fallen inlove with your bestfriend?

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SuperMissMan
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my two bests an i hv aqua moons.
Th boy and i hve loved eachother since we were 9. we grew up together n a odd as he is il lways love him
He aske me out severl times in middle school but i wntedto keep it friendly. then he starte dating girls n i becme rotectiv f him....if he isnt with me h etter be with someone better than me or else im beating thm up 😉
Hes like this with me too. We both tried to move forward but idk 😢
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I almost fell for not my best friend, but one of my close friends in college. She was a Libran, understanding, lovable and a caring girl. We knew each other very well in no time. She was a true Libran, diplomatic and sensible. Sometimes helps to go with my weird ideas! 😄

When I needed her the most, she stood for me and helped me get over tough times in my personal front. That to me was the moment I realized that she is a very special person.

But then, we were different and we realized that. I never asked her out, but I got the feeling to stop pursuing her. We are great friends till today nonetheless.
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I have several male friends and it's always been strictly platonic with all but 2. Granted most of my male friends are gay but still. Lol

I had a Pisces friend that I ended up dating and that was a bit of a roller coaster. We had ended up back as just friends (then drifted apart) but since him I never wanted to entertain the idea again of dating a friend. Well that was until I recently I started to realize that deep down I may have developed feelings for my very close friend who is a Leo male.

I'm still questioning my feelings for my Leo friend though. I know I love him for sure as in a friend and deeply care about him but as I think more about it I might not actually be "in love" with him. Damn this cap Venus of mine always analyzing my feels! Lol

So far these two guys are the only friends of the opposite sex I've caught feelings for, although as I mentioned before I'm still questioning my actual feelings. Could just be a mini crush or this damn Venus retrograde everyone is talking about already having its effects so early. Lol 😛
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Posted by metalaquamonkey
I have several male friends and it's always been strictly platonic with all but 2. Granted most of my male friends are gay but still. Lol

I had a Pisces friend that I ended up dating and that was a bit of a roller coaster. We had ended up back as just friends (then drifted apart) but since him I never wanted to entertain the idea again of dating a friend. Well that was until I recently I started to realize that deep down I may have developed feelings for my very close friend who is a Leo male.

I'm still questioning my feelings for my Leo friend though. I know I love him for sure as in a friend and deeply care about him but as I think more about it I might not actually be "in love" with him. Damn this cap Venus of mine always analyzing my feels! Lol

So far these two guys are the only friends of the opposite sex I've caught feelings for, although as I mentioned before I'm still questioning my actual feelings. Could just be a mini crush or this damn Venus retrograde everyone is talking about already having its effects so early. Lol 😛
do it do it do itttttttttttttttt
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Posted by lisabethur8
if anything, dont be friends with men.

because they will want to hump you in their head. It's better not to be around that. Men already hump women just by looking at their photos.
Sometimes friendships with men are more relaxing/drama free. Women tend to eventually suffer from the green eyed monster and hate each other. I get along with both genders and I'd say I had mostly guy friends vs. women, not because I couldn't get along with women, I just like how men are with each other: so laid back. They fight and then get over it. I like their style of joking. Women can start off all nice, but eventually will start to feel jealousy for some reason or another and start to pass underhanded comments. So, unfortunately even though a strictly platonic friendship can be a lot of fun, it comes with the whole caveat that the guy may secretly like you.