Hearing the same question for Aqua men... (Page 2)

You are on page out of 2 | Reverse Order
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by saweetz1988
a nice normal libra man who's keen on giving love n commitment .. serious .. too nice... everything I want in a partner... though my heart is calling this Aqua man who can't give me that commitment....
Classic tale of wanting what you can't have. Sometimes the grass isn't greener on the other side.

click to expand

I don't know though.... libra man can't give me the passion ... I'm also not physically attracted to him
Profile picture of justagirl
SelenaKyle
@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 6657 · Posts: 25221 · Topics: 77
Posted by starwars
not that hard if you get where they're coming from.

their actions and the way they behave are really different than most people like, they dont think texting you daily is a form of commitment, instead they think giving you space and believing that you're still there vice versa is the ultimate form of commitment and loyality LOL

I know it sounds weird but I get it cause im the same way.



- if you can play the same game, then that's great. you have to be that way though, because they can see through bs.

- their idea of love is quite simple: you do you, I do me and we share that together. if you like this approach then it can work.

- call them out when needed to, if an aqua sensed that you're too forgiving and love them hell a lot and will always be there. they will sure have soft spot for you but that wont stop them from being aloof. hell they can reach a point where they feel you're too good for them and call it quits. I do think they need to be cornered 60% of the time.

- don't give your all until you're sure he's worth it. equally invest in the relationship. with aquas you need to mirror them because it helps them realize how they are coming across. always talk with logic too.

- be direct, ask direct questions and expect direct answers. Aquas are seriously one of the few signs that tells you how it is. Idk if you'll run into one who dont know what the fuck he wants but that will be his answer and its for you to decide whether to go with it or not.

- through both words and actions you can see whether they're the real deal or not look out for stuff like: spending time with you, letting you in into their world, talking about you to their friends, sharing their interest with you, asking for your interests and trying to get into it, going out of their way for you, asking for your opinion, reacting to whatever you do say. (they dont bother if they arent into you)

- they can be really blind whenever they mess up, you need to tell them exactly what they've done, how it made u feel and how to solve it. they are really collaborative and open to compromise if they understood what is the problem and why its a problem because they despise drama and would rather get over with it asap.

- what i find similar between aquas and virgos is the aloofness because we have the head vs heart thing going on. it make us look shady even when not intented to. I think both signs look for pure love where they don't lose themselves in the porocess but rather understand and grow together and share the experience with each other

- I also think aquas are very insecure, they're aware of their shortcomings, they don't feel good enough regardless how 'alpha' they are lol. They want someone to understand them and accept them while that someone doesn't get trashed on, lost or hurt in the process.

I do believe all it takes is to believe in them for them to believe in you (its quite endearing) The relationship can be so rewarding if you have an open mind and is able to understand their weird prespective while being true to yourself and who you are. Aquas are the best, they make great lovers who geniunely care about your well being and would put you first if you figured how to deal with them. The excitement and spark will always be there.

#EssaysWithStarwars
Girl why you spilling our secrets 🤗

Everything you said is me lol it's kinda creepy how well you know us.
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by saweetz1988
a nice normal libra man who's keen on giving love n commitment .. serious .. too nice... everything I want in a partner... though my heart is calling this Aqua man who can't give me that commitment....
Classic tale of wanting what you can't have. Sometimes the grass isn't greener on the other side.


I don't know though.... libra man can't give me the passion ... I'm also not physically attracted to him
click to expand

If your not physically attracted to him it would be a good idea to stop going on dates with him and leading him on.
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by saweetz1988


Not meaning to budge in this cuteness but why do I have this exactly similar thing with Aqua guy? Is it because my moon is in Aqua?


Lol no problem! Thing is Aquarius like a hint of jealousy. If you can show it in subtlety or if we can sense your jealousy (and it won't cause any major trouble) and you try to hide it...then that turns us on. It makes us want you for some strange reason. We go from nonchalant -> passionate and loving in an instant.

I'd imagine you are the same way since you have an Aqua moon and moons are supposed to represent who we already are and how we internalize our feelings. Sun signs are what we try to aspire to be and how we project our personality to the world. Rising is how we see the world and how the world sees us at first glance.
the other day, he told me he was spending time with his boys before he went out dancing( to see me) , i didn't even ask him..and i said.. oh ok ! thats good !! and he's like * are you jealous? *

and i'm like..nooo ! why would i be jealous?

lol.. its almost like he wants me to be jealous or something...

i try so hard not to be jealous coz i used to be like that when i was a lot younger now I'm not like that at all..

well maybe deep down but i will never show it lol...

at times, like today he was active n he didn't reply so i jokingly said, ...aww u r chatting up other girls filling up ur roster...as i can imagine ur penis needs surviving coz i will be away for a month...

lol n he's like what r u talking about? i'm working n my computer is on babe...

n i said, its ok I'm just teasing n u dun have to explain ur self! though thank u lol

this is our kind of play at the moment..its exhausting for me to be honest lol
Yeah he does like to make you jealous but he doesn't like you to get jealous if he's not doing anything purposely to cause that. So it's like, it's on my terms only and when I feel like it. Thing is, how are you supposed to know that?

Acting like you could care less will get him worked up... but teasing him in that way, he'll thinking your just fishing

I was acting like I cudnt care less at that particular moment... so he was over last night and oh my he was super protective and jealous.kept asking about the other guy, asking if I'm chatting to other men, purposely leaving marks on my body n be like * I'm leaving my mark on you!! *.... so I said u r a lot more possessive than what u try to show the world and he's like... I sure am... so my moon in Aqua analysis was right! He's actually a possessive guy... n it took me dating other men for him to finally show that side fully.. we had a wonderful wonderful night.. he keeps saying he loves being with me and we can just sit and chat for hours . He says he loves how honest we are to each other... perhaps this is looking a lot brighter than I thought... he came closer after I expressed my feelings... though he says, he's never fully fully loved anyone before so I said that's because ur idea of love n partner is impossible to achieve ... n the moment that person does something that doesn't fit that u just delete ur feelings for her n he's like... yeah that's true ... all in all, I still love my Aqua guy lol... I havnt moved on much have I lol


Yes that is extremely positive for him to do all of that. Just don't become too exited until he finally professes his feelings and commits to you. Aquarius are known to be smooth talkers, they know exactly what to say to reel you in so be careful. But other than everything seems great. Just don't forget to call him out on his errors and don't let him overstep boundaries. Treat him like a kid who needs discipline. We love that! Because we are all over the place if you can be centered and disciplined and carry that over then he will fall for you. But remember I said discipline not overbearing.
click to expand


Got it girlfriend !! Yes I do all of that pretty well... I am pretty centred and disciplined lol.... though no I am not demanding... I don't think he says those things to make me think that he's jealous of me coz it's becoming more obvious how dominant he is the more he falls or become closer.... he can't hide his feelings with his eyes. They get all suspicious and upset lol.... he is like a kid most of the time... and u r right, as much as he doesn't like full on controlling dominant women he also appreciates honestly and someone who know what she wants and play her cards straight out.... I am still going to continue having my options open, though I don't think I will sleep with other men.:: just chatting for the time being unless the other guy is better than him and more worthy.. 🙂 you r amazing lady.... u noe I do operate a lot like an Aqua ... we have our own unique ways of living life and I think that's why we understand each other no matter how insane we can laugh it out... he calls me his partner in crime.... I like that about us... no expectation just going to enjoy the ride and keep our communication , honest and this amazing friendship/lover going... then shud b good 🙂
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by saweetz1988
a nice normal libra man who's keen on giving love n commitment .. serious .. too nice... everything I want in a partner... though my heart is calling this Aqua man who can't give me that commitment....
Classic tale of wanting what you can't have. Sometimes the grass isn't greener on the other side.


I don't know though.... libra man can't give me the passion ... I'm also not physically attracted to him
If your not physically attracted to him it would be a good idea to stop going on dates with him and leading him on.
click to expand


Yah.... I will give him one more shot n decide...🙂
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by starwars
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by starwars
Posted by justagirl


Girl why you spilling our secrets 🤗

Everything you said is me lol it's kinda creepy how well you know us.
ViS powers bruh! I need to know the ones I love inside out 😈

🤗

Venus in Scorpio? Ehhhhh shivers !! lol at least u r not a sag!!! Hehehe


lol sags have it the worst
click to expand


Trust me I know.... n u noe that I noe hahaha
Profile picture of saweetz1988
saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by saweetz1988


Not meaning to budge in this cuteness but why do I have this exactly similar thing with Aqua guy? Is it because my moon is in Aqua?


Lol no problem! Thing is Aquarius like a hint of jealousy. If you can show it in subtlety or if we can sense your jealousy (and it won't cause any major trouble) and you try to hide it...then that turns us on. It makes us want you for some strange reason. We go from nonchalant -> passionate and loving in an instant.

I'd imagine you are the same way since you have an Aqua moon and moons are supposed to represent who we already are and how we internalize our feelings. Sun signs are what we try to aspire to be and how we project our personality to the world. Rising is how we see the world and how the world sees us at first glance.
the other day, he told me he was spending time with his boys before he went out dancing( to see me) , i didn't even ask him..and i said.. oh ok ! thats good !! and he's like * are you jealous? *

and i'm like..nooo ! why would i be jealous?

lol.. its almost like he wants me to be jealous or something...

i try so hard not to be jealous coz i used to be like that when i was a lot younger now I'm not like that at all..

well maybe deep down but i will never show it lol...

at times, like today he was active n he didn't reply so i jokingly said, ...aww u r chatting up other girls filling up ur roster...as i can imagine ur penis needs surviving coz i will be away for a month...

lol n he's like what r u talking about? i'm working n my computer is on babe...

n i said, its ok I'm just teasing n u dun have to explain ur self! though thank u lol

this is our kind of play at the moment..its exhausting for me to be honest lol
Yeah he does like to make you jealous but he doesn't like you to get jealous if he's not doing anything purposely to cause that. So it's like, it's on my terms only and when I feel like it. Thing is, how are you supposed to know that?

Acting like you could care less will get him worked up... but teasing him in that way, he'll thinking your just fishing

I was acting like I cudnt care less at that particular moment... so he was over last night and oh my he was super protective and jealous.kept asking about the other guy, asking if I'm chatting to other men, purposely leaving marks on my body n be like * I'm leaving my mark on you!! *.... so I said u r a lot more possessive than what u try to show the world and he's like... I sure am... so my moon in Aqua analysis was right! He's actually a possessive guy... n it took me dating other men for him to finally show that side fully.. we had a wonderful wonderful night.. he keeps saying he loves being with me and we can just sit and chat for hours . He says he loves how honest we are to each other... perhaps this is looking a lot brighter than I thought... he came closer after I expressed my feelings... though he says, he's never fully fully loved anyone before so I said that's because ur idea of love n partner is impossible to achieve ... n the moment that person does something that doesn't fit that u just delete ur feelings for her n he's like... yeah that's true ... all in all, I still love my Aqua guy lol... I havnt moved on much have I lol


Yes that is extremely positive for him to do all of that. Just don't become too exited until he finally professes his feelings and commits to you. Aquarius are known to be smooth talkers, they know exactly what to say to reel you in so be careful. But other than everything seems great. Just don't forget to call him out on his errors and don't let him overstep boundaries. Treat him like a kid who needs discipline. We love that! Because we are all over the place if you can be centered and disciplined and carry that over then he will fall for you. But remember I said discipline not overbearing.

Got it girlfriend !! Yes I do all of that pretty well... I am pretty centred and disciplined lol.... though no I am not demanding... I don't think he says those things to make me think that he's jealous of me coz it's becoming more obvious how dominant he is the more he falls or become closer.... he can't hide his feelings with his eyes. They get all suspicious and upset lol.... he is like a kid most of the time... and u r right, as much as he doesn't like full on controlling dominant women he also appreciates honestly and someone who know what she wants and play her cards straight out.... I am still going to continue having my options open, though I don't think I will sleep with other men.:: just chatting for the time being unless the other guy is better than him and more worthy.. 🙂 you r amazing lady.... u noe I do operate a lot like an Aqua ... we have our own unique ways of living life and I think that's why we understand each other no matter how insane we can laugh it out... he calls me his partner in crime.... I like that about us... no expectation just going to enjoy the ride and keep our communication , honest and this amazing friendship/lover going... then shud b good 🙂


Yes just enjoy your time with him and don't add unnecessary stress to your relationship
click to expand

Very true thank u 😉