What should I say to this Aquarius?

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TheEmpress
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I'm guessing you're a Leo from your username. I don't really have an answer for you but just wanted to say that I'm in the same boat. My Aqua won't talk to me either but will reply if he thinks I'm asking something that needs a reply (I asked him if he picked up a package I had ordered for him a while ago and he replied to that pretty normally).

Maybe ask to meet up so you can talk face to face or just show up at his doorstep? From what I know, they can ignore like a boss but also like to show respect to everyone so he might not turn you away if you're at his doorstep.
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leoline
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Yes, I'm a Leo.

We went out for two months and he said he couldn't see it turning into anything more than friendship, even though it clearly was heading that way. We moved fast and I'm sure I was pressuring him some, which I regret. Plus he said he was changing antidepressants and his head was messed up. I'm sure it was, because he was also kind of mean to his family the last time we hung out.

I'd just like to talk to him again as friends.
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leoline
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Posted by leoline
Yes, I'm a Leo.

We went out for two months and he said he couldn't see it turning into anything more than friendship, even though it clearly was heading that way. We moved fast and I'm sure I was pressuring him some, which I regret. Plus he said he was changing antidepressants and his head was messed up. I'm sure it was, because he was also kind of mean to his family the last time we hung out.

I'd just like to talk to him again as friends.
Just give him time. He maybe going through mood swings. are you trying to be friends with him to get back with him or just stay platonic ?
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Just platonic. I hate not knowing what he's thinking or how he's feeling.
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leoline
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Posted by aquarius_man
you called him and he didn't pick up? he's maybe thinking that you mean more than just friends and is avoiding you because of that. i don t think he will try to contact you until he made sure you meant nothing else than camaraderie
No, I texted and asked how he was doing. That was it. And he didn't respond to my text. Should I send him another message saying I miss him as a friend?
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Posted by leoline
If an Aquarius is ignoring you, is there anything you can say to get him to talk? I miss him as a friend and I'm concerned about him, but I haven't heard from him in three weeks.
Aquas lie a lot about what is really going on. 'oh i don't work at all' is pulling 20 hrs shifts oh i don't have to study at all ' does 5 hrs a day'.

I'm fine ....is a heroin addict about to go to prison for a murder he didn't commit and is totally bankrupt.



Yeah 'we're fine' broke up after two miscarriages and he is depressed and suicidal.

He will keep it to himself devise strategies to overcome it all. Will usually be successful....but never let on the shit was hitting the fan. It's obv to everyone...but they think they are getting away with it.

In other words....you are right to be concerned about him. Your gut is correct.

I have learnt that you need to avoid making the issue worse by trying to help and letting your feelings burden the situation more.

Simply letting them know it's ok to be honest with you and you respect their journey and choices and there is no judgement.

Also letting them know *nudge nudge * wink wink. You are happy to keep up the pretense if that is what they need ..so long as it hurts no one ..(inc yourself). No one likes being stripped down to admit * i am depressed * ...it's nice to have a mask sometimes.

Work means you are taken up time wise ...and you have to invest wisely. So i try to let people know i understand.

Also regarding the mask...you don't need it either with me....i don't expect you to 'get up and glad rags ready ' for me. Come as you are.

Knowing aquas if you text them this they will text back *ty k smiley face*
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LittleFairy
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Posted by aquarius_man
Posted by bittercupcake

Just give him space and then try again in a few weeks or wait for him to reach out
no, stop giving irrelevant advice.

leo girl, you must seek this man. don t give him any space to breathe. find him. talk to him if you must. don t let the friendship ruin just like that. find him and talk to him
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I tracked an Aqua down once ..and did this

I had told if he didn't phone me the next time we met i would pie him in the face ....and i did

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He had forgotten.....he laughed .....eventually 🙂
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Posted by LittleFairy
Posted by leoline
If an Aquarius is ignoring you, is there anything you can say to get him to talk? I miss him as a friend and I'm concerned about him, but I haven't heard from him in three weeks.
Aquas lie a lot about what is really going on. 'oh i don't work at all' is pulling 20 hrs shifts oh i don't have to study at all ' does 5 hrs a day'.

I'm fine ....is a heroin addict about to go to prison for a murder he didn't commit and is totally bankrupt.



Yeah 'we're fine' broke up after two miscarriages and he is depressed and suicidal.

He will keep it to himself devise strategies to overcome it all. Will usually be successful....but never let on the shit was hitting the fan. It's obv to everyone...but they think they are getting away with it.

In other words....you are right to be concerned about him. Your gut is correct.

I have learnt that you need to avoid making the issue worse by trying to help and letting your feelings burden the situation more.

Simply letting them know it's ok to be honest with you and you respect their journey and choices and there is no judgement.

Also letting them know *nudge nudge * wink wink. You are happy to keep up the pretense if that is what they need ..so long as it hurts no one ..(inc yourself). No one likes being stripped down to admit * i am depressed * ...it's nice to have a mask sometimes.

Work means you are taken up time wise ...and you have to invest wisely. So i try to let people know i understand.

Also regarding the mask...you don't need it either with me....i don't expect you to 'get up and glad rags ready ' for me. Come as you are.

Knowing aquas if you text them this they will text back *ty k smiley face*
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I love your responses. I think this holds pretty true with Aqua people... normally in person you can tell how they truly are. The mask are not very good at hiding like that 🙂 .