Wow we really are opposites 😂😂😂 And that is so sweet 😍😂
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Posted by BrittniePosted by joyranPosted by Brittnie
I don’t know this wouldn’t send. Pissing me off anyway, here it is.
That’s where we are similar. I’m the same way but not with him. He is the only one that I’ve never lost feelings for. I’m Aqua, Sag dominant so I was a commitment phone lol I realized with this relationship that a lot of the problems I had were in my head. He said the same thing when he left. He apologized he knew it was him and not me because I begged him to tell me. We were both at fault and he realized it and I realized it. How is someone supposed to know there is a problem if you don’t communicate? You can’t knock feelings into him. It is very obvious to me that he has feelings for you. As an Aqua I have never been good at “showing” love. My Leo was showing me how a lot and no one understands how much we change for you guys. It is a slow process. You can’t learn a new language over night because that’s essentially what it’s like. You feel the same way about each other and show it in completely different ways. You don’t understand him cuz you aren’t him. You both have to compromise and it seems like such hard work because it is. To him you are worth it, is he worth it to you?
I think for me when i submit to someone, i go all in, i dont pay attention to someone else, its him right now thats it.. even though we aint dating, he gives me mixed signals.. when we meet the first time he asked what was it suppose to b a date or what.. and i said a friendly date.. and then he asked he wanted to see me again.. and when i confessed my feelings to him i told him how about make out next meeting our date.. and that i like him and if he is not on same level as i am then i was sorry.. to which he said he want to take it slow and that he is scared.. trust issues from oast relationships so..
had 1 relationship and it was with a cap.. if i compare.. yup he is definitely worth it.. but i think cuz i have like leo everywhere in my chart.. i expect as much in return emotionally than anything else.. but yea the showing love part.. it comes with time.. but for me its like u already know u like me and u know i like u so get to the business.. but then i end up remembering how he is always like he is scared that he will either get hurt or will hurt me somehow.. or that he is a coward when submitting to feelings.. then i tend to stick up with him and not leave.. cuz i want to give him a fair chance..
just the time he is taking and being too sweet for one day and barely talk at all for rest of the week that bothers me..
i also understand where u coming from.. i think once aquas submit they will respect their partners more than before.. so thats when they actually compromise..
and yea he creates problems in his head as well too.. will say something sweet and if i dont ans right away he will say "sorry m talking too much".. like hold on lemme look for mushier words to say back to u..
so yea creating things and overthinking.. i can see it..
i just hope he does what he has to and confess already click to expand
Confess what? 😁 click to expandclick to expand
confess all his feelings and not go quiet on me after he does that.. and lol at get to business... well oboviously cuz if u r sure about it wasting time is useless
Posted by joyranPosted by BrittniePosted by joyranPosted by Brittnie
I don’t know this wouldn’t send. Pissing me off anyway, here it is.
That’s where we are similar. I’m the same way but not with him. He is the only one that I’ve never lost feelings for. I’m Aqua, Sag dominant so I was a commitment phone lol I realized with this relationship that a lot of the problems I had were in my head. He said the same thing when he left. He apologized he knew it was him and not me because I begged him to tell me. We were both at fault and he realized it and I realized it. How is someone supposed to know there is a problem if you don’t communicate? You can’t knock feelings into him. It is very obvious to me that he has feelings for you. As an Aqua I have never been good at “showing” love. My Leo was showing me how a lot and no one understands how much we change for you guys. It is a slow process. You can’t learn a new language over night because that’s essentially what it’s like. You feel the same way about each other and show it in completely different ways. You don’t understand him cuz you aren’t him. You both have to compromise and it seems like such hard work because it is. To him you are worth it, is he worth it to you?
I think for me when i submit to someone, i go all in, i dont pay attention to someone else, its him right now thats it.. even though we aint dating, he gives me mixed signals.. when we meet the first time he asked what was it suppose to b a date or what.. and i said a friendly date.. and then he asked he wanted to see me again.. and when i confessed my feelings to him i told him how about make out next meeting our date.. and that i like him and if he is not on same level as i am then i was sorry.. to which he said he want to take it slow and that he is scared.. trust issues from oast relationships so..
had 1 relationship and it was with a cap.. if i compare.. yup he is definitely worth it.. but i think cuz i have like leo everywhere in my chart.. i expect as much in return emotionally than anything else.. but yea the showing love part.. it comes with time.. but for me its like u already know u like me and u know i like u so get to the business.. but then i end up remembering how he is always like he is scared that he will either get hurt or will hurt me somehow.. or that he is a coward when submitting to feelings.. then i tend to stick up with him and not leave.. cuz i want to give him a fair chance..
just the time he is taking and being too sweet for one day and barely talk at all for rest of the week that bothers me..
i also understand where u coming from.. i think once aquas submit they will respect their partners more than before.. so thats when they actually compromise..
and yea he creates problems in his head as well too.. will say something sweet and if i dont ans right away he will say "sorry m talking too much".. like hold on lemme look for mushier words to say back to u..
so yea creating things and overthinking.. i can see it..
i just hope he does what he has to and confess already click to expand
Confess what? 😁 click to expand
confess all his feelings and not go quiet on me after he does that.. and lol at get to business... well oboviously cuz if u r sure about it wasting time is useless click to expandclick to expand
It is lol PREACH
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Posted by joyranYes like I said y’all doing great it’s rare we admit our feelings like he is and I totally get where you’re coming from 100%
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Oh don’t even get me into celeb crushes. Fantazing about someone I can’t have 😅
Posted by Brittniethats what good about fantasizing about them lol u cant have them.. so u cant catch feelings and just move on to the next onePosted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Yes like I said y’all doing great it’s rare we admit our feelings like he is and I totally get where you’re coming from 100%
Oh don’t even get me into celeb crushes. Fantazing about someone I can’t have 😅 click to expandclick to expand
btw what makes it so hard for u guys to open up? especially after u tell the person that u like them?
and if i ignore him u think that will work more, because sometimes i feel like he takes me for granted or knows that i am gonna b there always so he can do as he please..
is it this or is ir that u guys just lazy/ scared of opening up/ want the other one to make the move..
like what exactly is it? what stops u?
Posted by joyranI know you feel like he’s taking you for granted sometimes but BELIEVE ME we don’t make you feel that way on purpose what so ever. Like when he felt I was taking him for granted, I was just in my head way too much. He was pressuring me to find a job and he didn’t know that it was making me so insecure and I’m a very positive person so for me to be insecure made me push him away on complete accident. I was thinking, I’ll eventually get a job that he wants to get and work my ass off for a company I would eventually probably have resented him cuz I want to do something I love. Not a 9-5 boring job with great benefits and never have time off. I wanted to feel good enough for him but now I realize I am good enough and I should never take that part away from myself to please him. I want us both to be happy. In my head it was about making us both happy and he didn’t know because I didn’t open up.Posted by BrittniePosted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Yes like I said y’all doing great it’s rare we admit our feelings like he is and I totally get where you’re coming from 100%
Oh don’t even get me into celeb crushes. Fantazing about someone I can’t have 😅 click to expand
thats what good about fantasizing about them lol u cant have them.. so u cant catch feelings and just move on to the next one
btw what makes it so hard for u guys to open up? especially after u tell the person that u like them?
and if i ignore him u think that will work more, because sometimes i feel like he takes me for granted or knows that i am gonna b there always so he can do as he please..
is it this or is ir that u guys just lazy/ scared of opening up/ want the other one to make the move..
like what exactly is it? what stops u? click to expandclick to expand
I can’t completely tell you why because now it seems stupid because he ended up leaving anyways so it did me no good. I thought he would see I wasn’t good enough for him and leave me anyways. I was scared to tell him how I felt and him not feel the same way. It is the scariest thing in the world to open up to someone who may not feel the same way. Also I look back and realize that was stupid because his actions say that he did BUT I needed to be TOLD constantly that I’m loved, valued, appreciated, etc etc I’m beautiful and he was an action person. That’s where I told myself, he loves you he just shows you differently then you do him and it worked for a while then the money issue popped up and ruined things for us both. Fear, rejection hurting our ego and pride is the scariest thing ever but I learned my lesson. I will tell people how I feel from here on out. I’m a way it is because we our lazy. I worked harder on isn’t then I ever have in a relationship but the connection required I be even more vulnerable and bare for it to work.
Ignoring leads to more hurt and more ignoring. No one wins that game. All we can do is say what we think and feel and try to be understanding when the other person says what they feel as well. It is about balance, not just with each other but yourselves individually as well. Doing things you love outside of the relationship so when he can’t reply at that moment you aren’t focused on reasons why he didn’t or couldn’t message you. We always have a real reason. I never lied to him but I can see why he would like yea right, it’s hard to trust in a world full of liars and cheaters but you Leo’s are specials and so are Aquas when we come together we devote ourselves to each other and bettering ourselves for the connection, our friends and family. We have no time for anyone else 😛
Posted by Lioness18881Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expand
Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼 click to expandclick to expand
Same with me.. if i know i have done something wrong to someone on pupose, the guilt eats me and then i have to make up for the wrong i did.. like the conscious wont allow me to just let it be and leave the person while they r hurting from what i did to them..
thats why i cant ignore cuz i wont want someone to do that to me..
u r right about encouraging good behaviour.. he always come to me when he is feeling low.. like low confidence, or insecure, or when he is mad at something.. dont know why tho.. and then i end up telling him he can talk to me anytime he likes, i wont mind even if its at 3 4 in the morning..
so imma try this.. encourage his good side..
Posted by Lioness18881thats me 100% too..Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expand
Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼 click to expand
Thanks. Yours too. I need to work on communicating better about my feelings and stuff. I have a tendency to joke about serious topics and things that make me uncomfortable like compliments or when someone says feelings, or i go silent and freeze like a deer in headlights. click to expandclick to expand
but u guys hes being romantic.. i sent him a kiss earlier, and he said he kissed back at it before starting the game and that light moment took mind off of his headache and now he is talking about the kind of kisses he like.. and the feeling of it.. and he asked me if i like to cuddle.. i got mushy.. like telling him how i would like to b under the sky with bonfire on and cuddle.. and explained my ideal date.. he said i made him imagine the whole thing and it was sexy and beautiful at same time...
and yes i only said "i like when we have these light talks, theres a never a dull moment and i love it"..
so the encouraging thing works..
Posted by BrittnieThank you for the insight.. that answers a lot of questionsPosted by joyranPosted by BrittniePosted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Yes like I said y’all doing great it’s rare we admit our feelings like he is and I totally get where you’re coming from 100%
Oh don’t even get me into celeb crushes. Fantazing about someone I can’t have 😅 click to expand
thats what good about fantasizing about them lol u cant have them.. so u cant catch feelings and just move on to the next one
btw what makes it so hard for u guys to open up? especially after u tell the person that u like them?
and if i ignore him u think that will work more, because sometimes i feel like he takes me for granted or knows that i am gonna b there always so he can do as he please..
is it this or is ir that u guys just lazy/ scared of opening up/ want the other one to make the move..
like what exactly is it? what stops u? click to expand
I know you feel like he’s taking you for granted sometimes but BELIEVE ME we don’t make you feel that way on purpose what so ever. Like when he felt I was taking him for granted, I was just in my head way too much. He was pressuring me to find a job and he didn’t know that it was making me so insecure and I’m a very positive person so for me to be insecure made me push him away on complete accident. I was thinking, I’ll eventually get a job that he wants to get and work my ass off for a company I would eventually probably have resented him cuz I want to do something I love. Not a 9-5 boring job with great benefits and never have time off. I wanted to feel good enough for him but now I realize I am good enough and I should never take that part away from myself to please him. I want us both to be happy. In my head it was about making us both happy and he didn’t know because I didn’t open up.
I can’t completely tell you why because now it seems stupid because he ended up leaving anyways so it did me no good. I thought he would see I wasn’t good enough for him and leave me anyways. I was scared to tell him how I felt and him not feel the same way. It is the scariest thing in the world to open up to someone who may not feel the same way. Also I look back and realize that was stupid because his actions say that he did BUT I needed to be TOLD constantly that I’m loved, valued, appreciated, etc etc I’m beautiful and he was an action person. That’s where I told myself, he loves you he just shows you differently then you do him and it worked for a while then the money issue popped up and ruined things for us both. Fear, rejection hurting our ego and pride is the scariest thing ever but I learned my lesson. I will tell people how I feel from here on out. I’m a way it is because we our lazy. I worked harder on isn’t then I ever have in a relationship but the connection required I be even more vulnerable and bare for it to work.
Ignoring leads to more hurt and more ignoring. No one wins that game. All we can do is say what we think and feel and try to be understanding when the other person says what they feel as well. It is about balance, not just with each other but yourselves individually as well. Doing things you love outside of the relationship so when he can’t reply at that moment you aren’t focused on reasons why he didn’t or couldn’t message you. We always have a real reason. I never lied to him but I can see why he would like yea right, it’s hard to trust in a world full of liars and cheaters but you Leo’s are specials and so are Aquas when we come together we devote ourselves to each other and bettering ourselves for the connection, our friends and family. We have no time for anyone else click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Lioness18881Does it make you uncomfortable too when people talk about feelings? I need to on thatPosted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expand
Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼 click to expand
Thanks. Yours too. I need to work on communicating better about my feelings and stuff. I have a tendency to joke about serious topics and things that make me uncomfortable like compliments or when someone says feelings, or i go silent and freeze like a deer in headlights. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expand
Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼 click to expand
Thanks. Yours too. I need to work on communicating better about my feelings and stuff. I have a tendency to joke about serious topics and things that make me uncomfortable like compliments or when someone says feelings, or i go silent and freeze like a deer in headlights. click to expand
Does it make you uncomfortable too when people talk about feelings? I need to on that click to expandclick to expand
As with this aqua i get nervous when he talks about his feelings, or when he says something mushy.. i either end up joking about what he says or take too much time to respond that he will just change the topic.. i guess with him he wants ans pretty quick once he said something or he gets insecure that maybe he crossed the line..
and even now that we got all close and talked so much last night, m feeling awkward and uneasy as to how to approach him on this new day...
Dont know what Lioness18881 have to say on this
Posted by joyranOk so yes we feel the same, and so does your Aqua it sounds like. You have a Leo and Aqua to talk to about these things 😂 we got your back 😍 I will work on how to handle people coming at you with your feelings. I’ve been studying how people have different love languages. For instance mine is mostly words of affirmation and Leo’s is action. Things of service as well but his is def not words. I have a best friend who is a Aries with a Leo moon whom I believe was given to me to help me with my Leo who has an Aries moon. She says she has to be told once. Words don’t mean shit to her after that it’s all about action so it’s helped me learn a lot about him. Also having @lioness18881 helps 😁 you could say “you don’t have to worry about telling me your feelings, I feel the same and you can trust me with them 🙂” smiley face cuz I know as an Aqua I use emojis a lot lol it def sounds like he gets insecure cuz I like said, putting out our emotions is scary stuff. Also my phone likes to autocorrect words like is to isn’t but you can figure it out lol it’s stupidPosted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expand
Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼 click to expand
Thanks. Yours too. I need to work on communicating better about my feelings and stuff. I have a tendency to joke about serious topics and things that make me uncomfortable like compliments or when someone says feelings, or i go silent and freeze like a deer in headlights. click to expand
Does it make you uncomfortable too when people talk about feelings? I need to on that click to expand
As with this aqua i get nervous when he talks about his feelings, or when he says something mushy.. i either end up joking about what he says or take too much time to respond that he will just change the topic.. i guess with him he wants ans pretty quick once he said something or he gets insecure that maybe he crossed the line..
and even now that we got all close and talked so much last night, m feeling awkward and uneasy as to how to approach him on this new day...
Dont know what Lioness18881 have to say on this click to expandclick to expand
Posted by BrittniePosted by joyranPosted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expand
Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼 click to expand
Thanks. Yours too. I need to work on communicating better about my feelings and stuff. I have a tendency to joke about serious topics and things that make me uncomfortable like compliments or when someone says feelings, or i go silent and freeze like a deer in headlights. click to expand
Does it make you uncomfortable too when people talk about feelings? I need to on that click to expand
As with this aqua i get nervous when he talks about his feelings, or when he says something mushy.. i either end up joking about what he says or take too much time to respond that he will just change the topic.. i guess with him he wants ans pretty quick once he said something or he gets insecure that maybe he crossed the line..
and even now that we got all close and talked so much last night, m feeling awkward and uneasy as to how to approach him on this new day...
Dont know what Lioness18881 have to say on this click to expand
Ok so yes we feel the same, and so does your Aqua it sounds like. You have a Leo and Aqua to talk to about these things 😂 we got your back 😍 I will work on how to handle people coming at you with your feelings. I’ve been studying how people have different love languages. For instance mine is mostly words of affirmation and Leo’s is action. Things of service as well but his is def not words. I have a best friend who is a Aries with a Leo moon whom I believe was given to me to help me with my Leo who has an Aries moon. She says she has to be told once. Words don’t mean butter to her after that it’s all about action so it’s helped me learn a lot about him. Also having @lioness18881 helps 😁 you could say “you don’t have to worry about telling me your feelings, I feel the same and you can trust me with them ” smiley face cuz I know as an Aqua I use emojis a lot lol it def sounds like he gets insecure cuz I like said, putting out our emotions is scary stuff. Also my phone likes to autocorrect words like is to isn’t but you can figure it out lol it’s stupid click to expandclick to expand
Definitely i think i am personally more action, cuz i suck with words and i cant explain my feelings much.. thats why i dont bother cuz i feel like no one will understand..
but when we were talking last night.. he said "i feel like hugging you right now", he know i saw his message but i didnt ans for 2 minutes cuz i didnt know what to say, i was about to say.. and he got insecure and said he was sorry for crossing the line (cuz we aint dating)..
then after sometime i said i wish we could meet more often, (we live 6 hrs drive apart).. then he took time to ans and i said never mind i am just being cheezy.. and then he was like lets promise we will say whatever we want to and not be insecure about it and try to retract our feelings..
so ya he messaged me this morning and sent me a kiss..
He says stuff like "insta wife, baby, sweetheart, love, ma'am", but we aint dating, and he is always bringing this 💍🙏🏽 (marry me) up.. so i dont know why dont he asks me to b his gf or whatever.. he did say next time we meet it will b a date but also said he want to take things slow cuz he is scared he will hurt me or get hurt..
i have already told him i like him so now m waiting for him to make it official.. but i think he want to go on a proper date before doing anything.. last time we meet we played and had fun.. it was like friends going out..
I wish i could see whats gonna happen in a month.. lol
I had to start a new post, it wouldn't let me reply. I know whats it like have feelings for someone so fast and you're like what the fuck? How? How does this even make sense? Lol so theres that and yes. Don't be insecure. Say no don't apologize, you did not cross the line. I need to know how you feel because you do!!
Yea me and Leo were the same. He said one time, and I just realized this, I think I'm in love because of something I did and I didn't know what to say so it got awkward. He had said it so casually and I didn't want him to be like nah nahhh I didn't really mean it lmao I'm pretty sure now he did love me. It's crazy to love someone so fast. I'm just thankful that i'm learning so much about my own relationship and being able to help you at the same time is awesome.
So pretty much he wants to marry you but he knows its too soon so he's wtf? I'm pretty sure after your "date" you'll be together and like I said let him know its ok for him to open up to you. Tell him what you said that sometimes you just need a minute to reply back but you really appreciate his honesty.
Yea me and Leo were the same. He said one time, and I just realized this, I think I'm in love because of something I did and I didn't know what to say so it got awkward. He had said it so casually and I didn't want him to be like nah nahhh I didn't really mean it lmao I'm pretty sure now he did love me. It's crazy to love someone so fast. I'm just thankful that i'm learning so much about my own relationship and being able to help you at the same time is awesome.
So pretty much he wants to marry you but he knows its too soon so he's wtf? I'm pretty sure after your "date" you'll be together and like I said let him know its ok for him to open up to you. Tell him what you said that sometimes you just need a minute to reply back but you really appreciate his honesty.
Posted by Lioness18881So I realized you’re right, he left me and said he felt detached, he wasn’t lying. I feel the detachment now and it’s so weird because I’ve always felt 100% I’m an huge empath I feel too much all the time and all week I feel nothing! I feel numb. It is karma and it does have to do with Saturn. I’ve never felt numb like this. This must be how he felt 🤔 I don’t feel anything for anyone and I feel like it should make me feel bad but.. nothing? How are you holding up?Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expand
Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼 click to expand
Thanks. Yours too. I need to work on communicating better about my feelings and stuff. I have a tendency to joke about serious topics and things that make me uncomfortable like compliments or when someone says feelings, or i go silent and freeze like a deer in headlights. click to expand
Does it make you uncomfortable too when people talk about feelings? I need to on that click to expand
No. other people's feelings is easy. I have lots of empathy. I'm fine with sad or hurt people. But i don't like talking about mine.
But if someone says they like me i tell them i like them more. And i can say i want them and i need kisses and cute stuff. So i can do cute stuff. I don't know how to talk about serious things like marriage and stuff except as jokes and that made him get mad
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Posted by Lioness18881Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881So I realized you’re right, he left me and said he felt detached, he wasn’t lying. I feel the detachment now and it’s so weird because I’ve always felt 100% I’m an huge empath I feel too much all the time and all week I feel nothing! I feel numb. It is karma and it does have to do with Saturn. I’ve never felt numb like this. This must be how he felt 🤔 I don’t feel anything for anyone and I feel like it should make me feel bad but.. nothing? How are you holding up? click to expandPosted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expand
Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼 click to expand
Thanks. Yours too. I need to work on communicating better about my feelings and stuff. I have a tendency to joke about serious topics and things that make me uncomfortable like compliments or when someone says feelings, or i go silent and freeze like a deer in headlights. click to expand
Does it make you uncomfortable too when people talk about feelings? I need to on that click to expand
No. other people's feelings is easy. I have lots of empathy. I'm fine with sad or hurt people. But i don't like talking about mine.
But if someone says they like me i tell them i like them more. And i can say i want them and i need kisses and cute stuff. So i can do cute stuff. I don't know how to talk about serious things like marriage and stuff except as jokes and that made him get mad
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I don't think it's karma. It happened before the Saturn retrograde. Maybe now you're just seeing it for what it is instead of what you wanted it to be. Maybe you feel detached and become numb to protect your heart. The numbness kicked in for me straight away but I was killing my feelings before we broke up because I felt like something was wrong. Like both of us we're too scared to open up and let the other one in.
Maybe this guy is not your person . But he has taught you to open up for the one who is. You're really sweet and a lovely person and you deserve someone who can appreciate that. Don't give up there's a better love out there for you💕 click to expandclick to expand
I did when he broke up with me also. This is the first time since then and it happened for no reason. That’s why I believe it’s karma. It was killing me to lose him so I shut him out. Regardless if he’s “my person” or not, he’s the only one I’ve ever faught for and want. But you are also right, I deserve the best but it’s gotta come from me and not someone else.
Posted by Lioness18881I meann... it’s just SUPER weird because I have been happy the last 2 weeks. I’ve been positive feeling good and THEN boom my feelings disappear and I feel numb, I don’t know how else to explain that??Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881So I realized you’re right, he left me and said he felt detached, he wasn’t lying. I feel the detachment now and it’s so weird because I’ve always felt 100% I’m an huge empath I feel too much all the time and all week I feel nothing! I feel numb. It is karma and it does have to do with Saturn. I’ve never felt numb like this. This must be how he felt 🤔 I don’t feel anything for anyone and I feel like it should make me feel bad but.. nothing? How are you holding up? click to expandPosted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expand
Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼 click to expand
Thanks. Yours too. I need to work on communicating better about my feelings and stuff. I have a tendency to joke about serious topics and things that make me uncomfortable like compliments or when someone says feelings, or i go silent and freeze like a deer in headlights. click to expand
Does it make you uncomfortable too when people talk about feelings? I need to on that click to expand
No. other people's feelings is easy. I have lots of empathy. I'm fine with sad or hurt people. But i don't like talking about mine.
But if someone says they like me i tell them i like them more. And i can say i want them and i need kisses and cute stuff. So i can do cute stuff. I don't know how to talk about serious things like marriage and stuff except as jokes and that made him get mad
click to expand
I don't think it's karma. It happened before the Saturn retrograde. Maybe now you're just seeing it for what it is instead of what you wanted it to be. Maybe you feel detached and become numb to protect your heart. The numbness kicked in for me straight away but I was killing my feelings before we broke up because I felt like something was wrong. Like both of us we're too scared to open up and let the other one in.
Maybe this guy is not your person . But he has taught you to open up for the one who is. You're really sweet and a lovely person and you deserve someone who can appreciate that. Don't give up there's a better love out there for you💕 click to expandclick to expand
Need to post a new msg it wont let me quote..
My update, i dont know if it will b of any help but here..
@lioness18881, ur idea helped and it basically changed the whole route of our relationship..
@brittnie u insight to what aquas feel made me understand him better
million thanks to u both
heres what i figured worked for me.. at first i used to b like "msg me when u get free, m waiting".. i changed that to "if u aint too tired or get time u can msg me"...
He started video calling me to watch nba playoffs games with me.. 3 hour video call twice.. our fav teams r playing against each other so we trash talk but inbetween the breaks he unexpectedly says random sweet stuff.. there was a game last night as well but he didnt give me a heads up for the video call.. so i messaged and asked if we were watching the game together or if he was gonna b busy with his friends.. and he said he was gonna b busy but promised to watch the next game with me.. and said "u just earned 300 more cool points for asking me that question".
so i guess instead of pushing him for calls and texts, when i gave him options or choices he opened up more.. he felt more confident, like he had a choice of gathering up his courage and calling me on his own time... instead of when i ask him to or give him time limits ( i used to do that by saying, i gotta sleep at 10, so call before that if u want to, yikes, i know)..
like last night i messaged him cuz he didnt msg after the 300 cool points msg.. and told him i was heading to bed and i hope u had fun.. if u r not too tried send me a smile before u sleep my team lost so i will feel better.. little mushy i know..
he video called at 2am later..
also told me that he gets nervous, and is terrified.. and i told him if he wants me to not text him i can do that and i will not call him either if he doesnt feel good talking to me.. i was very calm when i said that.. and he said no it wasnt me it was him, that he needs to get over himself.. and that i will always be there even if i left..
So i open up 1 page of my book, he opens up 10.. m not talking about commitment, but he is getting there slowly with talks like "if u were mine i will do this/that".. things like this.. so imma give him time over there.. but he is always talking about how he wishes i could come to his games because he knows i will hype him up like no other person can..
What happened with me was, i put my ego aside 100% , and put on my patience mask like a big one.. if he didnt ans my good night text back.. i was still the first one to wish him morning.. but its been 2 days he is wishing me first and says "i beat u today with the wish and this is hows its gonna n for rest of the life".. i was like okay we will see..
but once i work i did not text him until he does.. so he dont feel congested.. once off i text him how is his day doing and now he knows the routine so he calls me when i msg him cuz he knows m done work.. and then until dinner is done.. we keep texting in between and then call or continues text/voice msgs until one of us tired or knock out..
Pride is a big thing for me.. but i also will never give up unless i know i am 100% drained.. its a bad and a good thing in me.. also because theres a little pride hidden in it as well.. i know my pride was getting hurt when i was available to him always and he was taking time.. but walking away would have hurt my pride as well.. then i would have been like what if i tried a bit more with him..
and also because he said he has never intentionally tried to ignore me, its because he doesnt know what to do because its too much for him, he cant understand why would someone care so much for him and how he could be feeling so comfortable and coming out of his shell for someone he only meet once..
so ya that theory of brittnie.. because it happened so fast, he was like wtf happened..
and honestly m more at peace now.. like if he dont msg back for hours i dont get bothered at all.. and when he does i do msg him back..but i also understand that if he dont ans to something it means he dont want to talk about it.. so i dont push it on him..
maybe cuz i didnt give up or ignored him or was distant with him thats why.. or cuz m a person who if got issues wants things resolved right away and not ignore them..
ex.. i told him that whenever he wants space all he has to do is tell me and that m here if he wants to talk about anything and he dont need to be nervous i wont judge u.. its cuz i put my thoughts in front of him and did not fight or put him down in any way.. that increased the communication..
so once in a while i remind him by saying i am here if u need me.. and everytime i say that it gets better..
i like where we r heading and m obo not heading for sex until a commitment is on the table and he knows that too.. we had a sex vs love talk which had nothing to do with us as a couple but us as individuals.. i think he just wanted to know my sexual history.. inbetween the talks i told him if theres no love, being in sexual relationship doesnt make any sense.. to which he said this is why he thinks i am different and this is why he freaks out.. i did not get it tho
i dont know if this is gonna help in any way.. this worked for me.. but it came from both of u..
like piece by piece and everything make sense now...
could placements in the chart be also the reason? i also realized that it was around this full moon that everything started getting better and fell into place.. i dont know if planets changed places or what..
My update, i dont know if it will b of any help but here..
@lioness18881, ur idea helped and it basically changed the whole route of our relationship..
@brittnie u insight to what aquas feel made me understand him better
million thanks to u both
heres what i figured worked for me.. at first i used to b like "msg me when u get free, m waiting".. i changed that to "if u aint too tired or get time u can msg me"...
He started video calling me to watch nba playoffs games with me.. 3 hour video call twice.. our fav teams r playing against each other so we trash talk but inbetween the breaks he unexpectedly says random sweet stuff.. there was a game last night as well but he didnt give me a heads up for the video call.. so i messaged and asked if we were watching the game together or if he was gonna b busy with his friends.. and he said he was gonna b busy but promised to watch the next game with me.. and said "u just earned 300 more cool points for asking me that question".
so i guess instead of pushing him for calls and texts, when i gave him options or choices he opened up more.. he felt more confident, like he had a choice of gathering up his courage and calling me on his own time... instead of when i ask him to or give him time limits ( i used to do that by saying, i gotta sleep at 10, so call before that if u want to, yikes, i know)..
like last night i messaged him cuz he didnt msg after the 300 cool points msg.. and told him i was heading to bed and i hope u had fun.. if u r not too tried send me a smile before u sleep my team lost so i will feel better.. little mushy i know..
he video called at 2am later..
also told me that he gets nervous, and is terrified.. and i told him if he wants me to not text him i can do that and i will not call him either if he doesnt feel good talking to me.. i was very calm when i said that.. and he said no it wasnt me it was him, that he needs to get over himself.. and that i will always be there even if i left..
So i open up 1 page of my book, he opens up 10.. m not talking about commitment, but he is getting there slowly with talks like "if u were mine i will do this/that".. things like this.. so imma give him time over there.. but he is always talking about how he wishes i could come to his games because he knows i will hype him up like no other person can..
What happened with me was, i put my ego aside 100% , and put on my patience mask like a big one.. if he didnt ans my good night text back.. i was still the first one to wish him morning.. but its been 2 days he is wishing me first and says "i beat u today with the wish and this is hows its gonna n for rest of the life".. i was like okay we will see..
but once i work i did not text him until he does.. so he dont feel congested.. once off i text him how is his day doing and now he knows the routine so he calls me when i msg him cuz he knows m done work.. and then until dinner is done.. we keep texting in between and then call or continues text/voice msgs until one of us tired or knock out..
Pride is a big thing for me.. but i also will never give up unless i know i am 100% drained.. its a bad and a good thing in me.. also because theres a little pride hidden in it as well.. i know my pride was getting hurt when i was available to him always and he was taking time.. but walking away would have hurt my pride as well.. then i would have been like what if i tried a bit more with him..
and also because he said he has never intentionally tried to ignore me, its because he doesnt know what to do because its too much for him, he cant understand why would someone care so much for him and how he could be feeling so comfortable and coming out of his shell for someone he only meet once..
so ya that theory of brittnie.. because it happened so fast, he was like wtf happened..
and honestly m more at peace now.. like if he dont msg back for hours i dont get bothered at all.. and when he does i do msg him back..but i also understand that if he dont ans to something it means he dont want to talk about it.. so i dont push it on him..
maybe cuz i didnt give up or ignored him or was distant with him thats why.. or cuz m a person who if got issues wants things resolved right away and not ignore them..
ex.. i told him that whenever he wants space all he has to do is tell me and that m here if he wants to talk about anything and he dont need to be nervous i wont judge u.. its cuz i put my thoughts in front of him and did not fight or put him down in any way.. that increased the communication..
so once in a while i remind him by saying i am here if u need me.. and everytime i say that it gets better..
i like where we r heading and m obo not heading for sex until a commitment is on the table and he knows that too.. we had a sex vs love talk which had nothing to do with us as a couple but us as individuals.. i think he just wanted to know my sexual history.. inbetween the talks i told him if theres no love, being in sexual relationship doesnt make any sense.. to which he said this is why he thinks i am different and this is why he freaks out.. i did not get it tho
i dont know if this is gonna help in any way.. this worked for me.. but it came from both of u..
like piece by piece and everything make sense now...
could placements in the chart be also the reason? i also realized that it was around this full moon that everything started getting better and fell into place.. i dont know if planets changed places or what..
and i also think that aqus dont have any ego.. they just fighting their own fight.. and cuz leos ego gets hurt easy we end up thinking and get impatient and say mean stuff and end up pushing aquas away.. or we shut down and aquas think we dont like them.. while we as leos are also figting a battle inside our heads about if we give up cuz pride is getting hurt or if we try one more time.. every single page i read is that leo gotta give up the ego if they want this to work.. but if heres no change in aqua then theres an issue as well..
for now m seeing changes and its on the way.. will see what happens in future
for now m seeing changes and its on the way.. will see what happens in future
Posted by Brittniei dont know if u guys got my msg update.. i dont know how the update/notification goes if i post a new msg even tho i tagged u both.. had to try to quote on diff posts to see which one it allows me to quote..Posted by Lioness18881Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by BrittniePosted by Lioness18881Posted by joyran
@lioness18881 @brittnie
Yea my ignore game is not that strong but i also feel like if ignoring him then there would be no communication at all.. because if i as a leo make my mind up that i have to ignore him then i will put him through hell until he realize what he can lose.. but then the other side of me doesn't want to hurr him or anyone in that case.. want to confront him but i am used to be blunt when confronting and i usually end up being nasty when i do that..
I am able to open up only when i trust someone fully, if i dont trust u or i dont care about u i wont tell that particular person anything.. i have to care for u to say anything to u at all, but if u play the ignore game on me i wont care as much and will go on with my life.. u dont deserve to know what i feel..
maybe my planets r playing the role i guess..
but u both should make the move really.. mens ego is high enough anyways.. amd for leos its true that once someone interesting and better comes along and we realize it, we certainly dont look back cuz now we onto next business..
this happens with my celebrity crushes lol
Rather than confronting him and telling him all the things he's doing that annoys you. Why don't you tell him what you like instead. Say things like I like it when you call me or I like getting your texts so instead of getting mad about bad behaviour try to encourage good behaviour.
I also understand how you feel about the ignore game. I don't like when someone ignores me so I don't do it to other people. I would rather just treat people how I want to be treated otherwise I feel guilty and like I've done something wrong or mean. But if you feel like that's something he's doing and it's upsetting you then tell him but make sure you're being reasonable about it. So if he's not actually ignoring you but rather just taking a while to respond then you need to accept that maybe he is busy and let him do his own thing. You can't expect him to give you constant attention because that's unfair.
My Aqua and I are broken up but he hates texting and that's something I only found out recently. But sometimes, instead of replying to my texts he would ring me instead.and even now, if i text him something funny, he'll just reply lol and then ring me. He only likes texting while we're on the phone. So he takes photos of things to show me what he's talking about but he doesn't like to have conversations as texts. So some people just prefer to communicate that way. But i told him in the begining to never ignore me because i can't handle it and it makes me go cray cray, so he never has never ignored me and i do the same and never ignore him. Sometimes it's helpful to tell people what you like and what upsets you, or they don't know. It's better to tell them as part of a normal conversation about things you do and don't like, rather than you do this and you do that and accusing them of doing what you don't like. click to expand
Your answer is simply perfect 👏🏼 click to expand
Thanks. Yours too. I need to work on communicating better about my feelings and stuff. I have a tendency to joke about serious topics and things that make me uncomfortable like compliments or when someone says feelings, or i go silent and freeze like a deer in headlights. click to expand
Does it make you uncomfortable too when people talk about feelings? I need to on that click to expand
No. other people's feelings is easy. I have lots of empathy. I'm fine with sad or hurt people. But i don't like talking about mine.
But if someone says they like me i tell them i like them more. And i can say i want them and i need kisses and cute stuff. So i can do cute stuff. I don't know how to talk about serious things like marriage and stuff except as jokes and that made him get mad
click to expand
So I realized you’re right, he left me and said he felt detached, he wasn’t lying. I feel the detachment now and it’s so weird because I’ve always felt 100% I’m an huge empath I feel too much all the time and all week I feel nothing! I feel numb. It is karma and it does have to do with Saturn. I’ve never felt numb like this. This must be how he felt 🤔 I don’t feel anything for anyone and I feel like it should make me feel bad but.. nothing? How are you holding up? click to expand
I don't think it's karma. It happened before the Saturn retrograde. Maybe now you're just seeing it for what it is instead of what you wanted it to be. Maybe you feel detached and become numb to protect your heart. The numbness kicked in for me straight away but I was killing my feelings before we broke up because I felt like something was wrong. Like both of us we're too scared to open up and let the other one in.
Maybe this guy is not your person . But he has taught you to open up for the one who is. You're really sweet and a lovely person and you deserve someone who can appreciate that. Don't give up there's a better love out there for you💕 click to expand
I meann... it’s just SUPER weird because I have been happy the last 2 weeks. I’ve been positive feeling good and THEN boom my feelings disappear and I feel numb, I don’t know how else to explain that?? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by joyranI’m so freaking happy for you!!! That’s so great!!!!! Fuck I wish I would of had us during our relationship lol oh well, I’m still glad you’re happier now. I don’t know about the moon but placements and genetics AND how we grow up all play a part. We are so similar and so different at the same time it makes it hard but that ego and pride is an asshole!!! I don’t give a shit what anyone thinks anymore I will say how I feel but also a big part is understanding people and that we are all different and do things different. Like my parents are completely different, been married for 30 years she’s a negative Nancy always watching the news, never leaves home, doesn’t trust people and my dad is a happy go lucky Aries that’s friends with everyone until you give him a real reason not too.. so I guess I grew up kinda confused lmao but it’s ok now. I’m finding my true self and once again I’m so glad it’s working out for you
Need to post a new msg it wont let me quote..
My update, i dont know if it will b of any help but here..
@lioness18881, ur idea helped and it basically changed the whole route of our relationship..
@brittnie u insight to what aquas feel made me understand him better
million thanks to u both
heres what i figured worked for me.. at first i used to b like "msg me when u get free, m waiting".. i changed that to "if u aint too tired or get time u can msg me"...
He started video calling me to watch nba playoffs games with me.. 3 hour video call twice.. our fav teams r playing against each other so we trash talk but inbetween the breaks he unexpectedly says random sweet stuff.. there was a game last night as well but he didnt give me a heads up for the video call.. so i messaged and asked if we were watching the game together or if he was gonna b busy with his friends.. and he said he was gonna b busy but promised to watch the next game with me.. and said "u just earned 300 more cool points for asking me that question".
so i guess instead of pushing him for calls and texts, when i gave him options or choices he opened up more.. he felt more confident, like he had a choice of gathering up his courage and calling me on his own time... instead of when i ask him to or give him time limits ( i used to do that by saying, i gotta sleep at 10, so call before that if u want to, yikes, i know)..
like last night i messaged him cuz he didnt msg after the 300 cool points msg.. and told him i was heading to bed and i hope u had fun.. if u r not too tried send me a smile before u sleep my team lost so i will feel better.. little mushy i know..
he video called at 2am later..
also told me that he gets nervous, and is terrified.. and i told him if he wants me to not text him i can do that and i will not call him either if he doesnt feel good talking to me.. i was very calm when i said that.. and he said no it wasnt me it was him, that he needs to get over himself.. and that i will always be there even if i left..
So i open up 1 page of my book, he opens up 10.. m not talking about commitment, but he is getting there slowly with talks like "if u were mine i will do this/that".. things like this.. so imma give him time over there.. but he is always talking about how he wishes i could come to his games because he knows i will hype him up like no other person can..
What happened with me was, i put my ego aside 100% , and put on my patience mask like a big one.. if he didnt ans my good night text back.. i was still the first one to wish him morning.. but its been 2 days he is wishing me first and says "i beat u today with the wish and this is hows its gonna n for rest of the life".. i was like okay we will see..
but once i work i did not text him until he does.. so he dont feel congested.. once off i text him how is his day doing and now he knows the routine so he calls me when i msg him cuz he knows m done work.. and then until dinner is done.. we keep texting in between and then call or continues text/voice msgs until one of us tired or knock out..
Pride is a big thing for me.. but i also will never give up unless i know i am 100% drained.. its a bad and a good thing in me.. also because theres a little pride hidden in it as well.. i know my pride was getting hurt when i was available to him always and he was taking time.. but walking away would have hurt my pride as well.. then i would have been like what if i tried a bit more with him..
and also because he said he has never intentionally tried to ignore me, its because he doesnt know what to do because its too much for him, he cant understand why would someone care so much for him and how he could be feeling so comfortable and coming out of his shell for someone he only meet once..
so ya that theory of brittnie.. because it happened so fast, he was like wtf happened..
and honestly m more at peace now.. like if he dont msg back for hours i dont get bothered at all.. and when he does i do msg him back..but i also understand that if he dont ans to something it means he dont want to talk about it.. so i dont push it on him..
maybe cuz i didnt give up or ignored him or was distant with him thats why.. or cuz m a person who if got issues wants things resolved right away and not ignore them..
ex.. i told him that whenever he wants space all he has to do is tell me and that m here if he wants to talk about anything and he dont need to be nervous i wont judge u.. its cuz i put my thoughts in front of him and did not fight or put him down in any way.. that increased the communication..
so once in a while i remind him by saying i am here if u need me.. and everytime i say that it gets better..
i like where we r heading and m obo not heading for sex until a commitment is on the table and he knows that too.. we had a sex vs love talk which had nothing to do with us as a couple but us as individuals.. i think he just wanted to know my sexual history.. inbetween the talks i told him if theres no love, being in sexual relationship doesnt make any sense.. to which he said this is why he thinks i am different and this is why he freaks out.. i did not get it tho
i dont know if this is gonna help in any way.. this worked for me.. but it came from both of u..
like piece by piece and everything make sense now...
could placements in the chart be also the reason? i also realized that it was around this full moon that everything started getting better and fell into place.. i dont know if planets changed places or what..
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