Just went MIA

All summer I have been going to this dog park and this Aquarian guy was there and I noticed he makes sure he is there when I am. We used to stay there for an hour and now it’s turned into fours hours... we talk about everything! He is divorced but his ex lives there to co-parent and she’s a recovering addict.

We have been hanging out all morning until late evenings because we both work from home. I asked him to a comedy club and he flat out said, NO with no explanation. I asked him to something else and he said he hates going out and that he is a homebody.

The other day at the park I was carrying my dogs and coffee and he was so grumpy saying it was too cold for him and he’s leaving to go home and watch football. Kept bitching to me about the weather and I said, “You know I don’t control the weather, don’t you?” He laughed and said he would call me later and never did and he stopped his good morning texts.

When I asked him what was wrong he said he doesn’t want to lose my friendship but he can’t be “that” guy for me.

I asked if something happened between him and his ex and he said, “She’s a loser.” I then asked if he’d ever take her back if she got her act together and he said, “No, too much stuff has happened and I don’t trust her and besides she would never take me back.”

They have been divorced for six years.

I read somewhere Aquarians go back to their one love and also read they are honest but do disappearing acts.

People think I’m crazy for being with him in the first place because of the ex. He pursued me and has been honest about his situation and claims he feels a bond with me and can’t believe how well I know him in a short amount of time. Said my intuition is creepy!

So one morning he sends me an XOXO text and then gets mad at the weather and got mad at me when I asked him to stay with me 15 more min until others arrived. Do I let him be or confront him?

Who says, “Besides she wouldn’t take me back” unless he still loves her.

I would never go to a comedy club 😂

-When I asked him what was wrong he said he doesn’t want to lose my friendship but he can’t be “that” guy for me.-

In my experience when aquarius are really into you they want to be “that” guy and they don’t disappear.