
New story. New guy. Aquarius (what else). No feelings. He knows it. I feel like cheating on myself. Ugh!




Posted by Lioness18881+1 😄
Are you the rebound or is the other person the rebound? And if you have no feelings what's toxic? Also, how do you cheat on yourself and what are you talking about?

Posted by FantumWhat do you mean?
I heard some kind of relationship expert talking about how the sooner you start dating again, the quicker and more completely you get over a break-up. Maybe that's true for people who are good at just dating, but it sucks for people who tend to attach quickly.

Posted by pisceswoman123Good point! I have to take that into acct.Posted by FantumWhat do you mean?
I heard some kind of relationship expert talking about how the sooner you start dating again, the quicker and more completely you get over a break-up. Maybe that's true for people who are good at just dating, but it sucks for people who tend to attach quickly.
They work for me. But I get attached quickly. My longest and best relationship was a rebound.
It helps to have a clear mind of what you don’t want and what didn’t work in the last one. The loner you wait the more you fantasize it and the less clear you are. At least for me.
I normally have a I don’t care attitude after a relationship and that seems to attract the right ones 😄
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Posted by FantumI see 😌Posted by pisceswoman123There's the difference! Me for a good year after a break-up:Posted by Fantum
I heard some kind of relationship expert talking about how the sooner you start dating again, the quicker and more completely you get over a break-up. Maybe that's true for people who are good at just dating, but it sucks for people who tend to attach quickly.
I normally have a I don’t care attitude after a relationship and that seems to attract the right ones 😄
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Posted by FantumPosted by pisceswoman123That's a super healthy way to be. I've got attachment issues. Eek.Posted by FantumI see 😌Posted by pisceswoman123There's the difference! Me for a good year after a break-up:Posted by Fantum
I heard some kind of relationship expert talking about how the sooner you start dating again, the quicker and more completely you get over a break-up. Maybe that's true for people who are good at just dating, but it sucks for people who tend to attach quickly.
I normally have a I don’t care attitude after a relationship and that seems to attract the right ones 😄
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I try to move on fast. If it’s doesn’t work it not point to keep wishing for it. And I am normally very clear in the things that didn’t work out. I want better.
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Posted by FantumPosted by pisceswoman123Oooh, I didn't mean to make it seem like things aren't good now. My husband absolutely adores me and would do anything for me. We're both aware that we are codependent people, and we're working on it.Posted by FantumPosted by pisceswoman123That's a super healthy way to be. I've got attachment issues. Eek.Posted by FantumI see 😌Posted by pisceswoman123There's the difference! Me for a good year after a break-up:Posted by Fantum
I heard some kind of relationship expert talking about how the sooner you start dating again, the quicker and more completely you get over a break-up. Maybe that's true for people who are good at just dating, but it sucks for people who tend to attach quickly.
I normally have a I don’t care attitude after a relationship and that seems to attract the right ones 😄
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I try to move on fast. If it’s doesn’t work it not point to keep wishing for it. And I am normally very clear in the things that didn’t work out. I want better.
You should work on that 😊
Why would you want a guy that doesn’t love you completely? You should be his everything. If’s not like that it’s not worth it.
You deserve better, don’t you think?
I'm just commenting on the way I've handled break-ups in the past...NOT WELL!
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Posted by FantumPosted by pisceswoman123The thing is, when you've been in a long-term relationship for years, you sometimes don't know you still have issues lurking because nothing is happening to activate them. We had some problems a while back, and I relearned some of mine, as did he.Posted by FantumPosted by pisceswoman123Oooh, I didn't mean to make it seem like things aren't good now. My husband absolutely adores me and would do anything for me. We're both aware that we are codependent people, and we're working on it.Posted by FantumPosted by pisceswoman123That's a super healthy way to be. I've got attachment issues. Eek.Posted by FantumI see 😌Posted by pisceswoman123There's the difference! Me for a good year after a break-up:Posted by Fantum
I heard some kind of relationship expert talking about how the sooner you start dating again, the quicker and more completely you get over a break-up. Maybe that's true for people who are good at just dating, but it sucks for people who tend to attach quickly.
I normally have a I don’t care attitude after a relationship and that seems to attract the right ones 😄
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I try to move on fast. If it’s doesn’t work it not point to keep wishing for it. And I am normally very clear in the things that didn’t work out. I want better.
You should work on that 😊
Why would you want a guy that doesn’t love you completely? You should be his everything. If’s not like that it’s not worth it.
You deserve better, don’t you think?
I'm just commenting on the way I've handled break-ups in the past...NOT WELL!
Well, the past it’s the past 😄 No much you can do about it. I am sure you have learned a lot from it
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Posted by FantumI feel like that right now. But somehow, he popped into my life. Why, oh why? I don't even want anything! I just need to cool down...Posted by pisceswoman123There's the difference! Me for a good year after a break-up:Posted by Fantum
I heard some kind of relationship expert talking about how the sooner you start dating again, the quicker and more completely you get over a break-up. Maybe that's true for people who are good at just dating, but it sucks for people who tend to attach quickly.
I normally have a I don’t care attitude after a relationship and that seems to attract the right ones 😄
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Posted by compyAre you at least having sex with this one? If not, you should lol
New story. New guy. Aquarius (what else). No feelings. He knows it. I feel like cheating on myself. Ugh!


Posted by pinkbird03This is how I do things as well. I don't mind being single and not dating though. It's a choice for me. I just hate starting over and the beginning stages of getting to know someone. So I'd rather wait and see what falls into my lap lol
I never move on from an ex until I find someone I actually really like and want to continue to date. This is hard because I’m super picky. I mean I’ll try to date others, but if I don’t like them, my heart isn’t going to move on from my ex. It also doesn’t help when my ex is still present in my life. That’s what my aqua is doing and I get such a high from the attention he gives me throughout the day every day. I’m just so addicted. I think he is too.


Posted by AerialViewTotally crazy, yep. I don't even want this one. He's just all over me. Meh!
You can't even conquer one and there's another one?
Back to your crazy self aren't you compy?

Posted by compyThat's Libra women. They're always think that all men are all over them. Particularly Aquarius men. Meh!Posted by AerialViewTotally crazy, yep. I don't even want this one. He's just all over me. Meh!
You can't even conquer one and there's another one?
Back to your crazy self aren't you compy?click to expand

Posted by AerialViewYou made my day 🙂)Posted by compyThat's Libra women. They're always think that all men are all over them. Particularly Aquarius men. Meh!Posted by AerialViewTotally crazy, yep. I don't even want this one. He's just all over me. Meh!
You can't even conquer one and there's another one?
Back to your crazy self aren't you compy?click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Maybe you should try it for once lol
I never think of people as rebounds for some reason. I always go into dates and stuff with a fresh mind cause I've made the choice to cut off the previous person for my own happiness. Guess I'm optimistic in this way too. #SagPower

Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03This is how I do things as well. I don't mind being single and not dating though. It's a choice for me. I just hate starting over and the beginning stages of getting to know someone. So I'd rather wait and see what falls into my lap lol
I never move on from an ex until I find someone I actually really like and want to continue to date. This is hard because I’m super picky. I mean I’ll try to date others, but if I don’t like them, my heart isn’t going to move on from my ex. It also doesn’t help when my ex is still present in my life. That’s what my aqua is doing and I get such a high from the attention he gives me throughout the day every day. I’m just so addicted. I think he is too.
I had a dream last night about my Aqua friend. Its annoying how much I think about him and wish I could just shoo him away. Now he's invading my self conscious and I can't control it. I need to meet someone new but I'm too lazy. 😢click to expand


Posted by AerialViewI'm not lonely and I don't feel like dealing with someone else's bullshit and conforming to their needs! 😛Posted by saggurl88Maybe you should try it for once lol
I never think of people as rebounds for some reason. I always go into dates and stuff with a fresh mind cause I've made the choice to cut off the previous person for my own happiness. Guess I'm optimistic in this way too. #SagPowerclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Are you saying you're not like a Libra? 😛Posted by AerialViewI'm not lonely and I don't feel like dealing with someone else's bullshit and conforming to their needs! 😛Posted by saggurl88Maybe you should try it for once lol
I never think of people as rebounds for some reason. I always go into dates and stuff with a fresh mind cause I've made the choice to cut off the previous person for my own happiness. Guess I'm optimistic in this way too. #SagPowerclick to expand

Posted by AerialView😄 I can balance out things but I am mostly fire and water lol No, I'm not gonna sit around and wait for what I want lolPosted by saggurl88Are you saying you're not like a Libra? 😛Posted by AerialViewI'm not lonely and I don't feel like dealing with someone else's bullshit and conforming to their needs! 😛Posted by saggurl88Maybe you should try it for once lol
I never think of people as rebounds for some reason. I always go into dates and stuff with a fresh mind cause I've made the choice to cut off the previous person for my own happiness. Guess I'm optimistic in this way too. #SagPowerclick to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Nothing. We don't talk anymore lol. I have no clue. Wherever he is, I hope he's as miserable thinking about me as I am thinking about him. 😂😂😂Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03This is how I do things as well. I don't mind being single and not dating though. It's a choice for me. I just hate starting over and the beginning stages of getting to know someone. So I'd rather wait and see what falls into my lap lol
I never move on from an ex until I find someone I actually really like and want to continue to date. This is hard because I’m super picky. I mean I’ll try to date others, but if I don’t like them, my heart isn’t going to move on from my ex. It also doesn’t help when my ex is still present in my life. That’s what my aqua is doing and I get such a high from the attention he gives me throughout the day every day. I’m just so addicted. I think he is too.
I had a dream last night about my Aqua friend. Its annoying how much I think about him and wish I could just shoo him away. Now he's invading my self conscious and I can't control it. I need to meet someone new but I'm too lazy. 😢
Aww I know the feeling!! What’s the latest update with him?
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Posted by saggurl88Lol 😂 I hope so too!!Posted by pinkbird03Nothing. We don't talk anymore lol. I have no clue. Wherever he is, I hope he's as miserable thinking about me as I am thinking about him. 😂😂😂Posted by saggurl88Posted by pinkbird03This is how I do things as well. I don't mind being single and not dating though. It's a choice for me. I just hate starting over and the beginning stages of getting to know someone. So I'd rather wait and see what falls into my lap lol
I never move on from an ex until I find someone I actually really like and want to continue to date. This is hard because I’m super picky. I mean I’ll try to date others, but if I don’t like them, my heart isn’t going to move on from my ex. It also doesn’t help when my ex is still present in my life. That’s what my aqua is doing and I get such a high from the attention he gives me throughout the day every day. I’m just so addicted. I think he is too.
I had a dream last night about my Aqua friend. Its annoying how much I think about him and wish I could just shoo him away. Now he's invading my self conscious and I can't control it. I need to meet someone new but I'm too lazy. 😢
Aww I know the feeling!! What’s the latest update with him?
#ImSelfish
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Posted by Lioness18881
Are you the rebound or is the other person the rebound? And if you have no feelings what's toxic? Also, how do you cheat on yourself and what are you talking about?

Posted by Lioness18881I am an air sign. Relationship for me means friendship, nothing more. Mind that!Posted by compyPosted by Lioness18881
Are you the rebound or is the other person the rebound? And if you have no feelings what's toxic? Also, how do you cheat on yourself and what are you talking about?
He's basically the clone of my Aqua man. From tip to toe. He comes from the same area (9 km apart, if it matters). And we are talking about a LDR (internet talks), so what are the chances to meet a similar Aqua man in such a short time, from the same region, with the same mindset, with the same quirky ideas, and make him think like - wow, someone finally understands me! No, it's not a coincidence, just "been there, done that" before. It's not fair at all. Because I am not only fuelling my own pain, but also his, since there is nothing I want from him.
I'm really confused. Why are you in a LDR with someone you have no feelings for....?
Or is this some random you just met on a dating site yesterday?
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Posted by Lioness18881Just venting. There is no question involved. No feelings. Just a very weird coincidence. And the consequences I feel, which are not ok. That's all. This is not a love story.Posted by compyPosted by Lioness18881I am an air sign. Relationship for me means friendship, nothing more. Mind that!Posted by compyPosted by Lioness18881
Are you the rebound or is the other person the rebound? And if you have no feelings what's toxic? Also, how do you cheat on yourself and what are you talking about?
He's basically the clone of my Aqua man. From tip to toe. He comes from the same area (9 km apart, if it matters). And we are talking about a LDR (internet talks), so what are the chances to meet a similar Aqua man in such a short time, from the same region, with the same mindset, with the same quirky ideas, and make him think like - wow, someone finally understands me! No, it's not a coincidence, just "been there, done that" before. It's not fair at all. Because I am not only fuelling my own pain, but also his, since there is nothing I want from him.
I'm really confused. Why are you in a LDR with someone you have no feelings for....?
Or is this some random you just met on a dating site yesterday?
Do you call friendships with females who live far away long distance relationships as well or does it just apply to males. It's just very difficult to understand what you mean if you aren't specific. Obviously none of us know the backstory or what the situation is sorry it sounds like you're describing it in riddles. I'm asking questions to try and understand what you're talking about that's all
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Posted by compyThen making a new friend is not a rebound. Are you Asexual or have a sexual dysfunction about yourself? You say you never had sex with your other Aqua but you had a great understanding and now you've met this new one.Posted by Lioness18881Just venting. There is no question involved. No feelings. Just a very weird coincidence. And the consequences I feel, which are not ok. That's all. This is not a love story.Posted by compyPosted by Lioness18881I am an air sign. Relationship for me means friendship, nothing more. Mind that!Posted by compyPosted by Lioness18881
Are you the rebound or is the other person the rebound? And if you have no feelings what's toxic? Also, how do you cheat on yourself and what are you talking about?
He's basically the clone of my Aqua man. From tip to toe. He comes from the same area (9 km apart, if it matters). And we are talking about a LDR (internet talks), so what are the chances to meet a similar Aqua man in such a short time, from the same region, with the same mindset, with the same quirky ideas, and make him think like - wow, someone finally understands me! No, it's not a coincidence, just "been there, done that" before. It's not fair at all. Because I am not only fuelling my own pain, but also his, since there is nothing I want from him.
I'm really confused. Why are you in a LDR with someone you have no feelings for....?
Or is this some random you just met on a dating site yesterday?
Do you call friendships with females who live far away long distance relationships as well or does it just apply to males. It's just very difficult to understand what you mean if you aren't specific. Obviously none of us know the backstory or what the situation is sorry it sounds like you're describing it in riddles. I'm asking questions to try and understand what you're talking about that's all
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Posted by pinkbird03what kind of attention he gives you throughout the day every day?
I never move on from an ex until I find someone I actually really like and want to continue to date. This is hard because I’m super picky. I mean I’ll try to date others, but if I don’t like them, my heart isn’t going to move on from my ex. It also doesn’t help when my ex is still present in my life. That’s what my aqua is doing and I get such a high from the attention he gives me throughout the day every day. I’m just so addicted. I think he is too.

Posted by compyhave you met in person? what does it mean that you are fuelling his pain, since there is nothing you want from him...? self-centered a bit? 🙂 fuelling his pain, lolPosted by Lioness18881
Are you the rebound or is the other person the rebound? And if you have no feelings what's toxic? Also, how do you cheat on yourself and what are you talking about?
He's basically the clone of my Aqua man. From tip to toe. He comes from the same area (9 km apart, if it matters). And we are talking about a LDR (internet talks), so what are the chances to meet a similar Aqua man in such a short time, from the same region, with the same mindset, with the same quirky ideas, and make him think like - wow, someone finally understands me! No, it's not a coincidence, just "been there, done that" before. It's not fair at all. Because I am not only fuelling my own pain, but also his, since there is nothing I want from him.click to expand

Posted by Pandora101Well we talk sometimes, but I post stories throughout the day on Snapchat because I want him to see. It’s just for him even though others can see. And he looks at everything usually within 30 minutes, sometimes it’s less than 5 minutes. There’s no notification so he has to keep checking. He knows I do it for him and I know he does this for me. I think we both get a high from it and it’s why we are addicted. We used to do the same with sharing our locations. Until I got upset and shut mine off then he shut his off. We are such stalkers of each other. I make us sound crazy.Posted by pinkbird03what kind of attention he gives you throughout the day every day?
I never move on from an ex until I find someone I actually really like and want to continue to date. This is hard because I’m super picky. I mean I’ll try to date others, but if I don’t like them, my heart isn’t going to move on from my ex. It also doesn’t help when my ex is still present in my life. That’s what my aqua is doing and I get such a high from the attention he gives me throughout the day every day. I’m just so addicted. I think he is too.
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Posted by WittyGem88Hmm I’ve never seen that on Snapchat. I think you’re thinking of Instagram. My aqua loves the games. He’s been playing games for months. They haven’t all been the same either. He switches it up. I know he’s doing it because he’s interested in me. We have a lot of history now and he’s still in my life. The question is how much he’s interested. Hopefully I’ll find out soonPosted by pinkbird03I believe there is a notification if your contacts posted a story on snapchat. Circle thing turns blue. Not sure if he is like me, but I get so bothered with notifications i tend to just open it for the sake of it and just skip through all the stories so I dont get bothered with the blue notification on there. Doesnt mean I am interested. I just hate the notification and it bothers me.Posted by Pandora101Well we talk sometimes, but I post stories throughout the day on Snapchat because I want him to see. It’s just for him even though others can see. And he looks at everything usually within 30 minutes, sometimes it’s less than 5 minutes. There’s no notification so he has to keep checking. He knows I do it for him and I know he does this for me. I think we both get a high from it and it’s why we are addicted. We used to do the same with sharing our locations. Until I got upset and shut mine off then he shut his off. We are such stalkers of each other. I make us sound crazy.Posted by pinkbird03what kind of attention he gives you throughout the day every day?
I never move on from an ex until I find someone I actually really like and want to continue to date. This is hard because I’m super picky. I mean I’ll try to date others, but if I don’t like them, my heart isn’t going to move on from my ex. It also doesn’t help when my ex is still present in my life. That’s what my aqua is doing and I get such a high from the attention he gives me throughout the day every day. I’m just so addicted. I think he is too.
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Posted by WittyGem88Posted by pinkbird03No. Its def snapchat. I use it everyday. When youre uploading something, circle turns yellow. Turns blue if its a new post. If youve seen it there is no color. Instagram notifications are red. Why would he play games with you if he knows youre interested? Sorry i have no idea about your backstory. Usually, aquas move quite quickly with women if they like the woman a lot. But of course, that means they can lose interest quickly too.Posted by WittyGem88Hmm I’ve never seen that on Snapchat. I think you’re thinking of Instagram. My aqua loves the games. He’s been playing games for months. They haven’t all been the same either. He switches it up. I know he’s doing it because he’s interested in me. We have a lot of history now and he’s still in my life. The question is how much he’s interested. Hopefully I’ll find out soonPosted by pinkbird03I believe there is a notification if your contacts posted a story on snapchat. Circle thing turns blue. Not sure if he is like me, but I get so bothered with notifications i tend to just open it for the sake of it and just skip through all the stories so I dont get bothered with the blue notification on there. Doesnt mean I am interested. I just hate the notification and it bothers me.Posted by Pandora101Well we talk sometimes, but I post stories throughout the day on Snapchat because I want him to see. It’s just for him even though others can see. And he looks at everything usually within 30 minutes, sometimes it’s less than 5 minutes. There’s no notification so he has to keep checking. He knows I do it for him and I know he does this for me. I think we both get a high from it and it’s why we are addicted. We used to do the same with sharing our locations. Until I got upset and shut mine off then he shut his off. We are such stalkers of each other. I make us sound crazy.Posted by pinkbird03what kind of attention he gives you throughout the day every day?
I never move on from an ex until I find someone I actually really like and want to continue to date. This is hard because I’m super picky. I mean I’ll try to date others, but if I don’t like them, my heart isn’t going to move on from my ex. It also doesn’t help when my ex is still present in my life. That’s what my aqua is doing and I get such a high from the attention he gives me throughout the day every day. I’m just so addicted. I think he is too.
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Posted by KoniuchaaI’m content with how things are right now. He’s worth it to me. I actually support him and everything he is doing in his life. You don’t have to judge me anymore. Thanks though.Posted by pinkbird03How long are you planning on dealing with this? Forever?Posted by Pandora101Well we talk sometimes, but I post stories throughout the day on Snapchat because I want him to see. It’s just for him even though others can see. And he looks at everything usually within 30 minutes, sometimes it’s less than 5 minutes. There’s no notification so he has to keep checking. He knows I do it for him and I know he does this for me. I think we both get a high from it and it’s why we are addicted. We used to do the same with sharing our locations. Until I got upset and shut mine off then he shut his off. We are such stalkers of each other. I make us sound crazy.Posted by pinkbird03what kind of attention he gives you throughout the day every day?
I never move on from an ex until I find someone I actually really like and want to continue to date. This is hard because I’m super picky. I mean I’ll try to date others, but if I don’t like them, my heart isn’t going to move on from my ex. It also doesn’t help when my ex is still present in my life. That’s what my aqua is doing and I get such a high from the attention he gives me throughout the day every day. I’m just so addicted. I think he is too.
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Posted by Pandora101Me or him? I feel guilty for listening to his stories, for seeing me for what I cannot provide him, even though he tries to court me. It's a little bit comforting for me to relive past feelings, to feel wanted if you wish, but by no means I can say yes. There is a huge distance and a huge responsibility I cannot be accounted for. As I said before, I am a little bit thrilled by the quirky coincidence and comforted by it, but this cannot go farther than that.Posted by compyhave you met in person? what does it mean that you are fuelling his pain, since there is nothing you want from him...? self-centered a bit? 🙂 fuelling his pain, lolPosted by Lioness18881
Are you the rebound or is the other person the rebound? And if you have no feelings what's toxic? Also, how do you cheat on yourself and what are you talking about?
He's basically the clone of my Aqua man. From tip to toe. He comes from the same area (9 km apart, if it matters). And we are talking about a LDR (internet talks), so what are the chances to meet a similar Aqua man in such a short time, from the same region, with the same mindset, with the same quirky ideas, and make him think like - wow, someone finally understands me! No, it's not a coincidence, just "been there, done that" before. It's not fair at all. Because I am not only fuelling my own pain, but also his, since there is nothing I want from him.
you are in a serious need of a reality-check, I am sorry to say
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Posted by compyWho's him?
I had a strange dream, his best friend telling him to pursue my Aqua man. Sweet 🙂

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