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Why Women Often Feel Disrespected When Men Flirt with Multiple Women
Women may feel disrespected when a man flirts with multiple women because it can seem like a lack of genuine interest and commitment. This behavior might be perceived as insincere or dismissive of their feelings, creating pressure and discomfort without a clear intention for a relationship. Respectful, genuine interactions are typically valued over superficial flirting.
because we don't like to feel like an afterthought.
If a guy flirts with me then I see him flirting with other girls, I'll be turned off and even if he asks me out I'll say no.
Scratch that...a Capricorn did do that to me and I still dated him for a year. We broke up because of his cheating.
So double scratch that...if he was that sleazy to not have appropriate discretion at first impressions then it might be a good prediction of his fidelity discretion during the relationship.
Hence, my first answer, which initially came from instinct and then proven by experience, is the worthy choice.
Obviously not all bla bla bla...but with most decent dudes, if they're slightly interested in someone they will not blatantly flirt with other women in front of her.
Emotional intelligence can be a beautiful thing.
not mad
just that they don't take you seriously
i wouldn't bother a guy who is clearly enjoying himself
yeah, it just communicates his priorities quite clearly
not mad
just that they don't take you seriously
i wouldn't bother a guy who is clearly enjoying himself
They want serious friendship even though we just met? Lol
it shouldn't be in the same setting
it makes you look desperate
"anybody would do"
i know it's a numbers game for you
but if you're gonna do shit like this,
the women aren't supposed to know about each other..
and here's the funny thing, the more you flirt with multiple women in the same setting whilst they know of each other... the less you'll appear as a desirable sexual object.. you'll desexualized.. reduced to some "funny guy"... you might as well be the neigborhood gay friend
Simmer down. What makes u think its a numbers game? Im actually only commited to friends & family ive known 10+ years. I dont look at every random chick as potential relationship. I dont see a problem with casual conversation with women. I dont owe them anything right?
I resent being called the neighborhood gay friend, consideribg the fact they dont want to be friends after anyway lol
I mean would you take a chick seriously if she's talking to a lot of dudes in front of you?!
It brings your stock down. Instant turn off!
Whoever is doing this is out of practice. Get out more.
I honestly really dont care. If shes not rubbing her rear end up against everyone why should i expect her to give me all of her attention.
it shouldn't be in the same setting
it makes you look desperate
"anybody would do"
i know it's a numbers game for you
but if you're gonna do shit like this,
the women aren't supposed to know about each other..
and here's the funny thing, the more you flirt with multiple women in the same setting whilst they know of each other... the less you'll appear as a desirable sexual object.. you'll desexualized.. reduced to some "funny guy"... you might as well be the neigborhood gay friend
Simmer down. What makes u think its a numbers game? Im actually only commited to friends & family ive known 10+ years. I dont look at every random chick as potential relationship. I dont see a problem with casual conversation with women. I dont owe them anything right?
I resent being called the neighborhood gay friend, consideribg the fact they dont want to be friends after anyway lol
coz dating is a numbers game at first, isn't it?
nobody owes anybody anything but why do you say you're empty-handed? what do you expect to get at the end of the day? do you feel entitled to something? wasn't it enough that you had a lot of fun flirting around?
your game is not good
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Dating is just getting aquainted with people you are unfamiliar with.
Empty handed as in leaving with no phone numbers to hangout get to know each other better duh! Yes its enough but we can always flirt more 🤩
My game is fine
I wish you lived around me, you seem like you would be a cool friend.
Anyways people like to feel special and not feel like just another option you got lucky with.
I knew i could count on u to shed some light. So basically they want to solely be showered with attention even though we barely know each other lol. So basically im someones boyfriend just because we're having 1v1 conversation.
I mean would you take a chick seriously if she's talking to a lot of dudes in front of you?!
It brings your stock down. Instant turn off!
Whoever is doing this is out of practice. Get out more.
I honestly really dont care. If shes not rubbing her rear end up against everyone why should i expect her to give me all of her attention.
by that logic, go for the biggest hoe in the room but the difference is that.. since men are usually so easy, she's probably got a handful of more options than you.. she might even be desperate but not as much as some men
there's 2 hoes in a room from both genders but trust that they won't end up together at the end of the day..
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You do realize that some people are conversationalists & not everyone is socially private & awkward. Theres nothing wrong with holding conversation with people. I really dont care at the end of the day because i will do it again. I care about my own entertainment more than being some chicks darling prince
If you overflow your basket with eggs and swing them around like your penis when you’re pretending it’s a helicopter, they are bound to fall out.
If you only put one egg in your basket, then swing it around like your dick when you’re pretending it’s a helicopter, centrifugal force will keep it safely in the basket.
It all makes sense.
Soul 2018.
I wish you lived around me, you seem like you would be a cool friend.
Anyways people like to feel special and not feel like just another option you got lucky with.
I knew i could count on u to shed some light. So basically they want to solely be showered with attention even though we barely know each other lol. So basically im someones boyfriend just because we're having 1v1 conversation.
it's more of a competition between the women like wow she rejected him why? why does he think he'd be good for me?
Plus men who circle around look thirsty or like a vulture
most women want the unavailable yet available man
you can do alot with the eyes.
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At the end of the day i dont care. If i want to talk to bunch of people i will. If i want to talk to one single person i will. If i want to talk to the mc donlads cashier i will. If i want to tslj to a homeless person i will.
Those chicks arent for me anyway
I mean would you take a chick seriously if she's talking to a lot of dudes in front of you?!
It brings your stock down. Instant turn off!
Whoever is doing this is out of practice. Get out more.
I honestly really dont care. If shes not rubbing her rear end up against everyone why should i expect her to give me all of her attention.
by that logic, go for the biggest hoe in the room but the difference is that.. since men are usually so easy, she's probably got a handful of more options than you.. she might even be desperate but not as much as some men
there's 2 hoes in a room from both genders but trust that they won't end up together at the end of the day..
You do realize that some people are conversationalists & not everyone is socially private & awkward. Theres nothing wrong with holding conversation with people. I really dont care at the end of the day because i will do it again. I care about my own entertainment more than being some chicks darling prince
numbers game
before i got in my relationship,
i used to entertain a lot of guys
(not that i dated them all at the same time)
just that i'd openly talk to them
until someone monopolizes/cements my interest
i guess women just have better game
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Anime avi game lol
I mean would you take a chick seriously if she's talking to a lot of dudes in front of you?!
It brings your stock down. Instant turn off!
Whoever is doing this is out of practice. Get out more.
I honestly really dont care. If shes not rubbing her rear end up against everyone why should i expect her to give me all of her attention.
by that logic, go for the biggest hoe in the room but the difference is that.. since men are usually so easy, she's probably got a handful of more options than you.. she might even be desperate but not as much as some men
there's 2 hoes in a room from both genders but trust that they won't end up together at the end of the day..
You do realize that some people are conversationalists & not everyone is socially private & awkward. Theres nothing wrong with holding conversation with people. I really dont care at the end of the day because i will do it again. I care about my own entertainment more than being some chicks darling prince
numbers game
before i got in my relationship,
i used to entertain a lot of guys
(not that i dated them all at the same time)
just that i'd openly talk to them
until someone monopolizes/cements my interest
i guess women just have better game
Anime avi game lol
top game
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Girl u know u dont have no game lol
Guys like u cuz ur wierd & pretty
Dont fool urself
I mean would you take a chick seriously if she's talking to a lot of dudes in front of you?!
It brings your stock down. Instant turn off!
Whoever is doing this is out of practice. Get out more.
I honestly really dont care. If shes not rubbing her rear end up against everyone why should i expect her to give me all of her attention.
by that logic, go for the biggest hoe in the room but the difference is that.. since men are usually so easy, she's probably got a handful of more options than you.. she might even be desperate but not as much as some men
there's 2 hoes in a room from both genders but trust that they won't end up together at the end of the day..
You do realize that some people are conversationalists & not everyone is socially private & awkward. Theres nothing wrong with holding conversation with people. I really dont care at the end of the day because i will do it again. I care about my own entertainment more than being some chicks darling prince
numbers game
before i got in my relationship,
i used to entertain a lot of guys
(not that i dated them all at the same time)
just that i'd openly talk to them
until someone monopolizes/cements my interest
i guess women just have better game
Anime avi game lol
top game
Girl u know u dont have no game lol
Guys like u cuz ur wierd & pretty
Dont fool urself
pretty girls are a dime dozen
so are men prowling for women
genuine interest is a novelty
you're not interested in people,
you're just lonely
and people can smell that
where is your chiron?
what does your 7th house look like?
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Those are some big assumptions little lady.
What makes u believe im not interested in people? Why am i lonely? Can they smell which cologne im wearing today? So many questions unanswered
Chiron cancer 7th what coincidence....what does that mean? Im in need of loving
I mean would you take a chick seriously if she's talking to a lot of dudes in front of you?!
It brings your stock down. Instant turn off!
Whoever is doing this is out of practice. Get out more.
I honestly really dont care. If shes not rubbing her rear end up against everyone why should i expect her to give me all of her attention.
by that logic, go for the biggest hoe in the room but the difference is that.. since men are usually so easy, she's probably got a handful of more options than you.. she might even be desperate but not as much as some men
there's 2 hoes in a room from both genders but trust that they won't end up together at the end of the day..
You do realize that some people are conversationalists & not everyone is socially private & awkward. Theres nothing wrong with holding conversation with people. I really dont care at the end of the day because i will do it again. I care about my own entertainment more than being some chicks darling prince
numbers game
before i got in my relationship,
i used to entertain a lot of guys
(not that i dated them all at the same time)
just that i'd openly talk to them
until someone monopolizes/cements my interest
i guess women just have better game
Anime avi game lol
top game
Girl u know u dont have no game lol
Guys like u cuz ur wierd & pretty
Dont fool urself
pretty girls are a dime dozen
so are men prowling for women
genuine interest is a novelty
you're not interested in people,
you're just lonely
and people can smell that
where is your chiron?
what does your 7th house look like?
Those are some big assumptions little lady.
What makes u believe im not interested in people? Why am i lonely? Can they smell which cologne im wearing today? So many questions unanswered
Chiron cancer 7th what coincidence....what does that mean? Im in need of loving
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Have you ever tried just looking for one at a time? Then if it isn’t what you want, go to the next?
If you try to get with 6 different people at once, you will end up attracted to multiple people at once. Thus, never finding the *one*
Forever attracted to all, and forever lonely.
I mean would you take a chick seriously if she's talking to a lot of dudes in front of you?!
It brings your stock down. Instant turn off!
Whoever is doing this is out of practice. Get out more.
I honestly really dont care. If shes not rubbing her rear end up against everyone why should i expect her to give me all of her attention.
by that logic, go for the biggest hoe in the room but the difference is that.. since men are usually so easy, she's probably got a handful of more options than you.. she might even be desperate but not as much as some men
there's 2 hoes in a room from both genders but trust that they won't end up together at the end of the day..
You do realize that some people are conversationalists & not everyone is socially private & awkward. Theres nothing wrong with holding conversation with people. I really dont care at the end of the day because i will do it again. I care about my own entertainment more than being some chicks darling prince
numbers game
before i got in my relationship,
i used to entertain a lot of guys
(not that i dated them all at the same time)
just that i'd openly talk to them
until someone monopolizes/cements my interest
i guess women just have better game
Anime avi game lol
top game
Girl u know u dont have no game lol
Guys like u cuz ur wierd & pretty
Dont fool urself
pretty girls are a dime dozen
so are men prowling for women
genuine interest is a novelty
you're not interested in people,
you're just lonely
and people can smell that
where is your chiron?
what does your 7th house look like?
Those are some big assumptions little lady.
What makes u believe im not interested in people? Why am i lonely? Can they smell which cologne im wearing today? So many questions unanswered
Chiron cancer 7th what coincidence....what does that mean? Im in need of loving
there's a scorpio woman here having the same problem like you and she's got chiron in the 7th too except she's pickier than you
i told her relatively the same thing
but she keeps coming back with the same problem..
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Remember, the zodiac is just a generalization of a persons behaviors. We do have the power of learning & free will. Thanks for the chiron reminder though. I never pay attention to it.
I mean would you take a chick seriously if she's talking to a lot of dudes in front of you?!
It brings your stock down. Instant turn off!
Whoever is doing this is out of practice. Get out more.
I honestly really dont care. If shes not rubbing her rear end up against everyone why should i expect her to give me all of her attention.
by that logic, go for the biggest hoe in the room but the difference is that.. since men are usually so easy, she's probably got a handful of more options than you.. she might even be desperate but not as much as some men
there's 2 hoes in a room from both genders but trust that they won't end up together at the end of the day..
You do realize that some people are conversationalists & not everyone is socially private & awkward. Theres nothing wrong with holding conversation with people. I really dont care at the end of the day because i will do it again. I care about my own entertainment more than being some chicks darling prince
numbers game
before i got in my relationship,
i used to entertain a lot of guys
(not that i dated them all at the same time)
just that i'd openly talk to them
until someone monopolizes/cements my interest
i guess women just have better game
Anime avi game lol
top game
Girl u know u dont have no game lol
Guys like u cuz ur wierd & pretty
Dont fool urself
pretty girls are a dime dozen
so are men prowling for women
genuine interest is a novelty
you're not interested in people,
you're just lonely
and people can smell that
where is your chiron?
what does your 7th house look like?
Those are some big assumptions little lady.
What makes u believe im not interested in people? Why am i lonely? Can they smell which cologne im wearing today? So many questions unanswered
Chiron cancer 7th what coincidence....what does that mean? Im in need of loving
I know 3 people with Chiron in 7H. They're in their 30's, 40's, and 50's. They all have problems with relationships. These three people have been single for a long time and have never been married. The guy in his 30s was a virgin until 28, I think, or he still might be... haven't talked to him about it in a long time. 😄
But chiron in 7H, according to astrologers isn't a great placement for relationships. I only half believe astrology, so in my eyes you still have hope. 😛
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Please dont feed into the delusion of the pisces moon. Not all of us are so fanciful with our idealism. I can honestly marry tomorrow if i wanted. Will i do it?
Yes
I mean would you take a chick seriously if she's talking to a lot of dudes in front of you?!
It brings your stock down. Instant turn off!
Whoever is doing this is out of practice. Get out more.
I honestly really dont care. If shes not rubbing her rear end up against everyone why should i expect her to give me all of her attention.
by that logic, go for the biggest hoe in the room but the difference is that.. since men are usually so easy, she's probably got a handful of more options than you.. she might even be desperate but not as much as some men
there's 2 hoes in a room from both genders but trust that they won't end up together at the end of the day..
You do realize that some people are conversationalists & not everyone is socially private & awkward. Theres nothing wrong with holding conversation with people. I really dont care at the end of the day because i will do it again. I care about my own entertainment more than being some chicks darling prince
numbers game
before i got in my relationship,
i used to entertain a lot of guys
(not that i dated them all at the same time)
just that i'd openly talk to them
until someone monopolizes/cements my interest
i guess women just have better game
Anime avi game lol
top game
Girl u know u dont have no game lol
Guys like u cuz ur wierd & pretty
Dont fool urself
pretty girls are a dime dozen
so are men prowling for women
genuine interest is a novelty
you're not interested in people,
you're just lonely
and people can smell that
where is your chiron?
what does your 7th house look like?
Those are some big assumptions little lady.
What makes u believe im not interested in people? Why am i lonely? Can they smell which cologne im wearing today? So many questions unanswered
Chiron cancer 7th what coincidence....what does that mean? Im in need of loving
Have you ever tried just looking for one at a time? Then if it isn’t what you want, go to the next?
If you try to get with 6 different people at once, you will end up attracted to multiple people at once. Thus, never finding the *one*
Forever attracted to all, and forever lonely.
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Why u guys keep calling me lonely
☹
I mean would you take a chick seriously if she's talking to a lot of dudes in front of you?!
It brings your stock down. Instant turn off!
Whoever is doing this is out of practice. Get out more.
I honestly really dont care. If shes not rubbing her rear end up against everyone why should i expect her to give me all of her attention.
by that logic, go for the biggest hoe in the room but the difference is that.. since men are usually so easy, she's probably got a handful of more options than you.. she might even be desperate but not as much as some men
there's 2 hoes in a room from both genders but trust that they won't end up together at the end of the day..
You do realize that some people are conversationalists & not everyone is socially private & awkward. Theres nothing wrong with holding conversation with people. I really dont care at the end of the day because i will do it again. I care about my own entertainment more than being some chicks darling prince
numbers game
before i got in my relationship,
i used to entertain a lot of guys
(not that i dated them all at the same time)
just that i'd openly talk to them
until someone monopolizes/cements my interest
i guess women just have better game
Anime avi game lol
top game
Girl u know u dont have no game lol
Guys like u cuz ur wierd & pretty
Dont fool urself
pretty girls are a dime dozen
so are men prowling for women
genuine interest is a novelty
you're not interested in people,
you're just lonely
and people can smell that
where is your chiron?
what does your 7th house look like?
Those are some big assumptions little lady.
What makes u believe im not interested in people? Why am i lonely? Can they smell which cologne im wearing today? So many questions unanswered
Chiron cancer 7th what coincidence....what does that mean? Im in need of loving
Have you ever tried just looking for one at a time? Then if it isn’t what you want, go to the next?
If you try to get with 6 different people at once, you will end up attracted to multiple people at once. Thus, never finding the *one*
Forever attracted to all, and forever lonely.
Why u guys keep calling me lonely
☹
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Sorry lol! I just read your post, and though you were asking a question when you said “Why and I’m lonely?” I didn’t realize you were asking a question to a question.
not mad
just that they don't take you seriously
i wouldn't bother a guy who is clearly enjoying himself
They want serious friendship even though we just met? Lol
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You flirt with your friends? You have issues man
All these excuses from the female dxpers make me chuckle. As I've said many times before, if you want to understand women, don't bother asking women how they tick - ask an experienced (and mature) male...
Think about it. You're in a social setting with complete strangers. How the hell can you even lock onto that one woman, knowing absolutely nothing about them other than their physical appearance (and even that can be deceiving)? In order to know them better, you're going to have to talk with them and flirting may ensue.
This all boils down to the fragile female ego, female insecurities and the princess complex.
Harsh? No, not really. Guys, think of all the times you've been in a social setting, and spotted women talking and flirting with various men, throughout the night. Were any of the men put off by the activities of these women? Unless they were acting like real hoes, the answer is usually no.
Ultimately, this is a fine example of men not being given the same slack that women, themselves, expect. In other words, double standards...
🙌
If I can't hold your attention for more than a few minutes I'm going to assume (rightly so) that there isn't much there and keep it moving. Time is money. I'm there for a reason just like you after all.
Has zero to do with ego or needing to be #1.
How about if a woman you flirting with turn around and responding to a flirting from another guy?
Same shot right? Men just don’t think about it. It’s THEIR ego hurts! We don’t have any...
My thing is you should just do you! If someone falls for you doing you then that's the person that fits you.
But to call women names and try to belittle them for not wanting you because they desire something more elegant
that's your problem and your insecurity
not theirs.
I also notice the women haters are all out in full force on this thread.
Its always the same ones too. Same broken record as well. Like come up with some new insults, mix it up a little.
Did they come there with you?
My thing is you should just do you! If someone falls for you doing you then that's the person that fits you.
But to call women names and try to belittle them for not wanting you because they desire something more elegant
that's your problem and your insecurity
not theirs.
I also notice the women haters are all out in full force on this thread.
Its always the same ones too. Same broken record as well. Like come up with some new insults, mix it up a little.
It's like we're just objects without thoughts of being, feelings, or even logic.
you don't fit into my weird worldview so you must be this and that
damn okay narcs we get it, you had a rough childhood, cry a river
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A libra woman did him wrong. So now all women are EVIL AF.
Like ok. Someone broke your heart. Welcome to the club.
But no, its now all women everywhere who are at fault.
Cool story bro.
My thing is you should just do you! If someone falls for you doing you then that's the person that fits you.
But to call women names and try to belittle them for not wanting you because they desire something more elegant
that's your problem and your insecurity
not theirs.
I also notice the women haters are all out in full force on this thread.
And yet another female dxper attempts to twist/deflect the premise of the discussion topic, instead of addressing the topic head-on, while providing some insight and thus enlightening the OP. And all because the topic matter revolves around female flaws they don't want to freely admit to...
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Everyone is flawed.
Just because some prefer to not entertain dudes who appear to flit from one shinny object to the next doesn't mean its about ego or needing to be #1.
Different strokes for different folks.
Not everything has to be about your failed relationship experiences. Lighten up.
My thing is you should just do you! If someone falls for you doing you then that's the person that fits you.
But to call women names and try to belittle them for not wanting you because they desire something more elegant
that's your problem and your insecurity
not theirs.
I also notice the women haters are all out in full force on this thread.
Its always the same ones too. Same broken record as well. Like come up with some new insults, mix it up a little.
It's like we're just objects without thoughts of being, feelings, or even logic.
you don't fit into my weird worldview so you must be this and that
damn okay narcs we get it, you had a rough childhood, cry a river
A libra woman did him wrong. So now all women are EVIL AF.
Like ok. Someone broke your heart. Welcome to the club.
But no, its now all women everywhere who are at fault.
Cool story bro.
Who?
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Gobber, gooby, whatevs his handle is
All these excuses from the female dxpers make me chuckle. As I've said many times before, if you want to understand women, don't bother asking women how they tick - ask an experienced (and mature) male...
Think about it. You're in a social setting with complete strangers. How the hell can you even lock onto that one woman, knowing absolutely nothing about them other than their physical appearance (and even that can be deceiving)? In order to know them better, you're going to have to talk with them and flirting may ensue.
This all boils down to the fragile female ego, female insecurities and the princess complex.
Harsh? No, not really. Guys, think of all the times you've been in a social setting, and spotted women talking and flirting with various men, throughout the night. Were any of the men put off by the activities of these women? Unless they were acting like real hoes, the answer is usually no.
Ultimately, this is a fine example of men not being given the same slack that women, themselves, expect. In other words, double standards...
this isn't even about gender
men would've looked down on women the same way
would they still sleep with her though? probably.
but the other way around? uhhmm..??
double standards is a real thing
and sometimes the advantage is with one over the other
it's always been that way
both egos are fragile so this doesn't
have to be some gender war
jfc not everything is about that
Oh, please! Stop deluding yourself. It's gender double standards, plain and simple.
It's funny how many women get annoyed when men eventually suss them out, with their deluded hypocrisy, and passes on that knowledge to others. Gender war?! LOL! Stop sensationalising what is a well-known fact, especially to men who have their eyes wide open.
There's nothing wrong with talking and flirting with various people in a social setting. Anyone, who's single, is a free agent and has the right to explore whatever options they encounter. Getting repeatedly intimate with different people at the same social event, yes, that's never going to go down well with onlookers, but not when all that's involved is simple getting-to-know-you communication...
jfc
both genders are prone to hypocrisy
But you're trying to sweep the key issue, of this topic, under the carpet by concentrating on the fact that hypocrisy, in general, applies to both genders.
Of course both genders can be hypocritical but that isn't what the discussion is about - it's about one aspect of female hypocrisy.
Why is it that women can freely talk in public about male hypocrisy but, when men want to publicly address female hypocrisy, women get outraged and try to derail or demonise the discussion?
when did demonizing happen?
stop sensationalizing (lol)
to be honest, the women have the advantage in the premise of the OP
and i totally agree with that premise, that's usually how it goes
it's not surprising that he came out empty-handed
OP is very confident, probably doesn't even give a shit
at all that much about being empty-handed
and that's very alpha of him
he comes off simply curious
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So now im the alpha gay friend.
Thanks sierra
All these excuses from the female dxpers make me chuckle. As I've said many times before, if you want to understand women, don't bother asking women how they tick - ask an experienced (and mature) male...
Think about it. You're in a social setting with complete strangers. How the hell can you even lock onto that one woman, knowing absolutely nothing about them other than their physical appearance (and even that can be deceiving)? In order to know them better, you're going to have to talk with them and flirting may ensue.
This all boils down to the fragile female ego, female insecurities and the princess complex.
Harsh? No, not really. Guys, think of all the times you've been in a social setting, and spotted women talking and flirting with various men, throughout the night. Were any of the men put off by the activities of these women? Unless they were acting like real hoes, the answer is usually no.
Ultimately, this is a fine example of men not being given the same slack that women, themselves, expect. In other words, double standards...
this isn't even about gender
men would've looked down on women the same way
would they still sleep with her though? probably.
but the other way around? uhhmm..??
double standards is a real thing
and sometimes the advantage is with one over the other
it's always been that way
It's about social aspergers and hypocrisy that follows.
truth
i'm tired of all these white people gender wars
they watch too many youtube videos
introverts trying to justify why they are "owed"
thanks to their favourite youtube playlist and subreddit
introverts i've come to realize are very obnoxious
been trying to break out from the I to get to the E
i'll be an ENFP someday lol
just so i don't have to associate with incels
that's literally what i've been trying to do for the last 2 years lol
I made a thread about it back then
now I hang around with the Es so that's an improvement
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You're still an I tho and stop trashing us INFJ's 😭 *knife emoji*
All these excuses from the female dxpers make me chuckle. As I've said many times before, if you want to understand women, don't bother asking women how they tick - ask an experienced (and mature) male...
Think about it. You're in a social setting with complete strangers. How the hell can you even lock onto that one woman, knowing absolutely nothing about them other than their physical appearance (and even that can be deceiving)? In order to know them better, you're going to have to talk with them and flirting may ensue.
This all boils down to the fragile female ego, female insecurities and the princess complex.
Harsh? No, not really. Guys, think of all the times you've been in a social setting, and spotted women talking and flirting with various men, throughout the night. Were any of the men put off by the activities of these women? Unless they were acting like real hoes, the answer is usually no.
Ultimately, this is a fine example of men not being given the same slack that women, themselves, expect. In other words, double standards...
this isn't even about gender
men would've looked down on women the same way
would they still sleep with her though? probably.
but the other way around? uhhmm..??
double standards is a real thing
and sometimes the advantage is with one over the other
it's always been that way
It's about social aspergers and hypocrisy that follows.
truth
i'm tired of all these white people gender wars
they watch too many youtube videos
introverts trying to justify why they are "owed"
thanks to their favourite youtube playlist and subreddit
introverts i've come to realize are very obnoxious
been trying to break out from the I to get to the E
i'll be an ENFP someday lol
just so i don't have to associate with incels
that's literally what i've been trying to do for the last 2 years lol
I made a thread about it back then
now I hang around with the Es so that's an improvement
You're still an I tho and stop trashing us INFJ's 😭 *knife emoji*
LOL I don't know if I still am, it's been two years! and longer since I even took a test
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Take it!
I feel your pain, remember when I once thought I was an ENFJ.. HA.
to answer the OP:
IMO, insecurities along with expectations being placed when that should not even be on the table.
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit.
Personally I am like the other poster, I don't compete for a mans attention, if that makes me entitled so be it, but truth be told i have self worth issues so i take myself out of the game.
That behaviour is my biggest turn-off 100% . Like loser desperate right there.
to answer the OP:
IMO, insecurities along with expectations being placed when that should not even be on the table.
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit.
Personally I am like the other poster, I don't compete for a mans attention, if that makes me entitled so be it, but truth be told i have self worth issues so i take myself out of the game.
"
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit. "
This is pretty much what Gobby was getting at, even though he thought I was trying to hijack his posts.
It's cool for the people who know what they want, know what they don't want and stick to that.
Like CC said: do you. We agree not to talk. No problem if it's kept that simple.
But the thread is about women (and for me just socially inept people in general) who don't stick to their own stated boundaries. Incels basically.
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I personally think age plays a factor in some of this too. Which I think was also mentioned.
to answer the OP:
IMO, insecurities along with expectations being placed when that should not even be on the table.
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit.
Personally I am like the other poster, I don't compete for a mans attention, if that makes me entitled so be it, but truth be told i have self worth issues so i take myself out of the game.
"
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit. "
This is pretty much what Gobby was getting at, even though he thought I was trying to hijack his posts.
It's cool for the people who know what they want, know what they don't want and stick to that.
Like CC said: do you. We agree not to talk. No problem if it's kept that simple.
But the thread is about women (and for me just socially inept people in general) who don't stick to their own stated boundaries. Incels basically.
I personally think age plays a factor in some of this too. Which I think was also mentioned.
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But guysss.... did you not catch that the op thinks women who are mad = not giving him their number.
I don't need to be angry to decide not to give you my number.
I mostly likely feel meh towards you.
Just cause you chat to a girl doesn't mean you are entitled to her number or her pussy. Js.
to answer the OP:
IMO, insecurities along with expectations being placed when that should not even be on the table.
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit.
Personally I am like the other poster, I don't compete for a mans attention, if that makes me entitled so be it, but truth be told i have self worth issues so i take myself out of the game.
"
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit. "
This is pretty much what Gobby was getting at, even though he thought I was trying to hijack his posts.
It's cool for the people who know what they want, know what they don't want and stick to that.
Like CC said: do you. We agree not to talk. No problem if it's kept that simple.
But the thread is about women (and for me just socially inept people in general) who don't stick to their own stated boundaries. Incels basically.
I personally think age plays a factor in some of this too. Which I think was also mentioned.
But guysss.... did you not catch that the op thinks women who are mad = not giving him their number.
I don't need to be angry to decide not to give you my number.
I mostly likely feel meh towards you.
Just cause you chat to a girl doesn't mean you are entitled to her number or her pussy. Js.
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I see nothing in the OP about a number @ladyneptune
"From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite. Why so much pressure without commitment? "
I was specifically addressing this post.
That behaviour is my biggest turn-off 100% . Like loser desperate right there.
Deperate loser because someone dosent choose you as their main topic of interest.
And im the insecure one?
to answer the OP:
IMO, insecurities along with expectations being placed when that should not even be on the table.
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit.
Personally I am like the other poster, I don't compete for a mans attention, if that makes me entitled so be it, but truth be told i have self worth issues so i take myself out of the game.
"
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit. "
This is pretty much what Gobby was getting at, even though he thought I was trying to hijack his posts.
It's cool for the people who know what they want, know what they don't want and stick to that.
Like CC said: do you. We agree not to talk. No problem if it's kept that simple.
But the thread is about women (and for me just socially inept people in general) who don't stick to their own stated boundaries. Incels basically.
I personally think age plays a factor in some of this too. Which I think was also mentioned.
But guysss.... did you not catch that the op thinks women who are mad = not giving him their number.
I don't need to be angry to decide not to give you my number.
I mostly likely feel meh towards you.
Just cause you chat to a girl doesn't mean you are entitled to her number or her pussy. Js.
I see nothing in the OP about a number @ladyneptune
"From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite. Why so much pressure without commitment? "
I was specifically addressing this post.
From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite.
Empty handed as in leaving with no phone numbers to hangout get to know each other better duh!
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to answer the OP:
IMO, insecurities along with expectations being placed when that should not even be on the table.
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit.
Personally I am like the other poster, I don't compete for a mans attention, if that makes me entitled so be it, but truth be told i have self worth issues so i take myself out of the game.
"
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit. "
This is pretty much what Gobby was getting at, even though he thought I was trying to hijack his posts.
It's cool for the people who know what they want, know what they don't want and stick to that.
Like CC said: do you. We agree not to talk. No problem if it's kept that simple.
But the thread is about women (and for me just socially inept people in general) who don't stick to their own stated boundaries. Incels basically.
I personally think age plays a factor in some of this too. Which I think was also mentioned.
But guysss.... did you not catch that the op thinks women who are mad = not giving him their number.
I don't need to be angry to decide not to give you my number.
I mostly likely feel meh towards you.
Just cause you chat to a girl doesn't mean you are entitled to her number or her pussy. Js.
I see nothing in the OP about a number @ladyneptune
"From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite. Why so much pressure without commitment? "
I was specifically addressing this post.
From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite.
Empty handed as in leaving with no phone numbers to hangout get to know each other better duh!
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Entitlement and expectations. Both have been mentioned and that can go for both men and women, this isn't a gender specific thing. I've had guys get upset at me when I wasn't interest in having anything further than a polite conversation. I just shrug and keep it moving.
to answer the OP:
IMO, insecurities along with expectations being placed when that should not even be on the table.
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit.
Personally I am like the other poster, I don't compete for a mans attention, if that makes me entitled so be it, but truth be told i have self worth issues so i take myself out of the game.
"
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit. "
This is pretty much what Gobby was getting at, even though he thought I was trying to hijack his posts.
It's cool for the people who know what they want, know what they don't want and stick to that.
Like CC said: do you. We agree not to talk. No problem if it's kept that simple.
But the thread is about women (and for me just socially inept people in general) who don't stick to their own stated boundaries. Incels basically.
I personally think age plays a factor in some of this too. Which I think was also mentioned.
But guysss.... did you not catch that the op thinks women who are mad = not giving him their number.
I don't need to be angry to decide not to give you my number.
I mostly likely feel meh towards you.
Just cause you chat to a girl doesn't mean you are entitled to her number or her pussy. Js.
I see nothing in the OP about a number @ladyneptune
"From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite. Why so much pressure without commitment? "
I was specifically addressing this post.
From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite.
Empty handed as in leaving with no phone numbers to hangout get to know each other better duh!
Entitlement and expectations. Both have been mentioned and that can go for both men and women, this isn't a gender specific thing. I've had guys get upset at me when I wasn't interest in having anything further than a polite conversation. I just shrug and keep it moving.
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I'm saying....I don't consider refusal to giving out my number to = being mad.
There is a disconnect there.
Women aren't mad at you flirting with other women. They aren't interested. Those are 2 verrrrryyyyy different things.
to answer the OP:
IMO, insecurities along with expectations being placed when that should not even be on the table.
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit.
Personally I am like the other poster, I don't compete for a mans attention, if that makes me entitled so be it, but truth be told i have self worth issues so i take myself out of the game.
"
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit. "
This is pretty much what Gobby was getting at, even though he thought I was trying to hijack his posts.
It's cool for the people who know what they want, know what they don't want and stick to that.
Like CC said: do you. We agree not to talk. No problem if it's kept that simple.
But the thread is about women (and for me just socially inept people in general) who don't stick to their own stated boundaries. Incels basically.
I personally think age plays a factor in some of this too. Which I think was also mentioned.
But guysss.... did you not catch that the op thinks women who are mad = not giving him their number.
I don't need to be angry to decide not to give you my number.
I mostly likely feel meh towards you.
Just cause you chat to a girl doesn't mean you are entitled to her number or her pussy. Js.
I see nothing in the OP about a number @ladyneptune
"From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite. Why so much pressure without commitment? "
I was specifically addressing this post.
From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite.
Empty handed as in leaving with no phone numbers to hangout get to know each other better duh!
Entitlement and expectations. Both have been mentioned and that can go for both men and women, this isn't a gender specific thing. I've had guys get upset at me when I wasn't interest in having anything further than a polite conversation. I just shrug and keep it moving.
Tried keeping it moving now I'm ramping up their anxiety till it backfires in their face.
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Ohh snap.
to answer the OP:
IMO, insecurities along with expectations being placed when that should not even be on the table.
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit.
Personally I am like the other poster, I don't compete for a mans attention, if that makes me entitled so be it, but truth be told i have self worth issues so i take myself out of the game.
"
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit. "
This is pretty much what Gobby was getting at, even though he thought I was trying to hijack his posts.
It's cool for the people who know what they want, know what they don't want and stick to that.
Like CC said: do you. We agree not to talk. No problem if it's kept that simple.
But the thread is about women (and for me just socially inept people in general) who don't stick to their own stated boundaries. Incels basically.
I personally think age plays a factor in some of this too. Which I think was also mentioned.
But guysss.... did you not catch that the op thinks women who are mad = not giving him their number.
I don't need to be angry to decide not to give you my number.
I mostly likely feel meh towards you.
Just cause you chat to a girl doesn't mean you are entitled to her number or her pussy. Js.
I see nothing in the OP about a number @ladyneptune
"From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite. Why so much pressure without commitment? "
I was specifically addressing this post.
From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite.
Empty handed as in leaving with no phone numbers to hangout get to know each other better duh!
Entitlement and expectations. Both have been mentioned and that can go for both men and women, this isn't a gender specific thing. I've had guys get upset at me when I wasn't interest in having anything further than a polite conversation. I just shrug and keep it moving.
I'm saying....I don't consider refusal to giving out my number to = being mad.
There is a disconnect there.
Women aren't mad at you flirting with other women. They aren't interested. Those are 2 verrrrryyyyy different things.
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Oh okay I gotcha, sorry I wasn't following.
to answer the OP:
IMO, insecurities along with expectations being placed when that should not even be on the table.
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit.
Personally I am like the other poster, I don't compete for a mans attention, if that makes me entitled so be it, but truth be told i have self worth issues so i take myself out of the game.
"
I've said this before, women compete with other women and when they see a man circling the room giving out attention to all the females, they are not "special" and if that female does not have a healthy ego, it will trigger insecurities and self worth shit. "
This is pretty much what Gobby was getting at, even though he thought I was trying to hijack his posts.
It's cool for the people who know what they want, know what they don't want and stick to that.
Like CC said: do you. We agree not to talk. No problem if it's kept that simple.
But the thread is about women (and for me just socially inept people in general) who don't stick to their own stated boundaries. Incels basically.
I personally think age plays a factor in some of this too. Which I think was also mentioned.
But guysss.... did you not catch that the op thinks women who are mad = not giving him their number.
I don't need to be angry to decide not to give you my number.
I mostly likely feel meh towards you.
Just cause you chat to a girl doesn't mean you are entitled to her number or her pussy. Js.
I see nothing in the OP about a number @ladyneptune
"From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite. Why so much pressure without commitment? "
I was specifically addressing this post.
From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite.
Empty handed as in leaving with no phone numbers to hangout get to know each other better duh!
Entitlement and expectations. Both have been mentioned and that can go for both men and women, this isn't a gender specific thing. I've had guys get upset at me when I wasn't interest in having anything further than a polite conversation. I just shrug and keep it moving.
I'm saying....I don't consider refusal to giving out my number to = being mad.
There is a disconnect there.
Women aren't mad at you flirting with other women. They aren't interested. Those are 2 verrrrryyyyy different things.
Oh okay I gotcha, sorry I wasn't following.
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Its all good lol
Lol so women are “mad” because they don’t want to entertain you?
Didn’t you admit in another thread that you’re a cheating man hoe?😂
Some of yall sag moons are something else lmao
That behaviour is my biggest turn-off 100% . Like loser desperate right there.
Deperate loser because someone dosent choose you as their main topic of interest.
And im the insecure one?
why are you even stressing OP?
you've a lot of fire placements
it's not that hard to try again
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Sometimes i just get so emotional 😖
Lol so women are “mad” because they don’t want to entertain you?
Didn’t you admit in another thread that you’re a cheating man hoe?😂
Some of yall sag moons are something else lmao
Not a sag moon thing. 😛
That behaviour is my biggest turn-off 100% . Like loser desperate right there.
Deperate loser because someone dosent choose you as their main topic of interest.
And im the insecure one?
why are you even stressing OP?
you've a lot of fire placements
it's not that hard to try again
Sometimes i just get so emotional 😖
you have a sag moon, leo venus and aries mars
bro, that makes for solid game
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😭
Really? 🤧
From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite. Why so much pressure without commitment?
how do you know they were mad? what does it mean empty handed?
can you please define?
in your opening post and name of the thread says flirting
but then you said you can talk to whomever you want... then you said communicating.... to a cashier, to a homeless person..
so what is it? talking to people, communicating or flirting with them? or talking to someone is the same like flirting? what exactly you mean by flirting? is flirting = communicating to someone?
I am just confused 🙂
so again
1. what does it mean exactly " they were mad" ? like how? describe
2. what does it mean you "ended up empty handed"? like in what way? describe
3. what is flirting in your book? its not really clear
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From a single mans perspective, Why do chicks get mad when u flirt with muliple women in the same setting? Ive ended up empty handed in some situations because i didnt choose one person to give my attention for the nite. Why so much pressure without commitment?