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I’m not even done reading this story but it sounds soooooo Capricorn


Why would you say so ? Do tell.

Although MoonshineLeo, he does have quite a few Goat placements.

Because i dated a Capricorn and he was like this. Would make ridiculous accusations, treated me like crap, say horrible things to me, didn’t trust you, would think you’re sleeping around?, horrible temper especially late at night... goes back and forth on his word. The DRAMA. Reading this triggers me 😂
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How did it end, and did you ever reconcile with him ?
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I’m not even done reading this story but it sounds soooooo Capricorn


Why would you say so ? Do tell.

Although MoonshineLeo, he does have quite a few Goat placements.

Because i dated a Capricorn and he was like this. Would make ridiculous accusations, treated me like crap, say horrible things to me, didn’t trust you, would think you’re sleeping around?, horrible temper especially late at night... goes back and forth on his word. The DRAMA. Reading this triggers me 😂


How did it end, and did you ever reconcile with him ?
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It ended really bad. We had a bad episode one night with his horrible temper but i stuck around but things just got worse. I didn’t respect him anymore and he knew it. Then we had our last fight where i threatend to block him and he turned around and blocked me. Only to gain his control.... we haven’t spoken since... that was in March...

I saw him at a restaurant in July and he wouldn’t stop starring at me, i completely lost my appetite. Walked right by him as if he was nothing. I can’t even look at him. I could never see him the same again and I’m sorry you have to go through this type of treatment. You don’t deserve this.
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Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batshit crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.




He is a -

Water Bearer Sun

Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)

Goat Mercury

Goat Venus

Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.
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With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!
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Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batshit crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.




He is a -

Water Bearer Sun

Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)

Goat Mercury

Goat Venus

Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.


With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!
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Bloody hell, I was looking for a man, not a father. 😆

Though in hindsight, that does explain some of his behaviours though. Thank you for writing, @aquarius09.
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Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batshit crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.




He is a -

Water Bearer Sun

Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)

Goat Mercury

Goat Venus

Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.


With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!


Bloody hell, I was looking for a man, not a father. 😆

Though in hindsight, that does explain some of his behaviours though. Thank you for writing, @aquarius09.
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My pleasure. Here's a basic guidance:

If you want a father figure, get Capricorn dominant men

If you want a guy who is nurturing like a mother, get Cancer dominant. Remember they will be emotional, a minus to a nurturing and compassionate mother of a man.

If you want a friend in a partner, get an Aqua dominant.

If you want a passionate and intense (lose yourself kinda romantic partner), get a Scorpio dominant

If you want an exciting and adventurous guy, get Aries or Sag dominant.

If you want a romantic partner with a high sex drive, get a Taurus dominant - cheat risk though.

If you want someone to better you, like a life trainer, get a Virgo dominant. They will make you efficient will all the nagging and nitpicking they'll do. You WILL leave them but you will be leaving them as a better person. LOL

The ones I didn't mention have nothing of value to offer...ironically they are also the top 3 of the 4 delusional sign of the zodiac. If you are looking for a child to babysit, go for the ones I didn't mention.
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Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batshit crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.




He is a -

Water Bearer Sun

Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)

Goat Mercury

Goat Venus

Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.


With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!


Bloody hell, I was looking for a man, not a father. 😆

Though in hindsight, that does explain some of his behaviours though. Thank you for writing, @aquarius09.


My pleasure. Here's a basic guidance:

If you want a father figure, get Capricorn dominant men

If you want a guy who is nurturing like a mother, get Cancer dominant. Remember they will be emotional, a minus to a nurturing and compassionate mother of a man.

If you want a friend in a partner, get an Aqua dominant.

If you want a passionate and intense (lose yourself kinda romantic partner), get a Scorpio dominant

If you want an exciting and adventurous guy, get Aries or Sag dominant.

If you want a romantic partner with a high sex drive, get a Taurus dominant - cheat risk though.

If you want someone to better you, like a life trainer, get a Virgo dominant. They will make you efficient will all the nagging and nitpicking they'll do. You WILL leave them but you will be leaving them as a better person. LOL

The ones I didn't mention have nothing of value to offer...ironically they are also the top 3 of the 4 delusional sign of the zodiac. If you are looking for a child to babysit, go for the ones I didn't mention.
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It is no wonder why he struggled with my highly independent yet loving to offer acts of services ways.

It would go against his 'father figure' nature.

I have already tried both those first two extremes, they both frighten me now. 😆

A Ram / Water Bearer mixture, with a dash of water ... probable Stinger still seem most intriguing to me. Masculine, adventurous, yet eccentric and quirky in a mental sense but still sensitive, emotional, and loyal. If there was a build - a - man, that would be what I want. 😈
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Posted by aquarius09

Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batshit crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.




He is a -

Water Bearer Sun

Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)

Goat Mercury

Goat Venus

Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.


With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!


Bloody hell, I was looking for a man, not a father. 😆

Though in hindsight, that does explain some of his behaviours though. Thank you for writing, @aquarius09.


My pleasure. Here's a basic guidance:

If you want a father figure, get Capricorn dominant men

If you want a guy who is nurturing like a mother, get Cancer dominant. Remember they will be emotional, a minus to a nurturing and compassionate mother of a man.

If you want a friend in a partner, get an Aqua dominant.

If you want a passionate and intense (lose yourself kinda romantic partner), get a Scorpio dominant

If you want an exciting and adventurous guy, get Aries or Sag dominant.

If you want a romantic partner with a high sex drive, get a Taurus dominant - cheat risk though.

If you want someone to better you, like a life trainer, get a Virgo dominant. They will make you efficient will all the nagging and nitpicking they'll do. You WILL leave them but you will be leaving them as a better person. LOL

The ones I didn't mention have nothing of value to offer...ironically they are also the top 3 of the 4 delusional sign of the zodiac. If you are looking for a child to babysit, go for the ones I didn't mention.


True on the Cap dominant part.

I've actually been called to be like a father to them and I have to say it's not a very pleasant experience.
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Now @Antiochus, I know where all his lectures came from.

As if he knew better than me, he was always the one needing support and advice.

He was the struggling one, not me. How ironic. 😆

I needed a SO, not another father.

It always infuriated him that I had my own will and choice. Of course I would listen to his point of view, but unlike children. A SO, especially an independent minded woman will choose to do what is best for herself. Granted with compromise and communication along the way, though being controlled is never an option.

Though after reading your story, on my other thread. I wonder if the peaceful, almost too perfect, way of life, of living with me, was why he ran in the end. He was not equipped with the skill set to cope in that environment. That he got everything he had always wanted. It was so very ideal, too honest, that it caused him to sabotage it instead.

Merely a thought that passes my mind now.
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Posted by aquarius09

Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batshit crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.




He is a -

Water Bearer Sun

Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)

Goat Mercury

Goat Venus

Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.


With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!


Bloody hell, I was looking for a man, not a father. 😆

Though in hindsight, that does explain some of his behaviours though. Thank you for writing, @aquarius09.


My pleasure. Here's a basic guidance:

If you want a father figure, get Capricorn dominant men

If you want a guy who is nurturing like a mother, get Cancer dominant. Remember they will be emotional, a minus to a nurturing and compassionate mother of a man.

If you want a friend in a partner, get an Aqua dominant.

If you want a passionate and intense (lose yourself kinda romantic partner), get a Scorpio dominant

If you want an exciting and adventurous guy, get Aries or Sag dominant.

If you want a romantic partner with a high sex drive, get a Taurus dominant - cheat risk though.

If you want someone to better you, like a life trainer, get a Virgo dominant. They will make you efficient will all the nagging and nitpicking they'll do. You WILL leave them but you will be leaving them as a better person. LOL

The ones I didn't mention have nothing of value to offer...ironically they are also the top 3 of the 4 delusional sign of the zodiac. If you are looking for a child to babysit, go for the ones I didn't mention.


True on the Cap dominant part.

I've actually been called to be like a father to them and I have to say it's not a very pleasant experience.


Now @Antiochus, I know where all his lectures came from.

As if he knew better than me, he was always the one needing support and advice.

He was the struggling one, not me. How ironic. 😆

I needed a SO, not another father.

It always infuriated him that I had my own will and choice. Of course I would listen to his point of view, but until children. A SO, especially an independent minded woman will choose to do what is best for herself. Granted with compromise and communication along the way, though being controlled is never an option.

Though after reading your story, on my other thread. I wonder if the peaceful, almost too perfect, way of life, of living with me, was why he ran in the end. He was not equipped with the skill set to cope in that environment. That he got everything he had always wanted. It was so very ideal, too honest, that it caused him to sabotage it instead.

Merely a thought that passes my mind now.


I don't know I'm not him and he is not me.

He will have his own reasons.
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Of course.

It was simply a passing thought.

Neither of us will truly know.

Only he does.
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Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batshit crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.




He is a -

Water Bearer Sun

Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)

Goat Mercury

Goat Venus

Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.


With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!


Bloody hell, I was looking for a man, not a father. 😆

Though in hindsight, that does explain some of his behaviours though. Thank you for writing, @aquarius09.


My pleasure. Here's a basic guidance:

If you want a father figure, get Capricorn dominant men

If you want a guy who is nurturing like a mother, get Cancer dominant. Remember they will be emotional, a minus to a nurturing and compassionate mother of a man.

If you want a friend in a partner, get an Aqua dominant.

If you want a passionate and intense (lose yourself kinda romantic partner), get a Scorpio dominant

If you want an exciting and adventurous guy, get Aries or Sag dominant.

If you want a romantic partner with a high sex drive, get a Taurus dominant - cheat risk though.

If you want someone to better you, like a life trainer, get a Virgo dominant. They will make you efficient will all the nagging and nitpicking they'll do. You WILL leave them but you will be leaving them as a better person. LOL

The ones I didn't mention have nothing of value to offer...ironically they are also the top 3 of the 4 delusional sign of the zodiac. If you are looking for a child to babysit, go for the ones I didn't mention.


True on the Cap dominant part.

I've actually been called to be like a father to them and I have to say it's not a very pleasant experience.
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Thanks. Be mindful of the energy you exude and the paternalistic tendencies you have in order to channel them, so that women with daddy issues are not drawn to you or that one isn't perceiving you as that.
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Posted by TheLadyScorpio

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Posted by aquarius09

Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batshit crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.




He is a -

Water Bearer Sun

Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)

Goat Mercury

Goat Venus

Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.


With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!


Bloody hell, I was looking for a man, not a father. 😆

Though in hindsight, that does explain some of his behaviours though. Thank you for writing, @aquarius09.


My pleasure. Here's a basic guidance:

If you want a father figure, get Capricorn dominant men

If you want a guy who is nurturing like a mother, get Cancer dominant. Remember they will be emotional, a minus to a nurturing and compassionate mother of a man.

If you want a friend in a partner, get an Aqua dominant.

If you want a passionate and intense (lose yourself kinda romantic partner), get a Scorpio dominant

If you want an exciting and adventurous guy, get Aries or Sag dominant.

If you want a romantic partner with a high sex drive, get a Taurus dominant - cheat risk though.

If you want someone to better you, like a life trainer, get a Virgo dominant. They will make you efficient will all the nagging and nitpicking they'll do. You WILL leave them but you will be leaving them as a better person. LOL

The ones I didn't mention have nothing of value to offer...ironically they are also the top 3 of the 4 delusional sign of the zodiac. If you are looking for a child to babysit, go for the ones I didn't mention.


True on the Cap dominant part.

I've actually been called to be like a father to them and I have to say it's not a very pleasant experience.


Thanks. Be mindful of the energy you exude and the paternalistic tendencies you have in order to channel them, so that women with daddy issues are not drawn to you or that one isn't perceiving you as that.


Yeah, but I don't think I did anything to warrant such a sentiment and statement.

Just helped or listened to her when she was sad and needed an ear. The only "odd" thing I ever did was inviting her to watching a movie at the cinema because I thought it would make her happy.

I honestly don't know how this would make one a father figure to someone.
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Is that ALL you did? If so, no that's not a daddy thing to do.