Aries irregular texting and overall vague

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This aries man I met on Tinder early march, I do not understand him

We had connection for sure on the first date, we extended the date and did several fun things that evening, we'd also kissed. He texted me after telling me he had a good time and bla bla.

He then straight forward told me it'd seem fun to him to for us to go partying together, I agreed and decided we'd keep in touch as friends. I did/do like him, see potential lets put it that way. We're going to a party in a few weeks (with another friend of mine), which we had set up the day after our first date. Which he confirmed recently to be still up for without me asking so I know he has not changed his mind.

However I find it that I keep initiating contact, and he does respond, and asks things about my life but that's it. He does remember stuff I've told him, which is a plus.

I was supposed to move my horse and he wanted to help me like he literally told me if I needed any help he'd be happy to help me with the moving, we had set the day and everything. He really was interested asking me all kinds of questions about the subject but I decided to not move my horse (different story) and he knows.

My ex aries was so different, he wanted to see me at every possibility and made that clear and I understand it's only Sun signs.. This guy is sweet, genuinely a good guy, but how on earth do I handle such a passive guy.

I recently also texted him what he was up to that evening, he told me he was already in bed and being really tired from work. He said if not we could have hung out together.

I don't know his day of birth / chart
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Right thx, I do not know if I could fall for him. I just know I am interested in finding out. I just don't know whether I should keep initiating or just leave it to him.

He has told me he is looking for a relationship @Ladyneptune though I do not think Tinder is only for sex. Unless that's what you're using it for. I was clear about my intentions towards him. So was he. We got along, we keep in touch, we go party together and we'll see. I just am unsure whether or not to initiate, and also impatient because we had so much fun and I loved the energy we had I want some more of it.
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Posted by WarAngel

He's sniffing other female ass. Only put in equal amounts of effort, not an ounce more until he's decides to step up to the plate.

With a guy like this, you need to pursue and not chase. Aries people start out strong and taper off quickly unless you can keep their interest.


Good thing I'm sniffing other men' ass too lol. I like him, as I like being interested. Not as if he is the one
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Posted by Galoppig

Right thx, I do not know if I could fall for him. I just know I am interested in finding out. I just don't know whether I should keep initiating or just leave it to him.

He has told me he is looking for a relationship @Ladyneptune though I do not think Tinder is only for sex. Unless that's what you're using it for. I was clear about my intentions towards him. So was he. We got along, we keep in touch, we go party together and we'll see. I just am unsure whether or not to initiate, and also impatient because we had so much fun and I loved the energy we had I want some more of it.


Did he say he's looking for a relationship after you told him thats what your looking for? People like to parrot back what they think you want to hear.

And even if he's looking for a wife, the fact he is not initiating and saying he wants to be your party buddy indicates he sees you as just that, a party buddy.

IME aries are the aggressors and move things along. Again, only he knows truly what he is about. All you can do is factor in his actions as a strong indicator of what he is looking for from you. Which is a friend to party with at this point.

In the meantime, keep swiping.

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Posted by Wizardz_

Instead of trying to force things why not let it happen at its own pace? It's not the answer to everything if you have a relationship with this man or not. You both know you will see each other at this party so that is the next step.. anything before then is just filler. Life is not something to be controlled and forced

In short - PATIENCE!


I got aries moon what even is patience.
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Instead of trying to force things why not let it happen at its own pace? It's not the answer to everything if you have a relationship with this man or not. You both know you will see each other at this party so that is the next step.. anything before then is just filler. Life is not something to be controlled and forced

In short - PATIENCE!

I got aries moon what even is patience.

You're fucked then 😂
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😂😂 Shit
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Does man supposed to say it in woman’s face - I WANTED FUCK AND I got it!

He is trying calmly stay as far as he can from anything. It what had already happened.

Leave man alone!

Maybe? No! He is just there because of the horses! Or whatever else. Don’t you have any dignity? Not that I see any…

We never slept dear. I know the rodeo, and I ain't participating
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Aaah…Aries? Never slept? Ok. Here is I changed my mind.

Funny as I had just busted my Aries balls asking him if he had ever approached woman?

Because it doesn’t seem like he did…and he said he would like to but than I kind of stepped back and he is - 0 reaction.

So! He told me that actually no. He had not approached women. He was in a band. And he is huge and handsome. So there is a rule if girl come to the stage - where he stays says who is she after and the rest is a breeze…

After thinking that my second guess would be - chase hell out of him and fuck him and see what’s going to happen than.

I am Gem/Leo so I can do that. And I did. And it’s been almost 4 years ago. And I can’t get rid of him. Rams are real if they want you.

If they don’t - you can kill yourself and it won’t help. So go ahead. And good luck.
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Well you can't really expect him to text all the time. As you may now have experienced there are 2 types of Aries men. One's the love bombers and the other's laid back, go-with-the-flow type.

You should be glad he's not love bombing you. Why not see where things go sknce you guys only went out once?

Also, let him do the chasing. If you're initiating texts most of the time it's time to pull back and see other dudes in the process.
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With vague texting I don't always know what I am doing. To my detriment I don't plan too far ahead.

One guess. Who is texting first? Go!!

I only chase if I'm horny.
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i generally only chase money, stability, peace, adventure, and goals 😂 not so much people

On a serious note though

@op

if he’s agreeing to future plans with you like going to a party, i think there is some interest there. as for him wanting to help you move your horse, i would even do that for a friend i’m not attracted to so that’s not really a sign of romantic interest. that’s just us wanting to help out a friend
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Posted by Wizardz_
Posted by Galoppig
Posted by Wizardz_

Instead of trying to force things why not let it happen at its own pace? It's not the answer to everything if you have a relationship with this man or not. You both know you will see each other at this party so that is the next step.. anything before then is just filler. Life is not something to be controlled and forced

In short - PATIENCE!

I got aries moon what even is patience.

You're fucked then 😂
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Maybe THATS the name of the game? 🤔👯‍♂️
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Posted by alexscaries
Posted by GemiMay
Posted by alexscaries

With vague texting I don't always know what I am doing. To my detriment I don't plan too far ahead.

One guess. Who is texting first? Go!!

I only chase if I'm horny.

i generally only chase money, stability, peace adventure, and goals 😂 not so much people

On a serious note though

@op

if he’s agreeing to future plans with you like going to a party, i think there is some interest there. as for him wanting to help you move your horse, i would even do that for a friend i’m not attracted to so that’s not really a sign of romantic interest. that’s just us wanting to help out a friend
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aries sun, gemini moon, taurus venus...🙂

male—??

I would pay to observe you for a day…with this placement:::🤔
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Posted by GemiMay
Posted by serenidad
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by GemiMay
Posted by alexscaries

With vague texting I don't always know what I am doing. To my detriment I don't plan too far ahead.

One guess. Who is texting first? Go!!

I only chase if I'm horny.

i generally only chase money, stability, peace adventure, and goals 😂 not so much people

On a serious note though

@op

if he’s agreeing to future plans with you like going to a party, i think there is some interest there. as for him wanting to help you move your horse, i would even do that for a friend i’m not attracted to so that’s not really a sign of romantic interest. that’s just us wanting to help out a friend

aries sun, gemini moon, taurus venus...🙂

male—??

I would pay to observe you for a day…with this placement:::🤔
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why 😂