@pinkbird03
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How should I go about pursuing him?
How to Pursue Him Effectively
Focus on letting him take the lead while showing genuine interest. Be confident, maintain open communication, and give him space to express his feelings. Patience and subtle encouragement can help build a connection naturally without appearing too eager.
Both of you guys charts are very masculine.
You might be impatience but let him chase you. If he's not then he's not that into you.
@HoneyXx come get your girl
Posted by LadyNeptune
@HoneyXx come get your girl😩😂😂😂
The sags have lost their damn minds lately
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Lol
You should never have to Persue, let love find its way to you.
Not the warmest of placements
I'd stand back and see if he is man enough to pursue you
Aqua Sun and Venus 😱
@seleukos
Any advice? 😊
Posted by pisceswoman123
@seleukosAny advice? 😊
Good call Miss
He seems to be the wisest Aqua man here 👍
Posted by pisceswoman123
@seleukosAny advice? 😊
Reach out to him.
You need to make your presence known for his Sun/moon combination because that one can get distracted easily.
Don't play sitting duck and expect him to pursue you. Do both. Chase and be chased or things could become too boring for him.
The most important thing however is to keep your moon ich check. He will continuously put you off balance.
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So some people would say don’t be pushy with an aqua because they don’t like clingy.
Let him come to you.
Not the case with this combo?
I had sex with a guy on the first date....first time in my life and I thought "what the hell am I doing"?
He made contact and was very keen to meet and 5 years later, he was still chasing me lol
I would not contact ....
To me, it feels kind of demoralising to have to remind a guy to want to see me again
Posted by pisceswoman123
@seleukosAny advice? 😊
Reach out to him.
You need to make your presence known for his Sun/moon combination because that one can get distracted easily.
Don't play sitting duck and expect him to pursue you. Do both. Chase and be chased or things could become too boring for him.
The most important thing however is to keep your moon ich check. He will continuously put you off balance.
So some people would say don’t be pushy with an aqua because they don’t like clingy.
Let him come to you.
Not the case with this combo?
Being pushy and proactive aren't the same thing.
Sag moon doesn't like games but prefers the other side to go straight to the point.
Her being a Sag should make things easier but she needs to respect him and not chicken out when it matters. The best way is to be clear and consistent with her intentions while respecting his boundaries, if he sets some.
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I see, I see.
No chicken out when it matters... can you explain?
And aqua are straight forward too so that combo must be very against games
My father had a Sag Moon and Aries Sun
He pursued my mother for the whole time they were married lol
Very romantic, very masculine and fiery
Posted by pisceswoman123
@seleukosAny advice? 😊
Reach out to him.
You need to make your presence known for his Sun/moon combination because that one can get distracted easily.
Don't play sitting duck and expect him to pursue you. Do both. Chase and be chased or things could become too boring for him.
The most important thing however is to keep your moon ich check. He will continuously put you off balance.
So some people would say don’t be pushy with an aqua because they don’t like clingy.
Let him come to you.
Not the case with this combo?
Being pushy and proactive aren't the same thing.
Sag moon doesn't like games but prefers the other side to go straight to the point.
Her being a Sag should make things easier but she needs to respect him and not chicken out when it matters. The best way is to be clear and consistent with her intentions while respecting his boundaries, if he sets some.
I see, I see.
No chicken out when it matters... can you explain?
And aqua are straight forward too so that combo must be very against games
Example:
My Sag neighbor somewhat asked my out once and I said "sure, just tell me when and where."
She never did that and with that the case was closed for me despite all that came afterwards.
I'm very much into games but not when it's about the coreof things. I have no problem with fooling around, teasing, push and pull etc. but never try to manipulate or control me.
Lying is also a death sentence.
The best thing is to be clear about what you want and then start fooling around a bit to keep things lighthearted and without expectations.
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After your response to your neighbor I am surprised she didn’t follow through. That was very welcoming response from you.
Yes, that is what I meant with games the manipulation and mind games that some people do.
The others are just fun to keep things interesting😄
Posted by pisceswoman123
@seleukosAny advice? 😊
Reach out to him.
You need to make your presence known for his Sun/moon combination because that one can get distracted easily.
Don't play sitting duck and expect him to pursue you. Do both. Chase and be chased or things could become too boring for him.
The most important thing however is to keep your moon ich check. He will continuously put you off balance.
So some people would say don’t be pushy with an aqua because they don’t like clingy.
Let him come to you.
Not the case with this combo?
Being pushy and proactive aren't the same thing.
Sag moon doesn't like games but prefers the other side to go straight to the point.
Her being a Sag should make things easier but she needs to respect him and not chicken out when it matters. The best way is to be clear and consistent with her intentions while respecting his boundaries, if he sets some.
I see, I see.
No chicken out when it matters... can you explain?
And aqua are straight forward too so that combo must be very against games
Example:
My Sag neighbor somewhat asked my out once and I said "sure, just tell me when and where."
She never did that and with that the case was closed for me despite all that came afterwards.
I'm very much into games but not when it's about the coreof things. I have no problem with fooling around, teasing, push and pull etc. but never try to manipulate or control me.
Lying is also a death sentence.
The best thing is to be clear about what you want and then start fooling around a bit to keep things lighthearted and without expectations.
After your response to your neighbor I am surprised she didn’t follow through. That was very welcoming response from you.
Yes, that is what I meant with games the manipulation and mind games that some people do.
The others are just fun to keep things interesting😄
Told you women don't appreciate me. 😛
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Well, you're the most interesting Aqua man here...
Posted by pisceswoman123
@seleukosAny advice? 😊
Reach out to him.
You need to make your presence known for his Sun/moon combination because that one can get distracted easily.
Don't play sitting duck and expect him to pursue you. Do both. Chase and be chased or things could become too boring for him.
The most important thing however is to keep your moon ich check. He will continuously put you off balance.
So some people would say don’t be pushy with an aqua because they don’t like clingy.
Let him come to you.
Not the case with this combo?
Being pushy and proactive aren't the same thing.
Sag moon doesn't like games but prefers the other side to go straight to the point.
Her being a Sag should make things easier but she needs to respect him and not chicken out when it matters. The best way is to be clear and consistent with her intentions while respecting his boundaries, if he sets some.
I see, I see.
No chicken out when it matters... can you explain?
And aqua are straight forward too so that combo must be very against games
Example:
My Sag neighbor somewhat asked my out once and I said "sure, just tell me when and where."
She never did that and with that the case was closed for me despite all that came afterwards.
I'm very much into games but not when it's about the coreof things. I have no problem with fooling around, teasing, push and pull etc. but never try to manipulate or control me.
Lying is also a death sentence.
The best thing is to be clear about what you want and then start fooling around a bit to keep things lighthearted and without expectations.
After your response to your neighbor I am surprised she didn’t follow through. That was very welcoming response from you.
Yes, that is what I meant with games the manipulation and mind games that some people do.
The others are just fun to keep things interesting😄
Told you women don't appreciate me. 😛
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Yes they do. I see it here every day😛
Posted by pisceswoman123
@seleukosAny advice? 😊
Reach out to him.
You need to make your presence known for his Sun/moon combination because that one can get distracted easily.
Don't play sitting duck and expect him to pursue you. Do both. Chase and be chased or things could become too boring for him.
The most important thing however is to keep your moon ich check. He will continuously put you off balance.
So some people would say don’t be pushy with an aqua because they don’t like clingy.
Let him come to you.
Not the case with this combo?
Being pushy and proactive aren't the same thing.
Sag moon doesn't like games but prefers the other side to go straight to the point.
Her being a Sag should make things easier but she needs to respect him and not chicken out when it matters. The best way is to be clear and consistent with her intentions while respecting his boundaries, if he sets some.
I see, I see.
No chicken out when it matters... can you explain?
And aqua are straight forward too so that combo must be very against games
Example:
My Sag neighbor somewhat asked my out once and I said "sure, just tell me when and where."
She never did that and with that the case was closed for me despite all that came afterwards.
I'm very much into games but not when it's about the coreof things. I have no problem with fooling around, teasing, push and pull etc. but never try to manipulate or control me.
Lying is also a death sentence.
The best thing is to be clear about what you want and then start fooling around a bit to keep things lighthearted and without expectations.
After your response to your neighbor I am surprised she didn’t follow through. That was very welcoming response from you.
Yes, that is what I meant with games the manipulation and mind games that some people do.
The others are just fun to keep things interesting😄
Told you women don't appreciate me. 😛
Yes they do. I see it here every day😛
Your Pisces parts are delusional again. 😛
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Oh no! I don’t think is me that is delusional😄
Posted by pisceswoman123
@seleukosAny advice? 😊
Reach out to him.
You need to make your presence known for his Sun/moon combination because that one can get distracted easily.
Don't play sitting duck and expect him to pursue you. Do both. Chase and be chased or things could become too boring for him.
The most important thing however is to keep your moon ich check. He will continuously put you off balance.
So some people would say don’t be pushy with an aqua because they don’t like clingy.
Let him come to you.
Not the case with this combo?
Being pushy and proactive aren't the same thing.
Sag moon doesn't like games but prefers the other side to go straight to the point.
Her being a Sag should make things easier but she needs to respect him and not chicken out when it matters. The best way is to be clear and consistent with her intentions while respecting his boundaries, if he sets some.
I see, I see.
No chicken out when it matters... can you explain?
And aqua are straight forward too so that combo must be very against games
Example:
My Sag neighbor somewhat asked my out once and I said "sure, just tell me when and where."
She never did that and with that the case was closed for me despite all that came afterwards.
I'm very much into games but not when it's about the coreof things. I have no problem with fooling around, teasing, push and pull etc. but never try to manipulate or control me.
Lying is also a death sentence.
The best thing is to be clear about what you want and then start fooling around a bit to keep things lighthearted and without expectations.
After your response to your neighbor I am surprised she didn’t follow through. That was very welcoming response from you.
Yes, that is what I meant with games the manipulation and mind games that some people do.
The others are just fun to keep things interesting😄
Told you women don't appreciate me. 😛
Well, you're the most interesting Aqua man here...
Sounds more like a curse. 😄
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Back handed compliment maybe ? 😛
My intensions were pure 😇
Posted by pisceswoman123
@seleukosAny advice? 😊
Reach out to him.
You need to make your presence known for his Sun/moon combination because that one can get distracted easily.
Don't play sitting duck and expect him to pursue you. Do both. Chase and be chased or things could become too boring for him.
The most important thing however is to keep your moon ich check. He will continuously put you off balance.
So some people would say don’t be pushy with an aqua because they don’t like clingy.
Let him come to you.
Not the case with this combo?
Being pushy and proactive aren't the same thing.
Sag moon doesn't like games but prefers the other side to go straight to the point.
Her being a Sag should make things easier but she needs to respect him and not chicken out when it matters. The best way is to be clear and consistent with her intentions while respecting his boundaries, if he sets some.
I see, I see.
No chicken out when it matters... can you explain?
And aqua are straight forward too so that combo must be very against games
Example:
My Sag neighbor somewhat asked my out once and I said "sure, just tell me when and where."
She never did that and with that the case was closed for me despite all that came afterwards.
I'm very much into games but not when it's about the coreof things. I have no problem with fooling around, teasing, push and pull etc. but never try to manipulate or control me.
Lying is also a death sentence.
The best thing is to be clear about what you want and then start fooling around a bit to keep things lighthearted and without expectations.
After your response to your neighbor I am surprised she didn’t follow through. That was very welcoming response from you.
Yes, that is what I meant with games the manipulation and mind games that some people do.
The others are just fun to keep things interesting😄
Told you women don't appreciate me. 😛
Well, you're the most interesting Aqua man here...
Definitely. There's another one who sounds like a real bastard, but Seleukos is pretty chill.
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... not sure a about the bastard one, who do you mean ? S is by far the most articulate and intelligent one
Posted by pisceswoman123
@seleukosAny advice? 😊
Reach out to him.
You need to make your presence known for his Sun/moon combination because that one can get distracted easily.
Don't play sitting duck and expect him to pursue you. Do both. Chase and be chased or things could become too boring for him.
The most important thing however is to keep your moon ich check. He will continuously put you off balance.
So some people would say don’t be pushy with an aqua because they don’t like clingy.
Let him come to you.
Not the case with this combo?
Being pushy and proactive aren't the same thing.
Sag moon doesn't like games but prefers the other side to go straight to the point.
Her being a Sag should make things easier but she needs to respect him and not chicken out when it matters. The best way is to be clear and consistent with her intentions while respecting his boundaries, if he sets some.
I see, I see.
No chicken out when it matters... can you explain?
And aqua are straight forward too so that combo must be very against games
Example:
My Sag neighbor somewhat asked my out once and I said "sure, just tell me when and where."
She never did that and with that the case was closed for me despite all that came afterwards.
I'm very much into games but not when it's about the coreof things. I have no problem with fooling around, teasing, push and pull etc. but never try to manipulate or control me.
Lying is also a death sentence.
The best thing is to be clear about what you want and then start fooling around a bit to keep things lighthearted and without expectations.
After your response to your neighbor I am surprised she didn’t follow through. That was very welcoming response from you.
Yes, that is what I meant with games the manipulation and mind games that some people do.
The others are just fun to keep things interesting😄
Told you women don't appreciate me. 😛
Well, you're the most interesting Aqua man here...
Sounds more like a curse. 😄
Back handed compliment maybe ? 😛
My intensions were pure 😇
That what they all say. 😛
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Haahaa ... don't believe a word
It will all end in tears 🙃
Posted by Aquarelle
You shouldn't.Aqua sun, Sag Moon here.
I like my freedom and don't like to be tied down. If he's anything like me, you better let him come to you or he will feel smothered. In spite of my Sag moon, sags are usually a bit too much of a good thing for me.
Anyway, personally I don't think women should chase anyway. His mars is in a cardinal sign (Libra) so he will initiate if he's interested.
But tbh I don't think your moon signs are a good match. Your moons are trine, but your moon is opposite his sun. Your moon is fixed, his is mutable. On the other hand, your Venus in Sag is sextile his Mars in Libra and it could provide an harmonious aspect. Have you done a synastry chart?
yeah I have in the past used astrowin, do you have a favorite website for the report?
Update:
Ok so for the past 2 weeks, I texted him on 3 separate occasions.. just imitating a friendly conversation nothing really came out of any of it
UNTIL
he texted me yest. and asked me how I was doing and asked me out
Posted by Aquarelle
You shouldn't.Aqua sun, Sag Moon here.
I like my freedom and don't like to be tied down. If he's anything like me, you better let him come to you or he will feel smothered. In spite of my Sag moon, sags are usually a bit too much of a good thing for me.
Why do you say this? What ends up happening?
Posted by Aquarelle
You shouldn't.Aqua sun, Sag Moon here.
I like my freedom and don't like to be tied down. If he's anything like me, you better let him come to you or he will feel smothered. In spite of my Sag moon, sags are usually a bit too much of a good thing for me.
Why do you say this? What ends up happening?
What happens is that I feel they come on too strong, talk too much about themselves or come across as too self centered. For me their energy is too fiery, too energetic. It makes me restless so I retreat and are naturally drawn to less fiery energy. I personally like air and water energy more but that's perhaps because my chart is water dominant.
I'm getting old 😄
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lol. ok. That makes sense. I can come on pretty strong and then ease up and ignore 😄 I am selfish but I don't know if that's the same as self-centered. I'm gonna have to google it 😆
But it all makes sense, cause it is true of fiery signs. I have lots of water too and am quite comfortable planning travel a few times a year and sitting at home sometimes.
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You let him pursue you.