Vacation Queen
@saggurl88
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Posted by saggurl88It all started with him being nosy.Posted by AerialViewWhy do you say that?? Voice your opinion on the situation please. Inquiring minds want to know. 😁Posted by saggurl88Y'all have been fooled by Nick.Posted by FitNebulaYou may not reach out but he will lol. All the best to whatever you decide.Posted by saggurl88I might miss the friendship, but I'll just wind up in the same position again so there's no point. Plus, my pride won't allow me to ever reach out again!Posted by FitNebulaWe will see, only time will tell lol. Time heals everything and you might miss the friendship.
@saggurl88 -- lol NO WAY IN HELL he is working at my firm. My dad would never allow that anyways.
Also no, I am definitely done with him. We can't be friends. He disrespected me and lied to me.
IF he had come to me and said he changed his mind about wanting a relationship right now, fine, I would respect it and the fact that he was honest and up front with me. INSTEAD, he is the one who wanted a relationship and then apparently changed his mind but didn't tell me and kept acting like we were dating.
So no way in hell I will ever even speak to his sorry ass again.
What's going on in that complex mind of yours?
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The number of abuse Mike received in this thread is mind boggling. Like he's done some abusive shit.
I don't believe in that saga or whatever you call it. I'm not easily manipulated. I'm very objective person.
This is why I always said Aqua-Libra is a no go.
I'm still friends with my exes except two. And they both Libras. Coincidence!?
Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88It all started with him being nosy.Posted by AerialViewWhy do you say that?? Voice your opinion on the situation please. Inquiring minds want to know. 😁Posted by saggurl88Y'all have been fooled by Nick.Posted by FitNebulaYou may not reach out but he will lol. All the best to whatever you decide.Posted by saggurl88I might miss the friendship, but I'll just wind up in the same position again so there's no point. Plus, my pride won't allow me to ever reach out again!Posted by FitNebulaWe will see, only time will tell lol. Time heals everything and you might miss the friendship.
@saggurl88 -- lol NO WAY IN HELL he is working at my firm. My dad would never allow that anyways.
Also no, I am definitely done with him. We can't be friends. He disrespected me and lied to me.
IF he had come to me and said he changed his mind about wanting a relationship right now, fine, I would respect it and the fact that he was honest and up front with me. INSTEAD, he is the one who wanted a relationship and then apparently changed his mind but didn't tell me and kept acting like we were dating.
So no way in hell I will ever even speak to his sorry ass again.
What's going on in that complex mind of yours?
The number of abuse Mike received in this thread is mind boggling. Like he's done some abusive shit.
I don't believe in that saga or whatever you call it. I'm not easily manipulated. I'm very objective person.
This is why I always said Aqua-Libra is a no go.
I'm still friends with my exes except two. And they both Libras. Coincidence!?click to expand
THANK YOU!! 😁😆
I just commented on his lack of work ethic lol
He hasn't really done anything wrong to me either. Especially since he's just keeping the other girl around when she was there from the start of the relationship. Lol.
Libra called him out, he told the truth, so it should just go back to how it was and she can keep him as a buddy while she looks for someone better suited for her.
She changed and expected more and he didn't lol.
Posted by LibraMudraTo both of you,Posted by Senorita_LLLOL yup!Posted by LibraMudraOey vey! Same thing for me. Like why the fuck can't I attract the earth signs? Why is it always the FIRE signs. Do we need to bury ourselves for a night in order to get one? Lord!Posted by Senorita_LLYes! I agree.Posted by LibraMudraLooL! I share the same sentiments. I've always think air and air can never be together. We kinda blow the other away. We fly to the other direction. Good in the beginning but there's no passion and hard to pin the other one down. Eventually, things will just fade out like that.
It's always like this with aqua and Libra lol. At least with my experiences. I don't know if they were talking to other people and I dont really care... I've come to accept that relationships don't work with them. It seems all great especially with my aqua moon. Dates are amazing, sex is fun, laughing all the time, great conversation.. but it always fades out, when they're ready... I'm not. When I'm ready, they're not....
Better as friends.
And keep Nick around.
He seems like a solid friend.
Air signs men are crazier than the women, imo. Let the fire, earth or perhaps water women to take them on. 😆
If I had to choose, it would be aqua, though. My moon just gets it. Libra? Dunno. Talked to one but he is a nature photographer floating all over the world lol. Gemini? Been there done that lol
I'd like to think I need an earth sign to ground everything out but I keep getting fire, fire, fire. All da fire. Can I get one that is all the elements in all the right spots? Lol
This is sooooooo frustrating. LooL!click to expand
@Senorita_LL
Ain't nothing wrong with a little bit of fire!! Go for it! It will be fun. 🔥
At least fire is direct and let's you know what's going on!
Posted by saggurl88Exactly. If she give up just because of this shit lol good luck with that princess attitude.Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88It all started with him being nosy.Posted by AerialViewWhy do you say that?? Voice your opinion on the situation please. Inquiring minds want to know. 😁Posted by saggurl88Y'all have been fooled by Nick.Posted by FitNebulaYou may not reach out but he will lol. All the best to whatever you decide.Posted by saggurl88I might miss the friendship, but I'll just wind up in the same position again so there's no point. Plus, my pride won't allow me to ever reach out again!Posted by FitNebulaWe will see, only time will tell lol. Time heals everything and you might miss the friendship.
@saggurl88 -- lol NO WAY IN HELL he is working at my firm. My dad would never allow that anyways.
Also no, I am definitely done with him. We can't be friends. He disrespected me and lied to me.
IF he had come to me and said he changed his mind about wanting a relationship right now, fine, I would respect it and the fact that he was honest and up front with me. INSTEAD, he is the one who wanted a relationship and then apparently changed his mind but didn't tell me and kept acting like we were dating.
So no way in hell I will ever even speak to his sorry ass again.
What's going on in that complex mind of yours?
The number of abuse Mike received in this thread is mind boggling. Like he's done some abusive shit.
I don't believe in that saga or whatever you call it. I'm not easily manipulated. I'm very objective person.
This is why I always said Aqua-Libra is a no go.
I'm still friends with my exes except two. And they both Libras. Coincidence!?
THANK YOU!! 😁😆
I just commented on his lack of work ethic lol
He hasn't really done anything wrong to me either. Especially since he's just keeping the other girl around when she was there from the start of the relationship. Lol.
Libra called him out, he told the truth, so it should just go back to how it was and she can keep him as a buddy while she looks for someone better suited for her.
She changed and expected more and he didn't lol.
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Can't handle when the tough gets going.
Not Aquarius men cup of tea. The man dodged a bullet I'd say.
Anyways I'm out from this circus thread.
@saggurl88 and @AerialView -- I appreciate both of your perspectives, but you're both very wrong. Everyone in my life who knows me and Mike has said he's a douche and did me wrong. Even Nick agrees, although they're still friends.
Look, inviting him over and telling him all of my feelings was VERY hard for me to do. It's something that took me years to work up the courage to do. It was a very vulnerable position for me to be in. So, for him to tell me he feels the same and for him to be the one to say he wants to be in a committed relationship with me and for him to fully understand I did not want him to see anyone else and for him to agree and for him to continue to act like we were in a relationship, all the while continuing to see someone else, is heartbreaking for me. For him to act like my words meant nothing and my feelings meant nothing is heartbreaking.
For Nick to have told him that I was crying because people told me he had another girlfriend, and for Mike to just ignore it and continue to talk to me and invite me over and ask me for help with a job all the while knowing he was seeing me and another girl, is pure betrayal in my eyes. He totally disregarded and disrespected my feelings, which he very clearly knew.
He lied to me. He himself admitted it. He admitted he knew I wouldn't be cool with it so he didn't tell me.
I wish I could be more like you two and just brush things like this off, but this is a really emotional situation for me. This isn't some guy I just met a few months ago and was casually dating. This is someone I've known since I was 12 and had really intense feelings for for SEVEN years. And someone I trusted. All to find out he doesn't give two shits about me or my feelings.
So, to me, this is completely and totally devastating. I feel like I really lost someone I really really loved and saw a potential future with.
It's not really a funny joke where I can just go back and hook up with him while he uses me for sex and intimacy.
If I told him my feelings and he said he didn't feel the same and wanted to just keep things as they were, fine. But he lied and led me on and made me believe we were something more. Of coursed I expected more, he told me that's what we were doing. It's not funny, it's actually really sad for me. I know strangers on the internet don't really care, but I came here for support, not to be told I'm being dramatic and overreacting.
Look, inviting him over and telling him all of my feelings was VERY hard for me to do. It's something that took me years to work up the courage to do. It was a very vulnerable position for me to be in. So, for him to tell me he feels the same and for him to be the one to say he wants to be in a committed relationship with me and for him to fully understand I did not want him to see anyone else and for him to agree and for him to continue to act like we were in a relationship, all the while continuing to see someone else, is heartbreaking for me. For him to act like my words meant nothing and my feelings meant nothing is heartbreaking.
For Nick to have told him that I was crying because people told me he had another girlfriend, and for Mike to just ignore it and continue to talk to me and invite me over and ask me for help with a job all the while knowing he was seeing me and another girl, is pure betrayal in my eyes. He totally disregarded and disrespected my feelings, which he very clearly knew.
He lied to me. He himself admitted it. He admitted he knew I wouldn't be cool with it so he didn't tell me.
I wish I could be more like you two and just brush things like this off, but this is a really emotional situation for me. This isn't some guy I just met a few months ago and was casually dating. This is someone I've known since I was 12 and had really intense feelings for for SEVEN years. And someone I trusted. All to find out he doesn't give two shits about me or my feelings.
So, to me, this is completely and totally devastating. I feel like I really lost someone I really really loved and saw a potential future with.
It's not really a funny joke where I can just go back and hook up with him while he uses me for sex and intimacy.
If I told him my feelings and he said he didn't feel the same and wanted to just keep things as they were, fine. But he lied and led me on and made me believe we were something more. Of coursed I expected more, he told me that's what we were doing. It's not funny, it's actually really sad for me. I know strangers on the internet don't really care, but I came here for support, not to be told I'm being dramatic and overreacting.
Posted by AerialViewI appreciate you giving your opinion, hunny!! 😘😘😘😘Posted by saggurl88Exactly. If she give up just because of this shit lol good luck with that princess attitude.Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88It all started with him being nosy.Posted by AerialViewWhy do you say that?? Voice your opinion on the situation please. Inquiring minds want to know. 😁Posted by saggurl88Y'all have been fooled by Nick.Posted by FitNebulaYou may not reach out but he will lol. All the best to whatever you decide.Posted by saggurl88I might miss the friendship, but I'll just wind up in the same position again so there's no point. Plus, my pride won't allow me to ever reach out again!Posted by FitNebulaWe will see, only time will tell lol. Time heals everything and you might miss the friendship.
@saggurl88 -- lol NO WAY IN HELL he is working at my firm. My dad would never allow that anyways.
Also no, I am definitely done with him. We can't be friends. He disrespected me and lied to me.
IF he had come to me and said he changed his mind about wanting a relationship right now, fine, I would respect it and the fact that he was honest and up front with me. INSTEAD, he is the one who wanted a relationship and then apparently changed his mind but didn't tell me and kept acting like we were dating.
So no way in hell I will ever even speak to his sorry ass again.
What's going on in that complex mind of yours?
The number of abuse Mike received in this thread is mind boggling. Like he's done some abusive shit.
I don't believe in that saga or whatever you call it. I'm not easily manipulated. I'm very objective person.
This is why I always said Aqua-Libra is a no go.
I'm still friends with my exes except two. And they both Libras. Coincidence!?
THANK YOU!! 😁😆
I just commented on his lack of work ethic lol
He hasn't really done anything wrong to me either. Especially since he's just keeping the other girl around when she was there from the start of the relationship. Lol.
Libra called him out, he told the truth, so it should just go back to how it was and she can keep him as a buddy while she looks for someone better suited for her.
She changed and expected more and he didn't lol.
Can't handle when the tough gets going.
Not Aquarius men cup of tea. The man dodged a bullet I'd say.
Anyways I'm out from this circus thread.click to expand
I love hearing your insight!
Posted by LibraMudra😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Posted by saggurl88Lol I love playing with fire. The impulsiveness scares tf outta me sometimes.Posted by LibraMudraTo both of you,Posted by Senorita_LLLOL yup!Posted by LibraMudraOey vey! Same thing for me. Like why the fuck can't I attract the earth signs? Why is it always the FIRE signs. Do we need to bury ourselves for a night in order to get one? Lord!Posted by Senorita_LLYes! I agree.Posted by LibraMudraLooL! I share the same sentiments. I've always think air and air can never be together. We kinda blow the other away. We fly to the other direction. Good in the beginning but there's no passion and hard to pin the other one down. Eventually, things will just fade out like that.
It's always like this with aqua and Libra lol. At least with my experiences. I don't know if they were talking to other people and I dont really care... I've come to accept that relationships don't work with them. It seems all great especially with my aqua moon. Dates are amazing, sex is fun, laughing all the time, great conversation.. but it always fades out, when they're ready... I'm not. When I'm ready, they're not....
Better as friends.
And keep Nick around.
He seems like a solid friend.
Air signs men are crazier than the women, imo. Let the fire, earth or perhaps water women to take them on. 😆
If I had to choose, it would be aqua, though. My moon just gets it. Libra? Dunno. Talked to one but he is a nature photographer floating all over the world lol. Gemini? Been there done that lol
I'd like to think I need an earth sign to ground everything out but I keep getting fire, fire, fire. All da fire. Can I get one that is all the elements in all the right spots? Lol
This is sooooooo frustrating. LooL!
@Senorita_LL
Ain't nothing wrong with a little bit of fire!! Go for it! It will be fun. 🔥
At least fire is direct and let's you know what's going on!
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I don’t see why nick would have to pay the price for you getting overly emotionally involved.
He’s been a GREAT friend to you. But he’s known mike longer. Don’t do the whole ‘you gotta choose between us’ thing.
He’s been a GREAT friend to you. But he’s known mike longer. Don’t do the whole ‘you gotta choose between us’ thing.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI would never make him choose. I just need some space because in my head I associate him with Mike and I know he knows what Mike is up to these days and they hangout and stuff and I really don't wanna hear anything about Mike anymore until I get over him
I don’t see why nick would have to pay the price for you getting overly emotionally involved.
He’s been a GREAT friend to you. But he’s known mike longer. Don’t do the whole ‘you gotta choose between us’ thing.
Posted by FitNebulaOk tell him that. He’ll be sensitive to your feels.Posted by LadyNeptuneI would never make him choose. I just need some space because in my head I associate him with Mike and I know he knows what Mike is up to these days and they hangout and stuff and I really don't wanna hear anything about Mike anymore until I get over him
I don’t see why nick would have to pay the price for you getting overly emotionally involved.
He’s been a GREAT friend to you. But he’s known mike longer. Don’t do the whole ‘you gotta choose between us’ thing.click to expand
If I’m you I’d use him as intel since he can go behind enemy lines. Give you the scoop on this Michelle chick.
I’m getting the vibe that mike is actually interested in her and is stringing you along as a backup. While she is actually insterested in someone else and stringing mike along as her backup.
Posted by LadyNeptuneYeah, but I'm totally done with Mike. I don't wanna know anything else about Michelle, it's too painful anyways. And yeah, he was totally stringing me along, even though he wouldn't admit it. He's just an idiot.Posted by FitNebulaOk tell him that. He’ll be sensitive to your feels.Posted by LadyNeptuneI would never make him choose. I just need some space because in my head I associate him with Mike and I know he knows what Mike is up to these days and they hangout and stuff and I really don't wanna hear anything about Mike anymore until I get over him
I don’t see why nick would have to pay the price for you getting overly emotionally involved.
He’s been a GREAT friend to you. But he’s known mike longer. Don’t do the whole ‘you gotta choose between us’ thing.
If I’m you I’d use him as intel since he can go behind enemy lines. Give you the scoop on this Michelle chick.
I’m getting the vibe that mike is actually interested in her and is stringing you along as a backup. While she is actually insterested in someone else and stringing mike along as her backup.click to expand
Aw thank you @seleukos. I really appreciate it. Yeah, it is super painful, but Mike showed his true colors and I would never want to be with someone with such a lack of character anyway, so that actually makes things easier.
Actually, it would've been much harder if he were actually a good person and came to me and told me he decided he doesn't want a relationship right now and that he's really sorry for stringing me along but he was just confused or something. That would make it so much harder because he would actually be a good person in that scenario.
It also helps knowing he was fired since in his career, to get fired, you have to do something pretty bad or just be super lazy. And a week before he was fired, his boss warned him and told him he needs to straighten up, which he apparently did not do. IDK why that makes me feel better to know he just lacks character in all areas of his life.
Thanks for your words 🙂
Actually, it would've been much harder if he were actually a good person and came to me and told me he decided he doesn't want a relationship right now and that he's really sorry for stringing me along but he was just confused or something. That would make it so much harder because he would actually be a good person in that scenario.
It also helps knowing he was fired since in his career, to get fired, you have to do something pretty bad or just be super lazy. And a week before he was fired, his boss warned him and told him he needs to straighten up, which he apparently did not do. IDK why that makes me feel better to know he just lacks character in all areas of his life.
Thanks for your words 🙂
Posted by PiscesfuckupYup, I did not understand what he meant at all.
I just read your op again 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
"He said he's not dating her but he's seeing her (??) and they're not just friends but they're not more than friends (??)"
Like WTF is this vague shit— Manipulating semantics to confuse the fuck out of you.
And this— 👇
"Sorry I got too drunk yesterday. Also, you're only allowed to come to my party if you're not weird about Michelle being there, otherwise you probably shouldn't come."
"You're only allowed" —
"If you're not weird" —
"Shouldn't come" —
Don't fucking talk like that to a person you're supposed to care for. Fuck that douche.
And yeah, I copied that text message word for word.... that's literally what he said. "allowed" is the word that pissed me off the most.
and you should've seen the texts he was sending me less than 24 hours before. Tons of kissy-face emojis and saying "come over right now" and then inviting me to his birthday party with a bunch of hearts. And then asking me to come pick him up from wherever he was. Umm lol
And to think I was actually feeling bad for him for getting fired and I was trying to think of something I could do for him to cheer him up!
He's such a douche bag!! I'm glad someone else sees it lol
Posted by PiscesfuckupHaha right!!Posted by FitNebulaHe sounds like a First Class manipulator, opportunist, disrespectful jerk. Good riddance.Posted by PiscesfuckupYup, I did not understand what he meant at all.
I just read your op again 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
"He said he's not dating her but he's seeing her (??) and they're not just friends but they're not more than friends (??)"
Like WTF is this vague shit— Manipulating semantics to confuse the fuck out of you.
And this— 👇
"Sorry I got too drunk yesterday. Also, you're only allowed to come to my party if you're not weird about Michelle being there, otherwise you probably shouldn't come."
"You're only allowed" —
"If you're not weird" —
"Shouldn't come" —
Don't fucking talk like that to a person you're supposed to care for. Fuck that douche.
And yeah, I copied that text message word for word.... that's literally what he said. "allowed" is the word that pissed me off the most.
and you should've seen the texts he was sending me less than 24 hours before. Tons of kissy-face emojis and saying "come over right now" and then inviting me to his birthday party with a bunch of hearts. And then asking me to come pick him up from wherever he was. Umm lol
And to think I was actually feeling bad for him for getting fired and I was trying to think of something I could do for him to cheer him up!
He's such a douche bag!! I'm glad someone else sees it lol
"Allowed" pffft! That really pissed me off too 😡
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Also, IDK what he was thinking... Like if I said "yeah I won't be weird!" how would that even work? Who would he pay attention to? Who would he try to sleep with?
One time he brought a girl to a party I invited him to that was a girl he used to be FWBs with. He thought it was no big deal because the girl was engaged now to someone else. But that didn't go over too well and we made things really uncomfortable for him... so not sure why he thought it would even be a possibility that both me and michelle would be at his party and things would go smoothly. Lol umm? I think something is missing in his brain.
Posted by pisceswoman123What an unbalanced saga.Posted by AerialViewThere is nothing but bad to consider 😄Posted by saggurl88Only focus on the bad I see smh.
So he smokes weed all day, drinks, is flaky as fucc, got fired from his last job and you got him a job working with you and your father—
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And they say Libra is all about balance pffft💨
Posted by FitNebula
Yeah, but I'm totally done with Mike. I don't wanna know anything else about Michelle, it's too painful anyways. And yeah, he was totally stringing me along, even though he wouldn't admit it. He's just an idiot.
Yeah, if you really want to get over Mike, I think it's best you remove yourself from the situation entirely, which means resisting the urge to indulge yourself with any info involving him or Michelle. Being in the know is just going to interfere with and undermine any attempt you make to forget about him. If this requires that you disassociate from Nick for a while, then do that. Just let him know that it's nothing personal.
Hopefully, now that Mike has revealed himself to be a selfish, immature prick, it'll be easier for you to move on.
Posted by FleshpotYeah, exactly. It is so tempting to ask Nick what happened at Mike's party (I know at his NYE one only 3 people showed and michelle didn't come) -- like whether Michelle showed up, did she sleepover, did she seem interested, etc. BUT I know I shouldn't ask and I won't.Posted by FitNebula
Yeah, but I'm totally done with Mike. I don't wanna know anything else about Michelle, it's too painful anyways. And yeah, he was totally stringing me along, even though he wouldn't admit it. He's just an idiot.
Yeah, if you really want to get over Mike, I think it's best you remove yourself from the situation entirely, which means resisting the urge to indulge yourself with any info involving him or Michelle. Being in the know is just going to interfere with and undermine any attempt you make to forget about him. If this requires that you disassociate from Nick for a while, then do that. Just let him know that it's nothing personal.
Hopefully, now that Mike has revealed himself to be a selfish, immature prick, it'll be easier for you to move on.
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And thanks, it does make it so much easier to get over Mike when I know what a loser he is now.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123What an unbalanced saga.Posted by AerialViewThere is nothing but bad to consider 😄Posted by saggurl88Only focus on the bad I see smh.
So he smokes weed all day, drinks, is flaky as fucc, got fired from his last job and you got him a job working with you and your father—
And they say Libra is all about balance pffft💨click to expand
Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123What an unbalanced saga.Posted by AerialViewThere is nothing but bad to consider 😄Posted by saggurl88Only focus on the bad I see smh.
So he smokes weed all day, drinks, is flaky as fucc, got fired from his last job and you got him a job working with you and your father—
And they say Libra is all about balance pffft💨click to expand
Posted by FitNebulaIt sounds like you made your boundaries clear then, so there's nothing more to worry about. This guy clearly wanted to have his cake and eat it too. Instead of being upfront with you he chose to use "technicalities" to maneuver through the situation. The other woman "technically" wasn't more than friends with him (because there was no label). "Technically" he wasn't stringing you along because he liked you and wasn't sure what he wanted from this other person.
Thanks for typing all this out! Yes, he is very immature and unable to have adult conversations apparently. I did try to appeal to his sense of logic, I actually didn't get emotional at all during that conversation. I just asked him very straight forward questions.
ALSO, I did try to set clear boundaries once I heard about the other woman. That is when I invited him over and told him my feelings for him. I told him I don't want him to date anyone else. He agreed and then he said we should be in a relationship. I still don't know why he said that if it's not what he wanted. I didn't pressure him or put a gun to his head, I didn't even know if it's what I wanted. I had told him we could just start dating more seriously and see what happens, and he said No, let's try a relationship since we get along so well. He's never been the guy to tell you what you want to hear, and he seemed genuine, so I believed him.
I'm trying to hard not to resent Nick or take it out on him, but I think I need some space from him for awhile. I would never ask him to choose between us. But it just hurts overall and I need space.
I'm sorry you were in a similar situation, but it sounds like you did the right thing and the Aqua girl suffered the consequences.
But yeah, I am definitely going to take the high ground. Thanks for your perspective 🙂
The problem with this style of thinking is it's manipulative. It's a tactic people will use to remove themselves from their own actions in order to save face. That way they can avoid the ugliness of the impending consequences. In reality, this guy knew what he did was wrong and even admitted to it when you questioned him directly. The good thing is you can now see him for what he truly is.
As for Nick, yeah it makes sense if you need space. It's not like you had a longtime connection with the guy. So if you decide to drop the connection, it's really no big loss.
Posted by ChuckcemThanks so much. I'm going to save your comment for whenever I feel weak!!Posted by FitNebulaIt sounds like you made your boundaries clear then, so there's nothing more to worry about. This guy clearly wanted to have his cake and eat it too. Instead of being upfront with you he chose to use "technicalities" to maneuver through the situation. The other woman "technically" wasn't more than friends with him (because there was no label). "Technically" he wasn't stringing you along because he liked you and wasn't sure what he wanted from this other person.
Thanks for typing all this out! Yes, he is very immature and unable to have adult conversations apparently. I did try to appeal to his sense of logic, I actually didn't get emotional at all during that conversation. I just asked him very straight forward questions.
ALSO, I did try to set clear boundaries once I heard about the other woman. That is when I invited him over and told him my feelings for him. I told him I don't want him to date anyone else. He agreed and then he said we should be in a relationship. I still don't know why he said that if it's not what he wanted. I didn't pressure him or put a gun to his head, I didn't even know if it's what I wanted. I had told him we could just start dating more seriously and see what happens, and he said No, let's try a relationship since we get along so well. He's never been the guy to tell you what you want to hear, and he seemed genuine, so I believed him.
I'm trying to hard not to resent Nick or take it out on him, but I think I need some space from him for awhile. I would never ask him to choose between us. But it just hurts overall and I need space.
I'm sorry you were in a similar situation, but it sounds like you did the right thing and the Aqua girl suffered the consequences.
But yeah, I am definitely going to take the high ground. Thanks for your perspective 🙂
The problem with this style of thinking is it's manipulative. It's a tactic people will use to remove themselves from their own actions in order to save face. That way they can avoid the ugliness of the impending consequences. In reality, this guy knew what he did was wrong and even admitted to it when you questioned him directly. The good thing is you can now see him for what he truly is.
As for Nick, yeah it makes sense if you need space. It's not like you had a longtime connection with the guy. So if you decide to drop the connection, it's really no big loss.click to expand
Yeah, it was all about semantics and technicalities. He knew it was wrong. But when I spoke to him on the phone he didn't really seem to think he did anything wrong (probably because he was high), although I'm sure he knows he did.
But it was very manipulative of Mike. Why not just be up front and honest with me? Why continue to ask me to hang out and come over? Why continue to string me along?? I don't get it, but that's because I would never do that to anyone.
I would really miss Nick, we hang out almost every weekend.. but I think I just need some time and space. We'll see.
Thanks for your perspective! 🙂
Posted by RambeauAhh I'm sorry for you too! Lmao I need one so badly! You are too sweetPosted by FitNebulaWell, I hope not for you. My ex was a lunatic. I wish I could buy you a bottle of tequila right now.. You need it!Posted by RambeauAw thank you!! 🙂 Wow sounds very similar maybe it's the same guy lol
Wow, I feel like you wrote about an ex I was with for 1,5 years. Very good you cut him out of your life, he seems toxic with lack of morality. For me it was also the communication and disrespect on his end. Told him he should figure out whatever he has with the other woman and pulled back. Also, I don't want to be someone's second choice. And you shouldn't either. You seriously sound like a catch and deserve a real man.
Also the friends part sounds familiar. His friends still like me and I'm still part of their life sometimes even though my ex doesn't like it. But his friends told the ex that he doesn't own his friends and can choose whoever they want to be friends with, and this case that's up to Nick.
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Posted by UnicornSagI wish I knew why I put up with it for so long. Yeah, he is a shitty person. I guess he was good at hiding it most of the time and if he did something shitty, he would always be nice and get me back easily. Trust me, I won't ever put up with that bullshit again. Thank you!
I could never understand why people put up with shitty people like that.
Mike is shitty person. Has nothing to do with any sign. You took it for too long. Nick has nothing to do with it if you're fine hanging out with him then do so, if you're not then remove him. That part is completely up to you.
Oh, and don't put up with so much crap from other people.
UPDATE: he has already contacted me again
He texted me tonight and said "If I told you I made a huge mistake and wanted to be with you would you take me back" ... I didn't respond and 20 minutes later he said "that is what I wanted to do then I changed my mind but now I'm changing it back it is what I want to do"
WTF do I even say to that?
He texted me tonight and said "If I told you I made a huge mistake and wanted to be with you would you take me back" ... I didn't respond and 20 minutes later he said "that is what I wanted to do then I changed my mind but now I'm changing it back it is what I want to do"
WTF do I even say to that?
Posted by FitNebulaIf it were me and I wanted sth to happen, I would actually tell him that after this last experience, I don't want to go there. If you want to be with me, I need to see it before I decide anything.
UPDATE: he has already contacted me again
He texted me tonight and said "If I told you I made a huge mistake and wanted to be with you would you take me back" ... I didn't respond and 20 minutes later he said "that is what I wanted to do then I changed my mind but now I'm changing it back it is what I want to do"
WTF do I even say to that?
Then, I would wait. Let him work for it, prove to you that he wants it. No one on one hangouts, no intimate conversations, nothing that hints at a relationship. Watch his behavior, see if he changes. Don't let him sweet talk you, stay above it. Do this for months, not weeks.
If he really wants you and only you, you'll see changes. If you don't, you'll know you were being played.
Thank you @sultrykitty -- yeah, if he wants to be together... sorry to say but he would have to gain my trust back because after this I don't really trust him since he kind of lied to me. And disrespected me.
That is a good idea. Thank you 🙂
That is a good idea. Thank you 🙂
Posted by WaterbearerwearerWHat? He lied to me about something major and treated me like crap. I didn't create this scenario.Posted by FitNebulaYou can’t wait to punish him for a scenario you created?Posted by ladylibra21Thank you!! OMG that is so true that we hang on to figure out the deeper meaning because it's too hard to wrap my mind around someone being so horrible. I always try to see their perspective but I just can't imagine doing that to someone..
I am so sorry you are going through this shit with your Aqua I wanted to punch him after reading this! They can be so heartless! The fucked up part is that he will pretend he doesn't care then contact you a year from now like three whole thing never happened! Fuck him. Respect yourself don't get any less than you deserve. We as Libra's tend to hang on out of curiosity and look for deeper meaning into things because we can't believe that someone can just be that shity but just know that they can. Someone can pretend to give a shit about you and lead you on and someone can also give a little but if a shit about you but also be so selfish that they can't function any other way!
The only way we can fix it is to do better. Want better for yourself. No more of this bending to "fixed" wills. If someone isn't what you want don't sacrifice your needs. Let that curiosity go. You don't need any answers from him he gave you the only one that matters and that was that he didn't value you. Fuck him
Thanks for your words, I totally agree with you. I can't wait until he tries to contact me again and I just never respond 🙂
That makes perfect sense to flaky libras but Aqua got you Sussed.
Sorry but you proli only show him any gratitude for his demonstrations of love when he’s MIA.
Aqua men are so generous in love. They cook clean and hold down 9-5 with no complaints.
You’re salty.click to expand
I don't want to punish him but I don't necessarily trust him anymore after he strung me along and lied.
NO I don't treat him that way at all, I treat him amazingly and also he's not generous in love at all and got fired so doesn't hold down a 9-5.
I was salty when I wrote that, but I don't want to ignore him, but I also don't want to get hurt again so I am hesitant.
I've never made him work for anything at all. I am always available and never get mad at him for being a jerk or flaky or whatever. That's why he treats me that way because I am so forgiving and laid back and kind to him.
Posted by WaterbearerwearerThis is why you're my twinsy 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by FitNebulaYou can’t wait to punish him for a scenario you created?Posted by ladylibra21Thank you!! OMG that is so true that we hang on to figure out the deeper meaning because it's too hard to wrap my mind around someone being so horrible. I always try to see their perspective but I just can't imagine doing that to someone..
I am so sorry you are going through this shit with your Aqua I wanted to punch him after reading this! They can be so heartless! The fucked up part is that he will pretend he doesn't care then contact you a year from now like three whole thing never happened! Fuck him. Respect yourself don't get any less than you deserve. We as Libra's tend to hang on out of curiosity and look for deeper meaning into things because we can't believe that someone can just be that shity but just know that they can. Someone can pretend to give a shit about you and lead you on and someone can also give a little but if a shit about you but also be so selfish that they can't function any other way!
The only way we can fix it is to do better. Want better for yourself. No more of this bending to "fixed" wills. If someone isn't what you want don't sacrifice your needs. Let that curiosity go. You don't need any answers from him he gave you the only one that matters and that was that he didn't value you. Fuck him
Thanks for your words, I totally agree with you. I can't wait until he tries to contact me again and I just never respond 🙂
That makes perfect sense to flaky libras but Aqua got you Sussed.
Sorry but you proli only show him any gratitude for his demonstrations of love when he’s MIA.
Aqua men are so generous in love. They cook clean and hold down 9-5 with no complaints.
You’re salty.click to expand
WTF should I say then?
Posted by FitNebulaYou don't need to say anything.
WTF should I say then?
He's the "bad guy" according to you. Did you even remember? Lol
Posted by WaterbearerwearerI thought I'm alone in this matter 😣😂Posted by AerialViewPosted by WaterbearerwearerThis is why you're my twinsy 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by FitNebulaYou can’t wait to punish him for a scenario you created?Posted by ladylibra21Thank you!! OMG that is so true that we hang on to figure out the deeper meaning because it's too hard to wrap my mind around someone being so horrible. I always try to see their perspective but I just can't imagine doing that to someone..
I am so sorry you are going through this shit with your Aqua I wanted to punch him after reading this! They can be so heartless! The fucked up part is that he will pretend he doesn't care then contact you a year from now like three whole thing never happened! Fuck him. Respect yourself don't get any less than you deserve. We as Libra's tend to hang on out of curiosity and look for deeper meaning into things because we can't believe that someone can just be that shity but just know that they can. Someone can pretend to give a shit about you and lead you on and someone can also give a little but if a shit about you but also be so selfish that they can't function any other way!
The only way we can fix it is to do better. Want better for yourself. No more of this bending to "fixed" wills. If someone isn't what you want don't sacrifice your needs. Let that curiosity go. You don't need any answers from him he gave you the only one that matters and that was that he didn't value you. Fuck him
Thanks for your words, I totally agree with you. I can't wait until he tries to contact me again and I just never respond 🙂
That makes perfect sense to flaky libras but Aqua got you Sussed.
Sorry but you proli only show him any gratitude for his demonstrations of love when he’s MIA.
Aqua men are so generous in love. They cook cleanand hold down 9-5 with no complaints.
You’re salty.
I still can’t figure it out
Twinning is winning 😂
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Posted by WaterbearerwearerYou might have a point but I’m not completely responsible for how he treats me some of that has to be on him.Posted by FitNebulaLibra libra libraPosted by WaterbearerwearerWHat? He lied to me about something major and treated me like crap. I didn't create this scenario.Posted by FitNebulaYou can’t wait to punish him for a scenario you created?Posted by ladylibra21Thank you!! OMG that is so true that we hang on to figure out the deeper meaning because it's too hard to wrap my mind around someone being so horrible. I always try to see their perspective but I just can't imagine doing that to someone..
I am so sorry you are going through this shit with your Aqua I wanted to punch him after reading this! They can be so heartless! The fucked up part is that he will pretend he doesn't care then contact you a year from now like three whole thing never happened! Fuck him. Respect yourself don't get any less than you deserve. We as Libra's tend to hang on out of curiosity and look for deeper meaning into things because we can't believe that someone can just be that shity but just know that they can. Someone can pretend to give a shit about you and lead you on and someone can also give a little but if a shit about you but also be so selfish that they can't function any other way!
The only way we can fix it is to do better. Want better for yourself. No more of this bending to "fixed" wills. If someone isn't what you want don't sacrifice your needs. Let that curiosity go. You don't need any answers from him he gave you the only one that matters and that was that he didn't value you. Fuck him
Thanks for your words, I totally agree with you. I can't wait until he tries to contact me again and I just never respond 🙂
That makes perfect sense to flaky libras but Aqua got you Sussed.
Sorry but you proli only show him any gratitude for his demonstrations of love when he’s MIA.
Aqua men are so generous in love. They cook clean and hold down 9-5 with no complaints.
You’re salty.
I don't want to punish him but I don't necessarily trust him anymore after he strung me along and lied.
NO I don't treat him that way at all, I treat him amazingly and also he's not generous in love at all and got fired so doesn't hold down a 9-5.
I was salty when I wrote that, but I don't want to ignore him, but I also don't want to get hurt again so I am hesitant.
I've never made him work for anything at all. I am always available and never get mad at him for being a jerk or flaky or whatever. That's why he treats me that way because I am so forgiving and laid back and kind to him.
By omission you just nailed your foot to the floor with
“He never had to work for anything”
Regardless of the stars he was born under if you give consent to wreckless behaviours they will continue.
It’s human nature to do what works and for Aqua he figured you out quick.
So you did create this scenario by enabling his shit.
Victim blaming isn’t fair but it will set you free once you realise you are commander in chief.
Not him.
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But you do teach people how to treat you so I see your point. I was always too laid back and it blew up in my face but now I realize I can’t put up with shit like that.
So I’m thinking of telling him if he’s serious and is going to make an effort then we can maybe try but Otherwise I don’t have time for this shit
Posted by WaterbearerwearerI'm outta here🚶Posted by AerialViewI feel like I carry you around with me.Posted by WaterbearerwearerI thought I'm alone in this matter 😣😂Posted by AerialViewPosted by WaterbearerwearerThis is why you're my twinsy 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by FitNebulaYou can’t wait to punish him for a scenario you created?Posted by ladylibra21Thank you!! OMG that is so true that we hang on to figure out the deeper meaning because it's too hard to wrap my mind around someone being so horrible. I always try to see their perspective but I just can't imagine doing that to someone..
I am so sorry you are going through this shit with your Aqua I wanted to punch him after reading this! They can be so heartless! The fucked up part is that he will pretend he doesn't care then contact you a year from now like three whole thing never happened! Fuck him. Respect yourself don't get any less than you deserve. We as Libra's tend to hang on out of curiosity and look for deeper meaning into things because we can't believe that someone can just be that shity but just know that they can. Someone can pretend to give a shit about you and lead you on and someone can also give a little but if a shit about you but also be so selfish that they can't function any other way!
The only way we can fix it is to do better. Want better for yourself. No more of this bending to "fixed" wills. If someone isn't what you want don't sacrifice your needs. Let that curiosity go. You don't need any answers from him he gave you the only one that matters and that was that he didn't value you. Fuck him
Thanks for your words, I totally agree with you. I can't wait until he tries to contact me again and I just never respond 🙂
That makes perfect sense to flaky libras but Aqua got you Sussed.
Sorry but you proli only show him any gratitude for his demonstrations of love when he’s MIA.
Aqua men are so generous in love. They cook cleanand hold down 9-5 with no complaints.
You’re salty.
I still can’t figure it out
Twinning is winning 😂
In my heart.
Bahahhaaaaha fk man this new moon in Pisces....click to expand
I'm being ignored by the poster for telling the truth 😬
I guess some people prefer to hear lies ahahah
@aerialview I wasn’t ignoring you, just didn’t see anything worth responding to
Posted by FitNebulaMeans you can't counter me.
@aerialview I wasn’t ignoring you, just didn’t see anything worth responding to
Please don't tag me just quote me thank you.
That’s not true.. his position was that the Aqua didn’t do anything wrong to me and obviously I disagreed. Even the aqua knows he messed up considering his message “I made a huge mistake.”
It’s not that his words don’t harmonize with my nature, I simply didn’t agree. It’s not like he said anything I didn’t want to hear, I just didn’t agree with him. No big deal
It’s not that his words don’t harmonize with my nature, I simply didn’t agree. It’s not like he said anything I didn’t want to hear, I just didn’t agree with him. No big deal
Posted by AerialViewI can’t counter you? I just don’t agree with you! Who cares?!Posted by FitNebulaMeans you can't counter me.
@aerialview I wasn’t ignoring you, just didn’t see anything worth responding to
Please don't tag me just quote me thank you.click to expand
Posted by WaterbearerwearerLol that's why I don't bothered with most of them.Posted by AerialViewAV I’ll be your spokes person.Posted by WaterbearerwearerI'm outta here🚶Posted by AerialViewI feel like I carry you around with me.Posted by WaterbearerwearerI thought I'm alone in this matter 😣😂Posted by AerialViewPosted by WaterbearerwearerThis is why you're my twinsy 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by FitNebulaYou can’t wait to punish him for a scenario you created?Posted by ladylibra21Thank you!! OMG that is so true that we hang on to figure out the deeper meaning because it's too hard to wrap my mind around someone being so horrible. I always try to see their perspective but I just can't imagine doing that to someone..
I am so sorry you are going through this shit with your Aqua I wanted to punch him after reading this! They can be so heartless! The fucked up part is that he will pretend he doesn't care then contact you a year from now like three whole thing never happened! Fuck him. Respect yourself don't get any less than you deserve. We as Libra's tend to hang on out of curiosity and look for deeper meaning into things because we can't believe that someone can just be that shity but just know that they can. Someone can pretend to give a shit about you and lead you on and someone can also give a little but if a shit about you but also be so selfish that they can't function any other way!
The only way we can fix it is to do better. Want better for yourself. No more of this bending to "fixed" wills. If someone isn't what you want don't sacrifice your needs. Let that curiosity go. You don't need any answers from him he gave you the only one that matters and that was that he didn't value you. Fuck him
Thanks for your words, I totally agree with you. I can't wait until he tries to contact me again and I just never respond 🙂
That makes perfect sense to flaky libras but Aqua got you Sussed.
Sorry but you proli only show him any gratitude for his demonstrations of love when he’s MIA.
Aqua men are so generous in love. They cook cleanand hold down 9-5 with no complaints.
You’re salty.
I still can’t figure it out
Twinning is winning 😂
In my heart.
Bahahhaaaaha fk man this new moon in Pisces....
I'm being ignored by the poster for telling the truth 😬
I guess some people prefer to hear lies ahahah
It’s libra they only listen when it harmonises with their narrative.click to expand
I'm only here to straight things up.
Justice for Mike.
Posted by FitNebulaYou never care 😂Posted by AerialViewI can’t counter you? I just don’t agree with you! Who cares?!Posted by FitNebulaMeans you can't counter me.
@aerialview I wasn’t ignoring you, just didn’t see anything worth responding to
Please don't tag me just quote me thank you.click to expand
Posted by WaterbearerwearerToo funny 😂
She’s gonna post again. She loves this Aqua.
Posted by AerialViewWhy is that funnyPosted by WaterbearerwearerToo funny 😂
She’s gonna post again. She loves this Aqua.click to expand
Posted by Senorita_LLThanks guys it’s so tough because I do want to be with him (well with who he was before he lied and disrespected me). But I have to remember how he treated me!Posted by TimonThat's what I told her too. Why would you want history to repeat itself? Just ignore his text and don't buy whatever he said.Posted by FitNebulaDon't even go there. Save yourself the future heartache. My guess the other girl blew him off and now he is back with his second choice...you.
UPDATE: he has already contacted me again
He texted me tonight and said "If I told you I made a huge mistake and wanted to be with you would you take me back" ... I didn't respond and 20 minutes later he said "that is what I wanted to do then I changed my mind but now I'm changing it back it is what I want to do"
WTF do I even say to that?
Why would you even want to go down that road again?
He's not worth the pain.click to expand
Posted by FitNebulaIt's obvious he's bad and not worth it (all according to you).Posted by AerialViewWhy is that funnyPosted by WaterbearerwearerToo funny 😂
She’s gonna post again. She loves this Aqua.click to expand
Then wtf are you doing here.
Just move on and stop asking stupid questions like "what should i say?"
Posted by AerialViewlolPosted by WaterbearerwearerJustice for Mike.Posted by AerialViewAV I’ll be your spokes person.Posted by WaterbearerwearerI'm outta here🚶Posted by AerialViewI feel like I carry you around with me.Posted by WaterbearerwearerI thought I'm alone in this matter 😣😂Posted by AerialViewPosted by WaterbearerwearerThis is why you're my twinsy 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by FitNebulaYou can’t wait to punish him for a scenario you created?Posted by ladylibra21Thank you!! OMG that is so true that we hang on to figure out the deeper meaning because it's too hard to wrap my mind around someone being so horrible. I always try to see their perspective but I just can't imagine doing that to someone..
I am so sorry you are going through this shit with your Aqua I wanted to punch him after reading this! They can be so heartless! The fucked up part is that he will pretend he doesn't care then contact you a year from now like three whole thing never happened! Fuck him. Respect yourself don't get any less than you deserve. We as Libra's tend to hang on out of curiosity and look for deeper meaning into things because we can't believe that someone can just be that shity but just know that they can. Someone can pretend to give a shit about you and lead you on and someone can also give a little but if a shit about you but also be so selfish that they can't function any other way!
The only way we can fix it is to do better. Want better for yourself. No more of this bending to "fixed" wills. If someone isn't what you want don't sacrifice your needs. Let that curiosity go. You don't need any answers from him he gave you the only one that matters and that was that he didn't value you. Fuck him
Thanks for your words, I totally agree with you. I can't wait until he tries to contact me again and I just never respond 🙂
That makes perfect sense to flaky libras but Aqua got you Sussed.
Sorry but you proli only show him any gratitude for his demonstrations of love when he’s MIA.
Aqua men are so generous in love. They cook cleanand hold down 9-5 with no complaints.
You’re salty.
I still can’t figure it out
Twinning is winning 😂
In my heart.
Bahahhaaaaha fk man this new moon in Pisces....
I'm being ignored by the poster for telling the truth 😬
I guess some people prefer to hear lies ahahah
It’s libra they only listen when it harmonises with their narrative.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88😆 you damn know I was right gurl! 😆Posted by AerialViewlolPosted by WaterbearerwearerJustice for Mike.Posted by AerialViewAV I’ll be your spokes person.Posted by WaterbearerwearerI'm outta here🚶Posted by AerialViewI feel like I carry you around with me.Posted by WaterbearerwearerI thought I'm alone in this matter 😣😂Posted by AerialViewPosted by WaterbearerwearerThis is why you're my twinsy 😂😂😂😂😂Posted by FitNebulaYou can’t wait to punish him for a scenario you created?Posted by ladylibra21Thank you!! OMG that is so true that we hang on to figure out the deeper meaning because it's too hard to wrap my mind around someone being so horrible. I always try to see their perspective but I just can't imagine doing that to someone..
I am so sorry you are going through this shit with your Aqua I wanted to punch him after reading this! They can be so heartless! The fucked up part is that he will pretend he doesn't care then contact you a year from now like three whole thing never happened! Fuck him. Respect yourself don't get any less than you deserve. We as Libra's tend to hang on out of curiosity and look for deeper meaning into things because we can't believe that someone can just be that shity but just know that they can. Someone can pretend to give a shit about you and lead you on and someone can also give a little but if a shit about you but also be so selfish that they can't function any other way!
The only way we can fix it is to do better. Want better for yourself. No more of this bending to "fixed" wills. If someone isn't what you want don't sacrifice your needs. Let that curiosity go. You don't need any answers from him he gave you the only one that matters and that was that he didn't value you. Fuck him
Thanks for your words, I totally agree with you. I can't wait until he tries to contact me again and I just never respond 🙂
That makes perfect sense to flaky libras but Aqua got you Sussed.
Sorry but you proli only show him any gratitude for his demonstrations of love when he’s MIA.
Aqua men are so generous in love. They cook cleanand hold down 9-5 with no complaints.
You’re salty.
I still can’t figure it out
Twinning is winning 😂
In my heart.
Bahahhaaaaha fk man this new moon in Pisces....
I'm being ignored by the poster for telling the truth 😬
I guess some people prefer to hear lies ahahah
It’s libra they only listen when it harmonises with their narrative.
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Posted by saggurl88Aerial view |BPosted by AerialViewI see your point of view! lol
😆 you damn know I was right gurl! 😆
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Posted by AerialView😆Posted by saggurl88Aerial view |BPosted by AerialViewI see your point of view! lol
😆 you damn know I was right gurl! 😆
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Welp I responded after a day and here was my text to him "If you were serious and made an effort to treat me well, then ok, otherwise no. I don't deserve to be lied to and strung along. I know I am so nice and forgiving but I'm not going to deal with that level of disrespect."
Haven't heard shit from him back lol. SHOCKING
Haven't heard shit from him back lol. SHOCKING
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Monkey = Leo
I was doing so well and 4 weeks later he messages me telling me that I’m beautiful and he just felt like letting me know.
So we spoke, and of course didn’t last long — I’m convinced it’s not me now because I’m not doing ANYTHING wrong for him to keep ru
Aqua that “couldn’t” orgasm. We had sex last night and I started talking dirty to her, but I finished quick because I knew she wouldn’t get off. She got upset saying the talk was hot and she could probably get off.
Woke me out of my sleep this morning
I've never met someone whom I felt intimidated by or scared like that before. It's not physical intimidation. But, almost like your aura is very strong, unknown, mysterious, and just intimidating... Her facial features also compliments it. Skinny, pointed
I hurt an Aquarius friend of mine and I want to fix it if someone can give me advice. For me if someone hurts me the best thing to do is apologise or give grand gestures to prove they care or make me laugh but he has such a different personality I want to
I am thinking of giving one a box of adventures -like a hand made box of stuff for us to do that's really fun. Do you think that would appeal to an Aqua or would it feel too sentimental?
Hi y’all.
Any women here just can’t or rarely orgasm at all.
I’m banging this aqua who just doesn’t cum. She enjoys sex and says she likes having it to please me but it feels selfish as hell and it’s not fun to me because part of the fun for havin
I think she's gonna say ok let's go back to the way it was. Lol.
He's about to be on her to convince her after some time apart. And pretend like nothing happened with his fake innocence. Lol.