Aries man ignoring while it's his fault

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ni1992
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We are dating .. but i wasnt sure about him i mean because i was scared that he isn't over his ex and he is just using me for sex .. but i didnt do anything .. then i saw him on twiitter liking a post that says " not the beat ending but definitely my favorite story" that got me furiously mad yet i didnt do anything to him ... later on i wrote on my twitter " if i insidted more of my feelings in this i would be stupid, i'm definitely done!" So he called me saying whats wrong i told him i cant tell you yet.. he kept bagging me to tell him and when i refused he hung up then 5 mins later he called begging me again to talk i told him i really like how much you care but i swear i cant talk right now i'll tell u when i'm sure about it what i wrote on twitter was just to let a feelong out he got mad again and hing up.. zi texted him am sorry i didnt mean to make you mad but im so stressed out and i cant talk... he got so mad and i got mad to and i sent him a vn telling him what is it all about he replied harsh.. so i kept texting him explaining he ignored !... till the next day he told me we'"ll talk about this later i replied no its i waited so long and i feel bad i cant wait after another whole day he texted me saying " you dont make sense your words are contradicted " i went even more mad and kept texting him about how much he is being disrespectful and hurtful and if he needs to talk he needa ro talk now or else i'' done with all this shit !! He IGNORED !!



What the fuck is this !! Am really mad and hurt!! He drove me crazy i dont realy understand him or how should i act in this situation !!
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Posted by Arielle83
You're a paranoid asshole.

How dare you shout at a man for "liking" something on twitter.

Sit down unstable slut.
I Didnt !!! Heeee is the one whos fighting with me because what i wrote on twitter !! I was mad because i saw so many signs that he is not over his ex and yet he is dating me ! ... he is mad because i told him .. " i'm not saying am right am saying i felt used... but if u have an explanation tell me" he didnt hear anything but the word "used"
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Posted by Deedee86
Wait. What?

Why are you fighting? What exactly are you mad about? Please don't tell me that this all started over a post he liked on Twitter? I like lots of things on Twitter. They have never once been liked as a dig towards someone else.

Did you tell him how you feel before twittergate? If not, he is probably confused as to what the hell is going on.
I dont know !! .... yes he "the aries guy" got mad because i didnt explain my post on twitter ... then he went really mad... so i did explain and i told him i know im probably wrong and this is a bad time but since u wanna know i'll tell you ! He went even more mad so i told him he should calm down so he can understands me but he went ignoring and short stupid replise that takes a whole day to reply to me !! I dont understand why he is mad in the first place but im mad because he is being ignoring and its so disrespectful !
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I'm assuming that he is mad because you flipped out for no reason. Did you ever talk to him about his ex or did you just make assumptions and then overreact to a Twitter like?

if you want any chance of saving this relationship you're gonna have to back off for awhile and stop getting angry over nothing. Most men don't like drama and you are going to force him to run far far away.
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Posted by ni1992
We are dating .. but i wasnt sure about him i mean because i was scared that he isn't over his ex and he is just using me for sex .. but i didnt do anything .. then i saw him on twiitter liking a post that says " not the beat ending but definitely my favorite story" that got me furiously mad yet i didnt do anything to him ... later on i wrote on my twitter " if i insidted more of my feelings in this i would be stupid, i'm definitely done!" So he called me saying whats wrong i told him i cant tell you yet.. he kept bagging me to tell him and when i refused he hung up then 5 mins later he called begging me again to talk i told him i really like how much you care but i swear i cant talk right now i'll tell u when i'm sure about it what i wrote on twitter was just to let a feelong out he got mad again and hing up.. zi texted him am sorry i didnt mean to make you mad but im so stressed out and i cant talk... he got so mad and i got mad to and i sent him a vn telling him what is it all about he replied harsh.. so i kept texting him explaining he ignored !... till the next day he told me we'"ll talk about this later i replied no its i waited so long and i feel bad i cant wait after another whole day he texted me saying " you dont make sense your words are contradicted " i went even more mad and kept texting him about how much he is being disrespectful and hurtful and if he needs to talk he needa ro talk now or else i'' done with all this shit !! He IGNORED !!



What the fuck is this !! Am really mad and hurt!! He drove me crazy i dont realy understand him or how should i act in this situation !!
I think you really need to express yourself in a healthy way. This seems like stress, tbh.

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One of the worst feelings for an Aries is frustration - and no doubt you've probably got him frustrated now. If there is an issue between you two, you'll need to talk about it and be completely straight forward. It kind of sounds like you've created a problem out of nothing, or you're just not clarifying the issue properly and that can be frustrating for an Aries.

If he did lash out, give him some space. Us Aries are impulsive and for the most part, we know this. Give him some time to realize this and he'll come back apologetically.
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Posted by ni1992

.. then i saw him on twiitter liking a post that says " not the beat ending but definitely my favorite story"




You've got to be fucking kidding, right? You lose your mind over the above?

And below ... what the fuck is that?

You ignore him and expect him to accept it ... but, then lose your mind if he isn't pacifying you INSTANTLY upon your demand of his attention.



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he called me saying whats wrong i told him i cant tell you yet.. he kept bagging me to tell him

when i refused he hung up

then 5 mins later he called begging me again to talk

i told ...... i cant talk right now

he replied harsh.. so i kept texting him explaining he ignored !...

till the next day he told me we'"ll talk about this later

i replied no its i waited so long and i feel bad i cant wait after another whole day

i went even more mad and kept texting him about how much he is being disrespectful and hurtful and if he needs to talk he needa ro talk now or else i'' done with all this shit

He IGNORED !!

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You have the emotional maturity of a child.

You should consider yourself lucky if he even notices your existence.
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Posted by ni1992

he texted me saying " you dont make sense your words are contradicted "






I agree with him 100%

Even in here you're a contradiction. Your words describe you being crazy mad ... but, you have no clue.

When people notice that it's all you causing your grief, you think they are to blame for reading incorrectly ... when they are reading correctly .. they read your description of you crazy
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You think it's all him, in your title you say it's his fault ...... yet, what you describe is you being at fault.



It's very bizarre how you think people are misreading you, when they aren't ... what is happening is that you are contradicting yourself ... just like he is trying to tell you.



Far be for me to try and stop you from looking and being ridiculous ... carry on
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Posted by P-Angel
You think it's all him, in your title you say it's his fault ...... yet, what you describe is you being at fault.



It's very bizarre how you think people are misreading you, when they aren't ... what is happening is that you are contradicting yourself ... just like he is trying to tell you.



Far be for me to try and stop you from looking and being ridiculous ... carry on


No am not ! ... maybe people not undeestanding because i wrote while i was in anger i was crazy and i didnt know what to do !

He said am contradicted because i told him i want to say sorry and i dont want u to get mad but for real its not my fault ... and then i kept saying things like that it wasnt me being contradicted it was me being lost. Between wanting to end this but dont wanna give the idea that i'll always put the blame on me just to make things better he needa to learn how to be fare ..

In addetion to that .. i didnt pre jusge JUST on a post there was so many signs but i still didnt wanna make a pre judge on him but that got me so i expressed it in twitter "as i always do express my feelings and thoughts on twitter" and he knows that !.. i was saving a good converaation when i see him the next time face to face becauae i dont want to make any wrong decisions.. i really like him and i started to love him too.. and he kinda said that too the day before this argument .. i know i was wrong for going crazy mad... but he pushed me that far when he ignored intentionally ... while he hates when someone ignores him thats why i nevver do that !...

Of course am not gonna write the whole comversation between us over here.. but i'm not that immature am mad at him because he created this fight out of a stupid post and got mad because i got mad over his reaction.

Ps: me getting mad is absolutely nothing i was explaining to him stuff not attacking him !!! I only attacked when he started to be mean!.
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Posted by ni1992

me getting mad is absolutely nothing




Weren't you talking about fairness just a few minutes ago?

So, you believe that you should be pardoned for your behavior. IN fact, you expect to be excused for it, according to the quote above. Yet, he is 100% guilty if he does it.





Posted by ni1992

I only attacked when ......

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didn't you say a couple posts ago that he was the one who attacked you?

Yet, here you contradict yourself again, don't you? You did actually attack him .... but, of course, you believe you should be pardoned of this also.



This all boils down you to believing the accountability in this relationship should be:

100% him

0% you



It takes two people to tango, and adults with real life experience comprehend this. If you refuse to take responsibility for your self and your own actions .... then there isn't anything anyone can tell you except ....



enjoy the suffering that you bring upon yourself