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@arielview everyone's advice is play games. Wait for him to initiate. This is what i was talking about.
I dont think waiting for a man to initiate is playing games. Its staying classy. Its not looking desperate. Especially early on. They had one date. Expecting too much, confessing feelings after the first date is going way overboard and there is a high chance that will scare the guy— aqua or not. You cant expect a man to be all over a woman that soon unless the feelings have built up over a certain amount of time before the date.

I agree about not expecting too much and the confessing of feelings but aquas don’t mind if the girls initiate
Aquas dont mind women initiating but just dont come on too strong. And especially not this early — like after one date. Chances are he hasnt decided yet how to move forward. The high expectations and confessing feelings is like coming on too strong after a first date. Many women on here have done that. Mostly ended up being ghosted.
I agree that she shouldn’t come to strong. It’s early days and ofc he doesn’t know what he wants yet, but it is good to have a talk about it and make things a bit more clear if it helps them both.

They have made the first step to meet up and have a date. Time will tell but I agree that she should relax a bit and don’t think so much about the situation.

Just let it be and not to panic or get annoyed when he doesn’t respond. He is not her boyfriend so she shouldn’t expect much.


Exactly. I think she can initiate all she wants when they are together officially. I initiate when I want something from my partner but only after we are in a committed rs. Since he has to know my needs. I think the kind of talk she needs to have is not about her liking him. But more about her looking for committment than just dating without committment. Aquas jump on committment right off the bat anyway when they really like the girl. I agree that she should take a chill pill. They arent an item yet so basically he can reply when he wants and it shouldnt be taken against him.
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Yes. I totally agree 👍
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@arielview everyone's advice is play games. Wait for him to initiate. This is what i was talking about.
Are you and lisabethur8 twins? Wrong tag 😬

But I never said that. My advises were always initiate, texts or calls.

Venus and Mars in 1st don't wait. You can google that.
Lol sorry @Bowlio

But look what people say, is like what i was saying to you before. Leo wants it to go both ways. Both people initiating. So it's not a game or tests. It's wanting to be fair.

But the advice about Aquarius guys is wait for them. Except you, you want to be chased 😂

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Both parties wait seems fair enough aka stupid lol
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@arielview everyone's advice is play games. Wait for him to initiate. This is what i was talking about.
Are you and lisabethur8 twins? Wrong tag 😬

But I never said that. My advises were always initiate, texts or calls.

Venus and Mars in 1st don't wait. You can google that.
Lol sorry @Bowlio

But look what people say, is like what i was saying to you before. Leo wants it to go both ways. Both people initiating. So it's not a game or tests. It's wanting to be fair.

But the advice about Aquarius guys is wait for them. Except you, you want to be chased 😂


Both parties wait seems fair enough aka stupid lol
Lol yep. I initiated in the end with the Aqua after we broke up. I texed and i called him that time. He called me on monday night. That's the only time he initiated. But we're over so it doesn't matter anymore. I don't think we'll go back to anything more than occasional phone calls
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It's always clear when you done something isn't it. You can move on peacefully.

You'll never know if you had not make that call.

I've learned it since the very young that my biggest regrets are for things that I haven't said or done.

Life is short.
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@arielview everyone's advice is play games. Wait for him to initiate. This is what i was talking about.
Are you and lisabethur8 twins? Wrong tag 😬

But I never said that. My advises were always initiate, texts or calls.

Venus and Mars in 1st don't wait. You can google that.
Lol sorry @Bowlio

But look what people say, is like what i was saying to you before. Leo wants it to go both ways. Both people initiating. So it's not a game or tests. It's wanting to be fair.

But the advice about Aquarius guys is wait for them. Except you, you want to be chased 😂


Both parties wait seems fair enough aka stupid lol
Lol yep. I initiated in the end with the Aqua after we broke up. I texed and i called him that time. He called me on monday night. That's the only time he initiated. But we're over so it doesn't matter anymore. I don't think we'll go back to anything more than occasional phone calls
It's always clear when you done something isn't it. You can move on peacefully.

You'll never know if you had not make that call.

I've learned it since the very young that my biggest regrets are for things that I haven't said or done.

Life is short.
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Guys, i understand where all of you are coming from..

and lemme clear how everything went down between us again..

1. we meet online where i commented on his comment and told him he was wrong for saying so but we ended up agreeing with each other.. then he was the one who sent me a request right away and messaged me that he thinks he added me because he feels that we can have a mature convo which is rare to do with girls..

2. We talked but for me that was just a over the internet person talk.. didnt even pay attention for next some days.. he was always texting me first.. sometimes who day will pass and he will text me at 10pm asking me how was my day..

3. he was the one who asked me for my number because he wanted to talk..he was the one who called, but text everyday..he was the one to video call first.. which was very short to which he said he was shy

4. he first told me he liked me to which i said.. yea you are a good person, I LIKE YOUR COMPANY..

5. he was the one who initiated our first meeting.. and asked me if it would be a date or friendly meeting.. i told him because we r friends how about a friendly date.. and around this time i started having feelings for him.. we meet, had fun at arcade and ate on a stall not in a restaurant and that was about it.. he did hug me for like good 15 seconds.. he kept texting normally for sometime.. and then one day no show.. i texted him at night and said i was just checking up on u if u r alright lemme know.. he did not answer and next day for first time i called him and he did not ans.. later texted and said he had an accident..

6. after that he went from texting and initiating to no show.. now i was texting him but i never bombarded his phone.. only morning, once inbetween the day and then at goodnight.. he responded right away everytime like he was waiting for me to text.. then one day he told me he was sorry for being distant and it was only because he started liking me a lot and if this was only friend thing for me he dont want to lose me as a friend and he dont want to hurt me or get hurt.. i just told him that i understand and that he will never lose me as a friend..

7. sometimes he will open up and ask me like when can we meet next or if he is the kind of guy i will like to get married to.. or what does i look in a partner.. or how many babies i want.. or that he wants to hug me or wished that i was beside him especially on his blah days cuz i keep him positive and motivated.. and that i was the only girl who didnt leave when he created distance.. and then some days he wont text back and i still didnt bombard his phone and he was the only one calling as well.. i did not still call..

8. then i posted msg over here and asked u guys for help.. now i told him how i feel and that i will like to have our first date but u also told him that i will respect his decision if he doesnt want it.. but i very much do want to take a step.. to which he said he want to go slow and is very scared because he dont want to hurt me or get hurt.. and yes our next meeting can definitely be a date..

he accepted today it is because he is he has been hurt in past that he is being cautious.. and i am too good to b true for him cuz i kept up with him being distance and never left which other girls dont do as much and i patiently handled rhe situation..

i didnt text him all day today cuz i was busy at work.. an hour ago i said hey handsome.. and answered back right away saying hey baby, was just thinking about u and was missing u..

i think aquapisces123 woman was right that i needed to get more mushy with him and not throw him off when he says something romantic to me.. if i change now and stop initiating hes gonna see that m being ignorant.. he is more like waiting for my msges these days i know cuz he doesnt take more than 10 seconds to ans me back.. once we start talking he does leave the convo until i msg him again after 5 6 hours.. i take my time with that too..

aquapisces123 and leoness18881 helped a lot.. sometimes i feel like he was expecting more from me but i was lacking because i didnt wanna look stupid rushing things while he was asking me wedding and kids questions

any thoughts r welcomed
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i got a little pissed because u cant just say that u want to hug me and wish i was beside him or i was missing u.. things like that and then drop the convo and not ans until i msg u back after 5 6 or more hours.. there are also times when i say goodnight and he says he wanted to talk and all this while he is out with his friends but then say never mind he was playing with me.. but i will b like nah its ok i was that tired either i can keep him company.. and he went on..

but then no msg all day the next day..

inconsistency is something i will get mad at.. but then again we r not in a relationship so i need to be cool and not get mad at his negatives..
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I remember the days when i wanted to be with an aqua... told him i wanted to be with him, waited for a year for him just to get married to someone else. So full of it. Now he tries talking to me and tries to get me to send him nudes, while he’s married!!











At one point he was everything i wanted but man I’m blessed to not have a cheater husband. So everything happens for a reason, don’t ever feel like you’re missing out on someone cause chances are you ain’t missing out on butter lol











I still remember the line 😂









I want to marry an Aqua cause deep down they're the sweetest 😂 click to expand





Yes! I really thought they were something until i started to get weird messages talking about sex and nudes, all while he’s freshly married?



Biggest turn off ever lol im soooo happy he didn’t chose me but i guess he’s attracted to me? Smh. Ask your wife maybe? Lol click to expand







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At the time he confessed his feelings for me? No he wasn’t married or anything. We agreed to wait and see where it takes us but he went GHOST for monthssss. I thought he was figuring out his life for the both of us to start new so i never questioned it but he got married instead! A year had gone by at this point.



If an aqua is ghosting you he’s not interested. They get very clingy when they really like you. Otherwise they will throw you crumbs just to keep you around for attention, sex, loneliness. click to expand



I agree with you but not all aquas are the same.

Some aren't clingy at all and a bit cautious or reserved. I noticed that most on Aqua with Cap Venus. click to expand
ok so his venus is in aqua and mine is in virgo..
As an Aqua venus, I'd never go for a Virgo venus or mars
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i am not attracted to those venuses either, never have been, and the mars are very platonic nice people in my experience.

i see you got chris evans as your avatar.

Cancer venus men then?

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Guys, i understand where all of you are coming from..

and lemme clear how everything went down between us again..

1. we meet online where i commented on his comment and told him he was wrong for saying so but we ended up agreeing with each other.. then he was the one who sent me a request right away and messaged me that he thinks he added me because he feels that we can have a mature convo which is rare to do with girls..

2. We talked but for me that was just a over the internet person talk.. didnt even pay attention for next some days.. he was always texting me first.. sometimes who day will pass and he will text me at 10pm asking me how was my day..

3. he was the one who asked me for my number because he wanted to talk..he was the one who called, but text everyday..he was the one to video call first.. which was very short to which he said he was shy

4. he first told me he liked me to which i said.. yea you are a good person, I LIKE YOUR COMPANY..

5. he was the one who initiated our first meeting.. and asked me if it would be a date or friendly meeting.. i told him because we r friends how about a friendly date.. and around this time i started having feelings for him.. we meet, had fun at arcade and ate on a stall not in a restaurant and that was about it.. he did hug me for like good 15 seconds.. he kept texting normally for sometime.. and then one day no show.. i texted him at night and said i was just checking up on u if u r alright lemme know.. he did not answer and next day for first time i called him and he did not ans.. later texted and said he had an accident..

6. after that he went from texting and initiating to no show.. now i was texting him but i never bombarded his phone.. only morning, once inbetween the day and then at goodnight.. he responded right away everytime like he was waiting for me to text.. then one day he told me he was sorry for being distant and it was only because he started liking me a lot and if this was only friend thing for me he dont want to lose me as a friend and he dont want to hurt me or get hurt.. i just told him that i understand and that he will never lose me as a friend..

7. sometimes he will open up and ask me like when can we meet next or if he is the kind of guy i will like to get married to.. or what does i look in a partner.. or how many babies i want.. or that he wants to hug me or wished that i was beside him especially on his blah days cuz i keep him positive and motivated.. and that i was the only girl who didnt leave when he created distance.. and then some days he wont text back and i still didnt bombard his phone and he was the only one calling as well.. i did not still call..

8. then i posted msg over here and asked u guys for help.. now i told him how i feel and that i will like to have our first date but u also told him that i will respect his decision if he doesnt want it.. but i very much do want to take a step.. to which he said he want to go slow and is very scared because he dont want to hurt me or get hurt.. and yes our next meeting can definitely be a date..

he accepted today it is because he is he has been hurt in past that he is being cautious.. and i am too good to b true for him cuz i kept up with him being distance and never left which other girls dont do as much and i patiently handled rhe situation..

i didnt text him all day today cuz i was busy at work.. an hour ago i said hey handsome.. and answered back right away saying hey baby, was just thinking about u and was missing u..

i think aquapisces123 woman was right that i needed to get more mushy with him and not throw him off when he says something romantic to me.. if i change now and stop initiating hes gonna see that m being ignorant.. he is more like waiting for my msges these days i know cuz he doesnt take more than 10 seconds to ans me back.. once we start talking he does leave the convo until i msg him again after 5 6 hours.. i take my time with that too..

aquapisces123 and leoness18881 helped a lot.. sometimes i feel like he was expecting more from me but i was lacking because i didnt wanna look stupid rushing things while he was asking me wedding and kids questions

any thoughts r welcomed


Just be yourself. Don't overthink and don't get insecure. Assume he likes you and don't let doubts cloud your head. Try not to rush into a relationship if he isn't ready for one. It is better to build a good foundation instead of get carried away and rushing and then being hurt or disappointed. DON'T sleep with him or give up the goods without him agreeing to a commitment. They are genuine and honest and good guys. But you need to keep your independence and your separate life and let him have his too. You're 2 people, not half of one. You'll be ok. Just get out of your head and don't analyze everything.
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right thats why when he said he want to go slow i told him i respect it.. oh and no.. cant sleep with him unless i know he is down for life.. not giving that part of me unless i see a commitment..

just gonna keep doing what i am and let him come and tell me he wants a relationship.. i have already confessed my feelings so now he knows how i feel..
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Guys, i understand where all of you are coming from..

and lemme clear how everything went down between us again..

1. we meet online where i commented on his comment and told him he was wrong for saying so but we ended up agreeing with each other.. then he was the one who sent me a request right away and messaged me that he thinks he added me because he feels that we can have a mature convo which is rare to do with girls..

2. We talked but for me that was just a over the internet person talk.. didnt even pay attention for next some days.. he was always texting me first.. sometimes who day will pass and he will text me at 10pm asking me how was my day..

3. he was the one who asked me for my number because he wanted to talk..he was the one who called, but text everyday..he was the one to video call first.. which was very short to which he said he was shy

4. he first told me he liked me to which i said.. yea you are a good person, I LIKE YOUR COMPANY..

5. he was the one who initiated our first meeting.. and asked me if it would be a date or friendly meeting.. i told him because we r friends how about a friendly date.. and around this time i started having feelings for him.. we meet, had fun at arcade and ate on a stall not in a restaurant and that was about it.. he did hug me for like good 15 seconds.. he kept texting normally for sometime.. and then one day no show.. i texted him at night and said i was just checking up on u if u r alright lemme know.. he did not answer and next day for first time i called him and he did not ans.. later texted and said he had an accident..

6. after that he went from texting and initiating to no show.. now i was texting him but i never bombarded his phone.. only morning, once inbetween the day and then at goodnight.. he responded right away everytime like he was waiting for me to text.. then one day he told me he was sorry for being distant and it was only because he started liking me a lot and if this was only friend thing for me he dont want to lose me as a friend and he dont want to hurt me or get hurt.. i just told him that i understand and that he will never lose me as a friend..

7. sometimes he will open up and ask me like when can we meet next or if he is the kind of guy i will like to get married to.. or what does i look in a partner.. or how many babies i want.. or that he wants to hug me or wished that i was beside him especially on his blah days cuz i keep him positive and motivated.. and that i was the only girl who didnt leave when he created distance.. and then some days he wont text back and i still didnt bombard his phone and he was the only one calling as well.. i did not still call..

8. then i posted msg over here and asked u guys for help.. now i told him how i feel and that i will like to have our first date but u also told him that i will respect his decision if he doesnt want it.. but i very much do want to take a step.. to which he said he want to go slow and is very scared because he dont want to hurt me or get hurt.. and yes our next meeting can definitely be a date..

he accepted today it is because he is he has been hurt in past that he is being cautious.. and i am too good to b true for him cuz i kept up with him being distance and never left which other girls dont do as much and i patiently handled rhe situation..

i didnt text him all day today cuz i was busy at work.. an hour ago i said hey handsome.. and answered back right away saying hey baby, was just thinking about u and was missing u..

i think aquapisces123 woman was right that i needed to get more mushy with him and not throw him off when he says something romantic to me.. if i change now and stop initiating hes gonna see that m being ignorant.. he is more like waiting for my msges these days i know cuz he doesnt take more than 10 seconds to ans me back.. once we start talking he does leave the convo until i msg him again after 5 6 hours.. i take my time with that too..

aquapisces123 and leoness18881 helped a lot.. sometimes i feel like he was expecting more from me but i was lacking because i didnt wanna look stupid rushing things while he was asking me wedding and kids questions

any thoughts r welcomed
IDK, I have a really good Leo friend who started similar with an Aqua. HE pursued her, HE initiated, HE wanted her. SHE caved and gave in by having sex with him in less than 3 months only to find out later on, that he was doing the same with other women.

They're charmers and swaggers to the vast majority but they hardly ever initiate when they've caught feelings. Most Aquas who have deep feelings for a woman can be very timid and shy with verbal expressions. They begin to shift the communication to more physical acts of love... and I'm not talking about sex.
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We have only meet once and its been 2 months of us talking.. he shut off after sometime but kept answering when i would message, and like i said now i am the one whos initiating more and he waits for me to msg him.. but when he would say something like i wish u were beside me.. and when m about to ans he will just end the convo and be like i am talking too much and apologize for saying mushy things at time.. and we havent ever talked about sex or anything.. he told me once he wanted to kiss me because i was apologizing for not answering his call and he thought it was so innnocent.. but then he said he is talking too much.. he says something romantic and then shuts himself off by himself before i even say anything..
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
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Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
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maybe this will give u a better idea.. he is 29 yrs old and i am 26

mine is first and his is second

sun- Leo Aquarius

Moon- Leo Leo

Mercury- Virgo Aqua

Venus- Virgo Aqua

Mars- Virgo Taurus

Jupiter- Leo Taurus

Saturn- Aqua Cap

Uranus- Cap Cap

Neptune- Cap Cap

Pluto- Scorpio Scorpio

Lilth- Cap Libra

Asc mode- Cap Pisces

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Another astrotwin lol

In all seriousness OP, he has similar placements to mine. Except moon and merc. All is fine and dandy until I grow bored. Most don’t know how to tickle my pickle though.

What does? Being straightforward and putting me in my place without overstepping boundaries. Sounds a lot harder than it is. It basically being kind, generous, compassionate but not a pushover. If I do or say something you don’t like, speak up and reprimand me. Nothing deserves my respect and attention more than a man who’s gentle enough to handle me, but spank me once in a while.
Yes another astro twin! Lol mercury and moon is different from you and John. Lol. I put John in his place when I feel he is not doing me right. We have Pluto-Venus synastry where I am venus and he is pluto and he can get craily jealous some days when I have to meet with my boss who visits once a month. Its pretty crazy and I had to tell him to stop being paranoid. That hes making me feel suffocated when he does it. So now he doesnt overdo it. Not like before. One time, he also went MIA in me. Turns out he was sleeping wahahahaha all day. He was sick. I got upset and told him if he ever goes MIA on me again for no good reason, we are done. Coz i csnt do MIA partners. He said sorry and said he knows i worry about him and i love him thats why i got upset. So he never did it again. 🙂 but thats easy coz we are in a committed rs. I think with OP, they had one date and no established committment yet so if she becomes blunt it might appear too demanding and too clingy. Coz its very esrly stage.
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When he went MIA on me i only messaged once and called the next day and told him i was just checking up on him.. and even now when he dont answer i dont ask him what he is up with or why he didnt answer me..

so i am keeping my distance that way.. just waiting for him to come out of his shell..
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maybe this will give u a better idea.. he is 29 yrs old and i am 26

mine is first and his is second

sun- Leo Aquarius

Moon- Leo Leo

Mercury- Virgo Aqua

Venus- Virgo Aqua

Mars- Virgo Taurus

Jupiter- Leo Taurus

Saturn- Aqua Cap

Uranus- Cap Cap

Neptune- Cap Cap

Pluto- Scorpio Scorpio

Lilth- Cap Libra

Asc mode- Cap Pisces

@wittygem88

Another astrotwin lol

In all seriousness OP, he has similar placements to mine. Except moon and merc. All is fine and dandy until I grow bored. Most don’t know how to tickle my pickle though.

What does? Being straightforward and putting me in my place without overstepping boundaries. Sounds a lot harder than it is. It basically being kind, generous, compassionate but not a pushover. If I do or say something you don’t like, speak up and reprimand me. Nothing deserves my respect and attention more than a man who’s gentle enough to handle me, but spank me once in a while.
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See so complicated.. now i dont want him to get bored so what do i do initiate right? but if i do too much of it its gonna b like m overstepping since we r not in a relationship.. and a while back he sent me his pic and asked me to send mine as he calls it "send me a smile".. and i liked his pic so i told him the pic he has now as dp is not that good and he should put this one that he just sent as a dp.. and he did it right away.. when we r talking about something if i dont agree with what he is saying i do counter him.. and stand by what i said.. he have always told me i am independent and have strong opinions and dont back down and he respect that..

so after this i dont know what else to do..

we r talking and he leaves the convo and looks like he forgets that we were talking and dont ans until i msg him again.. but will make me initiate and then tell me he was just thinking about me or missing me.. and if u were why not just msg me..

so complicated.. like he almost playing games with me or testing my patience big time..
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
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Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁
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maybe this will give u a better idea.. he is 29 yrs old and i am 26

mine is first and his is second

sun- Leo Aquarius

Moon- Leo Leo

Mercury- Virgo Aqua

Venus- Virgo Aqua

Mars- Virgo Taurus

Jupiter- Leo Taurus

Saturn- Aqua Cap

Uranus- Cap Cap

Neptune- Cap Cap

Pluto- Scorpio Scorpio

Lilth- Cap Libra

Asc mode- Cap Pisces

@wittygem88

Another astrotwin lol

In all seriousness OP, he has similar placements to mine. Except moon and merc. All is fine and dandy until I grow bored. Most don’t know how to tickle my pickle though.

What does? Being straightforward and putting me in my place without overstepping boundaries. Sounds a lot harder than it is. It basically being kind, generous, compassionate but not a pushover. If I do or say something you don’t like, speak up and reprimand me. Nothing deserves my respect and attention more than a man who’s gentle enough to handle me, but spank me once in a while.
Yes another astro twin! Lol mercury and moon is different from you and John. Lol. I put John in his place when I feel he is not doing me right. We have Pluto-Venus synastry where I am venus and he is pluto and he can get craily jealous some days when I have to meet with my boss who visits once a month. Its pretty crazy and I had to tell him to stop being paranoid. That hes making me feel suffocated when he does it. So now he doesnt overdo it. Not like before. One time, he also went MIA in me. Turns out he was sleeping wahahahaha all day. He was sick. I got upset and told him if he ever goes MIA on me again for no good reason, we are done. Coz i csnt do MIA partners. He said sorry and said he knows i worry about him and i love him thats why i got upset. So he never did it again. 🙂 but thats easy coz we are in a committed rs. I think with OP, they had one date and no established committment yet so if she becomes blunt it might appear too demanding and too clingy. Coz its very esrly stage.
When he went MIA on me i only messaged once and called the next day and told him i was just checking up on him.. and even now when he dont answer i dont ask him what he is up with or why he didnt answer me..

so i am keeping my distance that way.. just waiting for him to come out of his shell..
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Thats good! Remember, you arent in a committed rs yet. If you are, you can demand more but because you arent, you need to not have any expectations. If he doesnt reply to you, dont send another message. Dont even bother asking him whats up. Continue with your life. Do other things. Before you know it he will reach out.

My ex was an aqua with leo moon. Believe me when i say they can be stubbornAF. The more you chase and initiate the worse it will be for you in the long run. I have leo moon myself and my ex and I can fight for days and no one will back down. I used to surrender before he does during the first phase of our rs and he kept doing what he was doing to upset me knowing I will surrender first like always. Whwn i learned to stand my ground and have my own life, he started chasing me. Even now that we have broken up, he chases me. In fact i just got a message from him this morning asking if im still alive. Couple of weeks ago he said he misses me.





That was me with my cap ex.. had 6 yrs long relatioship and i always surrendered.. while he will ignore me when i would fight with him.. that ignorance taught me a lot of patience and now when i do get into a fight i just tell the person that i went wrong over here and u went wrong over here.. how about fix the problem and not fight over it.. if the other person does it we move on if not m standing my ground and u wont hear from me until u apologize like i did.. so thats not an issue i guess..

I might try not messaging him at all if he dont but then i dont want to b the one playing games cuz i will rather tell him whats bothering me and be honest about it but then again we not in a rs..

just gonna go slow like he said.. but m also sure he testing me.. like when he said most girls leave when he created distance.. so he did the same to me but because m stubborn and dont leave on first sign of trouble i stuck with him and he mentioned it later tht he appreciates that i understand him..
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maybe this will give u a better idea.. he is 29 yrs old and i am 26

mine is first and his is second

sun- Leo Aquarius

Moon- Leo Leo

Mercury- Virgo Aqua

Venus- Virgo Aqua

Mars- Virgo Taurus

Jupiter- Leo Taurus

Saturn- Aqua Cap

Uranus- Cap Cap

Neptune- Cap Cap

Pluto- Scorpio Scorpio

Lilth- Cap Libra

Asc mode- Cap Pisces

@wittygem88

Another astrotwin lol

In all seriousness OP, he has similar placements to mine. Except moon and merc. All is fine and dandy until I grow bored. Most don’t know how to tickle my pickle though.

What does? Being straightforward and putting me in my place without overstepping boundaries. Sounds a lot harder than it is. It basically being kind, generous, compassionate but not a pushover. If I do or say something you don’t like, speak up and reprimand me. Nothing deserves my respect and attention more than a man who’s gentle enough to handle me, but spank me once in a while.
See so complicated.. now i dont want him to get bored so what do i do initiate right? but if i do too much of it its gonna b like m overstepping since we r not in a relationship.. and a while back he sent me his pic and asked me to send mine as he calls it "send me a smile".. and i liked his pic so i told him the pic he has now as dp is not that good and he should put this one that he just sent as a dp.. and he did it right away.. when we r talking about something if i dont agree with what he is saying i do counter him.. and stand by what i said.. he have always told me i am independent and have strong opinions and dont back down and he respect that..

so after this i dont know what else to do..

we r talking and he leaves the convo and looks like he forgets that we were talking and dont ans until i msg him again.. but will make me initiate and then tell me he was just thinking about me or missing me.. and if u were why not just msg me..

so complicated.. like he almost playing games with me or testing my patience big time..
You know how to catch and keep an aqua interested? Have a life. It does not revolve around who is contacting who. Have a hobby. Do things you enjoy. A man gets attracted to women who has an exciting life coz they wanna be part of the excitement. My current aqua loves my thirst for life. The fact that I travel. I blog. I do photography. I have friends who send me sweet messages all the time. I read. I teach him new things. When he said I should go to the gym, I did and I am pretty competitive when it comes to working out. When he said I should try playing games, I tried and I am playing a game different to him and he ends up curious how i am doing with my game. If you are always trying to get in touch or you count the hours before he responds, it makes you less exciting as a person. You have to have a life. Stop thinking about him and instead be an exciting girl that an aqua would want to be around with. I barely argue with an aqua and I tend to express my opinions too. But because it is very rare that I do it, I get a free pass when we have a serious discussion and he listens. I dont always have to stand my ground. I sometimes agree. I sometimes disagree. We sometimes agree to disagree. We have more meaningful discussions. Sometimes deep discussions. Often light hearted ones coz we both dont like the negative energy or feeling pressured.
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nah m good that way.. i play table tennis and he always ask me about my game days other things i do.. and he keeps me posted with his basketball games.. like i said he told me he likes how independent i am.. and no we have never had an argument.. and yes agree with light hearted convos.. no negative energy whatsoever.. and we dont always agree either.. but that doesnt bother us at all..

maybe i am expecting more than i should because he painted a different picture of himself when we furst started talking, we used to talk a lot.. even when i will tell him i am at the gym he will still keep texting me asking what m pushing etc etc.. and then all of a sudden minimum contact thruout the day..

that sudden change thru me off gaurd.. and m still getting used to his leaving me dry in the msgs sometimes
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
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You also helped me understand him and I believe you two were put here to help me and vice versa because she’s with an Aqua as well!!!!

Well let’s see, he would ignore my messages sometimes or just send me a thumbs up. A tired workaholic, I honestly put the small stuff behind us because the relationship was AMAZING. He did like girls posts and tag them in shit and ignore my comments but he said he didn’t get Facebook notifications 🙄 but our relationship was perfect when we were psychically together, I would just say if y’all have a problem with us to address cuz that’s what hurt me the most. I felt like I wasn’t worth working it out for.
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maybe this will give u a better idea.. he is 29 yrs old and i am 26

mine is first and his is second

sun- Leo Aquarius

Moon- Leo Leo

Mercury- Virgo Aqua

Venus- Virgo Aqua

Mars- Virgo Taurus

Jupiter- Leo Taurus

Saturn- Aqua Cap

Uranus- Cap Cap

Neptune- Cap Cap

Pluto- Scorpio Scorpio

Lilth- Cap Libra

Asc mode- Cap Pisces

@wittygem88

Another astrotwin lol

In all seriousness OP, he has similar placements to mine. Except moon and merc. All is fine and dandy until I grow bored. Most don’t know how to tickle my pickle though.

What does? Being straightforward and putting me in my place without overstepping boundaries. Sounds a lot harder than it is. It basically being kind, generous, compassionate but not a pushover. If I do or say something you don’t like, speak up and reprimand me. Nothing deserves my respect and attention more than a man who’s gentle enough to handle me, but spank me once in a while.
Yes another astro twin! Lol mercury and moon is different from you and John. Lol. I put John in his place when I feel he is not doing me right. We have Pluto-Venus synastry where I am venus and he is pluto and he can get craily jealous some days when I have to meet with my boss who visits once a month. Its pretty crazy and I had to tell him to stop being paranoid. That hes making me feel suffocated when he does it. So now he doesnt overdo it. Not like before. One time, he also went MIA in me. Turns out he was sleeping wahahahaha all day. He was sick. I got upset and told him if he ever goes MIA on me again for no good reason, we are done. Coz i csnt do MIA partners. He said sorry and said he knows i worry about him and i love him thats why i got upset. So he never did it again. 🙂 but thats easy coz we are in a committed rs. I think with OP, they had one date and no established committment yet so if she becomes blunt it might appear too demanding and too clingy. Coz its very esrly stage.
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His name is John too? It’s just crazy with all the coincidences 😒🙄😂
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maybe this will give u a better idea.. he is 29 yrs old and i am 26

mine is first and his is second

sun- Leo Aquarius

Moon- Leo Leo

Mercury- Virgo Aqua

Venus- Virgo Aqua

Mars- Virgo Taurus

Jupiter- Leo Taurus

Saturn- Aqua Cap

Uranus- Cap Cap

Neptune- Cap Cap

Pluto- Scorpio Scorpio

Lilth- Cap Libra

Asc mode- Cap Pisces

@wittygem88

Another astrotwin lol

In all seriousness OP, he has similar placements to mine. Except moon and merc. All is fine and dandy until I grow bored. Most don’t know how to tickle my pickle though.

What does? Being straightforward and putting me in my place without overstepping boundaries. Sounds a lot harder than it is. It basically being kind, generous, compassionate but not a pushover. If I do or say something you don’t like, speak up and reprimand me. Nothing deserves my respect and attention more than a man who’s gentle enough to handle me, but spank me once in a while.
Yes another astro twin! Lol mercury and moon is different from you and John. Lol. I put John in his place when I feel he is not doing me right. We have Pluto-Venus synastry where I am venus and he is pluto and he can get craily jealous some days when I have to meet with my boss who visits once a month. Its pretty crazy and I had to tell him to stop being paranoid. That hes making me feel suffocated when he does it. So now he doesnt overdo it. Not like before. One time, he also went MIA in me. Turns out he was sleeping wahahahaha all day. He was sick. I got upset and told him if he ever goes MIA on me again for no good reason, we are done. Coz i csnt do MIA partners. He said sorry and said he knows i worry about him and i love him thats why i got upset. So he never did it again. 🙂 but thats easy coz we are in a committed rs. I think with OP, they had one date and no established committment yet so if she becomes blunt it might appear too demanding and too clingy. Coz its very esrly stage.
His name is John too? It’s just crazy with all the coincidences 😒🙄😂
Hahaha! Actually his name is Mark but @vixen14 decided to call him John 😂😂😂😂😂 he is such a lovely man. He really changed for the better after last time that I had an issue with him and almost really ended it. I feel like im dealing with the aqua that is rarely seen by many. The caring, gentle, mushy aqua. Hes not like that everyday but he shows it more to me now than before. Sometimes he would say “Hey babycakes, I need cuddles. I miss you. Love u.” Or he would just randomly send me a “love u” message but sometimes he forgets to say “love u too” when I say love u to him. But i say it anyway when i feel like it. Lol
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Aww I’m gonna tell mine how much I love him when he comes back now that I know how difficult we can be! Thank you all so much!!!!!!! And I’m so happy for you!!!!!!!!!
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maybe this will give u a better idea.. he is 29 yrs old and i am 26

mine is first and his is second

sun- Leo Aquarius

Moon- Leo Leo

Mercury- Virgo Aqua

Venus- Virgo Aqua

Mars- Virgo Taurus

Jupiter- Leo Taurus

Saturn- Aqua Cap

Uranus- Cap Cap

Neptune- Cap Cap

Pluto- Scorpio Scorpio

Lilth- Cap Libra

Asc mode- Cap Pisces

@wittygem88

Another astrotwin lol

In all seriousness OP, he has similar placements to mine. Except moon and merc. All is fine and dandy until I grow bored. Most don’t know how to tickle my pickle though.

What does? Being straightforward and putting me in my place without overstepping boundaries. Sounds a lot harder than it is. It basically being kind, generous, compassionate but not a pushover. If I do or say something you don’t like, speak up and reprimand me. Nothing deserves my respect and attention more than a man who’s gentle enough to handle me, but spank me once in a while.
See so complicated.. now i dont want him to get bored so what do i do initiate right? but if i do too much of it its gonna b like m overstepping since we r not in a relationship.. and a while back he sent me his pic and asked me to send mine as he calls it "send me a smile".. and i liked his pic so i told him the pic he has now as dp is not that good and he should put this one that he just sent as a dp.. and he did it right away.. when we r talking about something if i dont agree with what he is saying i do counter him.. and stand by what i said.. he have always told me i am independent and have strong opinions and dont back down and he respect that..

so after this i dont know what else to do..

we r talking and he leaves the convo and looks like he forgets that we were talking and dont ans until i msg him again.. but will make me initiate and then tell me he was just thinking about me or missing me.. and if u were why not just msg me..

so complicated.. like he almost playing games with me or testing my patience big time..
You know how to catch and keep an aqua interested? Have a life. It does not revolve around who is contacting who. Have a hobby. Do things you enjoy. A man gets attracted to women who has an exciting life coz they wanna be part of the excitement. My current aqua loves my thirst for life. The fact that I travel. I blog. I do photography. I have friends who send me sweet messages all the time. I read. I teach him new things. When he said I should go to the gym, I did and I am pretty competitive when it comes to working out. When he said I should try playing games, I tried and I am playing a game different to him and he ends up curious how i am doing with my game. If you are always trying to get in touch or you count the hours before he responds, it makes you less exciting as a person. You have to have a life. Stop thinking about him and instead be an exciting girl that an aqua would want to be around with. I barely argue with an aqua and I tend to express my opinions too. But because it is very rare that I do it, I get a free pass when we have a serious discussion and he listens. I dont always have to stand my ground. I sometimes agree. I sometimes disagree. We sometimes agree to disagree. We have more meaningful discussions. Sometimes deep discussions. Often light hearted ones coz we both dont like the negative energy or feeling pressured.
nah m good that way.. i play table tennis and he always ask me about my game days other things i do.. and he keeps me posted with his basketball games.. like i said he told me he likes how independent i am.. and no we have never had an argument.. and yes agree with light hearted convos.. no negative energy whatsoever.. and we dont always agree either.. but that doesnt bother us at all..

maybe i am expecting more than i should because he painted a different picture of himself when we furst started talking, we used to talk a lot.. even when i will tell him i am at the gym he will still keep texting me asking what m pushing etc etc.. and then all of a sudden minimum contact thruout the day..

that sudden change thru me off gaurd.. and m still getting used to his leaving me dry in the msgs sometimes
If an aqua has predicted your activities and have nothing to talk about with you, he will be like that. So I suggest do more random things that he didnt know you do. Keep surprising him. Its difficult to teach people how lol as a gemini I naturally do things.. unplanned. Very random spur of he moment stuff. So the aqua never knows what to expect of me at any given day. I can be out all of a sudden or i could be watching movies. He tries to predict me like if i was playing the game or with my friend but he always ends up wrong. Lol
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lol i will do unplanned things if i had time.. this new job as long term care home nurse manager is making me work almost 15 16 hours a day.. after that.. i dont even have energy to go to gym or game let alone do something spontaneous.. but its also because m still learning at job once i settle down i will have more space to chill out.. its only been 3 weeks at work and i guess before when he was asking me all these questions i was doing all the things i wanted and will post on insta as a story and he will come ask me about it..
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
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You may elaborate. I'm accepting criticism today 😂
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I have nothing. I was laughing because that's something I'd say.
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I feel ya! Apparently you're supposed to be "patient". That's what they (the other Aquariuses) will tell you anyway.

I don't know how to make it work. All I know is they hate demands, they do the opposite of what you want and they'll piss you off. But for some reason, they make you feel something different to other people. And just when you give up amd get over it, they come back! 😣




I dont demand anything from him.. he is more vulnerable and always needs assurance.. if anything goes wrong he messages me and tell me whats up and i will encourage him to be positive and all..

and i am very patience but i dont like when people cant follow up with my level of consistency.. like I messaged u good morning, and no message all day.. and then i wish him goodnight.. he will come and be like goodnight baby.. and we are not in a relationship.. so he cant call me names..

I am getting to a point where i can drop it all and call it buh bye.. cuz even friends ans when u wish them morning.. and for him to claim he likes me.. and give me reason he gets detach because he started liking me A LOT.. and he has a shell and i am the only one whos able to get closest..

but it feels like he talks to me on his own convenience.. also said.. i am his go to person who he can come to and vent.. and i am sitting here like ya but i cant do that to u.. cuz u definitely gonna run when i say something emotional.. because he runs when he talks emotional.. what will he do if i talk emotional.. smfh

I like him but he is making it difficult for me to care enough for him to keep liking him.. and if i dont care for u.. i am done with u.. u r not alive for me.. i am yea.. u r gonna b in the corner of the room and then i will come to u when i am done with everyone who i care about..

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I feel ya! Apparently you're supposed to be "patient". That's what they (the other Aquariuses) will tell you anyway.

I don't know how to make it work. All I know is they hate demands, they do the opposite of what you want and they'll piss you off. But for some reason, they make you feel something different to other people. And just when you give up amd get over it, they come back! 😣




I dont demand anything from him.. he is more vulnerable and always needs assurance.. if anything goes wrong he messages me and tell me whats up and i will encourage him to be positive and all..

and i am very patience but i dont like when people cant follow up with my level of consistency.. like I messaged u good morning, and no message all day.. and then i wish him goodnight.. he will come and be like goodnight baby.. and we are not in a relationship.. so he cant call me names..

I am getting to a point where i can drop it all and call it buh bye.. cuz even friends ans when u wish them morning.. and for him to claim he likes me.. and give me reason he gets detach because he started liking me A LOT.. and he has a shell and i am the only one whos able to get closest..

but it feels like he talks to me on his own convenience.. also said.. i am his go to person who he can come to and vent.. and i am sitting here like ya but i cant do that to u.. cuz u definitely gonna run when i say something emotional.. because he runs when he talks emotional.. what will he do if i talk emotional.. smfh

I like him but he is making it difficult for me to care enough for him to keep liking him.. and if i dont care for u.. i am done with u.. u r not alive for me.. i am yea.. u r gonna b in the corner of the room and then i will come to u when i am done with everyone who i care about..


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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
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I have nothing. I was laughing because that's something I'd say.

You and Britt my Aqua twins 😂


Huh? I was talking about you saying "Be harsh AF". That's something I'd say if I wanted someone's opinion of me. Lol

No ones ever harsh unless you don't ask for their opinions. So it needs to be said. But she wasn'teven harsh so i got ripped.

You always think the similar things as me and i relate to lots of things you say. Brittnie is my aries moon twin. She lived the Aqua leo relationship with me but in reverse. So your both my opposite twins without being the opposite.
Is that why no one ever asks me for my honest opinion except for @señoritaLL ? Lol. I can be harsh wahahahah
Lol. I noticed. But i don't need to ask for it. You offer your opinions on Leo's freely and quite often. I wanted her opinion because she was in an Aqua-Leo relationship at the same time as me and we broke up around the same time too.
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I need some opinions about me based on my chart as well.. i have never had any guy tell me how i could b annoying.. except for my mom.. she always says my stubborness is hardest to deal with and that i dont open up easy

i need a guy to tell me how especially an aqua for now at least lol
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
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You may elaborate. I'm accepting criticism today 😂
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I have nothing. I was laughing because that's something I'd say.

You and Britt my Aqua twins 😂


Huh? I was talking about you saying "Be harsh AF". That's something I'd say if I wanted someone's opinion of me. Lol

No ones ever harsh unless you don't ask for their opinions. So it needs to be said. But she wasn'teven harsh so i got ripped.

You always think the similar things as me and i relate to lots of things you say. Brittnie is my aries moon twin. She lived the Aqua leo relationship with me but in reverse. So your both my opposite twins without being the opposite.
Is that why no one ever asks me for my honest opinion except for @señoritaLL ? Lol. I can be harsh wahahahah
Lol. I noticed. But i don't need to ask for it. You offer your opinions on Leo's freely and quite often. I wanted her opinion because she was in an Aqua-Leo relationship at the same time as me and we broke up around the same time too.
I need some opinions about me based on my chart as well.. i have never had any guy tell me how i could b annoying.. except for my mom.. she always says my stubborness is hardest to deal with and that i dont open up easy

i need a guy to tell me how especially an aqua for now at least lol


My mum says that too me too. I'm too closed and need to give people a chance. Even though your leo bits want to rush and not waste time, you need to slow down to get to know someone properly. So slow down. Slow the texts and the rush to get everything right now. You don't need to know if it's going to last forever in one day. So take a step back. I don't think Aqua will help you open up. They are slow to open up and trust too. But he will teach you patience and to be calm, even if it's frustrating and doesn't work out the way you want, this will be a lesson for you. So learn from it and grow. Also know that not everyone shows love or care the same way, everyone is different. It doesn't mean they don't care as much, they just show it in other ways.
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right.. i dont mind waiting for as a leo i only concentrate on one person at a time other wise theres too much confusion for me.. and if i am concentrating on him m hoping for results soon.. its like any other thing i do.. if i need something done its getting done before i go to sleep.. and if that means no sleep for the night then be it..

but in his case he has already taught me patience and maybe much more to come all because i cant say anything to him about his disappearances cuz of no rs.. i m learning more..
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
Lol
You may elaborate. I'm accepting criticism today 😂
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I have nothing. I was laughing because that's something I'd say.

You and Britt my Aqua twins 😂


Huh? I was talking about you saying "Be harsh AF". That's something I'd say if I wanted someone's opinion of me. Lol

No ones ever harsh unless you don't ask for their opinions. So it needs to be said. But she wasn'teven harsh so i got ripped.

You always think the similar things as me and i relate to lots of things you say. Brittnie is my aries moon twin. She lived the Aqua leo relationship with me but in reverse. So your both my opposite twins without being the opposite.
Is that why no one ever asks me for my honest opinion except for @señoritaLL ? Lol. I can be harsh wahahahah
Lol. I noticed. But i don't need to ask for it. You offer your opinions on Leo's freely and quite often. I wanted her opinion because she was in an Aqua-Leo relationship at the same time as me and we broke up around the same time too.
I need some opinions about me based on my chart as well.. i have never had any guy tell me how i could b annoying.. except for my mom.. she always says my stubborness is hardest to deal with and that i dont open up easy

i need a guy to tell me how especially an aqua for now at least lol


My mum says that too me too. I'm too closed and need to give people a chance. Even though your leo bits want to rush and not waste time, you need to slow down to get to know someone properly. So slow down. Slow the texts and the rush to get everything right now. You don't need to know if it's going to last forever in one day. So take a step back. I don't think Aqua will help you open up. They are slow to open up and trust too. But he will teach you patience and to be calm, even if it's frustrating and doesn't work out the way you want, this will be a lesson for you. So learn from it and grow. Also know that not everyone shows love or care the same way, everyone is different. It doesn't mean they don't care as much, they just show it in other ways.
right.. i dont mind waiting for as a leo i only concentrate on one person at a time other wise theres too much confusion for me.. and if i am concentrating on him m hoping for results soon.. its like any other thing i do.. if i need something done its getting done before i go to sleep.. and if that means no sleep for the night then be it..

but in his case he has already taught me patience and maybe much more to come all because i cant say anything to him about his disappearances cuz of no rs.. i m learning more..
I'm like that too. I get fixated on one person and then it takes a long time to let go. I don't flirt or entertain other guys or want attention from anyone else. I pick one, and don't look at anyone else. That's what makes us loyal and that's good. But it is also bad because it means we focus less on other things and give too much attention and people take that for granted and then we get hurt. You need to find balance.

Aquarius is our Oppositite sign. So we balance each other. But if we push or pull each other too much, we destroy that balance. You need to find the middle of the two signs. That will give you balance in your relationship and in yourself and everything else.

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right..

so this is the longest i havent messaged him.. wished him morning and sent him a pic of myself smiling.. we exchange smiling selfies in the morning.. he answered and said beautiful smile and morning baby.. i said waiting on ur smile now.. that was 7am.. did not msg him all day after that and neither did he..

wont he think m ignoring him or something? or i should keep going..
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
Lol
You may elaborate. I'm accepting criticism today 😂
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I have nothing. I was laughing because that's something I'd say.

You and Britt my Aqua twins 😂


Huh? I was talking about you saying "Be harsh AF". That's something I'd say if I wanted someone's opinion of me. Lol

No ones ever harsh unless you don't ask for their opinions. So it needs to be said. But she wasn'teven harsh so i got ripped.

You always think the similar things as me and i relate to lots of things you say. Brittnie is my aries moon twin. She lived the Aqua leo relationship with me but in reverse. So your both my opposite twins without being the opposite.
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😂😂😂😂 Yesterday, your post before this one, completely went over my head I was half sleep smh. I got it now. How embarrassing! he he
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
Lol
You may elaborate. I'm accepting criticism today 😂
😂

I have nothing. I was laughing because that's something I'd say.

You and Britt my Aqua twins 😂


Huh? I was talking about you saying "Be harsh AF". That's something I'd say if I wanted someone's opinion of me. Lol

No ones ever harsh unless you don't ask for their opinions. So it needs to be said. But she wasn'teven harsh so i got ripped.

You always think the similar things as me and i relate to lots of things you say. Brittnie is my aries moon twin. She lived the Aqua leo relationship with me but in reverse. So your both my opposite twins without being the opposite.
😂😂😂😂 Yesterday, your post before this one, completely went over my head I was half sleep smh. I got it now. How embarrassing! he he
😂 It was a pretty random comment so i don't blame you for not getting it.
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.....wasn't random at all. It was clearly related to the comment I made above that. Don't make excuses for me 😂😂😂😂
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
Lol
You may elaborate. I'm accepting criticism today 😂
😂

I have nothing. I was laughing because that's something I'd say.

You and Britt my Aqua twins 😂


Huh? I was talking about you saying "Be harsh AF". That's something I'd say if I wanted someone's opinion of me. Lol

No ones ever harsh unless you don't ask for their opinions. So it needs to be said. But she wasn'teven harsh so i got ripped.

You always think the similar things as me and i relate to lots of things you say. Brittnie is my aries moon twin. She lived the Aqua leo relationship with me but in reverse. So your both my opposite twins without being the opposite.
😂😂😂😂 Yesterday, your post before this one, completely went over my head I was half sleep smh. I got it now. How embarrassing! he he
😂 It was a pretty random comment so i don't blame you for not getting it.
.....wasn't random at all. It was clearly related to the comment I made above that. Don't make excuses for me 😂😂😂😂
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
Lol
You may elaborate. I'm accepting criticism today 😂
😂

I have nothing. I was laughing because that's something I'd say.

You and Britt my Aqua twins 😂


Huh? I was talking about you saying "Be harsh AF". That's something I'd say if I wanted someone's opinion of me. Lol

No ones ever harsh unless you don't ask for their opinions. So it needs to be said. But she wasn'teven harsh so i got ripped.

You always think the similar things as me and i relate to lots of things you say. Brittnie is my aries moon twin. She lived the Aqua leo relationship with me but in reverse. So your both my opposite twins without being the opposite.
Is that why no one ever asks me for my honest opinion except for @señoritaLL ? Lol. I can be harsh wahahahah
Lol. I noticed. But i don't need to ask for it. You offer your opinions on Leo's freely and quite often. I wanted her opinion because she was in an Aqua-Leo relationship at the same time as me and we broke up around the same time too.
I need some opinions about me based on my chart as well.. i have never had any guy tell me how i could b annoying.. except for my mom.. she always says my stubborness is hardest to deal with and that i dont open up easy

i need a guy to tell me how especially an aqua for now at least lol


My mum says that too me too. I'm too closed and need to give people a chance. Even though your leo bits want to rush and not waste time, you need to slow down to get to know someone properly. So slow down. Slow the texts and the rush to get everything right now. You don't need to know if it's going to last forever in one day. So take a step back. I don't think Aqua will help you open up. They are slow to open up and trust too. But he will teach you patience and to be calm, even if it's frustrating and doesn't work out the way you want, this will be a lesson for you. So learn from it and grow. Also know that not everyone shows love or care the same way, everyone is different. It doesn't mean they don't care as much, they just show it in other ways.
right.. i dont mind waiting for as a leo i only concentrate on one person at a time other wise theres too much confusion for me.. and if i am concentrating on him m hoping for results soon.. its like any other thing i do.. if i need something done its getting done before i go to sleep.. and if that means no sleep for the night then be it..

but in his case he has already taught me patience and maybe much more to come all because i cant say anything to him about his disappearances cuz of no rs.. i m learning more..
I'm like that too. I get fixated on one person and then it takes a long time to let go. I don't flirt or entertain other guys or want attention from anyone else. I pick one, and don't look at anyone else. That's what makes us loyal and that's good. But it is also bad because it means we focus less on other things and give too much attention and people take that for granted and then we get hurt. You need to find balance.

Aquarius is our Oppositite sign. So we balance each other. But if we push or pull each other too much, we destroy that balance. You need to find the middle of the two signs. That will give you balance in your relationship and in yourself and everything else.

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so this is the longest i havent messaged him.. wished him morning and sent him a pic of myself smiling.. we exchange smiling selfies in the morning.. he answered and said beautiful smile and morning baby.. i said waiting on ur smile now.. that was 7am.. did not msg him all day after that and neither did he..

wont he think m ignoring him or something? or i should keep going..
Why would he think your ignoring him? You messaged him and he didn't message back. Sounds like he's ignoring you, not the other way around. Don't message him anymore. If he wants to talk to you, he can contact you. A relationship or friendship is 2 people working together. Not one person making an effort while the other does nothing. If he doesn't make you feel like you're woth the effort too, find someone who will.
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yea.. he video called.. so i guess until he dont ans me back im gonna give him space to figure things out
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..
I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??
I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.
Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!
Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?
Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF
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I have nothing. I was laughing because that's something I'd say.

You and Britt my Aqua twins 😂


Huh? I was talking about you saying "Be harsh AF". That's something I'd say if I wanted someone's opinion of me. Lol

No ones ever harsh unless you don't ask for their opinions. So it needs to be said. But she wasn'teven harsh so i got ripped.

You always think the similar things as me and i relate to lots of things you say. Brittnie is my aries moon twin. She lived the Aqua leo relationship with me but in reverse. So your both my opposite twins without being the opposite.
Is that why no one ever asks me for my honest opinion except for @señoritaLL ? Lol. I can be harsh wahahahah
Lol. I noticed. But i don't need to ask for it. You offer your opinions on Leo's freely and quite often. I wanted her opinion because she was in an Aqua-Leo relationship at the same time as me and we broke up around the same time too.
I need some opinions about me based on my chart as well.. i have never had any guy tell me how i could b annoying.. except for my mom.. she always says my stubborness is hardest to deal with and that i dont open up easy

i need a guy to tell me how especially an aqua for now at least lol


My mum says that too me too. I'm too closed and need to give people a chance. Even though your leo bits want to rush and not waste time, you need to slow down to get to know someone properly. So slow down. Slow the texts and the rush to get everything right now. You don't need to know if it's going to last forever in one day. So take a step back. I don't think Aqua will help you open up. They are slow to open up and trust too. But he will teach you patience and to be calm, even if it's frustrating and doesn't work out the way you want, this will be a lesson for you. So learn from it and grow. Also know that not everyone shows love or care the same way, everyone is different. It doesn't mean they don't care as much, they just show it in other ways.
right.. i dont mind waiting for as a leo i only concentrate on one person at a time other wise theres too much confusion for me.. and if i am concentrating on him m hoping for results soon.. its like any other thing i do.. if i need something done its getting done before i go to sleep.. and if that means no sleep for the night then be it..

but in his case he has already taught me patience and maybe much more to come all because i cant say anything to him about his disappearances cuz of no rs.. i m learning more..
I'm like that too. I get fixated on one person and then it takes a long time to let go. I don't flirt or entertain other guys or want attention from anyone else. I pick one, and don't look at anyone else. That's what makes us loyal and that's good. But it is also bad because it means we focus less on other things and give too much attention and people take that for granted and then we get hurt. You need to find balance.

Aquarius is our Oppositite sign. So we balance each other. But if we push or pull each other too much, we destroy that balance. You need to find the middle of the two signs. That will give you balance in your relationship and in yourself and everything else.

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so this is the longest i havent messaged him.. wished him morning and sent him a pic of myself smiling.. we exchange smiling selfies in the morning.. he answered and said beautiful smile and morning baby.. i said waiting on ur smile now.. that was 7am.. did not msg him all day after that and neither did he..

wont he think m ignoring him or something? or i should keep going..
Why would he think your ignoring him? You messaged him and he didn't message back. Sounds like he's ignoring you, not the other way around. Don't message him anymore. If he wants to talk to you, he can contact you. A relationship or friendship is 2 people working together. Not one person making an effort while the other does nothing. If he doesn't make you feel like you're woth the effort too, find someone who will.
yea.. he video called.. so i guess until he dont ans me back im gonna give him space to figure things out
Ok if he video called, he's not ignoring you. He probably cbf reply to text messages. If you text him and he calls instead of replying that's not ignoring you. As long as he's calling, that's good even if he doesn't reply to your texts straight away. He probably likes your texts but doesn't want to text back amd forth all day. So just keep doing what you were doing before. If he's not calling plus not replying is when you have a problem.
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Ok so my patience is wearing out.. So i haven't been texting him much, only send him one message and i wait until he answer.. which could b the next day as well..

Now few days ago, i messaged him in the evening saying "hey, how was ur game?".. he was online did not ans me for good 1 hour.. and when he did he said he did really good and asked me how was my day.. i was annoyed and busy so i did not answer, but he knows i saw his message.. so after half an hour he messaged me again and said he have missed me a lot and that he is always thinking about me.. and i still didnt answer.. then he went on and started telling about his school and games and how he have been busy and all..

I messaged him after 2 hours and by then my hothead was calm.. i didnt want to say something to him while i was angry.. so i told him i missed him too but i dont message much because i feel like u dont want to talk to which he said no he will never feel that way about me.. that he knows he get side tracked a lot and apologized for it.. and i said its okay.. then we texted for 2 minutes and he left the chat again.. like he did not read my message until the next day..

then yesterday i called him in the afternoon, cuz he told me he had his league final game and wanted to talk to me before the game..

he answered, and we talked for 5 minutes and mind u.. this time we talked on phone after 6 days or more.. before ending the call he asked me to text him and i jokingly said yea i will but u r not gonna ans.. and he laughed and said "no i promise i will, and i will call too, and i am sorry for not checking up on u as much as i should but know that i deeply care for u".. to which i said.. awww really.. i do too.. and i will see about ur promise and i will msg u...

i messaged him and asked him about his game.. no ans..

good night.. no ans..

i called just now.. no ans..

and i just messaged and told him i was just checking up on him because he usually complains about knee pain after the game.. and asked him if he was ok..

no ans..

I honestly feel like messaging him and saying this is the 3rd time he promised me something, so dont promise if u cant fulfil.. and that whenever u feel like talking lemme know because i dont appreciate doing this everyday where.. u can text me and ask me how was my day and then when i tell u.. u dont even ans back.. but u stay online.. like tf? dont ask me nothing if u dont want an ans..

either this or m gonna ignore him.. or ignore him and then if he asks whats wrong then confront him..
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OH I would love to see that first message you hid. I have never dated an aqua.. all these threads talking about how difficult they are. Scary! After I just dealt with a Cap.



Well I just met an Aqua on an online dating site. We met Saturday and definite connection. Now we have a date on Thursday. I must say he’s confused me already. One amazing conversation on the dating site & we were texting amazing conversations offline & he is saying goodnight & good morning every day. We hadn’t even met! And it was more attention than my freaking Cap ex-bf gave me. But in reality, it is only the beginning. And I have only initiated once and am trying not to get dragged into thinking it’s more already just from how he’s acting. He can show me what he wants.



I think really we have to see the actions are matching the words. This one seems a little impulsive & interested but also cautious if that makes sense. If I were you, i’d Stop paying attention to the little things and let him show you what he wants. I’m not a Leo & I know Leo’s get frustrated if you aren’t doing what they want. But, honestly I think it works better when you let them show you.



I was with a cap before too.. and compared to aqua.. he was dirt.. sucked the life out of me.. cheating lies.. almost living 5 lives at a time.. m.also glad its done
With aqua.. we are not dating.. i argued with him on a video on insta.. and he added me saying he likes how i have strong opinion and i didnt back down.. we clicked right away.. all same traits like u explained.. he opened up about his past.. and we are very good friends.. and there is a sense of respect.. and i have let him do all the pursuing and m laying low with my emotions..
we meet once and after that.. he started responding less.. still called but on his own time... never msg me right away but also never end the convos.. m usually the one who says i will ttyl.. feels like he testing my patience at times..
i had someone ask me out.. and i said no to him.. and i told aqua that this happened and he said ya tell them to stay away from my girl.. but it wasnt to make him feel jealous.. just a normal convo and i brought this up..
and there are some days where he ignores me.. and someone else in this convo told me aquas dont know they r ignoring u.. so i guess that makes up for it..
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Damn girl! He is opening up to you a lot but it sounds like you don’t open up at all? No wonder he is backing down. You better be sure you are letting him in like he is letting you in. We don’t let people in on our feelings so you better appreciate it!
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I am still there trying to see if we can go places is because when we do talk, its different.. he says white, i say black but at the end we agree on grey.. before when he used to ans me an hour late he will apologize and now no ans no apology.. but whatever that aint a big deal..

I wish i could ignore and not care until he answer.. but then i think will he really answer.. so if i ignore i would have to ignore with the mentality that he might not ans back and i gotta move on??



I know how frustrating it is. But you need to think of him like a girl friend. You don't care if they don't reply for ages or whatever... so why are you treating him differently and setting different standards and expectations?

I know you have it in your head how a guy should treat you. But Aquarius is retarded and they don't do anything you want or expect. They're not even trying to piss you off, they genuinely don't even realize they're different. You can either just accept that's how they are, even though it seems insane! Or you go date a Scorpio. They do all the nice romantic things and you'll never need to ask for more.

But if your heart is stupid and likes the Aquarius, you just have to accept the good with the bad. They're a package deal. It's like getting a pack of snakes. You only want the red ones, but you have to accept that if you want the red ones, you need to accept the green shitty flavored ones too.



Lmao that pretty much sums it up!!



Lol. Was dealing with a leo this frustrating for you?



Well funnily enough my best friend is a Aries Sun Leo moon and he is opposite. Leo sun Aries moon. So if he did something and I was overthinking and she would explain his actions and thinking. It helped me a lot or we would have crashed and burned like 2, 3 months in 😁



Well I'm Leo sun and Aries moon. So tell me everything is wrong or Annoying about my combination. I want to know from an Aquarius point of view so what parts of us are difficult to understand or deal with.

Be harsh AF



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You may elaborate. I'm accepting criticism today 😂



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I have nothing. I was laughing because that's something I'd say.


You and Britt my Aqua twins 😂





Huh? I was talking about you saying "Be harsh AF". That's something I'd say if I wanted someone's opinion of me. Lol


No ones ever harsh unless you don't ask for their opinions. So it needs to be said. But she wasn'teven harsh so i got ripped.

You always think the similar things as me and i relate to lots of things you say. Brittnie is my aries moon twin. She lived the Aqua leo relationship with me but in reverse. So your both my opposite twins without being the opposite.



Is that why no one ever asks me for my honest opinion except for @señoritaLL ? Lol. I can be harsh wahahahah



Lol. I noticed. But i don't need to ask for it. You offer your opinions on Leo's freely and quite often. I wanted her opinion because she was in an Aqua-Leo relationship at the same time as me and we broke up around the same time too.



I need some opinions about me based on my chart as well.. i have never had any guy tell me how i could b annoying.. except for my mom.. she always says my stubborness is hardest to deal with and that i dont open up easy
i need a guy to tell me how especially an aqua for now at least lol




My mum says that too me too. I'm too closed and need to give people a chance. Even though your leo bits want to rush and not waste time, you need to slow down to get to know someone properly. So slow down. Slow the texts and the rush to get everything right now. You don't need to know if it's going to last forever in one day. So take a step back. I don't think Aqua will help you open up. They are slow to open up and trust too. But he will teach you patience and to be calm, even if it's frustrating and doesn't work out the way you want, this will be a lesson for you. So learn from it and grow. Also know that not everyone shows love or care the same way, everyone is different. It doesn't mean they don't care as much, they just show it in other ways.



right.. i dont mind waiting for as a leo i only concentrate on one person at a time other wise theres too much confusion for me.. and if i am concentrating on him m hoping for results soon.. its like any other thing i do.. if i need something done its getting done before i go to sleep.. and if that means no sleep for the night then be it..
but in his case he has already taught me patience and maybe much more to come all because i cant say anything to him about his disappearances cuz of no rs.. i m learning more..



I'm like that too. I get fixated on one person and then it takes a long time to let go. I don't flirt or entertain other guys or want attention from anyone else. I pick one, and don't look at anyone else. That's what makes us loyal and that's good. But it is also bad because it means we focus less on other things and give too much attention and people take that for granted and then we get hurt. You need to find balance.

Aquarius is our Oppositite sign. So we balance each other. But if we push or pull each other too much, we destroy that balance. You need to find the middle of the two signs. That will give you balance in your relationship and in yourself and everything else.





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so this is the longest i havent messaged him.. wished him morning and sent him a pic of myself smiling.. we exchange smiling selfies in the morning.. he answered and said beautiful smile and morning baby.. i said waiting on ur smile now.. that was 7am.. did not msg him all day after that and neither did he..
wont he think m ignoring him or something? or i should keep going..



Why would he think your ignoring him? You messaged him and he didn't message back. Sounds like he's ignoring you, not the other way around. Don't message him anymore. If he wants to talk to you, he can contact you. A relationship or friendship is 2 people working together. Not one person making an effort while the other does nothing. If he doesn't make you feel like you're woth the effort too, find someone who will. click to expand
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Why does he HAVE to be ignoring her? What if something came up? I don’t understand why everyone is so quick to jump ship 😭😭😭😭
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OH I would love to see that first message you hid. I have never dated an aqua.. all these threads talking about how difficult they are. Scary! After I just dealt with a Cap.





Well I just met an Aqua on an online dating site. We met Saturday and definite connection. Now we have a date on Thursday. I must say he’s confused me already. One amazing conversation on the dating site & we were texting amazing conversations offline & he is saying goodnight & good morning every day. We hadn’t even met! And it was more attention than my freaking Cap ex-bf gave me. But in reality, it is only the beginning. And I have only initiated once and am trying not to get dragged into thinking it’s more already just from how he’s acting. He can show me what he wants.





I think really we have to see the actions are matching the words. This one seems a little impulsive & interested but also cautious if that makes sense. If I were you, i’d Stop paying attention to the little things and let him show you what he wants. I’m not a Leo & I know Leo’s get frustrated if you aren’t doing what they want. But, honestly I think it works better when you let them show you.





I was with a cap before too.. and compared to aqua.. he was dirt.. sucked the life out of me.. cheating lies.. almost living 5 lives at a time.. m.also glad its done

With aqua.. we are not dating.. i argued with him on a video on insta.. and he added me saying he likes how i have strong opinion and i didnt back down.. we clicked right away.. all same traits like u explained.. he opened up about his past.. and we are very good friends.. and there is a sense of respect.. and i have let him do all the pursuing and m laying low with my emotions..

we meet once and after that.. he started responding less.. still called but on his own time... never msg me right away but also never end the convos.. m usually the one who says i will ttyl.. feels like he testing my patience at times..

i had someone ask me out.. and i said no to him.. and i told aqua that this happened and he said ya tell them to stay away from my girl.. but it wasnt to make him feel jealous.. just a normal convo and i brought this up..

and there are some days where he ignores me.. and someone else in this convo told me aquas dont know they r ignoring u.. so i guess that makes up for it..

but he has also told me that he gets distant because he started liking me too much.. i think he is low key scared of rejection from me.. and because he doesnt want to lose the friend in him he doesnt pursue me click to expand



Damn girl! He is opening up to you a lot but it sounds like you don’t open up at all? No wonder he is backing down. You better be sure you are letting him in like he is letting you in. We don’t let people in on our feelings so you better appreciate it! click to expand
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Trust me i got mushy with him.. opened up with him and told him i liked him..

u should read my recent message on this post..

and in addition to that msg.. he just messaged and said he was having a bad headache so i got mushy like the other leo girl suggested.. and told him warm coconut oil coming up for head massage.. and said some other mushy things.. sent him a kiss (like pic of myself, this was my first time doing it).. and asked him if it helped.. he said he loved it and from now on whenever something bad happens he just gonna look at my pic (kiss pic) cuz it made him happy.. and then he sent me 💍🙏🏽 this as a message.. i asked him what was that.. he said "marry me lol".. and he already calls me insta wife.. so i told him we married but my husband dont really like talking to me.. to which he said just be patient he will come around and "you have done a pretty good job so far and i appreciate ur patience, if it was someone else she would have left, or told me that i have another girl on the side, but u have been very calm"...

he gets sweet once in a while.. and then i hold on even tighter.. but then he dont say anything sweet for good week or so...is it like some sweet attack aquas get once in a while?
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That’s very sweet! Yes! My Leo was the only man to ever give me space and not try to control me. I also did the same for me and he told me he was so lucky he had found me and I was amazing then it got rocky because he had problems with me, assumed it was something else when all he had to do was talk to me about it. Here I am thinking things are FanFUCKINGtastic and he leaves lol neither one of us told the other our own feelings until we split and i caved and he said nothing. He said he was too much man to have feelings pretty soon into the relationship so I plead with everyone to communicate and trust your partner. I know it killed me when he left, I don’t want that for others
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That’s very sweet! Yes! My Leo was the only man to ever give me space and not try to control me. I also did the same for me and he told me he was so lucky he had found me and I was amazing then it got rocky because he had problems with me, assumed it was something else when all he had to do was talk to me about it. Here I am thinking things are FantreetrunkINGtastic and he leaves lol neither one of us told the other our own feelings until we split and i caved and he said nothing. He said he was too much man to have feelings pretty soon into the relationship so I plead with everyone to communicate and trust your partner. I know it killed me when he left, I don’t want that for others
as i leo.. if i have to give too much space or if someone gives me a lot of space i grow distant with time.. distant enough to not snap back and once feelings die for someone i am emotionally done with that person theres no getting those feelings back..

cant speak for men.. but if i as a leo woman is on track to leave u emotionally i will b done for good..

so ya he didnt say anything u didnt share ur feelings and it all went cold.. m sorry that happened tho..

see this is why i feel like i need to push him more and knock some feelings into him
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That’s very sweet! Yes! My Leo was the only man to ever give me space and not try to control me. I also did the same for me and he told me he was so lucky he had found me and I was amazing then it got rocky because he had problems with me, assumed it was something else when all he had to do was talk to me about it. Here I am thinking things are FantreetrunkINGtastic and he leaves lol neither one of us told the other our own feelings until we split and i caved and he said nothing. He said he was too much man to have feelings pretty soon into the relationship so I plead with everyone to communicate and trust your partner. I know it killed me when he left, I don’t want that for others
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as i leo.. if i have to give too much space or if someone gives me a lot of space i grow distant with time.. distant enough to not snap back and once feelings die for someone i am emotionally done with that person theres no getting those feelings back..
cant speak for men.. but if i as a leo woman is on track to leave u emotionally i will b done for good..
so ya he didnt say anything u didnt share ur feelings and it all went cold.. m sorry that happened tho..
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That’s very sweet! Yes! My Leo was the only man to ever give me space and not try to control me. I also did the same for me and he told me he was so lucky he had found me and I was amazing then it got rocky because he had problems with me, assumed it was something else when all he had to do was talk to me about it. Here I am thinking things are FantreetrunkINGtastic and he leaves lol neither one of us told the other our own feelings until we split and i caved and he said nothing. He said he was too much man to have feelings pretty soon into the relationship so I plead with everyone to communicate and trust your partner. I know it killed me when he left, I don’t want that for others
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as i leo.. if i have to give too much space or if someone gives me a lot of space i grow distant with time.. distant enough to not snap back and once feelings die for someone i am emotionally done with that person theres no getting those feelings back..
cant speak for men.. but if i as a leo woman is on track to leave u emotionally i will b done for good..
so ya he didnt say anything u didnt share ur feelings and it all went cold.. m sorry that happened tho..
see this is why i feel like i need to push him more and knock some feelings into him click to expand
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I don’t know this wouldn’t send. Pissing me off anyway, here it is.

That’s where we are similar. I’m the same way but not with him. He is the only one that I’ve never lost feelings for. I’m Aqua, Sag dominant so I was a commitment phone lol I realized with this relationship that a lot of the problems I had were in my head. He said the same thing when he left. He apologized he knew it was him and not me because I begged him to tell me. We were both at fault and he realized it and I realized it. How is someone supposed to know there is a problem if you don’t communicate? You can’t knock feelings into him. It is very obvious to me that he has feelings for you. As an Aqua I have never been good at “showing” love. My Leo was showing me how a lot and no one understands how much we change for you guys. It is a slow process. You can’t learn a new language over night because that’s essentially what it’s like. You feel the same way about each other and show it in completely different ways. You don’t understand him cuz you aren’t him. You both have to compromise and it seems like such hard work because it is. To him you are worth it, is he worth it to you?
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I don’t know this wouldn’t send. Pissing me off anyway, here it is.

That’s where we are similar. I’m the same way but not with him. He is the only one that I’ve never lost feelings for. I’m Aqua, Sag dominant so I was a commitment phone lol I realized with this relationship that a lot of the problems I had were in my head. He said the same thing when he left. He apologized he knew it was him and not me because I begged him to tell me. We were both at fault and he realized it and I realized it. How is someone supposed to know there is a problem if you don’t communicate? You can’t knock feelings into him. It is very obvious to me that he has feelings for you. As an Aqua I have never been good at “showing” love. My Leo was showing me how a lot and no one understands how much we change for you guys. It is a slow process. You can’t learn a new language over night because that’s essentially what it’s like. You feel the same way about each other and show it in completely different ways. You don’t understand him cuz you aren’t him. You both have to compromise and it seems like such hard work because it is. To him you are worth it, is he worth it to you?
I think for me when i submit to someone, i go all in, i dont pay attention to someone else, its him right now thats it.. even though we aint dating, he gives me mixed signals.. when we meet the first time he asked what was it suppose to b a date or what.. and i said a friendly date.. and then he asked he wanted to see me again.. and when i confessed my feelings to him i told him how about make out next meeting our date.. and that i like him and if he is not on same level as i am then i was sorry.. to which he said he want to take it slow and that he is scared.. trust issues from oast relationships so..

had 1 relationship and it was with a cap.. if i compare.. yup he is definitely worth it.. but i think cuz i have like leo everywhere in my chart.. i expect as much in return emotionally than anything else.. but yea the showing love part.. it comes with time.. but for me its like u already know u like me and u know i like u so get to the business.. but then i end up remembering how he is always like he is scared that he will either get hurt or will hurt me somehow.. or that he is a coward when submitting to feelings.. then i tend to stick up with him and not leave.. cuz i want to give him a fair chance..

just the time he is taking and being too sweet for one day and barely talk at all for rest of the week that bothers me..

i also understand where u coming from.. i think once aquas submit they will respect their partners more than before.. so thats when they actually compromise..

and yea he creates problems in his head as well too.. will say something sweet and if i dont ans right away he will say "sorry m talking too much".. like hold on lemme look for mushier words to say back to u..

so yea creating things and overthinking.. i can see it..

i just hope he does what he has to and confess already
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I don’t know this wouldn’t send. Pissing me off anyway, here it is.



That’s where we are similar. I’m the same way but not with him. He is the only one that I’ve never lost feelings for. I’m Aqua, Sag dominant so I was a commitment phone lol I realized with this relationship that a lot of the problems I had were in my head. He said the same thing when he left. He apologized he knew it was him and not me because I begged him to tell me. We were both at fault and he realized it and I realized it. How is someone supposed to know there is a problem if you don’t communicate? You can’t knock feelings into him. It is very obvious to me that he has feelings for you. As an Aqua I have never been good at “showing” love. My Leo was showing me how a lot and no one understands how much we change for you guys. It is a slow process. You can’t learn a new language over night because that’s essentially what it’s like. You feel the same way about each other and show it in completely different ways. You don’t understand him cuz you aren’t him. You both have to compromise and it seems like such hard work because it is. To him you are worth it, is he worth it to you?



I think for me when i submit to someone, i go all in, i dont pay attention to someone else, its him right now thats it.. even though we aint dating, he gives me mixed signals.. when we meet the first time he asked what was it suppose to b a date or what.. and i said a friendly date.. and then he asked he wanted to see me again.. and when i confessed my feelings to him i told him how about make out next meeting our date.. and that i like him and if he is not on same level as i am then i was sorry.. to which he said he want to take it slow and that he is scared.. trust issues from oast relationships so..

had 1 relationship and it was with a cap.. if i compare.. yup he is definitely worth it.. but i think cuz i have like leo everywhere in my chart.. i expect as much in return emotionally than anything else.. but yea the showing love part.. it comes with time.. but for me its like u already know u like me and u know i like u so get to the business.. but then i end up remembering how he is always like he is scared that he will either get hurt or will hurt me somehow.. or that he is a coward when submitting to feelings.. then i tend to stick up with him and not leave.. cuz i want to give him a fair chance..
just the time he is taking and being too sweet for one day and barely talk at all for rest of the week that bothers me..
i also understand where u coming from.. i think once aquas submit they will respect their partners more than before.. so thats when they actually compromise..
and yea he creates problems in his head as well too.. will say something sweet and if i dont ans right away he will say "sorry m talking too much".. like hold on lemme look for mushier words to say back to u..
so yea creating things and overthinking.. i can see it..
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Confess what? 😁
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That’s very sweet! Yes! My Leo was the only man to ever give me space and not try to control me. I also did the same for me and he told me he was so lucky he had found me and I was amazing then it got rocky because he had problems with me, assumed it was something else when all he had to do was talk to me about it. Here I am thinking things are FantreetrunkINGtastic and he leaves lol neither one of us told the other our own feelings until we split and i caved and he said nothing. He said he was too much man to have feelings pretty soon into the relationship so I plead with everyone to communicate and trust your partner. I know it killed me when he left, I don’t want that for others



as i leo.. if i have to give too much space or if someone gives me a lot of space i grow distant with time.. distant enough to not snap back and once feelings die for someone i am emotionally done with that person theres no getting those feelings back..
cant speak for men.. but if i as a leo woman is on track to leave u emotionally i will b done for good..
so ya he didnt say anything u didnt share ur feelings and it all went cold.. m sorry that happened tho..
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Get down to business 😂😂😂 classic Leo 😂
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Ok so my patience is wearing out.. So i haven't been texting him much, only send him one message and i wait until he answer.. which could b the next day as well..

Now few days ago, i messaged him in the evening saying "hey, how was ur game?".. he was online did not ans me for good 1 hour.. and when he did he said he did really good and asked me how was my day.. i was annoyed and busy so i did not answer, but he knows i saw his message.. so after half an hour he messaged me again and said he have missed me a lot and that he is always thinking about me.. and i still didnt answer.. then he went on and started telling about his school and games and how he have been busy and all..

I messaged him after 2 hours and by then my hothead was calm.. i didnt want to say something to him while i was angry.. so i told him i missed him too but i dont message much because i feel like u dont want to talk to which he said no he will never feel that way about me.. that he knows he get side tracked a lot and apologized for it.. and i said its okay.. then we texted for 2 minutes and he left the chat again.. like he did not read my message until the next day..

then yesterday i called him in the afternoon, cuz he told me he had his league final game and wanted to talk to me before the game..

he answered, and we talked for 5 minutes and mind u.. this time we talked on phone after 6 days or more.. before ending the call he asked me to text him and i jokingly said yea i will but u r not gonna ans.. and he laughed and said "no i promise i will, and i will call too, and i am sorry for not checking up on u as much as i should but know that i deeply care for u".. to which i said.. awww really.. i do too.. and i will see about ur promise and i will msg u...

i messaged him and asked him about his game.. no ans..

good night.. no ans..

i called just now.. no ans..

and i just messaged and told him i was just checking up on him because he usually complains about knee pain after the game.. and asked him if he was ok..

no ans..

I honestly feel like messaging him and saying this is the 3rd time he promised me something, so dont promise if u cant fulfil.. and that whenever u feel like talking lemme know because i dont appreciate doing this everyday where.. u can text me and ask me how was my day and then when i tell u.. u dont even ans back.. but u stay online.. like tf? dont ask me nothing if u dont want an ans..

either this or m gonna ignore him.. or ignore him and then if he asks whats wrong then confront him..






Ok so Aquarius and Leo is frustrating. We are opposite signs so we have this push pull thing going. We're like magnets though and we feel feelings for each other that we don't feel for other people. So stick it out if you can. Aquarius is lazy and they don't initiate much so it feels like we're making the effort and they're not. That doesn't mean they don't like us or that they like us less than we like them, they're just lazy. So try to accept that he'll reply eventually, instead of waiting by the phone. Or just tell him you don't like being ignored and it's not something you know how to handle and agree that neither of you will ignore each other. maybe he will try to avoid doing that to you if he knows you're not wanting to play those games either click to expand
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With my Aqua Sag bits I NEVER had my phone. I had it a lot more with Leo but I would still sit it somewhere and run off. I can tell I really annoyed him. I’m so glad that even though we annoy you, you understand us somewhat lmao 😂 my Aqua translator
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Ok so my patience is wearing out.. So i haven't been texting him much, only send him one message and i wait until he answer.. which could b the next day as well..



Now few days ago, i messaged him in the evening saying "hey, how was ur game?".. he was online did not ans me for good 1 hour.. and when he did he said he did really good and asked me how was my day.. i was annoyed and busy so i did not answer, but he knows i saw his message.. so after half an hour he messaged me again and said he have missed me a lot and that he is always thinking about me.. and i still didnt answer.. then he went on and started telling about his school and games and how he have been busy and all..



I messaged him after 2 hours and by then my hothead was calm.. i didnt want to say something to him while i was angry.. so i told him i missed him too but i dont message much because i feel like u dont want to talk to which he said no he will never feel that way about me.. that he knows he get side tracked a lot and apologized for it.. and i said its okay.. then we texted for 2 minutes and he left the chat again.. like he did not read my message until the next day..



then yesterday i called him in the afternoon, cuz he told me he had his league final game and wanted to talk to me before the game..



he answered, and we talked for 5 minutes and mind u.. this time we talked on phone after 6 days or more.. before ending the call he asked me to text him and i jokingly said yea i will but u r not gonna ans.. and he laughed and said "no i promise i will, and i will call too, and i am sorry for not checking up on u as much as i should but know that i deeply care for u".. to which i said.. awww really.. i do too.. and i will see about ur promise and i will msg u...



i messaged him and asked him about his game.. no ans..



good night.. no ans..



i called just now.. no ans..



and i just messaged and told him i was just checking up on him because he usually complains about knee pain after the game.. and asked him if he was ok..



no ans..



I honestly feel like messaging him and saying this is the 3rd time he promised me something, so dont promise if u cant fulfil.. and that whenever u feel like talking lemme know because i dont appreciate doing this everyday where.. u can text me and ask me how was my day and then when i tell u.. u dont even ans back.. but u stay online.. like tf? dont ask me nothing if u dont want an ans..



either this or m gonna ignore him.. or ignore him and then if he asks whats wrong then confront him..














Ok so Aquarius and Leo is frustrating. We are opposite signs so we have this push pull thing going. We're like magnets though and we feel feelings for each other that we don't feel for other people. So stick it out if you can. Aquarius is lazy and they don't initiate much so it feels like we're making the effort and they're not. That doesn't mean they don't like us or that they like us less than we like them, they're just lazy. So try to accept that he'll reply eventually, instead of waiting by the phone. Or just tell him you don't like being ignored and it's not something you know how to handle and agree that neither of you will ignore each other. maybe he will try to avoid doing that to you if he knows you're not wanting to play those games either click to expand





With my Aqua Sag bits I NEVER had my phone. I had it a lot more with Leo but I would still sit it somewhere and run off. I can tell I really annoyed him. I’m so glad that even though we annoy you, you understand us somewhat lmao 😂 my Aqua translator click to expand



Are you still talking to him or are you stopped?
i told him i hate being ignored and he's never ignored me. I agree with feelings staying, like you said. i still have feelings too. He called me last night and i feel like it's just finished for now, and not completely done yet. I think we both have feelings but we don't know how to make it work. But neither of us ever talks about it. click to expand
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Nope, I’m doing my own thing until I hear from him. I almost went back to Pisces after we broke up but I love him too much and I didn’t want to use Pisces just to temporarily make myself feel better. He will come around but until then I’m working on me. Mind he is a military Leo Sargent with a much bigger ego then even me so it will take time lol and I got all the time in the world baby!!! Damn I know the ignoring then. Both Leo’s and Aquas hate it! He did it to me some cuz He was checked out and depressed. This mans been to war so he has problems, I believe him and let it go. I’m glad y’all are at least talking. I think you will figure it out in due time. I can see y’all got what it takes to make this work and it makes my soul happy
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Ok so my patience is wearing out.. So i haven't been texting him much, only send him one message and i wait until he answer.. which could b the next day as well..





Now few days ago, i messaged him in the evening saying "hey, how was ur game?".. he was online did not ans me for good 1 hour.. and when he did he said he did really good and asked me how was my day.. i was annoyed and busy so i did not answer, but he knows i saw his message.. so after half an hour he messaged me again and said he have missed me a lot and that he is always thinking about me.. and i still didnt answer.. then he went on and started telling about his school and games and how he have been busy and all..





I messaged him after 2 hours and by then my hothead was calm.. i didnt want to say something to him while i was angry.. so i told him i missed him too but i dont message much because i feel like u dont want to talk to which he said no he will never feel that way about me.. that he knows he get side tracked a lot and apologized for it.. and i said its okay.. then we texted for 2 minutes and he left the chat again.. like he did not read my message until the next day..





then yesterday i called him in the afternoon, cuz he told me he had his league final game and wanted to talk to me before the game..





he answered, and we talked for 5 minutes and mind u.. this time we talked on phone after 6 days or more.. before ending the call he asked me to text him and i jokingly said yea i will but u r not gonna ans.. and he laughed and said "no i promise i will, and i will call too, and i am sorry for not checking up on u as much as i should but know that i deeply care for u".. to which i said.. awww really.. i do too.. and i will see about ur promise and i will msg u...





i messaged him and asked him about his game.. no ans..





good night.. no ans..





i called just now.. no ans..





and i just messaged and told him i was just checking up on him because he usually complains about knee pain after the game.. and asked him if he was ok..





no ans..





I honestly feel like messaging him and saying this is the 3rd time he promised me something, so dont promise if u cant fulfil.. and that whenever u feel like talking lemme know because i dont appreciate doing this everyday where.. u can text me and ask me how was my day and then when i tell u.. u dont even ans back.. but u stay online.. like tf? dont ask me nothing if u dont want an ans..





either this or m gonna ignore him.. or ignore him and then if he asks whats wrong then confront him..






















Ok so Aquarius and Leo is frustrating. We are opposite signs so we have this push pull thing going. We're like magnets though and we feel feelings for each other that we don't feel for other people. So stick it out if you can. Aquarius is lazy and they don't initiate much so it feels like we're making the effort and they're not. That doesn't mean they don't like us or that they like us less than we like them, they're just lazy. So try to accept that he'll reply eventually, instead of waiting by the phone. Or just tell him you don't like being ignored and it's not something you know how to handle and agree that neither of you will ignore each other. maybe he will try to avoid doing that to you if he knows you're not wanting to play those games either click to expand









With my Aqua Sag bits I NEVER had my phone. I had it a lot more with Leo but I would still sit it somewhere and run off. I can tell I really annoyed him. I’m so glad that even though we annoy you, you understand us somewhat lmao 😂 my Aqua translator click to expand







Are you still talking to him or are you stopped?


i told him i hate being ignored and he's never ignored me. I agree with feelings staying, like you said. i still have feelings too. He called me last night and i feel like it's just finished for now, and not completely done yet. I think we both have feelings but we don't know how to make it work. But neither of us ever talks about it. click to expand





Nope, I’m doing my own thing until I hear from him. I almost went back to Pisces after we broke up but I love him too much and I didn’t want to use Pisces just to temporarily make myself feel better. He will come around but until then I’m working on me. Mind he is a military Leo Sargent with a much bigger ego then even me so it will take time lol and I got all the time in the world baby!!! Damn I know the ignoring then. Both Leo’s and Aquas hate it! He did it to me some cuz He was checked out and depressed. This mans been to war so he has problems, I believe him and let it go. I’m glad y’all are at least talking. I think you will figure it out in due time. I can see y’all got what it takes to make this work and it makes my soul happy click to expand




You seem so patient. I don't think he would be calling me if i didn't contact him last month. Stubborn lil fucker. We're the same in a lot of ways and it's annoying lol. Yeah both aqua leo can't handle being ignored, we both have a fk you mentality when it comes to that sort of game. But I'm the opposite of you with time, i don't like wasting time and I want everything now! I'm like Joyran lol. That's why it's so hard for me to tell her to be patient or stick it out because it's damn hard for a leo! 😂

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girl I used to have my days where I was sick of this shit! Lol but it getting easier now they are just small moments. Remember I have Aries moon as well so if I could have it now I would love that but I do realize the best things come with time, patience and effort. I’m trying hard to be positive and the more I am, the easier it gets 😁 Both signs are so stubborn but we are doing well ☺️ Yea men are even more stubborn -rolls eyes-
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Ok so my patience is wearing out.. So i haven't been texting him much, only send him one message and i wait until he answer.. which could b the next day as well..







Now few days ago, i messaged him in the evening saying "hey, how was ur game?".. he was online did not ans me for good 1 hour.. and when he did he said he did really good and asked me how was my day.. i was annoyed and busy so i did not answer, but he knows i saw his message.. so after half an hour he messaged me again and said he have missed me a lot and that he is always thinking about me.. and i still didnt answer.. then he went on and started telling about his school and games and how he have been busy and all..







I messaged him after 2 hours and by then my hothead was calm.. i didnt want to say something to him while i was angry.. so i told him i missed him too but i dont message much because i feel like u dont want to talk to which he said no he will never feel that way about me.. that he knows he get side tracked a lot and apologized for it.. and i said its okay.. then we texted for 2 minutes and he left the chat again.. like he did not read my message until the next day..







then yesterday i called him in the afternoon, cuz he told me he had his league final game and wanted to talk to me before the game..







he answered, and we talked for 5 minutes and mind u.. this time we talked on phone after 6 days or more.. before ending the call he asked me to text him and i jokingly said yea i will but u r not gonna ans.. and he laughed and said "no i promise i will, and i will call too, and i am sorry for not checking up on u as much as i should but know that i deeply care for u".. to which i said.. awww really.. i do too.. and i will see about ur promise and i will msg u...







i messaged him and asked him about his game.. no ans..







good night.. no ans..







i called just now.. no ans..







and i just messaged and told him i was just checking up on him because he usually complains about knee pain after the game.. and asked him if he was ok..







no ans..







I honestly feel like messaging him and saying this is the 3rd time he promised me something, so dont promise if u cant fulfil.. and that whenever u feel like talking lemme know because i dont appreciate doing this everyday where.. u can text me and ask me how was my day and then when i tell u.. u dont even ans back.. but u stay online.. like tf? dont ask me nothing if u dont want an ans..







either this or m gonna ignore him.. or ignore him and then if he asks whats wrong then confront him..






























Ok so Aquarius and Leo is frustrating. We are opposite signs so we have this push pull thing going. We're like magnets though and we feel feelings for each other that we don't feel for other people. So stick it out if you can. Aquarius is lazy and they don't initiate much so it feels like we're making the effort and they're not. That doesn't mean they don't like us or that they like us less than we like them, they're just lazy. So try to accept that he'll reply eventually, instead of waiting by the phone. Or just tell him you don't like being ignored and it's not something you know how to handle and agree that neither of you will ignore each other. maybe he will try to avoid doing that to you if he knows you're not wanting to play those games either click to expand













With my Aqua Sag bits I NEVER had my phone. I had it a lot more with Leo but I would still sit it somewhere and run off. I can tell I really annoyed him. I’m so glad that even though we annoy you, you understand us somewhat lmao 😂 my Aqua translator click to expand











Are you still talking to him or are you stopped?




i told him i hate being ignored and he's never ignored me. I agree with feelings staying, like you said. i still have feelings too. He called me last night and i feel like it's just finished for now, and not completely done yet. I think we both have feelings but we don't know how to make it work. But neither of us ever talks about it. click to expand









Nope, I’m doing my own thing until I hear from him. I almost went back to Pisces after we broke up but I love him too much and I didn’t want to use Pisces just to temporarily make myself feel better. He will come around but until then I’m working on me. Mind he is a military Leo Sargent with a much bigger ego then even me so it will take time lol and I got all the time in the world baby!!! Damn I know the ignoring then. Both Leo’s and Aquas hate it! He did it to me some cuz He was checked out and depressed. This mans been to war so he has problems, I believe him and let it go. I’m glad y’all are at least talking. I think you will figure it out in due time. I can see y’all got what it takes to make this work and it makes my soul happy click to expand










You seem so patient. I don't think he would be calling me if i didn't contact him last month. Stubborn lil fucker. We're the same in a lot of ways and it's annoying lol. Yeah both aqua leo can't handle being ignored, we both have a fk you mentality when it comes to that sort of game. But I'm the opposite of you with time, i don't like wasting time and I want everything now! I'm like Joyran lol. That's why it's so hard for me to tell her to be patient or stick it out because it's damn hard for a leo! 😂





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girl I used to have my days where I was sick of this shit! Lol but it getting easier now they are just small moments. Remember I have Aries moon as well so if I could have it now I would love that but I do realize the best things come with time, patience and effort. I’m trying hard to be positive and the more I am, the easier it gets 😁 Both signs are so stubborn but we are doing well ☺️ Yea men are even more stubborn -rolls eyes- click to expand



Patience sucks and Aries moon is hard lol. I was over it when we broke up and i was doing fine for the first month. But as time goes on, I'm catching more feelings instead of the opposite. Usually it's the other way around for me so i have no idea why this is happening. I think if i meet someone else i like, it will go away. Fixed signs suck. click to expand
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Omg you don’t how important what you said means to me. I just had a tarot reading done the other day and he said the same thing. That my Leo was catching more feelings now that we are apart. I didn’t think too much of it until you said that. My patience is paying off 😂 I wonder if you letting out your emotions you held in had something to do with it? Girl you just gave me even more hope 😁
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@brittnie anything is possible I suppose. Maybe it's the Saturn retrograde lol. Saturn is the karma planet so maybe now is a time for reflecting on what has been done and learning the lessons of the past and it is also a time for reaping what you sow. I don't have any hope or expectations so whatever happens happens. I got really sad the other week and had a bit of a cry and felt like the flood gates were opening but I put it down to being hormonal. Who knows. I really want to learn how to open up more because being closed and pushing people away will probably hurt more in the long run and it's preventing me from experiencing life the way I'm supposed to
I started staying exactly how I feel to everyone but I have a feeling you already do just not with Aqua? I could tell my feelings to everyone except the actual person which now I look back and I’m like seriously?? Lol just don’t hold in feelings anymore. I look crazy sometimes cuz I would just cry out in public, I don’t care anymore about others looking but I’m a lot happier now 🙂 it will all work out and we will be happy regardless