I'm not planning to accept his money untill we are very serious, maybe in a few months , we are fully spending a lot of time together. HE can buy my sons gifts if he wants but no, I don't want his money really at this point.
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You can throw all Cristism at me. I honestly don't feel anything lol And anyone can think whatever they like. As I said, it's working for me. It's a method to keep the Aqua away from my life. Maybe to make us go really sour so we can finally break free from each other. If me and the Leo works out then great, if not, whatever comes. If I'm not * in a relationship I * i will be reluctant to say no to Aqua and he will keep coming around and the patterns will repeat itself. Why can't anybody see that? Lol
Posted by youngali
i have several taurus friends who are addicted to the title of being in a relationship, just to say that they're in a relationship. it validates them for some reason...
but i get it..
i feel like taurus' flourish the most when happy and in a relationship, yes! but you're going about it all wrong.
you're using someone for the sake of 'comfort', all while you'll still be thinking about the aqua, low-key stalking the aqua and in a couple days finding a way to reach out to the aqua to make convo.
don't debate me... i already know... 😆
it's unfair to the leo and just selfish if you ask me.
technically, you're clearly still waiting for the aqua to act right... you're just gonna be fucking someone else and potentially hurting someone in the process.
but hey.. ??☕️
Look I don't know. I have been single for a long time now, the on an and off of the Aqua and my ex sag. I had enough. I like the security of a relationship. Yes maybe it validates me but it doesn't define me. I have men in the past where I am completely detached. Friends with benefits situation. I don't care and don't need anything. I'm at that point in my life where I want something serious. I'm not using the Leo. I'm hoping my feelings for him will grow. I am also not waiting for gr Aqua to act right. Im purposely pushing the Aqua away by doing this act. I know it will stop his interest for me completely. And it's happening so it's good lol. I don't wanna talk to him anymore actually. If he reaches out I will just ignore him.
Posted by youngalino. We r friends. He comes to my dance classes every Wednesday nights now. I asked him n now he's involved in all my circle of friends. Lol. But I wil have to play the aloof acts from now on.... and stay detached.... I won't block him.. If I block him, I give him that power. lol. We talked about it before and we don't like blocking and unfriending on fb. We did it once. I won't go there again.Posted by saweetz1988why not make it easier by just blocking him completely...?Posted by youngali
i have several taurus friends who are addicted to the title of being in a relationship, just to say that they're in a relationship. it validates them for some reason...
but i get it..
i feel like taurus' flourish the most when happy and in a relationship, yes! but you're going about it all wrong.
you're using someone for the sake of 'comfort', all while you'll still be thinking about the aqua, low-key stalking the aqua and in a couple days finding a way to reach out to the aqua to make convo.
don't debate me... i already know... 😆
it's unfair to the leo and just selfish if you ask me.
technically, you're clearly still waiting for the aqua to act right... you're just gonna be fucking someone else and potentially hurting someone in the process.
but hey.. ??☕️
Look I don't know. I have been single for a long time now, the on an and off of the Aqua and my ex sag. I had enough. I like the security of a relationship. Yes maybe it validates me but it doesn't define me. I have men in the past where I am completely detached. Friends with benefits situation. I don't care and don't need anything. I'm at that point in my life where I want something serious. I'm not using the Leo. I'm hoping my feelings for him will grow. I am also not waiting for gr Aqua to act right. Im purposely pushing the Aqua away by doing this act. I know it will stop his interest for me completely. And it's happening so it's good lol. I don't wanna talk to him anymore actually. If he reaches out I will just ignore him.
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Posted by youngaliI know that. I don't need him . But I need a security in a relationship lol. I don't care he goes out and party or even go to stripe as long as I know about it. When I'm with someone. I am very Open and understanding that's actually something he likes about me. Thanks to my moon in Aqua. And mars. Honestly. We been to swingers and all. I don't mind at all. lol. Open relationship is also ok with me. Just that the Leo demands more from me. So, I have to just stay by the rules.
Men want women who want but don't need them...
Posted by youngaliWhat's your sign by the way? I'm curious lol
Men want women who want but don't need them...
Posted by saweetz1988All the air signs saw this. Go on! Use the Leo as a rebound, if needed to. It's not really moral, as it was not to doubt the Aqua in the first place, but you cannot control people's lives. If the Leo matches your time frame, go for it.
You can throw all Cristism at me. I honestly don't feel anything lol And anyone can think whatever they like. As I said, it's working for me. It's a method to keep the Aqua away from my life. Maybe to make us go really sour so we can finally break free from each other. If me and the Leo works out then great, if not, whatever comes. If I'm not * in a relationship I * i will be reluctant to say no to Aqua and he will keep coming around and the patterns will repeat itself. Why can't anybody see that? Lol
One things for sure... you're never lonely. You stay in a relationship lol
Any time money gets involved that is not a good sign but hey good luck with it. I personally think the time may not be worth it... as anytime that gets involved it because about money often.
Piscesmoon
Piscesmoon
Posted by compyPosted by saweetz1988All the air signs saw this. Go on! Use the Leo as a rebound, if needed to. It's not really moral, as it was not to doubt the Aqua in the first place, but you cannot control people's lives. If the Leo matches your time frame, go for it.
You can throw all Cristism at me. I honestly don't feel anything lol And anyone can think whatever they like. As I said, it's working for me. It's a method to keep the Aqua away from my life. Maybe to make us go really sour so we can finally break free from each other. If me and the Leo works out then great, if not, whatever comes. If I'm not * in a relationship I * i will be reluctant to say no to Aqua and he will keep coming around and the patterns will repeat itself. Why can't anybody see that? Lolclick to expand
Yeah I hope things work out between me and the Leo 🙂
Posted by youngaliHah ofcoz sag sun doesn't want a relationship . I know it isn't the way hence why I'm doing it lol.... why can't somebody see this? I'm purposely pushing the Aqua Aqua this way so I can get over him. Because I am done waiting around for commitment from him. N because of his ways, it will never work out between us. The Aqua isn't ready! It might be years untill he is. Aqua men take a decade to commit to someone. even when he was only seeing me he still wud flirt around. I'm done being loyal for nothing. So I'm doing this on purpose. lolPosted by saweetz1988sag sun, taurus moon, cap/aqua venus, virgo marsPosted by youngaliWhat's your sign by the way? I'm curious lol
Men want women who want but don't need them...
and as someone who knows the ropes of both taurus and aqua... trust me when i say, this ain't the way to get what it is u want..click to expand
Posted by TheSagLady_Posted by youngali
i have several taurus friends who are addicted to the title of being in a relationship, just to say that they're in a relationship. it validates them for some reason...
but i get it..
i feel like taurus' flourish the most when happy and in a relationship, yes! but you're going about it all wrong.
you're using someone for the sake of 'comfort', all while you'll still be thinking about the aqua, low-key stalking the aqua and in a couple days finding a way to reach out to the aqua to make convo.
don't debate me... i already know... 😆
it's unfair to the leo and just selfish if you ask me.
technically, you're clearly still waiting for the aqua to act right... you're just gonna be fucking someone else and potentially hurting someone in the process.
but hey.. ??☕️
*chuckles*
Yea... i can see right thru this one too.. ?
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No. I am not waiting. If I was waiting I wud not b in a relationship or make it public or final. I'm using this to end things between me n Aqua for good. I knowndor a fact Aqua will drop me once I do this action. it's fine. We r not right for each other at this stage in our lives. It's true facts. we r not on the same page. Leo is better suited in my life.
Posted by piscesmoon2I have not accepted his money. He offered doesn't mean I will take them. Maybe down the track if we r very serious then yes.
Any time money gets involved that is not a good sign but hey good luck with it. I personally think the time may not be worth it... as anytime that gets involved it because about money often.
Piscesmoon
Posted by Arielle83yeah I noe what maybe I need a man to protect me lol. All females need a man. They say they don't but deep down they do! and he wanted exclusivity so I decided to agree with it. And give it a good go. Why is that such a problem? I don't understand lol.
So basically you need a man to protect you?
Can't you just say NO and demand respect?
It's not hard.
saweetz1988, you wrote: "Hah ofcoz sag sun doesn't want a relationship . I know it isn't the way hence why I'm doing it lol.... why can't somebody see this? I'm purposely pushing the Aqua Aqua this way so I can get over him. Because I am done waiting around for commitment from him. N because of his ways, it will never work out between us. The Aqua isn't ready! It might be years untill he is. Aqua men take a decade to commit to someone. even when he was only seeing me he still wud flirt around. I'm done being loyal for nothing. So I'm doing this on purpose. lol
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OP, you keep asking: "why cant´t somebody see this?"
everybody can see it, everybody understands why you are doing it.... and everybody objects only to the fact, that you are using the Leo... why cant YOU see it what people dont like about it? 🙂
and what if the Leo and you dont work out? its really early stages, so its premature to put the "in relationship" on fb... if you break up (you and the Leo), will you change your status on fb or leave it?
usually, people see throu this kind of protest-action (like if you dont want somebody, and they are hurt and they run to the first person and claiming happy relationship and big love on fb.... or they start to kiss somebody infront of you, just to spite you, like Arielle said..
do you really think, the Aqua will not see thru your intention? that he will beleive it?
But still, it would be nice, if you can fall in love with the Leo, and he with you and just be happy together, I wish you best of luck
Meh, who takes fb posts seriously these days?
lmao 😆 😄
i have to say it, but saweetz you remind me of Gemitati. heehee.
i have to say it, but saweetz you remind me of Gemitati. heehee.
Posted by tiziani—?? you're always so sweet.
Tough thread because people are making good points and OP is countering with sincere points too. At the end of the day OP wins because it's her life.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeThis is what I hate about modern dating. It's like nobody knows how to move on from a person they dated or were in a relationship with on their own. They just need someone at all times. People don't know how to take some time off to gather themselves and process their emotions before getting with someone else.
So you're using the leo to move on from the guy you really want. Just lol
Posted by justagirlShe's already emotionally cheating and it's only been couple days of exclusivity with this Leo guy. I wonder what would happen if Aqua calls her for a quick nookie.Posted by saweetz1988You are a hot mess.
The other night we all went out in a group and the Aqua bloody suited up . He looked so hot. I almost fainted on he dance floor. But then he thinks I still have feelings for my ex sag as he was watching me dancing infront of my ex ( the singer) god it's all a mess! Thanks to all my airy placement s. Hahahahahaha
Really not trying to be mean but look at what you just wrote in the thread about becoming official with the Leo.click to expand
I just wish she puts herself in the position of the Leo and ask how'd she feel if a guy got with her while he's lusting and in love with some next woman.
Posted by saweetz1988You need a man to keep another man from you? LOL. This sounds so sad, desperate and pathetic. No wonder the Aqua wanted nothing to do with you. Nothing is more repulsive to Aquas than desperation.
As I said, it's working for me. It's a method to keep the Aqua away from my life.
Posted by tizianiThank you ! I do a lot of reading on this topic of masculine and feminine energy . It's good to b independence. I am super independence lol.'I don't text my man all day. I reply after hours.'I have A very busy life. But at the end of the day, I read up what MEN wrote in a specialised dating relationships advice! Yes it's good for us women to b in our masculine energy and act strong and tough but a man also likes to know we still need them in their life. There's a difference bwteeen wanting a bit of protection from a man and acting needy! I am no where near needy. lol.. that man says, if a woman doesn't act like she needs a man in a relatiobship then what is the point? Men r drawn to protect their women. Esp the Leo man im with. He wants to provide , protect n possibly give the best sex lol. It's in his nature. Why stop a man from doing what they wanna do best? in terms of money, I already told him I won't b accepting anthintg yet as it's still early stages. Maybe a bit later down the track.
Tough thread because people are making good points and OP is countering with sincere points too. At the end of the day OP wins because it's her life.
Posted by OrchideePosted by saweetz1988You need a man to keep another man from you? LOL. This sounds so sad, desperate and pathetic. No wonder the Aqua wanted nothing to do with you. Nothing is more repulsive to Aquas than desperation.
As I said, it's working for me. It's a method to keep the Aqua away from my life.
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Yes perhaps that is true. are you done? lol
Posted by OrchideePosted by justagirlShe's already emotionally cheating and it's only been couple days of exclusivity with this Leo guy. I wonder what would happen if Aqua calls her for a quick nookie.Posted by saweetz1988You are a hot mess.
The other night we all went out in a group and the Aqua bloody suited up . He looked so hot. I almost fainted on he dance floor. But then he thinks I still have feelings for my ex sag as he was watching me dancing infront of my ex ( the singer) god it's all a mess! Thanks to all my airy placement s. Hahahahahaha
Really not trying to be mean but look at what you just wrote in the thread about becoming official with the Leo.
I just wish she puts herself in the position of the Leo and ask how'd she feel if a guy got with her while he's lusting and in love with some next woman.
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If the Aqua calls I won't be there to entertain him. We r no longer talking. I know what I am doing. 😉
Posted by saggurl88ITS nice to get sweet and supportive comments on dxpnet lol... 😉 good luck on ur man..!Posted by tiziani—?? you're always so sweet.
Tough thread because people are making good points and OP is countering with sincere points too. At the end of the day OP wins because it's her life.click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988No. I'm still laughing and reading. FYI, I'm on pg. 6Posted by OrchideePosted by saweetz1988You need a man to keep another man from you? LOL. This sounds so sad, desperate and pathetic. No wonder the Aqua wanted nothing to do with you. Nothing is more repulsive to Aquas than desperation.
As I said, it's working for me. It's a method to keep the Aqua away from my life.
Yes perhaps that is true. are you done? lol
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Posted by saweetz1988Posted by OrchideePosted by justagirlShe's already emotionally cheating and it's only been couple days of exclusivity with this Leo guy. I wonder what would happen if Aqua calls her for a quick nookie.Posted by saweetz1988You are a hot mess.
The other night we all went out in a group and the Aqua bloody suited up . He looked so hot. I almost fainted on he dance floor. But then he thinks I still have feelings for my ex sag as he was watching me dancing infront of my ex ( the singer) god it's all a mess! Thanks to all my airy placement s. Hahahahahaha
Really not trying to be mean but look at what you just wrote in the thread about becoming official with the Leo.
I just wish she puts herself in the position of the Leo and ask how'd she feel if a guy got with her while he's lusting and in love with some next woman.
If the Aqua calls I won't be there to entertain him. We r no longer talking. I know what I am doing. 😉
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Yeah, okie there. Nothing good comes of rebounds and to those who use others as a means to an end. I'm telling you as an Aqua thatthis particular Aqua guy will never commit to you. Most Aquas I know aren't sleazy and have integrity. Sure, we have our share of bad apples but Aqua isn't one to use people.
Also, I'm just just entering something with someone because he has money or he wants exclusivity and seriousness. I combined all points if we will work in the long term. We both want the same things . Value family life and commitment. Loyalty and honesty. Commmunication. Fun and passion in a relationship. Leo is a great father too. All of that combined, made me decide what I have decided. Yes it was a quick decision on fb, but in person he's very very busy with his business life and that works for me as I need time to heal, so in the process we r taking things slow even though we both want something serious . We only spend small of time together weekly which works for now. We don't text all day lol. It gives me time to rewind, reflect and slowly ease into this relationship. I had men in the past while I was seeing the Aqua offering me commitments and more. Actually there weee a few but I said no because they didn't pass my tests. I had a 2 Scorpio, a Taurus etc. they weee intense and Scorpio didn't believe in astrology n was very opinioned. So I said no.. Leo is different. I see something in him that indicates a long term success so I invest myself in this relationship. and having my status will keep the men away and keep the Aqua away. It's all healthy decision. it's my life I do as I pleases. 😉 I use my head against my heart this time and in time my heart will follow ! Thank u all for all your supportive comments. Esp the leo ones hahaha... you guys r the best. LOL...
Posted by OrchideePosted by saweetz1988Posted by OrchideePosted by justagirlShe's already emotionally cheating and it's only been couple days of exclusivity with this Leo guy. I wonder what would happen if Aqua calls her for a quick nookie.Posted by saweetz1988You are a hot mess.
The other night we all went out in a group and the Aqua bloody suited up . He looked so hot. I almost fainted on he dance floor. But then he thinks I still have feelings for my ex sag as he was watching me dancing infront of my ex ( the singer) god it's all a mess! Thanks to all my airy placement s. Hahahahahaha
Really not trying to be mean but look at what you just wrote in the thread about becoming official with the Leo.
I just wish she puts herself in the position of the Leo and ask how'd she feel if a guy got with her while he's lusting and in love with some next woman.
If the Aqua calls I won't be there to entertain him. We r no longer talking. I know what I am doing. 😉
Yeah, okie there. Nothing good comes of rebounds and to those who use others as a means to an end. I'm telling you as an Aqua thatthis particular Aqua guy will never commit to you. Most Aquas I know aren't sleazy and have integrity. Sure, we have our share of bad apples but Aqua isn't one to use people.
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I know this Aqua very well. I'm the only one who knows him more than others. He has slept with married women before. But I'm sure he won't try with me. oh, n I'm sure me being in a relationship won't really stop him from trying in the future.. but I will make sure it won't happen.. I'm ignoring him at all costs.. I will continue the friendship down the track when my feeelings r gone. Aqua men is best kept as friends. Or fwb. Untill they are 40-45 atleast. I told him that . anything serious they run a mile away no mater how much emotional connection they have with a person. He has strong feelings for me. His words but that doesn't mean he wanna commit. They r chicken like that. I don't have another day to waste. Done. lol
Posted by OrchideeYou can invest your energy analysing and critics my decision. It's ur energy you will waste not mine lol.Posted by saweetz1988No. I'm still laughing and reading. FYI, I'm on pg. 6Posted by OrchideePosted by saweetz1988You need a man to keep another man from you? LOL. This sounds so sad, desperate and pathetic. No wonder the Aqua wanted nothing to do with you. Nothing is more repulsive to Aquas than desperation.
As I said, it's working for me. It's a method to keep the Aqua away from my life.
Yes perhaps that is true. are you done? lol
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Posted by youngali
Men want women who want but don't need them...
+1,000,000,000
Do you always spew bullshit? Because your failed attempts at trying to be a peaceful love guru is nauseating to say the least.
You sound like a desperate gold digger looking for a sugar daddy. Since the object of your obsession doesn't want to play daddy, you're trying to find an alternative. Who better than a man whos financially stable and has his shit together? You're not going to end up with either. Men aren't as stupid as you think they are and you're not as bright as you elevate yourself to be.
Posted by youngaliThis is the mantra I tell myself when I meet a potential client. I don't need you, I WANT you.
Men want women who want but don't need them...
Posted by StarSkywhat's up with that??Posted by youngali
Men want women who want but don't need them...
+1,000,000,000
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is that a "new" thing these days for modern dating?
so i googled.
http://elitedaily.com/dating/difference-needing-wanting-loving-somebody/936704/
pffftt i like to need someone dammit.It's not something i'm gonna change. I want to feel SAFE, and that safety is neediness too. as well as want. i want it all dammit!!!
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