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Why is it that the Aries females I know act like their being threaten or insecure or maybe possessive?



Like when their in a relationship.. They always feel like someone is looking at their man Or like they man is trying to cheat, etc....

Idk, I just can't understand that.. I believe if you have to come out your character for a relationship, then it's not worth it... my problem would never be with other females, it would be with my man..

Temptation is EVERYWHERE!!! But it's up to your man to not fall into temptation.. why fight the females and then stay with your dude when it takes two to tango—

Even though you have some females who like to try their luck, but still your man have to know how to put people like that in their place...

Idk this is just an observation I made off of 4 Aries females...
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Why are the Aries females I know act like their being threaten or insecure or maybe possessive?



Like when their in a relationship.. They always feel like someone is looking at their man Or like they man is trying to cheat, etc....

Idk, I just can't understand that.. I believe if you have to come out your character for a relationship, then it's not worth it... my problem would never with other females, it would be with my man..

Temptation is EVERYWHERE!!! But it's up to your man to not fall into temptation.. why fight the females and then stay with your dude when it takes two to tango—

Even though you have some females who like to try their luck, but still your man have to know how to put people like that in their place...

Idk this is just an observation I made off of 4 Aries females...
Observe 6 more Aries females from age range 20-50 then come back and give more feedback.
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Why are the Aries females I know act like their being threaten or insecure or maybe possessive?



Like when their in a relationship.. They always feel like someone is looking at their man Or like they man is trying to cheat, etc....

Idk, I just can't understand that.. I believe if you have to come out your character for a relationship, then it's not worth it... my problem would never with other females, it would be with my man..

Temptation is EVERYWHERE!!! But it's up to your man to not fall into temptation.. why fight the females and then stay with your dude when it takes two to tango—

Even though you have some females who like to try their luck, but still your man have to know how to put people like that in their place...

Idk this is just an observation I made off of 4 Aries females...
Observe 6 more Aries females from age range 20-50 then come back and give more feedback.
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The 4 females I know are between 20-50+... my grandmother is included in this as well...
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Why are the Aries females I know act like their being threaten or insecure or maybe possessive?



Like when their in a relationship.. They always feel like someone is looking at their man Or like they man is trying to cheat, etc....

Idk, I just can't understand that.. I believe if you have to come out your character for a relationship, then it's not worth it... my problem would never with other females, it would be with my man..

Temptation is EVERYWHERE!!! But it's up to your man to not fall into temptation.. why fight the females and then stay with your dude when it takes two to tango—

Even though you have some females who like to try their luck, but still your man have to know how to put people like that in their place...

Idk this is just an observation I made off of 4 Aries females...
Observe 6 more Aries females from age range 20-50 then come back and give more feedback.
The 4 females I know are between 20-50+... my grandmother is included in this as well...

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You still need 6 more. For a more detailed observation.

There are ultra competitive Aries women, IDGAF Aries women, clueless Aries women, IDGAF + clueless Aries women.

Maybe the ultra competitive ones are attracted to you? (you're a beacon for competitive rams).
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Why are the Aries females I know act like their being threaten or insecure or maybe possessive?



Like when their in a relationship.. They always feel like someone is looking at their man Or like they man is trying to cheat, etc....

Idk, I just can't understand that.. I believe if you have to come out your character for a relationship, then it's not worth it... my problem would never with other females, it would be with my man..

Temptation is EVERYWHERE!!! But it's up to your man to not fall into temptation.. why fight the females and then stay with your dude when it takes two to tango—

Even though you have some females who like to try their luck, but still your man have to know how to put people like that in their place...

Idk this is just an observation I made off of 4 Aries females...
Observe 6 more Aries females from age range 20-50 then come back and give more feedback.
The 4 females I know are between 20-50+... my grandmother is included in this as well...


You still need 6 more. For a more detailed observation.

There are ultra competitive Aries women, IDGAF Aries women, clueless Aries women, IDGAF + clueless Aries women.

Maybe the ultra competitive ones are attracted to you? (you're a beacon for competitive rams).

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Hmmm, never thought about it like that... cause I've never met any that are clueless or don't give af...

Idk what Im projecting that's attracting these type of females...
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Actually I think it's because you are an emotionally sensitive Pisces. You could be easily offended by strong Aries women.

I also don't understand your comment about other women, they would also have some responsibility, it's not just the guy's fault for giving in to temptation. If for example you know a woman, who knew you had a boyfriend, but she kept hugging your BF and flirting with him, and acting like you didn't exist, you wouldn't blame her?

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Actually I think it's because you are an emotionally sensitive Pisces. You could be easily offended by strong Aries women.

I also don't understand your comment about other women, they would also have some responsibility, it's not just the guy's fault for giving in to temptation. If for example you know a woman, who knew you had a boyfriend, but she kept hugging your BF and flirting with him, and acting like you didn't exist, you wouldn't blame her?


The type of female I am, no other female could ever act like I'm nonexistent in front of my man. I'm VERY outspoken... VERY and blunt at that!! If my man sees that a particular female always come around him and tries to flirt or gives him hugs.. he should be able to put her in her place.. he should tell her I don't like hugs, or sorry my wife/gf is right here have some respect for her...

I'm sorry, I'm from NYC and the environment is very different.. certain things just don't happen...

Also, as they say when you're learning to drive..

"You can't only drive for yourself, you have to drive for others."

So, people are going to be them, you have to learn how to deal/handle people...

There shouldn't be any excuse...
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Sounds like you keep immature company, dear.
Guess my granny is immature too —... cause her husband is always cheating, but she's always blaming the other person...

Maturity doesn't come with age.. ??‍♀️??‍♀️
Out of curiosity, what's your gran's Venus and Mars?
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I'll have to do her chart and find out

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I've never been the kind to be insanely insecure or jealous. If I ever reacted about something it was for a very valid reason and I definitely did confront the guy.



Sounds to me like you really don't understand Aries women too well. It also sounds like you have had some bad experiences with the Aries women who are around you and now you sound a bit resentful.



Like someone else said, you're a sensitive Pisces. So you're most likely taking things to heart when you really shouldn't be.
Never had bad experiences with Aries women, but I just don't get their insecure ways...

Like I can't find myself fighting over some guy or taking back some cheater.. or being with some guy who falls into temptation or being with someone that I always have to check on them because they don't know how to deal with people..

Definitely not resentful, have nothing to be resentful towards... an Aries woman have never did anything wrong to me, just observing their behavior...
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I've never been the kind to be insanely insecure or jealous. If I ever reacted about something it was for a very valid reason and I definitely did confront the guy.



Sounds to me like you really don't understand Aries women too well. It also sounds like you have had some bad experiences with the Aries women who are around you and now you sound a bit resentful.



Like someone else said, you're a sensitive Pisces. So you're most likely taking things to heart when you really shouldn't be.
Never had bad experiences with Aries women, but I just don't get their insecure ways...

Like I can't find myself fighting over some guy or taking back some cheater.. or being with some guy who falls into temptation or being with someone that I always have to check on them because they don't know how to deal with people..

Definitely not resentful, have nothing to be resentful towards... an Aries woman have never did anything wrong to me, just observing their behavior...

That's not an Aries woman thing, that's an insecure woman thing.



You're literally placing all women born under one sign in this tiny little judgmental box. You don't know me.



You say it's not personal, but I can sense there definitely is some tension between you and the Aries women who surround you. Thus, you're taking it out on the rest.



I've never been the type to smother a man or get insanely insecure over every little thing he does. When there's something wrong, I'll confront the source, him. The only way I'd confront a woman in any situation is if she approaches me disrespectfully.
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To be honest, there's no tension with Aries women.. all the women I'm speaking of are my FAMILY MEMBERS (Granny, Aunts & Cousin)...

And I'm not placing all of y'all in a box.. if you read my original post, I said "why is that the Aries women I KNOW...." which I also mentioned, "this is just my observation"

And that my thing, I can't see myself going off on some female, when my man allowed shot to happened..
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Sounds like you keep immature company, dear.
Guess my granny is immature too —... cause her husband is always cheating, but she's always blaming the other person...

Maturity doesn't come with age.. ??‍♀️??‍♀️
Out of curiosity, what's your gran's Venus and Mars?
I'll have to do her chart and find out

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I'm gonna bet you $ 10 she has 4th house placements and Scorpio mars.

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Why is it that the Aries females I know act like their being threaten or insecure or maybe possessive?



Like when their in a relationship.. They always feel like someone is looking at their man Or like they man is trying to cheat, etc....

Idk, I just can't understand that.. I believe if you have to come out your character for a relationship, then it's not worth it... my problem would never be with other females, it would be with my man..

Temptation is EVERYWHERE!!! But it's up to your man to not fall into temptation.. why fight the females and then stay with your dude when it takes two to tango—

Even though you have some females who like to try their luck, but still your man have to know how to put people like that in their place...

Idk this is just an observation I made off of 4 Aries females...
They learned it from your grandma. They probably have Taurus/Scorpio axis placements in their charts... 4th/8th house. Some families carry natal chart similarities. Suggest you run their charts. It's really interesting.

But no, not a sun sign trait of Aries... But, fighting when angered or feeling provoked, yes.

Grandma's attitude about cheating and marriage seems a generational thing (1950's) she maybe subconsciously teaching other females in the fam.

My Capricorn great grandma had a similar attitude. There are old time love songs that illustrate this stand by your man attitude as well.

And, a lot of females still feel this way.

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I've never been the kind to be insanely insecure or jealous. If I ever reacted about something it was for a very valid reason and I definitely did confront the guy.



Sounds to me like you really don't understand Aries women too well. It also sounds like you have had some bad experiences with the Aries women who are around you and now you sound a bit resentful.



Like someone else said, you're a sensitive Pisces. So you're most likely taking things to heart when you really shouldn't be.
Never had bad experiences with Aries women, but I just don't get their insecure ways...

Like I can't find myself fighting over some guy or taking back some cheater.. or being with some guy who falls into temptation or being with someone that I always have to check on them because they don't know how to deal with people..

Definitely not resentful, have nothing to be resentful towards... an Aries woman have never did anything wrong to me, just observing their behavior...

That's not an Aries woman thing, that's an insecure woman thing.



You're literally placing all women born under one sign in this tiny little judgmental box. You don't know me.



You say it's not personal, but I can sense there definitely is some tension between you and the Aries women who surround you. Thus, you're taking it out on the rest.



I've never been the type to smother a man or get insanely insecure over every little thing he does. When there's something wrong, I'll confront the source, him. The only way I'd confront a woman in any situation is if she approaches me disrespectfully.
To be honest, there's no tension with Aries women.. all the women I'm speaking of are my FAMILY MEMBERS (Granny, Aunts & Cousin)...

And I'm not placing all of y'all in a box.. if you read my original post, I said "why is that the Aries women I KNOW...." which I also mentioned, "this is just my observation"

And that my thing, I can't see myself going off on some female, when my man allowed shot to happened..

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Big thing you're totally ignoring here- family. That's the common denominator and I don't understand why you can't view that link because it's so damned obvious.

You have an insecure grandma who gets all batshit, who raised a daughter (I presume) around that ish and so she behaves that way, and now HER daughter (also presumed) behaves as such.

Crazy runs in the family, especially when you have such shit influence raising someone like that.
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Why is it that the Aries females I know act like their being threaten or insecure or maybe possessive?



Like when their in a relationship.. They always feel like someone is looking at their man Or like they man is trying to cheat, etc....

Idk, I just can't understand that.. I believe if you have to come out your character for a relationship, then it's not worth it... my problem would never be with other females, it would be with my man..

Temptation is EVERYWHERE!!! But it's up to your man to not fall into temptation.. why fight the females and then stay with your dude when it takes two to tango—

Even though you have some females who like to try their luck, but still your man have to know how to put people like that in their place...

Idk this is just an observation I made off of 4 Aries females...
I'm personally not like this.

But I know many women of all signs that are!
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With an aries i noticed that you need to be true to them,they dont know when they are doing or saying something wrong,you have to tell them and they appreaciate it when you do,took me a lot of observation to know this.the aries i know is still immature
Well i think imma tell them... ??...

Cause they're too old (in age) to have this mentality..
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With an aries i noticed that you need to be true to them,they dont know when they are doing or saying something wrong,you have to tell them and they appreaciate it when you do,took me a lot of observation to know this.the aries i know is still immature
Well i think imma tell them... ??...

Cause they're too old (in age) to have this mentality..
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i thought its only the immature ones ?guess im wrong,i have a lot of fire people in my orbit,leo and aries i cant seem to shake them off ?they hate liars they want it real and since they can take my bluntness we get along just fine
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I like how all the Aries women in here just focus on her sun... Lmao okay

OP is an Aries moon tho... We don't play.




Emotionally weak tardos cling to their Aries moon. It happens all over this damned forum. They cling to that shit as a life boat and it's laughable.

"MY ARIES MOOOON!!"

...shut up.
Lmao a cancer moon calling an aries moon emotionally weak, sure ok

You get an A for effort😄



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Dear, I don't go around clinging to useless placements to make me feel better about my shortcomings.

Nice try, no grade for you though.
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Why are the Aries females I know act like their being threaten or insecure or maybe possessive?



Like when their in a relationship.. They always feel like someone is looking at their man Or like they man is trying to cheat, etc....

Idk, I just can't understand that.. I believe if you have to come out your character for a relationship, then it's not worth it... my problem would never with other females, it would be with my man..

Temptation is EVERYWHERE!!! But it's up to your man to not fall into temptation.. why fight the females and then stay with your dude when it takes two to tango—

Even though you have some females who like to try their luck, but still your man have to know how to put people like that in their place...

Idk this is just an observation I made off of 4 Aries females...
Observe 6 more Aries females from age range 20-50 then come back and give more feedback.
The 4 females I know are between 20-50+... my grandmother is included in this as well...


You still need 6 more. For a more detailed observation.

There are ultra competitive Aries women, IDGAF Aries women, clueless Aries women, IDGAF + clueless Aries women.

Maybe the ultra competitive ones are attracted to you? (you're a beacon for competitive rams).


Hmmm, never thought about it like that... cause I've never met any that are clueless or don't give af...

Idk what Im projecting that's attracting these type of females...
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lol the competitive rams. i so can see that. I would start things when i was bored, i so had to learn to control that.