Aries woman + Virgo man = HOT FUN?

I have heard it said that surprisingly there can be a strange understanding (and a very hot and mutually satisfying sexual relationship) between the Aries female and the Virgo male. Do you think that this is true? With regard to this relationship in general, I remember Linda Goodman saying something like "when there is love between the Aries woman and the Virgo man, life can be very beautiful". What do you think? Experiences? Why might an Aries woman be attracted to a Virguy?

The guy I felt the strongest connection with was actually a Virgo.
Didn't really work out though, he had a hard time commit and stuff. But still loves me. Naah, really confusing and long story. We're not really in touch with each other any longer.

Posted by wateraries
The guy I felt the strongest connection with was actually a Virgo.
Didn't really work out though, he had a hard time commit and stuff. But still loves me. Naah, really confusing and long story. We're not really in touch with each other any longer.

Same experience

Same! Complete hit and miss in every level! Neither understands the other's motivations or their perspective.
Sexually: complete fail too. They're so uninvolved in bed! Really frustrating! It's meant to be mutual interaction between both parties, not Virgo guy laying there like a starfish expecting Aries woman to do all the work and not get anything in return. Won't be going there again in a hurry!

And "same" was for "really long and confusing story..." and 'not in contact anymore'...

Hmm. I dated a Virgo when I was young and while we had tremendous chemistry, we probably met at the wrong time in life.
But never had I met a man so eager to learn and please. You know how they like to be first in class with the right answer.

Outside of the bedroom, our personalities clashed. He's very type A and I'm more laid back, until something really bothers me. I was attracted to his devotion to me, plus he loved to cook & clean. 🙂 I think he liked how different I was from him and how loving i was toward him because i noticed he had problems showing affection. (even though he loved it.)

2 years with an Virgo man. Sexually it's perfect. He loves to make sure I am entirely satisfied. Other then that... I believe an Aries finds what she lacks in him. I found patience,calmness,logic,self discipline. He seemed to have lost some of it when i received it ironically. He received the ability to express himself, enjoy life more and tone down the overall sense of seriousness. We are both intellectual and generally analytical beings so there is chemistry on that level as well. Virgo's are more domesticated in my opinion whereas Aries is a free spirit and more outgoing. Virgo's are much more of a homebody.It's either a hit or miss. The Aries is usually the one with the pants in the relationship but needs to give the Virgo the illusion that they have it or problems will arise. Since Aries is a masculine sign and Virgo a feminine you will see some of the roles being reversed. The Virgo is a man who represents stability,warmth, nonjudgmental, sincere love. There are 2 very different personalities though, but with mutual understanding, respect and TRUST I think this relationship has the ability to have the perfect balance in a relationship.

Warning though- Virgo's will get jealous at the social aspect in an Aries life. You don't have too many guy friend do you 😉?

I LOVE Aries women though I think it goes with what's been said so far. It's either been AMAZING or just completely worthless. No mediocre middle ground heh.

I have always loved aries because there smart there passionate an basically throw themselves to you I wonder what they like about us virgos 🙂

Posted by lotuslily
Same! Complete hit and miss in every level! Neither understands the other's motivations or their perspective.
Sexually: complete fail too. They're so uninvolved in bed! Really frustrating! It's meant to be mutual interaction between both parties, not Virgo guy laying there like a starfish expecting Aries woman to do all the work and not get anything in return. Won't be going there again in a hurry!

Truth

Hhhmmmm I've known two crazy Aries women back in Highschool. Super popular, leadership clubs, best party throwers, tall-slim-hot.... They were fun, and i was always fascinated with them, and they were fascinated with me as well. I guess there is a "hot attraction" - I've experienced it!

Tired of em!

Virgo men are great as platonic friends. I have dated a couple and it was hell on earth. I got tired of pretending to hate myself in order to keep the relationship going.

My husband is born August 23rd...right on the cusp. That Leo helps ALOT. I was married to him for 14 years and divorced him without communication for about 4 years. We're back together now... for about 2 years so far. His Cancer Moon was the problem combined with the Aries Ascendant - not a good aspect.

His criticizing was about control, his Moon was needy and moody, and his ascendant would mask it all as aggression or anger.

He betta now.

Oh... it was extremely firecracker hot fun when I was in my twenties... but, it got old and tired as "life" got in the way.

Hmm some interesting stuff here. I am a Virgo and while I display a lot of the traits given of the astrological definitions of a Virgo, I am no way in hell a cold fish in bed. Nor do I look for my own satisfaction.

I am married to an Aries woman now and it is like fireworks. I will admit she's a trip sometimes and can be a lil crybaby but I love my Aries woman to death and she knows it. The one sign I will keep away from ever again is the Gemini woman. AM DONE WITH THEM!!! LMFAO!!!

I admit that maybe some people can look at me as cold. To me it's more like if you ain't got it I ain't gonna lie and say you do. One thing about "MOST VIRGOS" is we don't sugarcoat anything but we are devoted and loyal almost to the point where it is damaging to ourselves.

I've been burned several times. I've even gone as far as doing time behind bars for 1.5 years to protect friends. The Virgo male can be over loyal and protective of the people who are close to us.

I've learned my lesson on that note and I am just enjoying my sexy Aries woman : )

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Posted by virgodog58
I have heard it said that surprisingly there can be a strange understanding (and a very hot and mutually satisfying sexual relationship) between the Aries female and the Virgo male. Do you think that this is true? With regard to this relationship in general, I remember Linda Goodman saying something like "when there is love between the Aries woman and the Virgo man, life can be very beautiful". What do you think? Experiences? Why might an Aries woman be attracted to a Virguy?

I'm in FULL AGREEMENT. I love me some Virgos and my Virgo bf being one of those people. I feel like Virgos and Aries, we have a natural and pure trust in one another and we have each other's backs. I feel like Aries and Virgos are both purists and have a certain innocence, but we're also protective of one another.

I feel like with my bf, he's one of my soulmates. I knew who he was the moment I met him. I saw who he was on a fundamental level. He has a backbone, but he's also a diplomat with muscle behind his words (i.e. don't mistake his diplomacy for weakness) cuz he's brilliant, and he's also physically strong. We learn so much from each other, especially me from him. There's something very comforting about him...like I know everything is going to be okay and we'll get through whatever we're going through together.

We've also seen each other at our worst and ugliest and saddest moments, as well as at our best through thick and thin, and we're currently going through some lean times right now financially, but I can't say I could go through it with anyone else.

Even if something should happen, we'd never tear each other down or speak ill of the other or dishonor each other. We've been through too much and we know each other too well.

I wouldn't even date for years after because it would be too hard to replace him. He's my standard and has set a high bar.

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aww...nice!

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Posted by virgodog58
I have heard it said that surprisingly there can be a strange understanding (and a very hot and mutually satisfying sexual relationship) between the Aries female and the Virgo male. Do you think that this is true? With regard to this relationship in general, I remember Linda Goodman saying something like "when there is love between the Aries woman and the Virgo man, life can be very beautiful". What do you think? Experiences? Why might an Aries woman be attracted to a Virguy?

I'm in FULL AGREEMENT. I love me some Virgos and my Virgo bf being one of those people. I feel like Virgos and Aries, we have a natural and pure trust in one another and we have each other's backs. I feel like Aries and Virgos are both purists and have a certain innocence, but we're also protective of one another.

I feel like with my bf, he's one of my soulmates. I knew who he was the moment I met him. I saw who he was on a fundamental level. He has a backbone, but he's also a diplomat with muscle behind his words (i.e. don't mistake his diplomacy for weakness) cuz he's brilliant, and he's also physically strong. We learn so much from each other, especially me from him. There's something very comforting about him...like I know everything is going to be okay and we'll get through whatever we're going through together.

We've also seen each other at our worst and ugliest and saddest moments, as well as at our best through thick and thin, and we're currently going through some lean times right now financially, but I can't say I could go through it with anyone else.

Even if something should happen, we'd never tear each other down or speak ill of the other or dishonor each other. We've been through too much and we know each other too well.

I wouldn't even date for years after because it would be too hard to replace him. He's my standard and has set a high bar.

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I think the Chinese horoscope have a hand in this. In it, Dragons and Roosters are "secret friends." And what months do they fall right into? Dragon month falls on April, Rooster on September. Regardless of that, they say that Aries is the equivalent of Dragon and Virgo of Rooster. My best friend is an Aries born on April 9. I was born on September 20. I have his back and we'll always be friends no matt

*no matter what...

my boyfriends a virgo and we been together for 4 years and im 19 so thats real impressive to me for my age anyways.but yes it's true about the sex between aries and virgo it's really fun for us and after we're done we feel at peace with each other. but it was really hard when we first started dating cause i didnt want to settle down but we're good now. I love how loyal virgos are i have a lot of virgo bst friends and i love that about them. anywhoo you have to find out for yourself anyways because everyone's relationships differ as you can see from the other comments.

I am an Areas girl (well actually I am in my 20's, but my gender didn't change). 🙂 I am not 100% sure where all of my stars are at, but from what I know my Mars was in Taurus, Moon in Gemini, and Sun in Capricorn on the day that I was born. And a Virgo man was the biggest crush of my whole entire life. I just got melted by his generosity and the way he looked at me from the first time when I saw him. And even though he is still capable of doing that every time I see him, it probably wouldn't work out because I am different than other Areas ladies that were described in some other posts, and not really planning on jump on him (unless he??ll really show me that he wants it, I mean actively show it!). I was trying to give him many and many hints not once (and I am certain that he is very smart guy in all the ways??_), but because he decides to flirt and even date "cheaper" girls - I really get offended by that, and really think sometimes that I would rather be alone or with my girl and guy-friends (who are my soul-restorers) than to go through those torchers... I also substitute that —love?? feeling well with varieties of activities that I am usually involved with.

My Virgo brother's ex-wife is an Aries.
He can't stand her, but he did enjoy the sex.

My parents were this combo. Sad it didn't last. She was a complete sad mess when my father died last year. I had no clue she still had anything for him after all of these years being so cold. Freaking Aries and your poker faces 🙂

Posted by kissmygrits
My parents were this combo. Sad it didn't last. She was a complete sad mess when my father died last year. I had no clue she still had anything for him after all of these years being so cold. Freaking Aries and your poker faces 🙂

Probably guilt and regret.

My advice on watching what worked and didn't is to compromise and don't be stubborn. Listen to each other. Drop the ego and communicate what really matters to you. Nobody is looking so have at it! Both sides. She would ask him to do things and he would continue doing what he wanted not even regarding that she was just trying to help. Sometimes he wanted her to be supportive of a venture he was about to pursue and she would still be mad about him not giving into her requests of things. I know there's more but that's what I noticed and that small thing can do a lot of damage or repair. Ah well. They both found someone great after their divorce.

Thanks! Dad was a great guy and you know someone was an awesome person when his funeral is slammed with tons of people on a cold rainy Monday around noonish.

All the Aries women i know are the total opposite of me, which is why "i think" virgo men are attracted to them. Ive always clicked with everyone. Particular Aries woman im close to always calls me on my shit and helps me put in in perspective.

BORRRRIIINNNGGG!Only be their friend. Never date them. They will do nothing, but criticize you! I've had to put a few in their place. Also, I hate the feeling of being helpless and they are very quick to make you feel that way. Not to mention stupid... Run as far away as you can

omg aries and virgo do have an awesome awesome connection their irresistible but their too boring in most cases. At Least their down for everything.

i am aries, virgo moon and rising. I been really meshing with this virgo guy. To me, he is funny, and witty, he is sweet, so tender, he is smart, he is generous, and really takes care of his family. He is a father, and his kids are his world and that is so attractive. I love being with him, he makes me smile, he takes care of my feelings. I feel safe with him, like I am protected. He told me a while back that I need someone to protect me. I suppose I am going around head first, and get myself in trouble sometimes, and yes it is nice knowing that he will be my protector, even though I don't need one, for the first time in my life, i appreciate it and i want it. he has never been critical of me, but when he does have something to say, its outta concern, and to tell you the truth, it is a total turn on that he cares enough to say what he is thinking or feeling. it is never negative. And the sparks fly, he is far from lame, and always make sure I get mine. I almost lost him once, I never want to be with out him again!!