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He should learn what a real friendship is. It involves complete independence, no touch, no ghosting, no feelings, no massages or lap resting (ask @saweetz88 what I mean), be independent, be yourself, have guts!

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It was his Pisces moon who did all that. Just ask saweetz ?
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I know that! He IS amazing! He told me this was his best year of his life! And I am NOT his lover, but merely a friend! Shouldn't it be his best year the one he actually managed to live with his ex Gemini girlfriend?
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He should learn what a real friendship is. It involves complete independence, no touch, no ghosting, no feelings, no massages or lap resting (ask @saweetz88 what I mean), be independent, be yourself, have guts!

Site glitch, this is for @AerialView
It was his Pisces moon who did all that. Just ask saweetz ?
I know that! He IS amazing! He told me this was his best year of his life! And I am NOT his lover, but merely a friend! Shouldn't it be his best year the one he actually managed to live with his ex Gemini girlfriend?
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Only him could answer that.
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He should learn what a real friendship is. It involves complete independence, no touch, no ghosting, no feelings, no massages or lap resting (ask @saweetz88 what I mean), be independent, be yourself, have guts!

Site glitch, this is for @AerialView
It was his Pisces moon who did all that. Just ask saweetz ?
I know that! He IS amazing! He told me this was his best year of his life! And I am NOT his lover, but merely a friend! Shouldn't it be his best year the one he actually managed to live with his ex Gemini girlfriend?
Yes, he has a talent into throwing me into tantrum with such words. He does it periodically.

Only him could answer that.
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He should learn what a real friendship is. It involves complete independence, no touch, no ghosting, no feelings, no massages or lap resting (ask @saweetz88 what I mean), be independent, be yourself, have guts!

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I have seen my Aqua playing one of of his just friends hair infront of me lol. He's very very touchy.. I told him he can b too flirt lol. One time he was running away from this old woman coz he was giving her the wrong idea lol I needed to save him it was funny !!! have u guys kissed? seriously, u need to figure out his no sex issues ..
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He should learn what a real friendship is. It involves complete independence, no touch, no ghosting, no feelings, no massages or lap resting (ask @saweetz88 what I mean), be independent, be yourself, have guts!

Site glitch, this is for @AerialView
It was his Pisces moon who did all that. Just ask saweetz ?
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Exactly.. lol... I had to actually lecture him about his overly flirty touchy behaviour lol plus that venus and mars. No hope lol. Blessed him
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He should learn what a real friendship is. It involves complete independence, no touch, no ghosting, no feelings, no massages or lap resting (ask @saweetz88 what I mean), be independent, be yourself, have guts!

Site glitch, this is for @AerialView
It was his Pisces moon who did all that. Just ask saweetz ?
I know that! He IS amazing! He told me this was his best year of his life! And I am NOT his lover, but merely a friend! Shouldn't it be his best year the one he actually managed to live with his ex Gemini girlfriend?
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Ok look I don't know if he isn't sexing with another woman then dun worry about it then lol... Aqua placements r wired wen it comes to friendships. Friendship n partner n lover r very similar... I have Aqua moon I know I think alike not that the Aqua ever will tell me I'm just a friend lol... it's always me saying those words to him... like u r my best friend forever.. him rolling eyes lol... think of it this way, friendships last FOREVER ...😉
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He should learn what a real friendship is. It involves complete independence, no touch, no ghosting, no feelings, no massages or lap resting (ask @saweetz88 what I mean), be independent, be yourself, have guts!

Site glitch, this is for @AerialView
It was his Pisces moon who did all that. Just ask saweetz ?
I know that! He IS amazing! He told me this was his best year of his life! And I am NOT his lover, but merely a friend! Shouldn't it be his best year the one he actually managed to live with his ex Gemini girlfriend?

Ok look I don't know if he isn't sexing with another woman then dun worry about it then lol... Aqua placements r wired wen it comes to friendships. Friendship n partner n lover r very similar... I have Aqua moon I know I think alike not that the Aqua ever will tell me I'm just a friend lol... it's always me saying those words to him... like u r my best friend forever.. him rolling eyes lol... think of it this way, friendships last FOREVER ...😉

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I will check if he is sexting.
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He should learn what a real friendship is. It involves complete independence, no touch, no ghosting, no feelings, no massages or lap resting (ask @saweetz88 what I mean), be independent, be yourself, have guts!

Site glitch, this is for @AerialView
It was his Pisces moon who did all that. Just ask saweetz ?
I know that! He IS amazing! He told me this was his best year of his life! And I am NOT his lover, but merely a friend! Shouldn't it be his best year the one he actually managed to live with his ex Gemini girlfriend?

Ok look I don't know if he isn't sexing with another woman then dun worry about it then lol... Aqua placements r wired wen it comes to friendships. Friendship n partner n lover r very similar... I have Aqua moon I know I think alike not that the Aqua ever will tell me I'm just a friend lol... it's always me saying those words to him... like u r my best friend forever.. him rolling eyes lol... think of it this way, friendships last FOREVER ...😉


I will check if he is sexting.
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have you ever asked him why you two r not having intimate physical connection? Just express to him you would love to feel him like make love to him lolzzz don't tell me you don't care. You can't fool me 😉
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I may overthink it. He told me this morning he wished he didn't have to move, but he has serious financial problems. He is moving back to his sister's place. Which may mean actually that he might spend even more time at my place, because I am a lot closer to his workplace and he cannot ride his bike for too long because of his back problems.

It hurts me more that he didn't tell me anything and he took the decision by himself, especially that his rental place belongs to my boss. But it's true, I became too close to him and he is backing off. I am disappointed. We argued a lot last night. I am the closest any person has ever been to him. And yet, he has no clue what a friend is.He totally let me down.

As for feelings, the initial purpose was dating and it never changed. He said it many times.
Have you offered your place to him? If he told you that he wished he didn't have to move and you know he will be staying with you a lot, why not ask him if he wants to stay with you as a "roommate" This really is the perfect time to do it.
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I did, but my place is really small and I have an annoying cat. Aquas don't work like that. He needs his freedom and I can sense it. I am really sorry he feels so insecure about himself. I only wish him the best. I truly care about him, no matter what.

I am sure he will spend a lot of time in my place from now on. He got used to it and calls it his home, from time to time. But he cannot make an official move. Jokingly, I even told him that yes, I agree to pay his rent only to keep his rental. I still cannot believe he wants to move. Money means nothing to me.
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They never learn to distinguish between friendship and something else. Serves me well. He will still be around, damn it!
Yes they can. They know who is just friends platonic and who is romantic interest. They may flirt ( superficial relationships) knowing deep down they only see u as a friend. I have Aqua moon. My lover is my best friend. He is always my bested friend. I even told him I wanna be part of his life forever even just as a friend . Now I feel like it's becoming like. Family hahaha. But ofcoz it's not just a friend....there r physical intimacy involved... but, I think similar... men that do not offer me that friends as well as lovers mind set are out my door... ur Aqua is depressed... I don't know why he isnsr having sex with women.... is he gay? 😢
No, he is not gay, but I told him that I can only have sex with my lover, not casual sex. Since we have never became "lovers", he didn't touch me. He was supposed to become a monk, so he can suppress his desires very easily.
Yes but... it's not about that... any chance he's not over his ex? Aqua is crazily stubborn... maybe deep down he's reserving his sex for his ex or something like it will hurt him doing it with someone else... I honestly think for your sake you can not just drag a friendship( relationship) that doesn't involve physical connection. It's not even about the Sex. You know it. We women need love. We need touch. Love making and all.... you deserve love and someone who will hold u and show you how beautiful you are... Pisces mooners r natrual please. n I don't understand why he doesn't want to go there sexually..., you should tell him you wanna make love to him and if the relairobsip doesn't get to that point you need to part ways or something.. or you should move on to someone that does... don't lie to urself that u don't need physical intimacy. All humanneed it. It's in the highest hirechy of human needs!
I don't care about sex. I am far superior to that, even though I do very well in bed. I cannot even stand anyone touching me, except the one I have feelings for. And this is a proven fact. He says the same.

Yes but u and your Aqua need to have sex!!!!!! It's not about sex it's the physical connection that needs to b fullfiled! its the only way to know you are more than just a friend


Have sex to try and save the relationship? That is horrible advice!
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They never learn to distinguish between friendship and something else. Serves me well. He will still be around, damn it!
Yes they can. They know who is just friends platonic and who is romantic interest. They may flirt ( superficial relationships) knowing deep down they only see u as a friend. I have Aqua moon. My lover is my best friend. He is always my bested friend. I even told him I wanna be part of his life forever even just as a friend . Now I feel like it's becoming like. Family hahaha. But ofcoz it's not just a friend....there r physical intimacy involved... but, I think similar... men that do not offer me that friends as well as lovers mind set are out my door... ur Aqua is depressed... I don't know why he isnsr having sex with women.... is he gay? 😢
No, he is not gay, but I told him that I can only have sex with my lover, not casual sex. Since we have never became "lovers", he didn't touch me. He was supposed to become a monk, so he can suppress his desires very easily.
Yes but... it's not about that... any chance he's not over his ex? Aqua is crazily stubborn... maybe deep down he's reserving his sex for his ex or something like it will hurt him doing it with someone else... I honestly think for your sake you can not just drag a friendship( relationship) that doesn't involve physical connection. It's not even about the Sex. You know it. We women need love. We need touch. Love making and all.... you deserve love and someone who will hold u and show you how beautiful you are... Pisces mooners r natrual please. n I don't understand why he doesn't want to go there sexually..., you should tell him you wanna make love to him and if the relairobsip doesn't get to that point you need to part ways or something.. or you should move on to someone that does... don't lie to urself that u don't need physical intimacy. All humanneed it. It's in the highest hirechy of human needs!
I don't care about sex. I am far superior to that, even though I do very well in bed. I cannot even stand anyone touching me, except the one I have feelings for. And this is a proven fact. He says the same.

Yes but u and your Aqua need to have sex!!!!!! It's not about sex it's the physical connection that needs to b fullfiled! its the only way to know you are more than just a friend


Have sex to try and save the relationship? That is horrible advice!
Saweetz tried to think out of the box with her Taurus sun —?
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For Taurus, sex is VERY important. She couldn't stay true to her Aqua, remember? 🙂
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They never learn to distinguish between friendship and something else. Serves me well. He will still be around, damn it!
Yes they can. They know who is just friends platonic and who is romantic interest. They may flirt ( superficial relationships) knowing deep down they only see u as a friend. I have Aqua moon. My lover is my best friend. He is always my bested friend. I even told him I wanna be part of his life forever even just as a friend . Now I feel like it's becoming like. Family hahaha. But ofcoz it's not just a friend....there r physical intimacy involved... but, I think similar... men that do not offer me that friends as well as lovers mind set are out my door... ur Aqua is depressed... I don't know why he isnsr having sex with women.... is he gay? 😢
No, he is not gay, but I told him that I can only have sex with my lover, not casual sex. Since we have never became "lovers", he didn't touch me. He was supposed to become a monk, so he can suppress his desires very easily.
Yes but... it's not about that... any chance he's not over his ex? Aqua is crazily stubborn... maybe deep down he's reserving his sex for his ex or something like it will hurt him doing it with someone else... I honestly think for your sake you can not just drag a friendship( relationship) that doesn't involve physical connection. It's not even about the Sex. You know it. We women need love. We need touch. Love making and all.... you deserve love and someone who will hold u and show you how beautiful you are... Pisces mooners r natrual please. n I don't understand why he doesn't want to go there sexually..., you should tell him you wanna make love to him and if the relairobsip doesn't get to that point you need to part ways or something.. or you should move on to someone that does... don't lie to urself that u don't need physical intimacy. All humanneed it. It's in the highest hirechy of human needs!
I don't care about sex. I am far superior to that, even though I do very well in bed. I cannot even stand anyone touching me, except the one I have feelings for. And this is a proven fact. He says the same.

Yes but u and your Aqua need to have sex!!!!!! It's not about sex it's the physical connection that needs to b fullfiled! its the only way to know you are more than just a friend


Have sex to try and save the relationship? That is horrible advice!
Saweetz tried to think out of the box with her Taurus sun —?
For Taurus, sex is VERY important. She couldn't stay true to her Aqua, remember? 🙂
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Haha true that 😉
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They never learn to distinguish between friendship and something else. Serves me well. He will still be around, damn it!
Yes they can. They know who is just friends platonic and who is romantic interest. They may flirt ( superficial relationships) knowing deep down they only see u as a friend. I have Aqua moon. My lover is my best friend. He is always my bested friend. I even told him I wanna be part of his life forever even just as a friend . Now I feel like it's becoming like. Family hahaha. But ofcoz it's not just a friend....there r physical intimacy involved... but, I think similar... men that do not offer me that friends as well as lovers mind set are out my door... ur Aqua is depressed... I don't know why he isnsr having sex with women.... is he gay? 😢
No, he is not gay, but I told him that I can only have sex with my lover, not casual sex. Since we have never became "lovers", he didn't touch me. He was supposed to become a monk, so he can suppress his desires very easily.
Yes but... it's not about that... any chance he's not over his ex? Aqua is crazily stubborn... maybe deep down he's reserving his sex for his ex or something like it will hurt him doing it with someone else... I honestly think for your sake you can not just drag a friendship( relationship) that doesn't involve physical connection. It's not even about the Sex. You know it. We women need love. We need touch. Love making and all.... you deserve love and someone who will hold u and show you how beautiful you are... Pisces mooners r natrual please. n I don't understand why he doesn't want to go there sexually..., you should tell him you wanna make love to him and if the relairobsip doesn't get to that point you need to part ways or something.. or you should move on to someone that does... don't lie to urself that u don't need physical intimacy. All humanneed it. It's in the highest hirechy of human needs!
I don't care about sex. I am far superior to that, even though I do very well in bed. I cannot even stand anyone touching me, except the one I have feelings for. And this is a proven fact. He says the same.

Yes but u and your Aqua need to have sex!!!!!! It's not about sex it's the physical connection that needs to b fullfiled! its the only way to know you are more than just a friend


Have sex to try and save the relationship? That is horrible advice!
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It's not about saving a relationship. It's about moving from friendship to a relationship. There is no romantic relationship here it's purely platonic . Even just kissing.
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They never learn to distinguish between friendship and something else. Serves me well. He will still be around, damn it!
Yes they can. They know who is just friends platonic and who is romantic interest. They may flirt ( superficial relationships) knowing deep down they only see u as a friend. I have Aqua moon. My lover is my best friend. He is always my bested friend. I even told him I wanna be part of his life forever even just as a friend . Now I feel like it's becoming like. Family hahaha. But ofcoz it's not just a friend....there r physical intimacy involved... but, I think similar... men that do not offer me that friends as well as lovers mind set are out my door... ur Aqua is depressed... I don't know why he isnsr having sex with women.... is he gay? 😢
No, he is not gay, but I told him that I can only have sex with my lover, not casual sex. Since we have never became "lovers", he didn't touch me. He was supposed to become a monk, so he can suppress his desires very easily.
Yes but... it's not about that... any chance he's not over his ex? Aqua is crazily stubborn... maybe deep down he's reserving his sex for his ex or something like it will hurt him doing it with someone else... I honestly think for your sake you can not just drag a friendship( relationship) that doesn't involve physical connection. It's not even about the Sex. You know it. We women need love. We need touch. Love making and all.... you deserve love and someone who will hold u and show you how beautiful you are... Pisces mooners r natrual please. n I don't understand why he doesn't want to go there sexually..., you should tell him you wanna make love to him and if the relairobsip doesn't get to that point you need to part ways or something.. or you should move on to someone that does... don't lie to urself that u don't need physical intimacy. All humanneed it. It's in the highest hirechy of human needs!
I don't care about sex. I am far superior to that, even though I do very well in bed. I cannot even stand anyone touching me, except the one I have feelings for. And this is a proven fact. He says the same.

Yes but u and your Aqua need to have sex!!!!!! It's not about sex it's the physical connection that needs to b fullfiled! its the only way to know you are more than just a friend


Have sex to try and save the relationship? That is horrible advice!
Saweetz tried to think out of the box with her Taurus sun —?
For Taurus, sex is VERY important. She couldn't stay true to her Aqua, remember? 🙂
Haha true that 😉
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Lol. What—? I stayed true for 8 months thank u very much... no sex not even kissing anyone else.. he was the one out there dating others. Anyway, leave my situairon out of this lol.... if we were exclusive I have no problem staying true to anybody. But hey, those who say sex isn't important is kidding themseld. Do some google research... lol... my house is in Scorpio so that's double trouble... :p
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They never learn to distinguish between friendship and something else. Serves me well. He will still be around, damn it!
Yes they can. They know who is just friends platonic and who is romantic interest. They may flirt ( superficial relationships) knowing deep down they only see u as a friend. I have Aqua moon. My lover is my best friend. He is always my bested friend. I even told him I wanna be part of his life forever even just as a friend . Now I feel like it's becoming like. Family hahaha. But ofcoz it's not just a friend....there r physical intimacy involved... but, I think similar... men that do not offer me that friends as well as lovers mind set are out my door... ur Aqua is depressed... I don't know why he isnsr having sex with women.... is he gay? 😢
No, he is not gay, but I told him that I can only have sex with my lover, not casual sex. Since we have never became "lovers", he didn't touch me. He was supposed to become a monk, so he can suppress his desires very easily.
Yes but... it's not about that... any chance he's not over his ex? Aqua is crazily stubborn... maybe deep down he's reserving his sex for his ex or something like it will hurt him doing it with someone else... I honestly think for your sake you can not just drag a friendship( relationship) that doesn't involve physical connection. It's not even about the Sex. You know it. We women need love. We need touch. Love making and all.... you deserve love and someone who will hold u and show you how beautiful you are... Pisces mooners r natrual please. n I don't understand why he doesn't want to go there sexually..., you should tell him you wanna make love to him and if the relairobsip doesn't get to that point you need to part ways or something.. or you should move on to someone that does... don't lie to urself that u don't need physical intimacy. All humanneed it. It's in the highest hirechy of human needs!
I don't care about sex. I am far superior to that, even though I do very well in bed. I cannot even stand anyone touching me, except the one I have feelings for. And this is a proven fact. He says the same.

Yes but u and your Aqua need to have sex!!!!!! It's not about sex it's the physical connection that needs to b fullfiled! its the only way to know you are more than just a friend


Have sex to try and save the relationship? That is horrible advice!
Saweetz tried to think out of the box with her Taurus sun —?
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Lol I think it's my moon talking here. I don't think Taurus sun is that smart lol. ? I find Taurus to b somewhat boring..
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As a matter of fact, sex improves relationships because of the hormones it releases. But if something goes wrong, it cannot be fixed with sex. I prefer to cut it out rather than letting my head messed up with hormones. Love is purer than sex. Otherwise, it's just infatuation. No, thanks!
God you don't get it. !!!! Without Sex there is no relationship it's purely platonic. Come on. How long have u been seeing this Aqua for? he said to you that you are just a friend. Proven by lack of real physical intimacy. Plz do some research. Sex doesnt just improve the relationship. It strengthen the ones that are already strengthen. Have u heard if sex between two people is good it's 20 percents to the relationship . If it's bad it's 80% .... basically people that say they r in a relationship n having unsatisfird sex life r kidding themselves. Anyway that's totally out of topic .
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I may overthink it. He told me this morning he wished he didn't have to move, but he has serious financial problems. He is moving back to his sister's place. Which may mean actually that he might spend even more time at my place, because I am a lot closer to his workplace and he cannot ride his bike for too long because of his back problems.

It hurts me more that he didn't tell me anything and he took the decision by himself, especially that his rental place belongs to my boss. But it's true, I became too close to him and he is backing off. I am disappointed. We argued a lot last night. I am the closest any person has ever been to him. And yet, he has no clue what a friend is.He totally let me down.

As for feelings, the initial purpose was dating and it never changed. He said it many times.
Have you offered your place to him? If he told you that he wished he didn't have to move and you know he will be staying with you a lot, why not ask him if he wants to stay with you as a "roommate" This really is the perfect time to do it.

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Oh.. no... a roommate? That is becoming more like a friend....... 😢
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He should learn what a real friendship is. It involves complete independence, no touch, no ghosting, no feelings, no massages or lap resting (ask @saweetz88 what I mean), be independent, be yourself, have guts!

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It was his Pisces moon who did all that. Just ask saweetz ?
I know that! He IS amazing! He told me this was his best year of his life! And I am NOT his lover, but merely a friend! Shouldn't it be his best year the one he actually managed to live with his ex Gemini girlfriend?
I think in general, its very difficult to compete with a gemini and aqua relationship — i'm a gemini with an aqua ex and we are bestfriends and lovers. We have a very extreme relationship: when we love each other, we are all over each other wven in our sleep (holding hands while sleeping, cuddling, touchy feely) and when we argue, all hell breaks loose. But we are each other's bestfriend and we have not just emotional but vwey deep mental connection that just by looking at each other, we can tell what each of us think or feel. The instability and unpredictability of a gemini and aqua relationship is what makes it exciting and hard to get over with. Its like a drug. Like being high all the time. Addictive. If he has trouble getting over her, only he can help himself. I know you care about him but you shouldnt take the burden of making him forget and get over his past or his depression from his loss. No woman should bear that reaponsibility. You will end up hurting yourself 😢
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Thats exactly how i felt with my gemini.. And I'm only part aqua..
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I may overthink it. He told me this morning he wished he didn't have to move, but he has serious financial problems. He is moving back to his sister's place. Which may mean actually that he might spend even more time at my place, because I am a lot closer to his workplace and he cannot ride his bike for too long because of his back problems.

It hurts me more that he didn't tell me anything and he took the decision by himself, especially that his rental place belongs to my boss. But it's true, I became too close to him and he is backing off. I am disappointed. We argued a lot last night. I am the closest any person has ever been to him. And yet, he has no clue what a friend is.He totally let me down.

As for feelings, the initial purpose was dating and it never changed. He said it many times.
Have you offered your place to him? If he told you that he wished he didn't have to move and you know he will be staying with you a lot, why not ask him if he wants to stay with you as a "roommate" This really is the perfect time to do it.


Oh.. no... a roommate? That is becoming more like a friend....... 😢
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I just labeled it like that for their little scared butts. 😆 Aquas know what the deal is once they move in! lol

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I believe I will keep this thread as a proof of the turmoil one can go through when dating an Aquarius. People that post here, people that come and go, Aquarians and people dealing with them, all responding freely to a topic they are not involved into, but happily sharing their thoughts.

There is only one comment I want to make regarding sex - (for saweetz). There are two people still lingering in my mind - my first true love and this man - the only relationships without sexual activity; much more intense, because hormones don't mess up your feelings. And longer lasting. Reason for which I did not breed randomly anyway.
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by compy
I may overthink it. He told me this morning he wished he didn't have to move, but he has serious financial problems. He is moving back to his sister's place. Which may mean actually that he might spend even more time at my place, because I am a lot closer to his workplace and he cannot ride his bike for too long because of his back problems.

It hurts me more that he didn't tell me anything and he took the decision by himself, especially that his rental place belongs to my boss. But it's true, I became too close to him and he is backing off. I am disappointed. We argued a lot last night. I am the closest any person has ever been to him. And yet, he has no clue what a friend is.He totally let me down.

As for feelings, the initial purpose was dating and it never changed. He said it many times.
Have you offered your place to him? If he told you that he wished he didn't have to move and you know he will be staying with you a lot, why not ask him if he wants to stay with you as a "roommate" This really is the perfect time to do it.


Oh.. no... a roommate? That is becoming more like a friend....... 😢
I just labeled it like that for their little scared butts. 😆 Aquas know what the deal is once they move in! lol

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Hahahahha is he moving in to b ur roommate soon,😉) no don't do that darling lol. Aqua will think a room mate is really just a room mate but I get ur point
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Posted by compy
I believe I will keep this thread as a proof of the turmoil one can go through when dating an Aquarius. People that post here, people that come and go, Aquarians and people dealing with them, all responding freely to a topic they are not involved into, but happily sharing their thoughts.

There is only one comment I want to make regarding sex - (for saweetz). There are two people still lingering in my mind - my first true love and this man - the only relationships without sexual activity; much more intense, because hormones don't mess up your feelings. And longer lasting. Reason for which I did not breed randomly anyway.
Wow.... u r really something else compy
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by compy
I may overthink it. He told me this morning he wished he didn't have to move, but he has serious financial problems. He is moving back to his sister's place. Which may mean actually that he might spend even more time at my place, because I am a lot closer to his workplace and he cannot ride his bike for too long because of his back problems.

It hurts me more that he didn't tell me anything and he took the decision by himself, especially that his rental place belongs to my boss. But it's true, I became too close to him and he is backing off. I am disappointed. We argued a lot last night. I am the closest any person has ever been to him. And yet, he has no clue what a friend is.He totally let me down.

As for feelings, the initial purpose was dating and it never changed. He said it many times.
Have you offered your place to him? If he told you that he wished he didn't have to move and you know he will be staying with you a lot, why not ask him if he wants to stay with you as a "roommate" This really is the perfect time to do it.


Oh.. no... a roommate? That is becoming more like a friend....... 😢
I just labeled it like that for their little scared butts. 😆 Aquas know what the deal is once they move in! lol


Hahahahha is he moving in to b ur roommate soon,😉) no don't do that darling lol. Aqua will think a room mate is really just a room mate but I get ur point
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I actually adore him when he handles his t-shirt and requires a new clean one 🙂

We are two people that are extremely independent, he can go hungry rather than asking for food. A very slow mover. I find it rather difficult to share my house as well. I ran away from dorms in my college times and moved many times because I wanted solitude. Including staying away from my parents. This man is exactly like me. Don't be surprised that I became attached to him. We grow used to each other extremely slowly. This is not a typical story like the ones you find on dxp.

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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by compy
I may overthink it. He told me this morning he wished he didn't have to move, but he has serious financial problems. He is moving back to his sister's place. Which may mean actually that he might spend even more time at my place, because I am a lot closer to his workplace and he cannot ride his bike for too long because of his back problems.

It hurts me more that he didn't tell me anything and he took the decision by himself, especially that his rental place belongs to my boss. But it's true, I became too close to him and he is backing off. I am disappointed. We argued a lot last night. I am the closest any person has ever been to him. And yet, he has no clue what a friend is.He totally let me down.

As for feelings, the initial purpose was dating and it never changed. He said it many times.
Have you offered your place to him? If he told you that he wished he didn't have to move and you know he will be staying with you a lot, why not ask him if he wants to stay with you as a "roommate" This really is the perfect time to do it.


Oh.. no... a roommate? That is becoming more like a friend....... 😢
I just labeled it like that for their little scared butts. 😆 Aquas know what the deal is once they move in! lol


Hahahahha is he moving in to b ur roommate soon,😉) no don't do that darling lol. Aqua will think a room mate is really just a room mate but I get ur point
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He knows fully well what I want lol And who knows what his plans are. He is staying consistent and keeping me at arms length. I just keep being me. He is currently out of the country right now because of a death in the family 😢

I will just continue to be there and hope for the best. I don't hold back much though now, sine he knows how I feel about him. I figured that he keeps talking to me so only time will tell. lol

I will start looking for a roommate next month. We'll see how that goes with him, once he knows lol
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by compy
I believe I will keep this thread as a proof of the turmoil one can go through when dating an Aquarius. People that post here, people that come and go, Aquarians and people dealing with them, all responding freely to a topic they are not involved into, but happily sharing their thoughts.

There is only one comment I want to make regarding sex - (for saweetz). There are two people still lingering in my mind - my first true love and this man - the only relationships without sexual activity; much more intense, because hormones don't mess up your feelings. And longer lasting. Reason for which I did not breed randomly anyway.
Wow.... u r really something else compy
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Lmao
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by compy
I believe I will keep this thread as a proof of the turmoil one can go through when dating an Aquarius. People that post here, people that come and go, Aquarians and people dealing with them, all responding freely to a topic they are not involved into, but happily sharing their thoughts.

There is only one comment I want to make regarding sex - (for saweetz). There are two people still lingering in my mind - my first true love and this man - the only relationships without sexual activity; much more intense, because hormones don't mess up your feelings. And longer lasting. Reason for which I did not breed randomly anyway.
Wow.... u r really something else compy
Lmao
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:p