@imascorpio10
8 Years
should i wish my all time crush a happy birthday after no contact for 4 months?
Posted by Commodus
Yeah, do it
i really wanna do it but knowing myself ik ill get my hopes super high up for basically nothing and get heartbroken again lmao
whatever imma do it
Normally I’d say no, but it’s your all time crush so...JUST DO IT.
If you don’t stand for something you’ll fall for everything.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Normally I’d say no, but it’s your all time crush so...JUST DO IT.
If you don’t stand for something you’ll fall for everything.
i actually feel more confident now lol thanks will do
Posted by imascorpio10
so its me again lol sorry, its my virgos birthday tomorrow and we wish each other a happy birthday every year for the past 5 years no matter if we have contact or not. i feel like this time is different and idk if i should wish him or not. we usuallt do this kind of like saying 'hey i still remember your birthday' so should i wish him or not really? if you want a more detailed explanation of this story go check my other thread lmao
but virgos, would you like it or would you just like not give a damn??
Do you see any harm in it?
What's the worse that can happen?
I did it with my Virgo X and it opened things right up. Very unexpected as all i wanted was a TY.
As for me, I wish most of my special X's a Happy Birthday. Seems to be a nice gesture and does not mean you want them back or more than just a nice thing to do.
Just Do It!
Go for it but do it because you genuinely want to wish him a happy birthday...not because you're looking for something more.
Posted by UrsaMediocre
What's the worse that can happen?
me being the sensitive biatch that i am getting all my hopes up and then get heartbroken because id only get a "thank you" instead of more lmao
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Go for it but do it because you genuinely want to wish him a happy birthday...not because you're looking for something more.
its literally too late for that ive been nervous for the past few days because i knew id be talking to him today lmao im a lost cause.
Posted by 4evercharm
I did it with my Virgo X and it opened things right up. Very unexpected as all i wanted was a TY.
As for me, I wish most of my special X's a Happy Birthday. Seems to be a nice gesture and does not mean you want them back or more than just a nice thing to do.
Just Do It!
knowing my stubborn ass virgo the way i do i know he'll only say thank you even if he wanted to say more he wouldnt ...
thanks for the advice!
Posted by Arachnophobia
Turn up at his door wearing this.
lmaoooo if i only had the balls to do so
Posted by imascorpio10
Posted by UrsaMediocre
What's the worse that can happen?
me being the sensitive biatch that i am getting all my hopes up and then get heartbroken because id only get a "thank you" instead of more lmao
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Word. So how did it go?
Yah
If it is simply a Happy Birthday wish, just do it. No harm done, either way.
Posted by UrsaMediocre
Posted by imascorpio10
Posted by UrsaMediocre
What's the worse that can happen?
me being the sensitive biatch that i am getting all my hopes up and then get heartbroken because id only get a "thank you" instead of more lmao
Word. So how did it go?
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just how i was expecting, he said thank you and thats about it, i saw him today too, first time in actual months, i was alone with a friend of mine which was a dude and i dont think he knows him and he saw us together so idk. anyway the birthday wish happened before he saw us, if he'd want to talk to me hed find a way to do it, i guess he doesnt
Posted by UrsaMediocre
Posted by imascorpio10
Posted by UrsaMediocre
What's the worse that can happen?
me being the sensitive biatch that i am getting all my hopes up and then get heartbroken because id only get a "thank you" instead of more lmao
Word. So how did it go?
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i think he's trying to reach me through his friends lmao
So I had been getting advise from @GemCurio regsrding my virgo guy and now @GemCurio seems to be MIA. Like @imascropio10 i have a question regarding my Virgo's bday. My Virgo asked for space June 1, we text about every weeks just to say hi and how each other is doing. @GemCurio had advised in Aug. that I should write my virgo a letter. I have and thought I would mail it with a bday card and the gift I ordered for him. Now my Virgos bday was Sept. 3 and unfortunately the gift arrived late 🙁 Now I am thinking that just mailing it is too impersonal and I would like to deliver it personally (he lives about 112km away). Do I message him a few days prior asking if it's ok to come by, do I message him when I get on the ferry (that's a 30 min ride) or do I just go to his house not sure whether he is working or not? I know that he has always said his door is open but I am also trying to respect that he has asked for space.
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so its me again lol sorry, its my virgos birthday tomorrow and we wish each other a happy birthday every year for the past 5 years no matter if we have contact or not. i feel like this time is different and idk if i should wish him or not. we usuallt do this kind of like saying 'hey i still remember your birthday' so should i wish him or not really? if you want a more detailed explanation of this story go check my other thread lmao
but virgos, would you like it or would you just like not give a damn??