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Suddenly act all shy (but still cold)
This is the common theme of an Aqua. You just have to be friendly and remain sane and don't let them see you sweat. Take everything day by day and stay casual and consistent.
He'll let you know what's up when he's ready. The key is whether you want to be patient and wait for him to come around. lol
He'll let you know what's up when he's ready. The key is whether you want to be patient and wait for him to come around. lol
Posted by KemmThat's the initial stages. The chasing the calling, the bugging. Once they start to fall they will do nothing but that. Act more aloof and distant. š they r scared of their own feelings. When their feelings are light it's nice and easy. When their feelings deepen that's when they drive the women crazy lol. It also depends on his moon I racken
Typical aqua. Don't waste your breath. The less you show you care, the more they will stick around. They like interesting conversation and friendship. Keep it simple. When an aqua likes you, you will not feel it but you will know because they are always bugggggin. Texts alot, calls alot, all over your social media, all over you basically. they are bugaboos lol they just have a friendly way about it, not obessesive
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This is the common theme of an Aqua. You just have to be friendly and remain sane and don't let them see you sweat. Take everything day by day and stay casual and consistent.
He'll let you know what's up when he's ready. The key is whether you want to be patient and wait for him to come around. lol
I love your patience girl, what's the process with yours?
Posted by saweetz1988what if I already passed the initial stage? I meant... I already confessed and been friend with him for a year already...we were pretty quite close and he seems to go back and forth... acting cold and detach wasn't the first time he did, he did it quite alot.. but this time it's serious.. for 2 weeks and then he came back shy...all of the things i mentioned above..Posted by KemmThat's the initial stages. The chasing the calling, the bugging. Once they start to fall they will do nothing but that. Act more aloof and distant. š they r scared of their own feelings. When their feelings are light it's nice and easy. When their feelings deepen that's when they drive the women crazy lol. It also depends on his moon I racken
Typical aqua. Don't waste your breath. The less you show you care, the more they will stick around. They like interesting conversation and friendship. Keep it simple. When an aqua likes you, you will not feel it but you will know because they are always bugggggin. Texts alot, calls alot, all over your social media, all over you basically. they are bugaboos lol they just have a friendly way about it, not obessesiveclick to expand
I'm a Gemini and Sagittarius Moon
and him is an Aquarius and a Pisces Moon
and him is an Aquarius and a Pisces Moon
Just ask him! We usually tell you if you just ask lol
Posted by sunire16This is really a good match but are you sure he's into you romantically? He may be trying not to hurt your feels but still be your friend
I'm a Gemini and Sagittarius Moon
and him is an Aquarius and a Pisces Moon
Posted by Brittnieavoid questions..(question like these)
Just ask him! We usually tell you if you just ask lol
or give me a completely lie answer
Posted by Kemm
Typical aqua. Don't waste your breath. The less you show you care, the more they will stick around. They like interesting conversation and friendship. Keep it simple. When an aqua likes you, you will not feel it but you will know because they are always bugggggin. Texts alot, calls alot, all over your social media, all over you basically. they are bugaboos lol they just have a friendly way about it, not obessesive
Girl... You spot on lol
Posted by BrittnieI don't know, but his action say so...i'm confuse that's why i'm askingPosted by sunire16This is really a good match but are you sure he's into you romantically? He may be trying not to hurt your feels but still be your friend
I'm a Gemini and Sagittarius Moon
and him is an Aquarius and a Pisces Moon
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Posted by sunire16I'm sorry, You are super cute, you can do betterPosted by Brittnieavoid questions..(question like these)
Just ask him! We usually tell you if you just ask lol
or give me a completely lie answerclick to expand
Posted by BrittnieSo you mean I have no chance? T^TPosted by sunire16I'm sorry, You are super cute, you can do betterPosted by Brittnieavoid questions..(question like these)
Just ask him! We usually tell you if you just ask lol
or give me a completely lie answer
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I don't know š¢ If he's not be honest. I will literally do anything for someone I like and I know it pretty quickly
Posted by sunire16Sounds like he's just mirroring your own behavior.
okeeehhhh ._. after 2 weeks of ignoring me ,being cold and detach to me.. He suddenly couldn't even look me in the face .__.
he tried to talk to me multiple times but I ignore him because i haven't recover from the pain of him being cold and detach and hasn't explains why he did that..
Posted by LadyNeptunewell.. he did the ignoring first, and this is not the first time.. keep going back and forth.. so i am the one who is mirroring his own behavior.Posted by sunire16Sounds like he's just mirroring your own behavior.
okeeehhhh ._. after 2 weeks of ignoring me ,being cold and detach to me.. He suddenly couldn't even look me in the face .__.
he tried to talk to me multiple times but I ignore him because i haven't recover from the pain of him being cold and detach and hasn't explains why he did that..click to expand
Posted by sunire16You both sound super mature and ready for a relationship full of communication and understanding.Posted by LadyNeptunewell.. he did the ignoring first, and this is not the first time.. keep going back and forth.. so i am the one who is mirroring his own behavior.Posted by sunire16Sounds like he's just mirroring your own behavior.
okeeehhhh ._. after 2 weeks of ignoring me ,being cold and detach to me.. He suddenly couldn't even look me in the face .__.
he tried to talk to me multiple times but I ignore him because i haven't recover from the pain of him being cold and detach and hasn't explains why he did that..
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Posted by BrittnieHe does care about me but he does not like to show it...
I don't know š¢ If he's not be honest. I will literally do anything for someone I like and I know it pretty quickly
he would ask my friend how i was doing ? or did i get drunk again?? through my friend and not from me...
there was this time i was sleeping on a bed and happened to be eavesdropping his conversation with my friend and he sound like he is so worried about me... while in reality he just ignore the shit hell out of me ..
I found him not straight-forward and insincere as me...
Letās see how the things are with your Aqua man, from what you posted so far:
1) Such a weird and strong connection i had there.. seems like heās kinda like me tooā¦ (your opinion only, it was a conversation. You are two air signs, so from this point of view itās always addicting)
2) (I know i sound so crazy and obsessed) indeed I am.. but i didnāt show this side of me to him.. I act strong and nasty on the outside.. you know that kind of person who is not straight forward and insincere? (huge red flag for an Aqua)
3) I would say i hate him and stuffs like that ā¦ (Aquas are turned off by this kind of behaviour)
4) I bought pair of cupcakes and light the candles with everyone helpā¦I looked so happy and blew the candlesā¦I too felt like we are already coupleā¦ (you initiated an action from which he was not able to withdraw, as it was in a group setting)
5) he never apologize and i always have to do the apologize all the time (there is no need to apologize, as you are the one starting the fights on purpose; you admit it ā you are most of the time wrong)
6) I invited him to join the Birthday partyā¦ but at the last minute he had to disappointed me like that.. he didnāt come and said he was having exams.. (him not coming speaks thunder words, he has other priorities or avoids giving you reasons to wish for him more. He came the next day to reciprocate your gesture from his birthday and because he knew it would hurt your feeling if he didnāt. Aquas donāt like to remain in debt.)
7) . but most of the time he just ignores me.. and my existing.. he said āI ignore you because I treated you like an air.. but air is so important to meāā¦ i was shock with that sentenceā¦ (donāt be shocked ā Aquas ARE sincere! He wants space from you.)
8) The letter ā you got the silent treatment, because he didnāt want to hurt your feelings. He talked to you normally, no reaction. Uninterested in you in a romantic way.
9) he arrived korea but never contacted meā¦
I texted him alot but he never replyā¦ he reply everyone elseā¦
he came back 2 weeks laterā¦ and now we just donāt talk anymoreā¦ he avoided me for goodā¦ (you are out)
10) i'm his trusted friend... he never open up to me or had any deep conversation with me.. (Aquas open up about everything to their TRUSTED friends. But they donāt allow anyone into their inner circle).
11) I only wish for him to understand what he is doing is hurting me so bad..
I told him that.. and yet he chose to ignore me... (manipulative behaviour from your part)
12) there was this time i was sleeping on a bed and happened to be eavesdropping his conversation with my friend and he sound like he is so worried about me... while in reality he just ignore the shit hell out of me ..
I found him not straight-forward and insincere as me... (Aquas care about the people around them. You are a friend and class mate, so itās normal.)
In conclusion, it seems to me that you created an illusion of a relationship with a boy that showed his normal friendly nature. I see no clear signs that he likes you ā constant interest, activities together, initiating from his part, confessions, time spent together on his initiative. Nothing! You are class mates, so itās normal to bump into each other. He noticed your emotional nature, so he does the typical Aqua thing when trying to push someone away without hurting feelings ā ignoring. If you were not classmates, he would have ghosted you. Instead, he is keeping you at armsā length.
1) Such a weird and strong connection i had there.. seems like heās kinda like me tooā¦ (your opinion only, it was a conversation. You are two air signs, so from this point of view itās always addicting)
2) (I know i sound so crazy and obsessed) indeed I am.. but i didnāt show this side of me to him.. I act strong and nasty on the outside.. you know that kind of person who is not straight forward and insincere? (huge red flag for an Aqua)
3) I would say i hate him and stuffs like that ā¦ (Aquas are turned off by this kind of behaviour)
4) I bought pair of cupcakes and light the candles with everyone helpā¦I looked so happy and blew the candlesā¦I too felt like we are already coupleā¦ (you initiated an action from which he was not able to withdraw, as it was in a group setting)
5) he never apologize and i always have to do the apologize all the time (there is no need to apologize, as you are the one starting the fights on purpose; you admit it ā you are most of the time wrong)
6) I invited him to join the Birthday partyā¦ but at the last minute he had to disappointed me like that.. he didnāt come and said he was having exams.. (him not coming speaks thunder words, he has other priorities or avoids giving you reasons to wish for him more. He came the next day to reciprocate your gesture from his birthday and because he knew it would hurt your feeling if he didnāt. Aquas donāt like to remain in debt.)
7) . but most of the time he just ignores me.. and my existing.. he said āI ignore you because I treated you like an air.. but air is so important to meāā¦ i was shock with that sentenceā¦ (donāt be shocked ā Aquas ARE sincere! He wants space from you.)
8) The letter ā you got the silent treatment, because he didnāt want to hurt your feelings. He talked to you normally, no reaction. Uninterested in you in a romantic way.
9) he arrived korea but never contacted meā¦
I texted him alot but he never replyā¦ he reply everyone elseā¦
he came back 2 weeks laterā¦ and now we just donāt talk anymoreā¦ he avoided me for goodā¦ (you are out)
10) i'm his trusted friend... he never open up to me or had any deep conversation with me.. (Aquas open up about everything to their TRUSTED friends. But they donāt allow anyone into their inner circle).
11) I only wish for him to understand what he is doing is hurting me so bad..
I told him that.. and yet he chose to ignore me... (manipulative behaviour from your part)
12) there was this time i was sleeping on a bed and happened to be eavesdropping his conversation with my friend and he sound like he is so worried about me... while in reality he just ignore the shit hell out of me ..
I found him not straight-forward and insincere as me... (Aquas care about the people around them. You are a friend and class mate, so itās normal.)
In conclusion, it seems to me that you created an illusion of a relationship with a boy that showed his normal friendly nature. I see no clear signs that he likes you ā constant interest, activities together, initiating from his part, confessions, time spent together on his initiative. Nothing! You are class mates, so itās normal to bump into each other. He noticed your emotional nature, so he does the typical Aqua thing when trying to push someone away without hurting feelings ā ignoring. If you were not classmates, he would have ghosted you. Instead, he is keeping you at armsā length.
Posted by compy
Letās see how the things are with your Aqua man, from what you posted so far:
1) Such a weird and strong connection i had there.. seems like heās kinda like me tooā¦ (your opinion only, it was a conversation. You are two air signs, so from this point of view itās always addicting)
2) (I know i sound so crazy and obsessed) indeed I am.. but i didnāt show this side of me to him.. I act strong and nasty on the outside.. you know that kind of person who is not straight forward and insincere? (huge red flag for an Aqua)
3) I would say i hate him and stuffs like that ā¦ (Aquas are turned off by this kind of behaviour)
4) I bought pair of cupcakes and light the candles with everyone helpā¦I looked so happy and blew the candlesā¦I too felt like we are already coupleā¦ (you initiated an action from which he was not able to withdraw, as it was in a group setting)
5) he never apologize and i always have to do the apologize all the time (there is no need to apologize, as you are the one starting the fights on purpose; you admit it ā you are most of the time wrong)
6) I invited him to join the Birthday partyā¦ but at the last minute he had to disappointed me like that.. he didnāt come and said he was having exams.. (him not coming speaks thunder words, he has other priorities or avoids giving you reasons to wish for him more. He came the next day to reciprocate your gesture from his birthday and because he knew it would hurt your feeling if he didnāt. Aquas donāt like to remain in debt.)
7) . but most of the time he just ignores me.. and my existing.. he said āI ignore you because I treated you like an air.. but air is so important to meāā¦ i was shock with that sentenceā¦ (donāt be shocked ā Aquas ARE sincere! He wants space from you.)
8) The letter ā you got the silent treatment, because he didnāt want to hurt your feelings. He talked to you normally, no reaction. Uninterested in you in a romantic way.
9) he arrived korea but never contacted meā¦
I texted him alot but he never replyā¦ he reply everyone elseā¦
he came back 2 weeks laterā¦ and now we just donāt talk anymoreā¦ he avoided me for goodā¦ (you are out)
10) i'm his trusted friend... he never open up to me or had any deep conversation with me.. (Aquas open up about everything to their TRUSTED friends. But they donāt allow anyone into their inner circle).
11) I only wish for him to understand what he is doing is hurting me so bad..
I told him that.. and yet he chose to ignore me... (manipulative behaviour from your part)
12) there was this time i was sleeping on a bed and happened to be eavesdropping his conversation with my friend and he sound like he is so worried about me... while in reality he just ignore the shit hell out of me ..
I found him not straight-forward and insincere as me... (Aquas care about the people around them. You are a friend and class mate, so itās normal.)
In conclusion, it seems to me that you created an illusion of a relationship with a boy that showed his normal friendly nature. I see no clear signs that he likes you ā constant interest, activities together, initiating from his part, confessions, time spent together on his initiative. Nothing! You are class mates, so itās normal to bump into each other. He noticed your emotional nature, so he does the typical Aqua thing when trying to push someone away without hurting feelings ā ignoring. If you were not classmates, he would have ghosted you. Instead, he is keeping you at armsā length.
ahhhh I see, thanks your for telling me. š this is all clear now
Posted by saweetz1988Who knows lol. We were texting everyday but Mon I told him how I felt about him and haven't contacted him since.Posted by saggurl88
This is the common theme of an Aqua. You just have to be friendly and remain sane and don't let them see you sweat. Take everything day by day and stay casual and consistent.
He'll let you know what's up when he's ready. The key is whether you want to be patient and wait for him to come around. lol
I love your patience girl, what's the process with yours?
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Either he will contact me and pretend nothing happened or he won't and it will end there. I told him I won't chase him. š
Posted by BrittnieI wish that was the case. My Aqua isn't admitting anything, I've asked š¢
Just ask him! We usually tell you if you just ask lol
I don't want to put any pressure on him so I won't ask again. I'll just stick around and see what happens.
aquas are good at reading people, he probably got the perception you're obsessed with him.
they fear false perceptions, because thats reason #1 to why they fail relationships ?
when I first met the aqua he told me "I feel like you think I'm a lot cooler than I actually am" and I was like pffft never lol
they need to make sure you see the real and annoying before hand because its part of who they are they cant change that about them, which might be a turn off for most people, but its endearing once you realize they will accept you and respect your indviuallity and differences in return.
so be as direct as they are when it comes to showing the real you.
it's worth it
they fear false perceptions, because thats reason #1 to why they fail relationships ?
when I first met the aqua he told me "I feel like you think I'm a lot cooler than I actually am" and I was like pffft never lol
they need to make sure you see the real and annoying before hand because its part of who they are they cant change that about them, which might be a turn off for most people, but its endearing once you realize they will accept you and respect your indviuallity and differences in return.
so be as direct as they are when it comes to showing the real you.
it's worth it
Posted by sunire16Aquas like to treat people like whores. They're always detaching, they go away, they do THEIR thing and won't even think about how you feel.I say: kick him in the derriƩre! Honestly!, he's no good. I mean look at the signs he already hurt you and if you start giving him attention he will withdraw again because "his emotions are too overwhelming". It's funny because when you talk to an Aquarius they will proudly say "we detach because we are too much in tune with our emotions, we are the sign that has the most feelings". These people would be prostitutes and still claim to be virgins!!
okeeehhhh ._. after 2 weeks of ignoring me ,being cold and detach to me.. He suddenly
-comes off shy..
-couldn't even look me in the face .__.
-avoided eye contact, act busy on his phone when we are alone together..
-act playful to the people around me in front of me.. (show me sides I never see..)
I Happened to see him in the same place i am at.. is it a coincidence ?
he tried to talk to me multiple times but I ignore him because i haven't recover from the pain of him being cold and detach and hasn't explains why he did that..
so what now?? -_- what's next?? will he pull that cold and detach again?? should I continues ignoring him??
what is he thinking?? AWW I WANT TO READ HIS MIND!!
THE MOREI CONFUSE, THE MORE I THINK, THE MORE I LIKE HIM EVEN MORE . let's me sleep will u?
I bet that he's laughing at you when he sees you ignoring because he knows he hurt you (detachment my ass, he's a prick and he knows it). So if you either ignore him or love him he'll always be giving you he'll. If I were you I'd forget him right away and give him mixed signals: smile at him but don't talk to much, telling how you'd like to spend some time with him but then run away or tell him about this boy you like (he'll think you'll be talking about him and then detach himself š). Talk to him in the morning and ignore him at lunch and if he calls you on it being out an Aqua move: " Who do you think you are? I do what I want? I'm a free spirit!"
P.S: I hate to be the bearer of bad news and I know how difficult it is not to love someone. But...try to wrap your head around something else. I speak for experience as I too were once in love with an Aquarius - we never dated because I analysed her personality better and soon realised it wouldn't be worth it but more important I had Aquarius in my family, friend group and dating other friends and I only have to say that if you g forwards you should get a dog so you have someone to love you.
Posted by saggurl88I feel you girlfriend hahahahhaa hang in there
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-comes off shy..
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I Happened to see him in the same place i am at.. is it a coincidence ?
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so what now?? -_- what's next?? will he pull that cold and detach again?? should I continues ignoring him??
what is he thinking?? AWW I WANT TO READ HIS MIND!!
THE MOREI CONFUSE, THE MORE I THINK, THE MORE I LIKE HIM EVEN MORE . let's me sleep will u?