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Posted by LalaloDo me a favor and log back into your real account..Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by bkbella86
I think it was a ridiculous request to begin with. Most places don’t allow you to move in early so where was she supposed to stay so you can have some “space”?
If they do allow you to move in early you pay early, proration. So I’m just confused what she was supposed to do to accommodate you?
Good news is you're not in her position so you won't have to worry your confused brain on what to do. click to expand
No one likes a cookiemonster, honey.
You ask for advice, but when you don’t get the reaction you want, you act passive aggressive and salty. Grow up.click to expand

Posted by LalaloPosted by YodiPosted by LalaloPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by bkbella86
I think it was a ridiculous request to begin with. Most places don’t allow you to move in early so where was she supposed to stay so you can have some “space”?
If they do allow you to move in early you pay early, proration. So I’m just confused what she was supposed to do to accommodate you?
Good news is you're not in her position so you won't have to worry your confused brain on what to do. click to expand
No one likes a cookiemonster, honey.
You ask for advice, but when you don’t get the reaction you want, you act passive aggressive and salty. Grow up.
Do me a favor and log back into your real account..
How is she being a b!!tch tho? On her original post she clearly said she was looking for a NICE WAY to ask her if it was possible to move out early. Also stillstill is already doing her a huge favor by letting her stay longer then what they originally agreed upon..
If you read her updates you'll see that now she understands why this chick can't move out early.. sooooo stop looking for drama. click to expand
Lol, I’m not Bkbella.
I was referring to the way she reacted to Bkbella’s post. That was a very cookiemonstery responce, and very uncalled for. Who’s looking for drama here, exactly? You don’t take well to criticism, that’s for sure. Which is why I told her to grow up. She’s on here asking for advice, and she has to accept that some might not agree with her. That’s lifeclick to expand

Posted by LalaloPosted by YodiPosted by LalaloWho's looking for drama you ask.. it's youPosted by YodiPosted by LalaloPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by bkbella86
I think it was a ridiculous request to begin with. Most places don’t allow you to move in early so where was she supposed to stay so you can have some “space”?
If they do allow you to move in early you pay early, proration. So I’m just confused what she was supposed to do to accommodate you?
Good news is you're not in her position so you won't have to worry your confused brain on what to do. click to expand
No one likes a cookiemonster, honey.
You ask for advice, but when you don’t get the reaction you want, you act passive aggressive and salty. Grow up.
Do me a favor and log back into your real account..
How is she being a b!!tch tho? On her original post she clearly said she was looking for a NICE WAY to ask her if it was possible to move out early. Also stillstill is already doing her a huge favor by letting her stay longer then what they originally agreed upon..
If you read her updates you'll see that now she understands why this chick can't move out early.. sooooo stop looking for drama. click to expand
Lol, I’m not Bkbella.
I was referring to the way she reacted to Bkbella’s post. That was a very cookiemonstery responce, and very uncalled for. Who’s looking for drama here, exactly? You don’t take well to criticism, that’s for sure. Which is why I told her to grow up. She’s on here asking for advice, and she has to accept that some might not agree with her. That’s life
You calling her a b!!tch was a uncalled for response click to expand
If she doesn’t want to be called a cookiemonster, then don’t act like a cookiemonster. It’s really that simple. I call it like I see itclick to expand
Posted by stillstillwaterWow, and they say Libra's don't like to confront. I would just tell her it's not working, I'm not happy so I'm giving you a 2 week notice to move out. Simple as that!Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Lmao, she annoyed the butter out of ya. I remember that moving in gift.
Just say it the way it is utilizing "nicely", "please", "can you".
lol she does have some annoying habits ut don't we all??
Like she'll be so quick to complain about butter when she does the same thing but on the grander scale it's not a big deal. I'm just so ready to be alone. It's me ..not her type of convo lol
I just hate telling people no or that awkwardness of asking her something that will be unpleasant for her. IT would've been so much easier if when seh said August I would've suggested July but at that time I wasn't thinking abotu how I need this alone time... click to expandclick to expand
Posted by YodiI don’t need a fake account. I say what the fuck I want when I want weakling. And I can bullshit.Posted by LalaloPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by bkbella86
I think it was a ridiculous request to begin with. Most places don’t allow you to move in early so where was she supposed to stay so you can have some “space”?
If they do allow you to move in early you pay early, proration. So I’m just confused what she was supposed to do to accommodate you?
Good news is you're not in her position so you won't have to worry your confused brain on what to do. click to expand
No one likes a cookiemonster, honey.
You ask for advice, but when you don’t get the reaction you want, you act passive aggressive and salty. Grow up.
Do me a favor and log back into your real account..
How is she being a b!!tch tho? On her original post she clearly said she was looking for a NICE WAY to ask her if it was possible to move out early. Also stillstill is already doing her a huge favor by letting her stay longer then what they originally agreed upon..
If you read her updates you'll see that now she understands why this chick can't move out early.. sooooo stop looking for drama. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by stillstillwateris she the worst roommate ever?
Hi guys,
I got an Aries with Cap Moon roommate who I want to nicely ask if she can do me a favor to move out a month earlier than what we had agreed on. This other place she's moving to is vacant so it could be possible. I just want to ask her if she'd be willing to do that for me. We initally said we're going to live together for at least 6 months. IT's been 8 months now. COuple of months ago seh said she's moving out in Aug and i Said Ok. Butnow I"m thinkingJuly would be much better for me.
What do you guys think? Im really dreading the convo I suppose.

Posted by bkbella86Good for you but you're quoting the wrong person.. ya'll love to say so and so can't take criticism but ya'll revert to name calling when someone disagrees with you.Posted by YodiPosted by LalaloPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by bkbella86
I think it was a ridiculous request to begin with. Most places don’t allow you to move in early so where was she supposed to stay so you can have some “space”?
If they do allow you to move in early you pay early, proration. So I’m just confused what she was supposed to do to accommodate you?
Good news is you're not in her position so you won't have to worry your confused brain on what to do. click to expand
No one likes a cookiemonster, honey.
You ask for advice, but when you don’t get the reaction you want, you act passive aggressive and salty. Grow up.
Do me a favor and log back into your real account..
How is she being a b!!tch tho? On her original post she clearly said she was looking for a NICE WAY to ask her if it was possible to move out early. Also stillstill is already doing her a huge favor by letting her stay longer then what they originally agreed upon..
If you read her updates you'll see that now she understands why this chick can't move out early.. sooooo stop looking for drama. click to expand
I don’t need a fake account. I say what the treetrunk I want when I want weakling. And I can bullbutter.click to expand

Posted by LalaloYou get what you put in. If someone is rude to me I'm rude back and I don't care how that comes across to the rest of you.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by bkbella86
I think it was a ridiculous request to begin with. Most places don’t allow you to move in early so where was she supposed to stay so you can have some “space”?
If they do allow you to move in early you pay early, proration. So I’m just confused what she was supposed to do to accommodate you?
Good news is you're not in her position so you won't have to worry your confused brain on what to do. click to expand
No one likes a cookiemonster, honey.
You ask for advice, but when you don’t get the reaction you want, you act passive aggressive and salty. Grow up. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Arielle83No...but she just likes to play naive like she doesn't know what's what or how to do the right thing but if its anything concerning her she'll send me essay texts and pictures.Posted by stillstillwater
but bruuuhhh she got the toilet all clogged up and didn't bother unclogging it and went to bed.
I'm ok...i'm not ok...
Is she a feral, fat ass? click to expandclick to expand

Posted by DonnaLibraDamn! See that's cold to me but I admire that. I wish I could be more like that! I think the standard is 1 month notice though which I could but I mean why burn bridges over 2 weeks. Not that she's much of a giver...Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by WolfInRamsClothinglol she does have some annoying habits ut don't we all??
Lmao, she annoyed the butter out of ya. I remember that moving in gift.
Just say it the way it is utilizing "nicely", "please", "can you".
Like she'll be so quick to complain about butter when she does the same thing but on the grander scale it's not a big deal. I'm just so ready to be alone. It's me ..not her type of convo lol
I just hate telling people no or that awkwardness of asking her something that will be unpleasant for her. IT would've been so much easier if when seh said August I would've suggested July but at that time I wasn't thinking abotu how I need this alone time... click to expand
Wow, and they say Libra's don't like to confront. I would just tell her it's not working, I'm not happy so I'm giving you a 2 week notice to move out. Simple as that! click to expandclick to expand

Posted by AdreamuponwakingNo, it's not so much about her as it's about me. I just want to be alone and not have to deal with someone else.Posted by stillstillwater
Hi guys,
I got an Aries with Cap Moon roommate who I want to nicely ask if she can do me a favor to move out a month earlier than what we had agreed on. This other place she's moving to is vacant so it could be possible. I just want to ask her if she'd be willing to do that for me. We initally said we're going to live together for at least 6 months. IT's been 8 months now. COuple of months ago seh said she's moving out in Aug and i Said Ok. Butnow I"m thinkingJuly would be much better for me.
What do you guys think? Im really dreading the convo I suppose.
is she the worst roommate ever? click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Yodithe Moral Police of DXP is in...Posted by LalaloPosted by YodiPosted by LalaloPosted by YodiPosted by LalaloPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by bkbella86
I think it was a ridiculous request to begin with. Most places don’t allow you to move in early so where was she supposed to stay so you can have some “space”?
If they do allow you to move in early you pay early, proration. So I’m just confused what she was supposed to do to accommodate you?
Good news is you're not in her position so you won't have to worry your confused brain on what to do. click to expand
No one likes a cookiemonster, honey.
You ask for advice, but when you don’t get the reaction you want, you act passive aggressive and salty. Grow up.
Do me a favor and log back into your real account..
How is she being a b!!tch tho? On her original post she clearly said she was looking for a NICE WAY to ask her if it was possible to move out early. Also stillstill is already doing her a huge favor by letting her stay longer then what they originally agreed upon..
If you read her updates you'll see that now she understands why this chick can't move out early.. sooooo stop looking for drama. click to expand
Lol, I’m not Bkbella.
I was referring to the way she reacted to Bkbella’s post. That was a very cookiemonstery responce, and very uncalled for. Who’s looking for drama here, exactly? You don’t take well to criticism, that’s for sure. Which is why I told her to grow up. She’s on here asking for advice, and she has to accept that some might not agree with her. That’s life
Who's looking for drama you ask.. it's you
You calling her a b!!tch was a uncalled for response click to expand
If she doesn’t want to be called a cookiemonster, then don’t act like a cookiemonster. It’s really that simple. I call it like I see it
Yeah you call it from an alternate account 😅
you're no better.. your response to her was way worse then hers to bkbella but whatever. You feel big now.. okay cool click to expandclick to expand



Posted by Mr_PinchyYes sir but hindsight is always 20-20.
I bet you'll think better who to accommodate in your home next time. At this point it just sounds like basically your fault. Inviting a lil piglet in.

Posted by pisceswoman123Good point but we're roommates so responsibility falls evenly in my eyes. I'm not getting all legal and shit about it because legally I could ask her to move out with a 30 day notice but we're friends so it's not about legal standards. It's courtesy.Posted by stillstillwaterBut if is your house it’s your responsibility to fix it. She is your tenant. Things should be working properly. click to expand
@Yodi @LadyNeptune @Awesomeyooo @WolfinRamsClothing
Please stop me if I'm overreacting but a bomb is about to go off in this mahfaking house...
So this girl left the treetrunking toilet unclogged last night just going to bed like in lala land. Then next morning once again just pees and leaves the toilet as is and goes to work. (WTF..cringe...) Then I text her and she's like oh i thought we were going to call the maintenance....like sweetheart, no we don't call the maintenance at the drop of the hat you have to try ot fix it yourself first. Then if the issue continues we call the maintenance. She's playing all dumb so when she comes home I tell her what she needs to do. She tries fixing it I guess but I'm working so I don't follow up. Next thing I know her friend is over and they're all giggling and then leave. So I'm thinking toilet got fixed. I go over and NOPE!!! So just minimal effort to fix it and voila it's fixed.... but i'm just at awe of how she just left it like that thinking it's OK. Like no update...no plan of action. Just don't give a treetrunk about something you treetrunked up and can walk away knowing damn well you're not the only one living here.
Plus some other petty butter that was just icing on top...basically butter she texts me paragraphs about with pics that she does herself.
I don't know how much more uncivilized it can get.
Me inside:
Me outside:
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Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by YodiPosted by LalaloYeah you call it from an alternate account 😅Posted by YodiPosted by LalaloPosted by YodiPosted by LalaloPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by bkbella86
I think it was a ridiculous request to begin with. Most places don’t allow you to move in early so where was she supposed to stay so you can have some “space”?
If they do allow you to move in early you pay early, proration. So I’m just confused what she was supposed to do to accommodate you?
Good news is you're not in her position so you won't have to worry your confused brain on what to do. click to expand
No one likes a cookiemonster, honey.
You ask for advice, but when you don’t get the reaction you want, you act passive aggressive and salty. Grow up.
Do me a favor and log back into your real account..
How is she being a b!!tch tho? On her original post she clearly said she was looking for a NICE WAY to ask her if it was possible to move out early. Also stillstill is already doing her a huge favor by letting her stay longer then what they originally agreed upon..
If you read her updates you'll see that now she understands why this chick can't move out early.. sooooo stop looking for drama. click to expand
Lol, I’m not Bkbella.
I was referring to the way she reacted to Bkbella’s post. That was a very cookiemonstery responce, and very uncalled for. Who’s looking for drama here, exactly? You don’t take well to criticism, that’s for sure. Which is why I told her to grow up. She’s on here asking for advice, and she has to accept that some might not agree with her. That’s life
Who's looking for drama you ask.. it's you
You calling her a b!!tch was a uncalled for response click to expand
If she doesn’t want to be called a cookiemonster, then don’t act like a cookiemonster. It’s really that simple. I call it like I see it
you're no better.. your response to her was way worse then hers to bkbella but whatever. You feel big now.. okay cool click to expand
the Moral Police of DXP is in...
click to expand

Posted by stillstillwaterLol gurl!
@Yodi
Ma'am...i see her that you have a post about your roommate situation and I'm just going have to call bullbutter on that...mmmm okay?? I am using my DXP psychic antennas to address....the rudeness and cookiemonsteriness you've exhibited is just a great opportunity for me to butter on this post and to show that I wear the badge in this town. Look at my shiny ass badge... mmmmm okkk? Alright ma'am i'll let you off with a warning but you be careful out there in DXP Land..mmmm, okkkk ma'am...
Posted by stillstillwaterHey it's not cold. I have a Libra Moon and need my space so I definitely wouldn't put up with her butter. I wouldn't care about losing a friend because I would no longer be friendly.Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by WolfInRamsClothing
Lmao, she annoyed the butter out of ya. I remember that moving in gift.
Just say it the way it is utilizing "nicely", "please", "can you".
lol she does have some annoying habits ut don't we all??
Like she'll be so quick to complain about butter when she does the same thing but on the grander scale it's not a big deal. I'm just so ready to be alone. It's me ..not her type of convo lol
I just hate telling people no or that awkwardness of asking her something that will be unpleasant for her. IT would've been so much easier if when seh said August I would've suggested July but at that time I wasn't thinking abotu how I need this alone time... click to expand
Wow, and they say Libra's don't like to confront. I would just tell her it's not working, I'm not happy so I'm giving you a 2 week notice to move out. Simple as that! click to expand
Damn! See that's cold to me but I admire that. I wish I could be more like that! I think the standard is 1 month notice though which I could but I mean why burn bridges over 2 weeks. Not that she's much of a giver... click to expandclick to expand

Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by WolfInRamsClothing
Lmao, she annoyed the butter out of ya. I remember that moving in gift.
Just say it the way it is utilizing "nicely", "please", "can you".
lol she does have some annoying habits ut don't we all??
Like she'll be so quick to complain about butter when she does the same thing but on the grander scale it's not a big deal. I'm just so ready to be alone. It's me ..not her type of convo lol
I just hate telling people no or that awkwardness of asking her something that will be unpleasant for her. IT would've been so much easier if when seh said August I would've suggested July but at that time I wasn't thinking abotu how I need this alone time... click to expand
Wow, and they say Libra's don't like to confront. I would just tell her it's not working, I'm not happy so I'm giving you a 2 week notice to move out. Simple as that! click to expand
Damn! See that's cold to me but I admire that. I wish I could be more like that! I think the standard is 1 month notice though which I could but I mean why burn bridges over 2 weeks. Not that she's much of a giver... click to expand
Hey it's not cold. I have a Libra Moon and need my space so I definitely wouldn't put up with her butter. I wouldn't care about losing a friend because I would no longer be friendly. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by heliumfiascoi know..i did lose it but internally just fuming. I should've just woken her up right there but I don't know why i'm so soft these days...
If someone clogged the toilet with butter and went back to bed...id LOOOSSSEEEEEE it.



Posted by Arielle8322Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwater
but bruuuhhh she got the toilet all clogged up and didn't bother unclogging it and went to bed.
I'm ok...i'm not ok...
Is she a feral, fat ass? click to expand
No...but she just likes to play naive like she doesn't know what's what or how to do the right thing but if its anything concerning her she'll send me essay texts and pictures. click to expand
How old is she? click to expandclick to expand


Posted by Arielle83Yes this is what I'm talking about. Like with her shit she's so on top of it and anything that bothers hers i get essay texts. If it's anything pertaining to the common areas she's so sloppy and careless with it. I find constant dishes that are not washed properly and still greasy and shit. It's just too much at this point.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwater
but bruuuhhh she got the toilet all clogged up and didn't bother unclogging it and went to bed.
I'm ok...i'm not ok...
Is she a feral, fat ass? click to expand
No...but she just likes to play naive like she doesn't know what's what or how to do the right thing but if its anything concerning her she'll send me essay texts and pictures. click to expand
How old is she? click to expand
22 click to expand
No offense to that age, but girls at that age are only looking out for themselves.
Especially Aries chicks. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Arielle83yeah age is a real thing. People like to say that age is just a number but the older I get the more I realize age is a real thing.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwater
but bruuuhhh she got the toilet all clogged up and didn't bother unclogging it and went to bed.
I'm ok...i'm not ok...
Is she a feral, fat ass? click to expand
No...but she just likes to play naive like she doesn't know what's what or how to do the right thing but if its anything concerning her she'll send me essay texts and pictures. click to expand
How old is she? click to expand
22 click to expand
No offense to that age, but girls at that age are only looking out for themselves.
Especially Aries chicks. click to expand
Yes this is what I'm talking about. Like with her butter she's so on top of it and anything that bothers hers i get essay texts. If it's anything pertaining to the common areas she's so sloppy and careless with it. I find constant dishes that are not washed properly and still greasy and butter. It's just too much at this point. click to expand
She’s a child. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by Arielle83Just wow! I guess tables turned with her being a Cap... normally though most Caps are pretty considerate about shit like that. I'm surprised. I know it's my fault with this situation because I should've been more outspoken. I just hate confrontation though and telling a grown ass person what's right. It's so awkward.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwater
but bruuuhhh she got the toilet all clogged up and didn't bother unclogging it and went to bed.
I'm ok...i'm not ok...
Is she a feral, fat ass? click to expand
No...but she just likes to play naive like she doesn't know what's what or how to do the right thing but if its anything concerning her she'll send me essay texts and pictures. click to expand
How old is she? click to expand
22 click to expand
No offense to that age, but girls at that age are only looking out for themselves.
Especially Aries chicks. click to expand
Yes this is what I'm talking about. Like with her butter she's so on top of it and anything that bothers hers i get essay texts. If it's anything pertaining to the common areas she's so sloppy and careless with it. I find constant dishes that are not washed properly and still greasy and butter. It's just too much at this point. click to expand
She’s a child. click to expand
yeah age is a real thing. People like to say that age is just a number but the older I get the more I realize age is a real thing. click to expand
I let a first time capricorn rent live with me when I first moved to this country. She was 23. Left lights on all night, let random guys come over, dishes everywhere, she had messes everywhere. Her bf was always over. She ran the electric bill up to $ 600 and I asked if her bf was going to pay any of it since he was there more than me. She got pissed if I asked. I moved out 3 months later and got my name off the lease. Then when her bf didn’t want to move in, cuz it meant he’d have to help pay, she realised she needed another person. Oh well click to expandclick to expand

Posted by ArkansassyIt's not about dealing with others. It's about dealing with people who are considerate of their roommates. I cant' deal with people i have to tell them what's right.
Lesson learned. Live by yourself if you can't deal with others.

Posted by Arielle83wow! how fucked up...sorry to hear you had to go through that.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Arielle83Posted by stillstillwater
but bruuuhhh she got the toilet all clogged up and didn't bother unclogging it and went to bed.
I'm ok...i'm not ok...
Is she a feral, fat ass? click to expand
No...but she just likes to play naive like she doesn't know what's what or how to do the right thing but if its anything concerning her she'll send me essay texts and pictures. click to expand
How old is she? click to expand
22 click to expand
No offense to that age, but girls at that age are only looking out for themselves.
Especially Aries chicks. click to expand
Yes this is what I'm talking about. Like with her butter she's so on top of it and anything that bothers hers i get essay texts. If it's anything pertaining to the common areas she's so sloppy and careless with it. I find constant dishes that are not washed properly and still greasy and butter. It's just too much at this point. click to expand
She’s a child. click to expand
yeah age is a real thing. People like to say that age is just a number but the older I get the more I realize age is a real thing. click to expand
I let a first time capricorn rent live with me when I first moved to this country. She was 23. Left lights on all night, let random guys come over, dishes everywhere, she had messes everywhere. Her bf was always over. She ran the electric bill up to $ 600 and I asked if her bf was going to pay any of it since he was there more than me. She got pissed if I asked. I moved out 3 months later and got my name off the lease. Then when her bf didn’t want to move in, cuz it meant he’d have to help pay, she realised she needed another person. Oh well click to expand
Just wow! I guess tables turned with her being a Cap... normally though most Caps are pretty considerate about butter like that. I'm surprised. I know it's my fault with this situation because I should've been more outspoken. I just hate confrontation though and telling a grown ass person what's right. It's so awkward.
The random guys thing was an issue with us too! And she treetrunking fought me so hard that I'm unfair but then when she was looking for another place realized that nobody likes that! She told me oh i don't think it's right ot have random guys coming over...I was like biggest eyeroll because she tried to fight me tooth and nail for that butter and even went as far as saying, "I pay rent so i should be able to..." I said no... i told you what the agreement was from the start. click to expand
When I lived with a 23 yr old Aries, when I was 19, she used to bring guys home from the clubs. I was in uni. One guy came in my room and forced himself on me. So I ended up having to defend myself.
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But if is your house it’s your responsibility to fix it. She is your tenant. Things should be working properly.