Positive and Negative traits of being in a relationship with an Aries man

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Posted by NemDeux

my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.




Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?
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I've been with two Arieses. The first one was a quadruple Aries. He was like a prince charming. Good relationship. We were at different stages of life. He wanted move in together and start a family and I wanted to chase my dreams and I felt I didn't get the support (time) from him to do it. He had no patience and that's where we collided most of the time. We broke up and I heard through the grapevine that six months later he moved in with someone else. We lost contact.

The second Aries had a Scorp Moon, so with him everything was too intense. Lots of passion. Lots of temper tantrums, super paranoid and pushing my buttons which made me push him away as I don't like unnecessary conflict. He was always suspicious of me cheating, when in the end he was the one that cheated with his ex and lied about it.

For 2 years after I broke up with him he would try to reconnect with me somehow every so months, because he regretted everything blabla but I already moved on. This was a really bad experience.


Thank you for this. Wow the last one did that typical thing of accusing you or cheating yet he was the one doing it. Horrible for you. Did he end up with his ex? I wonder if he's still single now? Guys that keep up behaviour like that won't get far fast. X

What star sign are you? X
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.
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How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

well, in my experience, they are rather pragmatic people. they don´t dwell and sulk for too long.

in my case, he has always said that i have a special place in his heart - but he won´t take bullshit.

they are quite romantic but with a dose of realism.
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Did you end the relationship Nem?
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

well, in my experience, they are rather pragmatic people. they don´t dwell and sulk for too long.

in my case, he has always said that i have a special place in his heart - but he won´t take bullshit.

they are quite romantic but with a dose of realism.

Did you end the relationship Nem?

i hinted breaking up, and he went through with it. never would have thought.
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Oh hell 😢. Does he have a Scorpio moon, like you?

Did it take you a long time to get over it?
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I've been with two Arieses. The first one was a quadruple Aries. He was like a prince charming. Good relationship. We were at different stages of life. He wanted move in together and start a family and I wanted to chase my dreams and I felt I didn't get the support (time) from him to do it. He had no patience and that's where we collided most of the time. We broke up and I heard through the grapevine that six months later he moved in with someone else. We lost contact.

The second Aries had a Scorp Moon, so with him everything was too intense. Lots of passion. Lots of temper tantrums, super paranoid and pushing my buttons which made me push him away as I don't like unnecessary conflict. He was always suspicious of me cheating, when in the end he was the one that cheated with his ex and lied about it.

For 2 years after I broke up with him he would try to reconnect with me somehow every so months, because he regretted everything blabla but I already moved on. This was a really bad experience.

Thank you for this. Wow the last one did that typical thing of accusing you or cheating yet he was the one doing it. Horrible for you. Did he end up with his ex? I wonder if he's still single now? Guys that keep up behaviour like that won't get far fast. X

What star sign are you? X

Don't know if he's still single.

When I talk to mutual friends they say he's still not over me. We broke up more than 4 years ago. I'm with someone else now and couldn't care less actually. When he heard I'm with someone else, he also stopped contacting me. He was amazing until he was not. She also got pregnant, but didn't know who the father was, as she slept with another guy. Such a cliché! When I heard I was like: "I gotta get out of here, I gotta bounce! "

So backed my bags, and took dream job in another country 🥳

I'm a Cancer

Are you with an Aries?
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Well it seems like when he got back with her and she did something like that he realises what a huge mistake it was but it was a massively selfish thing to do so he only has his self to blame. He should have not been so selfish then who knows. Glad you've moved on. Yes I am he's wonderful but always trying to figure things out as I'm tired of failed relationships and would like it to work out xx
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.


Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.


Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.

Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X
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Naaah...his Pisces Venus is fucked up in romantic department...he does write to me and it’s amazing. But he IS a horror writer and it’s all comes from his childhood. He never had romantic rships but apparently he always wanted it. I am just hoping he will come into it.

I AM the one who knows little about everything. He is the one who knows a lot in details. I had not yet heard from him not being able to discuss in depts.

indeed very intelligent.

I am sure hope you are right...👍
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.

Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X
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Naaah...his Pisces Venus is fucked up in romantic department...he does write to me and it’s amazing. But he IS a horror writer and it’s all comes from his childhood. He never had romantic rships but apparently he always wanted it. I am just hoping he will come into it.

I AM the one who knows little about everything. He is the one who knows a lot in details. I had not yet heard from him not being able to discuss in depts.

indeed very intelligent.

I am sure hope you are right...👍
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

well, in my experience, they are rather pragmatic people. they don´t dwell and sulk for too long.

in my case, he has always said that i have a special place in his heart - but he won´t take bullshit.

they are quite romantic but with a dose of realism.

Did you end the relationship Nem?

i hinted breaking up, and he went through with it. never would have thought.

Oh hell 😢. Does he have a Scorpio moon, like you?

Did it take you a long time to get over it?

Yes and YES
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

well, in my experience, they are rather pragmatic people. they don´t dwell and sulk for too long.

in my case, he has always said that i have a special place in his heart - but he won´t take bullshit.

they are quite romantic but with a dose of realism.

Did you end the relationship Nem?

i hinted breaking up, and he went through with it. never would have thought.

Oh hell 😢. Does he have a Scorpio moon, like you?

Did it take you a long time to get over it?

Yes and YES

(((Hugs)))

💙

Haha Thank you. 😻

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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

well, in my experience, they are rather pragmatic people. they don´t dwell and sulk for too long.

in my case, he has always said that i have a special place in his heart - but he won´t take bullshit.

they are quite romantic but with a dose of realism.

Did you end the relationship Nem?

i hinted breaking up, and he went through with it. never would have thought.

Oh hell 😢. Does he have a Scorpio moon, like you?

Did it take you a long time to get over it?

Yes and YES

(((Hugs)))

💙

Haha Thank you. 😻

We are Meeting in November for a prolonged weekend....

Welcome 🙂

Just the two of you? Is he Dad to your girls?

Yes just us two.

No, I met the father of my children after Mr. Aries.
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Oh and now I'm excited....😀😳

Will you "go there" do you think? 😈🔥
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.

Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X

Naaah...his Pisces Venus is fucked up in romantic department...he does write to me and it’s amazing. But he IS a horror writer and it’s all comes from his childhood. He never had romantic rships but apparently he always wanted it. I am just hoping he will come into it.

I AM the one who knows little about everything. He is the one who knows a lot in details. I had not yet heard from him not being able to discuss in depts.

indeed very intelligent.

I am sure hope you are right...👍
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I think if you guys keep going the way you are you'll bring out that romantic side as I think it's in there. Childhood does have a huge impact though on how anyone expresses themselves.
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.

Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X

Naaah...his Pisces Venus is fucked up in romantic department...he does write to me and it’s amazing. But he IS a horror writer and it’s all comes from his childhood. He never had romantic rships but apparently he always wanted it. I am just hoping he will come into it.

I AM the one who knows little about everything. He is the one who knows a lot in details. I had not yet heard from him not being able to discuss in depts.

indeed very intelligent.

I am sure hope you are right...👍

I think if you guys keep going the way you are you'll bring out that romantic side as I think it's in there. Childhood does have a huge impact though on how anyone expresses themselves.
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Yeah...I need to work in him trusting that touch isn’t going to hurt.

He is such a goof with wounded mind.

Distant parents and abusive sadistic older brother...urghhh

As a result he knows karate and says at least I don’t have to be afraid of anything being with him...💪🏻

Thank you❤️
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

well, in my experience, they are rather pragmatic people. they don´t dwell and sulk for too long.

in my case, he has always said that i have a special place in his heart - but he won´t take bullshit.

they are quite romantic but with a dose of realism.

Did you end the relationship Nem?

i hinted breaking up, and he went through with it. never would have thought.

Oh hell 😢. Does he have a Scorpio moon, like you?

Did it take you a long time to get over it?

Yes and YES

(((Hugs)))

💙

Haha Thank you. 😻

We are Meeting in November for a prolonged weekend....

Welcome 🙂

Just the two of you? Is he Dad to your girls?

Yes just us two.

No, I met the father of my children after Mr. Aries.

Oh and now I'm excited....😀😳

Will you "go there" do you think? 😈🔥

it´s a while until november; we are primarly focusing on communication and finding out what both of us want/need.

i think that sex is inevitable ...if that is what you mean with "going there" hehehe.

plus ...we both have busy jobs and lives, so that is all still futuristic.
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Yes sex lol

Are you both single? I’m going to watch this space 😛
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

well, in my experience, they are rather pragmatic people. they don´t dwell and sulk for too long.

in my case, he has always said that i have a special place in his heart - but he won´t take bullshit.

they are quite romantic but with a dose of realism.

Did you end the relationship Nem?

i hinted breaking up, and he went through with it. never would have thought.

Oh hell 😢. Does he have a Scorpio moon, like you?

Did it take you a long time to get over it?

Yes and YES

(((Hugs)))

💙

Haha Thank you. 😻

We are Meeting in November for a prolonged weekend....

Welcome 🙂

Just the two of you? Is he Dad to your girls?

Yes just us two.

No, I met the father of my children after Mr. Aries.

Oh and now I'm excited....😀😳

Will you "go there" do you think? 😈🔥

it´s a while until november; we are primarly focusing on communication and finding out what both of us want/need.

i think that sex is inevitable ...if that is what you mean with "going there" hehehe.

plus ...we both have busy jobs and lives, so that is all still futuristic.

Yes sex lol

Are you both single? I’m going to watch this space 😛

hahaha.

yes. we are both single.

until nov. i do not want to elaborate too much; i always have a weird feeling of matters getting jinxed. so there is that.
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Yes indeed

Did the Aqua leave the scene?

I was with two Aquas and two Aries.....no comparison for me, very different men...

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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?
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Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

well, in my experience, they are rather pragmatic people. they don´t dwell and sulk for too long.

in my case, he has always said that i have a special place in his heart - but he won´t take bullshit.

they are quite romantic but with a dose of realism.

Did you end the relationship Nem?

i hinted breaking up, and he went through with it. never would have thought.

Oh hell 😢. Does he have a Scorpio moon, like you?

Did it take you a long time to get over it?

Yes and YES

(((Hugs)))

💙

Haha Thank you. 😻

We are Meeting in November for a prolonged weekend....

Welcome 🙂

Just the two of you? Is he Dad to your girls?

Yes just us two.

No, I met the father of my children after Mr. Aries.

Oh and now I'm excited....😀😳

Will you "go there" do you think? 😈🔥

it´s a while until november; we are primarly focusing on communication and finding out what both of us want/need.

i think that sex is inevitable ...if that is what you mean with "going there" hehehe.

plus ...we both have busy jobs and lives, so that is all still futuristic.

Yes sex lol

Are you both single? I’m going to watch this space 😛

hahaha.

yes. we are both single.

until nov. i do not want to elaborate too much; i always have a weird feeling of matters getting jinxed. so there is that.

Yes indeed

Did the Aqua leave the scene?

I was with two Aquas and two Aries.....no comparison for me, very different men...

💨🔥

yes, otherwise i would not be open for this.

aqua sure has their qualities though....not gonna argue.

my scorp best friend had her heart broken by an aqua, this is still an ongoing healing process. even after so many years. how did the break ups go for you?
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Yes it can take a while to recover

I was terrible after all my breakups even though I finished things, the last one was very difficult and since then I've been single and learning to like it, but I'm crap at letting go so it always floors me letting go

Is your Scorp friend okay now? Is she still broken hearted? 😢
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.
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Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....
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I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

well, in my experience, they are rather pragmatic people. they don´t dwell and sulk for too long.

in my case, he has always said that i have a special place in his heart - but he won´t take bullshit.

they are quite romantic but with a dose of realism.

Did you end the relationship Nem?

i hinted breaking up, and he went through with it. never would have thought.

Oh hell 😢. Does he have a Scorpio moon, like you?

Did it take you a long time to get over it?

Yes and YES

(((Hugs)))

💙

Haha Thank you. 😻

We are Meeting in November for a prolonged weekend....

Welcome 🙂

Just the two of you? Is he Dad to your girls?

Yes just us two.

No, I met the father of my children after Mr. Aries.

Oh and now I'm excited....😀😳

Will you "go there" do you think? 😈🔥

it´s a while until november; we are primarly focusing on communication and finding out what both of us want/need.

i think that sex is inevitable ...if that is what you mean with "going there" hehehe.

plus ...we both have busy jobs and lives, so that is all still futuristic.

Yes sex lol

Are you both single? I’m going to watch this space 😛

hahaha.

yes. we are both single.

until nov. i do not want to elaborate too much; i always have a weird feeling of matters getting jinxed. so there is that.

Yes indeed

Did the Aqua leave the scene?

I was with two Aquas and two Aries.....no comparison for me, very different men...

💨🔥

yes, otherwise i would not be open for this.

aqua sure has their qualities though....not gonna argue.

my scorp best friend had her heart broken by an aqua, this is still an ongoing healing process. even after so many years. how did the break ups go for you?

Yes it can take a while to recover

I was terrible after all my breakups even though I finished things, the last one was very difficult and since then I've been single and learning to like it, but I'm crap at letting go so it always floors me letting go

Is your Scorp friend okay now? Is she still broken hearted? 😢

a part of her is beyond remedy. sadly. you learn to live with it.
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.

Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X

Naaah...his Pisces Venus is fucked up in romantic department...he does write to me and it’s amazing. But he IS a horror writer and it’s all comes from his childhood. He never had romantic rships but apparently he always wanted it. I am just hoping he will come into it.

I AM the one who knows little about everything. He is the one who knows a lot in details. I had not yet heard from him not being able to discuss in depts.

indeed very intelligent.

I am sure hope you are right...👍

I think if you guys keep going the way you are you'll bring out that romantic side as I think it's in there. Childhood does have a huge impact though on how anyone expresses themselves.

Yeah...I need to work in him trusting that touch isn’t going to hurt.

He is such a goof with wounded mind.

Distant parents and abusive sadistic older brother...urghhh

As a result he knows karate and says at least I don’t have to be afraid of anything being with him...💪🏻

Thank you❤️
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You be ok hun if you need me for advice I'm with aries too xxxx
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.

Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X

Naaah...his Pisces Venus is fucked up in romantic department...he does write to me and it’s amazing. But he IS a horror writer and it’s all comes from his childhood. He never had romantic rships but apparently he always wanted it. I am just hoping he will come into it.

I AM the one who knows little about everything. He is the one who knows a lot in details. I had not yet heard from him not being able to discuss in depts.

indeed very intelligent.

I am sure hope you are right...👍

I think if you guys keep going the way you are you'll bring out that romantic side as I think it's in there. Childhood does have a huge impact though on how anyone expresses themselves.

Yeah...I need to work in him trusting that touch isn’t going to hurt.

He is such a goof with wounded mind.

Distant parents and abusive sadistic older brother...urghhh

As a result he knows karate and says at least I don’t have to be afraid of anything being with him...💪🏻

Thank you❤️

You be ok hun if you need me for advice I'm with aries too xxxx
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.

Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X

Naaah...his Pisces Venus is fucked up in romantic department...he does write to me and it’s amazing. But he IS a horror writer and it’s all comes from his childhood. He never had romantic rships but apparently he always wanted it. I am just hoping he will come into it.

I AM the one who knows little about everything. He is the one who knows a lot in details. I had not yet heard from him not being able to discuss in depts.

indeed very intelligent.

I am sure hope you are right...👍

I think if you guys keep going the way you are you'll bring out that romantic side as I think it's in there. Childhood does have a huge impact though on how anyone expresses themselves.

Yeah...I need to work in him trusting that touch isn’t going to hurt.

He is such a goof with wounded mind.

Distant parents and abusive sadistic older brother...urghhh

As a result he knows karate and says at least I don’t have to be afraid of anything being with him...💪🏻

Thank you❤️

You be ok hun if you need me for advice I'm with aries too xxxx
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.

Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X

Naaah...his Pisces Venus is fucked up in romantic department...he does write to me and it’s amazing. But he IS a horror writer and it’s all comes from his childhood. He never had romantic rships but apparently he always wanted it. I am just hoping he will come into it.

I AM the one who knows little about everything. He is the one who knows a lot in details. I had not yet heard from him not being able to discuss in depts.

indeed very intelligent.

I am sure hope you are right...👍

I think if you guys keep going the way you are you'll bring out that romantic side as I think it's in there. Childhood does have a huge impact though on how anyone expresses themselves.

Yeah...I need to work in him trusting that touch isn’t going to hurt.

He is such a goof with wounded mind.

Distant parents and abusive sadistic older brother...urghhh

As a result he knows karate and says at least I don’t have to be afraid of anything being with him...💪🏻

Thank you❤️

You be ok hun if you need me for advice I'm with aries too xxxx

Thanks❤️

Do you accept messages?
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I'm really new to this but if you inbox me I'll let you know if I see it and message you back babe xx
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.

Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X

Naaah...his Pisces Venus is fucked up in romantic department...he does write to me and it’s amazing. But he IS a horror writer and it’s all comes from his childhood. He never had romantic rships but apparently he always wanted it. I am just hoping he will come into it.

I AM the one who knows little about everything. He is the one who knows a lot in details. I had not yet heard from him not being able to discuss in depts.

indeed very intelligent.

I am sure hope you are right...👍

I think if you guys keep going the way you are you'll bring out that romantic side as I think it's in there. Childhood does have a huge impact though on how anyone expresses themselves.

Yeah...I need to work in him trusting that touch isn’t going to hurt.

He is such a goof with wounded mind.

Distant parents and abusive sadistic older brother...urghhh

As a result he knows karate and says at least I don’t have to be afraid of anything being with him...💪🏻

Thank you❤️

You be ok hun if you need me for advice I'm with aries too xxxx

Thanks❤️

Do you accept messages?
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I'm really new to this but if you inbox me I'll let you know if I see it and message you back babe xx
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Mine is a safe heaven. Funny, kind and totally impossible!

Since we’ve met it was a sure deal ‘I love you and I want to make it work...’

I am being difficult because I am demanding but he is doing what he thinks is right and if I am freaking out he is apologizing, tells me he loves me and keeps doing his stuff as I haven’t said a word...🤦‍♀️

He is an artsy one so I attribute his ‘flaws’ to that. 🤔

One huge joy I can’t get used to after dealing with Scorpios ‘I don’t know’ answers to everything - Aries always knows. And telling freely about feelings and it’s so cozy and warm.

I am still learning about him. Not much written here resonates with me about him. He is Aqua moon and Pisces merc and Venus.

Picses venus should mean he's quite romantic and aqua moon means he should be funny like you said and slightly unique. I have an aqua moon best friend and she's the best person ever. Everyone loves her. Yes aries definitely know a little about everything. X

Naaah...his Pisces Venus is fucked up in romantic department...he does write to me and it’s amazing. But he IS a horror writer and it’s all comes from his childhood. He never had romantic rships but apparently he always wanted it. I am just hoping he will come into it.

I AM the one who knows little about everything. He is the one who knows a lot in details. I had not yet heard from him not being able to discuss in depts.

indeed very intelligent.

I am sure hope you are right...👍

I think if you guys keep going the way you are you'll bring out that romantic side as I think it's in there. Childhood does have a huge impact though on how anyone expresses themselves.

Yeah...I need to work in him trusting that touch isn’t going to hurt.

He is such a goof with wounded mind.

Distant parents and abusive sadistic older brother...urghhh

As a result he knows karate and says at least I don’t have to be afraid of anything being with him...💪🏻

Thank you❤️

You be ok hun if you need me for advice I'm with aries too xxxx

Thanks❤️

Do you accept messages?

I'm really new to this but if you inbox me I'll let you know if I see it and message you back babe xx
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..
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Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx
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Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx

Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

Would you say Scorpio and Pisces do the same thing? Sex can be escapism, but also rebirth.
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Maybe, but in a different way. The element of water has a very different love style to that of fire.
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx

Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

Would you say Scorpio and Pisces do the same thing? Sex can be escapism, but also rebirth.

Maybe, but in a different way. The element of water has a very different love style to that of fire.

Fire seems to be associated with physicality. Air signs tell me they need a deep mental connection. Personally with water it seems to be about building trust then experimenting. Earth is a mix of all of the above or an I way out?
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No you're not way out Alex

Fire ... in their body

Water ... in their feelings and emotions

Air ... in their head

Earth ... anchored to the ground, yes a blend of the others
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx

Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

Would you say Scorpio and Pisces do the same thing? Sex can be escapism, but also rebirth.

Maybe, but in a different way. The element of water has a very different love style to that of fire.

Fire seems to be associated with physicality. Air signs tell me they need a deep mental connection. Personally with water it seems to be about building trust then experimenting. Earth is a mix of all of the above or an I way out?

No you're not way out Alex

Fire ... in their body

Water ... in their feelings and emotions

Air ... in their head

Earth ... anchored to the ground, yes a blend of the others

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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx

Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

Would you say Scorpio and Pisces do the same thing? Sex can be escapism, but also rebirth.

Maybe, but in a different way. The element of water has a very different love style to that of fire.
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What is Love style ? I am still thinking it’s all simple really. If it’s there it’s there. No need to be overly complicated.



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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx

Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

Would you say Scorpio and Pisces do the same thing? Sex can be escapism, but also rebirth.

Maybe, but in a different way. The element of water has a very different love style to that of fire.

What is Love style ? I am still thinking it’s all simple really. If it’s there it’s there. No need to be overly complicated.



When have I became so smart? 🤔😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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People have different style s of loving and relating. Why do you think some many rships breakdown? He thinks he is giving her good loving and she’s crying “he didnt love me”

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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx

Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

Would you say Scorpio and Pisces do the same thing? Sex can be escapism, but also rebirth.

Maybe, but in a different way. The element of water has a very different love style to that of fire.

What is Love style ? I am still thinking it’s all simple really. If it’s there it’s there. No need to be overly complicated.



When have I became so smart? 🤔😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Haha Gem

People have different style s of loving and relating. Why do you think some many rships breakdown? He thinks he is giving her good loving and she’s crying “he didnt love me”

No two people love the sane way
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THAAAAATS what I am totally not agree with. When people love - it’s the same. To all. Period!

One author said all happy couples are happy same way. All unhappy are having ‘personal’ stories...

LOVE is simple really. Both parties put their partners first! And in the long run it’s paying off as happiness. Remember O’Henry? She sails her hair to buy him a...watch for his chain and he sold his chain to buy her a brush for her hair? THATS IT! Doesn’t matter what signs they were.

Why tf had I just remembered that? 🤔😂😂😂
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx

Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

Would you say Scorpio and Pisces do the same thing? Sex can be escapism, but also rebirth.

Maybe, but in a different way. The element of water has a very different love style to that of fire.

Fire seems to be associated with physicality. Air signs tell me they need a deep mental connection. Personally with water it seems to be about building trust then experimenting. Earth is a mix of all of the above or an I way out?

No you're not way out Alex

Fire ... in their body

Water ... in their feelings and emotions

Air ... in their head

Earth ... anchored to the ground, yes a blend of the others

I must have been about a bit.

Water dom?

My style is probably more like earth where it is a bit of everything.
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx

Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

Would you say Scorpio and Pisces do the same thing? Sex can be escapism, but also rebirth.

Maybe, but in a different way. The element of water has a very different love style to that of fire.

What is Love style ? I am still thinking it’s all simple really. If it’s there it’s there. No need to be overly complicated.



When have I became so smart? 🤔😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Haha Gem

People have different style s of loving and relating. Why do you think some many rships breakdown? He thinks he is giving her good loving and she’s crying “he didnt love me”

No two people love the sane way

THAAAAATS what I am totally not agree with. When people love - it’s the same. To all. Period!

One author said all happy couples are happy same way. All unhappy are having ‘personal’ stories...

LOVE is simple really. Both parties put their partners first! And in the long run it’s paying off as happiness. Remember O’Henry? She sails her hair to buy him a...watch for his chain and he sold his chain to buy her a brush for her hair? THATS IT! Doesn’t matter what signs they were.

Why tf had I just remembered that? 🤔😂😂😂
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx

Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

Would you say Scorpio and Pisces do the same thing? Sex can be escapism, but also rebirth.

Maybe, but in a different way. The element of water has a very different love style to that of fire.

Fire seems to be associated with physicality. Air signs tell me they need a deep mental connection. Personally with water it seems to be about building trust then experimenting. Earth is a mix of all of the above or an I way out?

No you're not way out Alex

Fire ... in their body

Water ... in their feelings and emotions

Air ... in their head

Earth ... anchored to the ground, yes a blend of the others

I must have been about a bit.

Water dom?

My style is probably more like earth where it is a bit of everything.

Not Gangnam style then?

I don't film it and get a billion hits on YouTube.
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He’s a Capricorn....hidden agenda
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..

Isn't it horrible that it's sex that does that and separates a couple. I'm sorry you guys had this. We've all been heart broken and I'm just like you. It floors me too when I'm in love with someone. I was so sad for months but slowly did recover.

Aries men I think do grieve too but they don't show it on the outside. They just shag about to get over it but we all think they are fine and have moved on.

Thing is I guess that the chances of them doing it to the new one are fairly high unless they feel old and work down by shagging about xx

Life and it’s challenges hey? 😬. To be fair to him though we had a very sexual rship so to go from that to nowt was gonna floor him. He wasn’t strong enough to abstain whereas I was. Yes they use sex to try and heal, of course it never works and they end up more isolated than ever. I think they do anything rather than face themselves ..... sad in a way 😞

Would you say Scorpio and Pisces do the same thing? Sex can be escapism, but also rebirth.

Maybe, but in a different way. The element of water has a very different love style to that of fire.

What is Love style ? I am still thinking it’s all simple really. If it’s there it’s there. No need to be overly complicated.



When have I became so smart? 🤔😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Haha Gem

People have different style s of loving and relating. Why do you think some many rships breakdown? He thinks he is giving her good loving and she’s crying “he didnt love me”

No two people love the sane way

THAAAAATS what I am totally not agree with. When people love - it’s the same. To all. Period!

One author said all happy couples are happy same way. All unhappy are having ‘personal’ stories...

LOVE is simple really. Both parties put their partners first! And in the long run it’s paying off as happiness. Remember O’Henry? She sails her hair to buy him a...watch for his chain and he sold his chain to buy her a brush for her hair? THATS IT! Doesn’t matter what signs they were.

Why tf had I just remembered that? 🤔😂😂😂

If only life were that simple dear lady 😀
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How is that anybody’s fault if I can’t accept good things and have to question it...it’s all mine. Fault that is.

And others more often than not are fucking things up and then moaning about it. It’s realy shouldn’t be that difficult.
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my ex aries (the only ex i have contact with) he always demonstrated that we were a couple, so there where no doubts on my part and it was clear for others to see as well. i still the remember our very first encounter hahaha. electrifying. he took charge and i did not mind. so that worked well.

uber macho on the outside; passionate, mind-blowing but respectful when it came to sex. after the act, he loved to snuggle and smell my neck or just gaze into my eyes and smile.

when we got on, it was a perfect balance of yin/yang. but we did also get into heated arguments, sometimes over the simplest things. we iced each other out.

as a pisces i def. was the moodier more ambivalent part in this relationship, and many years after our break up he told me it made him feel very insecure and he did not think i was ready for a serious relationship. and that i was very stand-offish and he felt i did not even care. after the break up he told me he was hoping to see me fight for us ....and when i did not, he moved on.

that stung me for a looooong time afterwards haha. humbling.

on the other hand his attitude towards my sincere interests was arrogant and dismissive. which in turn made me talk less and less with him.

bottom line though: what you see is what you get. take it or leave it. he hates any sort of fancy mind fuckery and people who are hesitant; if he senses that - bye. patience is not his virtue.

we are on talking terms ....he still has that charge and bossiness; i have learned over time to be direct in my communication with him. and he has learned to respect my boundaries. he always makes me smile and/or laugh. and he is open to my "abstract" thoughts hahaha.

hand-shake-quality guy. even though i was very hurt by him; i am thankful we were able to reconnect and talk like adults with each other.



Wow thank you for your reply. I was interested in reading it I really was. There seems many typical traits of an Aries there. The insecurity bit is always surprising as they seen so confident but I see that part too.

Can I ask if he was a march or April aries? Also why do you feel so hurt by him?

Haha no problem. It was a wall of text.

He is a March aries with scorp moon and pisces in venus.

He bruised my ego because he seemingly moved on so quickly after we split up and I was very in love with him.

We also ran in the same friend circle so seeing him with a new chick saddened me. He did not greet me either. 😂😂😂 We all went our own ways anyway.

How do they do that.......move on so quickly, I mean, after being so in love with someone, it seems so shallow somehow? I don't get it?

Your's did too? What's up with that? Mine moved a good friend of mine with her daughters into the home we lived in together as a married couple, only 3 months after I moved out when we got separated.

Wow! What's the rush

Yes my ex did......but he just wanted sex and said "it didn't mean anything" when i spoke to him about it....

Uh. Pretty sure something was going on behind my back, but our marriage had crumbled by that point anyway... They got married 15 months after our divorce was finalized. Aries men....

Jesus 😳

I find that moving thing on so quickly unnerving, as though there is no grieving period.....so weird, kind of shallow

Aries men are really bad for doing that...not all men are like that thankfully..
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Yes, thankfully they aren't. It was such a slap in the face to be not only betrayed by someone I trusted as a friend, but to have her move into what had been my house and sleeping in the bed we shared was too much. Not quite sure how I survived that time in my life, especially considering we have sons involved. I don't think I could ever get married again, especially not to an Aries.

I take a long time to move on, I give 100% so when it doesn't work I feel depleted and doubtful of my own judgement.