friends dont have anyone that I could be interested in.
Yup people are selfish they ain’t thinking about setting up the single freinds lol
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Shush... between me and you ... Im picky lol
I'm tired of meeting people I actually like and then messing it all up. I'm tired of meeting new guys over and over again and trying to figure out if they are worth my time and interest. I don't need to add to a collection of new friends. I like my circle small. So many guys like Drake out here now 😢
Everyone is just in like a huge recycling plant until you find someone that isn't scared and things go smoother.
we all in the same boat.
You never really stop dating. I’ve been with my pisces bf for 6 months now and it’s still work. Relationships will always be work.
Yeah, no more
I feel the same way. The dating game is tiring and it’s crazy! Too much drama if you’re trying to meet new people or working things out. It should not be that complicated. Lol Just focusing on myself now, going with the flow, do what makes me happy. Time will tell and heal. I’ve been in long term relationships before. I started the dating scene, but realized how much work it is and at another level. Back in the days, it was much better. Lol I just got my freedom and I better just keep it that way. I rather be by myself than bad company and dealing with craziness. Lol
I feel so annoyed, Im really tired of dating... I feel like meeting a new person is like going to an interview for a new job. Same old shit... ! And when you meet someone new they have some shit going on.
@saggurl88 you need to dm me now... lol..
The trick is to focus on WHAT You WANT, NOT what you don’t want.
I’m tired too. Feel like all the good ones are taken!
And in the End... They were the ones with the drama.!
I don't know all the details but I just thought I'd play devil's advocate.
Maybe these men you met have been emotional scarred by the crazies they met before?
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How is this her problem?
So tired of it that I never even started.
So...where all this wisdom is from? Lol
I feel like Im done taking shit from this men. if its not one thing is another.... Honestly the next time I meet a man and he tells me " I look like a normal person " im walking out, cuz that means they are not.. LMAO!
Wut crazy things he did.. And what you mean by if not one thing is another? PPL dont think the same ways
The last 2 guys I have met, both Have told me " oh, finally, you look like a normal person" bc there are so many crazy women out there... And in the End... They were the ones with the drama.! So, now I know.... lol
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What they really meant was ‘finally you look like a normal person. Now WE can fuck YOU up’...
by the 16th guy, you just don't care much anymore.
expectations below sea level.
no poop skidmark underwear
no dickfisher
no heightfisher
Wait a minute...as a woman why last 2 is your problem?
Man dickfisher? Whats that?
Man heightfisher? Are you short? Tall? 🤷♀️
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
I’m going to die alone btw
As supposed to? Plain crush? Or fire in high rise appt bldng?
If you have that outlook none of your dates are going to work out.
I personally don’t have time to date someone, sometimes I’m gone from town for months for work.
Im absolutely ready for dating retirement haha
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I feel so annoyed, Im really tired of dating... I feel like meeting a new person is like going to an interview for a new job. Same old shit... ! And when you meet someone new they have some shit going on.
@saggurl88 you need to dm me now... lol..